Anupama 23rd November 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama asks Kavya instead of conning her family, if she would have asked property from Bapuji and children, they would have happily given it to her. She says stealing is in Kavya’s nature, be it a house or husband, and whatever she got is by stealing; if not Baa, Bapuji, and family, she should have thought of her husband at least. Kavya says she loves her husband. Anu says she loves only herself. Kavya shouts she is insulting her. Anu says she is telling truth; she would have gained Baa and Bapuji’s love instead of conning them and is cheaper than a temple footwear thief. Kavya says she just snatched her right, they all can stay at her house like before. Vanraj says she did wrong by insulting his parents. Kavya says fights are common between in-laws and DIL. He asks what if Baa slaps her and then apologizes, will she forgive her. Kavya says Baa and Bapuji are still elders of her house and everything will be normal if they walk back in, but if they want to stay at Anu’s house, she can’t help. Vanraj warns how are she is to speak rudely to his parents. Kavya says a lot of expenses are involved with this each person, anyways she doesn’t have a rich boyfriend like Anuj Kapadia. Vanraj says she is disappointed that she doesn’t have a rich boyfriend like Anuj Kapadia.
Kavya ignores him and asks family to get inside home. Kinjal asks her to first decide if she is a good or bad bahu as she spoke so contradictively that she herself is confused what she wants. Kavya asks what she wants. Kinjal says she just wants to stay away from her. Kavya says Rakhi took back penthouse, where will she stay now; she further taunts Toshu about his pent house stay. Toshu gets angry. Kinjal says she cannot stay with his psycho sauteli maa/stepmother. Samar says he will stay with his mummy. Pakhi says even she will. Kavya taunts Pakhi next and whoever wants to come in, can or else leave. Anu asks Vanraj if she should take his family home or not. Kavya warns they should remember this house belongs to her and then enter it. Vanraj says he will not let his family go. Kavya thinks she is not selfish, everyone thinks about their security, so she did what is best for her; they shouldn’t forget that this house is only her.
Anu tells family that Mr. Shah wants his family to be with him, so they should al support him forgetting Kavya’s sins; they all know that Mr Shah loves them immensely. She tells Bapuji that earlier his house was breaking and if they all go, his son will break down. Vanraj pleads Bapuji to give him one more chance to set things right. Anu signals everyone, and they all walk inside house. She prays god that she knows Mr Shah will do his best to keep his family united, but Kanhaji should also help them. She walks towards gate and sees Anuj waiting for her. Bapuji notices Anu and Anuj leaving in a car and rushes towards them. Anu stops car and walks to him. Bapuji says he forgot to tell her sorry and thank you; she helped him when he was alone, but he came back here leaving her alone; he is the worst father of the world. Anu says she always needs his support, but his grandchildren, wife, and son need him more than her. He says Vanraj told he will set things right, don’t know how he will. Anu says he helped her when she broke down, now he should help her son keep his family united; he can return to her house after that. Bapuji stands nervous. She senses it and asks if he wants to say something.
Kavya hugs Vanraj and apologizes for her mistake. Vanraj thinks he gave her a chance always, but she betrayed him; their relationship went sour in 1 year itself; he has to become his old self for his family’s sake and let the whole world know who he is. Anu asks Bapuji wants he wants to say. Bapuji says she is not alone as Anuj is with her. She says her friend is with her. He says everyone is selfish, he didn’t let her go even after her divorce and came to her house when he fought with his wife, even she should be selfish and should think of herself; with passing age, one needs a life partner as they feel lonely; he had family with him, even then he was feeling lonely when his wife stopped supporting him; she selflessly sacrificed her 26 years for Vanraj and left him as he was unfit for her; they reap what they sow, she always sow love and god wants to return her what she sow till now. He continues that she should accept the blessings god is giving her and should live for herself. Anu says she can’t understand anything. He says she should let love enter her life; sending Anuj was in Kanhaji’s hands and letting him in her heart is in her hands, so she should let Anuj enter her heart.
Precap: Bapuji tells Anu that Radha Kishan ji’s name were united in that century, in this century she should let them unite.
Anuj asks Anu if she is coming along. She says yes and gets into his car. Vanraj in a businessman’s attire thinks he will do anything to get back what he lost.
