Anupama 28th October 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama via landline informs Bapuji that she and Anuj are fine and are in some college students’ guest house. Anuj asks her to inform Bapuji that this house is near highway. Call disconnects and phone gets dead. Anu says Bapuji would inform GK that they are fine. Bapuji informs GK same. Vanraj asks Baa to rest, but she with a frowning face denies and decides to wait till Anu returns. Anu and Anuj feel they shouldn’t disturb youngsters’ party. Their argument starts. Youngsters say they fight so cutely and ask them to join their party. They hesitate. Youngsters show their college reunion dance video and sends them to their parent’s room to change their clothes. Anuj returns, and they say he looks like a dude and its wrong to call him as uncle. Anuj says Anuj is fine. Anu walks down in shalwar kameez. Anuj remembers the day he saw her first and its it was 23rd July 1995, 10:3:15 a.m. He recites shayari and enjoys Anu dancing with youngsters. Pehla Nasha Pehla Khumar.. song plays in the background. He further imagines sipping cool drinks from her bottle, etc.
Youngsters help their friend Rahul propose her girlfriend Isha. Rahul kneels down and says they were friends and he doesn’t know when he fell in her love, will she be his girlfriend. Isha scolds him and asks who takes so much time to propose, she accepts his proposal and hugs him. He reveals that he saw her first time a year ago and fell in her love. A friend says he was waiting to propose her since that day and hence they planned this party. Anuj remembers his days and thinks if he had shown this courage 26 years ago, his fate would have been something else. He starts sneezing. He and Anu then dance on Pehli Baar Mohabbat Ki Hai.. song. He feels severe headache and stumbles. Everyone gets concerned and asks if he is fine. He says yes. She scolds him and asks youngsters to take him to room while she brings kadha/herbal decoction for him.
Vanraj continues waiting for Anu and notices its already 3 a.m. Anuj gets a high fever. Anu asks youngsters to call a doctor. They say no one will in this storm. Anu says she will feed him kadha and apply cold compresses. Anuj asks youngsters not to spoil thier party because of him and sends them away. Anu forcefully feeds him kadha and says she is here with him. Anuj’s fever raises. Anu asks him to try to sleep. Anuj says he wants to tell her something and says I.. Boy enters and says they are trying to call doctor continuously in vain. She asks to continue trying and turns to see Anuj asleep. Vanraj continues trying Anu’s number and then calls guest house’ landline and asks if he can speak to Anu as he is from his family. Boy says uncle fell ill. Vanraj unable to hear him asks to repeat. Boy says uncle and aunty are resting in a room. Vanraj burns in anger hearing that.
Next morning, Anuj wakes up and sees Anu sleeping on a couch nearby. Meri Dunya Hai Tujhme Kahin.. song plays in the background. Anu wakes up hearing sound and asks if he is fine. He says yes, he doesn’t know how he fell ill. She says he drenched in rain. He thanks her for taking care of her. She asks if he wouldn’t if she falls ill. He says he will never let anything happen to her. She remembers him trying to say something last night. He asks if he blabbered something subconsciously. She says usually people speak truth subconsciously. He says he will book a cab and let company’s servicemen tow his car away. She agrees. At Shah house, Vanraj continues frowning remembering boy’s words that uncle aunty are in a room. Kavya taunts him that his ex-wife is returning after a big task, he should welcome her. He drags chair and sits near main door. Samar remembers similar incident earlier.
Precap: Vanraj humiliates Anu. Anu says enough of respect, agni pariksha is given for Ram and not Ravan/Vanraj. Baa shouts. Anu decides to leave Shah house.
Update Credit to: MA
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good morning
anu’s new kid is on the block.
kids name is anuj 🙂
@ Metin. Sooo true. Hahaha
@Metin, hope Anuj will be a partner, not like Vanraj who blames Anupama for his ego, anger , mood swing, infidelity everything. Not sure wht he did on his own, everything was triggered by Anupama only.
Let me get back to our discussion left yday.
Kudos to our dharma which considers women to be so powerful.
When I say Kudos, it doesn’t make me Greek.
though dharma considers women all powerful, condition of women are pathetic in general, in society, in mythology as well.
That’s why it’s a mass problem, people are offended as I am analyzing mythological characters as the way I analyze any other character like Vanraj.
