Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 14th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Manish burning the veggies. Kairav and Suwarna come. Manish and Muskaan act. Kairav says Muskaan, you didn’t go to office. Muskaan says my offs are still going on. Kairav asks Manish to come and attend the meeting. They all go. Akshu forgets to switch off the stove. She says I forgot to add the hing. She gets hurt. She thinks of Abhir and goes. Ruhi says sorry, I wanted to cover the books, there are too many books. Abhir says we will do it, Dadda isn’t there to help us. She says you are angry with Maasa and Maasi right. He says we will cover this first. She says my writing is like doctors. Abhir writes the name on his book. Akshu says I had kept Abhir’s old shoes, it might be in the suitcase. She gets the old shoes. She says I have to take this before Abhir goes to school. Surekha sees Muskaan on call. No one sees the stove on. Akshu says its raining heavily. The stove fire is blown off. Dadi sneezes and says I caught cold, I will make ginger and Tulsi tea. She goes to kitchen.
Manjiri says Abhir will drop the kids to school. She prays. Dadi sees the gas stove already on. She says when did I switch on the gas, I did it, who else is over, my mind isn’t working by sneezing. Suwarna and Surekha come downstairs. They get the gas smell. They see Dadi using the lighter. Dadi says lighter isn’t working, I will light the matchstick. They run to stop Dadi. They ask Dadi to come out, there is gas filled in the kitchen.
Manjiri smiles seeing the kids. Abhir gets sad talking about Akshu. Manjiri says wow, you both packed the bags. Ruhi says he is the world’s best bro, he will pack my bag every day. Manjiri asks them to go and get ready. Abhir says its my school’s first day, we used to pray to Kanha ji. She asks him to take the blessing. Ruhi says Abhir, you go and pray, I will also pray for you. Manjiri finds Abhir’s bag heavy. He says so many books, where shall I keep the tiffin. She sees Abhir Abhinav Sharma written on the book label. She angrily removes the labels. Shefali stops her and says Abhir has to go to school, what are you doing. Mahima says let her go, what can she do, I m a doctor, its my habit to give bitter medicine, Manjiri is sick, Abhir is in pain, you divided him in two houses, so he isn’t happy and you aren’t happy. She argues.
She says your son is fulfilling your wish, you are alone and will be left alone. Shefali says this isn’t the right time. Mahima asks what will we do if Abhir shatters. Manjiri says enough, you forgot a dad’s pain, if we don’t explain the truth to Abhir, then it will be too late, he should know the name of his dad, his dad’s real name is Abhimanyu Birla, not Abhinav Sharma. Akshu comes and looks on. She picks the cover and checks the label. Aarohi comes. Mahima says you here… Akshu says its good I have come, else I would have not seen this.
She asks Manjiri what’s her problem. She argues. She says you have a problem with us, we have no problem, we will keep trying, we lost our child, you couldn’t lose your hatred, this is hatred, right. Aarohi worries. Akshu says you didn’t think Abhir can see this hatred, how would he feel. Abhir stays with you, is this not enough, Abhinav is Abhir’s dad, he has raised Abhir, you have no right to throw him out of Abhir’s life.
Surekha scolds Muskaan. Muskaan cries. Suwarna asks Surekha to calm down. She says Abhinav is also here. Surekha says everything would have got burnt, Abhinav is living here, he should know his sister is so careless. Suwarna says we don’t know if this happened because of Muskaan or not. Surekha says I saw her, she went to kitchen. She asks Muskaan to say. Muskaan says yes, Akshu and I… Surekha says Akshu isn’t here, so you are blaming her. Muskaan says no. Surekha says shut up.
Manjiri says I don’t want to talk. Akshu says you have to talk, you can shatter Abhir’s confidence, he is my son, I will talk about him, court has sent Abhir to you because the judge felt you can give a better upbringing to him, he should get a happy family, not one who hate each other. Shefali says kids are at home, calm down, end the matter else. Manjiri says no, the matter just started. They argue and cry. Akshu says we told everyone and went to Kasauli on Abhir’s saying, it’s a wrong blame, as your son, what right we snatched from him, nothing, we three understood that a parent don’t need to ask or show right. Manjiri asks why do you come here every day, when court asked you to come on weekends. Akshu says you have nothing to say, so you are saying the court decision.
Precap:
Akshu says don’t make Abhir away from us. Abhi asks did I go to court. They argue. She says I have seen your world, so I m scared for my son.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Lol what a waste of episode.. Makers are surely running out of ideas.. Same precap from 5 days..
I was excited to see abhir’s 1st day at school but all I get to see is manjri vs akshara at birla house nd surekha vs muskan at goenka house..
Makers know this track is increasing trp so they will keep dragging it and annoy audience
@Surabhi
We do agree on one thing. The epis are dragging to hell. And Muskaan is another hopeless character. Can’t she say Akshu did it? So that all can be cautious around Akshu. And why is she being scared of something that is not her mistake. She should look Surekha in the eyes so that Surekha looses confidence to harass her.
Once again people accusing people without finding out what happened.
@Mark, well Muskaan can’t speak up against the daughter of the house, especially one so perfect as their Akshu.
I suppose the point of the scene is to show the sh*t show Akshara accuses the Birlas of being is probably Muskaan’s experience at the Goenkas, even if, for the moment, it is just Surekha harassing the daughter in law.
@Rai
Mus had a perfect way out, which is Akshu is not in her senses since she lost her son. Then, everyone would look out for Akshu as she may endanger herself and others. But no, she was displaying all the signs of being guilty.
@Mark, your suggestion is not advisable for a daughter in law who has yet to make her place (power) in her martial home. Best leave Akshu to come home and own up to her mistake which nearly sent the great grandma on her new incarnation.
