Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 4th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi seeing a plant. He holds the locket and talks to Mahadev. He says one flower is blooming and other got dull when the plant is in the same pot. He thinks of Akshu. He says I will talk to Akshu but how, I will talk to Abhinav. Aarohi gets sweets and says congrats, you won, have sweets. Abhi says I m a loser, what will I win, I got my relation today, no one can say that Abhir isn’t my son and I m not his father, I m sorry, I m not guilty.
He says I didn’t tell you about Abhir, I didn’t know about him, life has cheated me, I m not wrong, I felt bad when Manish said if I lose the case, Abhir won’t be told about me ever, how can anyone decide for me, I trusted the court decision, I thought the decision will be in Akshu’s favor, because I m alone and Abhir has his mum and dad, this isn’t a case, its Mahadev’s answer, no one can tell me when I can meet Abhir and what I can do for him, I will live with my kids and I m happy, I m not guilty. He cries. She asks why don’t you look happy, its because she couldn’t see Akshu’s pain. He says yes, I can’t see Akshu and Abhinav’s pain, you would have got shaken seeing Akshu, she looked lifeless. She asks what about Ruhi. He says I don’t understand your question, she will always be my daughter, what about her. She says no, I mean, we have to tell her about this. He says I will tell her, now Abhir will know, and I will tell this to Ruhi, she will love him more knowing he is my son, they will always stay together. Akshu and Abhinav come home. Everyone looks on.
Kairav says Akshu. Music plays. Abhir comes with a cake. The servants get balloons. Abhir dances. Abhinav holds Akshu’s hand. They cry. Abhir gives them balloons. He claps. He says I don’t have to go anywhere, right, we will stay together, Ruhi and I planned this, Maasi helped us in baking the cake, come, we will cut the cake. He holds their hands and asks them to come. They don’t move. They cry. Abhir asks what happened, we won the case, I will stay with you, right. He asks everyone to say. He says I want to be with my mum and dad. Akshu says forgive me, we have lost. Abhir cries and runs. She sits crying. Abhinav runs after Abhir.
The family follows. Abhir shuts the door and window. Abhinav cries and says open the door once. Abhir says I won’t go to my real dad, I will go to Kasauli, Neela is there, my friends are there, they will stop my real dad. Abhinav and everyone ask him to open the door. Manish asks where is Akshu. Abhir kisses the family pic. Akshu sings sunn sunn nanhe….
Abhir says mumma and cries. Abhir opens the door and says I can’t live without you both. Akshu and Abhinav hug him. They cry. Everyone cries. Abhir sees a rope and gets it. He ties it to their hands. Abhinav asks what are you doing. Abhir says I m tying us with this rope, no one can separate us. Akshu says tie it tightly. They cry.
Precap:
Abhir asks who is my real dad. Akshu says his name is… Abhi says I m Abhir’s real dad, he is coming home to stay with us. Abhir says I won’t go to his house. Abhinav says you have to go. Ruhi says Abhir won’t stay happy here.
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“..how can anyone decide for me..” only my mom has that right. I can go against any one if they decide sth that is not favoure to me regardless it is right or wrong but for my mom and her decisions on me I will stay silent though she is wrong. how can anyone decide for me. How?
@Mithu
Exactly. Only a mom can decide shit for her child. Manyu doesnt know that Akshu decided for her son only. No one decided for Manyu. When Akshu told him that we will tell Abhir about you when we win, as usuall, Manyu didnt listen. He heard but didnt listen.
Poor Abhir…. Well Manyu stans are you happy now? Your man got possession of the kid I bet his misery makes you all giddy with excitement just like psychojiri.
Why are you even talking to that loser Aru just leave him let him sit and hold his mother’s pallu. I don’t watch but the update has Manyu saying Abhir has Akshara and Abhinav and he is alone… is this grown ass man really playing the lonely card and that too against his son? Shall I bring out the worlds smallest violin for him 🤨 he had Ruhi but you can see Ruhi never mattered to him cause he has the same bechara self suffering type mindset as his mother. Aru better take your daughter and run this man has issues that only therapy can resolve.
Manyu saying no one can decide for him, his mother makes plenty decisions, wasn’t she the one who decided for custody initially 🤨 NavRa were ready to tell Abhir the truth about Manyu as well so what is this idiot on about like if the court didn’t grant him custody the child wouldn’t know the truth, Abhinav was willing to go over Manish.
I still feel psychojiri paid off the judge and Abhir will resent Manyu even more because he will feel Manyu was with his mother in bribing the judge…
I love how when Aaru asked about Ruhi, Manyu assumed she was talking about his “love” for Ruhi which he needs to be reminded of by Aru was like no player my daughter needs the truth not your false assurances of your “fatherhood” can’t wait for the day she says “my daughter only” and this Ruhi stops calling him poppy too, he is her Chacha and she should be calling him as such.
A few episodes ago Kairav told Arohi that he will support her in her decision after they get the court’s verdict, what decision 🤔 like is there something Aru was planning
Seriously why Abhi can’t value the things he already have. He has Roohi who he raised as his own daughter, whom they both were closed to each other. Earlier it seemed Roohi more closer to Abhi than her own mother but now seems she has been come closer to Arohi and bit away from Abhi though she still loves him. Why Abhi cant be a father of Roohi? Is it necessary to be the biological father? Does that truth change even though abhir decides to live with Navra? Will Abhir stops loving Abhi? No right. Arohi was great today. It seems Arohi doesn’t care more about her relationships with Birlas specially with Abhi. But she felt Abhi’s pain as well as she knows Akshara’s pain. She let Abhi pour out his pain and was quitely listened to him. That was lovely. Abhi again going to miss what he has already in the process of getting wht he lossed. And when Abhi got to know about Abhir he felt happy ciz one child is alive but felt bad coz he was separated from his kid. But why can’t he be happy thinking that his kid never lived a single day without a father and he had a father who loves him immensely? He should be happy for these things instead of thinking he was away from his kid. It is difficult but isn’t it the right thing?
@Jade
When Manyu said he is alone and Abhir has his mom and dad, he was talking about the court proceedings, where the judge will consider the fact that Abhir already has a dad so his position and argument is weak. Thats the context of the statement and not in the context you are implying. If you see the ep, you will understand more.
Also, its not Nav that assured Manyu that he will disregard Manish and tell Abhir the full truth. It was Akshu. When she was overconfident, she told Manyu she will tell Abhir the full truth, allow him visitation, and visit udaipur twice a year.
Manyu is a gone case. He says no one decides for him but his mom does e.g. accepting to open up second custody. And he is so full of himself. No one decided for him apart from his mom. Manish and Akshu decided for Navra and Abhir respectively. Untill now, he decides what he wants. To call Nav a child snatcher, to claim his rights, to accept the challenge of second custody, all these he decided.
Abhi chooses to listen only what he wants, he chooses to hear only Manish’s word but not Akshara assurance, he literally trying to defend his guilt! Anyway it’s human’s nature in defensive mode
@Jade, I too feel that judge was paid by the psycho becoz no judge will take a child away from a mother, unless a psycho, and dont give me the crap about putting incorrect fathers name becoz that happens worldwide, especially in cases like Akshu and Anhinav
Why do I feel like abhir is gonna call manyu as “sir ji”.. that perhaps will bring this dumbmanyu to senses and remind his toxic relation with his own “sir” dad !