Yes I am analyzing our mythology as I am seeing women are pathetic there as well.
Why I am doing it? because it’s my Mom’s story, my Durga Mom’s story, my Sita Mata’s story, Anupama’s story.
Problem is same the woman who stood by, forgetting self is never appreciated, loved or taken care , she is dejected and goes back to mother earth. It can be mother, sister daughter, wife, GF , keep anyone!
Baa can’t do anything if Vanraj doesn’t support her.
She is weak, old, needs love, support and she is not supportive of any change good or bad, she wants things to follow her time tested ways.
There are countless examples when the son supports, DIL ruins in laws lives and MIL suffers the the most.
I have rarely seen any balanced house. Either DIL suffers or MIL. Women have to suffer
What is common here is the lack of understanding of men. Whoever has the support of man wins, other one is left abandoned.
Most sufferings of women come from lack of understanding, lack of emotion, selfishness, trust issue, anger issue, ego and infidelity of men.
More the Acceptance and Adjustments, less the problems and quicker will be the Bonding in any relationship.
That’s it.
It’s wrong place to discuss Dharma and the legendary stories of Gods. Better u Read the stories in detail from any Esteem book first, then talk about that.
*Quicker and stronger bonding
When I imagine lack of understanding, anger issue of men, I see lord Shiva.
He gives boon without analyzing, he stands for whoever pleases him and his boons are to demons are threat to entire universe in general.
Lord Vishnu is better in this case he avoids giving boon to evil so he is not meditated by them.
Lord Shiva has violent anger streaks which can behead own son, can burn kamadev, and who suffers is my Durga Mom, seeing son getting killed by father is unthinkable and she became infertile.
What is more devastating is Ganesha and Kamdev both got killed while helping Durga MOM.
When I am saying all these I am completely aware how benevolent my dad Shiva is!
He is the one who drinks poison to save me, he is the one who gives me all the luxury, wealth and he possess nothing, he has given me knowledge and power to cross question and ask him, he is the one who stands for me without any judgement whenever I call him, seek him.
My condition is like Pakhi, I love my dad, Lord Shiva more but I can see how much my Durga Mom has suffered for his lack of understanding and violent anger streak.
I have practically seen this as a child when dad used to be heads on with my younger brother for his lack of interest towards his studies. And Mom is the one who is pissed off in between.
Its not that dad doesn’t love bro, but he has anger issue and lack of understanding like any other man or like Lord Shiva.
I have grown up hearing mythology and until recently typically till DKDM, Lord Shiva seemed benevolent, super powerful, moody, indifferent and violent.
And due to these reasons we at our place don’t have a tradition to worship Lord Shiva at home, who knows for which silly reason he will burn whom! As a worshiper as an outsider I am benefitted but my heart goes for Durga MOM who has to manage these at home. And same happens in our home, MOM has to manage the destructions caused by Dad’s unmanaged anger or misunderstanding issues.
There is one episode from Anumapa [https://www.hotstar.com/in/tv/anupama/1260022017/vanraj-gets-furious/1000267004], where Bapuji warns Leela that Anupama is no more with Vanraj to manage or rectify the damage done.
Don’t know that both Destruction as well as recreation are EQUALLY Important.
First understand this from Google/Book cause it’s not the right place to discuss this.
But it’s a Universal Truth!!
When I imagine ego, lack of emotion, selfishness I see Lord Rama. There is no reason why one has to leave own right and go to vanvas after marriage.
Where the rights of wife and kid are protected? How wise is it to leave all the rights to satisfy greed and partiality?
Lord Rama was selfish and as he loved his parents more, classic scenario where DIL is abused, dejected, commits suicide.
How inhuman it was to ask Sita for agni pariksha when he knew that Sita mata is pure. was it just to satisfy lord Rama’s ego?
What was the need of that test when everyone knew the circumstances.
Before returning back to mother earth, Mata Sita clearly said Lord Rama failed to protect her rights.
As a worshiper, as an outsider I enjoy Ramraj, Just imagine the plea of Mata Sita, she has to go back to Mother earth as Anupama is leaving now.
When I imagine infidelity, trust issue I see lord Krishna.
I am very very very narrow, at best I can allow my dad to be a fatherly figure for anyone else, that also I am doubtful.
