Patiala Babes 17th September 2019 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Khatri taunts Minnie that everyone know that she is missing her original papa when her mummy is bringing duplicate papa, but she her timing of playing her papa and mummy’s wedding video is wrong. Minnie tells Babita that she did not know how that CD got exchanged. Khatri continues commenting that Babita’s first husband Ashok is looking very handsome in video and even she is looking very beautiful.. Babita runs from there to her room and HS follows her. She cries in her room that she wanted to forget that she was married before and wanted to start afresh with HS, but her ill fate always haunts her, she doesn’t know how that video came out of her cupboard. HS reminisces Minnie taking Babita’s cupboard items out in boxes, her confronting him many times when he tries to correct her, etc. Minnie walks in asking Babes not to cry as she doesn’t know how all this… HS asks how did it all happen and CD came out of Babita’s cupboard and reached mantap. Minnie says she doesn’t know. Babita asks how he think like this and doubt Minnie, she can never hurt her. Dadaji, Biji, Lovely, and Sukhi walk in. HS says Minnie cannot hurt her mother, but can hurt him. He says Minnie never wanted this relationship to happen, she cried even before as she doesn’t want her mother to go away from her; he asked her many times that her happiness matters to him first. Minnie requests to listen to her once. HS says she used to tell something earlier; if she had asked, he would have been Babita’s friend and not even that; he had promised not to bring tears in her mother’s eyes, she had hugged and told he is her hero. Babita asks what is he telling. HS says he was mad to think of becoming Minnie’s father. Babita pleads her not to speak wrong, what is happening in his mind.
Lovely comments that step fathers speak same and there is nothing new in it, she is worried about Minnie, she is seeing a mother thinking of herself first and not about her mother. Minnie warns Lovely it is none of her business and their family matter, so she shouldn’t interfere. Lovely yells she has gone dumb and blind in mother’s love. Babita warns Lovely to stop her rubbish. Biji yells Babita is speaking wrong now. Babit asks how she she speak then. Lovely yells bhabhi doesn’t love them at all and thinks they are burden on her. Babita asks how can she love them when they yell at her and insult her repeatedly; Lovely always used to insult her, but she kept quiet and served Ashok’s family waiting for her endlessly, Biji always took Lovely’s side and Papaji always kept quiet seeing her bahu being insulted, she tolerated them hoping Ashok would return; Lovely never asked how is she feeling without Ashok for many years and instead herself was enjoying marital bliss with Sukhi in front of her; she used to feel jealous when Lovely used to celebrate karvachauth in front of her while she used to break fast looking at Ashok’s pic. Dadaji also is shocked to hear Babita’s confession and asks if she was tolerating them. Babita says she was indeed tolerating all the relationship which she was bound to because of Ashok and now she wants to free herself from her past for god sake. HS consoles her.
Lovely tells Sukhi lets go when Bhabhi has broken all ties with them. Minnie looks at Babita and then Dadaji and Biji. Babita extends her hands to hug her. Minnie hugs her while Dadaji and Biji walk away. Babita asks Minnie if she thinks she doesn’t want her to marry HS, she can speak as she is most important in her life. HS also insists to speak. Minnie smiles and says they are too much, she is a kid and they are acting as kid, what is wrong if HS cleared his mind, lets look at the positive side; HS always teaches her anger management, what happened to him now, have water and reverse count; she reverse counts and asks if his anger is gone. HS smilingly nods yes.
Precap: Minnie sadly watches Babita’s bidayi ritual.
Update Credit to: MA
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Someone slap Hanuman Singh. How can he say this. Minnie shown her trust on him when Babita also doubt him. Now Hanuman Singh is saying this. Very bad.
