Patiala Babes 4th October 2019 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Minnie with Preet and Mickey returns home after Mickey’s doctor’s appointment singing songs. Biji asks if the got Mickey’s bandage. Minnie says yes, he was running around like a kid. Mickey says it’s paining a lot. Biji says she has medicine for his pain, ice-cream. Mickey says he is not a kid. Dadaji asks which flavour he likes, Minnie used to insist for an ice cream after each doctor’s appointment, even they have ice-cream after their doctor visit. They both walk out to get ice-cream. Preet tells Minnie that her grandparents are so cool. Minnie says even her Babes and HS are also cool and young at heart, they accepted Mickey in their home. Mickey says he doesn’t know as he felt Babes didn’t like him staying here. Minnie says he has misunderstood.
Babita tells NB that she didn’t like Minnie’s closeness to Preet’s boyfriend Mickey and is concerner after Kammo commented that Minnie may become second Mita. NB says she should trust her daughter and there was something like that Minnie would have informed already to her as Minnie doesn’t hide anything from her mother. She gets Rukhsana’s call that Irfan is calling her to Khatri’s office, asks Babita to inform HS to reach Khatri’s office, and reaches there with Babita. She scolds Khatri for trying to sell her house and make her homeless. Irfan says he is taking her home and will take good care of her. NB says she is a queen in her house and doesn’t want to vacate her house. Irfan says she is only 1/8th owner and he will go to court if she doesn’t agree. NB shatters more hearing that. Babita tries to interfere, but Irfan warns her not to as they are respectable people. NB scolds him and he misbehaves with her more. HS walks in and asks how can he misbehave with his mother. Irfan asks him also not to interfere in their family issues. NB says she is ready to fight in court and walks away. Khatri suggests him to be rude to his mother and get the the work done peacefully. NB returns home and cries hugging Imran. Imran asks Rukhsana what happened to daadi. Babita says daadi is unwell. HS consoles her saying he doesn’t have a mother and one who he has is not valuing her. NB says she is his mother and asks him to find a good lawyer. Their emotional bonding continues
Babita returns home and panics reminiscing Khatri and Kammo’s taunts. She sees Minnie running behind Mickey to apply ink on his face and holding his collar, remembers she holding HS’ collar and shout to stop it. Minnie asks what happened. Babita starts argument and says she doesn’t want Minnie to snatch Mickey from Preet. Minnie is shocked and asks what does she mean. Preet supports Minnie saying she is Mickey’s girlfriend and Minnie is his soul mate and their friendship is very pure. She walks away holding Mickey’s hand.
Precap: Minnie confronts Babita that she and HS couldn’t keep their friendship and are confused, but Mickey and her friendship is pure. Babita angrily slaps her.
Update Credit to: MA
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Agh. I don’t know I’m going to have to stop watching. Patiala Babes is losing its charm and I enjoyed the show for its slightly light hearted feel along with the issues it presented. Extremely disappointed in Babita today. She asked Minnie if she wants to become a second Meeta. I’m not justifying what Meeta did but seriously, what a disrespectful thing to say. Why not ask if Minnie wants to become like Ashok? Meeta confided in both Minnie and Babita during the time Ashoka was mistreating her and she was in the first trimester of a delicate pregnancy.
And Babita’s mouth doesn’t work against Kammo? If I were Babita I would’ve asked Kammo that she can give Minnie personal lessons on how to trap boys since she knows more about Mickey’s family’s bank balance than Babita herself. Kammo doesn’t have a problem with Ashoka or his second wife nor the years Babita wasted on Ashoka but she has a problem with Babita’s second marriage? If Babita was so wrong she wouldn’t have openly married Hanuman. She’s coming to their house and saying all this so it’s not like this is a street fight.
idk I’ll probably pick up the show in a few months. But for now I’m switching to written updates.
