Anupama 29th October 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anu returns home from her business trip. Vanraj waiting for her near door remembers her leaving home in a sari and returning in a shwalwar kameez. She silently walks in. Nandini asks how was temple darshan. Vanraj says not darshan, she should ask how was her raas leela/romance. Anu angrily shouts Mr. Shah. Baa shouts back at Anu. Samar and Prachi request them not to shout at mummy. Vanraj warns them not to interfere and says he will not listen to Anu’s explanation. Anu says she is tired of explanation and explains whole incident. Baa asks why is her clothes changed. Anu says its that boy’s mother’s clothes and she needs to return them, Anuj got high fever last night. Vanraj says his body must be burning, so she was comforting him alone in a room at 3 a.m. Anu warns him to behave in front of her daughter and daughter-in-laws. Vanraj asks she shouldn’t say she was not in a room with him. Anu says she was and was taking care of ill Anuj. Kavya shows Anuj and Anu’s dancing video with youngsters. Baa yells if she is not ashamed to lie. Anu says she is not and there must be video of Anuj stumbling and falling down after that. Vanraj asks if his children’s mother is not ashamed of falling in everyone’s eyes. She asks if her children’s father falling in her eyes, he stooped too low and showed his cheapness. Baa says when she has entered a black room, her clothes would have smeared black. Anu says one whose intentions are clean cannot smear their clothes black. All 3 continue to humiliate her and call her characterless. Samar warns them to dare not call his mother characterless. Toshu backs Vanraj and says his mother is characterless. Samar holds Toshu’s collar, and their fight starts. Nandini and Pakhi stop them. Kavya asks Vanraj to control them. Vanraj asks how can he when their mother is characterless. Baa says she made a sin. Anu says a burden of sin is very heavy, she didn’t do any sin and Baa knowing her well shouldn’t have alleged her character. Vanraj continues. Anu warns to stop or else. He asks what will she do.
Anuj in his house gets concerned for Anu and tells GK that a house where issues are created unnecessarily will create a big drama, Anu has to give agni pariksha again and he feels something wrong will happen this time. Back at Shah house, Anu asks Vanraj to let it go. Vanraj says why should he when she is not. Baa asks what is going on between her and Anuj. Anu asks why is she asking when she doesn’t want to trust her, she told her 100 times that she and Anuj are just friends, but Baa wants to continue questioning until she hears what she wants so. Vanraj asks to speak to her. Anu says she doesn’t want to talk to him, even she will tell him one last time that she and Anuj are only friends, he can believe her or go to hell. She then starts crying vigorously. Vanraj asks not to cry after doing heinous act. Baa continues calling her characterless. Samar asks when she didn’t for 26 years, then why now. Baa says Anu’s character has changed seeing Anuj’s wealth. Anu says she feels she was staying with strangers for 26 years.
Mamaji warns Baa to stop her cheap talks in jijaji’s absence, she may apply perfume for a pleasant smell, but Anu’s character spreads pleasant smell. Baa warns him to shut up. Kavya starts next. Anu warns her to shut up. Vanraj shouts she has to respect Baa. Anu says enough of giving respect, they are questioning her character after doing so much for them, enough now and this is her last tears. Vanraj says she has to cry until she gives agni pariksha. Anu asks who is he to seek agni pariksha as its given to Ram and not Ravan. Baa shouts Anupamaaaa. Anu signals her hand to stop and says even a stone breaks down with continuous hammering, she is a human though; she was afraid that a day will come when she will say she cannot tolerate anymore, today is that day; Draupadi was humiliated in a sabha, she was humiliated in front of her children; this house will not be same after so much happened, so she will leave this house. Kavya says she got a chance to shift with Anuj, shall she call Anuj to pick her up, will they have marriage first or honeymoon like they already did, etc. Anu says Kavya slept with a married man in this house on her bed already and is questioning her. She tells Baa that she should have questioned her son and bahu who did all that in real. Toshu tries to support Vanraj. Anu warns him to shut up or else she will slap him and he will fall in his pent house, now its time to leave this house with whatever precious this house has. Kavya says she will not get any jewelry or money. Anu says one who thinks jewelry and money is precious is the most poor person on earth, she will take away her self-respect and devotion.
Precap: Anu leaves Shah house after her heavy dialogues.
Update Credit to: MA
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Well, at last she has left the hell. Glad Anupaama is leaving the house, I hope to see her grow in her business, in her self esteem & in her confidence. The track is going in right direction. Happy for the new strength & courage given to Anupaama.
LOL @Pri, @AJ, I am noting that, Anupama makers are also ill informed when she says, Agni pariksha is to be given to Ram, not to Ravan.
these folks also missed that there was no agni pariksha as such, it was a trick to protect Maa Sita.
She how ill informed we are! Our dear Modiji should make efforts to standardize these. Or else readers like me are baffled, wrong trend setters and wrongly accused of mental disorder.
And during Ravan dahan episode also she was grieving for Maa Sita like me, my granny.
please don’t accuse me of bringing religion into entertainment portal as Anupama herself is bringing it as it is integral part of our lives.
I am sorry @Metin.
You are always correct and you correctly predicted discussing religion will offend many.
So you are dragged unnecessarily.
My sincere apologies.
Wow! All I can say is just WOW! Anupama stood her ground and sent all those toxic hypocrites,am glad she is leaving that disgusting house and carrying her self respect.
Hmm. Tomorrow She will leave while Samar will accompany her to her mother’s old house.
Anupama will stay at her dear mother’s house until she buys a house for herself.
S finally.
Anupama has tolerated more.
Ur rocking. Anupama, Anuj friends hip. Work commitments super.
Devika s rocking too
Yeah Amar ans So Nandini follows
But that pakhi will do drama and may be interrupt
finally!!!
