Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 20th July 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhi recalling Akshu’s words. He thinks we made a mistake, Maa. He messages sorry to Akshu. She reads it and recalls his words. He sees Akshu typing. She keeps her phone and lies down. She cries. yeh Rishta…plays… Abhir cries and sleeps. Its morning, Abhi, Parth and Anand are busy on calls to get details from the hotel. Abhi says check if the room is booked on Manjiri Birla or Mahima Birla. He sees Manjiri, Mahima and kids coming. Ruhi runs to Aarohi. Shivansh hugs Shefali. Abhir looks on and cries. Abhi goes to him and says sorry junior. Abhir runs upstairs. Abhi recalls Akshu’s words. Manjiri asks kids to change clothes, she will arrange breakfast. She says its good rains stopped, else we would have been there at hotel today also. Abhi asks why is Abhir here, why isn’t he with Akshu and Abhinav. She says he couldn’t sleep well at night, he needs rest. He says they get two days, last day got waste, at least you could have dropped him today, you aren’t trying to send him. Shivansh puts Abhir’s books aside. Abhir says my mumma says Saraswati maa is there in the books, you shouldn’t drop the books down. Shivansh asks where will I keep my books, you don’t know where to stay, you have another house here and in Kasauli also, you don’t belong anywhere. Abhir gets angry. Manjiri says Abhir didn’t sleep because it was a new place. Abhi says no, he was missing his mum and dad, he was excited, he wanted to go but he got stuck. She asks what’s my mistake, don’t you trust me. He says its about Akshu, she doesn’t trust you, she heard you saying we shouldn’t send Abhir to her, you should have taken Abhir, Shivansh is here, we can get their bonding done anytime. Abhir and Shivansh fight the pencil. Shivansh gets hurt and shouts mumma. Everyone runs to see him. Shefali and Parth ask how did you get hurt. Shivansh says Abhir has hit it with the pencil. Aarohi says we will take him and do the first aid. Shefali and Aarohi take Shivansh. Mahima stops Abhir. Manjiri says Abhir didn’t do this intentionally. Mahima says Abhir won’t come in front of Shivansh. Manjiri says it happens, listen to Abhir once. Mahima says send Abhir back to Akshu, he was sensible there, he has become a problem here. Abhir gets sad. Parth picks the pencil. Shivansh screams. Aarohi says its done, I will do the dressing. Parth gets angry. He goes to slap Abhir. Abhi holds Parth’s hand.
Nishta comes and takes Abhir with her. Abhi and Parth argue. Manjiri cries. Mahima gets angry. Abhi says don’t think of raising hand on my hand again. Manjiri says we treat all the kids same. Mahima says you start coaching classes of lying, you don’t treat the kids the same, you are partial. Abhi says Shivu is the first child of the new generation, I love him a lot, three kids are same for me. Mahima and Manjiri argue.
Abhi worries. Mahima says you mean Abhir got moody because of Shivu, no, he has become such because of you and your son, Shivu stayed in hostel, he is happy to meet his parents, you snatched Abhir from his parents, he is disturbed, you both are responsible for his state of mind, you don’t care if he is happy here or not, you were always an emotional fool, don’t you see this custody battle affecting Abhir negatively. Manjiri says it’s a lie. Mahima says he isn’t happy here, you are my younger sister, I don’t need to take Abhir’s support to explain you anything. Abhi asks them to stop it. He says we have to handle kids, if we elders fight then what will kids learn, we should thin about them. Ruhi says Maasi is calling, talk to her. Abhir hears Akshu’s voice. She says Abhir… Abhir thinks mum and dad don’t want to keep me, they won’t meet me if they know I have become a bad boy. She asks where are you. Ruhi says we have come back home. Akshu asks is Abhir with you. Abhir signs no. Ruhi says he is doing homework. Akshu says ask him to talk to me. Ruhi says sure, bye. She asks Abhir to talk to Akshu. He goes.
Precap:
Akshu argues and says I won’t let my son stay here. Manjiri says I will go to court and get the permission cancelled. Akshu gets the court notice. She shouts and cries. Abhinav says we will go to Kasauli.
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Parth’s audacity has no limit, dare say that Abhir should be disciplined. Abhimanyu’s answer was really satisfying, (beating is not a way to discipline, and if it was, he wishes Mahima had disciplined him as a child). Mahima wants to accuse Manjiri of showing favoritism for Abhir, but Manjiri retaliates well, blaming him for favoring his son who physically tortured Shefali for years. Mahima talks about education, she should think of her own children first before speaking. Manjiri was also satisfying today, she noticed Abhir’s behavior, and her answer was totally correct, pointing out that Abhir’s behavior has changed since Shivu’s return. his insistence that Abhir’s version be listened to, was also a good thing. Abhimanyu rightfully corrects his feelings towards children, stating that children are loved and should be treated the same in their home. Abhimanyu did well to remind Parth that he never treated Shivu badly and he should also make an effort to accept Abhir and not make any difference in treatment between Abhir and Shivu, Parth is really a coward. Abhimanyu was also right, the fight was between the kids, he did well to remind them that instead of arguing with each other, they should worry and care about the kids first. Abhir doesn’t feel ready to open up to Abhimanyu, and now he’s afraid to tell Akshara and Abhinav about his problems, because he’s afraid they’ll be even more disappointed and won’t love him anymore, now that he thinks they don’t want him anymore. I feel bad for him because he can’t share anything with an adult and he will end up blowing off steam in the drawings. I hope Abhimanyu will comfort him and tell him that he can count on him, he must repeat it to Abhir every day if necessary. Abhimanyu’s reproach towards Manjiri was right, and her sentence made sense when Manjiri tried to vindicate himself, even though she pretending not to want to separate Abhir from his mother she does nothing to let them get closer. too bad that Shivu interrupted the confrontation, this child and dangerous to go so far as to intentionally hurt himself to create drama, is sheer madness.
@yeol
I didn’t read ur full comment.My opinion is that none of the birlas are right in today’s episode, neither youngsters nor oldies . Infact these birlas monkeys shouldn’t dare to lecture others about manners, discipline and etc as we can clearly see the results of their upbringing. Parenting needs patience but that word doesn’t even exist in birlas dictionary. And your hopes on manyu😬😬, we will get old when by the time he changes, or it will never happen in this birth.