Update Credit to: MA
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Bapuji rocks…. Three cheers for Bapuji!!! Hip hip hurray… Hip hip hurray… Hip hip hurray!! I m so excited… For what’s coming up next🤩🤩
Why Do i feel the story is like Dhadkan shilpa shetty (anupama) , Akshay kumar (Anuj), Sunil Shetty (Vanraj)
@P and somehow I only see it now. I never realised that till you commented that.
The reality is that when a woman marries young she is moulded by her husband and in laws…more so in the indian woman’s DNA that husband is god and you have to treat all with respect and love in your in laws…isnt that one of the sven pheras….so Anupama is just reflecting society. it is much better than Sreemoyee on which this series is based. I think we have to change within especially the way we treat others…swearing at the director is not getting anywhere as it is a purchased story and we can choose not to watch and it is wrong to call Anupama as someone who is a doormat to come out of a batetred relationship is not easy . Most people give up or become the bully as the mind has to survive Anupama’s challenges are more difficult as due to her husband and in laws her children were taught not to respect her
she is a common ordinary woman in India either in the town or village who lives ina joint family and has more responsibility as Indian men and children cannot tie a tie (?) cannot button their shirt , expect to drink tea whilst just out of bed, children dont know how to wash dishes , how to remove plate , expect fresh warm food from the stove to the plate , etc.
she is living the Indian religion . She cannot destroy her own relationships with her children…the system needs to be fixed. Baa never accepted Anupama because she never saw the good , she saw that she could bully and karma gave her kavya , so the series is showing us what we are and where we will get if we continue and Baa did say last week that I have gotten used to you – so they are all suffering except they are fighting like real squatters instead of middle class mentality, what we show we r cheap.
Moreover serials Seekhate bahut kuch hai.. Good, bad.. But more than 50% of us seekhte hai kaise Burai karna, Taunt maarna, Flaws point out karna, provoke karna, mislead karna apne bullshits se..etc. Koi nhi bola aapko mahaan banne ko but nalayak bhi mat banana khudko
Kavya rocks, corporate world has made her very daring.
She has ability to speak the truth on face. Looks like she wants the managerial position and secure rights.
She is not wrong. Vanraj would have taken her out on road in the name of family sacrifices and we all know how stupid this can be.
Baa took 50 years to voice her pain and poor Anumapa could never do it, Devika/Bapuji/Anuj has to voice her requirement.
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Baa rocks, despite her oppressed, unfortunate past, she is cordial with her dil, which is phenomenal.
Our ladies are like Baa, who were controlled, were oppressed and they validate same as the way of life.
educated, uneducated, employed, unemployed, daughter and dil, all are required to be great salves as Kavya says.
Is this the only thing ladies can do? Why talents like Shakuntala devi are wasted and guilt ridden?
Its time for our ladies to retrospect what is going wrong with this and how to prevent it.
Life is a constantly changing process, if we cant change and review system accordingly, the system and tradition will be dead.
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Bapuji rocks, we need more and more Bapujis to have a progressive life, who understands and fills all the gaps.
He is a spiritual entity who understands divine indications and helps everyone to stay positive.
Our elders should progress like him to be the spiritual masters of each household.
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Coming to Vanraj, we are still not sure if he will turn grey or black or white.
But he has the most important role to play. He has the option to gain more popularity, more love than Anupama.
I really really really wish writers dont turn him negative.
He is very true when he said only fortunate ones get to live with joint family.
And It is the responsibility of man of the house to maintain that integrity.
He should not neglect Kavya as he did with Anupama. He has to support whoever is correct and protect whoever needs.
We have uncared elders and abused dils, broken houses because of biased sons and husbands.
In law or dil cant do much without taking men by their side. Men play the crucial role in making and breaking the family.
They have to be understanding instead of being impulsive.
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All the characters are in correct mindset, No one is wrong, all have valid reasons for the way they are.
they have portrayed our current society and its possible fate very accurately.
Just one sincere wish, dont turn anyone negative.
Let Anupama fly, meet her love of life, start her mission with Anuj.
And also please give Sudhansu pandey the role of his life to be the ideal man who can do correct judgement and have understanding to maintain the family.
It will be an interesting watch to see how to handle modern wife and traditional parents. Its the case for most of us.
We need a message there instead seeing Kavya walking out or filing case.
