Anupama 18th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama tells Gurumaa that any mother in her place would have chosen her child between her dreams and child, whether old fashioned Leela or modern age Kavya and Kinjal. She says a mother can become modern, but can’t be selfish or else there won’t be anything left in this world. She says in their holy scriptures, women power is prioritized, even Shiv ji needed maa Shakti. She continues describing how great a mother is and says she knows shhe is not wrong and hopes gurumaa also understands her one day. Gurumaa claps after listening to her lecture and says mother is a creator of the world, mother is nature, but Anupama’s mother nature destroyed her whole life’s hard-earned name, fame, hard worm, etc. She asks why shall she suffer because of Anupama’s mother nature; she blindly trusted Anupama and bet her whole life’s hard work on her and completely got destroyed in return. She says Anupama never accepted gurukul completely and was just worried for her family, be it Samar’s marriage, Maya’s illness, or her daughter’s panic attacks. She then blames Anuj for forcing Anupama to return in lieu of his daughter’s illness.
Anupama says nobody forced her to return, she returned because she is responsible for Maaya’s death. Anuj stops her. Anupama says she needs to explain at any cost and explains how Maaya died trying to save her. She says if Maaya had not saved her, garland would have been on her photo instead of Maaya’s. She says when Maaya left the world for her, can’t she sacrifice her dreams for Maaya’s daughter; she says this guilt is haunting her and if something had happened to CA, she would have died; she couldn’t fly with a burden on her soull; it was solely her decision and Gurumaa can punish her the way she likes; she didn’t want to stop and was doing every effort possible, but when Maaya came, she realized that she was going to make a big mistake.
Leela asks Maaya? Anupama says she was in guilt that her Bebli lost her mother because of her. She recalls sitting in flight and remembering each family member encouraging her not to stop at any cost. She then imagines Maaya’s soul emerging and requesting her not go to as CA needs her. She asks how is Maaya here. Maaya says Devaki can’t go without assuring that Yashoda is present with her child; a mother can’t rest in peace in any world when her child is in distress and says a mother can sacrifice and even seek sacrifice for her child, etc., and pleads her with tears. Airhostess calls her and gets her into sense. Barkha says Anupama saw a ghost. Anupama says CA’s pleas were echoing in her ears and she got a panic attack remembering Maaya’s request, so she had to stop the flight mid air and get out of it. Gurumaa tries to stop her in vain. She continues to justify her act of betrayal to Gurumaa.
Precap: Leela says whether Anupama did right or wrong, Malti Devi will do wrong for sure. Vanraj says it will directly affect them all. Anuj tells Ankush that he will not let Malti Devi harm Anupama. Gurumaa thinks Anupama thinks being a mother is her biggest strength, but it’s actually her weakness and she will attack on that weakness.
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Choti ki faltu ki nautanki ki kya Jo bhoot ki nautanki shuru kar diya
Seriously choti ke itne din se nautanki is hell irritating
True that. She is so irritating spoilt brat.
I am really hating this Anupama now. I am not hating that mother, but all these 40,000 page lectures seems annoying now. If she is that much thinking about Maya, then why she didn’t thought when she was taking advantage of her sickness and made Anuj and CA stayed with her. All this is Stupid Kapadia fault. MD was right, Anuj is the biggest hurdle in making Anupama stop her US Dreams. And if he was so concerned, then why he didn’t took her earlier. Again this drama will run like for 2-3 months like how this Anupama going to America was running from 3 months. Hell this writer Bhavana. She has lost her mind after marrying Rushad (Anirudh).
Now destroy malti devi’s character to justify anupamaa š only anuj stans will be happy that his doormat came back.. Makers will keep writing stupid lectures to make audience believe that anupamaa took the right decisionš its better ab se makers anupamaa ki udaan dikhane ka soche v naiiš
Are makers trying to disrespect all those working women out there in the real world?
