Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 13th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi and Akshu explaining the principal about Abhir’s happy family. Principal says we don’t even change section of a 6 year old kid, but he has changed his house, father and entire identity, his heart is broken. Abhinav sees Abhir. Ajnabi se hue kyu pal saare…plays… Abhir sits annoyed. Abhinav cries and acts like him. He asks can we talk. He says you like being there, Ruhi is also there. Abhir says no. Abhinav jokes. He starts crying. Abhir laughs. Abhinav also laughs and hugs him. Hai kya ye ankahi dastaan…plays… He cracks jokes. They laugh.
Akshu and Abhi turn to see. Abhir says enough, my stomach is aching, Papa. Abhinav says I m your Papa, I want to see you laughing, laugh more. Akshu says Abhir is much hurt, his wound is deep, but he has three parents, we can do anything to make him laugh and wipe his tears, we want to give him a happy smiling, we won’t lose in this attempt. Abhi says yes. Abhir asks am I a bad boy. Abhinav gets sad. Abhir says you take me to Kasauli, if I stay there with you both, I will be more happy. Abhinav says kids are like butterflies, they find their happiness, you will also find it, give it some time. He hugs Abhir. Peon says child is called inside. Abhir goes. Abhinav says I made him laugh and then cry again. Abhir gets permission and walks in. He sits. Principal asks his fav subject. Abhir says I like all the subjects. She asks are you comfortable with new city and new school. Abhir says no, but I m a kid, a kid’s heart is like a butterfly, it finds happiness. Abhinav cries hearing this. Abhir says I will find happiness after some time. She says but its tough to leave old friends and memories behind. He says I m learning it. She says well said, congrats, welcome to Udaipur International School. Abhi thanks her. Abhinav and Akshu smile. Abhi takes the books and uniform list. Principal says Abhir can start school from tomorrow.
Abhi says admission is done, its school’s first day tomorrow, I have to buy books and uniform, we will leave. Akshu says wait a min, Abhir I packed jam for you, I got your fav homemade chocolates, Abhinav got this gift for you. Abhir doesn’t take it. Abhinav asks what happened, you like these things. Abhir says principal madam asked me to change my habits, I want to change my jam eating habit also. He leaves with Abhi. Akshu drops the packet and cries. bin tere…plays…
At home, Abhi says you are missing your mum and dad. Abhir says I m fine. Abhi tells a bedtime story. Abhir says I don’t want to hear it more, good night. Abhi prays for Abhir. Akshu says its Abhir’s first day at school tomorrow. She talks to Abhinav. She says I will go tomorrow. He says we know everything about Abhir, its Abhir’s turn to become Dadda, we shouldn’t come between them, everything will be fine. Its morning, Akshu cooks the food. Muskaan says Akshu and Abhinav used to rush on Abhir’s first day of school session, they used to go and drop him, but… Manish says today they are away from him. He says you are preparing food for Abhinav, not me. Akshu says its made for everyone. Muskaan says its specially for Abhinav. Akshu asks shall I tell your drama to Suwarna. Manish says she is threatening us, we will make our special dish. Akshu smiles. Manjiri says Kaka, my two kids’ tiffins will be packed every day. She gets Abhi’s call. He says I m leaving from hospital, ask Ruhi is she ready. She says I will make them ready, come soon. Abhi thinks Abhir’s first day at school, I will make it special, this is just the beginning.
Precap:
Akshu says don’t make Abhir away from us. Abhi asks did I go to court. They argue. She says I have seen your world, so I m scared for my son.
Update Credit to: Amena
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A combination of Manyujiri and Sharmas is indeed a broken family. But Akshu doesn’t know this. As usual she is thinking positively. Sharmas is not a broken family, Birlas is not a family at all but Manyujiri is the family instead of Birla family. Therefore, Sharmas-Manyujiri duo is indeed a broken family. Of course Manyu doesn’t even understand the meaning of a broken family and how that relates to child upbringing. He was in the dark the entire time and just knew he had to receive the paper as money is now involved and it’s a language he speaks well. Manyu only knows about his rights. Forget Manyu who knows nothing and who looks like the interview is as hard as his skin. Let’s go back to the one who knows something even though what she knows is a fantasy. This delusional mom in fantasy island, feels the two families together are not broken record. So Akshu says, it can’t be a broken family if Manyu, Nav and her can give everything for Abhirs happiness. 😂Really madam positive? Isn’t Nav breaking the boys heart and happiness right outside the door by saying no again? Isn’t Manyu keeping Abhir with him, despite knowing there is an issue eating at his happiness and he doesn’t make efforts to solve it instead he just is okay with it as long as he is not the one that the anger is directed at. Yes. Since it’s not Manyu on the hot seat, he chooses to not get to the bottom of Abhirs anger towards his parents/mom. Isn’t Manyu keeping Abhir with him despite knowing how Abhir feels in his heart about Kasauli? So who is doing what for whose happiness madamji? Not this trio obviously. It’s Abhir doing everything to make this trio happy.
And it’s good that Akshu is still in Abhirs blacklist because apparently he wants his mom to do better. Even I wish Akshu to do better than making jam so that Abhir gets comfortable and adjust to a house where his mama and papa are not with him. Is Akshu growing backwards? Why not come with law books so that Abhir knows she is doing everything she can to get his custody back. Speaking of custody, is Nav having memory loss or is he foolish too? Why is he not telling Abhir that they plan to win him back? Oooh of course they don’t want to give him hopes which may later not happen(as Manyu is planning to go against them again so that he can keep his possession)They also want Abhir to bond with Manyu. You see, everything starts with Manyu and ends with Manyu.
Forget about Manjiri in this broken family equation. These 3 are enough of a broken family. Abhir is on board with having a dada as part of his life. But he wants his HQ to be based in Kasauli and primary parents to be mama and papa. Dada can come if he wants. This is Abhirs not so broken family. But the version that he is having now, where he lost two most important people who he gave his heart to and instead remained with one who doesn’t know terms like a healthy environment, family who isn’t fully being there for him when he needs someone now more than ever and who keeps taking from him more than give him, is the broken family.
It doesn’t take a genius to know two is better than one. Abhir would have had a full family if his two parents won the custody instead of one. But of course Abhir would have not been angry all the time if he knew the adults are appealing to win his custody. Information that Nav chose not to share could be Abhirs saving grace. But he chose not to share because of Manyu. You see, Manyu is liking this verdict so much so that he plans to fight against Navras appeal. You see this is the problem. That Manyu is planning to keep this verdict forever. So Navra can’t give Abhir hope just yet.
At the end of the day, no matter what Manyu says about not wanting to keep Abhirs parents away, thats not the truth. The truth is he wants to keep them away. And keeping them away will make Abhir be like him, as his dad was mistreating his mom and this is exactly what he is doing also, only difference being, he is not mistreating by keeping them away from Abhir while deceiving everyone when he makes them think he is not, by saying “Abhirs parents can visit anytime”. When he is in awe of the verdict, and doesn’t want to solve the barrier between Navra and Abhir, he can’t honestly say he is not keeping Abhirs away from Navra.
And today, the semblance of Abhirs childhood to his childhood came to his attention but what did he do, he is taking his son to school. How can he fail more and more.
@mark how can he help when he dont know about navratri foolishness.. Does he know what navra said to abhir? Navra dont wanna help themselves so y expecting from abhimanyu.. They can say the truth to abhir if they want to but they are pro at lying nd making bad decisions in the name of “sabki bhalai” especially akshara
@surabhi abhimanyu knows it very well that Sharma had done something that’s why abhir is mad at them but he didn’t want to consult it from akshnav or abhir either becoz he knows it that he is getting benefitted from that. Remember when abhir is getting hiccups and abhimanyu tried to get him talk akshara abhir refused it he himself said that what sharma had done that abhir didn’t want to talk to them. Abhimanyu had idea about it that abhir is upset with them still.
@Momo. True. First day Abhir called Abhimanyu and asked him to take Abhir then Abhimanyu suspected that Sharmas had taken a massive step. But he ignored it. Then phone call rejection, and the blanket now at school. Every time Abhir rejected Navra and Abjimanyu saw it. But he is not taking it serious. Abhir is now angry with every one so he is not talking properly with Abhimanyu and reject Navra. Yes Abhimanyu is not responsible for Navras stupid step. But he should have talked with Navra on how they made Abhir agree to come. He knows very well tgat Abhir never wanted to go away from Navra. So he should suspect that Navra had done somethong to change Abhir’s mind and that is affecting him the most. Now it is Abhimanyu who sees Abhirs changes well. So 3 should have talked this matter. @Mark agree. The two families together will not work until they forget about them selves and think about Abhir.