Vanraj is a typical toxic male, who does not see the value in something unless he gains from it. Vanraj is living in a patriarchal society and family where he believes that because he is the man of the house and the breadwinner he believes that he has the right to do whatever he wants. Ba allowed this toxicity, allowing her son to believe that he is better than Anupama, and Vanraj is able to treat Anupama like a slave. Ba and Vanraj have seen the potential in Anupama, but due to the fact they live in such dire, and such a delusional state believing that they are above all and believe to be on top of the hierarchy. Due to their delusional beliefs they have tarnished their own reputation and blamed it on their scapegoat who has had enough of their attitude. Vanraj was always a grey character, yes he purposely cheated on Anupama, this happened due to him believing that Anupama was less than him, but thinks that Kavya is his perfect match. This is not an excuse but it gives us an insight on how he thinks. When Ba asked why Vanraj cheated he said that Ba always made him (Vanraj) feel that Anupama is less than him or that Anupama is not worthy of Vanraj. Yes, Anupama did make Vanraj feel like a god, but do not forget that Anupama was young and innocent, which made it easier for Vanraj and Ba to manipulate her (Anupama). But, like I was saying, Vanraj was a grey character and his actions happened due to Ba’s upbringing. Ba has a patriarchal mindset, where the men are superior to the others. Not only that, she believes that the elders know better, that a bahu is always a bahu, and should be treated as a maid and nothing more than that. Ba allowed toxicity towards Anupama whether its from Vanraj, Paritosh, or herself. Ba believed that her son was everything and even after Vanraj cheated, Ba wanted Anupama to fix everything. Even when Anupama found out about the affair Vanraj did not apologize, instead he back down, the reason for this is because Ba never taught Vanraj actually how to say sorry, and how to fix things, IT ALWAYS HAD TO BE THE WOMAN THAT NEEDED TO FIX THINGS! Another reason why it is kind of all of a fault is that he allowed Vanraj to cheat, marry his mistress, and ruin Anupama’s character. Ba always stood by Vanraj, even telling Anupama to not get into their family drama at Samar’s engagement after the divorce. Ba never considered Anupama as her own, she only saw Anupama as a maid that will do everything that she and her son request. Vanraj is a result of such a toxic mindset that even after Babuji tells him that he (Vanraj) is in the wrong, Vanraj still can not see the light. Vanraj is too far down the rabbit hole, and he will never get out of it due to his mother’s toxic mindset and delusions. Vanraj’s behaviour directly correlates to Ba, and Paritosh’s behaviour directly correlates to Vannraj, creating this chain of toxic mindsets.
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Kavya keeps forgetting that she was the mistress and still and forever be the mistress. Yes she may be married to the man she was having an affair with, but here is the thing once a mistress will always stay a mistress. Do not forget that whenever this topic comes up Kavya is always reminded that she was there second, and that she was the mistress. Kavya never respected her new husband, her ex husband and her new family due to the toxic mindset she has. Vanraj, Kavya, Ba, Paritosh are going to get the hardest part of their life while Anupama continues to grow.
Exactly. Having a son like paritosh is a curse.. and this kavya should chnage her name to ghajni.. how does she forget her extra marital affair with her v .. besides they are questioning anupama for allegedly doing something as a bachelor which they had done while being married to other people.. smh
I feel like the side characters are gonna be toxic like Paritosh. But I’m more focused on Kavya, ba and Vanraj due to the fact they can never see their own faults and o my sees everyone else’s. While Paritosh gets it from ba and Vanraj.
@ Mystery, Very well put. It comes down to the people who are feeding Vanraj’s delusions because the delusions get reinforced continuously. So, finally Anupama takes the stand. It is clear that her sacrifices and all her good deeds have no value in that house. Time to move and get rid of the unnecessary baggage feeding off her, and make a new path considering that she has good friends and great ideas for her ongoing project.
Vanraj had needs and if his needs are not meet he gets mad, that’s the same thing with ba so they kind of share this toxic mindset.
@Mystery is back.
Are you in a long practice of writting Essays or Article/Reports,etc?.. Cause you write so well. Starting line… finishing statement.. perfectly arranged!
@Subha I hope you get your answer from the above comments.
Yeah I had school and I am getting ready for Diwali so I have been crazy busy. Had time today so I thought I would wright my opinion today. But I kept it short. And thank you so much!
@Mystery . You are back with a Bang . Your analysis is again on point
Thank you!
@ Mystery. Was missing your well put analysis.
Welcome and do update regu
I’ll try to. Because if I am busy or go to sleep then I won’t do it. But thank you.
Today’s episode was so good. Anupama was on fire. Brilliant performance, her voice variations, expressions was mind blowing.
Rupali as Anupama and Gaurav as Anuj are rockstar and best performers.
Their performances were great. The way they spoke and everything was amazing to see.
@Amar, I have never disagreed with anyone. I have never supported Vanraj, Never.
In fact I have never supported Anupama as well.
All I did that I tried to analyze why Vanraj is like this and why Anupama is like this.
patriarchal mindset is not bad , patriarchal society is not bad, and our patriarchal mythology is not bad.
But it is not able to protect our rights.
We are overexploited. Mata Sita did the same thing, dejected she went to Mother earth and Anupama will leave to her mother’s house.
You give me inner meaning, outer meaning, full knowledge. But All I can see is my MOM’s pain!
And while writing this I am crying as I cried when my granny said Mata Sita pleaded mother earth to take her back. As I cried while watching Anupama today.
Welcome back Mystery, I missed you!
Thank you! I missed y’all too!
Your analysis on this is all so true. We await to see more, ans I’m so glad that Anu has finally decided what we all wanted her to do. The Shah family will experience how shall minded they are after all this. I bet she will go to her Mom’s place. I really pity Toshu in all this.
@Neha. Even Devis can be blamed? I took some time to think!
If any of my dear one would be going to forest, I will naturally follow out of my concern, out of my love. I am not wrong, Maa Sita is not wrong.
What went wrong is Lord Rama didn’t stand for her even after her sacrifices.
And what baffled me here that instead of understanding Maa Sita’s plea, instead of rejecting Agnipariksha, people made it society norm.
Mata Sati, might be wrong but I am not sure, what I would have done if I would have got that violent rejection from my dad for my groom selection. she immolated herself out of frustration.
Her situation was like that. why it became society norm?
Coming women standing for themselves?
Why I didn’t file a police complaint when my friend went through the gender test?
I know I will be thrashed as well before going there.
@Metin this is not breaking point, we cant make understand our elders when we have not understood.
I am glad that you understand that is is our society issue instead of any individual issue.
But after seeing the amount of hatred I got, you can safely reject that you have ever said that I am sane. I normally face this issue, even at home!