I am writing this comment based on the written update and I must say HS ‘s reaction is highly disturbing…Well! the writers shouldn’t have started all this unpleasant drama so early…of course this type of hiccups are imminent in second relationships but HS doubting his dearest veerbalika and accusing her of insensitive things even before the marriage happened is distasteful…where were his poise and maturity gone….so what if the wrong CD was played …what’s the big deal in that…when he can accept Ashok’s daughter as his own and give her so much love and affection ,what was the need to react like a jealous hypocrite …all because of a CD showing the first marriage of Babita…Definitely ,it was unpleasant and played spoil sport but having seen life ,HS and Babita should have kept their cool and proceeded with the marriage…they are not teenagers to not know that the world is too insensitive to allow them a peaceful marriage…if they genuinely love each other ,they should learn to take all the taunts and jibes in their stride and move on to nurture a healthy relationship…And Babita should stop acting kiddish…why she keeps running inside in the md of ceremonies….Actually this type of scene was in the offing when cold hearted people like Lovely and Khatri were invited…particularly Lovely…having seen the type of ill treatment meted out to Babita by her infamous brother ,she should have felt happy for her…but such noble feelings can not be expected from this atrocious woman ..and her parents are no way better…because of Babita only they found shelter with NB ..but when needed they didn’t nond to back stab her…really what a self centred family! With a family like this ,Khatri like rogues should run to find themselves another profession …good thing ,Babita has finally come out of her dutiful bahu role and gave them a mouthful which she should have given much earlier…Overall ,HS ‘s reaction was uncalled for and he should have exercised restraint before saying all that stuff to Minnie….with that illogical outburst ,it is proved that when it comes to second relationship ,every man is the same…insecure ,jealous ,egoistic and pretentious…I dare not to imagine what life will be like for Minnie after this ambitious marriage….
Lakshmi, in reply to your last line, i will just say you are right about one thing, Hanuman’s outburst is highly ‘illogical’. Makes no sense. From the time Minnie started saying in that Haveli, Hanuman hasn’t doubted her or stopped her for even one thing. Whatever Minnie did, Hanuman always supported her. He didn’t give up alcohol when Babita asked, but he did it for Minnie. He trusted and loved veer balika more than anyone… Today what the writers showed was character assassination of Hanuman and nothing else. I am noticing this… since the marriage track started, Babita has become completely useless. Today Hanuman also lost a lot of respect in viewers eyes… only Minnie is little miss perfect now. She is completely selfless working day and night for mother’s marriage, she selflessly hides all her fears and insecurities and gives big smile even when upset, she takes care of her mother like a kid, and everyone else only praise Minnie for making the marriage happen. And now the situation is such that everyone is doubting poor Minnie might suffer so much after the marriage. Sure, if you make Babita-Hanuman completely brainless and selfish and impulsive, then Minnie will suffer… I am thinking to stop watching the show after wedding happens. Maybe wait till wedding night and that’s it. I dont want to watch a show about Mahan Minnie. At least this way, i will think that the original story i started to watch ended satisfactorily…
Correction ..’didn’t hesitate”…
I do not understand why Babita kept the CD when it was something she wanted to forget. Lovely should keep her thoughts to herself.
I think that you are being harsh on HS. He was hurt and he did not say anything bad at all but just questioned her why she did it. He had seen her with the things in the box and thought without thinking that she had played it. Chill and think its easy to say but if you were in there place how would you react. Its was there wedding day and they were happy but the CD spoiled it for them and they saw there 2nd Marriage break even before it started. So take a chill pill and stop comparing him to other men please.
Glad Babita gave it to the Khuranas and ended relationships with them.
Babita was right to ask Mini if she is sure that she wants her and HS to marry. Which is a valid point instead of having stupid thoughts of losing her Babes to be clear on it and HS said the same and here Mini says its ok. More dramas and than the Marriage. On farewell she is sad again. Seriously its too much of Mini now and time to move on from her and no breakdown of her but know that they are family to sort out by themselves without a 3rd party which direction they want to go.
Mini is a child and needs to start behaving like one.
I have so much to say about today’s episode… I will try to keep it short and I will break it into many comments else it will look like an essay today
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First of all, I really liked Babita’s entire speech. Yes she was a little harsh, especially when Dadaji asked if she was tolerating them all along and she replied yes. I know they were all upset but it is a bitter truth which none of them tried to understand. Everything Babita said was right. Was she a servant for her in-laws while her husband stayed away? Lovely never helped in any housework. Biji (and most mother-in-laws in India, emphasis on most and not all) think that once daughter-in-law has come I wont do any work now. So Babita had to do all work for everybody for 18 damn years… Did the in-laws themselves never think how she might have felt all alone and lonely. With whom would she share her feelings? With her infant daughter? How hard it was to raise a daughter, to bear all of Lovely’s humiliation and never have anyone to share it with even? Would Biji have listened if Babita complained to her against Lovely? Never. And the festivals… when Biji and Lovely did Karwa Chauth rituals with their husbands, what did Babita do? Look at Ashok’s photo and break her fast herself? Holi, Diwali… all festivals spent serving her in-laws only. Minnie not having a father, Babita not having a husband… And Babita did not even mention how these same in-laws just abandoned her when Ashok brought in Mita. Lovely is taunting Babita now, ‘Step-dads are like this only’, ‘God knows what will happen to Minnie’. Did any of them protest when Ashok and Mita married? Did anyone question what about Minnie’s rights then? No. Only in Babita’s case they had to back-b*t*h. Lovely said ‘today Bhabhi broke all relations’. Really? In the morning itself Lovely had said ‘We have no relation with Bhabhi, only with Minnie.’ Now when Babita is saying the same thing, suddenly they are all hurt? I am so so glad Babita asked them all to leave her alone, to not create a scene and taunt her even on her wedding day. She is starting a new life and she wants no place for them in it.
