Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 30th May 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Surekha saying we should get Kairav married. Akshu is connected on video call. Manish says he isn’t thinking of marriage. Dadi says you are upset with him, but you want him to marry, he lost his love, he is afraid to marry, but he has to move on. Akshu asks are you thinking of Muskaan. He says she is a nice girl, but she is hurt, we can’t take a chance, after what Kairav did today. Surekha says life gave second chance to Akshu and Aarohi, and Kairav will also get it. Akshu says we should talk to him about marriage. Kairav comes home. He says I won’t worry, that’s final Akshu. She says but why, we shouldn’t give up, life needs a second chance. Dadi asks why don’t you want to marry, you don’t believe in love or marriage, or have work pressure. Kairav goes. Abhir sits in the tent. He sees the family album. Abhi comes there and talks to him.
Abhir says I m looking for someone in the pic. Abhi thinks Akshu is keeping the marriage with Abhinav only for Abhir. He asks are you Ruhi’s poppy, you would have seen her since she was a baby. Abhi shows Ruhi’s pic. Abhir asks why are you marrying Maasi now, my dad is a driver, he got married first and then I was born, you and Maasi are doctors, is the system different. Abhi says no, I m Ruhi’s poppy, not her dad. Abhir asks who is her dad. Abhi says my younger brother, Neil. Abhir asks where is he. Abhi says he isn’t with us, he has become a star now. Abhir asks does Ruhi know this. Abhi nods. Abhir thinks Ruhi knows everything, why don’t I know it. He says don’t cry and wipes his tears. Abhi says sorry for the project, is there anything in your heart, you can tell me or your mum and dad, don’t stay sad. Abhir says I m feeling sleepy. He goes. Abhi worries.
Its morning, Abhi asks Abhinav to have the veg upma, its tasty and healthy. Akshu says my jam is tasty. Abhi says its not healthy. Abhinav says we will try. She asks him to have upma. Abhi and Akshu argue. Abhinav says calm down and have food, Abhir is still upset, I will make him ready for school, stop it now, how will I handle three kids in the house. He goes. Abhir wears the uniform. Abhinav says you got ready, come. Abhir thinks my nose is big, dad’s nose is small, our eyes and hair are also different. Abhi thinks shall I tell Akshu that Abhir was finding someone in photo album, no, maybe I m overthinking. Abhinav gets Abhir. Abhi asks how are you feeling. Akshu says your doc man made upma. Abhi says its your wish. Abhir eats the upma. Abhi asks how is it. Akshu asks are you upset with me. Abhir signs no. She asks are you fine. He nods. Abhir thinks where is my dad and why is he not with me.
Abhir comes from school and calls Ruhi. She says you forgot me. He says sorry, I went to school, I have to tell something imp, don’t tell anyone, if mum and dad know this, then they will worry, please keep this secret, promise. Ruhi says promise. Abhir says my dad isn’t my real dad. Ruhi says oh no, are you fine, my poppy isn’t my real dad, my real dad has become a star, I have poppy, mum, Dida and everyone, you also have mum and dad, why are you sad. Abhir says I don’t even know his name, how shall I find him. She says you will know about your real dad from the hospital. She says the hospital is far. Ruhi says call them and ask. He says yes, I will call and ask who is my real dad. Akshu comes and says I was looking for my phone. He says sorry, I was talking to Ruhi. He asks do I know everything about my family, you call me smart, you taught me many things, is there anything you want to tell me. She explains and says you will learn everything gradually, you know everything and you will know other things with time, your mum and dad will tell you everything, come. She hugs him. She goes. Abhir goes to Abhi and asks for his phone. Abhi gives the phone. Abhi talks to Rohan. Abhir calls the hospital. Akshu comes and sees him. She asks whose phone did you get. Abhi signs its mine. She says he is talking to someone. Abhir says I want some privacy. She says you can’t get it. Abhi signs her to calm down. She asks how can you be so irresponsible. He says I have put child lock, I have raised Ruhi also. She says Abhir has become moody, I m sorry. Abhir calls the wrong number. He thinks to go to hospital.
Precap:
Abhi asks Abhir what’s the matter. Abhir says promise me, you won’t tell anyone, my Papa isn’t my real dad, help me in finding my real dad. Abhi cries. Akshu looks on shocked
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Abhir is more interested in finding his real Dad than upset about Abhinav not being his real Dad. AbhiRa behaving like immature teenagers and 2 consecutive episodes on breakfast options. Abhimanyu doesn’t remember Aarohi once but ‘jaaniye jaaniye’ for ex 🙄 Abhinav acting like a referee, no other role for him.
Boring and stupid serial.
I thought after knowing truth abhir will think how abhinav loved him for abhinav he is everything so abhir think y his dad didn’t become real dad and it doesn’t matter who is his real father like dat
But he is avoiding abhinav and thinking to find real father
I hope after knowing abhimanyu his father how will he react i thought he never leave abhinav bt now I doubt dat he will go with real father 😔😐who all think like dis
Coz he loves his papa but also wana find out who his real papa is.. Secondly from day 1 both are childish nd will always be.. Thirdly atleast he is not giving arohi any false hope that he loves her.. He himself and arohi very well know that he loves only akshu.. Fourthly abhinav is not the main lead so referee bana ke rakh dia use makers ne.. I always knew he will be sidelined
@Happy.
I think abhir’s reaction after hearing a shocking news is normal and obvious. His curiosity is high to find about his real papa. And though he is upset he doesn’t wanna hurt, and tense akshara n abhinav. He still care about his mumma n papa. But now what bothers him more is why his patents hid such thing, then who is his papa, why he is not with abhir. Abhir is a sensible kid so i think even after knowing who his real father is, he will not hurt abhinav.
Actually um fed up of abhira n i just pitty on abhinav so no comments on them..
@Happy, obviously every child after knowing that the existing father is not his/her biological father will be curious to know who his/her real dad is, Abhir is no different, what is on his mind is who his real dad is n why is it he is not with him? From the conversations he had with Abhi n Ruhi his feeling for both his parents are still the same his still concern about them!
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Maybe you are right, it’s just not looking good on screen that he is comparing himself to Abhinav physical features wise but is otherwise not responding to him (or Akshara). His curiousity is natural but he is doesn’t seem upset that Abhinav is not his real Dad. He is just upset that his real Dad is not with him. He isn’t insecure or hurt or scared about not being Abhinav’s real kid the way Abhinav is insecure about not being his real Dad. It looks like he is distancing himself from Abhinav just because Abhinav isn’t his real Dad.
Of course abhir is not upset on abhinav or that he is not real papa but for the fact that his parents did not let him know about his real papa and he might question them why they make him away from abhi. And yes as you said seems like he is distancing himself from abhinav. But later he might understand everything🤞🤞🤞
@🙂 I think he is also curious about what happened that lead to his real dad being separated from him. It’s also good that Akshara told him when it’s time to know they will let him know everything he needs to know!
