Anupama 17th June 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anuj praises Anupama that his wife is the best. She emotionally hugs him. Anuj asks her to relax as everything is gone to be fine. Kavya tells Vanraj that she thought Anupama would go to her mother’s house crying and would conduct tuitions for the living, but she with her self-confidence moved ahead in life and got Anuj as a life partner; she made her own identity even in the middle age, which young girls thrive for. She suggests Vanraj to maintain a distance from Anupama’s family and says Anupama can never think of doing whatever happened today. Vanraj says he knows neither Anupama nor Anuj will do that, but Anuj’s family can, recalling Barkha and Ankush’s arrogance. Kavya says those are Anupama’s relatives and we don’t need to bother. He thanks her for calming him down. She smiles and goes to get milk and bread for him.
Anupama notices Hasmukh’s gift and gets happy seeing her favorite kaju katli in the box. Anuj walks to Barkha. Barkha jokes that boys can’t understand the pain of wearing heels footwear. Anuj says she cannot understand his pain and says it pains whenever Anupama’s wishes are not fulfilled and she doesn’t get happy, recalling Barkha’s misbehavior with Anupama and trying to overpower her. Barkha says she didn’t understand. He says she is intelligent and would easily understand. He leaves warning her that he fails immense pain when Anupama’s smile is snatched. Barkha stands stunned.
Next morning, Anupama gets very happy seeing tulsi plant in the lawn and performs pooja. She tells Suryadev that she got a new family, but she didn’t leave her both families. She prays to protect both families. Barka with Anuj returns from jogging and gets irked seeing tulsi in the lawn. Ankush asks her not to create an issue now. She changes her tone and tells Anupama that the tulsi plant is looking good in the lawn. Anupama gives a long speech on the benefits of tulsi plant.
During breakfast, Pakhi praises Anuj’s house and says she has decided to stay half the time at Anupama’s house and half the time at Shah house. Samar asks why would she stay there. Pakhi says mummy’s house also belongs to her. Leela says when her mother was staying in a 1-room house, she never visited her. Samar says she wants a big house and not mummy. Leela warns her that she will not go there and if Anupama wants to meet them, she will come here to meet them. She tells Vanraj that his daughter has gone mad seeing the lavish house and is talking only about it. Pakhi asks who is she bothering. Vanraj asks her not to misbehave with Leela. Leela warns her that she will maintain a distance from them as they are rich people. Pakhi says they are good people.
Anupama performs kitchen pooja and starts preparing breakfast. Anuj desires to help her prepare breakfast. He says whenever he has off from work, he can prepare breakfast. He leaves throwing flying kisses on her. A new house help Kamal walks in and introduces himself. She asks him to call her bhabhi and help her prepare bhog first. Kamal shows her automatic kitchen. She arranges things on the kitchen cabinet and misses her her masala box.
Pakhi continues to misbehave with Baa. Kinjal asks her to behave. Samar says her behavior with mummy suddenly changed once mummy got a big house. Pakhi then starts misbehaving with Vanraj. Vanraj is stunned to and says she was feeling humiliated by her mother till yesterday and today feeling humiliated by her father. He says he is still his father, this is her house, and she should understand that she is from a middle class family. Pakhi says there is nothing to feel proud about the middle class family. Vanraj says she is feeling embarrassed of a father who brought her up. Pakhi continues her misbehavior and says she will visit Anupama’s family at any cost even if they oppose. Vanraj stands feeling helpless.
Precap: Barkha scolds servants seeing the plastic masala boxes in the kitchen. Anupama says these belong to her. Pakhi looks Adhik and her pic in her mobile and keep her mobile aside. Vanraj walks towards mobile.
Update Credit to: MA
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I liked Anu’s part. It was so cute. Tulsi ji is a basic ritual on most of the Indian households. Glad that they include Tulsi ji in new home too. However 3 Thu uncle’s obsession with (3 Thu)² board will remain forever. I also liked kitchen part. Even I didn’t knew that technology has become so advanced that gas stoves and cabinets have become automatic. And that khulja Sim Sim 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Jab bhi dabba jaam hota hai first word yahi nikalta are khul ja Sim Sim yaar. Thank god Aaj Anuj office gaya. Kal Alma madam Dance Academy set par thin. Hope so inke bahane Anu-Samar ki dance academy dance career ki success dikhaen kyunki ye bhi dancer bani hai show mein. V apna karma bhugat raha. Baa bhi. Baa ka bachchon aur maa ke beech aana galat hai par ek basy bilkul point thi ki jab Anu 1 bhk mein thi tab kabhi mummy ki Yaad nhin aayi. Aur parents ko unki galti batane ka ek saliva hota hai. Pakhi badtameezi ki. Indirectly show kr diya ki mujhe mere dada ki bezzati se ghanta farak nhin padta. Pehle Afhik ki good boom mein aane ke liye Anu jab stand li to weird face banayi. Aaj Vanraj se boli. Kuchh log Samar ko such rhe pighal raha. Par I feel uska Pakgi se uunchi Awaaz mein baat krna Aaj Baouji ke liye tha. Aur rahi baat soft corner ki yo human nature hai jisme connected ho uske liye thoda sad feel krna. Aaj Pakhi sari limits cross ki. Na bhaiyon ki izzat na bhabhi ki. Kinjal ne shant hone ko bola usse badtameezi ki. Toshu ko Sahi Baat boli par galat tarah se. Aur middle-class family se hai to kya Sharam ki bast ho gyi. Koi mane ya na Mane jo middle-class family hotin hain sabse zyada satisfied wahi rehti hain.