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I felt so bad for Babita when she started crying that she hates her past and don’t know when she will be free of it… Also, when Babita said to Lovely ‘Maybe you have exchanged the CD’ Biji immediately came forward with ‘Now you are crossing your limits Babita’. How come this same Biji never stops Lovely when Lovely crosses her limits every damn day? Truly, for Biji, daughter and daughter-in-law are not the same at all… They really needed to be shown a mirror.
I agree but it had to be done prior to marriage tracks… Like this on wedding day!!!!… Making them leave on spot… !.. And marrying forgetting Minnie is no where in the frame.. ! ….
Now, coming to the parts that I did not like one by one (and there are lots)
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First, Hanuman doubted Minnie so easily? His bond with Minnie was always the strongest. When he saw Minnie cleaning his mother’s room with love and hard work, he was so touched… Now suddenly he questioned her for no reason? Yes, Minnie had reacted very very aggressively when she first found out about Hanuman’s feelings. But since then she has come along a long way. How many time she has pushed Hanuman to be with Babita… and now Hanuman doubted her? This scene did two things: 1. It created unnecessary drama now and it will definitely create unnecessary drama in the future too and 2. It somehow made Hanuman-Minnie’s bond a little less. I had never even once imagined that Hanuman would ever believe Minnie did this intentionally, that too to stop the marriage on wedding day.
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I feel the writers did this to show that in forming such new relations there are always doubts and misunderstanding from every side, every person has their insecurities (even Minnie is doubting her future am sure and Hanuman has doubts if Minnie still hasn’t accepted him), but the writers should have thought of a better idea than Hanuman doubting Minnie. It just does not make sense.
Makers should have thought for the right time. Every misunderstanding can’t happen on marriage day. One incident can’t make you to doubt them. We all knew that this type of problems will come, but the idea was too bad. I feel sometimes they are in too hurry to show something.
Secondly, I did not like Minnie’s reaction during Babita’s outburst. Have the makers completely forgotten Minnie’s personality as was shown from the very beginning of the show? Every time Lovely humiliated Babes, Minnie would say ‘Babes you are stupid, you should speak up. One day you will realize.’ When Biji came to taunt Babita about jewellery during the alimony track, Minnie said so many things to Biji that Babita even slapped Minnie. Even then Minnie said ‘Babes you are stupid, you don’t understand that these people are just using you. One day you will realize.’ Every time Minnie would insist that Babita is making a mistake by not speaking up… Today Babita spoke everything in her mind, she did not let Lovely say anything. She did not listen to anyone… and Minnie’s reaction was silent protest of ‘Babes?’ and then eyes that said ‘don’t say all this babes, you are hurting them.’ Like really, Minnie was more concerned about her dadaji and Biji rather than her almost broken down babes? The Minnie of even two months ago would have been proud of Babita’s reaction. Is it the harsh words that concerned Minnie? Hasn’t Minnie always used harsher language in the past when she thought she was saying the right thing? She never cared who she was speaking to… Now when Babes finally did the same, Minnie is more worried for aunt and grandparents than her babes? Like, what are the writers trying to do? Reversing Minnie and Babita’s role? Now Babita will always get angry and Minnie will run around trying to pacify her? Minnie has more respect for relationships than Babita?
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I feel the writers are trying to create tension and drama between Minnie-Babita-Hanuman and there are hundreds of ways to do this organically. These new relations are indeed hard. But the makers are changing everybody’s character to create drama. This is not done
For this I felt that Mini is trying to stop her. But it seemed to be not. She was shocked that Babita had kept this amount of hatred and anger inside her which none was aware about it.