Your Absolutely speak truth
You should keep your pearls of wisdom for your own family. God forbid if U have a daughter, marries and is treated like Anupama, by her in laws. U will change your tune then about this is how indian households are run. This is the 21st century, not the dark ages. If a person does not love or respect themselves they cannot expect anyone else to do so. If they are happy being a doormat then they cannot blame others for treating them like a doormat. MILs have to see their DILs like human beings, not as slaves, wives should respect husbands & give love & support but not forget they are NOT GODS and mothers must teach their children to be self sufficient and not parasites who suck their parents’ blood.
@Only Reader
I will play father’s role then. I will do what I should do.
Common sense. I will try my best And rest I will keep it to her cause its her fight afterall.
Samaj nhi paaya aap taunt maarna chahte ho ya phir mislead karna hai…i suggested only that Serial teaches good things also and things you should don’t also..But majority people learn well how to Criticise,taunt, provoke,etc. and nothing good.
@OnlyReader, may be Anupama makers and we have seen a different side of Indian society where daughters/dils are actually expected to be great slaves nothing else. In this society even Sakuntala devi become guilt ridden, forget about creatures like us.
Please do share your pearls of wisdom to motivate and cheer us up.
@Subha I am not sure how Kavya rocks in over here. She literally stole the property. This is no security or insurance for her future. She left a good job, just because she could not take a feedback given and now has stolen something that does not belong to only her. Whatever part of the house Vanraj owned can be taken, and that might not have been stealing. But the parts that Anupama and Dolly owned, were stolen under the pretense of returning to Baa and Bapuji. So, I fail to understand where did she rock. She is an immoral human being. And here I am not taking into account the feelings. This is purely legal issues that I am talking about.
@Amar Just a small correction. Anupama lives according to the Indian Tradition, not religion. The Hindu religion has nothing to do with how she is behaving.
@Ram, religion has nothing to do with us and our tradition? Hmmm… It’s there in our blood but we must be negatively impacted as @ Amar says and due to that many of us are Nalayak instead of Mahan.
@Ram, Kavya has taken over the property dues to her insecurities, neither anyone loved her nor she could love anyone.
She stayed insecure there with the fear of losing everything, on top of that she is not getting job also now a days.
She has seen how shah members behave, they transfer property just like passing the ball!
What she would have done if Vanraj would have left everything in the name of family, she wanted to secure her future as she is materialistic and somewhat practical also.
She doesn’t seem evil as of now as she still wants the family with her.
I am not supporting snatching other’s right.
But here she seems to be securing her rights. After all house belongs to her just it belong to everyone else.
Yesterday it was in Bapuji’s name, today it is in Vanraj’s name, let it be there in Kavya’s name for a while.
I always wanted dils to have property right for the responsibilities they take at in laws place and I don’t mind seeing something similar.
Again I don’t support property snatching but I don’t stand against securing right.
@Subha I dont disagree with the daughters-in-law getting the property. That is why I said, had she taken portion of property that was given to Vanraj, it was all fine. That would not be stealing. But this is. And you are bringing insecurities here? Insecurities are not for people who want to close their eyes and wish to see the world. She does not want to be loved by people. She wants them to bow down to her every word from the get go. And top of that, she goes every extra mile to insult Anupama. I mean what is the need? Anupama has left her life long back. Kavya is now the ‘decorated’ Mrs Shah she always wanted to be. Despite that she misses no opportunity to fling mud at Anupama? This isn’t insecurity, she is a literal maniac who wants Anupama to only suffer. And for your point, she doesn’t care if the family is there or no. But for her husband she will ‘allow’ them to stay there. Isn’t that grand? She is allowing the people to whom the house actually belongs, to stay there? So, yeah, she doesn’t rock. Please get your story straight.
And yes, most often than not, we confuse tradition to religion. That might be because tradition is heavily influenced by religion, but they both are completely different.
@Ram, I am myself not convinced about this property snatching, But she looked scared that Anupama and Anuj team may take revenge and throw them out of house etc etc.
So I am just trying to convince myself that she is trying to safe guard herself form revenges and emotional fools!
Wow how the hell did Assraj became a businessman in a few seconds . Finally something good happening . Anu realizing Anujs love . #MaAn is the endgame yipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Wo kabi bi business man nai tha uska cafe bi anu ke bina nai chalta, aur usne to apne chef ko bi nikal diya.