@momo I dont understand why its always expected from abhimanyu to clear the mess that sharmas create everytime.. Does not sharmas have mouth? They keep creating mess thn husband starts crying nd wife starts yelling.. Cant they clear their mess themselves?
@surbahi becoz they are helpless if they said that day they just lied to you so that you go to birla house then abhir will again become stubborn and demands to go with them which is impossible for now but is abhimanyu helpless
@momo agar sharmas ke batane se problem hojaygi to abhimanyu ke batane se problem nai hogi kya? Sorry but sharmas are fools.. They just dont know how to speak the truth.. They only lie nd hide facts and then lands up in some problem
It is not expecting Abhimanyu to clear up all the mess Navra does. Abhimanyu has nothing to do with Nvara life and their own mess. But here all is about abhir. Navra inorder to make abhir go to birla house did stupid. But actually abhimanyu should thank navra because they handed over Abhir like in a platinum plate. But what if Abhimanyu worry about Abhir’s emotions he can question Navra on what they did to Abhir to make him upset with navra as well as come to birla house. So that he can make abhir’s mind and closer to Abhir. It is not at all clearing Navaras mess.
He simply choose to ignored! Like u mentioned coz it benefit him! Period!
@Mark I’m so annoyed with this trio 😡 even the principal has more sense than they do. Akshu herself can’t see her child is suffering, at least apologize for the kand you’ll did to make him leave and explain custody to him. Tell the child he’ll be with you on the weekend so he has something to plan for and look forward to but nooooo they’ll sit and play hum saath saath hain and Nav can allow Akshu to make Manyu her second husband and Navra can become Birla’s by marriage 🙄, I mean throuples are the in thing, let NavRaMan marry and they can live together in their deluded world, psychojiri will get 1 new doll and 1 refurbed doll 😂😂😂 at this rate Abhir might just say he wants to go to boarding school and leave all the adults and their drama behind. These losers are forcing the kid to grow up sooner than he has to. Though I think psychojiri is going to make this child run away when she has her performance and tears up his books… I kinda want to see Abhir talk back as well though or Arohi stand up and threaten to complain against psychojiri for her behavior and say she’s a threat to Abhir…. Manyu losing Abhir’s custody because of his mother’s mental and emotional instability may be the key for the Sharma’s but they want to play hum saath saath hain instead of fight for their kid, it’s been Manish doing everything while NavRa do what exactly 🙄 Navra need to grow some balls
Agree @Jade but Manjiri tore his book cover not book🤣
@surabhi true sharma are fools but abhimanyu is more selfish and he ignored the things which will create problem in his life that’s why he conveniently chose to ignore the fact that why abhir is upset with them becoz it may create problem for him so if you are blaming akshnav for breaking abhir’s heart then balme your beloved abhimanyu for not able to comfort abhir.
@Surabhi, exactly.
@Surabbi, I agree with you, why can’t the Sharmas tell Abhimanyu he may find Abhir is unusually distant and sad because they had to reject Abhir, so he could be persuaded to come to him. It was their decision to break Abhir in such a cruel way, it’s their job to explain.
How is Abhimanyu to ask Abhir if the Sharmas hurt him! If he did ask, then everyone here would be blaming Abhimanyu for poisoning Abhir against the Sharmas. No matter how sympathetically the question is put, the message would still be: ‘you are so sad, did Mama, Papa do something wrong?’
Plus, I don’t think Abhimanyu in his wildest dreams would imagine the Sharmas could have been so harsh. None of us could.
@Rai, so true
Abhi should find out from Sharmas not Abhir of coz, common sense right?
@Rai
Since Manyu is now fully responsible for Abhir 24/7, what are you suggesting that he do, keep jumping happily and take Abhir to school or address Abhirs sadness and anger. Should he still ignore Abhirs emotional detachment? He is the one with Abhir always.
@Mark….the only answer I have for a solution to the problems you set forth for Abhir’s adjustment to this new phase in his life…is for All Three individual parents to come together in a living situation….and in Udaipur 😐 …this will eventually allow Abhir to relax a bit more while dealing with the issues of having to adjust to his new found father…..plus the adjustments required for his school schedule…. as well as other curricular activities necessary for proper growth to a child his age…..that’s it.
Well yes, @Mark, I do think Abhimanyu should not be coming across, hard, heavy and interrogative towards Abhir to find out what lies behind his reticence. Yes, he should be keeping to normal routines, focusing on developing his father son bond with Abhir, and not be positioned as mediator to repair the damaged parent child bond the Sharmas themselves through their bewildering logic created. It’s exactly the approach I would take.
@Nonense, yes, makes sense for Abhimanyu to ask the Sharmas, as the Sharmas show no sign of volunteering the information. I find it peculiar how any considerate parent can see their child’s pain – they understand precisely the reason behind Abhir’s reserve and silence – and then each night the parents retreat to their bed, or their special escape behind a curtain to console and hug it out their pain, and not feel anyway that they have each other but their boy is coping alone with the negative emotions they created in him.
Right @Rai
Agree with you Rai👍
Thank god abhimanyu interrupted warna sayad flow flow me akshu toofani raat ki kahani sunane lagti principal ko 😂😂
Akshnav are just soooo foolish.. They are pushing abhir away nd thn expects abhir to talk to them, sit beside them😑 they should have informed him about reopening custody case nd also about their stupid lie but they want to carry on hurting poor abhir nd thn expecting him to be normal with them 😑
If abhimanyu had a traumatic past thn so does akshu so before pointing out at others she should see how toxic her own family is.. Both goenkas nd birlas are toxic.. Its just that birlas know they are toxic but sharmas hide their toxicity well
I mean goenkas hide their toxicity well* not sharmas
@surabhi why you are comparing geonka and Birla abhir doesn’t live with geonka he lived with Sharma 🙄🙄 in kasuali where these people are not around him now he is currently living with Birla there is huge difference darling
@momo I agree but is abhir having any problem there? Lets see if he suffers or starts being happy there.. Abi abi to aya hai thora savar rakho dear
Yeah. Give time to Abhir to adjust. Give time to Manyu to win Abhir then give time to Navra also. They will correct their mistake any how. Give time to every one..good idea.
@priya why not.. 3 of them are at fault.. May he abhir starts loving birla house or may be he start hating birlas.. Only time will tell
@Surabhi
You say Abhir is not having any problem at Birlas? Are you serious?
@ mark did you see today s episode ? The update is a little different.There are subtle changes in Akshara she says that Abimanyu and Abhinav will do anything for Abhir I.e putting both fathers at same level and Abhimanyu nods / acknowledges therefore giving the principal the impression of two happy families.She also is comfortable to call Abhimanyu in the middle of the night ? And then that story about two kingdom and prince ,Abhimanyu is assuring him that his parents loved him but still had to send him away? Maybe the writer is trying to make Abhira fans happy as they were trending ‘ Bring Abhira back ‘ Another thing the voice over for Sat sun precap says Akshara -Abhimanyu ki pyar ki jung ? Where is this story going?
@Rr, I certainly noted some of these point, and you highlighted many more. Perhaps the Abhira reunion is not meant to be a return to romance. Maybe what we are witnessing is a slow thawing in Akshara presently, and previously in Abhimanyu is hinting at a reunion that is all about Akshara and Abhimanyu becoming co-parents instead of parents at war to their child.
Since when Birlas know that they are toxic @Surabhi?
