Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 2nd October 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Kartik saying sorry, I forced you for boxing, just do what your heart wants. He gets a call and goes. She reads the boxing news in the newspaper. He says she has seen the reads, I think its affecting, is your next plan ready. Gayu says yes. He ends call and asks is it something interesting. Sirat says no, have tea. Gayu comes to Sirat. She asks are these your shoes, I got this in storeroom, shall I throw it. Sirat says I will keep it, it maybe useful. Gayu asks how. Sirat says nothing. Gayu keeps the shoes and goes. She signs Kartik. Sirat sees her pic on the magazine cover. Kartik looks on and thinks you can’t hide this from me. He says I will get my file. He asks Kairav and Vansh not to make any mistake. They say yes, we will send Sirat on time. Manish says I m happy that Sirat refused for boxing, its right decision for now, the kids need their mum, no one has an objection with her boxing.
Suwarna says kids need Kartik also, but no one has an objection with his office work, a child is just a mum’s responsibility, no one can expect a father to change his time table, nothing will change, but Sirat refused for boxing. Surekha asks how did Kairav and Vansh get this idea to call their friends home. Gayu says they wanted to go out, I asked them to call their friends home. The kids come. Kairav says I will check about my sisters. Sirat says they are awake. Kairav introduces Akshu and Aarohi. The boy asks will she become boxing champ like Sirat. Gayu says she will become what she wants. The kid asks can I see your medals. Kairav says yes, I will get her medals. The girl says I want to become a boxer, my dad says its just for boys. Sirat says no, girls can also do it. The girl asks do you still do the boxing. Dadi asks them to go and eat the snacks, Gayu made it. Kairav and Vansh get the trophies and shows to the kids. Kartik looks on.
Sirat recalls her achievements. Kartik says idea is working. Kairav praises Sirat’s boxing. The girl says I want to do her punch. Surekha asks them to have food. The kids ask Sirat to show a punch. Sirat asks them not to get stubborn. Kairav gets her gloves. Kairav and everyone ask Sirat to try once, please. Sirat wears the gloves. She punches the punching bag. She recalls the match.
She recalls Kartik’s words. She punches hard. Everyone smiles. Sirat stops and runs away. She says I decided to focus on kids, why am I thinking something else, I have to become a good mum first and then a boxer. Kartik says you can become both together, who said that you can become a good mum if you leave boxing. She says Aarohi is too young. He says I know, we are there to take care of her, you will be just needing few hours for practice, make your daughters your strength, not a weakness, how will they feel when they learn that you left boxing after becoming a mum, you want to see them strong, you have to be strong, why do you follow Mary Kom. She says because she did what others thought she can’t do. He says you also do the same, what do you want, what does your heart want. She recalls Maudi’s words. She asks the form’s printout, she has to participate in Asian championship. He hugs her and smiles. He says I was just hearing a mum’s voice inside me, but Lord found ways to explain me. He says I did the hard work to give you signs, and Lord got all the credit. She says it means you did all that. He says yes, intention is an imp thing in life, Lord doesn’t help you until you are determined, you have decided it now, you have realized it today. She says thanks to you. He says get ready for training. She asks what will we tell Manish and Dadi. He says they left the decision on you, don’t worry, we will face it together, I m proud of you, you have won an emotional battle today, you don’t need to get scared of anyone now. She nods.
Dadi says bless you, you won in stubbornness, you will win the match also. Manish and Surekha taunt Sirat. Suwarna says Gayu and I will handle the kids. Kartik says focus on boxing, I will drop you and come back to handle kids. Manish says you shouldn’t make your work suffer. Kartik says it won’t happen. Kairav says we have put out handprints in this diary, you will have our blessings. Sirat thanks and hugs him. Kartik says Papa rocks right, I have fulfilled my promise, you both have…. Sirat asks what promise. He says its between me and my fairies. Gayu feeds her curd and sugar. Sirat says I have kept everything ready for the kids. Suwarna says we will manage. Sirat says Aarohi, I will go and come back soon.
Kartik and Sirat come to the club. She says I m worried if I forgot… Kartik asks how can you forget, you are boxing this since many years, you will remember everything, I promise.
Precap:
Sirat practices. She goes and calls home. She thinks to go home and see if Aarohi and Akshu are fine. She sees Aarohi’s pram fallen and shouts Aarohi.
Update Credit to: Amena
21 Comments
Suwarna says kids need Kartik also, but no one has an objection with his office work, a child is just a mum’s responsibility, no one can expect a father to change his time table, nothing will change, but Sirat refused for boxing.