Was waiting for Anupama’s makeover and here I got Vanraj’s makeover instead
Anyway I’m glad that the track will be showing Anupama’s acceptance towards her own feelings… It is difficult for a woman who was shaped to be a typical sacrificing “bahu” to fall in love… Because to fall in love with someone you need to love yourself first
I’m glad they are showing that this is possible at any stage of life
It would not have been right to show their marriage as an forceful act under societal pressure or as an act of pity due to terminal illness
Yaa they should fall in love and marry each other by their own consent and not forcefully or by pity .
Kaam dhanda kuch hai nhi bas makeover kar lete hai🤣
Sai pakde hain
Kabi kabi lagta hai anupama deserve karti hai jo bi uskesaath hota hai, madam sir mai ek acha dialogue tha jada jhukna nai chahiye warna log peeth ko paidaan samajne lagte hai aur ischuthiya aurat ne to mahanta ki hadd hi par kardi, harami aurat tuje gire hue logo se tamiz se baat karne ki kya zarurat hai, kal ke epi mai kavya ne kuch galat nai kaha shah family ke baare mai, lekin is haramzaadi(sorry for my language is anu ki harkartein hi aisi unrealistic ho gai hai kya karu thappad marne ki ikcha hoti hai use) ki aankh ki patti nai nikalti aur nahi aisi toxic, unfaithful, gadhi family ko defend karne mai na sharam aati hai na fursat milti hai. Jaise tejo mata ka jaikara hai na udariya mai waise is chuthiya ka bi hona chahiye. Kum se kum babuji ko to self respect hai ye to jab dekho tab apni beizatti karane ajati hai.
Aur ye assraaj saale tere paas na job hai na cafe chalane ki akal bas bandhan ke tayar hogaya buddha ghoda laal lagaam kahin ka, bilkul apni maa aur mistress turned wife jaise chillana jada aur kaam kum.
DUNIYA BHAR KI SAARI GAALIYA DESERVE KARNE WALE WRITTERS AUR PRODUCERS DEFECATION LOO MAI KI JAATI HAI CREATIVITY KE NAAM PE BECHI NAI JATI AUR NAHI TV PE DIKHAI JAATI HAI. KUCH TO REALISTIC AUR ACHE SHOWS BANA LO.
Dhang ka women empowerment bi nai dikha sakte kya tum log.
@shubh ek cheez miss kar rahe hai. Saamne waala kitna bhi neeche gire…woh uska character girega, uss cheapster ke liye khud bhi giroge to kya hi difference rahega..dono ka hi character dheela. So maintain your level whatever the situation is. Isse Mahaan nhi ban jaate. Isse Real bante hai. And Anupama has her kids in that house. Whenever something happens to that house her first concern would be regarding Kids only. A Mother can understand this very well. Ask your mother to explain to you
Maybe you are right, gaaliya dene se apna character bi kharab hota hai aur nature bi, but she should have some respect na, chalo badtamizi na karo par aise logo se duri to banasakte ho na, anu ko is chaukadi se dur rehna chahiye, baa aur uske bete aur pote ne kitna kuch galat kaha anu ko par phir bi kitne baar maaf kar rai unko aur support rai, aur kal anu ko kam se kum shah family ki galat cheezon ko support nai karna chahiye the, bado ki izzat karo par unhe bhagwan kyu bana rae ho, logo ki izzat unke umar ke wajah se nai balki unke nature aur behaviour ke wajah se honi chahiye.
Toshu ke baare mai baat hi nai karni chahiye wo gone case hai.
Baki teeno ko therepy ki zarurat hai apne kaam se kaam hi nai rakhte
Anu ko aaj achi advice mili selfish banne ki, kya zarurat hai apne ko dukh pahuchane ki apne baare mai kab sochegi ye. I am not saying ko bure ban jao ya dusro ka bilkul mat socho, socho aur karo bi help but not at the cost of your mental, physical and spiritual health as well as self respect
@Shubh dheere dheere seekh jayegi duniyadaari. Serial hai isliye thora zyada dheere dheere hoga🌚
Please dont turn the story like kyun rishton mein khatti bhatti.
Vanraj will want anu back and anu goes back to vanraj and turning anuj negative 😑
Anupamaa based on Sreemoyee. anu will not go back to vanraj because she and anuj will marry later
I think Anupama and Anuj need more time, to know one another more and spend time with each other. I think Anupama needs to move on from these toxic shahs, gain success and then marry Anuj. That would make sense to me. Anupama and Anuj need more chemistry and need more time to develop their relationship. I want the directors to take their relation on a steady pace. Not showing them as friends one day and making the fall in love the next day.