Abhinav’s words have quite upset the mental state. The selfishness of the 3 parents makes the child totally lost and he begins to be broken by their behavior. Abhinav and Akshara are closest to Abhir’s heart, their words mean more to him than other people’s, does Abhinav want to break Abhir emotionally? Abhinav’s words carry weight in his little boy’s mind, and continuously breaking his heart by first giving him wrong impressions and then disappointing him ruins Abhir’s state of mind. He just wants to be reassured by them, more than returning to Kasauli he wants to be comforted by them, a child gets used to and can adapt easily to a new place after a while, that’s true. But in Abhir’s current emotional state he doesn’t need to hear such a sentence from Abhinav and Akshara, from them he just wants to be reassured about their love and bond, then Abhir will be able to feel more easily at ease in his heart. I’m flabbergasted to think that Akshara and Abhinav think that breaking Abhir’s heart and then making him happy, then breaking his heart the next second can make Abhir happy, they doesn’t realize but they are playing with Abhir’s emotions . Abhir’s mental health is badly compromised, with the move and his new reality alongside Abhimanyu he is already struggling to adapt, but he secretly keeps hope that he can feel Sharma’s love and it makes him happy, but Sharma plays with his emotions. Abhimanyu starts to understand a bit that something is wrong and that Abhir might be affected by the current situation, but at the moment Abhir won’t open his heart to him, he feels betrayed by him and by his parents the adults he loved the most hurt him. Meals of the day, school, time to go to bed, all his moments remind Abhir of the Sharmas and in parallel he will remember their hurtful words, it will take time before he can be more at ease in his heart. Abhir’s parents are really immature, how can’t his 3 adults understand that they are adopting a bad way of dealing with the child. Akshara knows very well that Manjiri doesn’t love her, she should have told Abhimanyu about her visit at least to make it look like she got permission from her son’s legal guardian, so she could shut up Manjiri’s beak, but she will just act as if she doesn’t understand that their relationship has become problematic, she will act as if she doesn’t know that Manjiri tried to ruin her relationship without feeling guilty for his actions. Kairav has the same behavior towards Abhimanyu, he always wanted to keep him away from Abhir, apart from the time in Kasauli where the situation suited him rather well, since he helped for Muskaan. Kaurav has always been hostile and rude towards Abhimanyu, he even went so far as to file a restraining order in court against Abhimanyu, and he had even given him an appointment in court as if he were Abhir’s father, he was doing all this on behalf of his sister, causing trouble on behalf of others, typical Manjiri behavior. so she shouldn’t be surprised by this crazy old woman’s behavior against her, but good Akshara likes too much to play the girl who doesn’t understand anything, then finally end up playing the victim. If she really wanted to comfort Abhir, at least for Abhir’s sake she should have taken precautions.
@yeol akshara loves playing victim nd loves justifying goenkas
But same goes to manyu also right? He prioritised Birlas whether it’s right or wrong. One is stupid and the other is a selfish king.
@yeol
Abhinav didn’t make it about himself as I predicted. Nav knows how to deal with Abhir and understands Abhir so much. Even now, Abhirs complaint is not that Navra may not love him, as you are implying. Abhir complaint is that Navra don’t want to be with him as he is a burden to them despite them loving him. This is why he is wishing that they will take him back as they may be having a change of heart about him being a burden. The solution for this is if they win the custody. That’s the only solution. But they can’t tell Abhir about their appeal to high court because they may never win, and they may never win because Manyu wants to own Abhir and keep him from his parents.
And what Nav said today about Abhir finding happiness wherever he is, is the most helpful thing that till now, no one managed to give. Not even Aru. What Nav said may be the saving holy grail for all of them including Manyu. Because now, this is what will guide Abhir to get through everything. Even Aru who toasted his bread, plead with Manyu to give him his blanky, didn’t do anything significant that could help him in the long run. All past attempt by anyone was a temporary solution but these words by Nav, will guide Abhir even if he will be subjected to 10custody decisions. Nav understands Abhir and he listens to Abhirs feelings and unspoken wishes. And Nav said Abhir will be okay, and he will be. Not because of Manyu, but because of what Nav said to him today, which made an impression on Abhir.
You say the 3 parents can’t understand that they are adopting a bad way of dealing with Abhir? You are wrong. Navra knows that the way they are dealing with Abhir is wrong but they are helpless to use it. Navra knows that, they just have to be there for Abhir in any way possible. Navra knows they just have to hug Abhir, keep him away from his own head, make him laugh and encourage him any way how. By gifts, jokes, and presence.
Only Manyu can’t understand that the way he dealt with Abhir is bad. Only him can be excited when his son is gloomy. He can sleep well when his son is lonely keeping two pillows at his side. He can be happy when his son calls him dada when he is not acting like a dada. Only Manyu doesn’t know how bad the situation is. Only Manyu.
@Mark, uses helplessness to justify Abhinav playing with Abhir’s emotions. Uses parental love to justify Abhinav giving joy and breaking Abhir’s heart as he wishes when it suits him. Because it is about that, he comforted Abhir to spend a comforting moment with him, because he wanted to share a moment with him where he could feel loved by Abhir, but then inflicted a wound on him knowing that the moment of happiness was going to hurt him even more, as Abhinav had no intention of reassuring him about their relationship. He feels unloved, it’s not about whether or not they love him, their behavior proves to him that they don’t respect the value of his love. It’s not about promising that they’ll win. it’s about letting him know by affirming that they will never stop fighting for him no matter how long it takes, it’s about reassurance and easing Abhir’s mind, it’s about to comfort him and tell him that they will be able to see each other and that all weekend they will be able to spend time together, it is a question of telling him to call them whenever he feels sad and that he will always be listening to him. They don’t know that their treatments are wrong because they are convinced that they are doing the right thing for Abhir without really thinking about Abhir’s mental state. What Abhinav said might cause drama, he could take his words at face value and flee, telling himself that he will go elsewhere where he can adapt better and where he will not have to support people who play with him and who are just lying to him. Abhinav has upset this child he does not understand that Abhir needs to feel loved by all his loved ones to get through this ordeal, he needs to know that no matter which way he may turn or wherever he is, he will know that he is loved by his family. Abhinav didn’t understand Abhir, weekends will also become torture for Abhir if Navra keeps wanting his love and then ends up pushing him away. I’m sorry @Mark but you just want to see Abhimanyu’s mistakes while diluting Navra’s mistakes to paint Abhimanyu even more as a bad person. Abhimanyu may not yet understand Abhir’s emotions or his way of functioning at the moment but he shows him positivity, he shows him that he wants to be happy and invested in him, he tries to stay positive by showing positivity positivity to Abhir so that he can end up feeling that positivity. He shows her that he is happy to be by her side, he shows her that he is happy to participate in this new school year where he will be by her side, he shows her how happy he is to have her in his life, during this period or Navra shows him the exact opposite, that’s a more palatable solution than Navra’s crazy idea. I won’t change your opinion because you want to see Abhimanyu as a monster, while you visualize Navra as inveterate naif but it certainly won’t change the fact that at the moment Navra is hurting Abhir more than anyone else.
I fully agreed with someone that commented that he/she will stop reading @yeol comments, she really is top notch at defending Abhi and critising Navra! Smh…
@Nonsense, no one is forcing anyone to read, do what you want
Of coz! I am doing what I want 🤣 CHILLING😎
@yeol
Manyu paints himself as a monster. I don’t have the talent to paint anything let alone a monster. But yes, I know a monster and I recognize him when I see him. And sure as hell, Manyu is a greyish black one.
The way I see it, Nav had two options, to keep feeling bad for taking away Abhirs smile or to give him a smile to remind him how it feels to laugh so that he doesn’t forget how it’s done and doesn’t succumb to his sorrows. You call it emotional manipulation but I call it a break. I call it a time out. Nav chose to make Abhir happy even if it’s for few seconds, lest he give up on happiness completely.
You see, Navra is simple and shortsighted people we all established but Manyu is not shortsighted or even longsighted.
I am just observing his duty as a dad and I can’t help but feel sorry for Abhir.
Only thing that Manyu has managed as a father is being called dada by a lifeless and lonely kid, and said dada is walking happily and filled with excitement and again asking his kid to adjust as fast as his speed so that he doesn’t lag behind.
@Mark, I’m not going to argue with you regarding Abhimanyu you have your own view of him, and I have mine. You can also water down Abhinav’s intentions, he wanted to spend a moment where he could feel Abhir’s love for him, he clearly wanted to spend a moment of complicity with Abhir, he knew what he had done, he knew that if he was taking initiatives towards Abhir he should be reassuring towards him regarding their relations, regarding their bond, he is naive but not stupid. He took an initiative and then cooled Abhir’s heart as he wanted to relieve his own craving for complicity. by acting I don’t think he ignored that he was going to hurt Abhir more than anything else. he knew he had no intention of relieving Abhir, but he still decided to hurt him, throw him into even more complicated feelings and even more catastrophic mood. Some things are very clear about Abhimanyu but you always try to interpret his intentions in the wrong way, but Abhinav you always try to portray Abhinav as a simpleton, Abhinav had very good logic before, he was quite sane so I don’t think he is totally unaware of the harm he is doing to Abhir. Otherwise it would mean that although Abhimanyu is so smart he can also be totally naive and oblivious when he makes a mistake and he doesn’t have a second thought like you claim.