I agree with Suwarna household and kids are not only mom responsibility , infact both should work together to give time to official workload without effecting intense care to kids especially mom .
you will be just needing few hours for practice , it’s good he understand this , hope he arranges her practice at home , so that she can give ample time to kids also.
But while going out , even for playing match , they should take baby out also . They should not leave their kid at behest of someone . Protection of kids is parents responsibility not others.
It’s funny that in Yeh rishta kya kehlata hai, both international championship and asian championship happened in rajasthan that too in Udaipur 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
Well said
Just read somewhere arjun bijlani will play kairav
Is it true 🤔🤔
@Pari…..😍 I love Arjun 🤗 and I really hope it’s true
Speaking from experience…. It is hard to juggle between work and children/home responsibilities….
– while I understand Kartik’s motive…. I still don’t see the reason to rush for Sirat to return to boxing…. She is still young….
– I also don’t see why any mom would prefer to hand over their children’s responsibility to anyone other than themselves…. they are capable enough…
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Let me relate a short but true experience:
As a teenager I excelled in athletics… played every sport possible til I finally latched on to hockey… won medals, etc… stopped sports to start career…. started sports again a few years later when career became stable… Placed 2nd in aerobics championship 🏅…. could have done better but was juggling between work and family at the same time… The end. 🙏
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Moral of the story:
its not the logic you put into life that succeeds….
but the person behind the logic who knows what they want in that life 🌠🙏
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Btw…..I used work as the example to show that yes….you can stop a career in sports….to take up another role in family/work….then once you are determined enough…. you can go right back to where you left off…..still reach that sporting goal…..maybe go even further than before👍 …..it’s called “experience” 🙏
May be they are rushing so fast because of the exit of main leads.
And one more thing, giving birth to kids doesn’t mean to put your work aside and stop thinking to your own personal dreams. I know for any mother her kids are her biggest assets and if she decides to work after birth, she will never hand over her responsibility to anyone else. Similarly here, Sirat is not handing over her responsibility. I understand balancing both things is a very difficult task but still if she takes a break, it will affect her mentally after she joins even if she is fully enthusiastic!
Btw I agree with all your points!!
@Nisha
Thanks for your support 🙏
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And haan… you are correct when you said “giving birth to kids doesn’t mean to put your work aside and stop thinking to your own personal dreams” ✔
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I just felt that as a premature baby, Aarohi would need that extra special care that only a mom can give 👨👦👦
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* my brother was premature (7mths if I recall) and remained in hospital care for a few months, til he was able to move around on his own🤗
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I believe that only Sirat should decide what is right for her….as it is her choice of what she wants to achieve in this life ….. No one else 🙏
@Naina
People are not getting that taking career of small baby is a tremendous task , and more difficult especially when you are alone. It’s not cozy cozy like in serial.
So when kids are small both parents should give special care to children, especially mother . br*astfeeding, midnight cries , nazar hati durghatna ghati , illness and many things. If your baby is crying a lot throughout night , it becomes difficult to concentrate on work . And a lot of tension and cuteness , fun too. But they becomes life ❤️❤️❤️. Well beingness of small children should be topmost priority of both parents , especially of mothers. One small children become hectic 😂😂 Sirat has 2.
So both parents should make effort together to balance between work and child and if it’s coming at cost compromising , then people should temporarily postpone their career . I am sorry if it’s hurt anyone. This is noway discouraging women empowerment .
Sorry @Nisha or @naina . Or whatever you girls think 😂😂
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@Rahul96
So according to you all working mothers should remain at home and look after the kids. It means they should completely sacrifice their own dreams and desires. If this is the case then why only a mother, even a father should take rest for 4-5 yrs and both should stay at home and look after their kids. Isn’t it!
You are also saying that its no way discouraging women empowerment right!
First go and learn what woman empowerment is then come!
Further I know the reality of working woman.
I don’t know what’s wrong with you, your mentality!
From yesterday I was trying to make you under stand but you are just like “lakeer ke fakeer”. Its just like I am banging my head against a wall.
I am banging my head at wall.
😂😂😂😂😂😂.
But I am enjoying our convo and laughing since yesterday.😂😂😂.
This is cute.
Your argument –
If this is the case then why only a mother, even a father should take rest for 4-5 yrs and both should stay at home and look after their kids.
Look at my comments I am saying both should work together to find balance between work and children, due to biological needs small children needs mother more . Why only mother should take care , it’s father responsibility also , maje dono ne liye the.
It means they should completely sacrifice their own dreams and desires.
This is what you are saying .