He says no one has right to take decisions for him.. absolutely.. then why did he let his mother accept Manish challenge??.. why couldn’t he talk against both ??… how is he even crying now and showing fake pity ?…
All what akshara worried n feared became true !.. stupidity of manyu n psycho mother to think abhir will be happy in Birla house
@Rak
Agreed. I liked how Akshu said, “….tie tightly”. It means, dont abandon or forget us when we leave your side. I must say, Nav made it hard for Birlas to snatch Abhir from Akshu, in many ways than one. Nav is indeed the greatest weapon Akshu UNKNOWINGLY kept to solidify her position with Abhir. Though she never took legal precaution, she did the most strong precaution ever, and that is she didnt let her son lack anything. Inturn, her son became fully hers. First, Nav as Abhir father became the greatest hurdle to Birlas, Nav as her hubby became a shield against future compromise to be with Manyu so that they can share Abhir. Nav as a kind hearted, sensible, calm man made it hard for Manyu to control him using any way. I mean, after all the abuses Nav got, he didnt falter from his position as a father who thinks about his family first. If it was someone else, he could fight with Manyu and thus make him unfit influence to Abhir.
Exactly, @Mark
Arohi is only sound no s substance she was only acting when she said that she’ll support Akshara in this custody case. Where has that support gone she only wanted no reunion of abhira that’s all. Why are goenkas not ordering her not to comeback and leave birla house and claim her share of property. That would be logical. Abhimanyu was always self centered cannibal and he should die a dog’s death his mother should be stoned to death. Makers are simplifying the issue by blaming Manish. Pure dumb writing.
Now my question is why. as a mother Akshara made decisions for herself and only for herself. otherwise Akshara would not have waited for Abhir to grow up and end up separated from the life he built, in the illusion that Akshara built for herself, for her selfish desire not to share Abhir. For it is about this truth, Akshara’s need not to share Abhir with Abhimanyu who had hurt and abandoned him. when the decisions of others have consequences for us, we have the right to question the decisions of the person who caused the mess, we also have the right to judge the bad choices that were unfair to us, all those who are impacted on their say. Akshara as a mother did not make the right decisions, she does not suffer from any mental deficit or even mental retardation, these are choices that she made on her own with her own mental abilities that work well. If Akshara makes choices that jeopardize the happiness and lives of others without seeking to be wise, nor seek to think intelligently while his mental abilities are working perfectly, then why should others have the duty to think for him? and for his good? why others should be held accountable for her decisions because she’s not smart. Akshara with her actions punished Abhimanyu without batting an eyelid or showing remorse as she has a well-functioning brain that thinks, and puts her own interests first Akshara thought in her own interests when she kept the secret. no mother risks the mental health of her child, no mother would have put her child in the face of the pain of separation. Akshara had the means to win Abhir legally, it was not his stupidity nor his instinct to protect Abhir, it was his survival instinct that made him take this decision. as Akshara knew that if she had told the truth there was a risk of an intense court battle between her and Abhimanyu, Abhimanyu could easily have had custody of Abhir at the time, as the illegal acts she had committed were too fresh. Akshara had hidden a person suspected of murder, someone wanted by law, it was a major crime even if Kairav had been cleared it was an obstruction of justice, Akshara also committed a serious crime by allowing the usurpation of her voice has someone, she fooled the public it is a crime of complicity punished severely. Akshara by committing on crimes never thought about his future or that of his future children, many blame Abhimanyu for having abandoned a child he did not know existed, so I can blame Akshara for not having thought about the future of her children, she always wanted to be a mother but never thought about what her actions could cause in the lives of her children, even taking a risk during her pregnancy she risked the lives of her children and ended up killing the one of his twins. When Akshara has failed by her actions in her duties as a mother before having her son or even after, by not looking for a solution that would be beneficial to her son’s future for her fans, everything will be put back on her idiocy is not? although she has a brain that works very well. Akshara never needed to please anyone, she always thought about her own feelings first, and did as she wanted, regardless of others, not even her son. The mother would have thought of solving all the problems for her son before he grew up and understood the mess she made, the mother would have fought until the end even if she risked losing her son because she would have first thought in the future of his son who was going to have to live in a turned upside down world, at least if the situation had been settled and decided by law earlier his son would not have had to live with painful separation, and make painful choices because he would have lived and grown without interference if a court order had been made sooner, Abhir would have lived getting used to the separation of his parents and the way of life of being a child of divorced parents like many other children in the world. If Abhimanyu feels hurt for the Sharmas today, he would have been touched by Akshara if they went to court for custody of Abhir when he was born. the parents always end up sympathizing for their child even if they are eager for their love and their presence they always end up understanding that would be the best decisions for the child after a certain time of reflection. Why sympathize with the Sharmas because he understands their pain, after learning about his son Abhimanyu experienced the pain of separation, knowing that he had a son who was not with him and could not be with him because the mother imposed barriers on him like justice does today. he experienced the suffering of knowing he was separated from his son and of having missed his life, so yes he sympathizes with the Sharma family, this family which now suffers from feeling even for a few minutes the separation of their sons, the suffering of knowing that their son is going to live with someone other than them while they have to stay away. Abhimanyu feels sad and sorry for the Sharmas but beyond this guilt he felt relief, as he is saying true which parent after knowing about his child’s life would not want to be a part of his child’s life. Every parent dreams of being a constant part of their child’s life. Abhimanyu was forced just like the Sharmas were forced by the desires of the elders to choose the legal battle, they did not try to reason with themselves and those around them. no one thought about Abhir’s feeling because on the one hand Abhir wanted to know who his father was but the fear of losing his current life forced him to make a choice and he chose the parents he knows and with whom he feels happy. Akshara and Abhinav didn’t think about Abhir and didn’t persist in reasoning with Manish because it was also their decision, they didn’t want to give Abhimanyu equal rights regarding Abhir, they wanted Abhimanyu to be content with simple visitation rights as Docman, it was their desire before Abhir’s desire, as they know their statuses in the life of Abhir, they rightly thought they could win. And Abhimanyu also wanted his son he didn’t feel like begging for crumbs and didn’t feel like remaining Abhir’s Docman he wants to be a father , all three parents will pay for their selfishness. Because Abhimanyu suspects that Abhir can’t live without AkshNav but he felt guard was his only recourse to be able to share Abhir’s life, he feels sorry for Navra and he feels mixed emotions to separate them from Abhir but he knows that all three are selfish parents, Navra would certainly have partied with the Goenkas if they had won they all think of their relationship with Abhir first and don’t want to lose it. It’s just human feelings Abhir and a child but he thinks of his interests to be with the people he decides to be with, it’s human nature to have desires for ourselves even though others may be hurt. Abhimanyu will soon understand how the 6 years of separation we end up building a wall between him and Abhir, he can never be Abhir’s real father biology cannot replace 6 years of relationship for a child, Abhir he already has a father, Abhimanyu will only be a second father
Abhimanyu had right to know about his son…no one is denying it and even akshnav wanted to tell truth…akshara said she will tell truth…
If you talk about what happened 6 yrs back.. then talk about impulsive behavior and trigger of dumbmanyu as well.. he is a doctor.. why should he throw his miscarried wife the same day..?.. when bade papa asked him to come n search for pathankot.. why dint he.. and even after 6 yrs he says he loves her.. so is that what a person does to their loved one ???