@yeol
All you said about Nav could ring true if Abhir didn’t get better than he was before Nav approached him. Nav knows Abhir loves him and he didn’t need to reassure himself of the same. He wanted Abhir to get some time out and he offered to loose his tension and gave him a working solution to the situation that Abhirs created for him. This advice, Abhir liked it and applied it to his life immediately. When I see Nav begging or craving complicity I will know but today it sure as hell wasn’t.
I wonder what you mean by “Some things are very clear about Abhimanyu but you always try to interpret his intentions in the wrong way” if only you can elaborate I would be the happiest in this comment section today.
@Yeol, I appreciate your commentary based on your opinion. At least you don’t veer off into fanfiction, bending the narrative to suit a favoured character.
@Rai, I also appreciate your take on things regarding the story
Mark and Jade –
Forget today’s episode…what is that creepy smile on dumbmanyu face that he is going to be there for his son’s first day of school ?.. did he even see an ounce of excitement in abhir ?… well Dumbo… its not your son’s first day of school .. its your son’s first day of school of YOUR choice…because dumbmanyu missed abhir’s actual first day..he is gonna create all firsts now ?.. he dint even wait till connection to be made and asked Abhir to say his first dadda…next what…he ll make abhir wear diapers again coz apparently he missed abhir’s first nappy change too !…
Seriously .. stupid n dumb !
I doubt whether makers will show Abhimnyu being not able to come to drop Abhir due to urgent work so Abjir has to go with a driver. Will they show Abhimanyu fail again. But wish not to happen that. Tired of seing these 3 parents loosing day by day.
@hi if as a doctor, some urgent work comes, he should see the patient first.. Nothing wrong if abhir goes with driver I guess.. Nd their will nothing be like loosing as patients should not suffer
Oh dr.. um not telling that he should neglect his duty. Um telling this seeing his excitement and writers can destroy that excitement in a jiffy. But its not that he had prioritised his work all the time he has done yes Abhimnyu adjustments several times.
If Abhimanyu can neglected his work n stayed in Kasuali for a month why not his son first day of school?? If the hospital don’t need him to be present for a month why not a day?? Don’t tell me during his stay in Kasuali he was in contact with Rohan,as still his present was not needed for a month!
@rak ,….”he ll make abhir wear diapers again coz apparently he missed abhir’s first nappy change too !…”
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Rak CreepManyu is only concerned about his happiness, the child is like an inanimate possession to him as long as he possesses it legally he’s going to do everything for himself and force the child to adjust. His stans keep bringing up how he brought Jam and bread for Abhir, big whoop go give your broken brained hero a cookie for it then, bread and jam my f**king foot. All I see is a child slowly getting ground down by the adults in his life… he’ll experience Abhir’s first runaway next
Exactly! @Jade
@Rak
You are right. It’s Abhirs first day of school of Manyus choice. It’s good that you noticed that instead of being weary that Abhir is going to a new school, after living in a new home, and yesterday Abhir said he is not comfortable, Manyu dared to be happy and excited? Really!💔it’s heartbreaking and a disappointment. At least Navra is always looking at Abhir to decipher his feelings every time. But Manyu doesn’t even look to see his son’s feelings that are displayed on his face, doesn’t read said feelings, and even after Abhir said he is not comfortable with anything in his life now, he didn’t listen. I mean, being excited is the last thing Manyu should be feeling if he really sees past himself.
But what to do, Manyu sees himself and doesn’t see beyond that. He sees his wants and doesn’t see beyond that. It’s maddening to see a father be this way when his son is gloomy and protesting with everything that is happening in his life. And the worst thing is that, Manyu will get away with being happy, excited, content to be called dad, when his son is crying inside.
It’s like he left Abhir behind and he just keeps going ahead.
@Hi is right. Since Manyu is the one with Abhir 24/7, he is the one that should know his state of mind. But the sad truth is that he doesn’t know Abhirs state of mind and he doesn’t care as long as he gets to keep Abhir.
@Mark you are so right! But @yeol said that’s positivity he is showing Abhir🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Nonsense
That positivity that @yeol is taking about, better work because if doesn’t Manyu will be a gone case.
@Rak agree!
Mark –
You did mention time and again that manyu does not include Nav in any decisions…well, I felt that’s his choice to consult akshu coz he is abhirs mom..I felt he subconsciously ignored to recognize nav as a father coz per him he is the father…
But today it’s very much evident… while abhir sleeps he thinks because of me n akshu my child shouldn’t suffer..nav doesn’t even cross his mind …
But look at the contrast- nav made an effort to talk to abhir and for a few minutes in this sad episode…there were genuine laughs shared by son- father.. abhir – nav relation seems so organic …
Dumbmanyu should take instruction journal from nav instead of stupid akshara
Even today – abhimnayu knew kid was upset – he declined the jam for which he was longing the day before…that dint trigger ?..he doesn’t know what navra would have told the kid…but he can ask the kid n make him comfortable enough to confide.. or ask navra…well it did trigger n he avoided coz it benefits him !.. blind manyu fans will say abhir was the one who asked to go home.. well yes.. but is dumbmanyu listening to every word his son says ?.. his son also asked to be with his parents and tied a thread..did dumbmanyu listen and fulfill that wish ?…No.. he fulfils only and only if that suits him !
Today at school…abhir was hesitant to talk to nav but nav made effort…kids need to be asked more than once specially if they are going through so much….but dumbmanyu ask abhir like a formality jnstead of having actual heart to heart conversation…
I feel writers really hate this manyu character that they search for new lows everyday..kudos to HC for pulling it off !
@Rak
I agree. This is why I say, Manyu really wants Abhir and Navra to be separated. He wants to keep Abhir away from Navra. He prefers to say for them and control Abhirs involvement with them. Otherwise, he would have let Abhir deal with Navra on his own by giving them the conducive environment.
He is happy thinking about first day of school when last night, something caught his attention.
My favorite Shaheer Sheikh has repeatedly said he wants to play a grey character…Maybe Harshad is same.Anyway kudos to him and the actress playing Manjiri👍.
Rr-
Would love to see Shaheer play a grey role…
Yes, manyu is proper grey character and HC is pulling it off as the dark dumbmanyu !..just that blind dumbmanyu fans don’t even any flaw in manyu …
Yup psycho has really turned out to be the best actress of the lot too !.. from a docile n soft character to a 360 degree turn !
Awwwwww😍😍😍 Abhirrrr, laughing after 3 days.Abinav imitating Abhir is very cute 🥰.
How strange is your life know, 3 parents loves you so much, but still they ended up hurting you.😔
First -Abhimanyu,stop hiding behind your mom’s decision✋.For you Roohi’s ukg exams is greater than Parivar ki mehnat, izzat and naam,when Shimla conference attendance is required on behalf of birla hospital.unless Rooh said she is fine, only then you choose to go.
But now you are ignoring Abhir’s childhood.You are not the only parent in his life.You got your father’s right know, Approach the court and now make arrangements like you stay at Kasauli for 15 days per month or any arrangement where abhir stays in kasauli till he is happy happy to stay with you.not emotional blackmail DADA.You say you love him so much,praying mahadev for taking care of Abhir’s happiness.What is the use when you don’t take appropriate action when required & the kid is not sharing anything with anyone.😔
Second thing – Sign up Tinder or bumble account for Manjari.She need to get a life.If not atleast keep your boundaries strong for your mother.
Third – Handle Rooh maturely about your wedding with her matashree…. atleast one kid is spared from heartbreak 💔.
Abhinav & Akshara, you guys have to act quickly for your stupid step before it’s too late.
Yeah. I too enjoyed Navbir❤ It was lovely. Abhir tried hard to be tough infront of his papa but he got melt easily with Abhinav’s love.