@Msdism, very possible, the writers decide in the end, drama is more important than logic. and we know that the drama is always privileged to create discussions between spectators
Me too I don’t read long essay!
Did anyone notice that everyone was being defended by their mothers except Abhir. It’s like every mother can fight for their son, be selfish for their son except Abhir. Even Manyu himself can be with his mom except Abhir. Well done Manyu.
@mark
Yup, even at this age manyu is getting strong support from his mom. But this poor kid, it is heart wrenching to see him suffer and dumbmanyu don’t even care a damn about it because it is not “his” problem. For him success matters the most and he succeeded in capturing and caging his own son. What a great job 👏👏👏😤🥴🥴😢🤕 right?
Yeah 😭 poor abhir.
Manjiri amazed me, she is ready to do anything for her children, she is ready to ruin relationships, her relationships and she is also ready to repress her own feelings, her own opinions to accept or repair a relationship that could benefit her child. Manjiri beyond her current wickedness, beyond the bad road she is on, beyond even people of her own blood who are suffering, she has proven one thing that is undeniable, she will do whatever she thinks is right for her children. I had already noticed that for Niel she was ready to do anything to ensure her happiness, at least what she thought was Niel’s happiness. She wanted to offer Niel a future, she took it and then loved him with all her heart she didn’t have the courage to reveal the reality for fear that Niel would receive even more hatred from Harsh, because Harsh was definitely not going to accepted an illegitimate child he cared too much about status to let Niel live by his side. Harsh cared too much about social position and society’s opinion of his image, to accept an illegitimate child. Her divorce and her fear of losing her adored son, forced her to accept Niel because he was the only one after all his bad deeds who cared about being loved by him. Manjiri loved Niel and whatever opinion some people might have, her love for him was real. so as not to let Niel be unhappy, she took the first step to accept Arohi despite everyone’s opposition, she was against Abhimanyu’s opinion on Arohi to support Niel. Even after Arohi’s real intentions came out in the open, and Niel decided to stay with her anyway, she supported Niel because she was afraid he was taking risks with his life, and also because she accepted the choice that Niel had done for his happiness. Yet no mother will accept an upstart, manipulative who has seduced her son for financial interests as a daughter-in-law, for some mothers that their son takes such a daughter home, it is a cause for dispute and separation. Manjiri after the pain Akshara caused her son, after Akshara’s actions worsened Abhimanyu’s trust issues towards relationships and her son’s behavior, she supported Akshara’s return to Abhimanyu’s life . for Manjiri supported her son’s happiness, and she knew that Abhimanyu would never have suffered so much from his disappearance if he didn’t love her so much. she even accepted the information that Akshara might not be able to have children and the fact that her only biological child might never continue her line, just for her son. Manjiri favored her children in several situations, she did what she thought was good for them, even if she had to silence her own opinions, even if she thought she had to continue to suffer Harsh as her husband to ensure their safety and they happiness. Manjiri’s generation was too focused on marriage in society, and for a woman like Manjiri who didn’t really have an academic education, she believed that staying married was the only way to protect the interests and future of his children. Because Manjiri had never had the chance to pursue studies to become financially independent. After Niel’s death, Manjiri’s condition was much more severe than Akshara’s, she almost lost her mind and was hospitalized. She was having repeated panic attacks, and taking into account her age a risk of heart attack was very likely. Manjiri had a depression that almost cost him his life, and not once did the one who caused the problems until today think of the mess that took place in the heads of some, while others only she judges have already apologized. Manjiri survived because she had one child alive Abhimanyu, and even if she had to resolve to lock up her ego and her anger, for have to give her enemy a chance for the only child she had left, she did not hesitate. If she has to destroy relationships to make sure her son doesn’t lose any more important relationships and especially not a child, if she has to plot and get her hands dirty she will not hesitate, she is ready for anything for her last son even if she loses him, tragically. Akshara was more broken by Abhimanyu’s rejection than by the loss of her child, even knowing her situation she ran the risk of losing her other baby, for a man’s disappointment, but hey she bears her own grief. Manjiri proved that for her her children matter more than a man, because she was ready to bear the hatred of a man because she thought that her children were more important and that their future was more important (idiocy). After holding Abhir in his arms, Akshara realized the importance of her offspring, and she was ready to be selfish towards a man who helped her, to ensure her son’s well-being. She asked the man who was her benefactor to chain himself with her without thinking about her feelings, without thinking about the future of this man in a relationship where he had to put a cross on his freedom as a man, because by accepting he would have to forget a future in a loving and happy relationship as long as he would have been her husband, or he had to forget the idea of creating a real family that would be hers because she only thought of her son, without thinking of the repercussions of her decision for the man in question. Akshara took advantage of the kindness of a man who helped her by risking prison, a man who helped her despite his rudeness, a man who stayed by her side for several months to make sure she was well. Akshara took advantage of Abhinav because just as she took a risk by making Abhir’s future uncertain and now chaotic, she deprived Abhinav of the chance to find love with someone less complicated, and she deprived Abhinav lucky to be able to create his own family without risking losing his family members one day. Akshara asked a man she was sure was not going to refuse her request, to sacrifice everything just to be the father of her son, with no guarantee of a happy future for him. Akshara certainly owes debts to a lot of people, she has made many people lose their time and their chances of being able to enjoy the love of their loved ones in peace. Abhinav and fell in love with the mother of the child who became his son, because he respects relationships and that he was not going to fall in love out of wedlock, as Akshara suggested to him (this was a real lack of consideration). Akshara was the only woman he could covet because she was already his wife, and she had given him a son, he was far from suspecting the repercussions present and that he was going to lose his rights to the child, because Akshara never taken the trouble to tell him about the events that had happened in his past that could come and destroy their world, love certainly makes you blind. The selfishness of some mothers will end up destroying the lives of others if luck does not smile on them, they are certainly lucky to have people who are always ready to forgive them. Manjiri in any case you are an extremist mother, who has become blind and bad for the interests of your son, you even hurt the innocent. but I can’t blame you for one thing, you’re not a hypocrite, you’ve always shown that you’re ready for anything for your sons, even to do evil, you don’t pretend to be a nice person by pretending to do everything your actions for the world, you have always been clear, only your children are your priority. Manjiri looks surprisingly like Akshara. the choices she thought were right for her children were actually the cause of their problems. She had an unnecessary kind and sacrificial side, but she stopped wearing the mask of kindness since it didn’t pay off. Akshara’s character is exactly the same but he’s the main character so his mask may never come off.