Subha you need a mental checkup done. First of all know complete story. Sita maa went through Agnipariksha because real Sita maa was kept safe with Agnidev. It was Chhaya Sita who was abducted. Ravan can never touch Lakshmi Ji. And about Sita Maa going to forest it was destined due to curse on Vishnu ji that he and his wife have to bear the pain of separation in every birth. Don’t comment without knowing complete truth. Because incomplete truth is dangerous to everyone’s health. And better read all scriptures ved, puran, Ramayan, bhagwat carefully then comment. When you’ll read it carefully your thinking will change instead of just watching shows like Radhakrishn and Ram Siya Ke Luv Kush. They showed complete nonsense and lie
So u are basically saying that u wont stand up for your rights and expect othets to do that .. its your battle honey u have to show the courage to fight and then only will u get support from others..if u cant show the courage to fight your battle better not expect others to do it either.. there are no free lunches in this world .. and your whole fundamental is wrong.. because by making the statements u did about sita maata u indirectly advocated submissive attitude that women possess .. sita maa didn’t need to go back to mither earth if at all it was against her wish but she did at jer own will. N u need to respect that
. And if hypothetical it was against her wish then kts her who needs to oppose it amd then will u get tbe right to question other men for not supporting her .. taking decisions on her behalf too means oppression..please understand that .. u really have a very myopic view of feminism
@Pri, why she went back to mother earth, as Anupama is leaving now?
Why she didn’t go with Lord Rama to rule her hypocrite citizens.
Why she had to please them and do all these drama?
As I said it was all destined. Due to Shukracharya’s father, Bhrigu Rishi’s curse it was destined that once separated Lakshmi Narayan will unite in Baikunth. Like Sita Ram united in heaven. Radharani, Rukmini Maa and Krishn Ji united in Baikunth. Similarly it was destined to Shiv Ji beheading Ganesh ji because he was destined to have Shiv Ji’s bhakt head. And by abusing male gods you were abusing your own father. Your name means Radha. So respect your name and don’t do shitty comments here. Shiv Ji gave boons because demons were destined to slayen by Vishnu Ji and Durga Maa and Shiv Ji’s boons played cupid in it. Similarly Ram Ji’s vanvas was destined so that Ravan could be slayed. And Manthara’s instigation and Kaikeyi getting instigated played cupid in it. No one was selfish. So please read scriptures calmly and carefully. And this platform is meant for our views on show not on Bhagwan. They did so many sacrifices for earthly people. And don’t compare gods with these cheap characters. Understand. Your talks give me vibes that either you’re a school going kid who understands nothing or you need a mental checkup done. And stop commenting this shit here. Understand.
@pri 👏👏👏👏 well explained
@Pri, well said its all destined, but sadly it became our society standard our society’s destiny.
You have any documentation, how she felt while pleading to her mother earth? my granny said she was dejected and accused Lord Rama for violating her rights.
I doubt those are true, Chaya Sita must have gone back to mother earth, Original Sita must be enjoying with Lord Rama. I am stupid fool who is crying Maa Maa here.
Hey know my dad says Uttara Kanda was not part of Original Valmiki Ramayan.
It was added by the corrupt peoples, for various reasons, to opress women I guess.
Ya I knew Uttar Kand is not part of original Ramayan. Because it’s the life of his twin sons. But your grandmother saying that Sita Maa accused Ram ji was wrong. Because I read Ramayan and Pauranik Gathaen since childhood with my dadiji. Used to listen stories from her. She used to tell me stories till the time she breathed her last 2 years back. So read every scriptures carefully from any source you get. From book form, internet, wikipedia etc. And don’t comment against gods here. Because they’re our idol and beliefs. Like for me Durga Maa and Krishn Ji are my bold. Remain bold and speak truth because lie always hurts.
Your Granny also got wrong information like you.
Mata Sita believe in karm. After reuniting Luv Kush with Ram, getting her sons right and getting all the problems solved, no task was left for her on Earth. So she felt that it better to leave this Earth in the way she came.
Everyone including Ram begged to stay with them, but she believed in Love and not Moh, so denied and went down.
Soon after few years, when Luv Kush success the Throne, Ram and his Brothers along with his bhakts, all went to samadhi on a mass wide leaving the Earth. The only Victim was Shri Hanuman. He didn’t gone with them cause he had taken an Oath to spread Devotion
@Subha
Your Granny also got wrong information like you.
Mata Sita believe in karm. After reuniting Luv Kush with Ram, getting her sons right and getting all the problems solved, no task was left for her on Earth. So she felt that it better to leave this Earth in the way she came.
Everyone including Ram begged to stay with them, but she believed in Love and not Moh, so denied and went down.
Soon after few years, when Luv Kush success the Throne, Ram and his Brothers along with his bhakts, all went to samadhi on a mass wide leaving the Earth. The only Victim was Shri Hanuman. He didn’t gone with them cause he had taken an Oath to spread Devotion.
This teaches Everyone on Earth has to die after completing his/her work.
And like Pri Said, don’t say those things in which u have half or no knowledge
@AJ, @Pri, I am less agitated now, Thank you! I am sure me and my granny, Radhakrishn and Ram Siya Ke Luv Kush serial makers must be ill informed as you said. We don’t have full knowledge.
As I was demanding earlier, why cant we make some efforts to standardize these revise these as we progress?
By doing this we can get rid of those wrong trend setters to some extent! Though I am not sure about it as cunning ppl can mend it as they wish.
And confusion and agitation of followers and readers like me will be less.
Till now I say Lord Rama is wrong and he didn’t protect his wife and kids rights by sending them to jungle when a washerman suspected.
He was wrong to some extent when he agreed to step mother’s greed. In real life we will not do like that right.
If you have reason please explain and if I have doubts I will surely ask.
But I love and respect the fact the Maa Sita was protected by Agni and Chaya Sita went to Ravana.
I have a soft corner for Lord Ram now. Jay Sita Maa, My condition is Sudama, I am hesitant to say Jay SiyaRam as I believed Lord Rama was the most pain full for Maa Sita. But I will be more than happy to change my view if I get valid explanation.
@Neha, I fully, totally , whole heartedly agree dear.
I say this always, it our responsibility to be strong and independent physically, mentally, emotionally, financially and spiritually else we are bound to be exploited.
And its basically responsibility of Parents to make you that eligible.
But here in India parents support female foeticide, girls don’t have education, forget about independence and empowerment. And whose impact this is? why our society is like this?
Mostly I see its the impact of religion and tradition. And as AJ,Pri, Amar says most of us are ill informed, wrong expectations and traditions are set.
Cant we revisit them, revise them to have a better impact?
Current scenario is whoever is powerful can evade society rules, society cant do anything.
But weak ones get trapped and get exploited in the name of tradition.
Anupama has Anuj to escape… But sincerely I have seen many getting stuck in bad marriage along with kids or become miserable as a widow.