Is there anyone more benevolent than Durga Maa or Mata Sita? And they stay mother figure, the mother.
Anyone who dares to cross that limit are killed like mahishasura.
Lord Krishna had platonic affair with Shri Radha and Gopis, Ok.
But after marrying Devi Rukmini, why he continued to marry women he rescued? Why he couldn’t stay as a fatherly figure to them?
And this is a case in society also, men continue illicit relationship with the women they favor and it creates havoc in our lives.
After getting into a committed relationship why they can’t change, stay fatherly figure to others?
It’s A WARNING
Don’t talk rubbish with your Half Knowledge. U are misleaded. Read Ramayana or Watch the DD National Ramayana. You will get better reasons why Ram was called Mariyada Purushottam Ram and
Why he was known as Siya ke Ram.
You have too much wrong ideas about Ram. Get Clearer vision yourself
This is the not the right place to discuss your Rubbish
Shame on You @Subha.
You stoop low. Pass wrong judgements to Shiva and Lord Rama whom every women pray to get a husband like them.
I really get it why you didn’t get a husband like it. Cause you don’t respect.
Women also expect their Husband to be like Lord Ram and Shiva.
Shame on you @Subha
Thank god. You objected. I think this girl have some serious issues that’s why stooping so low. I’m observing her comments since long and I felt as if something happened with her which made her depressed. Because these type of talks are done by depressed people. May god give her energy to come out from this ailment. And one thing she needs to understand that even males are victims.
Not someone who comments on random online comments but had to do that yesterday and again today due to BS peddled by this person. Absolute non sense that we’ve got to explain someone about a religion on a entertainment platform. I understand the frustration faced by Amar, Jazz and others due to this uncalled for drama at a wrong place.
Such crazy and shameless U-turn this Subha character has from the comments on 27th October 2021’s written update to 28th October 2021’s written update.
Samples from her comments:
27 Oct – “Trust me I love Ravanraj more than Ramraj”
28 Oct – “As a worshiper, as an outsider I enjoy Ramraj”
27 Oct – Open display of hate towards Shri Ram and Shri Krishna (Avatars of Shri Vishnu) accompanied by immense love and sympathy for Ravana (The Shiva Bhakta Rakshasa)
28 Oct – Lord Vishnu is much better than Lord Shiva because he doesn’t gives boons to Rakshasa. Poor Ravana lost a fan here in a day? 😂
27 Oct – Fails to recognise or acknowledge the importance of woman dieties in Sanatan Dharma
28 Oct – Durga ‘Mom’ , Really?? 😂 ‘Maa’ bolne me kya dikkat ho rahi thi madam?…So now for her, Durga MoM exists and is powerful but she is somehow still bechari because of this great modern day feminists illogical misinterpretations…
Simple conclusion – “Victim Card” nahi chodna hai…Also like the saying goes – “You can wake someone who is actually asleep, not someone who acts to be asleep”. Like someone point out yesterday – You either belong to some other community who is trying to create unnecessary drama here (Dawah??) Or you are an absolutely gone case who is totally brainwashed beyond repair who has no self analysis power left except for finding non-existing ill-informed fault lines…
P.S – Before fighting and wishing for fictional characters to redeem themselves, please focus on yourself and question your illogical biases. These characters will fade away once show is shut, you have a real life to live.
Your ill understanding causes destruction to your own peace of mind. People in Sanatan Dharma are not taught to play Eternal Victim Cards like the way you want to cling on to. People like you unfortunately will be eternal pessimists who trouble themselves and others. So the only thing for others is to avoid such people and pray for your well-being, Sadbudhhi and redemption sometime in this lifetime. Sending lots of peace and good wishes for your healing. 🙏
@Jazz, yes I am comparing human with GOD, As I see GODs reflection in us.
we are benevolent, they are super benevolent. we are powerful, they are super powerful. We are violent, they are super violent. we are tolerant, they are super tolerant. We are bad, they are super bad.
My point is our mythology has implicit impact on us and our society. When we read them since our childhood we tend to become like that.
When boys read Ramayana they expect wife will support without asking. When girls read Ramaya they believe they have to tolerate everything.
You don’t trust? you can see a striking difference in behavior towards women by RSS members who follow Lord Rama and by typical bengali who worship Durga MOM.
