Anupama 21st March 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anuj in an intoxicated state continues describing each Shah family member’s nature. Anuj asks him to stop. Anuj says in this whole house, Vanraj, Baa, and Kavya are very toxic and hence he doesn’t want her to stay in this house. Rakhi taunts Baa that she calls her naagin, but her would be damad/SIL is calling her toxic. Bapuji tries to feed lemon juice to Anuj and asks everyone to go their rooms. Rakhi says she will freshen up in a hotel and return to watch this drama. Everyone walk away. Anu sits next to Anuj and asks if he is fine. Anuj says he doesn’t like this house as it snatched her identity and now snatching her from him, he misses her. Anu says let us talk about it after going home and tries to feed him lemon juice. Anuj says these people are using saam, daam, and, bhed and snatching her happiness; when she left this house already, why they are not leaving her. She says she called GK and he should go home with him. Anuj insists to go home only with her. She says she will come after changing her clothes. He insists. She asks him not to get adamant. He says he will go but will not leave his adamancy to make her his dear one.
After some time, Rakhi returns after freshening up and sees Shah family sitting silently. She asks if the drama is over. Dolly stops her. Anu walks in. Rakhi thinks drama will start now and asks Anu where is her sanskar when she teaches sansakr at least 10 times a day, is it an age to romance when she is getting her grandson, a grandmother cannot marry.
Anuj feels hangout. GK offers him tea silently. Anuj asks if he created a big problem. GK asks how does he know as he wasn’t present there. Anuj asks if Anu didn’t say anything, did he blast a bomb. GK says its a bomb for a middle class family and describes what he did. Anuj gets worried for Anu. GK asks why did he drink bhang. Anuj says he doesn’t know. GK says Anu has to face the burnt now.
Baa does garbha around Anu. Anu stops her and says she will get short of breath. Baa says she will be breathless because of her and says people taunt a mother if she marries again, she is becoming a grandmother and people will not spare her. Bapuji says she didn’t have any issue with Anu and Anuj’s wedding and herself asked Anuj to fill Anu’s hairline. Baa says Anu was a mother then and now is becoming a grandmother; people will point at her. Bapuji says people marry even after becoming grandparents. Baa says only men marry as they can do anything and gives a long lecture why a grandmother shouldn’t marry. Anu stands stunned while Rahi smirks seeing the drama.
GK tells Anuj that he expressed his words in a wrong way but said right. Anuj asks what does he mean. GK says he is right and Anupama will support him. Anuj says he knows, but whenever its a question of family Anu. GK interrupts and says family is bonded by love and Anupama will stand up for love, she lives for relationship and his and Anu’s relationship very strong, he always supported her and hence even she will support her. Anuj says he will go there right now to support Anu as he cannot let her bear the wrath alone silently.
Baa continues her justification and says she will ask when Vanraj can marry 1 year ago why can’t she, the world will not spare her. Samar says they are not bothered about the world. Baa says if he stays in the world or Himalaya, world has progressed only for men and women still live a deprived life since generations, men are made with attitude and women are made with sacrifice, etc. Dolly says she has reply to her every question. Rakhi stops her and says customs are made for a reason. Baa asks to put themselves in this situation and realize that daadi and shaadi cannot go along. Bapuji says she cannot force Anupama. Baa gets admant and orders Anu to inform Anuj that she cannot marry him. Anu stands speechless. Baa and her supporters walk away. Rakhi says entertainment is over and even she leaves.
Kavya insists Vanraj that Anu should marry Anuj to end her connection completely with Vanraj. Vanraj says it will never happen as Anu is his children’s mother and whenever there is a question of children, they both will stand together; he is sure Anu will not marry Anuj as she is a grandmother now and in their society, grandmothers don’t marry. Anuj gets restless and says its his mistake that he gave Baa one more reason to taunt Anu, what if Baa insists Anu to cancel her marriage, he needs to speak to Anu. GK prays god not to test their love more. Bapuji, Dolly, and Samar support Anu and ask her not to bother about Leela’s words and go ahead with marriage.