If that is the case women have been given the backseat in every religion..literally every religion..besides learn to differentiate religion from tradition.. because religion is waht god taught us and tradition is ehat we made out from it .. besides as far as nit educating girls is concerned.. only a lunatic would say religion is to be blamed our religion has rather advicated educating girls .. who do hindus worship its devi saraswati ..a female is considered the godess of knowledge.. devi laxmi is concerned to be the one to bring prosperity.. likewise its maa durga that signifies strength.. who is that god that is worshipped by all gods its adishakti even the tridev brahma vishnu amd mahesh worship her and she worships none cause she is the ultimate truth and she the most powerful.. so idk how has religion git anything to do with it ..yes ehat man has made it that is tradition. For eg u would see a person observing navratri fast worship maa durga cause that is ehat our religion teaches bjt at the same time beat his wife maybe ..why . Is ut written anywhere in geeta that its okay to beat your wife no ..noe this is social norm ..so learn to differentiate
Weak will always suffer.
That’s the fuking Rule to live a life on the Earth.
You have to strong and patient to be successful and stronger than before.
Can’t u understand it’s Kalyug.
Even in Genetics also, In case of Heterogeneous condition, the character which is Dominant (superior) is expressed only and the character which the Recessive one holds is suppressed but both of them exists.
Same our society is also Heterogeneous i.e mix of everything.
Also like Humans are the best creation of God, they are currently dominating the whole Earth cause they are the most intelligent creature.
So Humans are strongest creature in that sense.
In a Class, always a failure only struggles for 1-1 marks to pass and not the Topper one.
You have to Fight for Yourself to live in this world. This is what Kalyug is.
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@Neha, well said, agree, accepted, our religion says our devis are storage of knowledge, wealth, power. Still they don’t lead they follow, suggest and support.
That is what is expected form us. Karyesu dashi, Karnesu Mantri, bhojesu mata, Sailesu Rambha!
Our knowledge, power and wealth support, never invent, in real life also.
Bro why is there are war going on here.
1.Who the hell is that characterless lusty buddha and home-wrecker mistress turnes SECOND WIFE questioning . They themselves slept when they were “married” to someone else so the hell gave them that right to question others character??????When she is not even his wife
2.Trashu is giving me RaVanraj vibes . I am telling what Rakhi said is absolute true . His father is egoistic and lusty . The day is not sooner when he himself will do an affair and will give his fathers example to be safe
3.Lusty Ravanraj , lusty Kaavya , Trashu and Putana baa deserve to rot in hell . Pls makers show a track where kaavya and Ravanraj throw Putana baa to old-age home , Kaavya and RaVanraj should divorce , Kaavya in mental aslyum and Ravanraj should be all alone . Also Kinjal should leave Trashu
I feel to stop watching todays ep . Todays ep will be pure torture . I will watch tomorrows ep when she will leave that ungrateful and toxic house
Yess while seeing that episode I started crying and now I am having a bad headache ☹️😂
Even I thought that but relectantly watched rupali really rocked. What a performer she’s. Sudhanshu looked like amateur madalsa a child. Rupali is a firehouse
Nhi yrr , today’s episode was lit…. I was clapping on Anupama’s befitting replies . Awesome episode 👌👌👌👌
@R Shankar: Rupali Maam is always rocking
@Sunshine :I saw her savage replies part only . But the rest ep will make me cry .
@Mystery – you hit it on the nail – it is the culture and this is much better than what the original story of Shreemoyee is – Anuj is financially capable and will be able to support Anupama – we have a society which prays to the goddess yet treats women like shit because the workload at home is to be done by bahu – so all want to live in hotel style and no one cleans – kinjal had a big problem just making rotis, kavya is never cooking just serving and pakhi who looks the older part of teenager just learnt to make cake – she should have done so many years ago – what is this cold coffee that they all talk about (sorry Indian but not from India)
I believe it is the toxic culture, but I believe there will be change in the show the moment Anupama leaves the house. Also thank you .
Well your comment also shows the mindset and mentality of Indian society.. taht just cz she is a girl she should know how to cook?? why the hell can’t men cook? don’t they have hands? kr they don’t eyes or brains to understand things?? I’m sure they have all these things.. so stop commenting this bullshit of yours regarding cooking and all ..
Not only kavya, kinjal and pakhi but also bapuji, mama, vanraj and samar can’t handle kitchen or daily chores. So only baa is left and she will have to do all the work by herself 🤣
Wait why only Kinjal Pakhi and kavya even vanraj Toshu Samar didn’t do any work at home or cooking and all stuff. They didn’t even serve food. Why don’t you mention that.
@Prem, well said in India no one want to do unpaid lobour/house/kid’s work. Its only Bahu who has to do it. But a days Bahus are also like Kavya, who can make Baa dance;-)
Yes yes yes, let Vanraj, Bapuji(less work), Toshu do house work. Samar is going with Anupama and he always does house work also.
In my native men don’t enter kitchen, don’t hold kids.
Yes yes yes please makers let them do.
The men in the house can’t do anything either!
Women aren’t kitchen and household appliances…It is good if they know how to cook but still they shouldn’t have the burden of feeding 7-8 people 3-4 times a day. If family want good food on the table they should all equally contribute into kitchen.
Now this is what I’m talking about. Finally apt reply to all the idiots in the house and finally moving out!
This episode as frustrating as it was listening to team selfish loser the more I enjoyed listening to anupama’s apt reply to each of them.. the only thing missing was watching anupama actually slap toshu so hard that he reaches the pent house 😂😂
Cheers to new and brave beginnings and hopefully a super progressive story line!
Vanraj being the role model, what else one can expect from Toshu. Toshu is an a big example of what happens when a husband do not respect his wife, how children take their mother for granted because they see their mothers from the eyes of their hero.
I don’t think it applies to all, in my family my mother’s son is just like toshu but she still supports him and my dad is more worst than vanraj, but still she supports him. I’m more like Samar but I don’t get anything, I understand her sacrifices and respect it but she will never take a stand for me
I’m loving the fact that She’s finally moving really wanted this 🙂 Now I just want Vanraj , Baa, Kavya and Toshu to have it so hard after she moves out . Go Anupamaa go your new beginning your new life awaits you.
Ohh god! This is too much yrr 😏😠no one can tolerate this much humiliation. I just feel like killing this baa vanraj Toshi and kavya🔪🔪🔪good desicion Anupama👏👏
Really these vanraj baa and kavya are really evil characters . Any justifying these is condemnable and shameful
People like them exist and they would maximize their position as long as they can and the other person does not fight back. But not everyone (specially when you are a wife and mother) can fight back, that is the reality. Anupama shows the life of a very strong person. However, ask how many bahus have such a life and how much they can do to change their life? What is more of a tragedy is that the women (like Baa and Kaavya) add to the problems rather than help them because maybe they are not strong enough to change themselves ..