Akshara did wrong 6 yrs back by hiding the truth.. then what abt his psycho mom who did exact same paternity fraud and subjected Neil to second grade treatment in his own house by his own father ?.. dumbmanyu was fully supportive of his mom back then and reprimanded akshara instead !
Demons of past are what eating peace of present.. let it be for akshara or manyu.. both deserve this heartbreak n closure.. but definetly not abhinav n abhir…
Anyway.. manyu hasn’t matured as a character.. he just is same impulsive plus now he puts a Bacharach face on.. if ppl cannot take decisions on his behalf.. he could have shut both bade papa for throwing challenge n psycho mom for accepting…instead he did it anyway.. now acting as if he cares for abhir n sharma family.. no..he doesn’t!.. he only had right to be in abhir life …but not snatch away abhir happiness
I realize that as human beings we all have a different perspective and way of perceiving things. When someone dies someone very close a brother, a father, a mother during the period of mourning can a human being really be able to focus on the pain of another person apart from his own when someone a dear one dies. Do we even think like a human who has responsibilities, or can we even think like a person who has a profession. We think above all like a son, a brother, or even a parent. everything becomes rather confused we forget the priorities we forget our duties sometimes we even forget our humanity, and we look at things only in one way, we see things from this important loss that kills us, we only become an individual who is dominated by his own pain, problems, and suffering. Humans all deal with their loss and their pain in different ways even me as a human I realized that I was not as human a person as I thought. I lost a loved one then my world plunged into hell, I forgot that I was a daughter, that I was a sister, that I was an employee, that I was a married woman I I forgot all my homework, my suffering was so great. for almost 1 years I was in a kind of bubble where I was not ready to move on. I failed to comfort my parents, siblings, and failed to be a good wife who cared about my husband’s feelings. I became a selfish person lost in my own pain and I was not easy to live with, I didn’t have the strength or the patience to deal with other people’s feelings or their pains. I fell into worsening depression and anorexia, because I was eaten up by my own emotions. my big sister and became our rock she took all the responsibilities for the family, she took the time to take care of each of us and to encourage us. After spending 1 year in pain and anger towards many people I resigned myself to this thing against which I could not do anything (death), and I continued my life even if nothing and no one can fill the void this person left in my life. After coming out of my own demon I found that I was not the only one to have suffered so much, especially the person who took all the family responsibilities, it was certainly the most broken because she locked up her feelings to become a shoulder on which our family could come to cry. You know many people until the end of their life cannot overcome the loss. for some it’s only a life we all end up dying, but for others the missing people were their happiness, their support, their family and their world, everyone prefers a longer relationship to a shorter relationship . how can we compare a relationship that has not even lasted 1 year to one that has exceeded 20 years the level of responsibility cannot be the same. When a person’s world dies, does the person still have to behave like a human or a doctor, we still have people who love us and whom we love but we forget them because of grief we can even be wounding. I watched medical series like Private Practice and you should definitely watch them before you get an idea of the humanity of a person or a doctor. Doctors are human and when they experience tragedy, they just become individuals who are preoccupied with their pain, without caring about human or medical duties, they don’t even think about their patient. their patient is assigned to other doctors, because they become unable to manage their emotional states, and to worry about their medical duties because they are human, and humans are often overwhelmed by their own problem when they live complicated experiences . Niel was not the biological son of Manjiri and Harsh, this child had not been conceived by them and Harsh did not want to assume his mistakes and Niel was a mistake for him. Manjiri did not hide Niel to preserve her bond with a child she had just known, she did it because she felt sorry for this child who had been left alone in the world and whom her father would never have accepted. Niel underwent Harsh’s treatment, but if Harsh had learned the truth no one could have stopped him from throwing Niel out of the Birla house, Abhimanyu was too young to take a stand and Manjiri knew there was nothing she could have done against Harsh. Some compare the incomparable, but Manjiri gave Niel a home that wasn’t perfect, but a place where he had a brother, a mother, and other people to love him, when she didn’t have to go this far for the fruit of her husband’s infidelity. Niel’s situation was different as Manjiri hadn’t made any mistakes that compromised Niel’s relationships. it was Harsh who was unfaithful and never showed a desire to own up to his mistakes, it was Harsh with his actions that jeopardized Niel’s future by having an affair, and Niel’s biological mother by becoming the mistress of a married man, contributed to jeopardizing the future of his son. Niel’s biological mother and father are solely responsible for the life Niel led. Manjiri took on the weight of other people’s mistakes however she could. Manjir has become a bad person but it is unfair to attribute other people’s mistakes to him. Akshara and responsible for his mistakes all like Abhimanyu, but comparing unusual situations is totally exaggerated. For many Niel’s death should be less important for Abhimanyu,
he should have just cared about the person who contributed to the tragedy, the only thing I see is that Aksharaé survived while Niel did not survive, at the time of the facts it was the only thing that matters.
I am sorry and sympathise @ yeol what you went through.Hugs to you.
Exactly! Didn’t Akshara also was going through that??? As much as Abhi was suffering did Akshara NOT? Or you mean Akshara was happy that she survived???🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
@yeol
Again sorry for your ordeal. Its true people deal with their shit in their own way. Manyu did and Akshu did wrongs six years ago and all that led to Abhir Sharma instead of Abhir Birla. This is why, its not okay for characters and audience to discuss how Abhir became a Sharma but how everyone handled their truths after 6yrs. Characters or audience should not raise “Neils death” card because then, everyone else will raise that card. What they did after they came to know the truth about Abhir is what counts.
Exactly @Mark
@Rr, thank you, thank you also for respecting my story despite our opposing opinions. @Mark you’re right we should stop the debate about Niel’s death, let’s try to focus on the current track and things to come. and thank you again.
By the way,Akshu didn’t hide the truth,bcz the moment she got to know that one baby had survived,the first person she called was Abhi but ignored her calls and even switched off his phone.Abhinav and Akshu tried several times to contact him but in vain.If it were anyone in Akshu’s shoes,what would u have done? Would u have come running after giving birth to give de good news to Abhi,no, right? Akshu didn’t do any mistake,she did what any abandoned and rejected mother would do for her child. Am sure it was manjiri who told de judge about their financial situation and dats why case was ruled in favour of Abhi
@Yeol
Its not as simple as you put it. Humans are complex. They do actions sometimes consciously and sometimes unconsciously. Good example is Manyus hypocricy in all his actions. I am convinced he is unconsciously doing it. But lets not talk about Manyu today. Lets talk about Akshu.
This same Akshara, grew up with a trauma since childhood. Dont overlook her trauma. Her actions are not only due to stupidity and idioticy but most important factor to consider is that Akshu is an emotional person. Its who she is. She is so dependent on listening to her emotions more than being practical. Her emotions most of the time, make her do these stupid and idiotic actions.
You say all the crimes she did, she did with sound mind? You are wrong. Her state of mind in all these scenarios is unstable and compromised with negative emotions.