@yeol
Manjiri is educated like Mahima. Manjiri comes from a rich educated family and she was educated and was a singer. Yes. Like Akshara. Manjiri was like Akshara, kind hearted and family oriented and goes to extremes to help everyone like Akshara. But where they differ is tolerating a broken relation. Manjiri tolerated a broken relation and taught her son the same (Manyu tolerated his broken marriage for so long). And Manjiri in the process, brewed so much anger and hatred in his son. This is where they differ. Akshara let go of Manyu when it became clear the marriage was a burden to him and his family. This helped her and Abhir so much.
So she meets Nav and she sees Nav for who he really is and his desires in life. To have a family. So Akshu offers it to him then later marries him and they are happy. But then the happiness was established on somebody’s son and he is here to take him and he did. So leaves Akshara fulfilling her promise to Nav and sticks to him as the family he wished to have. Everyone got what they deserve in the end.
Also in the initial episodes after the leap,It was shown that Abhinav was bad at managing finances( he was too kind) and it was Akshara who was working hard to keep house and earning from Jam business .Whatever the basis of the relationship they were happy. So who did what for whom in Akshnav-Abhir relationship was/ is irrelevant.Akshnav relationship is perfect in that way.They are each other’s support and whatever is the status of their relationship is no one s business. But then why am I feeling upset with this Jaaniya song and the fact that when Akshara and Abhimanyu hurt each other ,it bothers them🤔@ surabhi ,I got the same feeling yesterday even though I was so angry with Abhimanyu and Manjiri
@Rr
Who is getting hurt by who, you say?
Yesterday episode after Akshara and Abhinav leave Abhimanyu leaning against the car and in Goenka house Akshara asking five min alone from Abhinav .Just because you are ex s it does not mean the hurt is in the past.Abhinav may be best thing that happened to Akshara but Abhimanyu is again in her life just as she is in his ,so their ability to hurt each other.
But there were two parallel scenes Abhinv holding Aksharas hand and Aarohi holding Abhimanyus arm.The writers are again showing mixed signals from Arohi .She was also the affected party by Manjiri kasauli drama but she is still engaged to Abhimanyu .Yesterday in AksharaAbhinav accusation on Manjiri she s giving silent support to Abhimanyu who’s defending his psychotic mom ? Not supporting her sister? So is she going to Abhir s stepmother ?Well she did not impress me today by showing love and support for Abhir
@Rr
Aru is really sympathizing with Manyu. She can do that but I hope she will help him deal with everything by letting them go. Both Akshara and Abhir. Aru should not do it half handedly. Otherwise, Akshara will have to fight with Abhirs step mom but since the step mom is her sister, it will be a fight that will be so wrong and nauseating and Manyu will just be more uglier.
@yeol wow, ur post is even longer than the written updates🤣😵💫 why so indulge in the serial🤣
@@yeol, amazed??? Isn’t it a mother’s nature? So ur not amazed when Akshara did what she did as a mother? So only Abhimanyu’s mother Manjiri amazed you? OIC🤣
@Yeol, much here to think on. Yes, Manjiri like the majority of mothers won’t stop at much to secure her child’s happiness. And, yes, Akshara has leant on Abhinav mostly for Abhir’s sake. Manjiri and her have much in common.
@Soo, @Yeol, I’ll still carry on watching if Akshara and Abhimanyu reunite. It would be interesting to see how two people believing they are out of love, much changed from the young lovers they once were try to rebuild their trust and faith in each other.
In this show every person needs a psychiatrist but sabse zada its parth.. He just cant control his hand.. From last 6 years he is beating his wife for no reason nd now raising hand on a kid? Cant this spineless shefali leave this monster?
Nd this mahima.. Abhimanyu ki galti gina ke apne monster beta ki galti ko cover up karte rehti hai.. Kairav suffered coz of her daughter nd now shefali suffering coz of her son still for her, her children are saints..
Abhimanyu bashing manjri was wowww
Abhimanyu bashing parth was wowwww
Will akshu ever bash her bade papa for losing abhir? Of course not.. As she can never see her own family’s fault..
Mil gaya akshu ko apne stupid sacrifice ka swaadh? Ab to sach bata do abhir ko pagal aurat..
Y bgms playing for abhira? Nav ji’s scrnspace is reducing or aj to vo tha hi nai.. Also he is not getting any important role now a days.. No doubt abhira is the endgame.. Now dont bash me I just said what I felt is gonna happen.. I respect everyone’s view so plzzz dont start sahi galat ka lecture now as its itv
@Surabhi, we all know the itv shows, the result is quite obvious, it will just take the time it takes but when it happens, I will definitely leave the series
@yeol haha I will watch if the tracks will be interesting.. I dont wana see any forceful reunion with stupid tracks.. Makers better do it in a decent way or shut the show after reunion
You are so indulge I doubt you will leave even bullshit is shown🤣🤣
@yeol
When Abhira is the endgame that will also THE END of the serial, so u saying u gonna leave is playing with the word? As everyone will be leaving as well 🤣🤣🤣
I want to see Arohi and ruhi playing games besties. Just some seperate screenspace for them and all other rubbish scenes will be forgiven.
I had to skip to entire episode when the two mother-son duo fought for like the most of episode. Too much irritating drama. Abhimanyu still don’t want to accept that the environment is bad for Abhir. What he wants?
I don’t see Abhir is going to meet his mumma papa this weekend. Then Akshara will act Violently in front of manjiri and Manjiri will sue her with Court Restraint orders. Then again Abhimanyu will be like what to do now and will chose to do nothing.
*I wanted this comment to be a seperate one and not as a reply. I don’t know why it came here. Maybe my mistake
He will blame Akshu that it’s her own fault!