I agree that writers are creating unnecessary drama. Like HS is doubting Mini.. I expected that he would doubt Micky or may be Khatri only. But i disliked what is shown. The relations are tender and they should be changed somewhat but not the way they are changing.
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And forget about the wedding night! because they are not going to show us. babita will go to mini foe sleeping
You do not need to be harsh to put forth your views. Why was Madame Babita holding on to the CD when her marriage to Ashok ended. Where was the outburst when the divorce happened. You may not like it but a childs bond with grandparents does not end just like that. Asking Minnie to choose shows the selfishness and insecurity of Babita
Thirdly, I hated the scene where Babita extended her hands like a scared kid and Minnie had to ‘choose’ between her mother and her grandparents. And Minnie was ‘forced’ to choose her babes as usual. Babita looked so weak in that scene, and Minnie’s reaction felt like slowly her babes is becoming a burden for her. All this ‘burden’ thing started with Mickey first saying things to Minnie, then in the drunk Khatri scene it was again emphasized with Minnie left alone and she said ‘My babes needs me’ with pain and today this… Are the makers really trying to show Babita that weak and Minnie that ‘mature and understanding’? I mean Minnie used to say earlier whatever is in her mind. Now she just listens and internalizes everything, keeping her thoughts to herself, and trying to mediate every situation… When did Minnie suddenly become so mature?
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In fact, why are makers trying to show that Minnie is being left alone? Yesterday, when Hanuman took Babita’s hand and brought her outside, Minnie stayed back without reason. Then it was all ‘where is Minnie’ and Minnie couldn’t come forward because of the crowd etc… Then in the precap again, Babita-Hanuman entered Haveli and Minnie stayed back. Didn’t Hanuman say he wants Mother-daughter to enter his haveli together? So why are the writers needlessly keeping Minnie behind and then showing as if in these new situations Babita-Hanuman are moving forward keeping Minnie behind…
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Minnie again today had her big fake forced smile while crying. Am I the only who doesn’t like it?
I too did not expect Babita demanding a hug with Mini because it was something like is HS not capable now to share her feelings with? What is he for? She never looked at HS at that time.
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It is a forced drama is what I feel!
Btw, hadn’t Babita once burnt everything of her previous marriage? Her dress, photos everything… this CD was kept hidden under stacks of clothes? Why?
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And this is a last and very minor thing, but why did not Nayeen Bi and Babita’s brother also come upstairs and only Biji-Bauji-Lovely-Sukhi came upstairs. If Nayeen Bi had been there she could have tempered Hanuman at least…
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I don’t know, I just don’t like how the story is progressing. Selective people are kept in scenes to forcefully create drama. Now, it doesn’t even look like Khatri will be caught… All characters have suddenly changed. Babita has suddenly become weak, insecure, and moody. Hanuman also today acted out of character by doubting Minnie. Minnie is having doubts because of what people are saying (Minnie who never earlier gave any weightage to people’s words) and now because of Hanuman’s questions… but the way makers are showing is too dramatic. Don’t the writers realize the fans of this show love it and watch it because of its simplicity?
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Now I think Patiala Babes was much better before Hanuman-Babita romance track started. So many progressive plots and strong message for the viewers. The story was progressing beautifully. But as soon as romance track started, the makers had no idea what to do with Minnie in this track. No individual track for Minnie. Only revolving around Babita-Hanuman but from Minnie’s point of view. Now it’s just lacking in something. First Mita left, then one by one other characters… and now this is happening. Crying and drama. If it continues like this, Patiala Babes will lose its charm and uniqueness.
Even I’m not sure.. I already missed few episodes and didn’t felt like watching them and to my relatives I adviced them to watch this serial as it’s better than any other show on tv… Since the day I adviced them and made them to watch it, the story is behaving like other daily soaps… Lovely’s taunt, biji anger, kammo lovely gossips complete , minni mickey falling etc etc…saas bahu type… And they literally made laugh at me asking how different it is from other saas bahu shows in fact less melodrama but more boring. Point is the difference for what I recommended them to see is lost and now I myself loosing interest as already I felt something incomplete in wedding functions and this drama on wedding day disappointed me… And some clips from sbs shows minni will be more alone and confused and started to write dairy regularly as not comfortable to talk babita and hs more upset with minni… So I don’t know how long they want to drag this. I was always happy for its non draggy and unpredictable tracks but now they dragged it though lesser than other melodramatic serials but still loosen it’s charm.