Trust me our culture, mythology, society has impact.
And these has to be reviewed as we progress.
Sweetheart
Read my previous comment to which you’ve replied me here
Take help from an elder to understand… Honestly it wasn’t very difficult to understand so any elder would do
I’m sure you’ll find the answer you’re seeking for in this comment…
And the bottom line
If you think gods are good be like them
If you think they’re bad don’t be like them
I’ve men in my family who are very religious but not at all cheap like Vanraj
So I ain’t taking your justification as a valid one
Vanraj is cheap
People like him are cheap
Baa is cheap
More evil than they are cheap
And if you just wanna create a religious fight over here then I’m officially ignoring you from now
Bye
Wwooww that comparison is so f**king absurd ..now dont confuse me with an offended hindu but her3 are some clarifications .. vanraj disregarded his wife cheated on her ..and mahadev went on to a samadhi when devi sati set herself on fire ..for hundreds of years he waited for her to come back.. the only problem with vanraj is his attitude towards anupama else he is a god son to an extent a good father so the only problem is regarding anupama whereas mahadev was at his best when it comes to maa durga .. he never did anything wrong to her ever ..he beheaded ganesh yes is his anger wring yes nht did he know he was his own son no .. our tridev have some traits brahma is supposed to be the one that spreads knowledge..vishnu the peacemaker..and shiv the destroyer who paves way for new beginnings .. they would act as per their roles .. coming to kaamdev ..mahadev had gone on a samadhi as a widower amd u know ehat kaamdev is supposed to be associated with ..disturbing someone from dhyaan ..one has to face the wrath..ans lord vishnu as well as kaamdev were well aware of it .. so its a request atleast make some valid comparison because women keep Monday fast ( which I dont believe in ) to get a husband like mahadev who was loyal to his wife only in the other hand u know what vanraj has done the only place he failed is as a husband and comparing that jerk with mahadev ..so not done .. not to forget vanraj is a male chauvinistic pig .. in the other hand ardhanareshvar ..i need not say more
@Subha also You Should Study the whole story.
Kama means Lust
If You are Focusing on something very important and lust overpowers your brain, what you should do??
Tell me
You should burn it so that you not distracted.
Exactly same was Kamadev.. Nothing but God of lust, ambition, fear.
The story gives a Life Lesson
God your intent is so sos right but the comparisons are so messed up i cant even ..
And i see how much u love correcting gods ..how about the submissive behaviora sita had.. that is ehat we have been hating about anupama right .. being submissive.. what eas the need for maa sita to go for vanvaas lord ram didn’t ask her to.. because it was her decision..and rule 101 of feminism respect her decision. Whether she wsnts to fast or not hwr decision Whether she decides to wear a Mangalsutra or not her decision likewise whther she wants to go for vavaas or stay in ayodhya her decision . U cant say that ram should have disregarded his fathers vachan the father that gave him this life just to be with his wife.. why did sita maa not stand up to her rights..why was there a need for lord ram to protect her ..when u said that aren’t u automatically putting maa sita in a weak position..she is the same lady who picked up mahadev’s dhanush with one hand ..she doesn’t need no man to protect her ..she was a princess she didn’t need any man to protect her rights
. So things are complex okay .. just like vanraj is able to walk all over anu cause she let him do so for years who js at fault … mythology is old time changes things change.. as far as marrying multiple women is concerned its completely wrong .. so is marrying multiple men bht draupadi did it no ..she had a choice she could walk out on arjun but she didn’t.. so anyway hope u get the jist ..
And one last correction. As far as lack of understanding is concerned..what was the need to devi sati to set herself on fire when hwr husband was insulted by her father.. she could just walk out ..rather she set herself on fire not thinking about that same husband ..she set herself on fire without thinking of consequences amd to put it in your way who suffered my mahadev .. see that us how it is.. things happened the wY they were supposed to happen..thats what is called vidhi ka vidhaan ..and either dont analyse or analyse impartially .. i would say its best not to over analyze
It’s Devi sati’s choice. She became Mahaan. And after that People start expecting all the bahus should try to be that level Mahaan.