@Surabhi
They all bashed each other but nill, no one realized their mistakes and will bash each other next time. But Manish knows he did this to Akshu and he didn’t need any bashing. There is doubt that Abhira is endgame. So much doubt which has nothing to do with Navs screen space.
Exactly! Don’t expect Akshu to bash her grandfather as she don’t think it’s his fault! So if no fault why bash? Abhi bashing Manjiri n parth bcoz they are wrong according to him! Obviously!
Now the only thing abhimanyu needs to do is to take out abbir from this toxic environment.. Plzzz take a new house..
Now some people will say that abhir is turning violent coz of birlas.. Let me remind he threw football at abhimanyu in their first meeting.. Also he broke the glasses of police Jeep at kasauli.. So abhir already had this.. May be coz of genes as he is AB’s son
People are wrong, entire birlas are not responsible for abhir’s condition, it’s only because this disgusting mom son duo, rest of the birlas are already against this custody case. Abhir’s violence and wierd behaviour is not visible for me, only thing I can see in abhir is manipulation of manyugiri, crave for his parents, yearn for some comfort.
you live in your so called dreamland. abhinav and akshu as an endgame, and we know it, yrkkh take 1 year leap, after leap real story begins akshara and abhinav win abhir custody case. what basis you wanted reunion? akshu and abhinav love each other so how can she accept toxicmanyu.
@ritu wait nd watch.. Abhinav is not getting any importance now.. He is hardly seen now.. Makers showed him like some God Initially but now gave him a backseat.. Now its all about birlas and akshu it seems.. Anyway let see what happens next
we all wait and watch and after leap all about navra life and her struggle and how they win abhir back. toxic couples already have ended.
@ritu its itv nd toxic couple are always back to each other coz of unwanted unnecessary suitations.. Anyway you can assume whatever you want nd I can predict whatever I think
@surabhi how abhira will be back
they do the same, so what is new? in itv never show fl love another male. so tell me anupama also in a toxic relationship so she comes back to vanraj? abhimanyu is no less than vanraj.
@Surabhi
If makers want to create unnecessary situations and drama, why not use Navra? Why should they go for an old villain if they can create a new villain?
Abhira is not only impossible but is deadend! PERIODT!
@Surabhi, couples in conflict brought back by ‘unwanted, unnecessary situation’, you have hit upon something here. Is Manjiri engineering a reunion by cutting Akshara’s life lines to Abhir? Is she forcing Akshara to sit in occupation of Birla House to be near her child?
Abhir accepted Birlas but Birlas took him for granted and some didn’t accept who he really is, that is, Navra’s son too. Abhir accepted his real dad, but this real dad gives him false hopes and doesn’t care about his wishes and doesn’t prioritize his feelings before his mom’s feelings. Manyu neglected Abhir in many instances and he doesn’t realize the consequences of that. After the custody, he got Abhir and after that, he left Abhir alone or with dida.
After the custody, Nav has been unable to meet Abhir much, Akshara too didn’t meet him much although she kept making excuses to meet him. But the weekend was a guarantee for Navra to meet Abhir but that has proven to be not reliable as a certain detour and sleepless night can rob them of an entire weekend. Next weekend may be the same too. But who cares apart from Navra? No one right? Manyu got Abhir so he doesn’t need to care if Navra meet Abhir or not. He sure as hell don’t need to apologize to Navra if his apology is not backed up with effective actions and efforts to improve. But why is he not caring about Abhirs desire to meet Navra? Especially after he gave him so much hope that weekend is here. He doesn’t care for Abhirs feelings or sadness or anger or silence. He can’t keep saying sorry and not do anything.
He doesn’t address any issue well and he is incapable of getting to Abhir. I ask myself, what is he capable then? Now Abhir believes Navra may not want him especially if they hear about his fights. It seems these fights are disturbing and troubling Abhir and is worried about the fights. Now that Manyu is responsible for Abhir, he needs to address these issues but he isn’t.
Manjiri didn’t break the bridge or bring rain sure. So what is all this anger that Manyu is directing at Manjiri? Seems like it’s misplaced anger. He is angry at himself for not giving Abhir a mom when he really needs her, so he finds someone else to direct his anger to. Well if he was not blinded so much by his shortcomings and not blaming his mom for them, he would have realized a very helpful point that she note; Abhir became this way after Shivus arrival. But Manjiri ji, for this exact reason, it may be understood that Abhir is envious of Shivu unless investigation is carried out to identify the real insolent kid and save the victim. But then again, when Manyu himself believes that his kid is capable of being envious to the point of being violent, and terms it as a kids fight, no investigation will take place and again, Manyu leaves identifying the real victim and villain to chance. He doesn’t believe and trust that Abhir may be a victim. But then again, who does he believe and trust apart from himself?
@Mark.
Abhir is so emotional. Yet this type of anger where he doubts himself isn’t Abhimanyu-derived, to put that way. Abhimanyu is mistaken to believe that. Abhir is more like Abhinav here. Abhimanyu never questions himself. He deflects the questions and accusations away from himself. Here Abhir is worried about what his parents think about him. Abhimanyu doesn’t have those worries.
Abhimanyu reacted when Abhir refused to acknowledge him as many men would, given the circumstances. He remembered Akshara’s words and got angry yet Akshara was telling about Abhir’s hurt he didn’t understand it first-time. When Abhimanyu was hurt by Abhir running past him he became upset with his mother. What a narcissist.
Abhimanyu doesn’t question himself as Abhir does. He keeps doing the same things over and over and says sorry every time. This isn’t enough. He has to make Abhir happy and he isn’t doing so.
I agree that he has proved incapable of taking care of Abhir. He is so self-absorbed, that he is unable to see Abhir’s suffering to be candid. When he stopped Parth from slapping Abhir, some who have noted that as a point for Abhimanyu. But when a fireman does his job, in the aftermath is introspection, an inquiry into what had happened yet as you had put it so aptly, Abhimanyu dismissively refers to thiis fight as kids fight. The situation will continue unabated because he failed to solve it.
@Meed
I agree with you. When the son is better than the dad, we can’t help but pause and imagine how it will be. Not only is Manyu self absorbed and narcissist but also lacks introspection. Just as you noted. I can’t help but raise eyebrows and shake my head in disapproval. Yet the questions remain, will Manyu make it?