@ VijayaLakshmi
Agree with your comment except I don’t think that Abhir will choose Abhimanyu over Abhinav. Maybe for some time he will be with Abhimanyu but eventually I believe he will come back to Abhinav.
@ Surabhi
1. Curiousity is a natural instinct but so is feeling hurt.
2. Day one they were not parents, so childish was okay to one extent ( I didn’t like it but is my personal opinion). With increased responsibilities like taking care of a small child, maturity does come in which is missing in this week’s AbhiRa.
3. He is very much giving Aarohi false hope. No one expects their fiance to still cry over their ex or continuously interact with her like those kiddish breakfast fights. What happened to the ‘respect’?
4. Rajan Shahi has himself said in his interview that Abhinav is one of the 3 leads.
@Happy, not all couples are mature in private, some are just pretending in front of the child that’s all, and Abhimanyu despite his feelings for Akshara he has no intention of running after him, Abhinav himself points out their childishness , and Abhinav also sometimes reacted like a child in front of Abhir. Maturity regarding a child does not imply that parents must be serious at all times. some exes who have a child interact with each other on a daily basis. Arohi and Abhimanyu know what to expect regarding their relationship, if Arohi and Abhimanyu continue together Arohi will simply state his demands and what bothers her to improve their relationship, just like she had demanded to listen to her call. what a lack of respect, it was just annoying childishness that’s all.
Lol akshu abhimanyu and arohi were also three leads and arohi got sidelined😂
And arohi very well knows that he still cry for akshu only.. She should break her engagement with him.. Roohi ko pyaar se samjha sakti hai but nai use abhimanyu se hi shaadi karni hai
Aarohi knows from day 1 Abhi will nvr loves her! It’s her own will to carry on the relationship!
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@Happy
Yesterday, Abhir cried thinking of their dad-son moments. So i think that counts.
Yes @Mark I think so too
@ Surabhi
Aarohi was only parallel lead. Never lead.
Aarohi broke off engagement twice but Abhimanyu convinced her to not break off. So, now Abhimanyu should break off the engagement if he wants to instead of always expecting Aarohi to do it. Also, Abhimanyu pampers Roohi too much and interferes whenever Aarohi is strict with Roohi, so he should either let Aarohi explain or explain himself.
@happy he will explain her just like he explained her about abhir.. Nd thora pampering is ok.. She is not some spoilt brat.. Nd you think abhinav is ML? The way he is getting sidelined.. Abhi tak akshnav thik se shuru v nai hua hai but even now abhira hi dikha rahe hai makers.. I mean abhinav is giving strict uncle vibes now.. His character is toooo boring I mean always worried face😒
To be in Abhinav position ofc his worried! Who is not when anytime his child gonna be taken away from him??
Are not others worried? He is the one who always make worried faces or just start crying making helpless faces.. Theres a limit
@surabhi. You have forgotten. There was a time we had to watch abhi’s consitipation mood all the time.
@ Yeol
Akshara is married to Abhinav, Abhimanyu engaged to Aarohi, so AbhiRa are not a couple right now to either behave immaturity in public or private. Abhimanyu’s ‘jaaniye’ bgm clearly implied that he is having very deep feelings for his ex and is not moving on. There is a difference between sometimes and often, between behaving like a kid in front of kids or fighting with adults like kids. Lack of respect is when your Mom has to remind you on the phone to remember not to cross ‘lakeer’ with a happily married lady. Banging utensils will be known as immaturity only not unseriousness. Fighting for jam bread or upma when your 6 year old kid who is recovering from a heart surgery and is majorly upset about something is not ‘not being serious all the time’, its about understanding the gravity of the situation. If after 6 years of co parentingand engagement, Aarohi has to tell Abhimanyu that please try to move on from your ex, or remember your Lakeer or don’t do jaaniye jaaniye for your ex who is also my married sister, it shows what kind of a guy Abhimanyu is.
Abhimanyu jaaniye jaaniye chilata hai kya😂😂 bgm aata hai for both abhimanyu as well as akshu.. We cant force someone to move on.. Even akshu has not moved on fully..
@ Surabhi
It’s not about what I think, you can check out Rajan Shahi’s interview on the net. The producer knows better than me who are the leads, so I dont need to think about it.
Idk what makers said but even role matters.. Abhinav doesnot look like a ML.. His rondu type character.. Plus zero chemistry btwn akshnav.. In fact no scenes of akshnav.. Even now makers are showing abhira nok jhok.. Today it seemed abhira are miyaa bibi and abhinav is their mutual frnd. . Also abhinav’s scrnspace is reduced now
@ Mark
Yes, I agree. Abhir’s love for AkshNav is undeniable. What I had an issue with is that I feel that Abhir moved on very quickly from hurt to curiousity and is now shown more upset of why his real Dad is not with him than Abhinav not being his real Dad. If you remember once many episodes ago, Abhinav had said something about not knowing about khoon ka rishta and Abhir felt hurt and immediately questioned him. Abhir didn’t seem tolerable to the mention also of Abhinav not acknowledging him, here he is very much accepting of the fact that Abhinav is not his real Dad.
@Happy
I feel the fact that he still calls him dad, still doesnt want to worry him, his convo with Manyu shows that nothing has changed in his love and acceptance of him. It shows that he is still considering him as his dad but is curious of the one who is unknown.
Oh… abhira and their fights soo boring and irritating..😖😖😖 anyhow have to tolerate but for how many weeks..😳😳😳
Ruhi knows better the value of her family relationships, because her loved ones were honest with her and did not make Abhimanyu look like her father, So she cherishes her relationships who give her love daily, and who tries to be more sincerely with her on important matters. Abhir no longer has confidence, he stretched a pole to Akshara asking him if he should be made aware of something, but Akshara told him that all he should know he knows, another lie for him. He is lost as he feels he had the right to know the truth, Ruhi grew up knowing the truth, and though others think Akshara did well, she could have raised Abhir, alongside Abhinav while telling him the truth that he is not his father. parents can tell the children the truth, without telling them everything like Arohi did not tell Ruhi the circumstances of Niel’s death because she is too young, but she did not try to pass Abhimanyu as Ruhi’s father. Akshara did not tell the truth to Abhir not because of her separation from Abhimanyu as she knows some details should not be told to the children, but because of her fear that despite everything Abhir wants to meet his father. Abhimanyu really loves Niel, he is always in nostalgia when he remembers him a relationship gone too soon the memories must have become difficult but he also loves Ruhi who also reminds him of his brothers. Abhimanyu does tele medical work, while trying to spend time with Abhir, at least he is not neglecting his work as some thought. As I thought the stay in Kasauli will serve to create a relationship of trust as parents for Akshara and Abhimanyu, and also to please their fans. I feel like Abhimanyu completely lives his emotions when he feels them, anger, love, frustration, sympathy, happiness, he’s the kind of person who brings out all his emotions without pretending to hide them, he’s part of of those who cannot control their emotions. Abhinav has become a mediator for Akshara and Abhimanyu, I believe his role alongside Akshara will change in the coming month now that Abhir knows the truth either their bond is getting stronger or their bond is losing. Akshara won’t leave Abhinav but I feel like things won’t be the same between her and Abhinav. Arohi and Abhimanyu are doing better than Navra in some aspects of raising Ruhi, even though she loves to be pampered but a lot of kids are like that. Abhimanyu will have to rely on what Akshara and Abhinav have already built into Abhir’s mindset to try to tell him the truth. tomorrow Akshara and Abhinav are going to be shocked and scared now that their son knows the truth, because they are aware of the lie they made him believe.
