Anupama 23rd October 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama opposes Baa’s order and says Anuj will not go from here. She prays god to keep her until control and speak only truth while answering. She says Baa and all her supporters alleged her and Anuj’s friendship, but their thinking is heinous and cheap. Baa says a boy and a girl can be friends in America and not here. Anu says she already told her that a boy and girl’s friendship’s example is in their culture; Draupadi and Kanhaji were friends and not lovers or siblings. Neighbor Sarla says she can keep her friendship in Anuj’s locality and not here. Anu asks why didn’t they have problem when Kavya used to visit the locality regularly, why is only woman blamed and man not questioned at all. Vimla says she is a divorcee. Anu says even Mr Shah is a divorcee, why can a man have a girlfriend before divorce and woman cannot even have a friend after divorce; why only women are blamed always for divorce and not men. Sarla warns Baa to shut her daughter’s mouth. Anu warns her to shut her cheap thinking. Vimla says its good she is divorced as she is unfit to be a bahu. Anu asks if she is fit to be a saas/MIL as she physically and mentally harasses her bahu each and every moment and seeks dowry from her on every occasion; warns her to keep her mouth shut or else she will exposed totally.
Anu then tells Baa that Anuj is a humble and well-cultured man. Baa says she saw what he is. Anu says he would have destroyed them easily, but he never crossed his limits even after Baa humiliated him and GK; his only mistake is he supported her, protected her son, and gave her a job, and instead of Baa thanking Anuj for saving her grandson, Baa is criticizing a savior; Anuj respected her more than Mr Shah or Toshu did. She continues describing society’s wrong thinking and says people like them alleged Seetamaa’s character then and now just the faces have changed; when they couldn’t spare Seetamaa, why will they spare Anupamaa. She says a woman is another woman’s biggest enemy and they need to change this thinking; friendship can happen between anyone without looking at the gender, race, age, etc; she knows Anuj will never cross his limits and their friendship will never end; just like Baa’s son, grandson, and husband’s friends visit home, even her friend will v isit their home and locality and if Baa cannot respect him, even she will not let anyone disrespect him.
Bapuji claps followed by everyone except Baa and her team. Anu takes Samar’s phone and clicks her and Anuj’s selfie and says photo came well not because of good camera but because of their good heart. Vanraj warns her to come home and bear the wrath. Anu stops him and says they will go home, but first she wants to finish another task. She takes everyone to ravan dahan venue and says evil takes over them often, so they burn ravan’s effigy to show that evil cannot survive in front of truth and kindness. She gives bow and arrow to Anuj and says Ravan was ended on dussehra, but their wrong thinking should end today. Anuj shoots arrow at Ravan’s effigy and burns it chanting Jai Sri Ram. Vanraj’s face is zoomed like a ravan’s face. Baa says after what Anu did, they can’t stay under same room.
Anuj with GK returns home and rejoices thinking Anu took a stand for him and remembering the incident; he was waiting for this moment for 26 years and it was a priceless moment for him. GK also gets happy seeing Anuj happy. Anu returns to her room, removes her jewelry, and goes to sleep remembering today’s incidents.
Precap: Anu asks Anuj why didn’t he marry yet. He asks if he should. She says she is eager to hear his story. Bapuji gets worried when Anu doesn’t return home. Vanraj hopes Anu is fine.
Update Credit to: MA
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good morning
SHES LEAVING YALL SHE’S LEAVING???? LMFAOOO IT’S AN OFFICIAL STAR PLUS PROMO IN THEIR OFFIVIAL YT CHANNEL
https://youtu.be/teAgFHmFktg
@Yahoo
You’re my favorite here for this exact reason
You always post the right youtube link
Thankssss
This is awesome!!
Glad to helpp nd npp π
Nd yess it is the long awaited track finally happeningg
Take some Hearts β€οΈβ€οΈπ
Next week gonna be too much interesting.