Already, women need to struggle so much to work in the professional world. Husband’s lack of support, in-laws’ and husband’s not giving “permission”, discrimination in the professional world, balancing work, home, and children alone with any support The ever-present thoughts of relatives are that a woman’s career is just a hobby, not a career, and this show is adding fuel to these ever-present thoughts of society. It will give all those elders watching the show ideas to stop their DIL, daughters, or any other women in their lives from working as they are needed at home because some or another person needs them. I hope viewers watch this show as just entertainment and not use it as a means to flame already-present discriminatory ideologies in society.
Anupama is trying to justify her actions using her mother’s card and her hallucinations. Was she brainless when Malti Devi asked her to think before signing the contract or when she was made the heiress?
Trying to make Anuj look like an ideal father figure or husband and Anupama look like an ideal woman for society to idealize is dangerous.
Anuj is much more disgusting male lead compared to Abhimanyu and Anupama more annoying and stupid than Akshara
Exactly ! the makers are trying to discourage working women by showing 18th century mindset instead of promoting women empowerment. Anupama is no longer a strong woman. she is weak and confused, always irritating with 2000 pages long useless lectures to justify her foolish acts.
Sorry who is Abhimanyu and Akshara?
Leads of Yeh Rishta Kya Kehalata Hai, another Star show where stories are repeated over three generations. It also started out as a good show and have gone Meh now.
great writing. I agree with you. nonsense what are they trying to convey to us. we manage so much in the life without any excuse. so this MD will hit her motherhood. funny. anupama is habituated to humiliation. it doesn’t affect her
Wait did anupama say she stopped the airplane mid air?so she went straight to the pilots and gave long lactures of motherhood and they stoped the plane š¤š¤š¤what nonsense are the writers of this garbage show writing .uselesspama feeling guilty for maayas death is okay,but she did not ask maaya to jump in between her and the truck šššanuj brought all this commotion himself ,had he stayed and talked to uselesspama like a normal person does then it would’ve been a different story today . Infact uselesspama did not see a ghost ,it’s just her guilt and the figment of her imagination š¤¦āāļøš¤¦āāļøshe promised guruma that she will never back off no matter what and she went back on her vaada .and now guruma won’t attack uselesspama directly,but will destroy her children and their future .and as usual everyone will blame her and she as usual will cry us a river . She should’ve told anuj to follow her , it would’ve been a win win for everybody,but this useless woman is making a mockery of working woman .so anuj is now whitewashed and guruma is stained all because to justify anuj .
The one who gives lectures too much can’t never be successful.
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Anupama always gives big lectures on relationship.
& here in her reality,
ā Pakhi : A Spoil Brat.
ā Toshu : Mannerless.
ā Samar : Puppet.
ā Vanraj: Had affairs.
ā Anuj : Left her for Maya & CA
ā Baa : Didnāt give value.
ā CA : Left her for Maya.
ā Kavya : Married her husband.
ā Dimple: Snatched her Academy.
ā Barkha: No respect for Anupama
And wonāt say about Bapuji, Kinjal and others. They are from indvidual’s world.
Anupama always gives lectures on relationship & hardwork, dream, motherwood, wife but she failed in all relations.
Neither she gave proper value to her 3children, neither she could become a good wife to Anuj nor she is success in business or dance Academy. She is success in only Lectures.
It was her responsibility toward Academy. She can’t left it as it could increase a big boss. She could take her daugher with her but NO!!! She will destroy whole Academy with her nonsense BakwazZZZZZZ. Guru Maa is right here, she is a business woman. You can’t destroy an Academy for your own problem.