Some days ago birlas were disappearing nd were getting so less scrnspace.. I thought their track will finish just like tripathis in imlie.. Now suddenly birlas started getting so much scrnspace and every member of birla family reappeared except harsh.. Heard now shivu is also coming back..shivu is cute but Whats his importance in current track? May be shefali and parth’s divorce track now as makers are running short of ideas
I hope now Abhimanyu will confront Manjari atleast for her actions.🫣
Tired of listening
“Maaaaaaaaa”
“Maaaa bus kijiye”
“Maaaa shanth hojaye”
“Maaaaaaaa”
🙄🤦
@😎 but for that someone has to inform him for whateva happened.. Akshu will start fighting with him unnecessarily.. May be to vent out her frustration😐
Its not frustration. And what Akshu said is not wrong. Kids should grow in a good environment. If Manjiri is not realising it then Akshara should tell that to Abhimanyu. He now has more responsibility towards Abhir. Since Abhir is growing with Birla fam Abhimanyu should consider all these. Manjiri’s hatred towards Navra can be affect Abhir. And is it wrong to tell Abhimanyu? And Akshara is right. Abhimanyu’s world is mostly him and his mom.
She will not tell
She will yell
True- akshara will yell and vent out..
Manyu will not have anyone to yell at so he ll confide in his mom.. this circle goes on…
Shefali / mahima or arohi can also tell manyu what exactly happened and how exactly psycho tore the cover which abhir made.. but they won’t..either ppl writing are mad or ppl watching !.. or both !!
@Shyra
She will tell of course like in the precap is she yelling? Although I know Manyu will never listen again. He will just hear and put on his innocent face.
Ya she will yell, why tell? Manjiri deserves to be yell not tell!
@hi I am saying that akshu should tell abhimanyu how manjri was behaving instead of just yelling nd talking about unnecessary things
Surabhi-
If we go by history.. none of characters tell actual event..instead yell and go..let it be akshu or manyu
I just hope Abhir overheard them and knows what kind of a grandmother he has!
@Surabhi
Even if someone inform him, apart from the above phrases he won’t say anything else…🙄🙄
@Surabhi and @Shyra
Will Manyu also use the excuse that Akshu didn’t tell me but she yelled at me to excuse himself and escape consequences? Are we going to keep listening to excuses after excuses? So Manyu will be an “excuse parent”. So it’s fine to call him ExcuseManyu.
@mark
“Excusemanyu”😂😂😂
Haha – so true…
These are exact words manyu is gonna utter !!
It’s like he doesn’t know what to put after that !
Lolzzz…. This one’s good….
@😎
Very correct. Manyu has no other words than the ones mentioned.
“Maaaa”, “maaa”. He keeps calling maaa, like who doesn’t have a maaaaa.
@Mark excuseManyu 💀👏👏😂😂😂😂
@Hi, you are right, Akshara should have had a word with Abhimanyu about her worry that Manjiri’s behaviour could have a negative impact on Abhir. But as the precap shows, Akshara prefers to attack Abhimanyu rather than have a sensible conversation with him.
Kal kisi ne sai kaha tha manjiri aur akshu ko bas apna dikh raha hai abhir ki kisi ko nai padi. Itna over react karne ki kya zarurat thi abhir ne itne mehnat se cover lagaya tha naya label chipka deti. Dono ko abhir ka dush nai dikh raha. Abhir kitni takleef mai hai.manjiri ki nafrat khatam hi nai ho rai hai. I hope ye akshu bi apne dfrustration ko side mai rakhke abhimanyu ki puri baat bataye. @surbhi sai kaha inke pas dikhane ko kuch nai hai.
Abhir ruhi ka bond kitna acha hai i hope aur strong bane ye bond.
@shubh you noticed arohi as a parent is the best.. She is still staying at birla house coz she knows roohi loves her poppy a lot.. Unlike this akshu and manjri.. Manjri only cares about her son’s feelings and akshu cares only about her husband’s feelings.. Both these women keep shouting for that.. Arey abhir ka v soch lo.. Dumb abhimanyu cant see that abhir is not happy nd dumb abhinav just being a crybaby.. Isse to acha arohi dono roohi or abhir ko le ke chali jaye kahi door
@Surabji. Yes akshra cares aboit abhinav’s feelings. But here it is not about abhinav’s feelings but it is about abhir. As i said earlier it is clear manjiri has hatred towards navra and that behaviour of her will affect abhir. Did akshara made abhir hate abhimanyu or any of birla fam? Yes she made them apart. But did she made abhir feel a bad impression on abhimanyu? No right?
@Hi @Surabhi agree with both of you
@hi thn who is creating bad impression of navra in abhir’s sight? No one is guess.. Or should I say navra themselves are doing it
Abhir did not have bad impression of Navra! Since when?
What navra did hurt abhir. It didn’t crate a bad impression. But he gets away from navra that’s not bcz of bad impression but bcz he thinks he wants to help his parents some how. If navrs created a bad impression then why abhir still urger for thier love.
@Hi
Agreed. @Surabhi, We are talking of showing children how hatred is done. Exposing a child to hatred shouldn’t be Birlas choice of dish because Abhirs parents never exposed Abhir to hatred ever.
@Mark n @ Hi agree
Akshara is trying to ensure that her husband (Abhir’s papa, not the dadda) will still be a primary part of Abhir’s welfare…. and not be brushed aside like Manjiri is trying to do….. I also see that Abhimanyu is no longer seeking to include Abhinav in the transition…. which makes me believe that he has this ulterior motive to his actions…. to put it straight…. I am of the impression that he still has it in the back of his mind that Akshara will have no choice but to return to him for Abhir’s sake 🙄 …but I just want Abhinav to get mad enough to fight for Abhir…. those Birlas don’t deserve him smh…. he needs to live in a normal household with normal people…. and not have to struggle to adjust to a lifestyle which he is not accustomed to…. at his age he should only be thinking about what to eat when he gets home from school…nothing else…. smh poor little guy (sigh)
@Naina a.k.a. uknowho
Manyu has never seen Nav as Abhirs papa. He has never given a chance to Nav to be Abhirs papa. He has always wanted to take all responsibility from Navs. But he doesn’t realize that his son looks up to Nav and expects from Nav as he considers Nav as his papa. It’s like being called King but no one is giving you the chance to perform duties that is associated with the tittle.