People here are saying abhinav should tell abhir that they are fighting custody case again what if they again lose it why to give false hopes to abhir if they themselves is not confirmed 🙄🙄 people are saying that they should tell abhir that day if he doesn’t go to birla House police will come and take them so that abhir started hating abhimanyu and become more depressed atleast now he is trying to be happy even if he is not. Imagine taking abhir forcefully to birla house that day he will become more traumatic now atleast he is trying to make bond with abhimanyu even though he wants to go kasuali. If that day akshnav doesn’t break abhir heart then it will impossible for akshanv to convince abhir to go to birla house.Akshanv did wrong that day by breaking abhir heart. I myself want abhir to know what will happen if he doesn’t went to birla house but deep down I know if go to know about the consequences then he will never lived peacefully in birla house even now also there is no difference still. I know akshnav is dumb but abhimanyu is more selfish and ignorant guy who always chose to ignore when something is happening wrong but it is give profit to him
True. If Abhir got to know what will be the result of him not going to birla house and stay with his parents then he might himself go to birla house but full of hatred towards Abhimanyu and Manjiri. And that hatred will never turn in to love again.
Abhir is truly a victim. Poor sweet boy is being tossed about emotionally like a salad to appease a selfish,mummy’s boy, and his helpless,stupid parents.
What a life that boy us forced to endure.
If that boy is left in Manyu’s custody to grow up,he will be ruined in that house of horrors
Can someone PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME what Dr. Aarohi Goenka is still doing in that house??
Does she plan to live as a loveless,s*xless and depressed mother all her life like her unfortunate ex sasumaa?
I mean what rubbish is actually going on here? I thinknits apparent that Manyu will never marry her, nor does he feel thesame way for Roo as he does for his new found ghar ka chirag so waht exactly is keeping her there now? Being a substitute Akshara in Birla house as a MaasiMaa for Abhir or what???
Please and please, we are tired of seeing a character that could be made into much more be turned into a Birla rag doll
Aarohi,you could lead a so much happier and fulfilled life outside the Birla cage-trap mansion,please liberate yourself from these people
Even shivani needs to file for full custody of Shivu and bounce out of that house because its apparent that there is no longer a marriage between her and parth,no sense dragging DEAD relationships around like a log…that house should have just b*t*hjiri,toxicmanyu,parth the wife beater and tayi ji the gate keeper of abuse against women,no children or happiness of any sort should be found there because it will meet its inevitable end in their hands
Be it Akshara, Abhimanyu, Anuj, Anupama or Abhinav(maybe in future but hope they don’t) , Makers Ruined Everything .
Anupama today reduced to just Maa. Anuj proved his incompetence as a father, as a husband (if he doesn’t f do any arrangements Anupama’s Dreams very soon) and also Very irresponsible.
Akshara the Mausi who likes to play girl card and forgets mistakes of her side. Actually she never misses any card be it mother card, wife card or girl card.
Abhimanyu the puppet of a Psycho, Hypocrite, Self Centred b*t*hiri. He doesn’t know what to do , how to do, what is right what is wrong and he is claimed to be the topper of MBBS and best heart Surgeon in Udaipur. He can’t do anything about his mother who is messing up his every good relationships.
Abhinav the unguided soul, who crossed the boundary of Naive natured to became fool now.
All the A’ named Characters are so messed up. DKP is at their worst now.
constantly spreading Wrong messages to society.
@shyra completely agree with you
@shyra I just hate this anuj nd his spoilt child chhoti.. Choti went to mayaa nd was showing attitude to anupama at samar dimpy’s wedding nd now mayaa died so she wants anupamaa back.. What a lil devil she is.. Nd her father is another sadist.. He left anupamaa for chhoti thn started tolerating maya for chhoti nd now subconsciously wants anupamaa back for chhoti..
Nd this anupamaa.. Ufff isse to acha malti devi nakul ko hi sign kar leti.. Anupamaa loves being a doormat.. She dont deserve any respect as she dont respect any opportunity that comes to her.. Now again “mai ek maa hu bla bla”shit she will start.. Malti devi should just sue her.. Anupamaa is all about big talks but will always be a doormat for everyone be it shahs or kapadias
The victim is actually Gurumaa!
What was Abhinav s another stupid dialogue when he prevented Akshara from calling Abhimanyu? ” It’s Abhimanyu s turn etc etc “.damn it it’s your son’s first day in a new school…who comes first Bhaiji or your son !!.@funmi ,I think what you said yesterday is beg to make sense.
Navra can they understand that their behavior, and the reason why Abhir is even more sad is upset. Do Navra understand that toying with Abhir’s emotions only puts his sanity at risk. Navra are they able to understand that in this difficult moment for Abhir, he must receive their comfort and their support and that they must reassure him instead of hurting him? No! Navra doesn’t understand that Abhir’s current suffering is not just from his new life with Abhimanyu, Navra doesn’t understand that their actions are causing Abhir to become even more emotionally closed, they don’t understand that because of thembAbhir can no longer come out of his shell. he pretends to be fine but rejects everyone, as he feels rejected by those he loves the most. after 6 years living with Abhir they are unable to see the mental torture they inflict on Abhir. If Abhir knew he was loved, desired and wanted, that his parents would always fight for him he would have held on and would have more easily accepted the love he received away from them to stay strong. Navra doesn’t understand despite it being so obvious, that their decision and the reason that is hurting Abhir the most right now. some ask why Abhimanyu doesn’t understand that Navra did wrong to Abhir, because of Abhir’s obvious behavior, but he might as well think that after promising him to win the case but they finally lost his custody, Abhir feels upset with them and feels betrayed. He may as well think that the feeling of betrayal he feels towards Navra and him makes him closed to them for now, but what can he do for now. should he go and bring Abhir back to Navra. he might think he should stay positive to make Abhir positive over time the mood becomes contagious more positivity makes positive more negativity makes negative. I am sorry but I see clearly that Navra’s mistakes are trickling down to Abhir, but Abhimanyu is the one bearing the blame for them, only to vindicate Navra. Abhir will forgive his Sharma family more easily because in the end he wants to be with them, so why did Abhinav use the privilege of their relationship to make him happy and then broke him. Abhinav knows Abhir, he knows how to make him give in so why did he do it to hurt him even more, this child and come across a pretty incompetent trio.
Does DKP also produce Anupama??? I just browsed over an article about Rajan Shahi talking about Anupama maybe I should give up on this… Anupama is the worst show yet it’s number 1 somehow every god damned week 🙄 no wonder Akshu is so irritating at times, she’s like Anupama light. Akshu’s law studies are nowhere to be seen like Anupama’s dreams will never take flight, her grand children will have children and she’ll still be dreaming.
Nav is a wholesome dad but he’s still dumb, Akshara’s stupidity has rubbed off on him, the Nav we first came to know and love would have gently explained custody to Abhir, he might have asked Manyu to give them more time to prepare Abhir because he doesn’t want to leave, they would have got in a psychologist to back up their need for time to prepare Abhir but nope… Akshu is an idiot, Aru might have been selfish but she’s not a fool.
I don’t get the appeal of characters like Anupama and Akshara they are both essentially losers while Aru has more meat to her character to make her an FL than Akshu does. Can we stop with doormat FLs it’s pretty obvious what kinda message all the production houses are pushing, just live and follow the patriarchy and stagnant power structures, crush your own desires and dreams and live a life of servitude, can I start slapping Indian serial writers now, I really want to throw hands, the only recent FLs that didn’t follow that mould were Meet Hooda and Sai Joshi oh and Banni
Abhir might as well tell his 3 idiot parents he want to go to boarding school and escape their BS. I haven’t seen this creepmanyu bother about Ruhi once yet she’s supposed to be his heart what absolute BS. Ruhi doesn’t really rely on him anymore though, I still think behind the scenes Aru has explained things to her, she hasn’t mentioned them getting married in a long while so I think Aru has already told her she won’t marry poppy and poppy won’t be papa.
All I really want is for Harsh to return with his second wife who is a beauty with brains and his new son and throw his old thing awayyyyyy 😎
I’d rather see Manyu making that bechara constipated face watching Harsh bonds with his new son Abhishek and his new son calls him Papa and they have a ball of a time while it starts to rain… just over Manyu’s head… and he cries…. Beautiful
@Jade👍 wish it happens 😄
yes it is true that DKP producer of Anupama, YRKKH, Woh toh hai Albelaa, And the upcoming show called Kuch Baatein Ankahee Sii.