BTW, I feel I wont be able to enjoy the actual wedding no matter what happens in the next episode. Too much drama happened just before the wedding. And during the wedding too. Half the functions ended with Babita rushing upstairs in tears… And the precap clearly shows even in the wedding episode the focus will be more on how Minnie is sad and feeling left behind. I am not at all excited anymore. Granted the writers didn’t bring any stupid marriage-swap track like other shows, but they added too much drama and dragged it too long, so much so that even five minutes before the wedding everyone is fighting. No one is happy. So what’s the point of starting a new journey on such a sour note?
I am having a busy schedule now a days. I watch this show just for seeing what is happening. I never feel like I felt it earlier to watch the episode.
By the way the best part of the show was today when Babita outburst with truth. Nothing except that was meaningful.
Agreed totally. Even i dont get the same interest anymore. In the episode before this where Minnie gave that whole speech, i was not even sitting infront of the TV but listening absentmindedly from another room while doing other work… For me too Babita’s outburst was the only satisfying point… after you said there will be no wedding night, i searched youtube a little, and lo and behold! Babita will go to Minnie, Minnie is still upset along with Hanuman… I dont want to watch all this anymore. Maybe i will stop watching for a few days after seeing the wedding today… Even i did not like that HS was holding Babita for support but Babita was only calling ‘minnie minnie’ with extended hands… very poor characterization for everybody
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Very well explained dhara…i think patiala babes lost its charm now…don’t want to watch more episodes….hs n minni has strong bond but hs broak that trust n bond ….how it is possible?? I m little bit confused about the story line….what makers want to show us….nobody remains happy after second marraige…this not the fact…faltu drama creat kar rahe hai ha n minnie ke beech me..babita to badi hui hi nahi hai kitne dino se…minnie thak nahi jati hai kya uske babes ko har ek bat samzane me…yaar babita grown up now…and hs pl …we want our pahelewale hanuman uncle…isake opposite bhi to dikha sakte the ki duniyawale kitane bhi bura bhala bole par hs- babita – n minnie bond din b din strong ho raha hai…i don’t like the current track…marriage tract is soooo long…so boring track now…this is my last comment because i can’t watch it more faltu drama n minnie’s fake big smile…it is irritates me…so byeeee
Hi Athu, thank you. Its assuring to know others find Minnie’s fake smile irritating too. I agree makers could have gone against what society is saying and shown the family bond only growing stronger after marriage. After all Patiala Babes always went against the expected. They did not make Mita a typical vamp but showed her genuine side. Kammo wasn’t just a trouble making neighbor but became a better person after joining Babita’s business. Babita did not weaken after divorce but only became stronger and more successful…. Every time something positive was shown in every track… but now the writers have lost the earlier positivity. Its all melodrama now. They are hell bent on creating unnecessary trouble between Hanumna-Babita-Minnie. No happy wedding, no happy family. No progressive track. Now people like Khatri will succeed and there will be misunderstanding and fights in the Haveli. Not interested to watch this
Many here are happy with babita’s outspoken thing… But i don’t know why I felt it was wrong and equally insulting of elders. Today’s episode was like “kya tha,… Kuch samjh hi nahi aaya, kaun sahi kaun galat.. Aur ye sab kya jaruri tha?….
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On honest note, khurana’s deserved that harsh words from babita but that had to be much before or she shouldn’t had allowed them to be part of her marriage… Inviting them showing them how important they are to her and saying like this on wedding day… was wrong in my eyes. She had so much of regressive and impulsive pain for them then she shouldn’t have allowed them to enter haveli and there’s no need to keep even cordial relation with them. But no!!!.
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. Minne is unrealistic for me now. Makers are hell bent to show minne is left all alone and babita -hs have become self centered… Such things can happen but isn’t tha too early!!! and that too on marriage.. Just few moments before they cared for Minnie planned and brought same lehenge and in a second they forgot that she is missing from frame… Didn’t they realized that HS wanted both motther daughter to do grah pravesh together and she isn’t even standing next to them.
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And how sensible HS to doubt like that on minne…and babita to run like that holding lehenga… For a while I thought this is ekta’s show and I’m not watching patiala babes.
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Already the decorations is so lavish out of the financial status they showed, remember HS finding difficulty to help babita even with 20,000 and babita putting all her savings of 10 lakhs just to buy shop… I always had that point in mind how they will share financial differences as that’s very much and was in wait to see something on that… But ok we as viewers still ok as we always get so see some quality scenes, but then they brought that minne mickey drama…
Then babita Matureless drama and now hanuman doubting his only daughter… All drama was still acceptable if marriage had been carried softly and smoothly creating history the only marriage on TV with no drama and twist.