@ Naina a.k.a. uknowho of course he’s going to use Abhir, CreepManyu never cared about Abhir we saw this when he tried to break Abhir’s family without consideration for anyone before he knew his sperm donor status. CreepManyu’s obsession has always been Akshu. I would not be surprised if CreepManyu did something that caused the death of both himself and Akshu. ManyuJiri don’t deserve a kid like Abhir they deserve a hopeless little twit like Vinu who will dance on their heads and throw tantrums day and night
@Jade
Agreed. Untill Manjiri let’s go of her hatred, she is not fit to be around Abhir. I advised Manyu to go and buy a house elsewhere, where he can live alone with Abhir so that Abhir and him can be of the same circumstances and hence they will relate with each other and bond well. But no, Manyu wants to stay with his mom still when his son is away from his mom.
Manjiri created a favourable condition for Abhir to grow with so much hatred, anger and distant. Like Manyus childhood where his dad hated his mom only this time, dida is the one that hates both Abhirs parents and his dada is supporting dida.
So Right! @Jade
@Jade 😂 CreepManyu ….living in his little dream bubble
@Mark…What I think Akshara is trying to avoid is a similar situation happening between Abhimanyu and Abhir (father and son relationship) as compared with Abhimanyu and Harsh…. father son feud….
Exactly
Today both mahima and akshara were right…
If psycho is concerned about a school book label..she could have told that to abhir calmly also.. gave him some time to adjust n adapt or asked manyu to make the boy understand!
But it was psychos pure hatred towards navra which made her tear the notebook cover which the little kid put in lot of effort to make!…that act shows her mental imbalance…its not normal that a grown up will tear school book out of anger !.. what will kids learn if they see these kind of impulsive behavior around ??… being house full of doctors.. cant mahima / arohi or dumbmanyu see his mom is mentally imbalanced ?
@Rak
Abhir will wonder, who else throws a tantrum apart from him and Ruhi? Even Abhir himself doesn’t.
Exactly!
Akshu only knows of torned book cover but doesn’t know of a certain healthy diet, prohibited old things and “adults shouldn’t play with kids”, that was forced on Abhir in the name of “adjusting”. You know, a present parent like Akshu knows exactly what her kid needs to adjust and what is unnecessary/over the top, for her kid to adjust. It was up to Manyu to communicate with Abhirs old parents to discuss if so and so restrictions will aid in Abhirs adjustment or not. Akshu gave Manyu an instruction manual thinking Manyu will work with them closely and help each other in making Abhir comfortable. But Manyu is yet to visit this instruction manual. Manyu instead of listening to Abhirs parents who knows Abhir better, he listens to Manjiris suggestions of what will help Abhir adjust knowing fully well Manjiri doesn’t know shit about Abhir. But what can I say, Manyus brain is like that of a new born baby. He didn’t think to work closely with Sharmas as they know Abhir better, they can give him suggestions on how to help Abhir cope. But no, Abhir is left to fend for himself and retire in his own thoughts.
Some called this “assuming normal routine” but question is, whose normal routine? Abhirs normal routine is his loved ones hovering around him like houseflies. This lack of that too soon, will teach him to be distant and lonely.
@yeol said it’s positivity, but I call it negligence and abandonment to Abhirs feelings, and desires. And if Abhir gets exposed to such, for a long time and without a break, he will learn to be on his own like he is today, preparing his own school bag.
Birlas were given Abhirs responsibility. No. Manyu was given Abhirs responsibility but he is yet to be responsible and stop caring about himself only.
During puja, Abhir said his papas name is Nav. No one explained it to him that he needs to mention Manyu. When Manyu was manipulating Abhir to call him dada, he said himself that, papa was Nav so Abhir can call him anything else. Today, Abhir is covering his books alone and writing the name that he KNOWS because the people currently responsible for him didn’t take the time in their busy schedule to explain it to him that he should write Manyu from then on. Manjiri should have been there to guide Abhir about how his name is written but she didn’t. If this same kid is so sensible and considerate and understanding and didn’t say no to any request they had, would he have denied to heed Manjiris guide? Of course not. But no one made efforts to explain and guide him. I call this negligence and irresponsible. Now how will Abhir feel about his didas stunt on his belongings? What excuse will they give him? Abhir will understand as usual. When will he get justice?
And Manjiri has officially declared that she accepts criticism and reprimands on the environment she is offering to Abhir, only on weekends. That will be her excuse from now on. And if Akshu has something to say during week days, who will she tell? Manyu who doesn’t see anything but himself and who sees his mom as an angel and takes all his mom’s teachings as right. Manjiri will now use this excuse, “it’s not weekend”.
And Manyu like his mom will use his own excuse “did I go to court”. And I can’t help but see the extent of Manyus incompetency. You see, Akshu chose to cut Manyu off and introduce Nav, a decision she took due to her believes and circumstances. But this decision, she was criticized sharply by Manyu and everyone else. Did she ever give any excuse for her decisions so as to escape the consequences? No right. That is how good parents roll. No escaping consequences by giving excuses. But what did Manyu do, he is not ready to face the consequences of his choice and decisions to support second custody, and instead he is giving excuses so as not to be blamed. And next, he will excuse himself by saying Manjiri did it. Pathetic excuse for a parent.
@Mark you know what’s funny, Manyu himself is a failure he’s not mentally or emotionally stable, he never has been and his mom has been batshit insane all along but he feels his mother india should raise Abhir 🤮 he has not really done much in terms of being a parent apart from signing school forms, he has left the kid to his mentally unstable mother. The child has to go to school now he’ll have to either go late while redoing labels or go with messed up books cause mother india is psychotic and Manyu won’t do a thing cause he’s like a castrated dog before his mother. blo*dy loser is what he is
@Jade
Is it confirmed that Manjiri is sick? Is Mahima taunting her or is she diagnosing her?
