Anupama 27th June 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Hasmukh apologizes Anuj on Leela’s behalf. Anuj asks him not to do that and says he actually felt bad when Baa badmouthed about his SIL and brother as they are his only a few relationships left. Hasmukh jokes that he needs a heart to forgive, but his heart is with Anupama now. He praises that there is a balance between good and bad in the because of people like Anuj and Anupama. Toshu hopes Leela doesn’t fight with Anupama. Anupama gets adamant with Leela that she will not go until she agrees to her in-laws. Leela says she will not invite them. Hasmukh says its okay if she doesn’t invite them, he will invite them though. Leela says he can invite them and complete the the drama left. He says drama happened even from their family. Leela says they both can do whatever they want to. Hasmukh ignores her and takes Anupama along to invite Kapadias. Leela says she will welcomes Kapadias very rudely.
Hasmukh notices tears in Anupama’s eyes and asks her to stop crying and get busy in her DIL’s baby shower ceremony arrangements. Anupama wipes her tears and says they will make the event best for their happiness memories. Hasmukh calls video calls Barkha and Ankush and apologizes them for yesterday’s event and issue during the party. Ankush asks him not to apologize. Hasmukh invites them for Kinjal’s baby shower ceremony. Ankush accepts his invitation. Anuj praises Bapuji for acting so mature. Leela fumes seeing that. Hasmukh suggests Anupama to talk to Anuj as he is hurt.
Vanraj notices Leela’s missed calls and calls her back. Leela informs him that tomorrow is Kinjal’s baby shower ceremony. Anupama asks Anuj why didn’t he react to Baa’s words. He asks why should he interfere between the mother and daughter. She asks if she can stay back at Shah house as there is a lot of work here. Anuj acts angry and says she didn’t ask him to stay back to help her. He jokes with him in a Mumbai style and orders him to stay back at Shah house silently and help her. Samar calls Anuj and she leaves, leaving Anuj frustrated. Leela informs Vanraj that Rakhi insisted for the baby shower ceremony tomorrow and Anupama agreed. Vanraj feels disheartened, says Bapuji performed Anupama’s ritual first, asks doesn’t he have right to perform his grandchild’s ceremony, etc. Leela says she will cancel the ritual and perform it only after he returns.
Samar offers his earning to Anupama for the ceremony. Anupama and Hasmukh get emotional. Toshu also contributes his savings. Vanraj asks Leela not to cancel the ceremony if the muhurath is of tomorrow and says he would be called the grandfather anyways. Samar, Toshu, Anupama, and Bapuji chat emotionally and plan to make the ceremony a memorable event. Vanraj tells Leela that he will arrange money for the ceremony as he doesn’t want anything missing in his DIL’s ceremony and feels more emotional. Anupama suggests Samar mend his relationship with his father. Samar says Mr Shah still has defects, but he is trying to fulfill all his responsibilities. Samar asks Leela to invite everyone except Kapadias. Leela says she tried her best, but couldn’t stop Anupama and Hasmukh from inviting them.
Precap: Shahs cheer up Kinjal with a dance performance before the ceremony. Anupama feels anxious about handling Rakhi, Leela, and Barkha during the ceremony. They all 3 determine to humiliate Anupama if anything goes wrong.
Update Credit to: MA
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What about Hasmukh’s operation?
Pls don’t ask logical questions.
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Since he started mopping the floor, surgery is not required. His heart became strong😂😂
https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/12-jobs-to-do-around-the-house-instead-of-going-to-the-gym-53390
Men can have gym facility by doing chores and women also can get their share of vitamin D and oxygen when the contribute in gardening/outing/marketing.
Stick to what your preach ‘Koin kam chota ya bada nahin hota’ and do everything possible to help and stay respected.
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One is respectable only because of the work/help they do.
We worship Gods/Superiors, as they do the things for us which are beyond our control. If they don’t do/help, we wont worship/respect.
It was just a joke as writers have forgotten Bapuji surgery. since most of the females are working nowadays, men also do household work like dusting, cleaning, mopping. Even I have done washing utensils and mopping. We know koi kaam chhota ya bada nahi hota. So no need of your lecture.
Even if the lady doesn’t work, she need break from 24/7 house work, they need to venture out.
They have equal rights on learning/earning/sun/light/air.
they should not be asuryampashya.
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Kids/elders/chores/care are everyone’s responsibility in house.
