Anupama 8th May 2021 Written Episode Update: Kavya Fails To Manipulate Vanraj

Do the writers think we are dumb people or… what is it? Like what. Both Vanraj and Kavya cheated on their spouses… they both made a mistake. Anupama said that all she wants is a divorce and then Vanraj and Kavya can live happily. Kavya wanted the marriage badly but Vanraj did not. Also Kavya telling Nandani that what she is feeling was something that Kavya have been feeling for a long time, that doing this act made her happy. Well let me say something, Kavya did not hurt just Nandani who is her niece, she hurted that very same family that she has to live with after the marriage. Because Vanraj is apparently “a family man” and wants to be with his family. But Kavya at every single point keeps ruining her relationships with everyone. Even her niece for goodness sake. Like it is insane to me that Kavya thinks that by doing this everyone will be happy. Like that is not the case. Like Kavya pulled this stunt at Paratoish’s wedding where she went there demanding her rights… Vanraj left her, when she told everyone about the divocre after Vannraj and Anupama came back from the picnic and vanraj told Kavya to just stay away. Kavya time and time again just does not understand the fact that she can not just have Vanraj. That if she is getting Vanraj and marrying Vanraj that she will always have to deal with his family. Vanraj has wants and needs that Kavya does not understand. And Kavya has wants and needs that Vanraj does not understand. Vanraj was always selfish… he always thought about himself, and fell in love with Kavya for lust. Vanraj has kept on making mistakes but because he is currently kind to Anupama are we supposed to forget about it/. Also Vanraj saying that things will go his way now, that he is going to make his own decisions and that he will be the one to make all the calls and not make anymore wrong decisions. I have some things to say about that. 1. Vanraj was the one that fell in love with Kavya because Anupama was not good looking… so he looked for love somewhere else, that is not Anupama’s fault, or his family it was his own fault. 2. When Kavya wanted to end the relationship before Vanraj said that he only loved Kavya and always wanted to be with Kavya… leading Kavya on this false hope that Vanraj would move in and start to live with Kavya. 3. Vanraj was the one that left the house and kept running to Kavya even though no one kicked him out of the house. Even though Babuji said to leave… Ba told him to stay and Vanraj said that he will only stay if Anupama was willing to go back like how things used to be and when Anupama said no he left. Even though Anupama never told him to leave. Vanraj has made countless mistakes to the point where Anupama does not want to be in that relationship and is giving a divorce, and still not asking anything in that divorce. Yet he thinks that it would be better to stay with ANupama and throw Kavya to the side than he used to throw Anupama to the side. Vanraj is still really selfish and still thinking about himself. Anupama wants that divorce so she can move on in life, so she can do whatever she wants to do. Vanraj wants to stay with Anupama to put her in this box again like before because his life was more easier than having to deal with Kavya. Why can’t he just get a divorce and just stay single. Like why can’t they just get a divocre and then when Kavya says something that instead of pushing her to the side. That THEY TALK LIKE GROWN ADULTS AND WORK SOMETHING OUT! Like they are adults in a relationship, where they can just speak and be able to just work things out. But no they always gotta be yelling. Ba wanted her son and daughter-in-law to be happy, but what she is not getting that what Vanraj did was just unforgivable to Anupama. Dolly and Ba trying to convince Anupama to stay in that marriage where she was unhappy, constantly being told shit, and constantly being brought down is just annoying. Like Ba, Vanraj, Dolly, Pakhi, Paratoish think that it is acceptable that Vanraj can just cheat and then come back he is sorry is just dumb. Ba always saying that Vanraj is like god and puts him in a higher position. And Anupama just running around Vanraj the moment he says go, made Vanraj think that he can do whatever he wants and whatever he can and just get away with it. But because Anupama is done, and the affair was her final straw she just wants to leave, Vanraj, Ba, Pakhi, and Paratoish thinks that it is wrong because Anupama is the one that wants it, and not Vanraj. That now Anupama is not putting up with Vanraj behaviour and instead is exposing the truth which they still can not handle. Where Dolly was saying how could Vanraj fall in love with someone so selfish, and I wish he has never done that. But Vanraj was the one that fell in love with Kavya, giving her false hope, and constantly showing her dreams that he was never able to provide, Now that the divorce is happening Kavya is demanding it now. Vanraj is just as guilty as Kavya and that’s it. The show Anupama does not know how to handle trauma. What Anupama was going through like finding out her husband’s affair, constantly having to deal with her mother-in-law, always having to fix each issue, having to go through cancer… wouldn’t Anupama get some sort of depression or have to deal with some sort of stress or Trauma. They only show her painicing in that moment for the story line but then stop it. They only use it when it is necessary, they never had that storyline going. To add on they never had Anupama battling her mental illness, if they can have Pakhi go to a therapist why not Anupama who is dealing with the most trauma. But this show does not know what trauma is and how it can really effect someone. Like Pakhi getting harassed by a boy and then being paranoid and scared… then after it is resolved she is fine like nothing ever happened. Like when Pakhi got kidnapped and then went to a therapist for like one day and then she acted like nothing ever happened. Or when Pakhi ran out of the house and got harassed and acted like nothing ever happened. Like my god these things are just building and there is nothing happening to help deal with that trauma. Like in Holi when the guys sneaked in Nanadini’s house and applied black colour and then Paratoish fought those man off and then Nandani acted like nothing ever happened. Or the fact that Kavya also got assaulted ran to Vanraj, and then after that everyone forgot that happened. Anyone can go through mental illness but it just does not go away like that. This show is bad with showing it. I am not saying that Kavya taking sucide is fictional or something that does not happen, it does happen. Kavya is at her breaking point and took a horrible step. But this show does not know how to deal with trauma or how to actually show what it can do to a human. This show could have been better to watch if it wasn’t so dramatic. I am not saying it needs to be realistic. What I am saying is that they wanted to bring a fresh new story so why not have some issues that are from reality and use them but not make it 10 times dramatic. Things like Cancer, Assault, Sucide, Panic attacks, toxic household, abusive partner are real thing. If they would have shown this as a means of showing life, hardships, and how the society expects you to be this perfect human being. But in reality we are flawed individuals that have to deal with these types of things on a daily basis. Where it is normal to have trauma and mental illness, that it is normal to go to the therapist and talk about these things and solve these issues. That a divorce can be acceptable. That it is okay for a wife to not want to take her husband back after he cheated, that a woman can be happy living on her own. That after getting a divorce a woman does not need to get married, that she can make a life of her own with out having a spouse same with men. That a man does not have to get married to a woman right after he has got a divorce, the he also works out his issues. Starplus shows start off strong but because they feel like every show they make needs to be 10 plus years so they feel it is important to drag out the plot. What they do not realize that shows that are shorter and have better meanings are what sticks with people, where people will actually re watch those shows and talk about it even after it is done. A lot of starplus shows start to lose viewer ship just after a year because of how ridiculous something got, just so starplus can have shows run for 10 year. But those shows are meaningless and often get forgotten, but shows that could last 2 years, but has meaning, where they teach people something, and where they know how to handle serious issues will be something that people will talk about in the future. So that is my take on this. What do you guys think, and what do you guys think of my opinion. Do you agree, disagree… and why? I would like to hear your thoughts. How about you guys let me know. 🙂