Sooo true.. Abhimanyu was like father to roohi but never said he is the actual father.. This is the best thing.. Y akshnav pretended like a normal couple nd abhinav became abhir’s father why? Papa ke tarah pyaar karne se hi ho jata.. Papa banne ka kya zarurat tha when he very well knew that abhir’s father is alive and dont know about abhir.. Its natural one day he will come to know and claim rights.. He himself jumped in this mess
@Surabhi
You cannot expect Abhirs life to be written in the same way as Ruhis. Everyone forges his/her own life with the resources he gets. Blood relations are important but the relations that we establish with effort and as time goes, may turn to be stronger and more important than blood relations. This is Abhirs life, it will never be identical to anyone elses.
@yeol
Dont compare Ruhis dad who is dead to Abhirs one who is alive and well and that has so much anger, that will hurt even his son. It is easy for Ruhi as she never knew her dad. Same case could have been for Abhir if at all fate had a better handle on peoples lives.
Abhir was sad that his dad is not his dad. His parents lied to him but this feeling of being deceived was shortlived,i.e. untill they sung for him to cheer him up, because of the love he got over the years and how much he knows his parents. Now curiosity is at peak and its normal. If Akshara had known better, if she had any idea that her son now knows her answer would have been different.
Exactly @Mark, Abhir knows Abhinav loves him like his own son! His just curious about why n who is his dad!
@Mark, we can compare his two situations, because at some point Ruhi will want to know more about his father it’s a stage of life, even when a parent dies, children are always looking at some point to be closer to their parents. And even without taking the example of Ruhi, in common life so many mothers raise their children without their fathers, telling them the truth in a moderate way while waiting for an ideally more mature age to tell them the whole truth. so many mothers raise their children who have a father but from whom they are separated, or no longer in contact, alongside friends and relatives without inventing a life and a false family for them. Akshara’s action she did it thinking that it was the best thing to do for her son and also because she was afraid of losing him to Birla, that’s okay and understandable. But the truth won’t change that she had absolutely no need to do such a thing.
You are saying as if Akshara can predict the future, she had no intention to let Abhimanyu knows since the beginning, so she absolutely need to do such a thing!!
@Sivk just because people can’t read the future doesn’t mean they have to do this stuff, but hey.
It’s coz people can’t read the future that they do what is best for them in the present right??
@yeol
I didnt mean it how you elaborated. I meant it is as follows. Ruhis dad is dead so no more questions from ruhi apart from how did he die, that too when she is old enough to know different ways one can die. But in Abhirs case, now that he knows there is another dad out there, i can devise 100 different questions he will ask i this dad is not dead.
Also @yeol, Akshu is not like every mother. She is unique and may differ from the rest. Its okay. Its not true that “she had absolutely no need to do such a thing”. You can not say this if you already said this “Akshara’s action she did it thinking that it was the best thing to do for her son and also because she was afraid of losing him to Birla, that’s okay and understandable.”
@Mark, as a mother I sympathize, but as a mother I don’t approve because it wasn’t necessary for me, but maybe for her m, Akshara found her decision necessary.
Exactly Mark, Akshara lost her mother and father at a early age. A person who grown up without parents will not wish to their children to go through the same situations. Hence she being a mother, given the fatherly rights to Abhinav when she found that Abhinav can become a great father to Abhir. In my opinion, she did the most right thing by giving a loving and beautiful childhood to Abhir through Abhinav. There are single parents who raise their children alone. Its their wish and their take in life. Akshu has different perspective and she followed it. There is nothing wrong in that.
Exactly, like I pointed out @yeol her comments always contradicted herself!
@Sivk, it’s you who wants to find my comments contradictory when they’re quite clear. a person who can’t even admit, what to say to a child that so-and-so is his father but it’s completely untrue can’t be really objective. You only place yourself in one side firmly, and don’t want to admit that on the other side there may also be reasons, so how could you understand a person who sometimes tries to understand the other side even if she doesn’t always get there. I am contradictory if it makes you happy think so, it will perhaps relieve you to repeat it. 🤣🤣🤣
Aarohi n Abhi have to let Ruhi knows the truth of Neil being her father coz Neil’s picture is in the house hanging and they can’t tell Ruhi that Neil is someone else, Can they?? It’s entirely different situation to compare Sharmas’s!
@WTH
There is that too.
Abhir still loves his dad and mum he cares about them but he also lost faith in them a bit. that’s why he’s a little grumpy it’s still important news he’s a little shocked, because he thinks he should have been told the truth he’s going through an existential stage to know his origins. Abhir tries to find out who his father is because he doesn’t really know who he is anymore, now he looks at Abhinav he realizes that they have no physical similarities, while he thought he looks like his father, he must also realize that they don’t really have the same emotional temperament, he no longer identifies with Abhinav.
@yeol
Loosing faith on his parents is not a word i would use. More like his eyes are open and now, he looks at them with a new perspective. He may be looking at them as how well they could act infront of him, look them with eyes that say what exactly happened?????? Yesterday he was sad that his dad is actually not his dad. He loves Nav and was sad that he is not the one. Then at the end of yesterday, he became curious to know who then is his dad. Shocked, no. He just has questions he needs to be answered. If Ruhi knows his real dad whereabout, then why i dont know the whereabouts of mine???
The tears of Abhir, showed us his shock and sadness to learn that he is not his father’s son, but that it also implies that the two people they love the most have lied to him. shock translates differently in different people, Abhir’s shock is about his identity. he is looking for his father because he no longer really knows who he is, he wants to find his father to find himself and regain his identity. Currently for Abhir, finding his father and essential to get an idea of himself even now that he has deconstructed all his resemblances with Abhinav, Abhir had based his identity on his father figure. I think Abhir feels like finding his father will give him all the answers to the questions that sprouted in his mind about his own subject.
@yeol
I meant today, there was no shock. Yesterday, his emotions were shock first, then sad that his dad is not his dad then hurt that he was lied to which was short lived.
I think Abhir is not old enough to decipher complex feelings like “Abhir’s shock is about his identity. he is looking for his father because he no longer really knows who he is, he wants to find his father to find himself and regain his identity.”
When he was comparing his features which may not even mean anything, its just that he questions everything now and his features was one of them.
@Mark, that might not be the case for Abhir indeed. but I have a nephew who lost his father and he often looks at his photos to try to find a resemblance between him and his father. he asks questions to try to know his father’s personality, and he sometimes reacts as it is described to him, because he is in a phase of identity research and he wants to feel closer to his father, yet he has a beautiful father whom he loves. children are precocious than some would like to believe
@yeol don’t compare children they are all unique individually!