They are really going to repent
Baa permenant serve the will go
Vanraj won’t know where is Anupama and what is she doing with Anuj and can’t control he will go mad and as it is he is a looser, Anuj will buy the kharkhana cutting the loan and throw vanraj outside
Financial problems as rishi will not support. Ki jal will leave the house when she hears this. Samar and pakhi are already gone and babuji will ask rent from vanraj for staying there….////// DOOM STaRTS
They are really going to repent
Baa s permanent servent will go
Vanraj won’t know where is Anupama and what is she doing with Anuj and will go restless and mad and can’t control he will go mad and as it is he is a looser, Anuj will buy the kharkhana cutting the loan and throw vanraj outside
Financial problems as toshu will not support. Kinjal will leave the house when she hears this. Samar and pakhi are already gone and babuji will ask rent from vanraj for staying there….////// DOOM STaRTS
Kavya won’t get job any where and naa will turn naukrani with pride
There are sons like Toshu in real life too.
Hope he gets punished badly by Karma for being so horrible to his mother .
Anupama finally stands for her self-respect… any woman shouldn’t tolerate anything that harms her self respect or tarnishes her image.. respect is earned not demanded based on relations or age…
Firstly, Vanraj has no rights over Anupama to question her.. to top it all he keeps exaggerating the topic only because he thinks he owns her even after divorce.. Kavya, proved that she’s a material woman .. she never questioned her V as to y was he worried for his ex-wife & stayed up all night.. or even called her at 3am?
Baa, surely isn’t a good woman or mother.. she expects Anupama to respect & obey Vanraj even after divorce whereas she herself dominates her husband..
Anupama has set an example (though, very late but better late than never) of owning herself, her self respect her pride… she unknowingly gave courage to Nandini & Pakhi to not blindly give themselves up for anyone who doesn’t respect them.. relationships r built on trust, respect, understanding, security & love … not on being available on needs..
We women need to take stand & not sacrifice & compromise in the name of family..
one needs to respect self first to get others to respect you…
It’s simple, when u don’t take a stand for ur own self y would anybody else do.. whereas in Anupama’s case she was young & 2 decades ago women weren’t that courageous & independent as today, so she was exploited to the maximum.. her sacrifices where made to believe as her duty.. and y cooking or household chores r always in question? Pakhi doesn’t know to cook is absolutely fine.. so does toshu & Samar.. it was good to watch pakhi in favour of Anupama …
Well, I’m more excited to watch Anupama now…
Very nasty thoughts by Vanraj, baa and Kavya. Kavya has no rights whatsoever to talk to Anupamaa. Vanraj and baa I have no comments, but I get very angry on Kavya, she is an perfect example of educated illterate, mannerless, disgusting female.
hi,is caste system part of hinduism or are they seperate?
When Ego with Pride hits sky, people starts declassify the level of works, the level of living standards.
Like a businessman is a upper class job and Cobbler is lowest class job. This kind of negative thinking led to Caste System development.
Caste System is not a part of Hinduism.
@AJ
Brahmins?
Brahmins were the richest those days so they were the highest class. That’s why only Brahmins can touch gods, can be priest, can do Yagyas, etc
@Amar @AJ
1-can we criticize the caste system with peace of mind?
2-the richest declared themselves intermediaries for God,right?
Like everyone is classified to respective works in an Office, here also same Brahmins got the incharage of become priest and help everyone as INTERMEDIARIES.
this hand thing , mostly with ”bus” sound…
what is exact meaning of it?
Means Shut you Ass
@Metin it means ‘enough’ please be quiet as I’m not listening anymore (talk to the hand).
Baa deserved that response as Anu has been respectful and was still being verbally abused.
It means stop your nonsense.
what is common output in indian society, when younger doesnt listen elder one?
You should Pay Respect to elders, you should be Obedient. These are basic Disciplines.
is it inevitable, dil cuts the ties with her original family? (common situation)
Dil never cuts the ties while making a new tie with another family. Only if original family include People like Baa,Kavya,Toshu and Vanraj then only it’s better to cut ties.
Tell me do you break freindship with your previous friends while making some new friends?
@AJ
but the original family has zero interference with dil.
Everything can happen only with the permission of the new family.
where there is no will, the friend instance is invalid.
are the serials exaggerate this?
Nah
You can take example of YRKKH show. Not the current one but two generation back, the serial proved that when marriage happens, new relations born and the family becomes double.
The Bride and Groom will always be the common member in both side families. They can interefere cause both families are thiers.
But the bride’s side ask to pay more attention to grooms family cause that’s thier kindness. They are giving nature.
in serials everybody walks in the house like they are coming to cafe etc…
how is it in reality?
is closing the door wrong?
Like then don’t Shut thier Asses
Then why will they shut the fuking door
@AJ
???
People always shut their doors …. that person was being witty that these people dont shut their mouth why would they shut their door ..
@Neha
🙂
i get that
like they always sleep with their daily clothes.
Except Kavya.
decollete
long live trp
Isn’t the division of property after divorce determined by law?
Yes, you take or not, you deserve and u should be provided.
With all due respect to @subha .. please guys stop responding to her cause her questions are baseless i feel she is too naive and misinformed and immature to understand stuff .. and trying to make sense out of her comments and then drafting a sensible reply to it would just f**k your braincells..atleast in my case it happened..so lets just not focus on negative vibes ..
@Neha
i feel this message is wrong.
if it happens naturally im ok with that.
but why saying others to closing doors?
maybe one of us have the proper answer she needs.
no offence. i hope there are not many people like dhana.
With all due respect to everyone except you know.
Idk if u noticed or not but everyone has been telling her the same thing but she isn’t ready to accept and i feel their is no point u have to understand that we can only make those people understand who really want to listen amd understand but her taperecorder is ficed at one place … people including myself have tried explaining her for days but she is still there..and if we keep responding to it ..its going to be hella messy n toxic here .. besides i feel if she herself reads scriptures then only will she understand.. cause she wont buy ehat we say and would keep asking baseless questions..if you are a hindu and u have read raamayan by yourself u would get ehat i am saying..but if u aren’t then i get your point as to why you think she cab be made to understand things ..but believe me its not possible
Very respectfully let me put forward this – this serial does not portray reality to its core. Its for entertainment purpose only. Trying to understand religion(s) by viewing this drama series is as pointless as it can get. The series plot is heavily dominated by trps.