And yes like Anupama gave big big dialogues for her new journey for 7 Times!. But not a single journey she completed/established sincerely. She goes back to same topics like Family, Household, Children.
Same here Akshara will also be starting her fresh journey 7 times. She will change her career 7 times, Marry 7 times, and then go back to the square one i.e Family, Household,etc
For Akshu to start her journey, change her career n marry 7 times, you gotta wait long long, until ur jaw drop to the ground n yet it will never happen🤣
Jade – your wish for harsh is next level !!
But really hope this sad sob fest of 3 parents is gonna move somewhere and end soon !
There is so much potential with supporting cast and / or the leads to move on in life…
But from past 7 months it’s stuck at sample place with different versions of same promo released everytime !!
@Jade.
Yes, I agree. This track is not going anywhere as the writers are afraid to show Akshara growing and making a career. Now they have poured dust on Abhinav’s character to normalise everything. The fourth lead Aarohi is nowhere to be seen. They can work on the characters and their stories. Instead of this roundabout story of Abhir, Abhimanyu, Akshara and Abhinav.
For instance, they know that Aarohi’s wedding cannot break for a third time and this is why they have quietly dropped the wedding track. This story of Abhimanyu-Akshara won’t fly because they are so unbalanced together. Their fans don’t want to see this fact. Abhimanyu almost takes after a God, he is nearly invincible. Akshara is a mere middle-aged woman who is trying to build a new family after losing everything.
Since Abhimanyu is unlikely to face any retributions for the second divorce, the custody appeal should wrap up with a Navra custody settlement. Then the story can continue in a more positive direction.
Otherwise, I don’t see how breaking Akshara’s new family becomes a sensible way forward in telling this story.
The writers should come up with better ways to serve justice here. Abhimanyu should not be used as a floor towel, yes. However, he should understand that doing certain things have its consequences.
@Meed
I agree with you here. But I don’t think we will ever see the appeal. Giving Manyu the custody was nothing but an attempt to give HC a role to play still. Because Manyu, should have been buried by the sands of time and remain a forgotten horror tale.
There is no chance in hell, Mahadev can still be giving him favours. I mean is Karma off to maternity leave or?
My favorite Shaheer Sheikh has repeatedly said he wants to play a grey character…Maybe Harshad is same.Anyway kudos to him and the actress playing Manjiri👍.
I hate Abhinav and Akshara more today .They know their son is hurting and why .and are increasing his hurt ?? Abhinav calls his 6 year son butterfly and tells him to freaking adjust ?? Does not let Akshara communicate with Abhimanyu ?? And in the morning Akshara is cooking breakfast for Pati Dev? Instead of waiting at school gate to see Abhir off ??
do you have any problems if she prepares food for her husband? do you want to akshara think about only abhir? why not she think about her husband. his do you have pain in your stomach if she thinks about abhinav? i knew you wanted to akshu think about toxicmanyu?
She should be thinking of going to school to wish Abhir best of luck for his first day,like all parents of six year do !! and not making full fledge feast( Dham ??)for Abhinav.She can make it later if he’s so missing it And where does toxicmanyu come in Are u delusional too ?
Muskaan already reffered to what they did on first day of school and dumb Akshara makes her husband feast a priority rather than a six tear old child .Please the kid is only in class 1!!
I actually didn’t like Akshus delusion today and Manyus persistent obliviousness. Akshu is describing a connected family which is not there. She believes it’s there but it’s not because she was busy breaking her son’s heart and reaping the fruits to actually notice anything.
When she went to Birlas and Manjiri talked about old things, this was the red flag she needed. Aru knows what is going on in Birlas, Manyu doesn’t know as he choose to see, hear what suits him and is not honest to himself.
If Aru tells Akshu how Abhir is treated in Birlas from day one, Akshu fantasy of a “not” broken family, will disappear.
Manyus main path now is to separate Navra from Abhir and fool everyone else about it. He may be doing it unconsciously and doesn’t admit it to himself. When he worried about Abhirs childhood being like his, that was him being honest to himself but he suppressed the thought again.
@Rr
The written update is indeed different. Akshu is deluded to think Manyu too will do anything for Abhirs happiness. She is right that Nav will do anything. But not Manyu. Akshu is deluded to put them in the same position when they are not. When Nav is okay to stay outside the principals office, and be there for Abhir in any way and give him the advice that he needs most, Manyu is willing to keep Abhir with him but doesn’t be there for him.
It’s now clear that Manyu wants to keep Abhir away from his parents. From accepting the verdict, to his bedtime story, to his acceptance of the way Abhir is pushing away Navra, it all shows he wants Navra away from Abhir.
Yes !! And Abhinav the moron by saying it’s bhai ji s turn or whatever,is increasing the distance between Abir and themselves.Poor kid
Tbh I get the feeling the makers have started making Abhinav is character negative. The things he is doing at the moment are so annoying I feel like reaching out and giving him a tight 🔥 slap on both cheeks. He is the one who came up with the idea of breaking Abhir is heart, he has just told a 6year old kid to adjust and now he is refusing a mother to call and comfort her child. Is he aware that a 🦋 at that stage has already reached its last stage so it cannot turn into a larvae. If this is not down degrading a good man is character then I am brain dead.
If they have decided to downgrade Abhinav is character, then they should upgrade Abhimanyu is character and make him more aware and concerned for his child is mental state but the man is so selfish and self centered, he cannot see anyone beyond his mother. He is happy because he forced his child to call him dada and walks around like he is the father of the year yet he is simply a 🦚 displaying it’s true colors of dumb, selfish and narcissistic.
I am hoping the makers have planned a track of Abhir running away from home because the foolish mother needs to wake up from her trance (including getting rid of that awful 👄 stick they gave her since the loss of custody), Abhinav needs to remember that Abhir is a child not a robot and Abhimanyu needs to get a tight 🔥 slap to wake up him to the reality so he knows that although Abhir is adjusting, all is not well. Abhir will either become as cold and unfeeling as Abhimanyu or as stupid and sacrificing like his mother if something doesn’t give.
@Rach
I agree with you but I don’t understand how Navs butterfly advice can be bad. Nav is actually giving him a practical solution that will help him on the long run.
When he discouraged Akshu from calling Manyu is what I don’t understand. He did tell Abhir to adjust and he is telling Akshu to let Abhir adjust. But this was Abhirs first day to a new school. They could make it exceptional but Nav stopped her which is not right they need to be there for him but he stopped her. It’s like since he already patched up with Abhir, he didn’t see that Akshu and Abhir have not patched up yet and him like Manyu, they are preventing them from patching up.
I too find nothing wrong in Abhinav’s advice to Abhir though for Abhir it was not the answer he expected. And also Abhinav not letting Akhsra to call Abhimanyu seems not right thinking aboit Abhir. But there he let Abhimanyu to experience it fully. Akshra had already given him a notebook. He gave space to Abhimanyu.
Mark –
Even I agree that there is nothing wrong in nav giving butterfly advice.. if he told about higher court without giving a proper understanding of custody case and court decision..it will confuse the kid.. navra should have communicated openly instead of breaking heart…
Now- if you observe the analogy.. although abhir seemed sad when nav explained about butterfly.. he used same answer in front of principal- meaning he still listens n considers nav’s word !
And about nav stopping akshu from calling abhimanyu – on face of it that dint seem like bad advice , specially coz as parents both navra also have to adjust to the fact that manyu is also involved now and he also is the decision maker…
nav has not asked akshara not to go to school or nor meet abhir.. he just meant let manyu do the event his way
@Rak there was so much hurt in the child when he repeated the butterfly analogy.A child first and foremost needs stability not flitting Child psychologist even amatures ones in the group here can explain it better
And still Abhir is not good with Abhimav not only akshara. Abhir couldn’t controlled his anger seing Abhinav’s lovely words and his jokes. But again with the answer which Abhir did not expect he still not good with Abhinav. Else he would have taken gift of Abhinav. He didn’t say bye to Akahara or Abhinav but angrily went from there.
Hi – True, the child is hurting… navra as parents can see it but can’t do anything coz he is not with them…dumbmanyu also can see it but chooses not to do anything about it coz his son is listening to him and behaving like robot.. so it works for him !