She aided Kairav as she was a witness to Anishas crimes, she is his sister, she was pressured by Birlas to not side Kai as a sister and as a witness. Manyus hand f**ked up her hubby to the point to hating himself when he couldnt hold Akshu when she was about to fall, leading to another man doing it for him. Dr kunal topped it and became the deal breaker when he not only wanted to break Manyus “hope” and abandoning him at operation table but also he guilt tripped Akshu when he said his sister was going to commit suicide. This is one person, exposed to all this at once. Even the practical Aru do panick sometimes. How could Akshu, the soft hearted, sacrificing, emotional fool escape her fate then?
Six years ago, she was also not in a sound mind. First she had to see Neil, who she loved so much, bleed on her hands due to something she made happen, then her babies are gone, then she gets blamed for all of it, then she looks for comfort from her hubby but this hubby counts all her past shortcomings including the one thing that f**ked her up most, Sirats death. Then same person who loved her immensely ousted her with divorce as the cherry on top, you tell me, this person is she of sound mind when she made those decisions? Yesterday Akshu said, “she is alone, Abhir is alone”. You tell me, is she talking about today or 6yrs ago? The state she was in emotionally, anything Manyu said was taken as is. She didnt have the energy to think Manyu didnt understand what her and Nav was trying to say. She really thought Manyu abandoned them because she was really emotionally vulnerable. At this point if anyone would have convinced her that she was never loved by anyone including her family, she would have believed.
Humans are not simple. We are indeed complicated. Its not right to be hard on a fellow human.
Mark and yeol- both well put perspectives!
Manyu was grief stricken when he threw akshara out.. akshara was lonely and felt abandoned by the person she loved the most 6 yrs back…and when manyu cut the call without listening and saying abhinav that he he wouldn’t bother “even if she were mother of of my child”….that perhaps was last string for her !..just like manyu.. akshu was also broken …
And abhinav would have genuinely felt that manyu did not want relation with akshara or abhir after that call…
But after 6 yrs when he did realize manyu is the father- he insisted on telling truth…but akshara stopped knowing manyu too well that he will snatch abhir and whatever the circumstances and whoever provoked …the same thing happened – so manyu acting like he is sad and showing pity is irrelevant coz he is the one who caused the pain..
It’s sort of an ironic closure for manyu n akshu
@Rak
I agree. This is why i said this custody and its decision was necessary for all including Abhir. Infact, mostly Abhir. Abhir should know just how f**ked up he is for getting the privilege of being Abhira child. While the mom makes dangerous choices, the dad doesnt respect said choices and fights to correct them even if it means destroying everything. Did he ask Akshara what her plan was for Abhir before deeming these choices as unfit? Lets see what choices he will make in the future, if they dont include abandoning his son again instead of opening a new case to plead a retrial. He thinks he is better than Akshu, but he will be suprised to find out, he is just the same but more worse.
Totally agree! @Mark
@ yeol Akshara was even more vulnerable 6 years back.Abhimanyu and his mother would have snatched Abhir and Abhir would have been denied Abinav and her love. When you have abandoned and kicked out your wife ,with what moral right are you claiming the child ? Just because of khoon or sperm doner?Abhimanyu is just so wrong..
I agree @Rak.
@yeol
Manyu is not the first father and will not be the last to miss years with his son. He came to know about his son, why did he want Abhir to know about him too and thus disrupt the life that Akshu, as the mother, with full rights, decided the life she wants for her son?
He already had a relation with his son though not the direct one, but this did not quench his desire to be called dad. Abhir said “just like i love mom and dad, i love you too”. “I can live with mom and dad and docman too”. What is it that set him apart as Abhirs parent? Tell me. What other thing was he missing? He had the chance to play as a parent, though its behind the scenes. But this did not satisfy him. Why? The answer is, he wanted recognition for his deeds to Abhir. Even if it meant wreaking havoc in his sons life, he wanted to be recognised by all as the “man”. But for who? For himself and his ego.
Akshu is Abhirs mom. Doesnt she have a right to define her sons fate? Yes, she is dumb to think a secret will always remain a secret. She is stupid to think she will stay away from her past and kasauli. She didnt think her past may not want to stay away from her. But this was a mere hope because there are many who managed to die with this kind of secret. She was just not lucky. She based her sons future on sheer luck. But ofcourse, this is Akshu, she is not Aru to think practically. But then again, even the great practical, planner Aru, when she became a mom, she is reduced to an emotional fool when Ruhi asked Abhi to be his father, so what will be Akshu situation. She was abandoned, her and her child, she had to plan this childs future, and she did. She made a hard choice but bottom line is, she made a choice. It was not a perfect choice for Abhir but let Abhir be the judge of that. She was not obliged to think about Manyu. She needed to think only about Abhir and she did.
From what i have seen, this decision, that Akshu made, was criticized by all except Abhir himself. If Akshu did a bad decision, then what was Manyus decision since he came to know about Abhir? His decisions were, point fingers at Nav who was only a pawn in Akshus plan, called a moms decision wrong, demanded his rights, got worked up over a third party interference in the form of Kai and ignored his sons mother, again, who was speaking about their son, demanded he spend time with Abhir and started going rogue when he bought a gift for Abhir and didnt remind Abhir of his values to first ask permission to accept said gift(remember to Abhir, he was docman then), raided Navras space in Kasauli, supported second custody, accepted the verdict whole heartedly without empathising with his son being kept away from his mom.
So you tell me, wasnt all Manyus decisions only for himself, easy, reckless, thoughtless, e.t.c. why not respect the decision that his fellow parent put in place? Why not work with what he had, docman relation and then when finally Abhir grows, he will regain his real position. Did Akshus decision make Abhir lack anything? Couldnt he fill in what Abhir was lacking even if it meant staying in the shadows? Abhir had a father figure, and through his docman relation, he could relate with his real dad unaware that he was the real dad. Even if Abhir was lacking anything, was the actions he took right? When Nav was on his side all along, why did he choose to fight with Akshu who had her own agendas?
This makes Manyu, a fool for disrupting his sons perfect family, so that he gets to be called “dad”. Will that put food in Abhirs stomach? Keep him healthy physically and mentally? Will that make Abhir happy? No right?
Akshu has issues and she makes bad choices but Manyu, highlights these bad choices to make them seem they are evil choices. Who should we blame?
Wow, @Mark exactly! I wonder how Abhir gonna reacts when he knows that Abhi is his real dad? This docman according to Abhir loved n cared for him turn out to be his real dad which he might think it’s normal for Abhi to treat him such, BUT Abhi will no more be a “HERO/Superman” in his eyes, but it’s just what a father would do??
@Cilly
It took ages to get your meaning. I got it finally. True, hero docman will no longer feel as such because he is my father, he would do it anyway. I must say, being docman was bliss to Manyu as all he did was criticize Navra choices as Abhir. He thought they were doing it the wrong way so he wanted to be given the wheel so that he can show them how its done. He will know now how being a parent is hard.
If Akshara is guilty of the crimes you mentioned why is she spared? There is no limitation period right? 🙄🙄🙄
The limitation period is the period beyond which it is no longer possible to prosecute the perpetrator of an offence. 1 year fine.
Misdemeanor 6 years.
Crime 20 years in general 30 years for certain serious crimes (terrorism, organized drug trafficking, cloning, war crimes, usurpation, falsification of documents, etc.).