@WTH re-read, I wrote, that might not be the case for Abhir. But I was referring to the fact that some children go through this phase where they try to build themselves through the image that they have of their parents. happy.
@yeol
You are right. Even Ruhi must be behaving the same where she will keep asking about stories about her dad e.t.c. but wanting to find herself in her dad is way early for a six year old. Now Abhir is in the early stages of the truth. He is now finding all the indicators that once upon a time, he missed but are clearly visible now even though it is ridiculous as people do have slight variations that are never clearly visible. He is wondering, realising a new dimention to his parents, curious, slight denial as he wish Nav could be his real dad.e.t.c. so complex feelings like identity search, it is not even close to surfacing now.
Its a mistake for Nav to welcome Manyu to his home. It is unfair to Manyu though he might not think the same. Especially when Manyu confessed to him just a mere month ago that he loves his wife and wants her back. If i didnt know Nav better, i will fell he is torturing Manyu with his goodness. What will Manyu benefit by thinking of not troubling Navs wife? Who does he think he is to Navs wife? Her hubby or co parentor? If its the later, he should have spoken the hell up about his suspicions so that all co parents be alert around Abhir.
Anyways, i still do not know what Manyu is playing at. If his endgame is for Abhir to know about him and finally tell him that he never abandoned him, tomorrow is his chance. Lets see if he will prove different from Navra or he will be just like them, or infact worse than them. After assuring Abhir that he was never abandoned by him, ( despite having just did that though unintentionally) he can finally divide his time equally between Ruhi in udaipur and Abhir in Kasauli. Win win. Everyone is happy.
@Mark, Mark, you talk like it was Abhimanyu who lied to Abhir, Abhimanyu will have to pick up the pieces of a glass that Navra broke, and what’s broken will never really be the same. How do you want him to do better or worse than Abhinav and Akshara, there is no right or wrong way to tell a child that the person he considers his friend and in fact his father, Abhimanyu’s only desire is to tell his son that he is his father and never wanted to abandon him. But there’s Akshara and Abhinav in the middle he won’t be able to tell him right away because his son will be even more lost, because of all the intertwined relations. Abhimanyu will definitely not say anything to Abhir tomorrow.
@yeol, Why Abhimanyu cant say anything tomorrow? Then whats his purpose to stay at Navra’s house that too forcefully. Abhimanyu should have the courage to tell all those things happened without any filter to Abhir. You call Akshara and Abhinav as liers that they couldnt disclose the whole truth to Abhir. Then the same you cannot justify Abhimanyu if he cant tell the whole truth to Abhir. As Akshara told to Abhir today, she does not have any intention to disclose the painful truth to Abhir at this young age as he is not grown enough to process that. She also told that Abhir will come to know all of the truth when he is capable to process it. It is only Abhimanyu’s adamancy that led to this situation. So he should own that and not run from the truth like a coward.
Firstly akshnav should speak the truth as they have created this mess of lies.. Secondly abhimanyu and nav both are ok with co parenting but akshu mata wants abhir for herself and her bhagwan pati.. Here lies the problem..
If you think Manav is okay with co parenting, think again. Till now there is no clear indication of their desires. Infact both want their rights as a father. In only few occasions they seem civil but mostly, they just tolerate each other.
@Mark agree Abhinav and Abhimanyu not really want to share their rights but Abhimanyu more aggressively demands his even if he makes some concessions for Abhir. But even Abhinav does not want to share his parental rights but he resigns himself.
How is it a mess? And again they did not lied, they just did not let Abhir know the truth!
@Nitu, Abhimanyu was invited and he stayed, the idea was Abhinav’s, he could have told him to take a rental around and stayed in Kasauli if Abhimanyu wanted to be near his son. He does not remain with force he was invented and he seized the opportunity that’s all, the person in charge and the one who gave the idea. there are things that children should not know, we tell the truth but moderately to wait until a more mature age to tell them about it properly. you just want Abhimanyu to tell Abhir all the things leading to separation with his mother, so that Abhir can hate Abhimanyu or you want accuse him of being too rough with Abhir, if he decides to talk to him about Niel like that you can treat him as a manipulator who talks about adult problems to a child. Abhimanyu and Arohi didn’t lie to Ruhi but they didn’t tell her the things a child shouldn’t know, like how his father died. It’s not about courage it’s about preserving a child’s innocence through the path of truth. Telling a child (mom and dad broke up, and mom didn’t know if dad would have wanted to be with you, so she didn’t tell you the truth and she didn’t tell me either because she didn’t know how I was going to react. but she wanted to give you a family in which you could never be without parental affection) is not so complicated. Abhimanyu could then respond quietly without revealing too much to Abhir’s questions, on the reasons that led to their separation because Abhir is not yet old enough to understand the reasons of both parents. parents know how to model the truth so as not to harm children, until they reach the ideal age when they can really understand the truth in its entirety. Telling the truth is not difficult but Abhimanyu is in the most disadvantaged position because whatever they say to Abhir the result will always be obvious he missed 6 years of his life and that’s what Abhir will see first. Whatever Navra feels about her way of doing things, he must try to limit the damage from his side because he is the least important to Abhir and Abhir might not be able to understand that he never wanted to be away from him. Navra put Abhimanyu and Abhir in this situation, but for Navra it is their relationship with Abhir that matters to them. So Abhimanyu should also think about his relationship with Abhir and think about the best way to tell the truth so that Abhir cannot reject him.
Now I get it. So you worry that whole truth can make Abhir hates Abhimanyu. You also know that there are some things, children shouldnt know of at their early age. They why were you ranting that Abhir was kept in dark by Akshara and Abhinav. Also, it just Abhinav who was having the opinion of Abhimanyu can stay in their house. Akshara wasnt. If some one is not welcomed by a house member in a house, who will go and hyjack their house. No one with sane mind will do that. But Abhimanyu did. He is a trespasser and he should have known to stay in his limits. Also Arohi and Abhimanyu didnt do good job by hiding Neil’s death reason to Ruhi. They hid that Neil was died for a noble cause. If she was aware of it, she would have stood up to the bullying kids just like Abhir instead of demanding a marriage between her mother and poppy.
@yeol exactly.. But abhimanyu haters keep saying that he is staying forcefully nd all.. Abhinav clearly said “stay here for one month till abhir gets fine nd till thn we will discuss what to do”
@mark I know they are not fully ready but they are scared to lose him in custody case so even unwillingly they will be ready for co parenting.. They also understand each other’s pain.. But akshu be like by hook or by crook only she nd her pati ji will have abhir
@Nitu, you understood very well what I said, “to tell the truth moderately not invent a truth to suit them”. Abhimanyu decided to stay precisely because he has a sound mind, he and Akshara disagreed but that was not going to prevent him from seizing an opportunity where he would be at his son’s side, whether it displeases a certain Mrs. Sharma or No. Maybe Niel’s death was heroic for you, but for Arohi and Abhimanyu it involves emotional wounds, and reminds them that Akshara contributed to Niel’s death, you want Arohi and Abhimanyu to tell Ruhi that your tent wanted to play the reckless, and your father got out of the vehicle so that she wouldn’t get stabbed like a roti chicken. Or you wanted them to romanticize Niel’s death. Sorry, but your heroic act was stupidity on a phenomenal level.