Well, less talked about psycho the better..she has problem with kids playing board game with adults.. isn’t that supposed to be how family time is spent.. mental lady
@Rak
True it can be that Nav wants them to give Manyu the space he needs to do it his way. And after the butterfly analogy, Nav gave a way for Abhir to adjust by finding happiness wherever he is. So it may just be that, letting Manyu be the owner of the custody and letting him handle Abhir his way.
A butterfly has no home it lats it’s eggs on leaf and leaves and then cycle of larve caterpillar and butterfly.Its only work is to pollinate one flower to another flower.Unlike other pollinator like bees it does not have a home like a hive where it lives with others.It is actually a lonerIt has a life span of few months only.
@ Mark
Abhinav meant well but right now what Abhir needs is a place of comfort and peace and all he keeps getting is adults telling him what to do and feel and the worst part is the parents who broke his heart are acting aloof. Do you think with what is going on Abhir will ever be the same Abhir of Kasauli! This situation has marked him for life. Adults torturing a child even mental torture is not right. Akshara stopped herself from hugging Abhir….what foolery is that. To me, this detachment crap ain’t making sense.
@Rach
Agreed. Abhir needs comfort right now if not peace. All should offer it but they are preventing themselves and preventing the other. But one has gone much further by not realizing that Abhir needs it at all.
@Rach right!
The principal has given a word of wisdom to these people especially Akshara. She said they don’t even change the section or class of their pupils but Abhir has changed city, changed father change family and school. Akshara is still planning to go for another custody fight so that peradventure if she wins Abhir will one more time change everything again. And here some people are saying Abhinav and Akshara are the selfless ones. .
If they are not relenting Abhi should not relent too. He should try all that is in his power to keep his child with him. They have given the other party weekend rights. It should remain like that. They have lived with the child for 6 years. That gave them time to build a good relationship with him. It’s Abhi turn. If his child will not live with him, how will they build their own relationship. Some people just want the serial to go the way they projected in their minds. And they are not the writers.
The criticism is a way to pummel or rather cajole the writers to their preferred thinking. It can’t go that way. Why I say this, is if Abhi does good they write against him if he does mistake they enlarge and aggravate it. Even if Abhi dies today in the serial they will still say it’s a joke to become a hero.
What do they want. Abhi kicked out. The way they write, is showing they have something personally against the person acting Abhimanyu ( Harshad) Not the act of the play.
My opinion anyway.
Akshara is telling Abhi that she has seen his world. It’s her world better than that of Abhi. The way she and her vicious sister have been behaving, is it better than that of the Birla’s
@Funmi, true if he doesn’t give in Abhimanyu shouldn’t either, they all fight out of selfishness they don’t care what the consequences for Abhir’s life would be. If the opening of the case takes time Abhir might very well get used to his new life, his new school and his new family. but if Akshara wins the case she also risks turning Abhir’s life upside down without taking the child’s feelings into consideration. There is going to be a small leap for sure, and the situation that Abhimanyu is living with Abhir, Navra will definitely go through it they also want their children by their side whatever the cost. We’ll see at that time if Akshara’s fans still think she’s a saint. Frankly Akshara is not a good person, because she always ends up doing evil whatever her intentions, if someone continues to reproduce the same mistakes it is intentional. She’s on the same level as Abhimanyu, everything Akshara does has consequences that affects everyone, so well she should definitely look at her mirror before accusing. But Manjiri is another premium level
Yeol and Funmi..
So according to you akshara appealing in high court and filing custody is wrong coz it will again change abhir’s environment??
.. hmm interesting..
Then you do agree that dumbmanyu shouldn’t have caused the change in first place ?.. ohh.. wait.. no no.. manyu is always right isn’t it? !!!
If manyu fights custody..its for his rights and recognition…if akshara appeals in high court against a judgement which is plain mockery of judicial system where instead of asking to pay child costs – court gives custody itself to rich…its selfishness !..hmm.. very interesting indeed !
Akshanav are dumb no doubt.. but manyu is the selfish one here..
💯true.
@Rak, In reality Akshara would have lost custody of Abhir because of his irresponsibility, decision making regarding a child is hugely taken into account, in addition to the economic situation of the parents which will always be an important factor. legal status and also taken into account Akshara has a penal or civil criminal record, she is recognized as a person who has already defrauded the law, a factor that will always be taken into account. I don’t know how you perceive the court of law, but if the details of the parents’ conduct or offenses are present in their file, they will never be ignored. The court first judges the parents, their situation, their potential crime, everything. there is perfect equality between the rights of the father and those of the mother in the Civil Code, If the parents were married, the 2 parents jointly exercise parental authority. If the parents were no longer married but the child was conceived within the framework of marriage, the father exercises joint parental authority with the mother. and Akshara did not have judicial authorization to take away Abhimanyu’s rights, a fact recognized as a civil crime punishable by a fine and which is recorded in the criminal record. A parent who is convicted of a crime has their chances of winning reduced to 40% if the other party has a clean criminal record. the factor that tipped the scales against them and Navra’s financial situation. in reality Akshara’s chances were already diminished, moreover it is a reality financial security is a valid reason for withdrawing custody of a child from a parent if the financial situation of this one is not stable . but it is only in an extreme case where the parent makes no effort to stabilize his financial situation, but it must be proven through the pay slip that the parent is trying to earn a living, so that the financially stable parent can be subjected to gave financial assistance. In the case of Akshara and Abhinav I have no idea if their means of income is declared because if not, they are considered as moonlighters, and their means of income will never be taken into account in court. All parents will always try to have their children by their side it is a selfish need whether it is Akshara, Abhimanyu or Abhinav. I repeat, but I see nothing wrong with a parent fighting for his child if he feels capable of ensuring a future for him. it’s selfish but real. Abhinav are going to make efforts to raise their financial situations to get Abhir back. even if Abhir ends up being happy in Birla, they will suffer the repercussions but they are ready to make efforts to get their child back. It’s good for some to judge the parents’ envy because the child can be trapped in this complicated situation, but I can’t see a parent giving up his fight for his rights because he doesn’t think he’s up to it. all parents think they can measure up so that they can be at their children’s side despite the difficulties.
Yeol – manyu was very clear not to raise financial condition issue.. but they ended up winning case based on that..so hypocrisy101 ?… now that akshara wants to appeal.. how is it wrong ?….I dont know what real life examples you saw…but unemployed single mothers also get custody in real life.. here sharmas are decent living middle class.. so no way Financially below par.. also akshara has inheritence to goenka wealth…so plsss..for God sake do not justify your understanding of financial ground when in reality even unemployed mothers get child maintenance and support along with custody !.. your essays are often biased with your admiration for manyu though you say it’s real life based !
Anyway- it happens in serials only…coz dumbmanyu character has to develop some bond with his son and that is not possible if navra won in round1 itself !
@Rak you are so right! @yeol please don’t come again! Firstly you denied what you commented, just like yestrday u commented “Abhi never tried to win Akshara back” @Sivk replied to you about the temple incident, you asked him to read well🤣🤣 did you forget the temple incident or you simply don’t understand the word “NEVER”?
Here it goes…
never means…
/ˈnɛvə/
adverb
1.
at no time in the past or future; not ever
Now again you calling Akshara evil doing??? Do you need me to tell you the meaning of “evil” ??
@Rak, Akshara did not inherit anything because she did not claim her rights to the family fortune otherwise they would not have been in such a situation their financial situation would never have been targeted if she had been recognized as an heiress. Mrs Chatterjee vs Norway, look at this film it is taken from real fact and if you want I can advise you many articles on this type of case, where the rich always manage to obtain custody of their children for the benefit of the mother mother, if she is not financially stable or wealthy. judges work for the state and when the state makes a decision, a mother can spend years appealing san won. Mrs Chatterjee vs Norway in this story a mother was taken away from custody of her children for stupid reasons, her family was in a more than stable financial situation, but she spent years fighting in court to be heard but the law, the court and the judges did not do him justice. Many women or even parents go through similar situations regardless of the country because money and laws have more weight than the happiness of parents or children. The banal cases of people in the social average often prove the mother right, but in the political or even financially elastic sphere money almost always wins, those who have a high standard of living will understand what I mean. In addition, in court, parents will always have to justify their financial situation in order for their standard of living to be assessed.