I agree with you, there is no point in responding to her pointless questions. Enjoy the drama that the series is offering 🙂 and leave everything out.
im math teacher.
i read you all .
i understand the concept , lack of knowledge about hinduism takes me away from that discussion. but i understand mostly the intentions.
to me subha has one problem.
she trusts us the people here.
she NEEDS that answer.
in math everyone understands different.
sometimes we need to FIND a specific way to explain to that individual.
or MAYBE we dont understand the question or answer.
if she follows proper asking ways ,she may have unlimited asking rights.
all im saying is this.
I understand that you should never hesitate from asking as that is one of the primary ways of gaining knowledge. I just don’t think this forum is right/correct one to discuss/answer what she is asking for.
The series changes plot/direction by virtue of trps not by Hinduism or mythological characters.
And not to forget we should only ask questions if we are willing to listen and understand the other person… else there is no point asking
She is discussing Maths in Language class reasoning that language also comes in maths without knowing the actual Concept on which she is discussing
Have u ever had that student who doesn’t want to trust your approach yet is asking u about the validity of your solution..well subha is that kid .. one of my first replt to her was the same that your intent is so so so right but the comparisons and logica are so vague and illogical..its like her reasoning is always incomplete she quotes an instance halfway through it she raises a question whereas if she completes that instance she herself would get the ans ..now how on earth can u deal with that ..if i ask u how how did u get 3+4 =10 and u try to say that no its actually 3+4+3 that gave me a 10 but she would be adamant that no its 3+4 and its a 10 now explain how … how on earth is one supposed to deak with that
she seeks the correlation between modern india husband and religion/tradition.
in society in india almost every right is applying first mens favour.
are we practice religion/tradition wrong or sided to reach this point?
i think she questions this at the core.
(vanraj gets away with his wrong doings…etc…anupamaa suffers in same situation)
Besides this is nothing like modern india its more like modern day rural India.. esle the kind of torture vanraj has made anu go through he amd his mother would have been behind the bars cause as per indian penal code in case of domestic abuse there js direct arrest .. and any sane woman qould have left vanraj with alimony..and if she is not leaving its her fault and her submissive behavior..idk from where did gods and mythology come into play.. and
this is one of the right places.
base of the show is right.
for example udariyaan would be wrong place.
think anupamaa’s all suffering cause : modern india husband and religion/tradition.
i can understand that we are no professionals,other then that this is one right place.
And instead of raising questions to the women who dont stand up for their rights like anu did not for a vwry long time .. and the people who support this kind of chauvinism..she is comparing with mythology.. and even if she is comparing..she is making partial statements.. this too is one thing i told her .. that stop quoting half knowledge.. this forum is a place to discuss society in general not religion ..because the same yo could happen to a Muslim woman or a jain sikh or Christian .. merely cause anu happens to be a hindu she is questioning Hinduism and that too us accepted but atleast she should quote the full instances.. like maa parvati suffereed cause if mahadev’s impulsive nature bjt she didn’t mention how mahadev suffered cause of devi sati’s decision.. she mentions sita maa had to go for exile fir 14 years with lord ram but she doesn’t say that it was her own wish and she too was asked to stay back just like urmila did ..urmila was sita maa’s sister and lord ram’s brother’s wife.. as as soon as u correct one thing she wiuld jump on to another u correct the second she has something new to say .. see we come here to discuss social evils not mythology..
Just because the lead has used mythogical character a couple of times to justify her actions, doesn’t mean she is right and it certainly doesnt mean that this forum is correct to gain correct knowledge of Hinduism/modern day India.
Patience is the sign of true knowledge.
or
there is nothing unattainable to a man committed to patience and dharma.
We are not here for Doubt solving. She is absolutely at wrong forum
I just hope she progresses and gives Anuj a chance after 26yrs. Knowing her she will want the family to support her decision.
Pri, I appreciate your knowledge on Hindu religion. You are very accurate and I think this shubha is not a kid she is raising these comments here just to humiliate the religion yesterday some of her statements also made me suspicious that her actual name is not Shubha and she is not even a Hindu .
Shubha , First of all this forum is not to discuss religion. All of us came here to give our opinion on the entertainer series and still pri, Amar and some other try to solve your doubts and took pains to correct you but you are still adamant upon insulting religion and raising comments
How is it possible that being a Hindu your family don’t know the real facts of culture or are you really a Hindu or belongs to some other religion
@Sonia
1- i tought you dont need to belong any religion for participate. it wasnt asked.
İf not let me know, that i should leave.
2- if you say humiliation, you should show and explain it. if necessary write warnings.
İ dont know hinduism, i cant decide,sorry.
3- i didnt see anyone wrote against dhana?
He/she insulted almost everything about religions even without evidence.
Actually he/she puked. Are your rules only apply for hindus or humans?
4- she is not discussing religion.
She seeks an answer about hindu men , religion/traditions practice, if its sided or not. if its wrong presented or not. if she would discuss religion , it wouldnt be wrong. i watch from india anupamaa and other shows ,like 12 – 13 show . maybe because you are familiar with it ,you dont recognize , but all of them have almost like %10-%25 minutes religion/tradition words,topics etc.(like ghar ek mandir % 50,maharaji is in the house 🙂 naive genda suffers . )
5- if she insults religion, show it clear, im with you on this.
Sensitivity is important on this.
.
No offence. Spread love, understanding and respect to everyone except the ones who degrade the word “human”. Anupamaa does it. İf not you may not want to be a person like vanraj.
Dude m sorry but can u not read .. she is outright comparing gods with humans .. questioning gods actions that too just male .. using half facts which is misleading besides if someone tries to explain her something she goes on to another thing that beont proved wrong she jumps on to another .. its like comparing jesus mahavir jain or guru nanak or allah with normal humans and blaming the lack of understanding men have on god .. she is right on complaining about the evil some men are but then she has literally said that its because of god and to back that statement she has no sid proof.. amd ironically she is only finding one person who can empathize with her eho has no idea about our vedas or anything which shows how little she knows about her own religion .. just look down she just made this huge statement that there are rules for ideal women in Hinduism but none for men where in fact there are rules for men as well. And now that i have corrected that she will find something new ..let me ask u one question u say dhe has the right to ask for once lets give her that right ..she asked something baseless ans we corrected it amd then she asked another thing likewise atleast 4 to 5 of her claims have been falsified till now ..i think this much is enough for her to understand that she lacks knowledge and should try to gayher it by herself before making any further comments.. but no she is going on an on ..if your student asls u multiple doubts amd all of those are fundamentally wrong u would tell him or her that u lack basic understanding and first make get your concepts right amd then asl further doubts right cause maybe if he ir she does that their doubts might automatically get resolved..now subha us that student who wants u to take up every question and correct her instead of trying on her own to get a better understanding..