Precap: Vanraj taunts Anupama that grandmothers don’t marry. Anu dances to calm her mind. Anuj says he left her hand but not her companionship and if she leaves his companionship, he will go away from her.
Update Credit to: MA
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I don’t think I hate anyone in this serial more than I hate Baa. “People taunt if a mother marries again.” Where was Baa’s gyaan when both her son and grandson were getting married to their wives so close together? Tab iss budhiya ko yaad nahi aaya tha ki maa-baap ki kya jaga hoti hai? When Bapuji pointed out Baa’s hypocrisy and the drama she did when she forced Anuj to fill Anupama’s maang with sindoor now she is saying it’s different because grandmother. Agar umar ka itna lihaaz hai tho phir budhiya garbha naa kar saans chad chad ke tujhko narak tak pahuncha denge. Full support to Bapuji!
Full support
Just don’t understand by what right this vanraj is asking anupama not to marry I mean who is he to her and most importantly she doesn’t have any relation with him then who the hell is he to decide for her? Having an affair with another woman even after being married at this middle age and that too being father of 3 grown up children was ok for him and that too he had an affair with a girl who was young and half of his age. All this were OK for him but if anupama marries being a divorce is bad wow !!Really this vanraj is such a sick and hypocrite person.
Today I have realized one thing that kavya is at least far way better than him because her only mistake was that she had an affair with a married man even after being married but her love for vanraj was not wrong she loved him truly that’s why she wanted anupama to get divorced so that she gets her love and happiness but at least she fought for her happiness alone with entire world and when no one supported or accepted her she didn’t bother about what society will say about her because her happiness was more important for her and thats the reason I feel she had to threaten vanraj to marry her because he always kept on running away without thinking about her and did not even take a stand for her. That’s the reason which made had kavya to give an ultimatum to him regarding marriage because she is not a doormat like anupama.
Baa ki 3 step mothers hongi tabhi itni Cruel hai aur 3 chudail step moms ne bigaada hoga ajeeb ajeeb stereotypes dimaag mai bhad bhadke.
High pitch High tone. High Voice. On High.
In fact it’s ok that Men can slap women anytime also according to her, so Bapuji Should Slap her.
This baa does not have a husband like her son that’s why she says all this agar khud ka pati b aisa hota na tab dekhti kitna mard ko sab chalta hai bolti.
Today from beginning to the end of promo, Anupama was like a character-less. How many times Anuj asked her to return. Worst Silence . Character-less because she has so wisdom but Always fail to apply wisdom when Quick decisions need to be made. Gawaar hai Gawaar.
A difference in Topper and Intelligent person is that An Intelligent person will use Knowledge, past learnings effectively, wherever can be used but a Topper will Memorise things, lecture better, only good at thinking inside the box.
Anuj did what he should and gave ultimatum to Anupama also now. Now Malvika should return to smack Vanraj’s job.
Baa says old age marriage is only acceptable for men and women have time boundaries.
Totally correct…iss serial ko hi band kar dena chahiye hamesha negativity hoti hai iss me😑😑😑😑
Looks like same history same drama is repeating again and again last time same kind of drama was there regarding about anupamas divorce and kavyas marriage. Anyways baa and vanraj also did same type of drama and many ways to stop anupamas divorce but still they couldn’t do that time also they were thinking what society will say about getting divorce at this age but at last divorce happened even vanraj and kavyas marriage also happened but no one couldn’t stop or do anything similarly this time also anupama and anujs marriage will definetly happen and this baa and vanraj won’t be able to do anything at all to stop their marriage because before marriage lots of drama and obstacles will be there but in the climax MAANs marriage will definetly happen even though it may take some time.
Good anuj saved from those inhumane shah family and always crying mahanta ki devi like literally he go saved from getting jinxed what else can i comment. #maAnnomore🥺
And now more and more dragging
Frankly, more than Baa, it is Anupama who is absolutely SPINELESS!! I find her the most irritating character in this serial. The makers of the serial should wind up this useless serial, as it is only re- inforcing age old customs in Indian society, where a woman is treated like a door mat and has no right to make decisions for her own life.. this serial is definitely taking you backwards to the days when women were and are still suppressed. Why is the maker of this serial going round in circles?? Just to prolong the serial. ?? Not acceptable.. not watchable..