So if the men are working 24×7, don’t they need breaks? I know myself, my colleagues/friends have to manage so many duties, like dropping children to school, picking them up, also doing Household chores and manage job as, well supprting different time zones. So it is applicable to all. Our partners are happy with us. Nobody has any complaint.
Subha, one Anupama is enough for bhashanbaji. We dont need any other.
Be happy with your moral gyan and philosophy. We know our responsibilities very well.
Amma mia wo bhasan nahi de rhi, complain karhi h. Aur kyu na kare, ek din ghar baith ke apne bacho ke lie maa baap ke lie, biwi ke lie khana banao, tiffin pack karo, biwi bacho ko drop kar ke office ka kam kar legi. Mard to apne maa baap ko chai nhi puchte, wo to in law’s ka care karti h. Ek din manage kar, phir Vannu bhai jaan ki tarh badbadaega kaise karti hai Anumapa. Take One Day challenge. Tu kam karta h, aur paisa tera, par wo khana banake bhi fasting karti h. Kucch din ghar jamai ban ja. Then you may get a glimpse of problems they face.
Nhi krna toh mat kro pr bhaashan mat do i believe and practice gender equality but never supported nagging nature.
So you support dominating tradition but not equality bhashan.
People don’t have understanding, sayad bhashanbaji se hi kuch akal ajae.
Good as log as you do it and your partner is really happy with you.
But most ladies who don’t earn are dependent and bound to be submissive due to dependency and compulsion.
Oh miya fuski, Dont start lecturing when you dont know me. I am 43 years old. My wife is also working. Our son is in 9th standard now. I have lost my dad 4 years back and now my mom is 68, her health is also not good. myself and my wife share our responsibilities very well. I drop my son to school since school buses take time. Wife will go to pick him up and then she will go to office. She makes tiffin for him and i make lunch for all of us and then i go to office. I put clothes in waching machine. Dhone se le ke sukhane ka aur fold karne tak ka responsibility mera hai. mother ka health, doctor visits also I have to manage and we share it with proper understanding. Wife is having low hb problem ,She has to take iron injections through IV. That time I manage a-z work for office and home as well.. and yeh koi ehsaan nahi hai but understanding hai. Mai kyu gharjamai banu? I am not like puppet Anuj. Sab log waise nahi hote ki maa baap ko chai ka nahi puchhte. Without any lecture of Anupama or Subha we manage everything properly. Yeh sab unko suna jisko zarurat hogi.
Anupama serial 2 years se hai uske pehle bhi log apni wife ko help karte hi they aur baad me bhi karenge.
Bhau rula dia tune, wese in law’s k lie kya karta tu, us ke baare me thoda gyan bant le. Ye serial na Vaannu bhai jaiso ke lie h. Tu dil pe na le.
Tissue papers le aur aankh saaf kar. Tu abhi bachha hai beta, experience milega tab pata chalega. Aur mere In laws hamare city me nahi hai aur waha pe wife ke 2 brothers aur unki wives hai. they take care of them. Jab zaroorat padegi I will take care of them.
Bahut acche ho Bhau, Ye baa aur uska ladla to bilkul nalayak h. Uski chod tu apne baat batata reh. Tu to misal h. Wo Anupama wo shubha jae bhad me. Aaj se tera hi Raj h dil pe.
Omg ! Really? Sahi me yaar tu ek hi samajhdar hai is page pe. Aaj tumne apne andar ke devta ke darshan karva diye.. Kash.. sab log tere jaise hote duniya me. Koi kisi naari ki vakalat karne ke liye bich me tang nahi adane aata. Lekin Subha ko kyu bhaad me bhej rahe ho? Yeh ek naari ka insult hai bas woh ek galat kiya tumne.
Bhau tum bhi to usko bhaga rhe the… Mai bolu to galat?
Haramkhor, duniya me sirf tujhme akkal aa jaye bas wohi bahut hai.
Admin , pls delete the comment where ‘Bot’ has written ‘Wo Anupama wo shubha jae bhad me’ and also block his id.
Thanks
Bakwaas show.. worst comedy circus..
Duniya me kaunsa aisa puppet husband hoga jo wife ke ex-in-laws ko tolerate karega? Kaunsa ex-hubby hoga jo ex-wife ke current in-laws ko tolerate karega?
Apologies, then.. again taunts and ultimatums and.. then again insults and again apologies..