@Mark, I am off the opinion that if they can hide domestic violence for parivar ki izzat then they can hide this mentally unstable turd of a human’s mental condition for parivar Ki izzat until she causes something major that they can’t deny… would be great if action was taken against Manyu legally for his mother and he had to choose between keeping Abhir in Birla house or sending psycho to the nuthouse… I really want this CreepManyu to have to choose between his fatherhood and his mother india.
@Mark.
Agreed. Abhimanyu can do better than this. He should have won over Abhir and cemented his understanding with the Sharmas. Now he is leaving Abhir’s upkeep to his grandmother. This is pure incompetence. He is unable to follow the instruction manual and some will want to blame Abhinav for that. Abhimanyu probably went to pray for Abhir’s first day at the school in Udaipur. That is good. He could have asked Abhir what he needs for the school. There is no excuse for not guiding Abhir on what to do.
His mother’s feeling seems worse by the day. She hates the Sharmas and this will be her undoing. The Goenkas did not do so much but they made Abhir feel loved. Here at the Birlas, they have their busy lives and the homemaker isn’t one to be fair. Quite the irony.
@Meed
Exactly. Manyu can do better than this. And it’s true about this chosen homemaker. She is not fair and is full of hatred.
THIS.Also 💔
Mark –
There was a time when I really liked the bond manyu n manjiri shared and how much he cared for his mom..though it was borderline possessive – could understand the background that he had gone through years of witnessing abuse of harsh towards his mom so he was protective…
But now.. neither he nor psycho have any justification for these actions.. who blo*dy tears a book cover ?.. specially in household which do pooja and treat books as goddess saraswati… psycho absolutely lost it and no reason can justiy action.. if dumbmanyu supports this particular action of his mother tearing book cover.. then he is unfit as a dad !..
No matter he covers all those books again.. but the action cannot be justified and that anger seriously indicates hatred…
Aksnav never wanted abhir to hate Birla or manyu…
Same should be followed by manyu side also if abhir is to be grow happily
@Rak
The way I see it, Manyu will give excuses for his failed choices and decisions. He was a unfit dad since six years ago. He got the chance to rectify his mistake and form a bond with his son but he still keeps his mom’s wishes before his son’s. And holds his mom in great regard than his son’s mom. He had the chance to work with his baby mama but he worked with his mom. Who is the dumb one here?
It’s downright disrespectful!
Bang on! Akshara today had spine to give befetting reply to Manjiri. Loved it. I am worried for Abhir when he sees those torned covers. Manjiri is trying to suppress the child’s feelings. But, One day it gonna blast very badly. Akshara was right. Navra tried their best to not form any hatred in Abhir’s mind so far sacrificing the bond they had with Abhir. But seems those feelings will develop in Abhir by own by the actions of Manjiri and Abhimanyu.
@Nitu
I don’t think Manjiri will change or any action will be taken to save Abhir from Manyujiri. I think Abhir will go on forming his anger, hatred and no one will save him.
Akshara didn’t do any damage today. It’s just good that her delusion of a “healthy environment from two families” is broken. But Akshu has never done anything that really did good impact. She has never accomplished anything. I can blame it on Manyu as he never gave her room to accomplish anything but her inability to enforce her believes is what is to blame most.
If she would have hidden well Abhirs paternity and would have watched out for a hidden Abhir before speaking the most dangerous thing that will change her son’s life, we would not be here. She doesn’t have the power to do anything. She is weak and I hope I would never be this weak and pathetic. Her son will grow up having mommy issues because she couldn’t really fight for her son’s future the way she believed is the better one. Not this that she was forced to accept because her secret is out.
If she was really a good mom, she would have gone to the extent of changing her son’s DNA but she didn’t.
ManyuJiri is always going to be a pair of sickening failures but right now… wtf is Surekha still doing fluttering about the Goenka’s, she’s well overstayed her welcome, Do her own kids not want her anymore? Every minute she looks for reasons to insult Muskaan and Nav cause they don’t come from money, she’s a classist b*t*h and I hope she falls down some stairs in Birla house and lands on psychojiri and they both crack their skulls and die together 🤨
I saw a gossip article about psychojiri asking Arohi to leave cause they have an argument, kinda hoping Aru tells her she has a right to be there as Neil’s widow and Harsh’s old thing needs to leave 😀
Can’t expect much from ManyuJiri they both are just selfish
Really hope that happen, Manjiri asking Aarohi to leave, I wanna see either Aarohi leave with Ruhi or like u said she tells Manjiri she has every right than Manjiri to stay, n then I wanna see Abhi reaction? Looking forward to that!
Is really birla house is safe environment for abhir🤔🤔🤔 and where is @yeol i want to know her point of view
I have said earlier a Birla household cannot be a safe place for any healthy child growing up …
@Shilajit
I wonder why Abhir and Ruhi were left to cover their own books.
So Manyu is keeping Abhir from his relations only to not offer him a relation that is more than what he was getting. Manyu should offer a relation that compensates mom and papa relation. Abhir should not miss anything if Manyu had the balls to dismantle his whole life, he should not let Abhirs new life lack even a mom. Manyu should get Abhir a mom relation from anywhere possible. And that new mom should be greater than Akshu just like how Nav is.
If arguments happen between Abhimanyu and Akshara regarding Abhir, it will make sense, like atleast 5% sense. Now it’s looking like Abhir is Manjiri’s biological son and Akshara is his surrogate who ran away taking kid and hid for 6 years😭😭😭 More than Abhimanyu’s father rights, Akshara’s mother rights and Abhinav’s foster father rights, Manjiri want her grandparent rights and is sounding like her relation with Abhir is the superior one😭 If Abhimanyu doesn’t shut his mother now, very soon he will be left only with his mother’s pallu in his hands and will loose everything🥴
@Jade
Bro, these 💩 TV shows should be sued for traumatizing us😭 Hope you are doing good😃
@Siya
Birlas told Manyu of the consequences of his choice but he didn’t listen. They are now tired of saying the same thing over and over to a grown up man. Akshu didn’t voice out Manjiris remark, why? Birlas can watch and keep quiet about Manjiris actions because well, Abhir is not their son.