Preet talked like a real friend …she has so much trust in her friend and boy friend as well..If not for those confusing thoughts of Minnie penned by Minnie herself in her diary ,I would have believed in Preet’s trust.Nothing wrong in Babita confronting Minnie but she should have done it in a more mature manner and in privacy..No doubts parents should trust their children but it is also true they should know what is going on in their children’s life particularly when they are in their teens…So some sort of monitoring is required …I believe the best monitoring is low key that is based on trust and staying connected with our children…
Babita is more like a friend to Minnie so it should not be difficult for her to keep track of what’s going on in her life…but behaving like an absolute authoritarian doesn’t take you anywhere like Babita behaved today…once you lose the trust of your child ,it will be a Herculean task to deal with them…the idea is to strike a fine balance between one’s roles as a parent and a friend ….
Hello as a minnie mother babitha its correct.
As of now all time first time babitha its wrongly understood all.after minnie explain and convienced
Now minnie resposiblity to explain babitha whats going on her mind
It was sheer frustration triggered by Kammo’s vicious remarks ,coupled with her own displeasure at Minnie’s friendship with Mickey ,that made Babita behave the way she did…I think somewhere deep inside her psych ,there is this guilt of marrying for the second time and her anxiety about its repercussions on her daughter’s personality..Had it not been for her own guilt,she would not have exploded like that…Actually nothing odd happened in this episode…all the three were just joking and chasing each other after coming back from the doctor but Babita’s pent up anger and frustration was waiting for an opportunity to come out…I don’t know how many of you agree with me but I think she is still not sure whether she did right by marrying again.Hope the five year leap will be introduced at the earliest ..till then nothing new to watch except for nasty comments by neighbours and Babita venting it out on Minnie or even HS and of course frequent blickerings between Babita and Minnie..
Babita needs to grow up. Her behavior towards her daughter is so juvenile. What’s up with Kammo? Is she no longer a business partner with Babita? I cannot imagine some person come and accuse my teenage daughter about some random images of her being a man-stealer and I would dare to accuse her of it because she was running around in her house and playing with her friends right in front my view. Why didn’t she confront Kammo? why did Babita accuse her daughter of her wild imagination when we all thought that she understood Meeta’s situation. She herself bought Ashok’s ticket to London to get his life back with Meeta and their child. Babita, HS has advised you to stop listening to people’s nasty talks and you continue to let it affect your relationship with your daughter whom you are working hard to lose. You have embarrassed her on numerous occasions and she has forgiven you because she adores her Babes and thinks that you have the right to scold her. Trust her because she is very mature. What is wrong if she has a crush on her friend? she is not going to hurt Preet and take away Mickey, it would break Mini’s heart to do that to her friend unless she has become heartless and she is not. Mickey is her first crush and she wrote it in her diary and that’s where it will stay. Grow up Babita and go and mind your business (Patiala Babes).
I think it is going to be a difficult phase for Minnie…Even if it is just a teen age crush as suggested by Yvonne, Minnie will have a hard time dealing with it particularly when her crush is her best friend’s love interest…According to some spoilers ,even HS is going to admonish Minnie …not sure for what reason…the disappointing news is there won’t be any leap but just season two with Babita and HS having their first baby and the baby becoming the cynosure of the couple’s eyes…I do hope Babita and HS will not make Minni feel neglected…better Minnie concentrates on her studies as her mother is well settled now.It will be even better if she goes to hostel …away from all these stupid neighbours and home politics..
I think that the bigger picture has been missed by all that is that a Girl’s reputation and respect is in the Girl’s hand her self and how she behaves in Society is the question here and we might get educated and pretend to have a modern outlook but at the end if the day we are desi’s who have to live and stay in a Society which will judge us or our children where we like it or not.
If Ashok and Babita had been Married and Mini was roaming around with a Mickey in the back holding her waist. And people will still see and talk and for sure she would have been slapped by the Ashok for ruining her name and family reputation which sadly still exists till today and cannot be whitewashed by anyone and sadly what people say does still matter and its this part that Mini is missing in her arrogant style of picking and choosing they taunts that she wants to hear etc.
Roaming around on a Scooty with Mickey holding her waist is not a good sign and Babes is uncomfortable with it I can understand this but Mini the great does not, she needs to grow up and see that life is not a Child’s play and being seen with Mickey who is Preeti boyfriend is not good at all.