After too much dragging, they showed us this shittts. We should drop It’s TRP.
true true
To all the mothers in the house,it’s sad to say feminism is taking over all your thoughts, Anupama has taken a right decision and she doesn’t have to leave her family behind to achieve her goals , she can do that right there in India, you Indians are disappointing me ,you think USA is your heavens and feel that is why you can achieve your goals while the Americans are also suffering . Guruma has no respect for family that is what anu to do destroy the family unit, no World can survive without the family and you can achieve your goals as a woman and taking care of your family, am a leaving example I got married before graduating and when I was doing my bar final I had a child and pregnant, I passed my Bar finals at first sitting and was called to the Bar while eight months pregnant, I didn’t work until after my fifth child and had my sixth child while working ,am now a level 17 officer and doing great , I believe in family my five children are now graduates my last born is about to, I have two biochems , one biology education , one computer engineer who studied in India New Delhi and two nurses and am proud
I completely agree… I have been reading comments for a while now and am astonished at how people feel that it is ok for a mother to abandon her child for a dream or a career and especially at a vulnerable phase. I always used to think Indians upheld family above everything and being from the U.K that was one thing that held me towards my roots, however the comments here are so disappointing and clearly shows that feminism in India has taken the wrong trajectory. Even the English people here would think that was wrong. I am a mother of 3 adult professionals and a professional career woman myself but took a step back when my children were young… the mindset of these so called “modern” women is beyond my comprehension. Also… it’s a fictional drama and not real life so obviously exaggerated because if it was not, it would be boring and no one would watch it.
So true
I don’t know what feminism you are talking about, but one thing I’m sure of is that whether Anupama wanted to accomplish her dreams (in India or Outside India) or be a housewife didn’t matter, but she should at least respect that role of hers instead of giving long lectures. All she does is give lectures, but she never stops anyone from insulting her motherhood.
She wanted to stay for her sick daughter, which was totally acceptable and justified, but giving long lectures to justify her acts and backing out of the contract at the last moment is absolutely wrong. What about those employees or workers who lost their job or suffered losses because of an event getting cancelled? What about their families and kids? What right did she have to destroy Malti Devi?
Seeing CA’s condition, Anupama could have discussed with Gurumaa postponing the plan to America, consoled CA till that time, and taken her along to the US. Anuj is rich enough to afford tickets and a visa. The situation was not as difficult to handle as they portrayed it. There were many ways to handle the situation without giving out the message that it’s difficult for working women to balance work and home. Plus, what’s the role of the father? Why can’t fathers care for or handle their children? Why do fathers always pass off their responsibilities to mothers?
You might not have seen how women struggle in India to achieve their careers, especially after marriage. In the name of household work, children, duties and responsibilities towards the house, inlaws, and husbands, women are forced or emotionally blackmailed to leave their jobs. Women are guilt-trapped into leaving jobs by saying that there is no one to care for children. Moreover, here in India, we don’t have a minimum employee hour or support from employers to handle the household with work, so if both parents don’t cooperate, it’s impossible for women to continue their careers. Anyway, here, society sees a woman’s education and job as a hobby and not a career. And the housewives are seen in a more disrespectful way. No housewife is respected for the sacrifices she makes and affords. Motherhood is important, but why do we forget that a child belongs to both parents? If a husband supports her, a wife can easily handle both work and kids.
When Toshu was sick, I was supportive of her taking care of him. Even now, I agree that her decision to be there for CA is correct, but the process is absolutely wrong.
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Forget about USA. Makers always wanted to show her as doormat, whether she is with Shah’s or Kapadia’s. What did Anupama do after she joined Anuj business? just delivered long lecture on ‘Maa ke haath ka khana’ and brainless people were impressed. She was hardly seen in the office. Its not about travelling to USA. Its about the commitment she gave to Guruma. Anuj is there to take care of CA. Even they could have shown that Anuj supported her by travelling along with CA to USA. CA is not that small child. There are working women in India and I have seen many corporate females travelling abroad for long term or short term projects. If they visit foreign countries for work that doesn’t means that they abandon their children. Recently seen an interview of our ISRO scientist who has worked on Mangal yan project. She used to work for 15-18 hours a day and also having young son but she managed both the responsibilities with the help of their family members. It doesnt mean that she abandoned her son. If all working women will start worrying about their bebli and babla then they will never be successful in their respective fields.
they live on tax payer’s contributions. job is hobby for them and not sure about the nurse. god save the patient. keeping everything aside, i want to ask rajan sahi why he is ruining rupali’s life. her son must be miserable whole day with dad. let him close anupama show just as md is closing her dance academy.