Manyu can’t change all of a sudden because these personalities have been with him since childhood. Even the one month with Navra wasn’t enough. If he really changes fast, it will be a miracle, Gods intervention and wonder of the world. But if not, Abhir will have to wait long and unnecessarily.
Akshara does not seek Abhir’s welfare as a priority otherwise she will try to communicate better to preserve Abhir, otherwise she wouldn’t give reason to others to blame him for anything. Akshara and unable to see beyond da own thought to project himself into Abhir’s future interests. Abhir stays in the Birla family and until further notice nothing can be changed, instead of trying to sort out the issues and instead speaking like a civilized person about the problem, which she spotted in her son for all to try to look into the matter and settle the problem for Abhir’s well-being. she decides to scream, she threatens without thinking that her behavior will also be a problem, which will affect Abhir. She simply gives reasons to be criticized, she gives reasons to blame her as she blames others. She supposedly wants Abhir’s well-being in Birla house she is even boastful of having bruised the child’s heart for that, but she is not trying to be open minded, she always does half things. everything about Abhir is about Akshara as well, and she should try to warn and advise the Birla regarding Abhir’s welfare in their house. But she acts like a hysteric who can’t think about her child’s best interests, she gives valid reasons so that her visitation rights can be challenged, when she knows that her son needs her, and that she knows that Until his appeal is accepted and the trial reopened, Abhir will remain with the Birla family. Acting intelligently to be able to see and protect his son would certainly be asking too much of him. any mother can put their pride aside for their child, her behavior has given some a reason to challenge her visitation rights, but she will act like an ignorant little victim while she is conscious of her relationship with Manjiri. Akshara is a lawyer she is supposed to know the law more than anyone, but they seriously want me to believe that she didn’t know that by being recalcitrant she was risking her rights, really? she should also have known that in this story it is the one who is the most cooperative with the other party, who will be right in the eyes of the law. instead of making an unnecessary fuss, she should have just pointed out Manjiri’s behavior and calmly warned Abhimanyu
@yeol
Akshara doesn’t know that her son is facing problems. She only knows that he is uncomfortable and he is ready to do whatever necessary to find happiness in Birlas. She only feels that Abhir needs her but she doesn’t know the reason why Abhir is needing her. Remember, Akshara only knows of Manjiris pushing Navra out of Abhirs life. She doesn’t know that Abhir is facing negligence and is being framed now. Manyu could have helped by sharing with Navra on Abhirs actions and worked with them but he doesn’t. Akshara doesn’t even dream that Abhir may be bullied in his own home. She doesn’t even dream that no one is bothering to understand her son. Inshort, she knows nothing about Abhir now. And every time she has asked, she got blocked and cut short by either Manjiri or Manyu.
@Mark, true, Akshara must not imagine that Abhir is being bullied, and yes the Birlas are too busy arguing with each other, to notice that Abhir or another child is behaving Weirdly. Because indeed apart from Manjiri who noticed a strange behavior in Abhir nobody realizes what is happening with him. Manjiri will never try to contact Akshara, as she wants Akshara out of Abhir’s life. But Akshara should think smarter as she will see that something is wrong with Abhir, she should have been the calm one as it was her way out if she had reported her observations in court, and had shown exemplary behavior the situation would have worked in her favor. Akshara should start thinking like a lawyer. and Abhimanyu should recognize that an environment where adults are unable to understand each other and argue too frequently is not a good place for children. Abhimanyu is trying hard for Abhir, but all his efforts will be useless as long as Birla family continue their family war, he either has to leave or kick some people out, but the drama would not exist anymore without Birla family conflicts as it looks like scriptwriters don’t want to focus on other characters. and Navra they don’t even suspect that their decisions are hurting Abhir. A nice skewer.
@ yeol when Akshara lived with the Birlas things were not so bad ,she does trust Abhimanyu as she has seen him with Abhir( She saw Abhir in the interview and when he left Goenka house all three times Abhir was holding Abhimanyu hand) Rest she is clueless as not even her sister has shared details.
@yeol
If you didn’t notice, Akshara doesn’t want to take advantage of Birlas incompetency. She doesn’t want to break Abhirs relations with Birlas. She wants him to form them and so gave Birlas a chance. But everytime she points out their mistakes, they justify themselves and blame her instead. It’s like Akshara says Manjiri is still in the past and Manyu says I agree and does nothing about it or what he does, doesn’t solve anything in the long run. Then Akshara says you snatched our weekend visiting rights and when Abhir is brought Infront of him, he takes his anger on Manjiri and doesn’t do anything. The circle goes on. Manyu should have been calling Navra every second to work with Navra as he is given the responsibility but he doesn’t and makes everyone think he has things under control. Even Nav asked Akshara to give space to Manyu to handle Abhirs matters his way and in the morning, she meets with Abhirs scrunched book cover. But then she thinks this is only Manjiri being Manjiri.
As far as Navra goes, they know that their foolish act hurts Abhir but he is getting pampered at Birlas. But now, Akshara has started feeling her son is calling out to her for help. She said yesterday that Abhir wants to talk and be with me despite his anger.
So this could have been avoided if Manyu had gone to buy a house where he stays with Abhir alone or he would have solved the tension between Manjiri and Akshara. But he didn’t. So it leaves little scope for all to work together and make Abhir comfortable.
@Yeol so very true. Akshara is too hung up on her sense of loss and pain, she hasn’t the capacity to feel the level of pain and confusion in Abhir. Well actually she does, bizzarely her and Abhinav’s assumption is that pain would help Abhir adjustment with Abhimanyu. Why isn’t she calling her sister, Shefali, Nishat about how Abhir is settling in, instead of locking horns with Manjiri and kicking the wind out of Abhimanyu. Not very smart in my view if your principal concern is the well being of your child, then to keep the key communication channels is key. I know Manjiri is a lost cause, but Abhimanyu could be an ally but she chooses to make him and adversity.