But yes rajan shahi u proved ur zero creativity
Guys all your points about baa are valid. But I think baa is speaking the bitter truth of the society. Our traditions and customs gave more importance to man’s happiness than a woman’s, which have been imparted to the older generations. Baa is following those social evils where man has right on everything but a woman doesn’t. In today’s episode I do not hate baa. She is wrong. But I think her points are still prevelent in today’s generation. Imagine your grandmother getting married her boyfriend or lover. Would you accept it easily? Maybe you would, but it takes a lot of courage to do so. I am not saying Anu and Anuj should not marry. I am just saying baa’s concern was also right. Baa was also right when she said that if we are living in a world, we need to care about it. Saying we do not care about the world is easy, but actually doing it is pretty tough. Baa is just scared that they might face many taunts and criticism after Anu and anuj’s marriage. You might ask they faced the same issues with Varnraj’s marriage with Kavya. But remember, Varnraj was a man. So this stupid illogical society, doesn’t taunt men because men have all the rights. So baa did not face much issues when Varnraj married. But if Anupama marries, she will face a lot of criticism, along with her kids and family. I am not saying baa is right and Anupama should not marry, I am just saying baa’s points were kinda true.
Coming to Anupama, I think with this she will break out of that “I am a mother” syndrome. First she broke out of “I am wife” then “I am a bahu” now it’s time to break from her mother’s character and think of completely herself. Anupama loves her children immensely, and for a woman to break out of that mother’s role and think of herself is really hard. We can easily say, she should think of herself, but being a mother it’s very very hard to just think about themselves. So this time, I think she will break out of that. I don’t think this show is regressive. It is showing the evil mindset of the society and the wrong traditions and customs which have been passing down to generations since ages. Anupama is slowly breaking out of those.
Actually baa is right she’s that bitter truth which noobs like anupamaa cannot face
On the second thought
Yes
Baa is not just one character. She is the whole Society mindset who always brings up different stereotypes and illogical mindsets across various people.
One person might support Divorce but not support Women working at an office instead of being jailed in Kitchen.
Other Person might support marriage at any age but not multiple marriages for women.
So collectively Baa is representative of the Society.
While Toshu is the representative of Educated Gawar.
While Vanraj is the Opposite Gender of Baa Representatives.
I don’t want to be rude but we need to push for change. Generations ago even childless widows were sent back to live with their parents if in-laws wanted to. First remarriage of a widow was protested in our village too. That widows don’t get married otherwise her pativrat to her husband will break. Meanwhile men were remarrying after first shraddha even if he had kids. But society worked hard and today childless widow remarrying is encouraged, that she will get a family.
While you might have a point, Baa isn’t worried about what Anupama will face. She is worried about the taunts that she has to hear. So, she wants to save her reputation.
Ans talking about her views, if she actually followed them, I wont bring in Vanraj here, but then she would not behaved with her husband the way she did. If society hears that, she would be shamed way more than Anupama getting married. So, here, baa isn’t worried much about Anupama, rather herself.
Anupama can give long long lectures to each and everyone, but can’t take stand for herself. I don’t understand why is she behaving so DUMB after getting treated this badly. She doesn’t have self respect kya? And who the hell are Baa & Vanraj to order. She is handling their tantrums that’s why they are dominating her. Show is giving wrong message. Aaj kal ki koi bhi lady itna insult handle nahi karegi…even after moving out she is back in that Toxic house. Kinjal should go and stay with Anu if she wants Anu or else apni Maa ke paas jaake rahe…waise bhi Toshu kuch kaam ka nahi.
God knows when this drama will END.
This show ain’t no women empowerment show rather it’s an evil empowerment show. And Anupama is a person with zero common sense and complete disregard for people who suffer for her happiness and total sense of regard for people who want to have her serve them as a maid forever.