And this mahaan syndrome is the whole problem in the society.. who do u blame now devi sati for setting the wrong example.. or people for havinf wrong expectations or women who dont speak against these wrong expectations.. its definitely the last 2 and not the first one ..likewise i was trying to explain her that u can’t be blaming it on god and if u are then do it impartially ..as far as choice iz concerned sir i have already spokem about respecting one’s choice.. but i dont think you got the context of my reply
@Neha
Problem is why you expect everyone to do what you have done.
This boundless Expectations for Women is the root cause.
Previously it was a male dominated society cause they were stronger and so all expectations were on women.
It’s Always Dominant over Recession and it will be cause thats why this is Kalyug.
Ya Neha i got the context. I know u have some clear ideas.
Why is baa not punished for her disobedience to husband. Where are her sanskar family peace rules .should not she obey her husband .That is her dharm isn’t it.Or are all the rules for Anupama only
Anybody get to know about Savita Prabhune Role in this serial. Is she really in this serial?
News are coming that she’ll join shortly and most probably can play Anuj’s aunt. However I’m glad Anu is moving out of Pagalkhana house. From exclusive pics shared by DKP’s hinted that Samar is also leaving and Anu didn’t stopped him this time. Because in inside home pic where Pakhi was crying one bag was kept on Anu’s side and one bag on Samar’s side. And in corridor pic both crossed dehleez of home holding bags while Nandu, Pakhi, Bapuji and Mama Buddy were crying standing at dehleez of home. Moreover Samar wasn’t crying like everyone. It’s good she didn’t asked him to get tortured in Pagalkhana house. I’m feeling bad for Anu’s other supporters who’ll have to bear those shameless Chaturmurti.
Chaturmurti😂
New Name
According to the Bengali version, Anuj’s Aunt will Dislike Anupama cause ofcourse not everyone cannot like Anupama, and her drama ends in one month and then she happily accept Anu when Anupama and Anuj proves to be Made for Each other❤️.
Thou via challenge, but Anupama and Anuj will give Couple goals because of the Aunt’s challenge
https://youtu.be/N3-eyGatJh8
Have you check this out??
Anupama ask Baa to shut her mouth.
Even Pakhi also supporting her..though sad as everyone is.
that great decision anupama bapuji vl suggest anu to get married vt anuj
No. He’ll not. Because he knows the consequences of getting married just for other’s sake. He very well knows love is required mutually from both sides. He’ll cryingly support her in moving out. Because in exclusive pics shared by DKP not just Anu but Samar was also leaving. Good. That Anu didn’t stopped him to get tortured. Just feeling bad for her other supporters who’ll have to bear those Chaturmurti.
I wish it will happend soon m so eagerly waiting to see anupama and anuj love story n m very much excited for that…
Vanraj calling Anu at 3 AM seriously? 🤦♂️
I still wonder why Vanraj married Anu. He should have adopted her.
I am glad that the time has finally come and Anu leaves the house.
The new character, the question is now: will she stay in the series or is it just a cameo role with twist and drama like the Dr. Advait track.
Precap-Talk to the hand, Baa, i love it. 👏🎉
Nice to see Anupama wearing nice clothes these days. Good for her. Shameless kavya. She spent in her own bedroom now complaining about another. Anuj dont say ur feelings now.Vanraj acting good but dialogues are very cheap. Pakhi ka ab Bakhi hain. Baa is hopeless
Read somewhere that anuj falling Ill is the beginning of him getting terminally ill ( cancer ) since twice he had dizziness.
I just hope that as in sreemoyee, they don’t bring this track here. Will never like to see Anuj in that state.
Hope the makers change the script
Just hope no. He fell ill because he’s having migraine which is common + he got drenched in rains too. That’s why fell ill. And Anu already battled cancer. So I don’t think they’ll repeat same illness with both leads
Fantastic she’s finally leaving that mad house. Now is the time they will all know her importance and value especially that old witch. Pakhi should move out also .
I just hope Anuj does not have any serious illness writers please . Anu deserves the best with him.
From where are you guys getting the news of Anuj’s illness?
I seriously hope that’s not true at all
Whilst browsing internet, found in few forums where it was mentioned about his illness resulting in death ( as show in sreemoyee ) and there were many comments that same should not be repeated in anupama as in sreemoyee.