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But they themselves ruined it don’t know if they did it for Trp because I’m damn sure they are loosing their viewers slowly slowly by this.
Siya, when Babita ran lifting her lehenga… even i felt i am watching some over-dramatic ekta kapoor show. Not at all expected from Patiala Babes
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I know the timing Babita chose to say these things was not right, but i still think it was ok. The Khurannas are guest then they should behave like guest. They rushed upstairs behind Minnie and the second thing Lovely said was ‘I dont what kind of mother Bhabhi is that is thinking about herself before daughter’. It was already such a tense moment and Lovely said that. She deserved all the tongue lashing from Babita. But Biji jumped to Lovely’s defense. Why didn’t Biji jump to Babita’s defense when Lovely said those bitter words? Her daughter can say anything and she will stand silently, but if Babita says something, she will oppose? Biji deserved all that too… I felt bad only for Dadaji. Old man had his hands tied due to money matters, but still he always supported Babita and missed no opportunity to scold Ashok for his deeds. When he got almost to tears and asked Babita ‘you were tolerating us?’ i felt very bad… Dadaji got hurt because of the deeds of the rest of the family… but the others deserved it. (Babita said nothing to Sukhi). Lovely has been imposing her thinking on Babita since the day she arrived from Dubai. If she can insult Babita everytime, she needs to be thrown out with insults too. And Biji had slowly started supporting Lovely as well. For how long will Babita keep quiet thinking about the elders? It was Lovely who spoke out of turn and Babita’s patience finally broke. she is no longer the woman who will keep bearing Lovely taunts like she did for 18years.
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Even i dont know where they are getting the money for lavish dresses and all those decorations. The wedding has been dragging so long, but within the story it has hardly been a month since Minnie’s operation. (Minnie came back from hospital and immediately regretted. Then 2-3 days trying to determine Babita’s feelings, maybe a week. Then 1-2 days of Imarti court case track. Then another week (at max) where Babita-HS dont talk but Rakhi festival comes and HS brings Babita’s brother. Then maybe 2 more days when Babita decides not to shift house and finally proposal. Since that day marriage prep started…). Babita had no money for Minnie’s operation. Hanuman managed somehow. Then from where all this money is coming for wedding?
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I am sorry that you recommended this show to others and then melodrama started. Even i have recommended this show to so many people… Now i cant even say this show is progressive and has strong message without dragging. And correctly said that relations change after marriage, but people dont become idiots or great overnight. They could have shown Minnie is having trouble sharing her mother. After all till now Babes only cared about her but now Babes will stay with HS, give him more time… but no, makers want to show Minnie as the most adjustable and mature person. She can have no insecurities or jealousy of her own. Babita-Hanuman who are adults in their thirties are the emotional, impulsive, brainless, jealous ones. Smh!
I remember where news portal praising Patiala babes realistic drama and only show on TV in history which will show the marriage of leads with no twists and spice and was praised for it’s content. But makers themselves spoiled that baggage.
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Also, family drama is obvious and wasn’t big issue as here those who live in joint families may know such blame-game or comments are not big issue (lovely excluded she is too much) and some ignore it or fight over it but after a while forget it… And with this manage to stay far but together… So Confused biji or Kammo-lovely gossiping babita was something ok and expected if such things are happening in packed room. But shouting like this on your marriage day blaming them for your sufferings asking them to leave forever was like intentionally calling them to insult. One should have took care of the right time of speak all that…
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Where Minnie should have chilled and took everything on cloud in her bubbly bubbly style… Stick to her babes talking emotional to her spending more time with her as her babes will live with hs in other room etc etc
.. Instead she is behaving like a woman, silent and Pretendious… Initializing everything in her own… I’m just fade up of her fake smile. That used to look courageous before but now it’s overacting.
Thanq. Minnie and her forced smiles need to go! Like you said, Minnie could have talked about how she will feel alone in her room after Babes marriage and have some real talks. Instead we had Minnie passive aggressively saying ‘Who knows if you will get time to oil my hair again or not’ and then brushing it aside as joke. But again giving a sad doubtful expression while hugging Babita so that Babita couldnt see her face… Even today Minnie was saying its ok Hanuman uncle got mad but later her expression again turned sorrowful. For once girl just say whats in your mind instead of giving fake smiles followed by long-suffering pitiful looks!