They are not fighting fiercely for Abhir because Abhir is not their son.
They are depending on a certain mom to come from 20minutes away, that too on weekends, to watch out for her son’s comfortability.
Manyus silence means Abhir is well taken care of and problem free.
Manyu cannot seriously be thinking to dismantle his son’s life and agree to take him from his parents who gave everything for Abhir including marital pleasures, only to abandon him with the likes of Manjiri and Birla household who have no time for children. This can’t be his plan all along can it??????
@Siya, I think it’s time we sued for mental trauma starting with Vankar… though I think the people who watch both Anupama and this should stand first in line, how many times are they going to subject themselves to an FL who can’t get over her own mahaanta
You are so right it’s like this mother india wants to have her second go at motherhood using Abhir cause she clearly failed with Manyu, he’s go his mothers pallu wrapped up so tight around his neck he’s eventually going to fall into an abyss so psychojiri is prepping her next Rajan beta, she might surgically attach Abhir to herself if given the chance…. if Abhir does run away from Birla house it’s going to be due to Psychojiri, hopefully he gets picked up by police who find mother india to be mentally unstable and tell Manyu to separate the child from his mother india then he can make a speech about how can they separate a son from his ‘Maa’ and Abhir can say you separated me from my mama … though DKP is busy dangling the Abhira carrot for the immature donkeys who cry themselves to sleep every night cause there is no Abhira soooo they probably won’t have Manyu reach any kind of realisation the next gen might be about a new girl who is not descended from OG Akshara but who comes in to heal Abhir’s emotional scars from his 3 parents and separate him from his obsessive Dida
@Siya I feel that Manjiri just wanna cut off all ties Abhir has with Navra! Ignoring a child needs his mother just like how she supported Shefali but choose to ignore when it is against her wishes!!
If Abhir is not yet ready to open up, staying positive by his side is the best solution. Abhir used to talk about everything and nothing with Ruhi, now he doesn’t because he doesn’t feel ready to do it despite Ruhi trying to encourage him talked, the only thing Ruhi tries to do it’s showing him her positivity, and the fact that she likes spending time with him and accepts it as it’s the only method that makes Abhir a bit comfortable. Abhimanyu shows positivity by showing Abhir, that he wants to be invested in their relationship, and that he is happy to be with him. It is true that he should open his eyes and see that his mother is a bad influence, he does not claim to know Abhi he wants to know him, and he is eager to be able to create moments with him, show joy to be positive being in a positive environment makes you feel relaxed even when your thoughts are dark. Abhir needs positivity, he also needs attention so he can open up. The Birlas make efforts to understand that Abhir’s situation is making him unhappy, Abhimanyu also wondering about Abhir’s future, if Abhir’s childhood could become like his if the child is filled with resentment, Manjiri and the only one who doesn’t want to see anything. Abhimanyu telling Abhir to call him dad tries to get him used to accepted this new reality that he is also his dad. The word dad is not earned, it is the relationship that is earned. Abhinav was called daddy by Abhir when he was still a little baby, he was taught to call Abhinav daddy, every parent asks their child to call them daddy or mommy to accustom them to say so since birth. yet the child does not yet understand the meaning of this word for him. he calls his parents dad or mom, and he gradually begins to realize over time and family moments the emotional bond, he understands the meaning of the word he pronounces, the word was just a habit but it becomes a necessity because he realizes, that the people he calls dad and mom give him love and try to build bonds with him. is not imposed a relationship. When a baby comes into the world every day until he starts talking, the parents teach him to say mom and dad even if he doesn’t understand what it means, because they know that in time he will eventually understand but they want to establish, parental status. It’s the same here or even in the case of adoption, from the beginning we teach a child to say the word dad or mom, so that he understands that they will evolve in a parental relationship. Abhir was in a friendly relationship with docman and now that he calls Abhimanyu dad he slowly realizes that they are now in a parental relationship, even though at the moment Abhinav is the only one who has the position of father in his heart. if Abhimanyu does things right Abhir will start identifying him as his father. If Abhimanyu fails to balance his mother’s relationship and fails to impose limits on her for Abhir’s sake, he will be solely responsible for his failure as parents if Manjiri’s behavior has negative effects on Abhir’s life. But since Abhimanyu got custody of Abhir he never said a single word against Navra in front of Abhir, and even when Abhir said his father’s name is Abhinav he didn’t contradict him because it’s true. he even tried to explain to her the love he and the Sharmas have for him to try and assuage his anger towards them. he is simply trying to build his relationship independently of the Sharma’s. He doesn’t know the landmarks, the problem is that he tries to treat Abhir like he treats Ruhi, trying to give her lots of love believing that might be enough, maybe yes. but Abhir is not Ruhi who knows Abhimanyu from cradle and got used to receiving his love,, Abhir needs emotional attention as family change is difficult for him and his heart hurts due to Sharma. Akshara and Abhimanyu each made mistakes that impacted Abhir’s current life whether in the past or now but now only Abhir’s future should matter. Akshara pointed out her fear for Abhir’s future (she should have thought about Abhir’s future before making many life-changing decisions for Abhir). But Akshara is not wrong here to fear for his son because the negative feelings that adults give off are reflected on children, Manjiri does not even make the effort to hide his animosity whether towards Akshara or Arohi. Ever since Arohi revealed her game, it looks like Manjiri has a grudge against her. Not all Birla are evil, or heartless, but some have confrontational behaviors but it’s common in some families, but they should control their behavior in front of the children and try to get along with each other, because now their home is filled with children. They should show maturity and try to solve all the problems between adults to be in a more stable environment, so that the repercussions do not affect the children.