“there are things that children should not know, we tell the truth but moderately to wait until a more mature age to tell them about it properly.” EXACTLY, and yet you said Navra lied to Abhir! Contradicting!!!
Just a question, @yeol when Abhinav is ok with Abhi staying who are you to question? If the owner n husband of the house are ok why are you questioning n doubting?
@yeol, So in your view, revealing about Neil death reason can cause immense pain to Ruhi. Hence Abhimanyu and Arohi didnt disclose it. You also know that Abhimanyu and Akshara’s past can also bring immense pain to Abhir and his innocent childhood will be ruined in process. The same you Approves Abhimanyu’s urgency to have his rights in Abhir’s life. How this can happen without hurting Abhir? As Abhimanyu wanted it, now he gonna get it at the cost of Abhir’s innocent childhood.
@Nitu, do you see when such truth is hidden it always ends up coming out, it was Akshara who took the risk with Abhir’s emotions. Abhir would sooner or later end up being hurt by Navra’s lie. I put myself in the place of the parent who wants his child by his side, and who wants to be called dad by him, a parent will always seek to be with his child, it is instinctive and beyond reason. why are mothers called lionesses because they will always want to protect their child and stay close to them in all dangers, the mother and the first who thinks first of her child. the wolf is the one who represents the father, Ferocious and savage, but fathers of remarkable families. in addition to being one of the most faithful animals in the animal kingdom, he is also an exemplary father who will always fight for his little one and provide him with overflowing love. In Abhir’s situation, the parents responsible for his situation must try to work to preserve him despite this new reality that he will have to accept.
@yeol
You are contradicting the shit out of people but let me clear one thing. If Manyu said “….. we are wrong to fight Akshu……they went to save someones life and respect….” who are you to say its not a heroic act by Neil and Akshu even if its foolish. And it seems Aru agrees with the same. Its just that at the time of telling Ruhi about Neil, they did not see it in this positive and good light. They are ashamed that they did not take the situation positively and instead chose to see it in a bad light. If the mom dispises this act of her hubby, even telling it to Ruhi she will tell it in disdain and it will affect how Ruhi feels too. This is why i am afraid of them telling it soon. But also there is a chance Ruhi the one who her dad stupidly did that, she could understand her dads act and be proud of it. Especially if she puts herself in those girls place and empathizes with them.
NB: anyone who empathizes with either Akshu, Neil or those girls is capable of seeing the bigger picture. Otherwise, one can choose to see a part of the picture and that is fine. It just shows what kind of people we are.
@yeol, truths hidden will always come out. True. But now this truth is not coming out in its own way. When it unveiled in front of Abhimanyu, yes the truth came out in its natural way. But in front of Abhir, it is being brought out by Abhimanyu and Manjiri forcefully in a hasty way. They didnt even wait for Abhir to recover fully. So now Abhimanyu has to own up the things and handle it.
Wow @Nitu we seem to think the same on many regards. Just what i thought.
Yes Mark, Most of the statements put forth by Abhimanyu fans are contradicting and they twist and turn the things to fit them into different situations. Most of the times, I tried to avoid their comments. Some times I can’t.
@Mark, whatever way you want to see this action. there was nothing heroic for me, only two people who were not prepared to face a dangerous situation, and who had never received any preparation to face this kind of situation and who underestimated the police to go play the brave. It was clearly a senaristic need to clear Akshara as always for all his illogical actions. Arohi no longer wants to dwell on the past, she is now a mother, she no longer wants to procrastinate on this situation, otherwise she would have thought and if the intervention of civil with ends up killing a child, it could have been mine because everything as Niel’s life was taken the life of another innocent could have been taken, if you only want to see the positive look the good in the face if you like. their actions as oblivious saviors who did not want to think about the consequences before acting, ended up depriving Ruhi of a father and other members of the Birla family of a child. Arohi would obviously only want to keep Niel’s positive so as not to hurt his daughter, and Abhimanyu it was his guilt over the way he divorced Akshara who was talking. Everyone has the right to see things as they want, you can see the carelessness of this life lost as a trophy of honor, but not everyone will agree to idealize this nonsense. Humans are like that, we always wonder if things could have been done differently, could it have changed anything, so many possibilities come to mind to avoid regret, grief or even hate, and one day we get up and we just want to move forward to try to stop questioning ourselves, and accusing someone without result, so we decide to keep only the positive despite certain bitter truths. judging a person because they don’t have the same thoughts as us also shows what type of person we really are. No sane parent is going to risk making his child idealize such a stupid act as that of Akshara and Niel, for fear that his child will take example, and risk his life without thinking before acting.
@yeol
It seems you are so convinced that it will be hard for Manyu to tell Abhir the truth. So why do you make it seem it was easy for Navra to tell it?🤷♀️ I talk like its Manyus turn to shine. Not as you implied on the opening statement of your comm. Manyu will pick the pieces yes but how he picks will either set him apart as better or worse to Navra. But maybe, he will do exactly like Navra did, i.e. play out the truth and let him overhear it.
If he doesnt want to pick up the pieces,(he will add on coward in the list of his many traits), he can point Abhir in the direction of those who broke the glass in the first place. They will be ideal candidates that can pick the pieces up and join them together.
@yeol it is Abhimanyu’s turn to pick the pieces of the broken glasses Navra broke coz it’s also partly due to him they had come to this situation! If Abhi comes to know that Akshara n Abhimanyu was a married once, he might see the whole situation differently!
Couple*
Thn who is manyu to akshu that she always holds his collar? She hugged him passionately and tightly but he was the one who maintained a line.. Now dont say it was a gratitude wala hug coz she just forgot about everything nd the moment he called her “mrs sharma” she cme back to her senses.. If it was the other way round I bet you people would have started CA abhimanyu that he has buri nazar on someone else’s wife bla bla.. Also akshu is no less even she keeps telling at him day nd night.. Both are same only.. Akshu ka dhyaan nav ke sath aage badhne me kam or abhimanyu ke sath jhagarne me zada hai
@Surabhi
Let me start with the hug. When Manyu said he will send laundry bill that is when she came to her senses. We all know their financial situation. So Akshu hearing about a certain bill must have brought her back from her gratitude like stupor.
Manyu is a faultymachinesbirla representative who was slow to act when her sick son was almost fried to death. Manyu was a “responsible” father that her son managed to knock heavens door but thanks God, heavens didnt let him in. This is what Manyu was to Akshara when she held his collar. Answered the question or not?????
@Mark good answer! 🤣🤣🤣
@WTH
I will take it as a compliment. Thank you.
It is @Mark
Lol akshu ne to actually ek twin ko heaven pahocha diya😂😂
@Mark by the way Abhimanyu behaves in front of Abhinav with transparency I dun see there is anything for Abhinav to worry about and most important he trusts Akshara!