In the latest episode of Sreemoyee, protagonist Shreemoyee’s happiness is short-lived. Rohit, who has been diagnosed with a terminal disease, starts feeling unwell. Rohit shares that he wanted to have some more days with Sreemoyee and enjoy life.2 september 2021
Please ooo, we love Anuj. Nothing should happen to him. I just love the way you are doing now. I love the new Anupama, I love Anuj so much, I love Samar from world go, I love Babuji like my doll, I love Kinjal baby. Oh, Nandini And uncle i remember say are also there.
Finally Anupama decides to take step to leave toxic shah house. Worth watching this show. Wow
Anuj character has married sreemoyee after detection of decease and is still alive. Just conducted pakhi characters marriage
Hi dear friend, I am Chinese may I know wat is Agnipariksha? What it means if someone ask for Agnipariksha? Thank you in advance for any reply🙏
Basically an exam to prove that you are pure.
Pure Impure here means you are pure if no man or woman interfered with your body.
Agni means Fire
Agni pariksha was given by Godess Sita to walk on Fire. She is so pure that even Fire couldn’t touch her.
She had to give this exam cause someone locally had doubted that Sita stayed with Ravan for months which Sita heard.
So Ram to give Justice to Sita maa and to make the local people regret their behavior, asked Sita to trust him and Walk on Fire.
Sita as Trusted Ram, walked on it and was totally Safe and sound.
Then everyone with folded hands bowed Mata Sita
Thank you so much Amar for your thorough explanation I aporeciate it very very much👍🙏😁
Appreciate*
a question
Whenever there is a problem in the series, the woman pays the bill.
she fasts,
turns around 108 (?) times in the temple,
is put in front of the door even its a little thing,
her right to speak is taken away,
she is asked to ignore her own family,
she has no right to answer her elders,
Everything she does after marriage is possible with permission.
she can’t get water from the kitchen without permission. …
arent there duties or rules applying to men?
i almost saw nothing men paid like the list above? is this correct in real?
***(after 400 episodes its crystal clear that the core of the problem isnt vanraj.
its baa who is hypocrite and who raised vanraj. baa’s biggest weapon in 25+ years is religion / tradition )
***in almost every problem they use religion or tradition to rule woman.
a person may think , is the religion DONT apply to men? or is religion / tradition on favour to men?
i think subha was after this topic.
It’s all wortless talk. No one needs to follow tradion forcefully be it man or a woman . If under pressure of such force then confront them and if that also doesn’t affect, leave ppeacefully
If also you follow any ritual Or Tradition, you should know the whole story… Whole significance.
As Simple As This.
A simple thing is being complicated.
@amar
”leave ppeacefully”
you will become divorcee. divorce loose nothing.
women loose everything, gets a hard life.
even this isnt balanced at the eyes of society
If you expect something then it’s your problem.
Everybody born and Dies empty handed.
So what you gonna say.
Yes if anyone snatches your rights you should fight.
Your rights your life. Nobody has the right to interfere with it.
@amar
I think you’re saying what you want it to be, not what it really is .
in rural. you loose everything and everybody.
RBI defines rural areas as those areas with a population of less than 49,000 (tier -3 to tier-6 cities). It is generally said that the rural areas house up to 70% of India’s population.
It’s their problem. None of business. If something happen with u or me we know what to do.
To those rural… We can just spread awareness.
If those Rural women want their right they have to STEP OUT AND TAKE IT on your own
That’s simple
It’s Thier Life. They have to tackle only.
We can do nothing.
All this texts are nothing but useless cause you know, I know what is right and what is wrong
History has it that women have been oppressed regardless of the religion they belong to .. u can’t deny that .. but who is the one doing it ..its the women that is doing jt ..like u said baa … sp how can u feel subha was right when she bkamed it all on gods and specifically male.. thats hypocritical.. ofcourse men have been oppressing women but women have turned out to be bigger demons in this by not supporting other women whether its their daughter or daughter in law
@neha
i dont feel subha was right on presentation
i feel she was right on intention.
to me , she tried to explain social issues with gods.
In my opinion, we should be careful when we talk about religion, we should pay attention to everyone’s sensitivity.
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”ofcourse men have been oppressing women but women have turned out to be bigger demons in this by not supporting other women whether its their daughter or daughter in law”
i agree.
i dont know any way to explain to elders this. 🙂
i think this is the breaking point.
Even Women also exploited men.