Baby shower ceremony will be streched for 3-4 weeks.. in between Kapadias and Rakhi will find reasons to humiliate Anupama.. she will again give befitting replies and ultimatums..
Jug jug jio..
One thing is common in this serial that is high voltage family drama and parties and parties. Anyways today I don’t feel sorry for baa and vanraj at all because this is what they have done last time with anupama like during kinjal and toshus alliance and during kinjal and toshus engagement. Today baa is feeling bad for her son that anuj will be celebrating kinjals baby shower in vanrajs place but someone should also remind her that when kinjal came with her parents to talk about her alliance in shah house then vanraj did not even call anupama as a mother to talk about her sons alliance instead he replaced anupama with kavya and made her to pretend like toshus mother just for the sake of tgeir so called reputation. That time baa did not feel bad for anupama at all when her own son did the same thing with her and did not even scold vanraj for doing this to anupama and today this mother and son is feeling bad about it. Baa is really a hypocrite if her son does the mistake then it’s OK but if someone else does the same mistake then she gets hyper and angry. It’s good this is happening with them as now they will realize how it feels when you are being ignored and replaced in some important event by someone else. Also this baa and vanraj never felt bad when they performed toshu and kinjals engagement without anupamas presence so why should someone feel bad if same thing is happening with them. This is called karma which says what goes around comes back to us only.
Baa is reacting as if anupama has replaced vanraj with anuj. Really! If vanraj got stuck in some work due to which he won’t be able to come then how come anuj and anupama is to be blamed here ? The way Baa is saying as if anupama has planned everything purposefully so that vanraj won’t be able to attend the function whereas it was rakhi who fixed the date and anupama and anuj has come here only to celebrate kinjals baby shower and help to decorate in the function so there is nothing about replacing someone.
Well people like Vanraj have a lot of ego but they do have good in them, we all have good and bad, he is trying to change obviously its not easy but he is trying but its Anupama doing too much this time, ok she was the one who has a big heart and thinks for whole universe then why not to think if Vanraj wont be there and since she went through same thing she should know it better than anyone else. Bad people too change into good, few of the Anupama characters think creator is whitewashing Vanraj but that isnt the case, he is trying to change but its people who cannot digest it, he doesnt want Kapadias as they insulted his father but Anupama is adamnt to invite them, personally I cannot change my impression on people who insulted my parents TWICE and if someone can then sad for their parents. Anupama took decision and decided to let Vanraj be away if she is also doing the same thing then what is the difference between Vanraj and her? Like when Vanraj did it was wrong but Anupama did then its right like if you actually wanna be fair not unfair. It would have been karma if it actually happened for his deeds rather its indirect revenge going on. I know I made a statement on which many will disagree but this is what I feel and think , people need to start seeing good in people, if bad is trying to change into good people criticise them for whitewashing then the one actually tring to change feels bad and people are really sick in this matter.
Anupama has to understand that you can please everyone & along the you have to draw a line to ones goodness!!! Her super goodness is what is always bringing problems!!! Forcing situations & people in order to bring people together only creates more tension & problems!!! The day she understands this is the day her problems will end
True!
We are social beings who thrive in happy relationships. To keep our interactions with others pleasant, we usually want to please them, or to at least not displease them.
However, we can’t please everyone; we just can’t do everything people want us to do because we are finite beings.
Moreover, pleasing others may not always be beneficial, neither to us nor to them. For example, if alcoholics’ relatives live to please others, they will have to become round-the-clock alcohol suppliers. They will thus become codependents who unintentionally perpetuate or even aggravate the alcoholic’s addiction.
Codependency refers to excessive emotional reliance on another person, especially one who makes unreasonable and unhealthy demands – such as an addict or abuser. Just as alcoholics feel compelled to drink, their codependents feel compelled to please them. Why would anyone become a codependent? One reason is that they unwittingly base their self-worth solely on what others think about them.
Codependency may obstruct our spiritual growth too. When we understand that we are souls, who are eternal parts of the all-attractive supreme, Krishna, we naturally want to serve him, and serve others in relationship with him.
However, most people are materialistic. We can and should serve them by helping them appreciate life’s spiritual side. And as a part of our service to them, we may take a conscious decision to please them in some other aspects of life.
However, if pleasing them requires us to act against our nonnegotiable spiritual values, then we have to draw a firm line. Otherwise, we may become codependents who facilitate and escalate their materialism. Pertinently, the Bhagavad-gita (13.11) states that the knowledgeable live detached from the general mass of people.