Yee now hopefully as long as it’s not someone’s dream π tho I doubt that cuz they uploaded a official promo titled anupama|Leaving family there’s no question mark whatsoever so ye but we never know it’s star plus lol so we will just have to wait nd see
As she should and I hope immature Pakhi will not succeed in manipulating or emotionally blackmailing her to come back.
In this serial Kavya can change, Rohan can change, but Vanraj and Baa can’t change whose change is much needed to have a change in our society. Anupama has no respite, even after leaving she and her kids have to go through the trauma that society and other family members give to divorcee and widow. There is nothing wrong if Anupama marries Anuj, she is an eligible single. But if she leaves due to family issues and society issue then its the same issue for which women are suffering since ages. Just wanted a change is society to accept dil as own family member which Baa Bapuji already did by calling her as daughter and giving her a property share. Vanraj was also shown human. So what is the harm in taking care of her happiness and getting her married to Anuj as a family. If she has to leave as anyone else does, Then I don’t have any hope from Anupama, let her forget her dream, her mission to help other unfortunate women, she will rather end up with daily conflicts with Society, Shahs, Kavya and Rohan like another potential series Zingedi ki Mahek ended.
I think Anu and Anuj the went for date
Things will turn disastrous if Anu now finds out the truth about Anuj’s feelings
It’s true he loves her but it’s also true he has pure intentions and no hope from her… He just wants to be there for her like a friend.
As a MaAn fan I’d like if Anu doesn’t find out about Anuj’s feelings until she starts to fall for him.
But after giving a big lecture on pure friendship can she now fall for a friend??
I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again.. Anu and Anuj’s relationship is more suitable example of one sided love than friendship
Now people will get chance to point at every pure friendship to be one sided love giving Anu Anuj’s relationship example
True example of pure friendship is Anu-devika and Anuj-Devika bond
Exactly…see thats whats wrong…women, instead of claiming their freedom..claiming freedom to choose, to take decisions, to make mistakes even..freedom to make wrong decions..they try to prove that they are not doing anything wrong..they are almighty you know…but its not about right or wrong..its about having freedom to do what they want (giving its not something illegal or harm someone)..if anupama wants to have a friend she will have a friend..if she wants to have a boy friend she CAN have a boyfriend..she is not answerable to anyone…she doesnt need anyone’s permision..no one can tell her what to do or what not to do…giving advice is one thing but in all the situations final decision will be anu’s…baa or bapu ji or neighbours or her kids..no one have have any authority over her…instead of giving such speech anu should have simply told all of them thay she will do whatever she wants..and they are no one to question her..she doesnt need to prove anyone that whatever she is doing is right or wrong.
As baa said yesterday that you wanted to work outside i did not stop you, i let you…but here everyone and specially baa need to understand that…Baa anu ko rok skti bhi nhi thi..beacuse anu don’t require your permission..you are no one to let or not let anupama do sonething..its anu who gives you that much of respect that she asks you before doing anything…but she doesnt need to…so baa should respect the respect anu gives her…not misuse it.
Well said @Akku
Correct @Akku, Anu asking Anuj why didn’t he marry may spoil the friendship. Something could go wrong. I feel that Anupama should self realise the love,bond and desires of getting into another relation. In the spoilers I read that Pakhi would be a roadblock between Anuj and Anu.
Akku No from wat I remember Baa did not allowed Anu to work she was taunting Anu but it was Anu insistent to ignored Baa’s objection n goes to work!! What you said about Anu not require her permission to do watever she wants is definitely correctππ and yes Anu respects Baa n its true she should respect the respect n not to abuse it. Agreed !!!
hey ππ I am new right here so can you tell me who is this #MaAn
an can be Anupama but another one??
AnupaMA+ANuj= MAAN
Enough of this. Now rename this show as Bhashan ki dukan.
Yeah, you go and harass other women with your regressive thinking.