What I m saying postpone career by few years till children become little adult , 5 years is just a exaggerated expression maybe it 2-3 years.
First go and learn what woman empowerment is then come.
Sorry I don’t know what’s women empowerment . I hope you teach me .
I have seen around me husband and wife both work 9-5 , they both come home but wife becomes busy with household work and husband at mobile, games ,etc. This really irks me , this is not empowerment , this is exploitation . We really need to teach our men , boys that doing household work is not a shame.
Similarly taking care of baby and doing office work is not empowerment , it’s mental exhaustion.
Working mother , like Sirat should definitely go behind her dreams it’s their birth right , either they should plan baby after achieve dream. And if they have baby , then thori der ruk ke dream achieve kar ne behn abhi small baby ko tumhari jarurat hai.
@Nisha(with the black double lightening logo)
No…he is not saying that at all….like me, he understands the need for that extra care for a premature baby in her first 3 to 6 months after birth….this is a very tricky and worrisome time especially for the mother….plus Akshu is still young….and Kairav is a handful by himself….
We should also remember that Sirat had surgery (C section)….stitches would be involved🙄….so extra care has to be taken to not damage the incision site….as well as whatever internal healing that needs time to be restored….that’s all it is….nothing more….Not forever…. just for some time….Sirat is young and can still catch up with her career in sports 🙏
I have seen you in imlie comment section if I am not wrong
@Rahul96…..I agree with all your points 🙏
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Kairav was already in school and Akshu was a baby……so Naira only had to care for Akshu……and Kartik for Kairav….. like we saw in the past….
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Naira’s life/career didn’t have the obstacles that Sirat’s life/career has….. Also, Naira had so much time on her hands….career and all….that she was able to solve everyone else’s problems without a hitch🙄 am I right again? 😁👍
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Sirat on the other hand…..now has to care for a premature baby, plus Akshu and Kairav to some extent. And I think it’s too much that Sirat should rely on Gayu, Suwarna or even Surekha to give up their time to help with her children….while she pursues her dream, right? After all….they have their own worries to deal with….yes ? 🤷 Let’s not throw Kartik in there please….yes he tries to help….but we all know his logic of helping is a handful in itself 😜
First of all let me clarify, I am the same Nisha.
Secondly coming to the context-
@Rahul96. You should know the difference between a simple views and sarcasm. What I said her (both parents should be at home) was a sarcasm and I didn’t say about permanent sacrifice. What I meant was break of 5yrs (for both mother and father). Now coming to the point that- if both works then when woman comes back from her job, she has to do even her household chore too and man just plays. Then this is the problem of man. He should understand the woman. If a woman do both the works (care of baby and job) then definitely its not exhaustion. Its her choice that she is managing both simultaneously. Exhaustion is when her man doesn’t support. Further its her own decision if she wants to pursue her dream along with kids or not. If she denies to pursue her dream then if her man will definitely persuade her to go for her dream if he truly loves her and understands her and thus both will together perform their responsibilities towards kids and job.
Coming to your point of baby plan, its not a compulsion that a woman has to quit her job (for sometime) to look after her kids. Its purely her choice. If she thinks that she can manage the both then no one can stop her.
See you all are not understanding my point. Since past 2 days what I want to say is-
-If a woman gives birth to a baby then after that its not a compulsion to take a break and stay at home, taking care of kids. She can pursue her dream. Its purely her decision.
-If she decides to sacrifice her childhood passion (here Sirat was initially sacrificing her dream for her kids(which is completely justifiable from a mother’s pov)) or take a break (about 3-4yrs) then if her husband truly loves her then he will always motivate her to not to give full stop (temporary/permanent both) to her dream. He will encourage her. Here Kartik did that. So he is not wrong at all.
And I understand about how a premature baby need tender love and care if a mother. And the baby should get it. I never said that Sirat should immediately join. I understand her health conditions too. What I wanted to say was that Kartik was absolutely right.
Heyy Anju 👋
haan…..story got waay out of hand so I came here to breeze out but …. 😂😂😂
Anyway, I love hearing the various opinions so please feel free to join the gang 🙏🤗
You all are not understanding my point and I am tired by writing the same thing again and again. You should read all of my comments carefully and try to understand my point.
Heyy Nisha 👋 … While I understand what you were trying to say… I just don’t agree to some of the points….but it’s ok….because not every person will have the same perspective to a given situation 🙏
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Please keep commenting tho, as I love hearing the various opinions….also, It opens the mind for wholesome debates….and often address challenging issues in real life situations 🙏👍
You are absolutely right. Perception differs from person to person 🙂