@huh huh???
@amy let me count, she left pakhi school, shah dance academy, helpless women project, shah house,kapadia house, kapadia business. really this md is mental to send her to usa.
@Hajara & Jay, It’s not that we are being harsh. it’s just a way of expressing our disappointment that how this track has fooled us as an Audience. We all have followed this show and now this is showing a very wrong message that all Mothers should be sacrificial. We always wanted to see Anupam to grow in her life, but in this show after dragging story round and round it is leading only to 1 point that this is she always have to LET GO. She has done so much for all the ungrateful characters in this show that it’s high time she realise her worth which she is not doing. Then there is no point to make this show now because what in terms of development will be there? From day 1 we have seen how she has been treated by everyone, ever by her own kids for whom she is justifying all these dialogues. Now how the story will unfold if there is no progress. Do we really just want to see Romance and EMA of the characters? Kal ko yeh log Nakul and Kinjal ka bhi EMA dikhayege, and Anupama usko bhi justify karegi. This track has been the BIGGEST DISAPPOINTMENT.
Correct Neha.. but blond bhakts of buddhi will never accept the facts.
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The show Anupama is becoming so…..boring. if Anupama wanted to ve with her Anu, who stopped her? She should have honoured her promise to Guruma. And makers of the show, please stop giving such big lectures through Anupama.
its blonde only.
Anupama who made all this mess stopped the plane and got out ā¦
Instead of feeling ashamed and remorseful of what she did she is giving a big lecture to Malti Devi.
On top of that she is having hallucinations and delusions and gone raving mad..:. Sees Maya telling her to get off plane and take care of chorizo Anu. ā¦. She needs to be admitted to a psychiatric hospital and get treatment to prevent harming others.
The airlines also should place a lawsuit against anupama. The plane was late and caused difficulties for other passengers.
There has to be consequences for her actions of stopping plane. All passengers can do this at their whim and fancy. and cause drama inside the plane disrupt the functions of the airplane industry.
Also anupama has no legal right to choti Anu. ..
She is only a foster child. Not a legally adopted child. The orphanage has the complete right to step in and take the child back because child is not in a stable home ā¦
There is constant turmoil in the home child is being pulled in all directions ā¦..orphanage should take the child back and offer it to another stable couple. ..
anupama causes all this drama confusion and damage for a foster child who doesnāt belong to herā¦ anupama should be put in a mental hospital so she doesnāt harm other people in future.
In mental asylum also she will deliver long long lectures to the doctors and they will become patients.
Now using Maaya’s death as an excuse not to go. If she really wanted to go she would have found a way even taking CA with her.
Painful truth at Hajara you said exactly what is needed in this day and age dreams do come true in one’s local country.
Ik exactly what’s gonna happen guys malti Debi will be fuming in her revenge and suddenly come to find out Anuj is her son and maybe she will find out at a crucial time like anupama and then she will also leave everything aside to run to Anuj and then she will apologise to Mahan anupama that she is right a MOTHERS-bla bla bla U get the gist villain is now better thanks to our desi marvel hero mahapama lmao and they all live happily ever after for 1 function š
Instead Madaam sir on sony sab is an example of woman empowerment .
I am hating this Anupama .stupid logic and reasoning .she can never be independent
I agree madam Sir was a true woman empowerment example instead of this Anupama serial.
The characters like pushpa and Karishma showed that work and family can be balanced though difficult but with proper support not impossible.