The different parts of the Tulsi are believed to be the abode of various deities and sacred texts of Sanatana Dharma. Moreover, Tulsi is believed to be a physical incarnation of Goddess Lakshmi on Earth.
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Hindus regard the Tulsi plant as the holiest of all. Most of the Hindu households have a Tulsi plant, and people worship it every day after taking a bath. Tulsi, also known as Vrinda, is a Goddess and a consort of Shri Vishnu. Therefore, she is always associated with festivals related to the various avatars of Vishnu, the one who sustains lives on this planet.
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How to worship Tulsi plant at home?
Keep the surroundings near the Tulsi plant clean and clutter-free.
Light an oil lamp near the plant.
Offer water from a Kalash to the Tulsi plant. Always hold the kalash with both the hands.
Offer holy items like kumkum, haldi, flowers and incense.
Chant shloka while circumambulating.
How on earth does plants , cows and monkeys amongst other animals considered god? If plants were god they wouldn’t die nor animals. As for drinking cow urine it’s utterly disgusting.
Freedom of speech so no need for any explanation or irked comments 🤓
https://www.cowurine.com/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Urine_therapy
Have tried both and both of them work.
Not sure about worshipping Tulsi but yeah it has a lot of therapeutic values and can be grown easily in house yards.
Again for me more than worshipping Tulsi, studying its properties/ improve it usages/ take better care of it makes more sense.
When I say urine therapy worked for me, it doesn’t mean it works for everyone, have seen couple of others having adverse reactions as well. Best way to discard whatever doesn’t work, each body has it own preference.
Pakhis behavior was totally not good today and the way she reacted towards her family was absolutely not right. Today I totally agree with baa and vanrajs point of view that one should learn to accept and be satisfied with what they have and what they are. Anyways who would want to go and visit the family who didn’t even respect them at all just because of their middle class background and the way pakhi behaved with vanraj was not at all good. She should realize that vanraj was not good husband but he is always the best son and the best brother and father and thats one of his good side and he did nothing wrong as a son he raised his voice towards barkhas guest who misbehaved with his father. He took a stand as a son for his family. At least Samar is far better than toshu and pakhi who has hatred for his father but he never judged his father at his income or background at least he earns and stands on his own feet without depending on his mother or father.
Should we be happy and satisfied with what we have or should we work hard and strive to get what we want?
The confusion arises because we are focusing on the wrong words.
The correct word that is creating the confusion is ‘Should’.
Any statement that follows ‘should’ is just a belief, an opinion. To be taken with a bag of salt. You need not do it. the question is: Do you want to? Then it becomes a choice.
So the question changes to:
Do I want to be happy and satisfied with what I have, or do I want to work hard and strive to get what I want?
Suddenly the meaning changes. Are they mutually exclusive? Does being satisfied with what you have mean that you cannot want anything else? Can’t we do both?
The problem is in our understanding.
We make our desires a projection of our lack.
I want money because in reality, I feel ‘I do not have enough money’
I want power because in reality, I feel ‘I am powerless’
I want love because in reality, I feel ‘I am not lovable’
We assume that the only reason to work towards something is because not having it means something about us.
Vanraj had his innings of adolescence/adult , having affairs, arrogance, dominance, cheating and heart break.
He should understand Pakhi better.
Barkha is a guest in kapadia house..who is she to decide ghar me kya rahega kya naii..
Pakhi is a show off from day 1..rich or classy logo ke aage piche ghumna or chaplusi karna or baaki logo pe chilana aata hai bus..may be its vanraj’s karma..he was trapping for mukku for money and power..may be now his daughter will be trapped by that greedy adhik to become SIL of rich anupama
House belongs to family members, Anuj might have bought it, but GK, Anupama, Anuj’s brother, sister, children, all make it a house and they all should stay together with equal rights/opinions if they have decided to do so. But the condition is to stay as family giving their best/by supporting each other, not by planning, plotting against each other.Practically speaking while elders represent experience, younger ones reflect modernity, both need to be in sync for a safe, effective, constructive, natural progress.