@Metin, I was harsh on Dhana for insulting other religions and had also asked why?
And trust me, I rarely find anyone who understands me. And you are one of them.
U haven’t asked
U directly Passed Judgements.
Did u asked us that is it right to call Selfish to Ram before calling him Selfish??
No
U cannot act innocent after passing direct judgements instead of clarifying things.
@Metin is Simp and You are one who want lots of Sympathies.
@Metin is another moron who doesn’t know what Truth is and so it’s not affecting him.
We all here Defended Gods not answer your questions cause you haven’t asked any. If you haven’t put gods in your sentences then no one would criticised you.
It’s your Fault. I know still you have tons of false Interpretations on your head
@Subha Aunty
Even after everyone explained you yesterday about the male gods
You still disgraced them like yesterday.
Is it really tolerable?
@Sonia, yarr I am well versed with our
Karyesu dashi, Karnesu Mantri, bhojesu mata, Sailesu Rambha! culture. I want same addition for men. As I don’t see anything for them. And I am not sure how it doesn’t hurt you! Clear and loud?
Man aren’t u the moat ignorant person ever ..u wanted something for men no ..its been written ages back ..”Karyeshu Yogi, Karaneshu Daksha, Rupecha Krishna, Kshamayathu Rama, Bojyeshu Truptha, Sukhadukkha Mitra, Shatkarmayuktha, Khalu Darmanatha”.. and thats your problem always stating half facts .. every f**king time ..
@neha
i find it , i read it ,i understand it. 🙂
please let me be a bridge between you two for one time.
are The virtues of a good husband as they are supposed to be set by ancient scriptures exist?
if yes what are they?
I just wrote it .. there were standards set both for men and women though today because men and women both go out for work these rules male no sense .. but still ehat she said eas wrong because they werr set for both for women she already stated as usual half fact and for men i have stated in ny reply . For eg it was written that a wife should be like rambha who happens to be an angel from heaven and for men he should be like Krishma who is concerned has the most charming man also reincarnation of lord vishnu.
Leave it dear @Metin is Simp. I have tackled people like this.
U take some rest Neha❤️
U tried your best. Now ignore these Ungrateful, ignorant people.
They don’t see the knowledge you are giving them for free.
@Metin
@Metin
Like if I ask the opposite, where virtues of good wives as they supposed to be set by ancient scriptures exists?
Can you answer it.
We all answered a lot. U should Answer now first then we will
Neha – I am really impressed here ! I have learnt something new today and that is all thanks to you.
I am really unsure of the next question being posed here but that is what I am trying to say . You continuously are saying that you are not discussing religion YET you end up asking religion. Half baked knowledge is very very dangerous.
Ok I didn’t know as I don’t hear it very often, as I hear the other one while going and coming.
And how strict are we and our society to ensure that men follow it as we are strict with women?
Now thats the difference i am trying to tell u religion has everything in place ..if u have half knowledge blame yourself not tbe religion or god.. and hie society perceived something or ehat custom society follows has nothing to do with god .. i have told u so many times learn to differentiate.. besides he who jas power jas always abused it like men did for ages like ba does being a woman in case if anupama.. what has god or any religion not just Hinduism got to do with it .. going by your logic u will blame allah for terrorism..jesus for Christian missionaries.. thats not jow it works ..u can’t blame god for the wrongdoing of people who follow a certain religion
1) Karyeshu Dasi: works like a servant
2) Karaneshu Mantri : advises like a minister
3) Bhojeshu Mata: feeds like a mother
4) Shayaneshu Ramba : Pleases in bed like the heavenly beauty Rambha
5) Roopeshu Lakshmi : Beautiful like Goddess Lakshmi
6) Kshmayeshu Dharitri : Having patience like Earth
7) Shat dharma yuktah: woman who has this six virtues
8) Kula dharma Patni : good housewife (a married woman who is not employed outside the home)
IF THIS WOMAN EXIST PLEASE SEND MY MARRIAGE PROPOSAL TO HER. NO PUN INTENDED. NO DISRESPECT INTENDED.but its not our problem. our problem is:
are this rules for men exist? you said yes. could you give me key words that i can be able to research?
Karyeshu Yogi: Without expecting any result, a man should do works
Karaneshu Daksha: In order to maintain a family, he should have patience, coordination and caliber
Rupecha Krishna: Here Krishna doesn’t mean to marry eight wives. Always with smiling face and should make others happy
Kshyamayathu Rama: In patience, should be like Lord Rama and should follow the orders of father
Bhojyeshu Truptha: Should not criticize food prepared by either wife or mother
Sukha Dukkha Mitra: Should be like a friend to wife and family. Should take share in both the good and bad of the family
Those, who follow the rules, will be called Uttama Purusha
Yes
The Best Example of such Man on the Earth will always be Shri Ram. Mariyada Purushottam Ram.
@Subha @Metin
Ram truly had all these qualities. Believe or not. You have serious Misunderstandings related to Ram @Subha
@Metin boy
Neither such men nor Such women is perfectly ideal.
As in chemistry, Ideal solution doesn’t exists
Same way ideals doesn’t exist.
Think about yourself only. If you really wanna some idol, read the novel about Swami Vivekananda. Follow him
He is a true man.
Build yourself first. Forget about others.
@Metin, fyi, glad that ancestors were so sensible.
https://gyanaknowledge.wordpress.com/2019/02/20/duties-of-husband/
Here in this society, women wake up with rituals and sleep thinking about next day rituals.
I am not seeing any men doing those.
@Neha, And also I have already demanded a clear, revised version of our scriptures so that we cant misuse or misunderstand it. So many people have so many versions and everyone is 100% sure that they are correct.
In this forum you are the only moron who passed Disgraceful comments regarding make gods with your Bunch of false Interpretations.
You have been repeatedly told you that read or watch the stories in detail yesterday.
Still you did the same mistake like yesterday.
Like why?
Why we will explain you the real stories of Legends in the Anupama serial Forum.?
What are you getting Harrasing us?
What we are getting by clarifying you?
Women get badly treated all around the world whether in real life or in scriptures. Someone said it was “sita chaaya” who was abducted and took the agni pariksha? Do that matter? The message is clear, the woman has to prove herself. It still perserveres today. Just look around and ask your mothers/sisters/daughters if they have not been opressed more, restricted more, subjected to more harassment than men. What we need is a change in men’s attitude. Not going to happen if there is no conscious effort.