Yes in a flash back she sees Preeti as her and Mickey as Ashok and Mini as Mita, and her fears are not unfounded at all by the way Mini and Mickey are behaving with all hands and touching etc and even this much touching is shown between Mickey and Preeti and will not take long for these two to cross the line of friendship and for Preeti to believe that these two are just good friends is very silly of her.
And Babita as a Mother should not be blasted for pointing some home truths to Mini who at the age if 17 without any experience of life that she is wrong and yes this will play out like betrayal if Mini does not get a grip on her stupid emotions and sadly the truth hurts because she will be a Mita.
I do not like the way Mini talks to her Mother all the time is very disrespectful and the way she compares the friendship and love of HS with her and Mickey is stupid and I for one is glad that she got the slap and Babita should not say sorry to Mini as what she said is not wrong and is a reality and sad that a Mother has to point it out when you have a teenager who thinks that she knows it all.
Instead of studying and all the lessons that she has missed she is playing like she is a child and her behaviour in public is no better at all.
Loved NB and Babita’s talk about Mini but there is that underlying problem with Mini who never thinks before she acts.
NB scene at Khatri when she finds out about the sale of her home and fekt bad for NB state and loved her and HS scenes.
Why do I get the feeling that Nayeem Be will disown her Son now and I hope that she gets a good lawyer and wins the case.
I think that bringing in the Khuranas was a big mistake even if it is for a week and glad that Babita shut her up.
How dare Mini speak about her Babes and HS like that to insult there love and Marriage and compare it with Romeo Mickey and her saintly Mini is too much now for Katha Kottage fascination with Mini who can do no wrong.
Yeah maybe for small matters like riding on a scootie this works. But what about women who are all dressed and covered from head to toe and get catcalled? Harassed on public transit? I think it’s a little ridiculous to assume that a girl always has her reputation in control. I’m surprised that has even become an issue tbh.
Babita is still wrong. While her concerns aren’t (I don’t blame her), the way she approaches them are. Minnie getting in trouble relies for only one thing: how much Babita feels like using her as a punching bag. Kammo says something, Minnie’s in trouble. This is because Babita is insecure so she won’t say a single thing to shameless Kammo (seriously if I were Babita I would’ve asked Kammo to stop thinking of ways to trap Mickey because she’s a married woman) and cheap thinking but she’ll take it out on Minnie instead.
Honestly while I don’t agree with the way Minnie is arguing with Babita, since its less talking and more trying to get the higher ground, Babita did cross a line today. You CANNOT say that you care about your own daughter’s reputation and then slander her in front of her friends calling her a second Meeta “snatching Ashok” away. Ashok is not a toy. He’s a grown man. He cheats on Babita of his own volition. That is crossing a line. You can raise concerns over these things but you can’t raise a finger on your daughter’s reputation. It’s sad how Preet had to set Babita straight. I can’t imagine the humiliation of some outside person having to “vouch” for their trust on my reputation while my own mother calls me derogatory terms.
In this fact Minnie is also wrong. She just threw Babita’s fears back into her face. Like I said, while Minnie IS saying Babita is fearing others she’s not actually trying to work with her mother here, or listen to her.
I am just disappointed. There used to be a positivity associated with every track of patiala babes which has sadly vanished now.
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Anyways, coming to today’s episode. I wont say babita said the wrong things but her manner of saying and location was completely wrong. Yes she should question minnie why she is not studying for her exams but spending her days in coffee shop and roaming around. Minnie should also understand that even though preet is all understanding right now, she still needs to identify her limits and stay within that. Preet has already dreamt about marriage with mickey. After the accident her concern for mickey was high. With time if mickey continues to remain closer to minnie, preet will get hurt (frankly i am surprised preet so easily said mickey minnie are soulmates without any insecurity)… but the way babita did it was so humiliating. Right in front of her friends! This is something like the situation where minnie was frustrated about babita-hs and told mickey flippantly that preet likes him… the situation is so awkward now. Mickey will hesitate a thousand times to even face babes from here on. Even minnie, who 5minutes ago was so confidently saying that her babes is cool, will feel ashamed… why couldnt babita find a room to talk quietly?