@yeol
I agree. Manyu is indeed heading towards a wall head first and he doesn’t even know it because he is still in his head and sees only himself.
Since Abhirs arrival, only Ruhi is there for him. Only Ruhi is taking the time to give him a listening ear and dig out for information. If Manyu cared, he could be using Ruhi to get to Abhir but no, he doesn’t care.
Manyu could work with so many people but he chose not to. He chose to abandon his son to his castle and at night, he comes and pray to Mahadev.
When Manyu won the custody and got called dada, he disappeared to God knows where. He just appears for interview, and to put Abhir to bed and now to take Abhir to school. At his convenience, he appears. Why not take a month off until Abhir settles. Why not be there so that when Abhir finally wants to talk, it becomes easy? After all, Abhir needs emotional attention now more than ever but Manyu abandoned him.
I don’t agree that Akshu didn’t think about the future. Akshu had a future in mind. A future based on the world she built. She just didn’t give her all to protect the world, she built for her son. She is also naive to think Birlas can offer a healthy environment for Abhir. Yesterday she said “two happy families” and today, she sees it was never there.
@yeol 💯
The writers are funny.🤩 How can Manjiri tear Abhir’s book cover bcs he wrote Abhinav Sharma’s name on it. She could have gently explained to Abhir what the court says on this matter. After all the judgement says Abhir should cease bearing his step fathers name and bear his own family’s name. Those are one of the criminality Akshara committed together with the so-called Mr helper. They gave this boy a name that is not his own. So Manjiri is correct in saying the correction have to start on time. But her ways are to bad of anybody. To talk of a grandmother. A grandmother should have only love in their heart
But Abhir must change his surname. He is not a Sharma. But a Birla. Explain it to him with love and sincerity . Akshu has forgotten that this very matter made her a criminal. She has started the journey that will make her loose the second battle . Her husband equally had a case of drug. Was he bailed out. Or acquitted from the case.
@Mark, please can you tell me what are Abhi’s failed choices in the very matter at hand . I don’t know maybe it’s not the same serial we are watching and reading the stories here
As far as I know Abhi has not been told of what his mother did. He does not have magic to know what’s happening at home when he is not around. Most of the time you analysis have always been that of insinuations. He might do this. He will do that.
And again You kept on writing he should do the right thing by sending Abhir back when the court have granted him custody. Now you are terming a relationship that has just started to a failed one. Which means you want it to fail. You can’t call him an unfit dad for six years when he don’t know about his child.
When I here people saying Abhi should do this and that to his mother. I wonder. Bcs most of Indian Films or serials I have watched use to say your parents are your God. What an irony
More over the bible says you should honour and uphold the respect of your mother and father. The bible didn’t say whether a good mother or bad mother. It says you should honour your mother and father.
Even when we want to correct our parents we do it with utmost respect. When you read some comments here, you wonder how they live. The type of child they are to their own parents. Eh eh I wonder.
So I admire Abhi for standing by his mother when she was being maltreated by her husband. Even Mahima was matching on her sister’s head like a dustbin. What do you expect from such a woman. The hard hearten world have changed her from a sheep to a wounded lioness. But all is not lost. With a little admonition her character can still change back to a meek woman she was before bcs of Abhir. Bcs Abhir needs all the love he can get now
@Funmi, very true Abhir needs love, and you are also right parents must be honored, one can blame and put limits on his parents, but who could sincerely insult his own mother who gave him love, some forget the limits of decency. The relationship has just started there will be mistakes but he has time to correct them and he has time to get to know Abhir to strengthen their relationship. Abhimanyu had experiences with his mother that no one but him can understand, for a long time he knew a weak and oppressed mother, he finds it hard to see that she has changed because after being broken by her father she was broken by the death of Niel but she is no longer the same. He better realize that she has changed. Manish made a big mistake and yet Akshara comforted Manish’s ego out of respect as he is like a father she owes him respect even when he makes mistakes. Some people just like to invent intentions for Abhimanyu even when he is not the culprit they will link him to all other people’s choices.
@yeol
Abhir doesn’t need time. He needs justice that he deserves. He is an understanding and patient kid and all the adults are abusing this. Abhir needs justice.
The time that you say Manyu needs, is also a bad idea for Abhir. Abhir is currently filled with so much anger, complains, sadness that if given more time, they will be a part of him forever. If now he gets exposed to hatred, he will get hatred of his own.
Abhir needs attention and being there for him but none is willing to do that. They all love him but they just don’t want to listen to his feelings and Abhir knows this clearly.
True enough Abhimanyu needs time to build relationship with Abhir. but actually the time he needs to succeed in understanding Abhir’s emotions, feelings and habits, could be to his disadvantage if in the coming days, he does not try to pay close attention to Abhir’s feeling. Abhimanyu really needs to create time to spend time with Abhir,, so that Abhir can feel supported and confident with him. Or as you mentioned Abhir might stay locked in negative feelings, and that might well alter his personality.
@Funmi
If Manyu and Akshu focus on who is a criminal more than the other, and find each other’s weekness instead of looking at what is best for Abhir, they will be winning the trophy for bad parents of the year.
@Funmi, we are indeed watching the same serial. The following are bad choices he made.
1. Supporting the verdict and implementing it. The terms of the verdict were wrong on many levels. Manyu doesn’t see that. (And for the record, I have never said Manyu should give up his custody. Infact, I said if he gives it up after Abhir stays in Birla house, he would have abandoned his son again. I was okay with him sacrificing his tittle of dad, and keep being docman, so that he doesn’t rearrange his son’s life. Next time be sure to get your facts right.)
2. Not using all resources at his disposal to help Abhir adjust at Birla house. He got an instruction manual and he is yet to use it.