This show is becoming boring. I can’t stand Baa’s face so forget about her reasoning. I understand that all that she said is true, but for goodness sake, we are in 2022. The reasonings are too exaggerated. In most parts of the world, things have evolved to a very large extent. So why are they showing a mentality of ancient days. I seriously doubt that the same situations exist in real life, at least as bad as in the show, even in the most rural areas. We are asking why Baa and Rawanraj think they can tell Anupamaa what to do and what not. What about Nagin? Who is she to tell anu that she can’t marry again! Anuj deserves better than Anupamaa. He is too patient and understanding while Anu keeps putting others first. We have yet to see the drama of Toshu’s affair, Pakhi’s boyfriend, new girlfriend for Samar and Anuj has to put up with all this. Kinjal should go to her mother’s house. And what will happen when the baby is born! This is the perfect time for Anupamaa to walk out of that house without saying anything, then go with Anuj and GK to a temple and get married. Then walk with her head high and showing her sindoor and mangal sutra. That would shut everyone off. I am glad this is only on a tv screen. If I belonged to that family, it would have been a very different story! The exaggeration has become unbearable. I know we have a choice of not watching, but we are human. We have invested so much time and interest in the story which started well that now we have developed a feeling of being stuck.
@Vany Exactly!!
The world dun live ur life its you who are living ur life!!! 🙄🙄🙄 why care abt the society’s gossip?? They dun feed you when ur hungry they dun stay wit you till you are old n lonely!!!🙄🙄🙄 come on! From some of the comments here it seems tat what Baa’s justifications it’s not the norm! Why care abt criticism n taunts, haters gonna hate, what the society’s opinions dun matter! It’s your happiness tat matters! why give up ur happiness for these people?? We are living in the 21st century!
Sheer nonsense. How could a lady tolerate so much from people who have no relationship with her and who just want her destruction. How can anu respect her ex mil . She should actually slap vanaraj for advising her . Indian society is not so regressive as is being shown in the serial.
Anupama should just call her Leela and vanaraj and ignore them. I have many relatives who even married at the age 60 even seventy. Stop settings wrong example for the society
Regressive from Progressive is what this serial is becoming………
So called progressive lady who is supposed to be an example of progress and forward thinking ideas listening to her EX Mother in Law who had done nothing but humiliate her for 25 years.. and to top it listening to even her EX husband who literally abhorred her for 25 years and then got married again ??!!
Yes.. Regressive is the word for the way this serial is heading… tch tch…
You are right, Anu shuld not cares abt wat Baa said! During the 25 years wat had Anu gained from? Nothing but humiliations n insults frm Vanraj, Toshu n Baa. All they care abt are Anu stay as a doormat n maid for them, n are not allow to move on! They cannot see Anu’s happiness n success! So why bother abt them! just get married n leave the house for goodness sake!!
Anupama will marry Anuj after 100 episodes , that toj when she gets to know that Anuj is suffering from Cancer.
But we can’t say no
Makers can change it also
I get so much negative vibes from this serial.. I just read update sometimes..I cant gather courage to watch this serial full of toxicity.. Roopali should say something to the producer..They are degraded her day by day.. Anupama cant be a role model for any woman..
Yes. Anupama is the perfect example of what a woman should not be!!
rupali gets paid rs.3 lakh per episode. do you really think she will say something to producer? the entire cast is basking in glory of trps today.
According to Baa it is ok for a man to re-marry at any age but wrong for a woman as society doesn’t allow. Now it’s up to Anupama to change society’s thinking by going against the norms and marrying Anuj. This will be a first step towards Anu’s independence and also give encouragement to those women who are scared of bringing out their relationships in the open or even scared of re-marrying after a certain age due to society’s thinking.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXxl4pqjHZU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wn3xluIRh1Y
Men like flat worms can marry at any age irrespective of marital status/even after having kids, as they are no responsible enough.
Nature doesn’t need separate genders to maintain this creation. May be all the creatures can be self sufficient like ArdhanariShvara and can clone themselves.
But yes having separate genders makes life colorful, lovable, gives a division of labor, shuffles genes, create variations, provides better adaptability/immunity.
Men are powerful to protect/serve, but problem comes when they become egoistic due to power, instead of using power to serve, they use it to get worshiped/to rule.
Women are sensible to care and and nurture, but problem comes when they are considered burden and abused because of that.