Who cares for society anyway. If a ex wife can continue to stay in the same house and get humilated day in and day out then anything else is ok.
Frankly I think Anupama has already fallen for him and I think she knows his feelings and possibly heard it on the day he expressed it in front of vanraj. Btw she’s a free person so society should have no problems. The questioning of her itself is untenable as she’s not attached to anyone and her ex husband has moved on and remarried.
Baa questioning her itself is without any authority as she’s no one to do that.
Only issue to consider is her children’s reaction . That’s all. Moot point is why should she think of them when they shame her publicly. Anupama should move out marriage or no marriage
R Shanjar Agreed totally!!!
This society will never come to look at your bad times but when. U will start to flt this society will like their nose and start gossiping
I am waiting for the day when Anu will leave that house and that disgusting society
I am waiting for the SaNan wedding track.
What a weird logic of those society women! Married man can have affair with a married woman and she can visit their house, but divorcee single woman canβt have a friendship with another man!
”She says a woman is another womanβs biggest enemy ”
i wrote this a few days earlier.
if those society women were on the right path,
vanraj wouldnt and couldnt speak any words because of his past.
hypocrisy at its best.
The sad part is, they don’t even realize they’re serving bad versions of men.
I said na Writers copy some lines from this comment sections
Many things…yesterday there were many notable lines of Devika and Anupama which were in the comments section few days ago
if you have time watch
Ghar Ek Mandir Kripa Agrasen Maharaj Ki E 53 21 Oct 2021
Ghar Ek Mandir Kripa Agrasen Maharaj Ki E 33 23 Sep 2021
see another perspective at same topic.
they try brake and reshape genda.
Respect becomes meaningful when it is mutual.
you should respect my nature, i should same yours.
otherwise it is not worth a rupee.
Even the omnipotent god gave to humans the right to choose freely in exchange for respect.
what do they think they are?
Metin Agreed wholeheartedly!!!π
thank you.
i like your nickname.
it reminds me of the rainbow, the fairy tale heroes flying among the clouds.
”she knows Anuj will never cross his limits and their friendship will never end”
Anu is aware or not, but here anu draws a boundary to anuj.
romance is not in the near future .
It seems more realistic for a woman
(who has brought her three children to the age of marriage)
who seeks peace and smile ,
the water will flow deeply and calmly.
Anupama long speech was okay which made clear that there is no room for any love between them.
She should have instead said that even if I have feelings for him, why are they all bothered. When a man can marry after his divorce, when a divorcee like kavya can marry again, why can’t she.
Why this restriction for her.
Anuj would have felt more better hearing this .
Anu is being portrayed as too Mahan. Every human being has a feeling, she also will have. Instead she should start having feelings for him as he was the only one , other than samar, who realised her talent and encouraged her, protected her, respected her, cared for her and it’s not at all wrong for her to fall in love with him. This would have been a reality. But they want to portray anupama as a woman who thinks of others, is family person BUT 4hey forget that after all she is a human being. Family is important but you also should think about self especially when the family wants you to be a doormat.
Baa mentioned that they allowed her to work but at what cost. Nobody encouraged her and she was to give up on the project bcoz of baa but thanks to devika who showed her the mirror.
As someone here had mentioned that time and again anupama needs steroid
You’re right Sudha
Anu friend zoned Anuj to another level
But I think the fact that a woman can love again after divorce is saved for another Anu special speech in later episodes
For now all we can hope is for Anu to fall for Anuj.
@ Jazz Bee. Thank you.
Hope what you said happens . Look forward to the same.
there is more than one problem.
Anu is still in high school on male-female relations.
We are also talking about someone who has been used to being silent for 25 years, even though she has been right.
even she might not remember how to have feelings to a man.
dont think she is normal.
she loved a trashraj 25 years with his bad behaviours.
there is a saying here , modified version: ”i opened my eyes first time to vanraj.”
problem is that much big.