3. Not being there for his son and not seeing his son’s sadness, lonelynes. You remember when Abhir smiled when Manyu said Akshu will come to his interview. If Manyu was paying attention, he would be arranging such meetings every second. But Manyu doesn’t see his son’s protests. He chose not to look for indicators that help his son and ones that destroy his son.
4. Moving too fast and thus living his son behind. Abhir just lost his parents, Manyu wants him to adjust fast.
5. Not being careful about the environment he is leaving for his son. Manyu is the one responsible for Abhir. He should create a safe environment for Abhir free from hatred. But he did not. Manyu knows Manjiris hatred for Nav and Akshu but he never addressed and cleared this first before fighting and claiming for custody. I have ever mentioned this before. I said, Manyu didn’t prepare a good environment for Abhir as when Abhir comes to Birla house, he will be exposed to negative emotions and a shattered family. I mentioned this when Manyu sided with Shefali against Parth and Mahima.
@Funmi, I could go on and on. I don’t want this relation to fail. It has failed already. I don’t accept and won’t accept Manyu disrupting his son’s life just so that he can be called dad and abandon Abhir at Birla house without so much as his presence. If he had a problem with being excluded from Abhirs life, and was not satisfied with Docman tittle, he could fight for custody and his name to appear on the BC but not accept the fact that his son will have to grow up with two relations less.
@Funmi & @yeol
Any relationship not is greater than human being.
Firstly when children grow old,they consider their parents as human being and then as Mother & Father.
You don’t justify honour killing as prashad to their children’s choices because parents are considered as GOD right🗽?????
If parents are wrong-they are wrong, if they are toxic- they are toxic.When that kids grow up and recognise the same,they have to question, because they are affected.
Coming to paternity blunder you keep mentioning again and again- Akshara was rightly called out in the court for the same. Every elder at Goenkas said she is wrong.Infact Akshara’s biggest fear came out to be true.Her son was snatched by Birlas.But she is was not whitewashed like Abhimanyu.What was the justice she received from Birla for their actions on white day???????
I’m talking about honoring a relationship, not condoning it, Manjiri spent many years raising Abhimanyu and giving him love, and Abhimanyu should respect that. Having a parent who has become toxic does not mean insulting him, he must try to make him listen to reason and if Manjiri does not want to listen to reason he must impose limits on him or cut ties with him he does not need the insult for that, he has to distance himself.
As much as a parent needs to be treated as God so does a child, a child is a gift from Heaven isn’t it? As much as a mother can right a wrong with a child, the child too has the right to right a wrong a mother had done! Can a son just condone his mother’s wrong doings when she is wrong? By pointing out her wrongs is irony? So you just see wrong things happening and keep enjoy just bcoz she is ur mother God? SMH🙄 Absurb! Don’t wait till the police comes n arrest ur mother than you tell the police my mother is God to me!!!🙄🙄🙄 NOBSENSE!!
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@Nonsense 👏👏👏👍👍👍
Ever since Excusemanyu took custody of Abhir, he is living in a bubble but like all bubbles, it will burst soon and all he will be left with is air. As a father, he has already failed and this is all on him. The Sharmas burnt themselves with Abhir and have given him enough rope to hang himself. If Abhir runs away from home, he will have no one to blame but himself and his narcissistic mother. In all this drama, it is Abhir suffering the most. It is misfortune to be born a Birla or marry a Birla. They just add toxicity in one is life.
@Rach
Agreed. A grandchild of Birlas especially Manjiri side of Birla will face the consequences.
psychojiri really effed up today ….she needs help , nothing can justify wat she did today ,and feeling sorry for shefali who thinks manyujiri will support her in gaining shivus custody 😂, but above all hope manyu wakes up from his delusions and sees the pain that has been caused by the custody case, manyu my boi i believe the ball is in your court , u can only solve this entangled relationships, first by shutting up your mom 😂
@Catnap
The ball was in Manyus court long back but he just stood like a maniac loosing precious seconds that could be useful in winning him some points.
No one in the three families is really happy with this settlement. Abhir is probably the most unhappy. Manjiri doesn’t know what happiness looks like. She is truly alone. She is going to atone for her high-handed behaviour pretty soon. It is quite ironic that Mahima and Aarohi give moral lectures to Manjiri now. At this rate, it should be expected that Parth would be able to teach good manners to Abhimanyu and his dear mother.
Manjiri has been angry but she has to let go of this anger. Some time back, Akshara had this type of emotion in full flow. Abhinav somehow managed to convince her to change course. When she was talking to Manjiri, she looked so different.
To think of it, she wouldn’t have interfered as Abhinav had advised her not to for Abhir’s sake. She remembered that Abhir usually has shoe bites when he uses a new school shoe. She left in a hurry forgetting to turn off the gas cooker. This event of witnessing Manjiri’s behaviour firsthand seems pivotal to the court case. Now Manjiri has to be careful about mixing Abhir’s stay at her house.
Akshara now speaks like Abhinav. They both have the same kind of expectations from Abhimanyu that he will be a good father to Abhir. I find this reasoning highly doubtful. They set up themselves for a massive disappointment here. After sacrificing a lot to give Abhir and Abhimanyu’s relationship a chance, they might not get anything noteworthy to show for it. Manjiri seems determined to continue on her path. Abhimanyu will not always be at hand to ensure that Abhir is comfortable and unruffled. He has his job to do.
Although the Birlas are a large family, you hardly see the sinequanon necessary for a happy life. Everyone seems to set their own pace and move towards their destination without much thought about how their actions affect the people around them. Abhir will struggle to find meaning in this kind of family.
This is where Abhir is going to need Akshara and Abhinav. They might help him build on his relations with his father’s family. This of course in concert with Abhimanyu. Abhimanyu has to affect the understanding as Abhir’s happiness and mental health are now at stake. Abhimanyu has to manage Manjiri and Abhir without alienating one or the other. His track record isn’t so great here. However, since he feels much closer to them, he has to try.