@Just Saying
+1
Cheap Simp @Metin. Don’t dare to talk in this matter again.
Well i dont think even a single person on this forum is supporting anraj or someone who thinks like vanraj .. the only conflict here is with one person who is literally blaming a particular religion’s gods for having wronged a woman . At the same time completely excusing the women .. like there was no need for maa sita to give agnipariksha.. lord ram should have supported her but at the same time why did sita maa not stand up for herself like anupama did today that too after uncountable humiliations.. isn’t that a toxic trait .. thats all m saying.. that was thousands of years ago ..and if u really have to play the blame game play it Equally .. and effort needs to be from both sides ..we as women cant play victim and expect men to do that for blaming men for being dominant is correct but why not blamw women for being submissive.. when u stand up for yourself u set example for 1000 women to show the courage to do the same .. thats ny only concern here …
@Just Saying, I am making that effort, facing violent opposition, from both family and society.
@Subha Baby You will be trashed if you talk pass rubbish judgements upon anyone without knowing the real picture.
You another fuking moron. You forgot mentioninh people like Baa. Oh that’s a woman! A Daughter who doesn’t dear of Bapuji, A sister who always opresses Bhailu even if he saying damn right thing, A mother who supported the Evil Natures of her Son, A Saas who tortured another woman, etc..
Instead of Straighting others keep if everyone keeps their character straight upright, then it will be over one day.
Why do Men had to prove themselves that they are worthy to marry? Why Vishnu had to win over Samudra Dev to marry Lakshmiji
Why in modern India men had to prove innocent in False Rape Cases?
Why girls take the advantages of Feminism propaganda to get sympathies?
Why do some girls are proved as Home breaker ?
Why girls take the advantage of Boys cannot slap girls and Hit them, sometimes brutally?
Why do Step Moms are called so notorious sometimes?
Why newly wed Men are advised to say Sorry to their Wives always whenever condition detoriates?
Hey fake Feminists.. answer me please
@Subha @Just Saying @ Metin
Give answer
@Maria, I don’t deny that some women are bad they are not taking advantage.
But we don’t learn about them, There is no force on us to be like them.
They have become like that on their own. we condemn them.
But we are forced to be like Sita/Sati else are discarded! So where is the choice?
I am saying we are trained to be exploited. Now I am scared to say this impact has come from religion. If you know please let me know what has made our society like this.
@Subha It was already mentioned by AJ
Read them
It’s Clearly dominating nature of humans over weaker ones.
AJ Explained it well in Page 1
Go read that u Ungrateful Aunty.
Second thing many wives are also Dominating nature. Dominates thier husband every day. It exists.
This Dominating nature is done by the immature/negative people. It can be anyone!
@Subha
Read AJ comment on Page 1
I said it was Chhaya Sita who went Agnipariksha so that real Sita should come back. Real Sita was protected by Agnidev. And Chhaya Sita became Draupadi in next birth. She was fire’s daughter. Took birth as Chhaya Sita from Agni and went to heavenly abode when her earthly works completed. That’s Ravan’s slaying via her abduction. And then she became Draupadi. And who said women have to go through all pariksha. As I said incomplete knowledge about anything is dangerous. Our culture is that culture where whole family got destroyed for woman’s insult. Ravan’s whole family destroyed for Sita’s abduction. Whole Kuru clan got destroyed due to Draupadi’s cheerharan. Yes. The seeds of Mahabharata war was sown by Draupadi’s cheerharan. As every Pandav vowed to avenge her insult. And one thing. TV serials showing Karn calling Draupadi as Vaishya never happened. Rather he called her Apavitra Stri and repented for his this only sin for whole life. And prayed for salvation attained with the help of Krishn Ji. And for those who comment over Krishn Ji doing multiple maariages with princesses whom he saved from Narkasur. Let me tell you one thing. Bhishm Pitamah did the same mistake. Abducted all 3 sisters for his darling brother. When Amba revealed she’s already in a love relationship with someone else he let her free. But her love showed his true colours by abandoning her and society also didn’t accepted that girl. Which was indeed the Vinash Kale Viprit Buddhi of that time. Then she went to Bhishm Pitamah and cried for marriage. But Bhishm Pitamah was a kind of person who never broke his vows. And this played cupid in his salvation process. This and he not saying anything in Draupadi’s cheer haran were the only mistakes of his life. Because he was also a pure soul. The 8th Vasu. Who needed Salvation with the help of Krishn Ji. Everything was destined. So in order to save Yadu clan from untimely destruction Krishn Ji married those princesses. As he would have done Same thing with those innocent girls which Bhishm Pitamah did out of his destiny to get salvation from Amba’s rebirth Shikhandi’s hands. And one thing besides Krishn Ji Karn, Bhishm Pitamah and Dronacharya were the best men of that era. And all 3 just suffered whole life. And were destined to get salvation from Krishn Ji’s help. So stop commenting anything related to religion here. If you’re true Indian specially belonging to Sanatan Dharm then know complete facts before commenting here. And why you’re commenting this shit here. Subha and Metin are hopeless. Even after so much explanations they aren’t ready to stop themselves from commenting shits. And please don’t become third one to do this. This platform was just meant to put our views on daily episodic basis and what we would have done if we were in their place. And stop comparing Gods specially male gods with that cheap Chaturmurti gang. Because in today’s times most of the rape cases, dowry cases are fake. Are done to gain sympathy. As many women use victim card today and real victims that’s males and their families suffer a lot to prove themselves innocent. Because I’ve seen such case in my own family. So what could I expect from others. And I know how it feels when someone destroys life of whole family under false charges and how difficult it becomes to prove yourself innocent. That you aren’t culprit. But real culprit is that woman who’s playing victim card and enjoying her life.
@Neha, reasons also I have given, we are not trained, educated, encouraged to walk out.
We will abandoned if we do that.
U can’t get everything served on a platter honey.. Gandhi ji didn’t get freedom served in his plate .. nor did shaheed bhagat singh .. nor was it easy for sarojini naidu to break gender norms .. .. n let me tell u women all across the world face this problem.. but what jas religion got anything to do with jt ..as i said i nevwr opposed your intent i was the girst one to say your intent is right but your explanations are weird amd illogical as f**k .. what are u 16 that u are nkt able to understand this simple thing that i have been saying on repeat. Honestly i m out of here ..god bless
Who dares to abandon you?
If there are people to abandon you
There will be people always who will welcome you
when one way closes another ways opens up.
There is never ever any situation where there is no way to move to next way.
Here you are playing Victim Card.
Nobody will say it’s the right thing