I believe anu is already in love with anuj only she’s not expressing it openly. She already knows Anujs feeling for her that’s why she wants to confirm from anuj by asking about his marriage. Actually she’s very scared of another marriage going wrong that’s all. Also she has her responsibility to take care. However she needs to move out of shah house as things won’t improve in that house. We’ll see her moving out shortly from that house for sure
Anupama said she only has friendship with Anuj….and why can’t a man and woman just be friends and not be in any type of relationship.
However, if this friendship were to develop into something more for her….then how would she view herself in the eyes of others?? π€ or doesn’t she care what others would think of her, including her family π
Food for thought π
Note: this is just an observation….no offence is intended π
They can be friends no doubt but Anupama has slogged for 25 years taking care of all and expected nothing in return . She did not get the love, respect she deserved, not even from her own children.
Does not she deserve happiness , love at least now. Anuj loves her from the core of his heart, respects her, what else does a woman want
The day she divorced, the family is not hers. Kavya is their DIL but they still expect anu to do everything for them .. Baa mentioned that they treated her like daughter, seriously if so, she wouldn’t have insulted in public.
When you are friends, there are certain restrictions, limits but Anuj wants to give her that love,care, happiness, status which he can give when they are above friends.
You can’t sacrifice your happiness for the sake of society
@ Sudha, @Naina Aap dono sahi ho. Anupama ne Anuj ke liye stand liya hai yeh thik hai lekin woh sabko sirf ek hi baat samjhaya ki woh aur Anuj sirf dost hai. Theek hai. Abhi ke liye officially woh dono dost hai. Par ek na ek din to sach samne ayega ki Anuj Anupama se pyar karte hai….Us din kya hoga?Anupama kaise justify karegi ki woh dono sirf dost hai?Aur agar Anupama ko bhi Anuj se pyar ho jaye tab baat aur bhi bigad jayega.Aaj jis society ko Anupama ne samjhaya ki hum dono sirf dost hai Kal ko agar dono officially relationship mein jaye tab society ko kaise samjhayegi ki Hum dono sirf dost hai? Anupama ko society ko yeh samjhana chahiye hi tha ki agar unke mann mein Anuj ke liye feelings hai/ ho bhi jaye to usme kuch galat nahi hai.Divorcee aurat bhi pyar kar sakte hai saadi kar sakte hai.
@ Samapti. Yes very true.
That’s the main point. Tomorrow if she develops feelings for him, what will she say.
We can never predict anything in life. Today we are friends but circumstances, situations changes in life, we never know.
She should have justified by saying that she has all the rights to remarry just as kavya and vanraj did.
Taking a stand and giving speeches are okay but it should be implemented in practice. At the first place why give so much explanation to the society who never bother about you.
1-A person cannot be friends with the gender they normally prefer to have s*x with.
This is the case biologically.
most people get angry or object to this.
because they either want to hide it or they haven’t come across a s*xually stimulating situation together yet.
no im not pervert. π What separates a friend you love from someone you love?
desire and s*x. I’m sorry but I have to write clearly to avoid misunderstandings.
2-then it comes to the morals , religion and society rules.
3-The final stop is the will of the person and whether she/he disciplines herself/himself mentally.
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the morals , religion and society rules are safewall but think patrelekha , vanraj and fateh. they find their ways even with those.
thatswhy the will of the person is the most critical event.
if two person made their will diciplined , they may be friends.
(most cheating etc . cases start with the lack of willpower)
otherwise friendship is a lie or for a limited time for them.
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Anupamaa should define a role for herself besides motherhood.
and screenwriters should water this role.
walking on the beach, sharing candy floss,
meeting each other’s needs when they least expect it,
opportunities for anonymous romance unexpectedly find the two together, etc.
Desires must slowly reawaken within Anu,
she will begin to seek Anuj willingly for more than his friend role.
they can get married when the budding feelings are ready to bloom.