@Meed
I agree. Now Manyu needs to manage his son and his mom. Manjiri is too far gone that she has forgotten the road that leads home. Maybe she will find it soon enough but maybe not. But one thing is for sure, time is not on her side. Abhir didn’t come all this way to find a shattered home and hateful didas.
Manyu can not get away with fighting for Abhirs custody when he has no home to give to Abhir nor the brains to build one.
I beg to differ on one thing. Is Manjiri displaying anger or hatred. Anger and disappointment is the one Akshu had for Manyu but this i am seeing from Manjiri is beyond that.
Maybe Manyu will get his shit together and open his eyes and ears soon, but maybe it will be too late then.
What’s the point of criticizing a fellow parent decision if you will never amount to even a 1/12, of their accomplishments no matter how much time you get? This custody of Manyu would have being much different if it was a shared custody but it is not. And it is not shared custody because someone is happy it’s not and the other is fine it’s not too.
@Mark.
I don’t know if Manjiri cann find her way back. She is destined for a lonely time because if Abhimanyu loses Abhir because of her, he will almost break their relationship. She now has to tread cautiously.
Abhimanyu has to work with Abhir’s other parents but he isn’t the type to work synergistically with other people. His supporters won’t see this shortcoming of his and how it invalidates the case for Abhir being with him.
Yes, I understand where we differ. I only meant that Akshara was in an angry mode. Yet Manjiri’s anger is not justified. This is hatred to be clear. Akshara hid her sentiments about Abhimanyu from Abhir. Manjiri isn’t trying to hide her contempt for Abhinav and for Akshara. She cannot believe that Akshara would move on from her son. That’s life. She has to work with Akshara and not break Abhir in the process. I doubt that the Birla family can do this.
No, Abhimanyu wouldn’t know what is happening and how to go until it is too late. The decisions to take Abhir to Kasauli after the surgery was chided by Abhimanyu. His supporters as well. But where are they now? They need to see how Abhimanyu is struggling to grapple with the wellbeing of a six year old son.
@Meed
I 💯 agree. Manjiris anger is not justified.
Even I ask, where are they now?
@Mark.
Yes she can’t justify herself. Akshara had asked her this much. However, she will soon understand that she is just a grandmother to Abhir and nothing else. Indeed Abhinav gave Abhir life and nurtured him to strength when Akshara was so weak.
Abhimanyu should work with both parents of Abhir on how to go forward he shouldn’t be making innocent faces as those will not save him if anything goes wrong with Abhir.
We are frustrated and tired with manjari we want peace to be remained by watching this serial.Please send that manjari to mental asylum or else remove her from the serial.She herself ruined her life with harsh and now ruining her son abhi and also parth’s life.We are frustrated with manjari please remove from the serial then every relation in birla’s and goenka’s especially abhimanyu life will be set right and he will lead a happy life
Right, time for Arohi and Shefali – both smart, successful career women and compedent mothers – to take control of Birlas House and retire the meddlesome mother-in-laws to a corner in the house for the peace and contentment of their children. The mother in laws’ time to rule is over. Anyway they have lost all legitimacy. Manjiri has gone loopy locking horns with Akshara and Abhinav, while Mahima has lost all credibility by using every moment to push her wife beater of a son onto a daughter in law who, rightly, doesn’t want him within two meters of her. In fact Shefali needs to put Parth behind bars. How dare he ask for a second chance, and why has Shivi been exiled from his home, and imprisoned in a hostel for the crimes of the father!
Arohi, I fail to see why she even entertains anything from Manjiri. As a widow Arohi has control over her deceased husband’s share of the family wealth, Manjiri as step-grandmother has no right over Ruhi, and the marriage of convinence with Abhimanyu is pointless. What is the point of a marriage with no emotional support and one side of the bed remains cold.
@Rai
Before these two mothers take over, we need to know their status quo, lest we end up with Manjiri v2.0.
But we aren’t getting it now are we? They failed to make any significant impact that alleviates Abhirs situation. They tried but ended up retiring to their own shit and felt good they are not Akshara or Abhir is not their child.
@Mark, if by status quo you mean the younger women’s position on Abhir’s place in Abhimanyu and Akshara’s life.
Arohi is not hands off when it comes to Abhir, she is directly challenging Manjiri’s methods and has made clear she is Akshara’s ambassador to all including Abhir. But yes, due to Arohi’s past deeds a question mark hangs over her sincerity.
Abhir, also at the moment has chosen not to open up about his pain to anyone, not even his friend Ruhi because he still feels a stronge sense of loyalty to the Sharmas and does not want to damage their image by voicing his pain over their cruel words about him. Abhimanyu, broached the issue of him and the Sharmas before the bedside story about the King and Queen’s scarfice and Abhir shut him off.
Shefali, too, told Manjiri she is mistaken. She believed Abhir should be with the mother.
Shefali is correct to focus on her own situation, and is watching Akshara’s separation from her child with horror, a place she does not want to be in, so what better way to avoid it than by taking over the reigns the domestic realm.
Anyway, it would be an interesting storyline to explore and the trios journeys into shared parenthood is becoming repetitive.
Was so enjoying my breakfast of toast with butter and coffee and watching the shows I deliberately missed out on last nite and up pops one that I sometimes watch, ohh well.
Anyways that Manjiri is a piece of shit, did she forget it was Akshu who gave her courage to fight against a verbally abusive husband? To divorce him for peace and a name for herself? Did that sh*ta** bi*ch forget that her own son never loved/cared for his OWN father because of same crap? She clearly have no memory of what she and her so loving son did with a pregnant woman? Does he even deserve to be called father? He knows he is doing wrong, knows the child is not happy but yet he can see no further than his psycho mother so he must keep Abhir because of her.
I want Akshu to find out MANjiphychori paid (possibly) of the judge to give custody to them because no court takes away a child from their mother, unless other circumstances. He was snatched from the only loving parents he knows.
Now he just might turn into another pa*ty holding on Birla!!!!!
I like how Akshu told her off and Mahima is so correct