What I find really stupid is the sleeping arrangements of indian families with children, not all I hasten to say.
What I don’t get is why is Mini still sleeping with her Mother till now and now that her Mother is married she is scared that how will she sleep by her self. Really this is so stupid. My daughter had her own room when she was 1 years old.
Where is the independent given to children in having there own rooms and space to do there own things etc.
I still see children shown sleeping with parents in serials, seriously the parents and children need there own space.
What I don’t get with Mini. She keeps on going on about her and Babes special bond that she needs her Babes attention all the time is not healthy at all. She hides things from her Babes to make her look bad.
Please stop this silly smile of her is so stupid and go back to being a teenager.
HS is right to ask her if she is scared of losing her Mother than why agree to the Marriage in the 1st place. What hurt him the mist was that she went running to Babes and asked how she was but did not bother to ask HS how he was, i think that this is made him ask her the questions.
In there hurt between Mini and Babes no asked how he felt about it which is really sad. Its only after the damage was done and HS asked her why that she realised too late how much she had hurt him. Both Mother and Daughter were thinking about themselves but no one asked how he felt.
With Babes wanting to break the wedding again for Mini’s sake is getting so stupid now, poor HS should have saved the trio and declined himself to save his respect
What will Babes do in the future if Mini says I don’t like HS will she leave him is so stupid. Babita needs to think of herself for once as well.
Minnie and Babita relation was always overtly dependent on each other. a father/husband was missing from their family and the two just made each other their entire world… in some instances it is great to see them as each other’s strength. But at other times it comes as too clingy. Babita even in full bridal attire still said if Minnie says once she wont marry. And since romance track Minnie has left aside all studies, college and her life, and running around ‘what are babes feelings’ and ‘how to make Babes marriage perfect?’ Minnie at least needs to have a life of her own outside Babita.
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I agree that Hanuman’s feelings are not given enough value, especially by Babita. When Babita was crying in her room, Hanuman said even he was hurt seeing the CD but Babita gave that no importance. When HS questioned Minnie, Babita immediately jumped to her defense. She could have at least added ‘i know you are hurt too but think once can Minnie do this?’ Usually it is Minnie/Nayeen Bi who understand HS pain. But today Minnie herself stood accused and Nayeen Bi did not come upstairs. I know Babita will have a tough time balancing between husband and daughter… but since she has started a new relationship, she needs to give HS emotions value too instead of crying all time and everyone having to support her. Hanuman is completely alone in this world. No parents, no siblings. Only a friend in Lala and surrogate mother in Nayeen Bi. Even in this wedding most guests and relatives are from Babita’s side. Everyone is catering to Babita’s needs or praising Minnie. But Hanuman also needs emotional support. Who will hold his hand and assure him? Only Nayeen Bi all the time? Babita will have to learn to care for him too… but makers have no time to focus on Babita-Hanuman relationship. Every good deed is done by Minnie alone.
as for the sleeping patterns… No indian parent will give their infant child a separate room! If teenagers are lucky they might get separate room. there is hardly any concept of privacy. If child even demands privacy, parents will say ‘i am your mother, you dont have to hide anything from me. What privacy?’ I dont know right or wrong, its a cultural thing… everyone staying together and everyone interfering in everyone’s business till ripe old age.
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As for Minnie-Babita situation… i remember how in Khurana house no one really cared about Babita so i guess everyone assumed Babita can stay with Minnie only, why give them two separate rooms? Or did Minnie have her own room? I dont remember. But in HS Haveli only one room was available so both mother-daughter had to adjust there only
Generally high class people or those who can afford more than 2 Bhk do that… And in middle class, people with 2 or 3 bhk if can afford then only allot separate room to their children but with thought of not giving privacy but facilities to study and most probably when their child crosses 7th or 8th std then they are alloted separate room so that child can study according to his comfort. and mood…. But privacy is never a factor.
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Also for child’s better upbringing I feel it is important for child to spend his 5-6yrs of his intial stage with parents and after that they can be given all kind of space they need.
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But today I feel things are changing slowly… And it has became trend for husband wife to share one room…. Here, it was decided from starting that babita hs will share which room and minne will stay alone in her room but of course mother-daughter shared 17 years of togetherness under same roof for any reason.. So they are habitual to it. And as we all know HS babita never talked about their expectations with their relation so definitely all that will now fall across them one by one.