@U, If you read my comment you could see it was a response after someone raised what happened at the temple, I said after this story Abhimanyu never tried to win back Akshara, you have to read. The subject of so much faith has been raised and the answer given so many times that I see no need to repeat myself.
a mother can spend years appealing without winning
but in the political sphere or even financially elite money almost always wins,
Yeol – give it a rest.. you are quoting Norway case and later here and under very diff circumstances…and you do know finally who won…
This is set in Rajasthan !- in blind admiration of manyu.. you quote anything and say it’s real !
@yeol .I am a new viewer,I always assumed that Akshara was rich Her grandparents (maternal) ( they were in yrhpk) were super rich.So Akshara should have inherited property and wealth from all sides.Unless of course all was given to Abhimanyu as dowry😅 or did she refuse it ?? Even if she did then Kairav can giveit back Aarohi of course has only Goenka wealth.
@Rak
It doesn’t make sense that they should not appeal. It’s the right decision to appeal because the current arrangement is cooking a favourable condition for Abhir to grow up with so much anger, hatred and distant from everyone.
Mark – right..any child in Birla house will end up emotionally bruised with so much drama and toxicity !
Yeol- no matter what civil or criminal code you quote.. you dint answer if manyu was right to change the environment?.. if not why blame akshara when they want to appeal ?.. and even legally as long as abhir parents sharmas are capable of giving him decent life which they did till now…court cannot favor rich single father !.. it happens only in serials.. not in reality.. father will be asked to pay maintenance if the other party is a single mother.. in this case.. the other party are proper middle class !
@Rak, it was a real fact situation that I was able to follow because of the journalistic information. who knows, maybe Abhinav has no declared income and neither does Akshara with his little jam business, maybe their income is not declared hence not eligible in court, that’s quite a fact that will be in their disfavour, then they will not even be recognized as receiving the hourly minimum wage before the law, which is why their financial situation has been raised because the court asks for proof, and if they do not have proof they are not even recognized as having a stable, middle class life. I did not judge Akshara I am stating a fact, about the risks and repercussions that can happen, the same risks that many of you targeted when Abhimanyu got custody, because that was likely to happen. It’s selfish but I’m not going to judge because, as I said, I can’t see a parent abandoning his rights over his child. My antipathy towards Akshara has nothing to do with her resolve to want Abhir by her side she has the right to fight for her rights just like every parent in this world. The court does not stop to look at what Abhir has today, the court looks at the whole of Abhir’s life even his future. if the fact that the financial means of Sharma is recognized as really too precarious according to the law, coupled with the fraud of Akshara, the court will favor an environment or Abhir, will not risk being in material or financial shortage. The court often makes a pediatric psychologist and speech therapist available for the child, when he is removed from the custody of the legal holder he has always known, to be able to monitor the child’s mental state. usually during the third week at its new legal holder psychological therapy is mandatory. In real life the mother is not always privileged if her situation is unfavorable, in real life many rich parents gain custody of their child, because they have status and wealth, whether it is fair or not it is a another story.
@yeol maybe in YOUR real life but NOT everyone REAL life!
@yeol
Akshara being in basement 90 cannot amount to Manyu who is at basement 100.
Sorry they are in different levels.
Untill now Abhir is still dreaming and wanting to go back to Kasauli. Untill this changes, the appeal must go on. There is a possibility that he will not adjust at Birlas and still wish to go to Kasauli and so the appeal will reach it’s destination.
If at all Abhir adjusts and want to be with Manyu, we will then see if Navra persist with the appeal.
Untill then, it doesn’t make sense to stop the appeal.
Evil? Akshara or you? @yeol
@Funmi
“Akshara is telling Abhi that she has seen his world. It’s her world better than that of Abhi. The way she and her vicious sister have been behaving, is it better than that of the Birla’s”
You are right that Akshus world is not beautiful. But is she still in that world? She is in Sharmas world and it’s cooked Abhir the way he is now, sensible, mature, and adjusting to the adults needs. This is Akshus world now.
But Manyus world is still the same untill now. Manyus world has all the favourable conditions to make Abhir like Manyu. And in this world, Abhir is currently residing. There is the likes of Mahima, Parth, and mostly Manjiri and Manyu himself who doesn’t know what it takes to be a father. Abhir is not living with Goenkas. He is living with the Birlas who created Parth, Manyu and we’re harboring Harsh for many years.
Much better than Parth, Anisha n Abhi
Not defending navs action when he advised akshu not to call abhim but think tht he did it bcz abhir himself told him tht he is not happy there that’s why nav wanted to give the time to both of them to strengthen their bond
It will take atleast 1 yr for the case to open in high court till then abhir had to stay there no matter what akshnav can defy the orders from the court of law, and he can’t just let abhir live there and be unhappy for the NXT one yr or upcoming future.
Or it can be that makers r trying to portray him a negative character may be….if it happens it will be real 😞
Yes- but the advise in general dint seem bad.. let manyu build a relation and connection with abhir…
Nav has acknowledged that manyu is abhir father the moment he knew the truth in kasauli..its dumbmanyu who doesn’t recognize nav’s place and let’s his mom insult him time and again while he hides behind the sad face !
Agreed
Nd what is this precap’s voice over abhim and akshara ‘s ‘pyaar ki jung’….did they meant to say ‘pyaar ki jung for abhir’ or was giving some hint 😐😐
@Mugiwara
What does “pyaar ki jung” mean?
War for love / war of love may be
If that is so, it’s war for/of love for Abhir.
@ mark then it should be beta ke pyar keliya jung
@Mugiwara it makes no sense. All these childish Abhira stans are crying again they are like donkeys they just need a carrot, most of them are the ones writing these dumb gossip site articles, they have been writing about Nav’s death since he started. NavRa is different from other pairings – they actually do love each other not like the other shows where the FL is friendly and respects the second male in her life but cries over her ex husband daily (like that idiot Pragya, she did King dirty). Anyway Manyu doesn’t deserve love from anyone he must just sit in a corner with a rain cloud over his head growing mushrooms and crying into his mother India’s pallu… Abhir is better off living with his Mama and BooMi than any of these 3 idiots… it’s like everyone can see Abhir’s pain and they are giving the 3 idiots good advice but the idiots want to be idiots. Kairav and Manish would have never agreed to NavRa’s mad idea. Normally when emotions are high you need another adult of level mind to step in and tell the emotional people what to do… the only person who was fair in their thinking as much of a Monster as they are was Mahima, she kept Abhir’s needs above all when she spoke about the custody
💯 true @jade.
Since Abhimanyu won the full time custody, Abhimanyu has to step into a Parent’s shoe and support Abhir to overcome this difficult situation. Atleast, Abhir listens to Manyu and obey whatever he says. If Manyu cant solve the misery of his son in this favourable situation that he has, Manyu doesnt deserve to be Abhir’s father. Then Manyu has to back off immediately.
Akshara was telling the same all the time that Abhir is not ready for this harsh truth and we will wait for the right time to tell the truth. But Manyu insisted and see how miserable Abhir has become. Abhimanyu and Abhimanyu stans should be happy now. Pity on the Manyu stans who argued so vigorously and willingly for this. Even after repeated warnings, Manyu snatched all the happiness from Abhir just for his selfish reasons. Now, Also if he allows Abhir to spend more time with Navra, the boy will become Okay. He just has to put his ego aside and try to coparent. But No, thats not what Manyu signed up for. He has to win over Navra, but he is winning by failing his own son.
@Nitu
It’s true and I agree. Where we came from, Akshu warned that it is still too early but Manyu insisted.
I just want to see the outcome of this path that Manyu chose for all.
He deconstructed his son’s life and now he is the sole builder of Abhirs life. Let’s see if he will actually solve his son’s problems or ignore them still.
He is the one that stays with him 24/7 for 5 days untill weekend comes so he should be the one to know Abhir more than Navra. And he should address all Abhirs problems.
@Nitu.
Agree here. Abhimanyu is just trying to build a relationship with Abhir. The only thing is that the relationship was forced on Abhir. His parents have to break his heart as he was unwilling to go to Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu is thinking right about Abhir. Abhir’s anger will soon visit him as his part in this fiasco has been obscured by Abhinav and Akshara so far.
@Meed
I am just waiting to see where this road leads us Because I sure as hell don’t like the journey.