@WTH
I have no problem with Akshara. But i feel pity for Manyu who keeps “jaaniye” to Akshu even now when she is happily married. Manyu behaves transparently and what i read is, how he is not done with Akshu.
Did akshara lied to abhir today when he questioned akshara?🤔 i don’t think so bcz she said that he knows what he should know till now and the rest he will get to know gradually with time and his mumma m papa will tell him everything. So is it a lie? 🤔🤔
@☺
I share the same view as you.
Infact, she answered it better. And as i said, if Akshu had any hint that Abhir knew, she could answer differently.
@Mark it’s not about Akshara, Abhir wanted to check if he asks this kind of question is his mother going to hint that there is indeed something even if she is not going to tell him. He analyzed his mother and his analysis concluded that she might not be honest if he put the question directly to her. For Abhir it was a lie
I don’t think that akshara’s rply shows her dishonest and through that how can abhir be SURE n decide that she will lie him? Bcz her answer contained that she n abhinv will tell him things at the right time. She didn’t tell that ‘yes you know everything n nothing else is there for you to know about’ and if abhir directly put the question then akshara will never lie to him. Her answer didn’t quench abhir’s curiosity. For abhir what matters now most is to know who his real father is n he cannot wait for the right time.
@🙂 it’s true, but Abhir is a child he only thinks about the main line adults will show him to make up his mind, he concluded that she doesn’t want to tell me the truth, and that she could lie to me.
Exactly @🙂
@yeol
If Abhir concluded anything, that will be the fact that Akshu said NOT now! But we know Abhir wants NOW!
You concluded Abhir’s conclusion not Abhir’s
Of course, a kid Abhir’s age would be more curious to know who is his real father rather than suffer angst about his parents lying to him and losing faith in them. He is still secure in Akshara and Abhinav love, and having over heard their conversation probably doesn’t want to add to Abhinav’s frustrations by asking them about his real father’s identity. Wow, I am giving this kid some superior emotional intelligence! As the person who Abhir turns to for assistance in solving the mystery of the real Papa, Abhimanyu can’t escape coming forward now and admitting it is him. If he holds back from telling the truth, or Abhir hears another conversation not meant for his ears, he would develop the idea that Abhimanyu never wanted him, just like Akshara believes, and Abhimanyu’s silence would be seen as continued rejection. He may even come to believe Abhimanyu left him for Ruhi. The decision now is in Abhimanyu’s court. To save a future with his child he needs to act now and not wait for a consenus with the Sharmas. They have Abhir and it looks as if the truth about Abhinav has not destroyed Abhir’s faith in their family. The Sharmas are fine.
@Rai agree with your analysis, maybe Abhir doesn’t want to stress Abhinav he always was very protective of his father and even now he is trying to protect him. That’s why he tested Akshara, he wanted to know if she could be a little honest with him. Abhir really loves his Sharma family but I feel like he lost trust in them a bit, that’s why he was a bit grumpy and tries to find out the truth alone. the only adult at the moment he feels he can count on to help him is Abhimanyu, as he feels his parents might not want to tell him the truth. Abhimanyu should really try to find the best way to tell Abhir because as you said a lot of misunderstandings might ensue if he waits for Sharmas approval. I get the feeling he thinks there’s some hidden reason his parents aren’t telling him the truth he thinks maybe his dad potentially abandoned him?
@Yeol, agree with you. He is definitely grumpy with his parents. I don’t feel he has yet lost trust in the Sharmas. He allows Abhinav to dress him and shows only curiosity over whether their features match with no pain. He is also shows no sorrow looking over the memories of their family in the photo album. He is protesting, though, rejecting Akshara’s bread and jam for Abhimanyu’s Uppam. Perhaps it’s this protest at having the truth denied to him that makes him turn to Abhimanyu. This kid is very clinical where are his feelings? Ruhi throwing a possessive tantrum at the thought of losing Abhimanyu was normal.
@Raï, it’s true that Abhir’s behavior doesn’t really correspond to his age, Ruhi has childish reactions even if she is a capricious child at times.
I agree. There might be some truth in his protesting. Because when Akshu told him not yet time to know some things, he still went on his mission on his own.
I agree Abhir is emotionally intelligent. Instead of fighting and getting angry he always explains things in a calm manner contrary to his dad. I always search Manyus face when someone gives that remark but i dont see what i expect to see. Its a direct attack to his paternity but it seems he is yet to notice this difference that Abhir is displaying.
True also, kids Abhirs age will have little understanding on what “Abhinav is not my real dad” means. He will only stick to, “who is my real dad then?” But every other issue, he will be blinded to them.
@Mark, do you mean you look to see if Abhimanyu feels a pitch when Abhir shows how well he has been brought up, well, if he isn’t acting it then it’s not in the script. What they have shown, like yesterday, as Abhi hugs Abhir after he explained how his Mum had taught him to cook so he can care for himself in an emergency, Abhi looked at Akshara with the look of gratitude at her up bringing of Abhir. And he is constantly telling Akshara how well she and Sharma ji have brought up Abhir. He was not at all supportive of the financial dirt thrown by the lawyers at Sharmas and provoked and unwilling both Akshara and he were going to meet the lawyers’ demand for further dirt because each love Abhir and don’t want to be out of his life. Now the shit about to hit the fan over the hidden truth of Abhir’s paternity is all of Akshara’s making but the person at risk of being totally encased in its stench is Abhimanyu.
@Rai
It is definitely forgotten as i dont see that written on Manyus face.
How is Abhir hidden paternity truth be only orchastrated by Akshara. As far as my calculations goes, there is also Manyus hand on the matter.
For now Navra is in the clear as Abhir holds nothing but the demand to know the culprit. Now who the culprit is, is the problem. The problem that is entirely focused on Manyu and his choices and lack of choices. Manyu will be engulfed in the stench, because it doesnt make sense a good man such as Doc man, can be so angry, irrational, impulsive, hurtless, to the point of missing even a second of his sons life, let alone 6yrs.
@Mark, correct ‘pinch’ not ‘pitch’. Predictive text, drives me bananas.
@Mark, I think you are being overly tough on Abhimanyu. How did Abhimanyu hide Ahbir from himself?
@Rai
I have always emphasized on how fate, and Manyus anger which was properly cultivated by his mom, played a role 6yrs ago. I think you get my meaning here. Forget this trail of thought.
When i said Manyu has a hand on the matter i meant this:
Manyus part in hidding the truth is when he said he wants nothing to do with mom and child. I must say this is purely a misunderstanding. I know that now that Manyu is fighting day and night to be with his son. This begs the question; what was he thinking? What made him say he wants nothing to do with his child? What was he saying no to? Did he think they wanted him to arrange a funeral for his child? If Akshara said his children are dead and he offered the punishment already which Akshu accepted, then why was the word “your child” not mean anything to him????? What if she wanted him to bury his child, did he not want to say his last goodbyes????? I keep wondering how he can deniy any part to play in his child life no matter what state the child is. What did he think when he said he didnt want anything to do with his child? Did he think his child is dead or alive? Why not later look for answers? The fact that he mentioned child in his sentence, means he heard “child” from Akshu and what Akshu was saying was about a certain child which belongs to him. So any explanation from him is crazy because Akshu did not call him for her but for a certain “child”.