There must be strong reasons for Kanta MOM, Bhavesh and Rakhi’s absence, as she could manage house warming without few important family members, rituals also can be managed with adjustments as per convenience.
But essence is same, house belongs to all are safe, cared, valued, loved, respected, all need to contribute the best as a team and there is no space for politics/oppression inside the family itself.
If we can follow it GOD is by default within and with us who enjoys Mantras/Kawalis/Songs/Disco/DJ equally. All are Art, different forms of devotion/expression/source of entertainment/has healing effect.
Cant stand this pakhi..bich bich me dauhra parta hai ise..pata naii aisa kya ukhaad liya jo itna ghamand
She will improve once she will find love of her life. This is typical behaviour of teenagers. Even I have seen this kind of teenagers. This is called hormonal effects at particular age. If she supports Anupama then its well and good. Baa and Vanraj are not good but they will have to face their karma. Karma doesn’t spare anyone.
Law of karma :
According to this law, whatever thoughts or energy you put out, you get back — good or bad. In order to get what you want, you have to embody and be worthy of those things. It’s the concept of what you reap, you sow. “For example, if you want love in your life, be loving to yourself”
Pakhi is an example of today’s generation spoiled brats who don’t realize the value of their parents hardwork and sacrifice. Today she is questioning her father that he is unemployed now then why don’t she go and start earning? Then only she will realize that it’s not so easy to earn even middle class things. Only that day she will realize the value of money and hardwork because now she doesn’t have to earn and is living on her parents income. Pakhi is bothered more about showing class and status then why don’t she start to earn in such a way that she can purchase luxurious house and cars and travel abroad with her own income instead of pointing finger on her family.
Before raising finger on her father she should have realized that her father started to earn at the age of 14 as during that time shah family was in poverty and he himself got his sister married with his own income and even fed his family with his initial income. Vanrajs life was more struggling as he was the only earning member of his family during that time and pakhi didn’t have to face all these struggles because she got educated in a reputed school, got expensive phone and clothes because of her father only.
And by the way how can she say that anupamas house belongs to her. She should remember that Anuj has transfered kapadia mansion and properties in anupamas name only, not her so practically the house only belongs to anupama only.
I’ve worked with teenagers and adolescents my whole life and I find them to be delightful, kind, vulnerable, cunning, considerate, brilliant creatures of God, but not until I show them that I care about them. Do you know why? Because they have been disappointed by most of the adults in their life.
Also because they are hormonal. As I said Pakhi will improve once she finds love of her life. Love is so beautiful that it can change humans overnight.
I’ve met plenty of rude and arrogant adults by the way.
Most of the time teenagers are a lot smarter and capable than we adults think they are, and probably they are not as smart and capable as they think they are!
Spending time with teens in a meaningful way is a skill, and it’s one that we need more people doing.
Blessings!
Anupama is being served on platter by billionaire husband. Should she also not improve herself by pursuing education rather then be a master of bhashanbazi only
@Lisa true. I prefer monisha. Anupama is an irritating character who only knows to do overreacting and dress like 60 year old women but her worshippers will never understand it. Anuj is behaving like her puppet ever since he met her. That woman is nothing other than a typical middle class bhashanbaazi over reacter. Wish anuj comes out of her spell and leaves her for a better woman.
Pakhi changing for the worse. Very soon she will be eating out of Adhiks hand. Will Adhik be like his sister and take advantage by using pakhi as leverage to get into the Kapadia empire or will he turn out to be the opposite and show even pakhi the importance of family and relationships.
Sheer nonsense. The serial has destroyed by Rajan shah’s obsession with Sudhanshu pandey. These shah’s made a big song and dance about few words by Bartha. When they abused and humiliated gk anuj and anupama in unmentionable words where was their decency then. They deserve every bit of the humiliation enough of vanaraj obsession it’ s become irritating
Why do you watch then? You are nonsense.
@ R Shankar you are right. At some point Shah’s deserve this. Leela, Vanraj, toshu insulted Anuj & GK several times when they used to visit Shah house as guests( remember Dusshera, Diwali, Shivratri & other episodes). Leela even insulted GK by calling Anuj’s servant. Vanraj insulted Anuj- Anupama on Bhumi Puja day though Anuj wanted to help him. In Shah house they( Vanraj, Leela, toshu & even Kavya) called Anupama ‘Characterless ‘ & accused her of spending night with Anuj. Exactly ,where was their decency then? At some point Vanraj & Leela deserve this. But I felt sad for children & Bapuji.