Coming to Kavya, I think if I was in kavya’s position, I might do the same. Cuz not one person in that house respects a dil. Kavya’s insecurities are right, cuz Varnraj and baa are really crazy people who can lash out at anyone and ask them to get out. Varnraj already asked Anupama to get out once and Kavya is scared if the same situation happens to her. Though I won’t deny the fact that she is egoistic and selfish. But, at the same time, I think conning the family is also wrong. It would only show your character and how cheap you are.
Amulya in the first place why Kavya felt insecurities? Its u reap wat u sow! She is married into this family but she dun treats them as one, she just seeks opportunities to discord them hoping to gain the fruits of indifference among the family, why Anu n Kinjal dun feel insecure? Coz they sincerely treats everyone as family!! So the roots of Kavya’s problems is her insecurities as wat she put out is wat she gets back simple as tat!! She blamed everyone but forgets to look at herself in the mirror🙄🙄
@Unicorn, Kavya is insecure because of Anupama. That insecurity will always be there for the homewreckers
What happened to Vaanaraaj?? Raaton raat ameer ban gaya ya raaton raat chasma lag gya aur coat dhobi se press hokar aa gya?🤓 Though only later only feasible here.But what was it all about!!🧐
I think Vanraj will go to Anuj for job
Yes Vanraj should join Anuj to stop spreading negativity and to show that he is a trustworthy changed person.
Anupama stood by him for so long after divorce. Why he cant help Anupama as a friend!
Comment section is more interesting than the serial itself. May I know what was going on yesterday as I didn’t understand @ Arista’s comment and her and@ AJ’s fight
@Shreya, Arista had a problem with AJ’s way of communication.
She wanted AJ not to be rude with the individuals who are having a different view from him.
Arranged marriages the time bomb that spares no one.
Kavya has love marriage, lets see how Vanraj and Kavya are managing this.
I don’t want to point out, but now Why is Vanraj all of a sudden wearing glasses?? I understand he is changing to old Vanraj to take back what he lost (Which I hope that does not include Anupama) but he never wore glasses, or maybe he did and I skipped those episodes not sure. But I feel as if he is trying to be Anuj, with the glasses (my opinion). And he can get his house, his respect, his children and parents and their respect. That was all taken by his love of his life Kavya. But as I said this must not include Anu, because he is toxic, in away he just wants everything for himself when he can’t provide happiness to the other person. Yes Anupamaa moved out the house but her blood, and the best parts of her stay in that house, which is her children. Of course she will interfere in the house cause her children will be affected by all this fighting, which can sometimes be resolved in a calmer manner. I am 16, and I know when to keep my mouth shut and when to fight. But I won’t fight outside to let everyone know, not any person would do that, but again it was in the heart of the moment. Anupamaa has her children there, plus it is difficult to stay away from there because she was there for 26 years it became like a habit and Anuj even knows this. That why he stands there silently and respectfully. She has just moved away and she needs to adjust, trying to stay away from that house and especially if the people she love stays there. Bapuji is so sweet on advicing her in such a well thought out manner. He is not saying go fall in love now, but open your heart and make a small place in it for Anuj, give him a chance. And the way Anu looked at him after Bapuji told her that, was actually looked as if she realized she cared about him more than she thought (I repeat care and her brain is accepting what the heart kinda feels already). I would love to see Anupamaa’ POV, and what she thinks of Anuj sometimes like he does for her. But I must say I also really enjoy the show due to the directoring of the scene and the editing. Those people deserve so much hands of applaud for them. Especially the blurring, the way they capture the scene especially during the Krishna and Radha scenes makes me so amused. Of course I love the double meaning of when Anuj is asking if she coming with him and she says yes. It seems like she is coming on the journey with him to find love at the end, peace in the middle and happiness in the start (my opinion again). I really hope happiness comes now but again pain and sorrow, build the clouds of the storm but remember there is always going to sunshine the next day. And that is important to remember. And I actually I went through alot this year and this program gave me hope for something better. I believe god send blessings to like Anuj to Anu and it will always be her decision what to do with the blessing. Well I hope you’ll have and amazing day 💖😍
Very Optimistic attitude ✨. Keep it. You did correct analysis
Kavya is full of shit conning how rude
Money grabbing
People who think she is right are wrong you don’t grab things which are not yours you have to earn it not steal it