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Baa reflects the society and its mentality.
As a society we are used to worship/pamper/bribe/bending/bowing to the powerful ones and abuse/exploit the needy and weak ones.
In our society every men need to aspire to be a ruler, even inside family also they have to be the ruler.
Men need to change, they have to protect/serve/lead instead of ruling.
This society need to change, it has to help the needy instead of exploiting it. It has to punish culprit and stop harassing the weak ones.
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Women must discard phaltu men and their family who are not sensible enough to care, I feel pity for Kinjal, the way Thoshu behaves, her new born is going to be an unfortunate one. Kids are the major reason why women depend on others.
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Tomorrow if Baa continues her shit, Bapuji need to shut the door on her/Vanraj’s face. And who cares about a crippled and nagging society after all, which cant do anything apart from back stabbing.
Please dont tell that Baa reflects the society. She doesn’t. She is just thinking about her reputation and respect in the society. She does not want people to talk bad about her. She does not give a blo*dy damn as to what people talk about Anupama.
So what if Baa wanna cares abt society opinions, tat it’s her business! If she lives, cry and laugh only for society let her be! As for Anu, she shuld cares more abt her own happiness as society didn’t cares when she was being betrayed, insulted n humiliated???
Rakhi another one, her mindset are as corrupted as Baa??
I am not defending anyone here. I am just telling that Baa isn’t worried about what society might tell Anupama. She is worried about the society to herself.
Women tend not to remarry out of love and responsibility towards kids.
Men also need to develop those feelings.
Society has curbed women for correct reasons but being liberal towards men spoils everything.
No no. Asking men to develop the feelings if not getting remarried is wrong. Instead we should make sure that women do not stop themselves from living their life. They have been suppressed too long. And suppressing men now will not be of any solution or be a measure of equality.
Marry only if you have love, care and responsibility. One who violates should be punished irrespective of gender. No liberty towards men.
How did you go from not marrying due to love for children, to marry only for love and if you can care. That isn’t what you started with. And not what I opposed.
About marrying only if you can love, take care and thr responsibility of your spouse is the bottom line of any relationship. If not that, then don’t bother.
But the topic you started was about women not wanting to get remarried out of love and responsibility towards their kids. And you expected men to do the same. Foe that I said, no one should have to stop their life for something they can do continuing it as well
There has to be a balance in maternal and paternal dna, Genes must not dominate and remain silent for proper embryonic development, if any crucial property goes missing from either side, results would be devastating like Angelman syndrome.
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Results of dominance are repelling during embryonic development itself,
Results are disgusting when society forces men to be heartless and women to be brainless.
Allow/force each parent to contribute/live fully with love, support and trust.
ITA award was given to villain as best Hero who never acted as hero from the beginning of the story. There is so much of partiality shown by the producer who don’t have a consicious. This serial is being produced only in favour villain Raj. Nobody should watch this serial so that TRP and that this serial should be stopped. More support is always given to a cruel person. The serial name should have been Ravanraj and not Anupama. Gaurav Khanna should leave this show. They don’t deserve him.
I totally agree with you.
This show must go off air, is not encouraging rather is depressing for we the viewers, I know is not real but reel. But is depressing to see woman being treated roughly. And writer I’d favouring his friend varanj. Why for the love of God evil always win .when will varanj pay his price for all he has done to Anupama? When will leela pay her price for shouting and humiliating Anupama? Why do they make Anupama dumb ? Is so frustrating to watch and cursing headache due to so much evil with varanj and his mum and toshu.
Hence this show need to be write off is useless. I hope producer sees and read all the comments.
Why shud it go off air ? Because its showing what you don’t like . That’s the whole message if you a watching something and it makes you uncomfortable then the change has began. It’s good these things are been shown so that people know that yes people claim to be progressive and yet are regressive in their thinking.And gender inequality still exist.
Who the heck are these people to say anything to Anupama? She has very right to do whatever she wants. Baa, Vanraj and everyone needs to be punished for their cruelty! Bas is total mess and what right does Rakhi have to say anything. Seriously the writers need to wake up and make Anupama decisions for her happiness!