Crime against humanity None (not prescribed). Akshara was not prosecuted because it is a series.
@Yeol, has gone from one extreme, thinking of others, to just thinking about herself and Abhinav, now, because he holds her together. She became a mother, but does she think like a mother. I would say not.
@Yeol, sorry to hear about the pain you had to bear. ‘Pain is the price we pay for love,’ Queen Elizabeth II of Great Britain said at the loss of her husband of over 70 years. She was so right. All we ever manage is to live with the pain, to make an accommodation and then one day the good memories come through and we smile again. Wishing you on to a comfortable place in your journey.
Very sympathetic understanding of Manjiri’s character. Agree with it all.
abhinav is legally the father of abhir. remember that akshu called in manjiri’s birthday and said she is married, but that time abhir wasn’t born. akshu and nav married before abhir was born. after akshu called toxicmanyu telling about child but he didn’t want hear it’s not akshu fault. that time what akshu did for her child it’s right. nav is step father of abhir.
Navra marriage happened after Abhir is born. Akshara’s labour pain started around 7 months.
I feel for Abhi. It is hard when your victory causes sorrow to especially loved ones. He is supposed to be happy, but he couldn’t be, bcs of the people he consider his own are sad. This is so human of him
Feel so bad for Abhir, it’s heartbreaking bcs this is the family that he has known since he was born.
But come to think of it, what must be done must be done. This had to happen one day. Even if Abhimanyu was ready at that time for co-parenting, what about Abhir’s surname. There’s no way he would allow his child continue to bear another man’s name when he is alive. And able
Manish just made the trouble easier solved for Abhi. He wanted his child to know him as his father not as docman. He wanted to form a relationship with him by the corner but he was refused that. Even if Manish have not brought up the custody matter, it would have still happen. No parent on earth will agree with what they were trying to do to Abhi. The fault or trouble started with Akshara according to how I see it. Why did she run to Abhi and put his head on his lap when Abhi’s family were all there during the accident. Why did she pronounce to everyone that her marriage of six years is just namesake that they are not couples for real. She confused Manjiri . And Manjiri being a selfish mother acted on the confusion to ask Akshara to come back to Abhi. We can see that when Akshra clearly stated that she loves Abhinav
she moved back and said well they will take Abhir.
Manish who became used, acted on Manjiri’s talk and called for a custody case. He betted Abhir away.
Though it is painful but better this way. Bcs if the evil day is pushed forward. Maybe after Abhir has grown to an adult or adolescent age. His reaction would have been worst. He wouldn’t even look at his father. He will ask him why he didn’t fight for him.
For now even if Abhir knows Abhi is his father and comes to hate him or get angry, it is far far better than not fighting for him at all. Everyone on earth does things that will put them on the safe side. Things might be rough now, but with his endurance it will get better.
Abhi believes in his Mahadev. He said it is only Mahadev bcs he thought — Akshu and Abhinav are together, he has no wife, so Akshu will win bcs of that.
Abhi should be wary of Arohi
@Funmi, true
@Funmi
I agree with you that Abhir might get angry and question Abhimanyu why he didn’t he fight for his son and his rights as father.
@Funmi well reason. Agree there is no choice in some matters. If not today, certainly tomorrow for Abhir’s self confidence Abhimanyu had to come forward as the father the boy was searching for. Yes, many uncomfortable questions and answers lie ahead. That’s better than silence being filled with negative thoughts.
@Rai, Sorry, Doesnt Abhir be filled with negative thoughts when he is separated from his mom itself? What confidence you are talking about? Dont justify things for the sake of justifying. For Abhir to know Manyu is his real dad, is to necessary to separate him from his parents?
@Nitu, Yes, separating Abhir from his current set of parents is traumatic. Just as it has been painful watching the boy learning Abhinav is not his real father. Then seeing Abhir wanting to know who his biological father is, and asking the question why he does not live with them. We don’t stay children forever, as we grow our identity, who we are, where we come from become increasingly important alongside the love and stability we draw from our families. Read any account of adopted children and the common themes is them wanting to know why their biological parent gave them up, why they weren’t wanted. Not being wanted affects confidence.
@Rai, still you didnt answer my question, I will repeat. For Abhir to know his real dad, whether seperating him from his current parents is needed, that too from his own mom? Didnt it affect his confidence when he found that the things he valued most was snatched away so easily that too by a person who he trusted the most, his doc man? A 6 year old Ruhi can understand thiz. But not Manyu. He is that much selfish that he is not even concerned for the pain of his own son. Ridiculous!
Is surname more important than life? If the child is not mentally n physically healthy what does a surname mean to him? Can his surname save his life, can a surname bring him happiness? Nonsense!!! As nonsense as my name!!
@Nitu, then I don’t understand what you are asking.
Manyus “right to be called a father” brought everyone here. All along, he didnt want to be told when and how he will meet his son. He didnt want the boundary drawn between him and his son by Akshara. Meaning, he wanted Abhir fully as his son. Coparenting was never in his dictionary. He would have never understood that Nav is the boundary. And when his mom executed exactly as what her son wants, she is looking bad.
Until now, he didnt stop to think how his son would be feeling. He is all about what Navra is feeling. And how he got his rights. What the hell is wrong with Manyu? He didnt empathise with his son as he will loose his mom while he, Manyu is with his mom. Untill now, the fact that Abhir wants to live with his parents didnt arose any feeling of guilt. Afterall, he just cares about his fatherhood not Abhirs childhood.
Mark – yes, manyu’s character is shown to sympathize n empathize with parents.. but if he really in true sense meant it..he wouldn’t have pursued this case in the first place ( forget who provoked whom second time)…he wants to own his son coz that’s the only form of love he knows . To control n be possessive..
I now feel nav might want to sacrifice n go away so that atleast akshara n abhir can ne together n this dumbmnayu anyway is ready to be with married lady long back…
But that aside – every time akshu thinks this is end of pain what manyu can give her..he gives more.. he is capable of giving more pain !
Dint he know akshu was gonna cry when she loses a baby for whom she struggled so much to give birth to…so why did he even act shocked
@Rak
Agreed. Someone here once talked of gestures. When Akshu in her overconfidence, admitted she will tell Abhir full truth anyway, regardless of what Manish said, why didnt Manyu answer her gesture with a gesture?
I agree that he cant pretend to be shocked on Akshus condition. I agree he is not a sacrificing being, but why not make efforts to be one when your loved ones depend on it?
Acc to manyu haters, manyu should sacrifice his son for akshnav perfect family 😐
Akshu has created all these mess.. Thn oversmart kairav has imposed legal restrictions on abhimanyu so custody case started.. Thn oversmart manish started his nonsense and custody case was opened again nd they lost 😏😏
But acc to manyu haters, everything is his fault nd his son should hate me for nothing
Abhir dont want to stay forever with Abhimanyu. Now what can be done….. If custody didnt happened, then also there would be a tension because Abhir will be staying At Kasauli and so Abhir and Abhimanyu cannot meet often . So only thing remains is Abhimanyu to accept the distance in meters (which will not distance him in heart of Abhir) and let Sharma Family have their privacy.
So eventually its upto Manyu boi, He have to Sacrifice for Abhir’s Happiness and not Akshnav happy Family Or else bear Abhir’s Hatred.