With What told by shefali to Akshara, Children are enjoying. As per Ruhi, Abhir is doing home work. As per Arohi, she is taking care Abhir fully. Then how akshara will feel the pain and confusion in Abhir caused by the Birlas? No one is giving actual picture to Akshara even through any small hints. Akshara and abhinav did the grave mistake of breaking Abhir’s heart making the three suffer. Else, Abhir himself would have conveyed this to Navra. Truth is that, No one in the Birla fam is concerned for Abhir. But my question is even if they convey something to Navra, what can they do? I dont think Navra can convince Manyu as he will get easily manipulated by Manjiri. Manyu will get his lesson from his son itself. Waiting for that.
@Nitu.
So true. The communication from the Birla house seem to indicate that Abhir is settling in. But in actuality, the reverse is happening. Abhir is unsettled there. The family members are not observant enough. The fight between Shivaansh and Abhir brought out the inkling of what was brooding beneath the surface. Yet it was left unresolved by the elders. I think that they are concerned about Abhir, maybe just not enough. This may look an opposite to your assertion, but it is not. The Birlas are also not concerned about Abhir. Then sometimes they are concerned. Why? Well, they are two-faced in this way. Distant yet connected.
Shefali and Akshara talked but Shefali did not tell her Abhir was sad.She asked Abhir directly twice once in school once at home at celebration.Abhimanyu himself is clueless so what will he tell🙄.Her sister Aarohi should have told her specially the violent reaction of Abhir ,specially as she has now heard how Akshnav broke abhir heart to send Abhir to them.Both Abhimanyu and Aarohi have broken their trust with which Akshnav sent Abhir.But that s always been story of Akshara life vis a vis her family? By the way why did Aarohi not inform Akshara about the bridge ? She was home as she did not look worried for Ruhi so must have known
Remember Akshu did talked to Shefali once and she told that Abhir was playing with the kids??
@Yeol… ‘She chooses to make him an adversary.’
@ Rai not at all. he is not adversary She told him yesterday that she and Abhinav was happy with his coparenting suggestion which they overheard.Its his mom Manjiri who she considers Adversary
Which sane person can stay calm in this situation? They waited the whole day with no contact or information given?? The only phone with info connected was cut off after she spoke! How can she still stayed calm?
@Rr, true. Manjiri is Akshara’s concern and she can’t entirely be confident of Abhimanyu’s support because of Manjiri’s hold over Abhimanyu. Remember Akshara already has lost to Manjiri over the whole Neil death matter and Abhimanyu evoked Manjiri’s pain in that respect to Akshara yesterday. Manjiri succeeded in the Sharmas not having Abhir for the weekend. Abhimanyu made his protest to her, forcefully, but as the precap shows a legal notices arrives at the Goenkas canceling Akshara and Abhinav’s weekend access. That has Abhimanyu’s hand in it.
Then Abhimanyu is going back on his words of coparenting.He s manipulated by his mother again ?? You can mourn a dead person all your life your choice he was your brother.but you want to punish a six year old by denying him his parents? Now I can add another adjective to Abhimanyu Cruel Abhimanyu.@ Rai don’t you think this mother bhakti is going too far? Manjiri moved on from Neil death long ago, when she fixed up Abhimanyu and Aarohi alliance.
@Rr, I meant, the legal notice can’t be mounted by Manjiri without Abhimanyu’s say so as the custody case is in his name. Grandma has no role. Do I believe he is a Ma Bhakt, no! He is no different from any man at war with his ex and taking support from his mother. We all in times of trouble turn to our mothers. They are an endless source of support, loyality, comfort and wise guidance for the lucky ones. And, I get it when he says, Manjiri is his responsibility. The Indian system drums that responsibility into adult children and condemns those who don’t honour it. Interestingly, a friend of my from another culture told me that her mother told her to watch how her boyfriend treats his mother. If he respects, honours and take care of her, he is worth marrying. But mothers too have to be less possessive of their adult sons, and not sure Indian mothers even understand what it is to be that. Their boys are forever their children. Actually mothers of daughter aren’t any different on that matter. Motherhood is a special case.
Manjari and mahima’s parents didn’t have good upbringing to both mahima and manjari and that is why they are ruining birla’s life their husbands,their children and grandchildren good but sad that Neil and Anisha have left this rotten hell birla house it is namesake house but people have no relation or rotten relations between them.
Manjari and mahima both have done most of the mistakes in their life and they are pointing at peach others mistakes.Chor ulta chor ko hi dante
@Abc, true
Actually, Mahima misled them as what she said, is not entirely true. Mahima misled Manyujiri because she can’t imagine in her wildest dreams that Shivu will be the envious and insolent one. But of course, since Manyujiri didn’t do right by Abhir, they got swayed easily by Mahimas misconception. A blind leading a blind. They are bound to get lost.
@Mark
It was easy for Mahima to mislead them because somewhere they also know that Abhir is not happy getting separated from his parents.
And the biggest question is how can they even think that any child will be happy leaving their happy home and loving parents. If Navra didn’t love Abhir than they could have hoped that Abhir will love to stay with birlas but they have seen Abhir’s live and knows that he was happy than how can they expect him to be at peace living his own happy family. They are deliberately pretending to be unaware.
@Ara
Yes indeed. Manyujiri is in denial and stubborn to accept the truth that they didn’t do right by Abhir and they are not ready to do right by him because they could easily rectify their mistakes but they choose not to.
Manyu was told yesterday about Navras foolish move but he is now supporting the foolish move by not rectifying it.
More than Navra, Manyu is the most foolish as he dared to think that Abhir will be okay to leave his parents.
Right @Mark
@Mark yes after knowing how Navra hurted Abhir, he should rectify the truth to Abhir or at least assured Abhir that his parents love him no matter what. But he chose to ignore
Exactly! @Ara, especially Abhimanyu, he is afraid that if he probe more into Abhir being unhappy, the reply Abhir gives will not be in his favor, what if Abhir requests to go back to Navra, can Abhimanyu allows him?