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But i must mention, i am not cordoning minnie’s behavior either. Even if babita had talked with minnie quietly, minnie’s reply would have been a careless ‘are yaar babes, tu kitna faltu ka tension karti hai. Aisa kuch nahi hai.’ Minnie very rarely attaches importance to babita’s concern. She dismisses everything as stupid. In this situation babita will feel that no matter how i say my daughter doesnt listen to me… and how could minnie say those words in the precap? ‘You and hanuman uncle mighf have been confused about your relation but dont think me and mickey are also like that.’ Really? Yesterday i said babita should not always resort to slapping minnie, but listening to those words… minnie actually insulted babita and hs relation. It has become a tit for tat situation where both mother daughter are insulting each other. Very disappointing.
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Btw i am not concerned with ‘girls respect is in her own hands’. People like kammo and khatri will always find something to taunt even if you follow every rule of society. Its better to live life according to your own rules. But it doesnt mean you start over simplifying your personal relations and just ‘chill’. At this point in life teenagers do think that they are right and their parents dont understand them anymore… but minnie, who is always shown too mature for her age, should at least try to understand her mother’s point of view. And has minnie completely forgotten that mickey in fact used to follow her around all the time? That even now he drops hints that je will be there to ‘catch her if she stumbles’… if minnie can keep herdistance from bobby, why not give the same treatment to mickey. Truth is she likes mickey too. If only she would just accept that instead of being high nosed all the time. Today preet said she is okay with it. But has minnie spared a single thought for preet before today?
All in all ,all of us are on the same page regarding Minnie’s high handed and reckless behaviour with her mother..She hardly takes her mother seriously ……just because she was a shy ,unassuming housewife ,cheated by her husband doesn’t mean she needs to take lessons from her teen age daughter all her life…but If Minnie is like this with her mother ,whose fault is it? This is not something that Babita is seeing for the first time..Minnie has always been like this…It is for the mother to bring up her girls according to her values…because after a certain age.,generally sons become a bit aloof but daughters always stay close to their mother..Babita ,being conventional,should not have given so much freedom to Minnie…now she is clueless how to handle her daughter …
Yes ,it was a bit crude for a mother to compare her to Mita,but I don’t think Mita deserves that comparison…Hopefully ,as Yvonne said ,Minnie will not go to the extent of entering into a relationship with Mickey and remain just a friend but ,God forbidden ,if she does so ,she will earn much heavier flak than Mita because Minnie very well knows that Preet is Mickey’s girlfriend whereas Mita was not even aware of Ashok’s marital status as he lied to her…Mita never met Babita before whereas Preet is Minnie’s childhood friend…it will be just like Drashti’s Silsila badalte rishton Ka..hope Minnie stands up to Preet’s trust and keep her ‘crush’ limited to her diary..
Coming to the pre cap ,Minnie is just insolent to insult her mother’s relationship with HS..may be HS will be scolding Minnie for that only…but still Babita shouldn’t have slapped Minnie as it will become increasingly difficult to handle her…Babita ,as a parent should have patience as she will be at the receiving end if ,Minnie ,out of frustration does something stupid ….
I hope that Mini does something stupid in her I know it all attitude with Mickey and let her face the problems that rise from it.
As she is so stupid, that she has seen Mickey with girls and chasing her and than dates Preeti, that the dim nit wit that she cannot see that Mickey is like her lovely Father Ashok.
Its true what they say that Girls like bad boys.
For a smart girl that she claims to be, she is extremely stupid playing with her future education and Career, all for a boy.
Is plain stupid.
Am done watching this serial Patiala babes, as there was so much positivity earlier, now mr director and writer have completely changed the scenario, now i can clearly see this going on other saas bahu tracks, same unnecessary b*t*hing, mis understanings. Where everyone was show positive and good light, suddenly all have become self centered including that kammo, who was 100per supportive. Ridiculous, if u can think of good way to take this ahead then shut the show but dont shao crap and typical, unnecessary human tendencies