It’s so funny how dumbmanyu fans cannot differentiate between HC n dumbmanyu…
Custody case was started by manyu..he decided …then he paused after surgery…then he was impulsive n went to kasuali.. the he cooled down n looked like he is maturing as a parent n then again he decided to pursue case …
No matter who provoked whom…if he believes he is the one to take decisions for himself.. then why did he not stop his mother n bade papa.. he and akshnav were telling abhir truth anyway…
But no.. dumbmanyu’s only way of love is through control and possession… no wonder he n his mom are in illusion that abhir will be happy in Birla house.. manjiri is gone case. But manyu himself saw abhir tying thread to navra n wanting to be with them.. so why does this manyu not understand..anyway…evn little ruhi has more understanding of abhir than this so called real father!
Right! @Rak
Why abhi is always wrong ,what about akshara, if she did not hide the truth of abhir ,such mess would not have happened. If ak had won she wld hVe gone to so called Kasuli even without Informing abhi.she n her family wld have never allowed abhi to meet his son .manish goenka is the biggest villian in abira life.he always opposed abira.first he lied to akshara friend that abhi hates her.then without even bothering to meet akshara, he returned n told abhi that abhira shd not live together n they r happy without each other.now also he poked his nose n told if ak wonsabhir will not know the truth.ok this itv but here manjari is highlighted as vamp ,but in gen3 real Vamp is mr goenka.
How can Mr. Goenka be the villan of Abhira? When he considered Abhi as his own son till the very last fight. He took Abhi’s side always. He cared fir Abhi more than for Kairav. Actualy Abhira themselves were enough for theirown distruction and separation. Not needed a villan.
Abhira themselves are destructive for each other.No villian or vamp is required for their separation.
One is dumb and stupid with abalanari syndrome, other is impulsive, mama’s boy and considers himself as superior to others.
You guys consider Abhira as an amazing love story, but it is the most cringey Instagram reels story.
Who will feel the bullshit connection that Abhimanyu/Akshara feels whenever one is about to meet an accident or about to fall and other person says be careful 🙄… different level of telepathy connection with them.if this connection is for bigger incidents, could be ignored.but even for small things also telepathy connection.
And this connection lost its network when akshara had labour pains?????
🤣🤣🤣 @😎 right, especially the last sentence
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Mr ranjan sahi plz follow the comments of this fan club ,kill abhi or let him go like other characters n carry ur crap show ahead.plz end the show .let other makers put forward sm sensible shows.
Just coz you dont like the show? N coz u feel Abhi or HC (fans mixing actor and character) getting trashed? Or do u also feel Abhi is wrong?
This I agree with !.. a character as bad as manyu should not be leading the show unless they show a full fledged redemption- and HC should just leave this character
I feel so bad for Abhinav Abhimanyu and Akshara. In fact I feel worse for the two men Abhinav and Abhimanyu. Abhinav took on responsibility which wasnt actually his responsibility he did well in raising Abhir and for that judge to take hims away because they aren’t well of with money is just bizzare like where was this money when Akshara was unconscious and Abhir need warmth and love as a new born. Then when it comes to Abhi his son calls another man dad, he didn’t even know he had a son all this time, despite winning his son will never be content with him. It’s so sad to watch this because at the end of the day we all even Abhi knows his he can’t give his son the love Akshu and Abhinav have since 6 years. Love and light those two men.
For his so called haq abhimanyu has destroyed two families. I hate how abhimanyu has taken Arohi and roohi for granted. I don’t know but I feel like abhimanyu despite his denial still harbour hope of akshara returning to him. I tolerated him so called heartbreak but now his pining after akshara looks so cringey and it’s like he is displaying that in front of everyone to get pity. His behaviour has made manjiri demented losing all common sense. Her 40 yr old son still holding her pallu but she is indifferent to seperating 6 years old from mother. Arohi needs to revise the conditions they agreed for marriage before abhir custody. I really dislike how he just casually dismiss rooh ka kya? Question but of course roohi ka hi hai she is going to get affected in all this with abhir grief stricken from losing his parents and all birlas trying to pamper him🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@ Ashley so right !! He takes it for granted that his future wife Arohi and Ruhi are ok in sharing him with Abhir!! Though what game Arohi is playing is yet to be seen
Pain for all was foretold in Akshara’s decision. Once one holds that bundle of vulnerability in one’s arms, everything ceases to be about the self. Regardless of the issues between Akshara and Abhimanyu, for the future happiness of all: Abhir, Abhinav, Abhimanyu, herself too Akshara should not have withheld the truth about Abhir’s biological father. If her fear was the baby would be snatched from her at birth by the Birlas, well as others have said here, the law would have decided in her favour, a mother’s rights over a child are guaranteed up to the age of five. But no, whether it was her fear of Abhir being ripped from her arms, or to punish Abhimanyu for refusing to hear her news about a child surviving the miscarriage, or that he failed her as a husband, she hands the father’s boots to another man. If a mother has rights, so does a father, the child too gets to have a say after the age of ten. It can never be wrong to stand up for one’s Rights. These evolved to ensure fairness and equality. Abhimanyu is correct, he could not spend the rest of his life waiting on Akshara to grant him premission to be near his son. Today Abhir may resist, tomorrow if his real remained absent he would have developed the anguish of rejection. Some may say he now faces the trauma of separation. True, Abhir’s life now is the most blighted of all.
Hello everyone, I’m a silent reader, I read the updates and your comments everyday but today I wanted to share my views
I feel no one in this story is perfect. Abhi , nav and Akshu they all are responsible for what is happening today.
If we talk about Abhi, he was possessive, hotheaded, impulsive and a complete mumma’s boy from the beginning. I guess he always sided with his mother as Manjri never had a happy married life and Abhimanyu took it upon himself to give mental support to his mother any way he could. It’s not easy for a child to witness toxic marriage, it’s bound to affect him in a negative way, that’s what happened to him. He turned a blind eye to all her mother’s misdeeds and regarded her to be epitome of perfection who could never be wrong. Manjri knew this very well and she utilized it fully. She dared to ask for Abhir’s custody cuz she was confident that Abhi would never humiliate her by disagreeing to her in front of everyone. If you ask me why he allowed his mother to take all these decisions for him, then I’ll say that he is flawed, his childhood trauma still doesn’t allow him to hurt his mother. He just wanted to be a part of his son’s life and wanted him to know the truth. He was already pushed to sidelines by Akshu and suddenly Manish told that his son would never know who his real father is – well that was a low blow, Abhi was scared and he agreed with his mother….
And Akshara, I always had a soft corner for her. Poor girl lost her parents, her sister hated her, she was always emotionally weak and vulnerable and took most of the decisions from her heart not from her brain. But her carelessness during her pregnancy days even after knowing the complications irked me, she decided to do as she pleased even after repeated warnings and as a result lost her baby and poor Neil lost his life. I felt that although Neil’s death was an accident but it could have been avoided if Akshara would just listen to her loved ones . Though she earned the wrath of her family but she didn’t deserve the divorce, Abhi could have just scolded her and send her to Goenkas for a few days and bring her back after everyone calms down but he decided to throw her wife out of his life, that was brutal and inexcusable.