@abc true.. Whats the point of staying together when they are always fighting? Mahima vs manjri, parth vs abhimanyu, shivu vs abhir.. The three generations are fighting only
Now the serial is all about “of the pyschos, for the psychos, by the psychos”, psychos always win. It’s crystal clear that Psycho grandmother deliberately didn’t send abhir to akshu, when asked about it she is saying nonsense excuses like rain, lack of sleep bla bla. Coming to our “the king of psychos”,the only and only exclusive real father, still there is time and he can drop abhir to akshu, he is capable of making compensation for abhir’s lost precious two days, but he won’t do that, because his bulldozer support is where his monster mom is. Godfather was barking at ak in yesterday’s episode for breaking his son’s heart, if that is cruel then what he and his psycho mom is doing now? So called valid excuses of manyu be like “my pain”, “my mom’s pain”,pain my foot😤😤😤. Mam, if u people can’t overcome ur pain ,consult an expert instead of expecting a kid to do a psychiatrist job. Still u can’t stop and change ur mom just go and due instead torturing a kid mercilessly.
@Msdism
I agree. They could do so much for Abhir but they choose to fight everyone even the one who may have a hint or two hints on what will make Abhir happy. They choose to fight one who wants Abhirs betterment most. Sometimes its best to choose your fights wisely. Not everytime and everything calls for a fight. If a fight has some truth in it, don’t fight back. If you loose a fight, think where you went wrong and correct it. But obviously Birlas are not licensed fighters to know all these. So why fighting at all if fighting hasn’t helped you at all?
Manyu shouldn’t fool himself to think, he has to win in all fights. Some fights are never ment for victory. He should accept defeat once in a while so that he will have an idea how it feels to loose. He should also, abandon some fights halfway for his betterment and others betterment. But it’s too much to expect from someone who only knows about himself.
@Msdism so right!👍👏👏👏
@Msdism so true.I think the writers are psycho too…😂
makers have really gone bonkers , just to whitewash manyu as the male lead yhey have ruined every other character😅if this is not being overglorified then i dont know wat is coz this whole week ss has been given mostly to himm and his rotten birla fam which i find repulsive as they dont give family vibes, this track will definately.sink the serial if they think pleasing manyu stans is the best option already trp is dropping lol😂, wonder wat cringe they are going to show
@Catnap
Funny is that the whitewashing isn’t working. If makers focus on making every character pay for their deeds, it will then attract the audience. But now, they should just clear unwanted characters like Manyu who are replaceable.
@catnap they better solve the violence against women (Shefali)and violence amongst children( Shivansh and Abhir) to the audience’s satisfaction. Today India is seething with the violence against the Manipuri women and most of us are so ashamed because the men thought they could get away with it ?
@Rr
Very salient point you highlighted. Violence against women and violence among children. Very true and crucial.
Could you please inform me on “Manipuri women”?
Please Read headlines of any newspaper/ channel of India.Twitter and social media are banned from forwarding images.I as an Indian woman hang my head in shame that a mob of men can be violent parade two woman naked and gang rape them .
I feel it’s good Akshara doesn’t all the time say sorry because seeing Abhimanyu been sorry everytime but still repeating the same thing makes the sorry meaningless.
One big lesson learnt say sorry only if you genuinely feel sorry and regret your actions.
Mahima is absolutely wrong in trying to protect her children but one thing I will agree is that Abhir was unhappy from day 1 it’s just Shivu is flaming the pain.
Abhimanyu doctor or not can never see anyone’s pain apart from manjiri.
Atleast they should had this much decency to inform Navra that Abhir reached birla house.
Nowadays Abhinav is not atall showed even it’s not showing that Abhir is sad being away from Abhinav which is unrealistic since he couldn’t even sleep without him. They are only showing that Sbhir miss his mother not Abhinav. Why?
@Ara
True. Manyu doesn’t work with Navra at all. No phone calls or letters or emails. After all, he is narcissistic and selfish. Very true that one should say sorry and mean it. Manyu only says sorry and you end up thinking if he is mocking you. Sometimes showing someone that you are sorry is much better than saying it. If Manyu took Abhir to Goenkas then his sorry would have meant something.
@Mark right!
Exactly @Ara only says sorry when you mean it, why sorry when deep down you know you are not??
It is better if mahima and manjari family live seperately these 2 sisters are not meant together.Let mahima do hell rotten with her son and daughter and shivu where shivu will become useless like his dad and bad late badi mami in future and wil go to jail.And mahima will get to know the mistakes in the upbringing she done to her children and grand children and one day anand will also leave her One day abhi will get to know his selfish mom’s nature but he will not leave her harsh did good by divorcing manjari .but sincere advise to this brainless mom and son duo is leave mahima so called morons family and live seperately along with arohi,ruhi and abhir then abhir will have great environment and good future if manjari changes her attitude
Manjari-Brainless and emotional blackmailing fool
Mahima-Cunning and manipulative idiot, rascal and cannot handle the family becoz she is a fool
Want manjari to die like Sr.Gayathri in 1st Generation
Want mahima to die like karthik’s biological mom sowmya in 2nd generation
If mahima and manjari will die then only peace and happy family will come into Birla House.Then parth will change his behaviour if dies then he can do what he wants to achieve his goal in his life.Nishta will lead the life she wants happily.Abhimanyu will stay happy with his wife and son and work happily.
Mahima and Manjari being mothers they did’nt understand their childrens emotions,feelings,dreams,goals,happiness. the meaning of mom is emotion,love patience,affection and everything we treat mother as god.Mother is the first best friend and the god we pray.There is saying that Matrudevo bhava
pitrudevo bhava
Acharyadevo bhava
athididevo bhava
Our indian tradition says give respect and devotion firstly towards mother.
but here in this serial mothers(mahima,manjari) are like devils they are not at all mothers they are morons.They tainted the mother-children relationship
@Abc
I agree that Mahima and Manjiri did not understand their kids. But do you know, Mahima had left all child care and upbringing to Manjiri? This is why Mahima isn’t leaving Manjiri alone. Because she trusted Manjiri but Manjiri didn’t influence her kids well.
I am disgusted with this ToxicManyu and his psycho mummywife…. There should be boundaries between mother and son as well… psychojiri keeps behaving more and more like her son’s jilted lover who finally got rid of the other woman… honestly DKP needs to kill off this psychojiri character or no one will get married for fear they’ll get a psychotic b*t*h for a MiL. Psychojiri’s is behaving more like GHKKPMs Lusty 🐖 patralekha or that cursed KKBs Tanu and Aaliya than a mom, we’ve seen bad moms in serials but not like this f**khead psychojiri. Someone call Harsh to smack his old thing and his dumbass son while he’s at it.., the amount of toxicity in Birla house is not good for any of the kids, Parth and Mahima will mould Shivansh into a monster, Abhir is being slowly ruined, Ruhi is soon going to be affected with the negativity and become depressed. What is Aru doing?? This new writer is making the same mistake the old one did, focusing wayyyy too much on Abhira and their BS and sidelining the other characters who are far more interesting.