@Mark, Abhimanyu word to Abhinav were: he did not want to engage with him stranger about Akshara or a child, not ‘my child’, or ‘her child’, or ‘our child’ just ‘a child’. Abhinav’s words to Abhimanyu were: ‘even if she was the mother of your child’. Well as far as Abhimanyu was concerned they were mourning the miscarriage of their twins, along with Neil, so there was no chance he was talking to someone about the mother of his child. Finely tuned dialogues set to obscure. Akshara than comes to hear Abhimanyu say no, he did not want to talk about Akshara or any child. Abhinav then tries to apologise to Akshara for interfering in her private matter by answering her phone. She says forget. I know what Abhimanyu is saying. He no longer cares about me. She felt this because previously she had Vaida Papa say to Akshara’s friend, he can’t believe it, Abhimanyu acts as if he no longer cares about Akshara. So is Abhimanyu hiding his child from himself in that scene?
@Rai
Yes he did. How can someone be a mother if the child is dead? If he didnt want to talk to a stranger, then why not follow up with Akshu. My concern is, if the talk about children was closed and Akshu was sentenced to have killed her children, then why is she still talking about a child???? Manyu should have thought 1yr later that why did they say a child when they used to say children. And after all those missed calls, he should have known that “child” used in their call was so important hence many calls.
Anyways, what about the call that Akshu successfully connected to Manyu. He said, he wants nothing to do with her child. Question is, what question was Manyu answering? If he did not understand why “a child” was brought up in their sentences when everything was clear thay the babies were gone, what was this something new????
@Mark, a stranger (Abhinav) says uses the word ‘child’ with the hypothetical ‘if’, so no information about a real child is conveyed to Abhimanyu and as he is not given any real information, so it can’t be concluded he is refusing paternity. The whole episode has to be watched along with the previous to understand the character intent and motive. In summary, just before noticing the missed calls from Akshara he had been in a harrowing family meeting where much the relief of the Birlas and Goenkas a shell shocked Arohi says she had decided against aborting her and Neil’s child. She had panic at the thought of bringing up the child on her own. To ease her concern Abhimanyu commits to be by her side to bring up her child. How can a man who agrees to bring up his dead brother’s child be refusing his own? Continuing with the scene, Abhi turns to go indoors after seeing Vaida Papa to his car, Ahbi notices Akshara had called. He tries ignoring her, but can’t. He rings, a man answers (Abhinav) at first he is alarmed, something has happened to Akshara, then the stranger starts poking his nose into his private, personal, pain and Abhimanyu is annoyed, who wouldn’t. I certainly would. Anyway, after our conversation though you did not show how Abhimanyu hide the truth of Abhir’s existence from himself. I am absolutely clear he did not. In fact what upset Akshara was she felt he no longer cared for her and these are the words she uses. She too had been through a harrowing time out there in the World and needed to feel she still mattered even up to then. If you want to watch for yourself the episode are from 4th, 5th January 2023.
I recently started watching this series.. Loving Akshu’s and Abhi’s fights.. I find them really cute.. also, the conversation between Ruhi and Abhir is so innocent and cute.. 🙂 Can anyone explain, why does Abhinav call Abhir, Nikey-ji?
@Kriya S even you new viewers found chemistry between Abhira the final couple and definitely already decided. Abhira is very popular I must admit.
@Kriya S, Nikki is a nickname given to the youngest in a family or group. It means little one. Ji, is terms for respect. Abhimanyu calls Abhir the American equivalent Junior.
@Kriya S
In this comment section, i advice you to refrain from calling Abhira fights in front of Nav, cute. Especially if Abhi still loves Akshu.
Nav calls Abhir hindi version of juniour.
@Jade
Please come. Akshu and Manyu are fighting for Navs attention, compliments and praises.🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙈 why the hell is Manyu wanting to replace Akshu place by cooking for Nav and throwing Akshus bread that she prepared for her hubby?🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙉
@PO, you are welcome.
@Mark, omg really… Akshu does not have a chance MaNav are the most considerate couple they understand each other better than Akshara will ever understand either of them 😂😂😂 Akshu and Aaru stand no chance against the pure love between MaNav I am waiting for them to play KKKG background music while Psychojiri walks towards Nav with the Aarti plate and tells him that there is no better person in the world for her son than Nav and the show ends with the 3 Abhi’s living together and a grumpy Akshu in the corner like a gremlin
@Rai, thank you for the explanation. Thank you everyone for the comments 🙂
I like the expression Abhir gives when he called the hospital n he mimicked the answering machine🤣
Someone told that “Nikey-ji” is the same as nickname or “son”
@PO, a girl can be called Nikki ji. It means little one. Reversed for the youngest in a group and family. American politician Nikki Hailey who is of Punjabi Indian heritage is the youngest in her family and so her nickname was Nikki.
Thank you @Rai for ur clarification🥰
@Jade
Please come. Akshu and Manyu are fighting for Navs attention, compliments and praises.🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙊🙈 why the hell is Manyu wanting to replace Akshu place by cooking for Nav and throwing Akshus bread that she prepared for her hubby?🤷♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙉
😂😂😂😂
I have noticed that most of the viewers of indian tv shows do the labelling of best couple or find the chemistry of a couple mostly based on physical appearance, skin tone. When girl n boy go with same skin tone then they have the highest chance for crown as the favourite couple. This is the common thing i have seen apart from the romance the couples have who got popularized among the people. I think it is the main factor that most of the audience use to choose their favourite couple. Here also same has applied, there are lots of fans for abhira. They find chemistry n cute even when the couple fight also. Nothing of the story of the show matters to them.
But among the itv couples i have seen, the only pair that became popular despite of the skin tone of FL and ML is pragya n abhi in kumkum bhagya show.
But i do believe that most of the people consider mainly the physical appearance for go with thier favourite couple.