And Akshara could have come back to Goenkas after knowing about her pregnancy, Abhi was annoyed so he didn’t receive the phone, and akshu wanted to take revenge and cut him from his son’s life. She could have come back to Goenkas and they could have informed Birlas about Akshu’s pregnancy and then Abhimanyu would be on his knees asking for forgiveness. Honestly I would have loved to see her turning him away then and trust me, if you know a law, court always gives full custody of a child <6 yrs to his mother and gives visitation rights to the father, no one would have been able to snatch Abhir from Akshu then and Abhimanyu would have learnt his lesson but still would be a part of his son's life.
Akshara committed a crime and she's now paying gravely for it
And Abhinav, he could've asked akshara to talk to Abhimanyu before he married Akshara, he supported akshu in her crime, although I see why he's done it, poor orphan fellow suddenly got a family, but still, it would have been better for Abhir if he knew the truth from very beginning.
All the characters are flawed. It's wrong to expect that Abhimanyu would give up all his rights and it's worse to snatch a kid from his mother. I think it would be better if abhi lets abhir stay with his parents and akshu involves Abhi in all the major decisions of Abhir's life, they could tell abhir the truth and allow abhir to stay with abhi on every weekend and maybe abhi could pay for Abhir's education which the court is so concerned about …. Maybe they could allow abhi to just drop him to school everyday , in that way Abhi would meet his son everyday and Abhir will stay with his parents only….
But I guess Abhimanyu and akshara both would learn the hard way that they've done a grave mistake by not thinking about their son first. If they would have shared their son and not try to snatch him from each other everyone would be happy today 😌.
Although I understand why Abhimanyu and Akshara are like this, it’s high time they go into therapy…. These two leads need solid counselling, both have traumatic pasts and are driven by their emotions, but I guess indian tv need these type of leads to spice up the drama so be it 😒
The one who needs therapy is the maker n the writer!
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@Rai
I replied yesterday but you didnt see.
Refer:
According to eps, Akshu used to voice out ther fear of loosing Abhir to Manyu. This is why she was safeguarding her secret. Then she said that Manjiri could and would have snatched her child immediately after birth. So based on this, i conclude that she hid the truth as she feared what has indeed occur. As @Huh said, this is after Abhir was born.
Before Abhir was born, and when she got the news that she did not miscarry, she genuinely wanted to let Manyu know. Remember how she was told that Aru was really preg, and that the reports got mixed up, she immediately made actions to inform the parents begining with the one that was almost about to explode. So i refered to same scenario and concluded that, at this point, Akshu genuinely wanted to share this discovery as she was the one that told the wrong diagnosis hence the correct diagnosis needed to be shared too. She confirmed the same to Manyu that she genuinely wanted him to know but not only because she forwarded the wrong diagnosis but since he was the father. Now, why i say Manyu deserved to be left behind regarding this truth. The reason being, no mom will tolerate her child being abandoned, it troubles mothers…scratch that…at this point, Akshu was discovering a new version of Manyu. What if that version can abandon her child….scratch that…..she didnt have the energy and will power left to keep calling and end up being disappointed by Manyu when he wouldnt listen…..scratch that……at that point, her emotional state must have made her believe Manyu didnt want his son as since she is a curse to others happiness, then Manyu may not want a cursed mothers son as he may end up being a curse too. Thoughts like this, appear to some mothers whose children are abandoned by their fathers. They think that since they are lacking, the father may want nothing to do with their child as they may end up lacking just like their mothers.
Today Akshu said, i am alone, Abhir is also alone…… you tell me, isnt she talking about then? How she felt? She must have felt Manyu really abandoned his son just because the mother is trouble and happiness snatcher and a mom murderer. Ofcourse, this was just because she was emo vulnerable. And when she got a handle of herself, it was too late. Thats when her fear started and replaced her pain of being abandoned. So my position is not changed. Its same.
@Mark, isn’t the reason obvious? Abhir does not criticize his mother’s decision as he is still a child. Abhir lived with Akshara he was raised with her, even if Akshara is wrong she will be right because he is not old enough to really understand that Akshara’s choices have contributed to destroying the chimera in which he lived . Akshara didn’t think enough about Abhir she thought about her then Abhir followed closely behind, you think Abhir’s life is perfect, but living in a lie can never be perfect because when you reach an age of total understanding on our life, and we learn that what we believed was totally false, all our memories become tainted by the feeling of betrayal and the feeling of having been fooled the lie hurts and breaks relationships. Today Abhir clings desperately to his family, because he is still a child his life for 6 years has always revolved around his mom and dad he does not understand beyond his already established relationships. but just like the adults who blamed Akshara even his own family blamed him despite their support, know that Abhir will extinguish the age when he will understand and when he will bitterly blame his mother for his decisions. You say Akshara didn’t have to think about Abhimanyu well it’s true but Abhimanyu and someone who is and will be linked to her son for life, as a mother she should understand this relationship because she is and will remain bind to Abhir for life. parents make decisions for their child based on their own judgment and parental need, not just for the child and this is the case with Akshara. A mother does not have to define the future of her child on her own terms, a mother has the duty to take care of every descion for her child, to prevent the child from suffering too big repercussions in his life. . A mother has a duty to think about the future of her child, she has a duty not to create situations that could compromise her child. Akshara’s decisions went against her role as a mother. (As a mother myself I would be unable to separate myself from my child, even if I had to make selfish decisions to be with my son I would). Some, in order not to risk their secret, are ready to cut ties with all who represent their past, even their families. it wasn’t bad luck it was Akshara’s weakness, she was the one who decided to go back to her past, she had abandoned her family for her secret, if she had thought better about the situation, she would not have taken any risks by returning to his family. because the secret was linked to the family and her family has close ties with the people she wanted to avoid so as not to reveal her secret, if she had continued to maintain her ties the truth would have come out, but Abhir’s disease ended up revealing the truth more quickly. You talk about satisfaction, why was Abhimanyu not satisfied? the story of the shoes was an eye opener, no parent can be content to just be a good friend to their child. he wanted to offer shoes to his son but he had to refer to other people first because he has no rights over his child. Abhimanyu and father but if he stays in Docman’s position he should never cross the line with his son. he can never make a decision for Abhir’s future, while mother and father have equal right to make choices for their child. he should always ask the Sharma before doing anything for his son, and he should comply with the Sharma’s choice. It is known that Abhir’s I love you “I can live with mom and dad and docman too” was innocent he loves Abhimanyu, but it is and will always be less important in terms of choice than Sharmas for Abhir. A parent wants his child’s happiness be it mother or father, even Akshara wants Abhir to be happy, but according to the terms she has established in Abhir’s life and for Akshara, she does not see Abhir living according to the terms. and someone else’s education. Akshara will always be in opposition with Abhimanyu regarding Abhir’s future. and Abhimanyu should have complied with his choices as he has no established positions apart from being docman. I am a mother and I find it hard to see myself being set back in my child’s life, I want to be able to be fully active in my son’s life, I want to have my part in making decisions about my child’s future, I certainly could not bear to have to ask each time, the consent of others or my husband to offer something to my child. Navra has a lot of ego, they would never have accepted financial help from Abhimanyu for Abhir. If a parent has a choice would they really want to be in the shadows, and not be able to enjoy real parenting time with their child. Being a parent but not being one at the same time must be a very frustrating feeling. We know why he went to Kasauli Navra failed in his duties, they did not try to contact Abhimanyu personally, he made the choice to go himself to Kasauli and we know the rest. The second trial was Manish’s idea and Akshara did not try to dissuade Manish either, as she too had her own demands on Abhir. if Akshara had a choice, Abhimanyu would not have crossed the line of docman and she wanted ganait for him imposed her limits. Abhimanyu accepted the verdict he didn’t expect it he thought Navra was going to win but as parents he is happy that all boundaries with his son are finally broken. Abhir’s happiness is a primary factor but the three adults are all responsible for letting the situation get out of hand and going to court none of them showed wisdom. Abhimanyu knows that Abhir will not be happy at the moment, but he hopes he can give him happiness, but it is known that reality will hit him very hard because no one can live in illusion forever
SMH🙄🙄🙄 again another contradiction post! I wonder? At some point of time u blamed Akshara for not telling Abhir the truth, as u claimed sooner or later he will find out, at times you said he was too young to know?? Akshara did not lied to Abhir! How was his life not perfect? He is now a happy and intelligent boy, it is what kind of life he has now that is more important than what will be in future! PERIODT! You live in the present not in the future! PERIODT
Is surname more important than life? If the child is not mentally n physically healthy what does a surname mean to him? Can his surname save his life, can a surname bring him happiness? Nonsense!!! As nonsense as my name!!