I wonder why Gurumaa is angry on Anupama for taking care of CA when she herself is staying with nakul who is not even her son , something is really wrong with this black eyed woman am glad she lost everything,if she was smart enough she should have set down Anuj and anupama and plan the trip to USA instead she just dragged Anu along, anupama did right by dumping her,her anger shows she is jeolas of Anu making a decision she herself failed as mother,all her fame is now vanity vanity,but family is for ever
@sail
just imagine,you send your employee to do some very important work and he messed it up
his mistake destroyed your reputation and you lost money
would u be angry or u will just say i was wrong as i trusted on you
ig u will choose the first option
Anupama is a sick lady and always plays down others. Why did she agree gurumaās proposal and spoil nakulās rise. She pretends to be daryadil but in fact tries to prevail in each of her deeds. Disgusting
Justification of motherly duties cuz the religion and mythology says so? This is where the deep seated, backwards thinking comes into full view.
In that case, all indian women, stop your work and stay at home. No wearing leggings and modern wear. Wear sarees, big bindis and pop our children.
The show that was once progressive, is now regressive AF.
When ppl cant take care of kids and pets, why do they adopt?
Every mother is free to make her own choices in life , those who think USA is everything to them should go and leave their children suffering from seizures , anupama did what’s best for her doormat or not CA’s happiness is all she cares about,Maya begged her not to leave CA alone before she died,Maya was also , successful but at the end she wanted a family which never came ,so it’s important to balance these things in life otherwise you die miserable like maya, every family is different
@All blind followers of Rondupama .. can someone explain how did CA reach orphanage so quickly and how did our great buddhji came to know CA is in orphanage?
Anupama used her magical words ‘Suri suri ” to locate her daughter
And maaya ghost gave choti powers to leave the shah house and go back to the starting
if ghost maaya can talk to anu,then why cant this happen?
or maybe anuj send her here cause why not š
ha haha
Biggest irritating character is choti
She act as mature adult some times some times she act as small kid what ever suits her choti act only what ever Suits her
And choti fake drama anupama not to go America is hell irritating to core
Well, after all these episodes, only truth that has come out is that āDoormats are not made, they are bornā
Good one š¤£
correct.
Stopped flight midair .. which pilot diverted the flight . It wasnāt emergency, Anupama still could have got a flight back after landing in USA.
She diverted flight and there might have been people in the plane who weee attending emergency. This sort of behaviour leads to arrest by police on landing . Not sure what mental activity she was doing on the plane . Breaking the door plane. The serial will show anything f nonsense and not sure how trp is still high
Disgusting serial. Please stop your lectures. Nothing is there to watch now. Please stop this nonsense
This serial is getting worst and worst, full of nonsense. Who is Anupuma to lecture Guruma when she herself is not perfect? If she can’t stay away from her family, then why the hell did she sign the contract in the beginning?
Maya’s spirit? Oh God! Anupama, why are you so so so weak!!!
I think Guruma must be Anju’s mother, she left her son in the orphanage to start her career.
How exactly is guruma destroyed? Why did she cancel the event? If anupama doesnt want to go then she should have an understudy to take her spot. What were they planning on doing if anupama broke her leg or can’t dance for whatever reason when they get to America. Any true professional would have set up a proper understudy and kept the performance on. As stupid as Anupama is for not following through with her legally binding contract maltidevi is just as stupid for not having a proper backup plan
I dont think the flight ‘stopped’ mid air to let her off, I believe the flight was bound for Mumbai then USA, right? So is that not where they found her, in Mumbai with CA?
So technically the flight must have landed in Mumbai where she got off, only question is HOW did she know to go to the orphanage to find that annoying brat? Becoz she never spoke with anyone after getting on the flight which is when smallie went missing and Anupama did not know that. Also how the heck did CA get to Mumbai without an adult/money and documents?
Rqjan Shahi need to explain this.
Also previously no one gave a shit about maaya, now in death she has become great? It was the truck driver fault she got hit becoz he did not use his brakes, it was not Anuj nor Anupama fault so stop this sh*tty guilt trip. Too much unnecessary lecturing.
I know, legally Anupama was wrong for breaking her contract, but I dont blame her for choosing responsibility over her dream, at this age. Now we know there will never be any WOMEN EMPOWERMENT, only family drama so guys, going forward, we should not expect anything positive
Totally rubbish justification. The child was not an infant. This is plain unprofessionalism