When pleasing others is our conscious decision, not our subconscious compulsion, then we can act to further our and their holistic growth.
In my life I tried to please everyone and at the end I realised that it is not possible at all. Some evil people will always be there and they don’t care about your efforts.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Akky1CnpFds
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When I cant change/accept/escape the situation, I rise above it by being stronger/by becoming aloof as if that doesn’t hurt/have any impact.
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My dad is somewhat like Vanraj with no extra marital affairs, he is that benevolent who can drink poison for our safety but also that violent who can behead child in anger. And also he never respected Mom.
Neither I can accept him nor I can leave him. I love him a lot.
I have become strong enough that he listens to me and when we cant take his anger issues we all ignore him, and he becomes normal after few days.
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Yes its not possible the please everyone all the time and we must not do it out of compulsion.
Again your me me me started. Bullshit.
And your dogshit started.
You forgot your favourite word ‘hallucination’😛
Not only yours but favourite word of your lawyer as well😝
The thing is that whether Anu is good for to them or not, these people will never going to learn. Problem lies within Barkha, Baa, Vanraj and Rakhi. They all are similar in nature. Not for once they think about their attitudes despite being told. Makers deliberately creating these situations for dramas. One thing is good that Anuj and Anu are team.
Well people like Vanraj have a lot of ego but they do have good in them, we all have good and bad, he is trying to change obviously its not easy but he is trying but its Anupama doing too much this time, ok she was the one who has a big heart and thinks for whole universe then why not to think if Vanraj wont be there and since she went through same thing she should know it better than anyone else. Bad people too change into good, few of the Anupama characters think creator is whitewashing Vanraj but that isnt the case, he is trying to change but its people who cannot digest it, he doesnt want Kapadias as they insulted his father but Anupama is adamnt to invite them, personally I cannot change my impression on people who insulted my parents TWICE and if someone can then sad for their parents. Anupama took decision and decided to let Vanraj be away if she is also doing the same thing then what is the difference between Vanraj and her? Like when Vanraj did it was wrong but Anupama did then its right like if you actually wanna be fair not unfair. It would have been karma if it actually happened for his deeds rather its indirect revenge going on. I know I made a statement on which many will disagree but this is what I feel and think , people need to start seeing good in people, if bad is trying to change into good people criticise them for whitewashing then the one actually tring to change feels bad and people are really sick in this matter.
Btw not to offend anyone but pakhi also contributed that was so cute because kinjal loves pakhi more than a mom though they don’t share a blood relation.
Rakhi is keeping the baby shower ceremony but shah household has to contribute. No wonder they are broke all the time.
She wanted at her house, but Shahs want at their place.
Glad the Vanraj has chosen work over ritual/celebration/function.
We perform rituals to work well/celebrate the success in work.
So ritual/celebration/function are ornaments of work. But work/karma is the fundamental entity.
Don’t ornate it so heavily that it will be difficult to work itself.
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Our maid lost her job from several houses as she made frequent trips to native due to some relatives death.
Irony is its was not mandatory for her to help physically/financially them, when they were ill/not doing good. But she had to attend rituals for some days by staying at their place.
Rituals are important than relative’s life and her own work!
Several acquaintances had to attend various functions and some of them died due to covid.
Rituals are important than life.
I stay away from native and travelling to native for each and every function costs high and cause health issues.
I was not very popular among relatives as I cant attend these functions but things are changing slowly as they understand that I might fail to be part of rituals/function, but incase of need I am always there and we can always celebrate when we defeat those adversities together.
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Its not necessary to perform rituals together but Its mandatory to share duties and face adversities together. Glad that Vanraj understands it and trying his best to be the greatest grand father. Hope he will have good impact on the kid.
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Its will be interesting to see how Anupama handles khunkar Mom trio(Baa/Rakhi/Barkha.)
https://www.deccanherald.com/content/425322/utility-rituals-duties.html
https://www.thehindu.com/opinion/columns/are-rituals-still-important/article22387375.ece
@ABC I completely agree with you.why Baa is blaming Anuj? He is not at all replacing Vanraj. He visits Shah house only for the sake of Anupama/her happiness. He even agreed to stay at Shah house to help his wife to arrange the programme nothing else…..He has no intention to replace Vanraj.