Abhimanyu stans are more concerned with materialistic happiness like money, power, sur name etc just like Abhimanyu and Manjiri. Thats why he hated his father but not his surname or wealth or power. Abhimanyu does not have emotional connection with anyone be it Ruhi or Abhir but to himself. Only himself.
Agreed @Nitu.
@yeol
I agree with some you said.
I am going to clarify my stand on some issues. I said Akshu made a world for Abhir that was not perfect but he was happy and content. Do you agree he was happy? Do you agree he was content and when he was not, he was made to be, by Akshus teachings?
Also, when i said Abhir is the only one with the right to judge the world his mom built for him, i meant, anytime he is free to judge and he will. Now he is still young and understands and knows little, many years from now, he would know and understand more and he will use his knowledge and experience to keep judging his moms choice for him. Whether he will judge positively or not, its too premature to speculate, dont you think?
But if there is anything i know about life and karma and a childs love for its mom, Abhir will never judge negatively because he is, afterall, Akshus son.
Akshus plan was to keep her child with her only. Why? Maybe she was still disappointed on Manyu as a father and made the decision then to forsake her past. Then she saw Navs dedication to her and her baby, and she listened to how he wishes to get a family, and this made her decide to hand Abhir father responsibility to him. In other words, Nav earned and influenced Akshu to make the decision. But what followed from then, its two fools blindly depending on the luck of their secret to remain a secret. Akshu plan was to die with this truth. But she was a fool and Nav was too. But if we are to excavate for reasons to their foolishness, i would say, the fun, and duties of being parents, took off their minds from the needful.
So Akshu was foolish to not plan the course of action, for when her secret is is exposed. Her foolishness now haunts her son as he doesnt want to part with his mom. Her foolishness gave Manyu the opening he needed to execute his decision to possess Abhir. One may speculate that Akshu didnt want to close all doors on Manyus face and instead left him an opening which she will use to give Manyu one last chance to be a good father. But ofcourse, Manyu disappointed her again. Manyu chose not to listen to Akshu and listened to a third party instead and thus opened first custody. Manyu didnt listen when Akshu told him she will disregard Manish condition. Manyu never listens, he only hears.
Now since Akshu already assured him that she will disregard Manish condition, what is his excuse to keep pursuing custody decision that doesnt favor anyone including Abhir? What is his excuse now? According to you and i am willing to give Manyu benefit of doubt, Manyu wants to enjoy real parenting. I am willing to see his decisions from tomorrow to see how he performs his fatherly duties. Will he be like Akshu, foolish, or will he be better or worse? I am willing to see. Its a test that he needs to pass. He got the upper hand as he had prior relation with his son and it was a beautiful relation, docman. He needs to handle Abhirs lonely feeling from being away from his mom, keep him happy, free from emo torture, physically healthy and well mannered. If he fails this, he will have destroyed his sons happy family for nothing. If he gives up and returns him to his mom, he will have abandoned him again. If he passes, then this world will be short of one more mamas boy.
Navra will then learn to be smart in the future. And Manyu will be thankful that Navra became foolish and thus he was able to win the war.
Ooof you know what, if someone can implant a parasite in Manyu’s abdomen that will grow exponentially in 9 months then they cut it out his body then he can take Abhir… Akshara went through a high risk pregnancy alone at a delicate time, if Abhinav wasn’t there then Akshu would have miscarried Abhir before the 9 month period concluded but Nav was there, had Akshu by some miracle been able to carry the child to term she would be dead in a ditch trying to find a hospital alone, say by some miracle she found the hospital then too the chances of mother and child dying were very high, when Manyu can go through all the physical trauma and pain Akshu went through bringing Abhir into the world then he can make his claims but right now he’s nothing more than a sperm donor, I said previously maybe not as Akshara’s ex husband but as a doctor he should have been checking on her or sent a doctor to check on her due to the miscarriage but he didn’t yet he had the gall to ask her to leave her family and be with him after 6 years where he didn’t bother once to see if she was alive or dead, he was out there singing Dilemma like he’s Nelly but Akshu is no Kelly Rowland
Agreed! @Jade
Leaving everything aside the judge didn’t think about the mental state of the child and giving custody to the best Cardio surgeon who will not have time for the child he has to be ready 24/7 for his vocation of saving lives and his physco mother is sick mentally it’s a shame on women, who makes her son divorce his wife the next day she had a miscarriage,we talk about Indian culture religion and next think multiple marriages are promoted etc. Coming back to the young boy, who had grown with a lovely normal family of mother and father, has to be with a busy Dr and mad grand mother. How is this normal is the judge a mad women herself.This boy will eventually grow up to be a drug addict and hating his biological father and also his parents for putting him in this situation. This is absolutely sick , I am so disturbed of thinking about the mental state of this child, even if it is a fictitious serial it effects people . Stop all this sick and distressing material on Television.
Exactly!
Abhimanyu satisfied n fulfilled his needs but he deprived of his son’s needs n happiness! What kind of love he has for his son? Certainly not a father, as a father will love his son unconditionally, he knows what is his son’s needs n happiness but yet he still go ahead and did what he did on the pretext of loving his son??
I can only hope and pray that no one ever gets a mil like Manjiri in real life 🙏🚫 …..whose heart is as bitter and corruptive as the soil emissions of a pig’s habitat and its environs….smh
It’s so sad they don’t think of what the child wants it’s all about money
I think Akshara and Abhimanyu should not keep friendship with that Abhimanyu and when he comes to give hand to Akshara Abhimanyu should say go away she is my wife .
I hope Akshara gets pregnant and has a baby and seeing Abhir when she is allowed never go back to Abhimanyu
And that Arohi should move out
Oh hello how can Abhimanyu say that life has cheated me it’s his and his mother’s fault for Akshara left the house so what do they want