Women could also be destructive to the society in literal means.
There are many examples.
Don’t fell pity on women.
True. Even men are also victims. As I’ve seen this in my own house
@Neha, I had a friend, I have lost her contact now.
She has a baby girl. When she was pregnant with her second kid, she was forced by her husband to go for a gender test, when she opposed she was thrashed and went for the test with a swollen face.
You think women can support each other, when they cant support themselves?
We have a bad MIL when husband listens more to mother.
We have a bad DIL when husband listens more to wife.
Only men can resolve this issue if they will be understanding instead of biased.
she should file a complain.
One should be responsible for themselves first. Things will change when she will stand up.😗
With due respect to all, I think we all should focus only on commenting on the serial.
Everyone has his own ideology, beliefs, opinions etc. This debate will only create arguments hence we should now not carry forward this subject.
Seconded
i think you are right.
soooo, will vanraj go to the kitchen, after anupamaa lefts house ? 🙂
It’s his choice.
@Sudha, I am discussing Anupama only, why she is like this, why her society is like this and so on, and what we can do to make her life better.
@Amar, all the yugs are divine including kalyug.
As divine creations, its our duty to move towards perfection be united with that supreme soul by rectifying, rejuvenating ourselves.
As suggested by you I am staying true to myself without having any wrong influence over me.
Agree.
I read that new entrant would be Anupamaa mother as the current one has some other projects.
Makers know what it is: Abuja aunt or Anupamaa mum. But enough of drama now and enough of atyachaar on Anupamaa.
@Subha stop your blames on God
Get a clearer image yourself by studying every story in detail again.
Or else if I start my Questions, you will fall terribly.
This is not the Right place to debate over What Gods did, what womens face back then
Ek din chalta hai but Roz roz nhi.
Stop this or I will Start my Questions like u doing
@Amar, women are still facing till now, in the name tradition, religion.
Anupama portal is the right place to discuss this. As it is real.
If the admin blocks me then its fine.
Anyways why are you worried? What is the harm in discussing. We cant understand if we don’t analyze.
You can ask questions. We will have a clear picture what is going wrong in our society.
I don’t feel sorry when I brought GODs in our discussion, ours in a religious society. GODs are discussed daily, I am told daily about them as stories I have seen them in daily soaps.
And they have huge impact on our lives.
You yourself said As Sati immolate herself, others expected their Bahus like that.
I am saying as Sita followed Ram, everyone expect us to follow like her.
Incase of a failed love story ppl want to see us like Radha, she cant move on.
What we are hearing daily, its having impact. That’s why our society is like this.
I dare to break free and criticize as I am educated moreover independent.
But its not the case with all, even educated people don’t have right to think and say freely.
folks will threaten as you are doing.
If you think I am wrong, prove it. Why are you stopping the discussion.
It’s very different
You blamed Gods without knowing the reason
That’s irrevelant.
If you want to discuss about this serial, don’t get God’s into your Justification cause You half Knowledge about that.
You are saying like anything.
It’s not tolerable everyday.
First get a proper knowledge then come to comment.
And regarding to your Subject, It’s always Dominant over Recessive and it will be cause this is Kalyug.
If you want to live you have to fight
Fight for Peace.
@Sudha Brat Like you blamed gods and other males I can too have blamed females and Godess. There are blunders did by women and Goddess which you haven’t counted a single.
If I put those here would you be able to justify?
Will you Disagree if I can prove that women also dominate over men whether in swarg or Narak or many houses of Indians
*Subha not Sudha
You know what @Subha you are ungrateful cause so many people tried to make you understand in different ways but you are still on page 1.
You are pitying on Women for what they faced before.
You will sing bhajan of what Men did sins and not count on what helpful they did and also what Sins women did. Times when a woman dominated, exploited a man in different situations.
You know what
Nobody will talk to you from next day cause you are someone who don’t understand.
Speak less, read more. Read books.
I know u will not take this advice also.
So go to hell.
When I disagree dear Amar, we have bad DILs who ruin lives of in laws, abandon elders, torture step kids. When I said they don’t exist!
You have a simple question but you have stretched it in wrong direction. The direction where u lack clear knowledge or say Full knowledge. It’s Harrasing.
You have complicated things for yourself.