It’s a sickness, if you watch Indian matchmaking on Netflix you’ll see it’s a common disease the boys family wants a fair and flexible girl but the girl is told she must adjust… I wanna go on Indian matchmaking Imma ask Sima aunty to give me a biracial man whose widowed with his own kids and whose parents are already Bhagwan ki pyari I just wanna see how far I can push Sima Aunty 😈 omg they showed like 2 minutes of Akshay and his mother from season 1, they still looking for a fair flexible girl and I’m like aunty your son is the fair and flexible girl, he needs a husband…. I seriously need a community to discus this with!!! Sima aunty even insulted the career women who don’t get married she basically said after 30 it’s the end for women, you must get married before 30 and I’m here like why must I get married 😔 I enjoy my simple uncomplicated life
“.. and if the intervention of civil with ends up killing a child, it could have been mine because everything as Niel’s life was taken the life of another innocent could have been taken, if you only want to see the positive look the good in the face if you like. their actions as oblivious saviors who did not want to think about the consequences before acting, ended up depriving Ruhi of a father and other members of the Birla family of a child. Arohi would obviously only want to keep Niel’s positive so as not to hurt his daughter, and Abhimanyu it was his guilt over the way he divorced Akshara who was talking. Everyone has the right to see things as they want, you can see the carelessness of this life lost as a trophy of honor, but not everyone will agree to idealize this nonsense…No sane parent is going to risk making his child idealize such a stupid act as that of Akshara and Niel, for fear that his child will take example, and risk his life without thinking before acting”
@yeol
As i said, what matters is if you see the bigger picture. Its either one is an empathizer or he/she is not. Thats what differentiates our views. One can choose to look at the kids position, or Neil or Akshu or all at once. At the end of the day its how we perceive what we see. If we see part of the picture, we will be missing a bigger picture that makes it whole.
I choose to see a noble act though lacking in terms of “underestimation” but nontheless noble. And you chose to see a horrible act. Good for us.
My point is, what will Ruhi choose to see?
At some point, when she comes to know there are many different ways to die, she will ask her parents to specify. Now, regardless of what chance Aru will or will not take, she must elaborate in details, diagramatically, unambiguous on what happened. Now since she was not present, she could point Ruhi in the direction of who was with Neil when he was making his choice. This could be very important so that there isnt any chance for Ruhi to misunderstand.
Ruhi is a girl, a child, who do you think she will empathize with if not the saved girls?
Ruhi will be a mother, who do you think she will empathize with?
There is a chance Ruhi will not empathize with any. That is fine too. Its her choice which she will live with it.
A heroic act is a heroic act even if it was foolish act. A mistake is a mistake even if it was done with good intentions. BOTH above statements ring true to discribe the situation. If one choose to go with one statement, its okay. If one goes with both, its okay too.
The bigger picture.
“If Neils life was taken, a childs life could have gone too?” Well, which child? The one whose life was about to be taken already? This reminds me, Neil saved these kids a great deal. I can imagine what “leave everything to police will be”. Hostages. If Neil was armed or the police these kids could not survive. There is what we call, holding people hostage if bad people feel cornered. “Sigh” many posibilities which bring me back to one thing, those girls were greatful to God and to their saviour. Neil not only saved those girls, but also Akshu.
@Mark, the only life that Niel saved and Akshara’s, Niel wanted to help the police by doing careful tailing while staying out of the way so as not to take any risks. Niel got out of the car only because his sister-in-law wanted to put herself in danger, until the end Niel first thought of his family member, he was ready to get out for Akshara, not for the little girls and you can confirm by watching the episode. You look at the big picture because you think about the reaction of the little girls and their recognition, but if they knew the reality, that Niel decided to get out of the car for his sister-in-law, and took a risk with their lives to all of them, I don’t think her granddaughters could feel grateful to Niel. Everything you said is right but only to a certain extent. A selfish heroic act was what really happened that day. and all viewers are aware of the real reason for Niel’s death, he wanted to protect his sister-in-law at the risk of his life. It wasn’t a selfless heroic act it was a family heroic act and the only person who really has to be grateful for Niel and Akshara’s sacrifice. Ruhi deserves to think that his father did a heroic act for the world, even if it was not the case, because Niel and the real hero of Abhir and Akshara he saved their lives.
@yeol
These are things worth contemplating. Imagine a dad wants to care for his foetus or embryo baby but instead, cares for the mother. Potato, pot-ah-to. Big picture include not only, the saved girls but also Neil, Akshu, or all of them. If you choose to see it on the kids perspective only, they dont care if its police doing their job, but the fact that that person saved my life. If you see using Neils part, one can conclude as you so generously pointed. You can also be kind as to elaborate on Akshus part.e.t.c. but all these parts make a complete picture. I.e.”A heroic act is a heroic act even if it was foolish act or family act or careless or selfish. A mistake is a mistake even if it was done with good intentions”
I am glad we have reached an understanding.
Let me tell you my big picture. Neil was going to die either way. It was time to go. Pun intended. How and when and where is entirely up to the universe and God. Its unfortunate Akshu was a means to his end.
I don’t think they are going to make the thing about Akshara’s foolishness contributing to Neil’s death a thing… Ruhi is happy as she is, I don’t think anyone will go on a mission to create hate in her heart for her maasi. I do think both Abhi’s will be killed off and the Goenka sisters will live as widows in the Birla house raising their kids with psychojiri who has lost her mind. MaNav will be together in heaven – the most pure and perfect pair. Why do I say MaNav will be killed off, it fixes PromiseManyu’s problem with the promises to Ruhi to be her papa and marry Arohi when he doesn’t want to marry Arohi and Abhir will be free from being torn between 2 father’s it also keeps both Abhira and NavRa alive for their fans because it is an ambiguous end. I will be laughing at both AbhiRa and NavRa stans as my MaNav will be together for eternity 😂😂😂😂
Abhi made the right call by landing in Kasauli. If he didn’t go there, then he cannot be called a father. A son he is just knowing about is being stolen from him on the pretence that they are doing what the boy wanted, then will he just leave his blood and not try to get close to him.
Another thing if Abhinav and Akshara are really a couple, what is he waiting for. They should consumate their marriage and get pregnant to their own child . It’s already 6 years going to 7 years, that he met Akshara in a bad situation, helped her and made a family of her since he doesn’t have a family. What is holding them. Abhir have done the surgery, he is well now, he has even resumed school and most importantly they are sleeping in the same room even if Abhi is in thei
house, he cannot disturb them bcs he is sleeping in the space they prepared for tourist. So what is the problem. If they are real husband and wife why can’t Abhinav touch his wife??. He can’t even hold hands. Abhinav wanted a family he doesn’t have for long, since he helped Akshara he is holding on to Abhir as his son, can’t he plan another child added to Abhir.
It’s true he helped Akshara, is he the first that will help someone in this life.
Now people want the truth to be told to Abhir, then the total truth should be told to him. And even Ruhi
How will they coparent, when they live in different cities. Had it been they didn’t rush and come back then maybe it will be easy. Is it how Abhi left his family and home to come and stay in the humble abode. Is that how they will do the co parenting. Or he will be juggling between Udaipur and Kasauli.
To me I’m not seeing any co-parenting. I’m seeing a complete family staying together
They have yet to come to the decision of co-parenting.
Im calling it, they will kill of a happy drunk MaNav in an accident which end s with both sisters living in and raising their kids in Birla house cause psychojiri will go mad and Akshu will bring Abhir out of pity. Muskaan will be married of to Kairav in the aftermath of losing Abhinav and MaNav will be in peace together in heaven with his brother and other baby whom they will name MaNav for themselves 😂😂😂
This serial is stupid, Abhimanyu should just tell Abhir that he is his dad and that Manjiri made him abandon Akshara, but oh no, the makers have to make it more complicated just because of the Jay Soni fan base.