@ Metin. Agree
@Samapti….I agree
However, I believe the best thing for her to do right now is to move out of Shah house….then she would be free from entanglements with her in-laws and have a little more freedom to come and go as she pleases….eventually she will have to face society’s rules, but by then she should be independent enough to brave the taunts and set everyone straight about “her” lifestyle choices….shutting mouths in the process π
naina
there is nothing wrong what you want.
problem is its unrealistic.
think.
We have physical needs.
We have emotional needs.
people need people.
”independent” word is in real life just an illusion.
it has meaning but the meaning doesn’t exist in real life.
even a billion dollar guy or the emperor is dependent to too many things and persons.
there is a saying : ”loneliness belongs to god”
I am not kidding.
the solution is only possible with immortality .π
@Metin, well said!
And there is a reason why society is strict with women, In fact women should be stricter in their choice before falling for or mating with any xyz .
Men can get away without any trace but women are mostly stuck both emotionally and physically.
Anupama is out from a shockingly bad relationship, she should be extra careful to protect herself and her kids.
In fact women should also figure out time pass ways with men without any commitment as men do.
This is also gradually happening in the society but sadly its causing more heart breaks as folks are not able to stay uninvolved, For example Vanraj never loved Anupama still he is involved.
First and foremost Shah’s are not her family. Only her children are
Baa is forgetting that her son is the one who disgraced the family by bringing another woman to the house while still being married. Mr Sha too canβt afford to talk. Good job Devika
If the makers try to justify Shah’s or whitewash vanrajs character then I’ll stop watching the serial.and I believe trp will crash badly. Last week trp fell badly when the pakhi track came and tried to whitewash vanraj.
So Anupama has to leave shah house
SHES LEAVING YALL SHE’S LEAVING???? LMFAOOO IT’S AN OFFICIAL STAR PLUS PROMO IN THEIR OFFIVIAL YT CHANNEL
https://youtu.be/teAgFHmFktg
Hope this really happens and it’s not anybody’s dream.
Yeah I seen it too.. phew! Hope it’s not someone’s dream. I hope Pakhi doesn’t be a hurdle now.
True but they are copying sreemoyee frΓ me to frame. I hope they change the script. In fact Anupama troubles actually start after leaving the house.kavya will get her arrested for human trafficking I hope they change this either getting her married or show her growth only. Show will become more toxic if they follow sreemoyee track
Be happyyyyy! New promo is out. According to it Anupama is leaving that Narak
Sorry, I thing I would like to also emphasize that BAA told anu that she can’t dance bcoz she has no partner. Everyone were so heartless did not even realise how anu would be feeling. They only cared for themselves.
The happiness on her face when she was dancing with anuj and anuj happiness when he was dancing with her were worth watching.
I felt the pain that they both are alone and also felt what emotions they might have when dancing together. She dancing for the first time with a partner and he dancing with his soulmate.
@sudha
hi sudha ,soulmate is a lovely word.
from one of my favorite songs. its from 1993. it comes from anuj to anu
then to all who feels same…
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I’ll be waiting for you
Here inside my heart
I’m the one who wants to love you more
You will see I can give you
Everything you need
Let me be the one to love you more
@ Metin. Wow
other one fav. song of mine.
this time 2005
think like anuj says this to anu before he propose π
.
I opened the door and sat down.
I don’t regret it even if I didn’t make it
‘Cause nothing lasts forever
It’s called fate, I can’t deny it
A beautiful day like this in my life
can you come again
I have a lot of things I want to say
you know
The day we meet again from a long way
don’t let go
A love I couldn’t in this life
A relationship I didn’t have in this life
The day we meet again after a long way
don’t let me go
It would have been interesting to see the most hilarious character Rakhi Dave in this episode to add fuel to fire.
Why is she tolerating such a b*t*h of a mother in law?
Why is she tolerating such a b*t*h of a mother in law? She needs to be taught a lesson. And her useless husband just looks on