It’s Very simple that one Human nature is also exploitative ary whether it’s a plant or animal or Gender or Person or mass in front of that human.
We all Exploit. Intentionally or non intentionally. Less or more. eexploitation is not a subject. Subject is Overexploitation.
And what to talk to about it?
Yes Overexploitation is a sin. It’s upto you what you will do when you get to choose.
THATS IT.
Better Read Books regarding this.
So if we talk about analyzing i had analyzed on point to point basis but u did mot reply to that… in case u didn’t check please do check i hope i was able to clear some of the misinformation u had
Ignore bro ignore
There is no point anymore
Ya
I quit.
As A Man I am saying all this. Still no one see this. Still men will be judged as before.
Ungrateful Feminist.
World need men to think like you.
Keep it up 👏👏
this b*t*h Subha is a Muslim masquerading as a Hindu to criticize Sanatana Dharma based on her brainwahsed dumb jihadi version. If we all ignore her and not respond, this jihadi b*t*h will wear a trash bag over her head and go away to kill people elsewhere. SO LETS ALL STOP REPLYING TO THIS JIHADI b*t*h SUBHA @SUBHA
I wish it will happend soon m so eagerly waiting to see anupama and anuj love story n m very much excited for that…
Why is so much expected from Anupama? Is she a superwoman? Everyone talks in the Shah family but no one does much with a few exceptions of course. But all the time she gets impacted? It is unreal. That said, why do producers not provide a balanced view on Baa’s, Kaavya’s and Vanraj’s behaviors? They can mess up and be unfair yet no repercussions. Let’s see how the family functions without her in the house …
The issue at hand is good and bad . Ifa man terrorises a woman or vice versa it’s still condemnable gender does not come into this. When we condemn vanaraj we condemn baa as well. No point in bringing religion into this. What our gods did or not is not known or seen by any of us so let’s leave it at that.
Any attempt to find reasons to justify evil characters like vanaraj or baa is extremely condemnable.
@SUBHA Whoever owns this website, please block this b*t*h Subha on here! She is a Muslim masquerading as a Hindu with the name to constantly criticize Sanatana Dharma with her brainwashed jihadi nonsense. She is dumb, stupid, brianwashed, ignorant and basically a typical brainwashed religious converter. For once, she should try to criticize Mohammed for marrying a 8 year old little girl. Even better, do it in her homeland Saudi Arabia and get stoned to death in the town’s market place. This b*t*h don’t know anything, is trained to interpret non-muslim stuff wrongly to make people convert. This b*t*h is nothing but a brainwashed loser.
Chill you are taking it with non relatable justifications.
@AJ – the sentence you wrote does not make any sense whatsoever lol. Did you just string some random cool sounding words together? Did you see that b*t*h Subha’s comments on here? She is the one bringing up misinterpreted brainwash stuff about Hinduism in all her comments. Wake up and look at her comments! When I scrolled through I saw her replying to one of her kind with “ameen” then I realized that she is just a Muslim jihadi terrorist masquerading here as a Hindu with that name and constantly spouting nonsense against Hinduism. If we chill like your dumb suggestion, we will be the next Malaysia, next Afghanistan, next Bangladesh, next “all the converted African muslim countries”. It is time to not chill but to wake up and not be so lazy.
Just a thought.
In the car she says that there is a hero who hears strange voice and anuj says, they both die to which anu says yes one outside and one inside the car.
Hope this is not the climax of this serial
Anuj Kapadia is too good. What an actor Gaurav Khanna is .. amazing
Wow wow wow Anupama stood up to her ex-husband and ex-mother-in-law, I’m so happy for her, these 2 will pay big time for what they have done to her for 25yrs.
Anuj is such a Lover boy. Exactly like my husband. After 20 years of our relationship and 15 years of marriage still considers me above everyone and everything. Anuj will definitely keep his wife so happy. He will make her arrogant in love in a positive way.
I am not convinced with your reasoning and logic in dismissing lord Siva to that level. A picture of Siva Parivar is a ‘must have’ in every family as it tells us how to live together, respecting the differences.
However, Instead of attacking Subha, can some one here explain her why her thinking and interpretation is not well informed? I would appreciate if anyone has patience and knowledge to explain why you think you don’t agree with her without attaching her?
I tried explaining her on every point she raised but she is adamant…