Ya’ll yesterday when Nav spoke to Manyu did you see how he couldn’t look Nav in the eye, he looked everywhere else but at Nav and his irritating hypocritical arguments got stuck in his throat, he apologized for blaming Akshu for Neil then yesterday he brought up Neil, he told Akshu she can come see Abhir anytime and yesterday he said my mummywife is insecure don’t come here… as for the essay writing Abhimanyu supporters, your hero does not love his son everything revolves around his mummywife the whole argument was my maa’s pain, my maa’s insecurities, my maa’s this my maa’s that my maa’s fat arse f**k Manyu and triple f**k his psycho mummywife. Manyu must have bought his medical degree seeing how blind he is to Abhir’s suffering, has he say down with Abhir and asked him what happened, what caused the fight? He can see Abhir is miserable but he does nothing to improve the situation in his own house let alone allowing Abhir to meet Akshu… ManyuJiri are failed characters incapable of redemption. GHKKPM tried whitewashing the 🐀 after his fall but they failed with that and the same would happen here if they tried with ToxicManyu, he’s too far fallen
Manjiri is the Pakhi here and Manyu boi is the Virat.
Once I Proposed the idea that for once let’s forget the biological relation , Manjiri and Abhimanyu should get married to each other.
They both are single, support each other all times, understand each other the most, same age, wanted to posses Abhir completely as their child, shares hugs and kisses, had bad breakups, complement each other as well and lastly Hate Akshara directly and indirectly respectively ❤️.
Like if Akshara can pamper Abhinav like a mother , then why can’t Manjiri
Pakhrat Supremacy
#Manyujiri is the endgame
@Shyra
They would make a wonderful relation after all such relations are not unheard of.
@ Shyra😂👌
@Jade
I agree. Manyu changes his words as he changes his clothes. We should really move one from here and stop going back to Abhira. The atmosphere of today….The atmosphere of Birlas is not fit for any kid as they will end up picking one or two bad habits like Parth and Anisha and Shivu. Soon Abhir will pick up a bad habit of his own. Anyways, Manyu is a lost cause.
I wish to see more of Aru and her practicality more. We used to relate to her more in the past but now, she is becoming a fool like her sister.
@Shyra 👏👏👏😂😂😂 ofcourse #ManyuJiri is endgame 😂😂😂
Agreed wholeheartily! Especially Abhimanyu choosing to ignore Abhir unhappiness, he is afraid he cannot fulfill Abhir wishes to be with Navra if he finds out from Abhir!
Today abhi blamed manjiri just because he got upset seing his son is upset with him. He might dreamed of his son running towards him just like ruhi went to her mathasri and shiv to his parents. But abhir was running away from abhi instaed of running towards him. It was the main reason for him to raise voice but any way good he told what should. And now in abhi’s fight of getting his son’s love seems he has lost. He has lost his friend junior, and seems his princes also has gone little bit away from him. Earlier ruhi was more attached to abhi than for arohi. Now she has gone bit away from her poppy and got closer to her mom. Abhi and manjiri get tons of hints and clues that his son is not happy with him. But yet they are not accepting it.
What mahima said to abhi nd manjiri about abhir are true but she is using those points for a wrong purpose, to whitewash his son who is also wrong and who has not corretcted and accepted his mistakes yet.
Now abhir will definitely think that his parents didn’t come to see him because they don’t want him. Those words have attacked abhir deeper than the love Navara gave and giving him. Bcz his world is navra. And when navra go back to kasuali that too without seeing abhir he will surely get upset and might start growing hate. But Navras departure might be beneficiary for abhi so that he can win his son and develop their bond.
@Hi
Even I have a feeling that Abhir will come to hate Navra because of all those hurtful words and when they leave for kasauli as he doesn’t know what his dada and dida did behind his back.
Strongly feel that Abhir himself will deny to stay with Navra in high court after this 1 year if he doesn’t know the complete truth. 😕 And than the makers will try to show that Abhimanyu is removing that hatred thus whitewashing him 😒.
@Hi
I agree. Manyus anger towards Manjiri was for his own shortcomings but he decided to choose someone else to bear his anger as he couldn’t bear it. It’s a pity. Mahima also is in denial and can’t fathom that Shivu may be at fault. Infact it’s a defence mechanism for herself as she can’t accept the reality that her son and grandson are the insolent ones.
Today, Abhir worries and is troubled by the fights that keep occuring.
I agree that if Navra leave to Kasauli, Abhir will hate them. Manyu better use that opportunity to bond with his son.
@Hi Manyu and his mommywife won’t change anytime soon, even Mahima said it’s useless talking to psychojiri cause she knows her sister is a useless brainless illogical retard who should have been aborted. They are doing the very same thing they did would Virat degrade the character to an extent he will never be considered a hero again.
I hope that NavRa don’t go to Kasauli and Akshu stays and fights, there are lots of articles out about Akshu getting hurt in an accident or Nav dying on their way back, either way Abhir will HATE the Birla’s and run away if something happens to NavRa he might end up like Naira and living in an orphanage away from his family
@Hi.
I agree with your revealing explanation. Abhimanyu was expecting a warm hug but he got none. Then he remembered Akshara’s accusations andd got riled up. He was triggered into his argument with Manjiri because Abhir turned his back on him. He saw Abhir upset with him and he couldn’t bear it. When he flared up, Manjiri was talking about Abhir not sleeping well and needing some rest. These blokes quickly moved away from that as Abhir’s well-being is just San afterthought for them. Although they like to think otherwise.
Abhimanyu is failing at the moment. He may regain Abhir’s trust. However, their relationship will always undergo some tests and strains because Abhir’s mother won’t be there to mediate it.
Mahima defend Parth’s aggression towards Abhir as she is thinking that Shivaansh hasn’t done wrong. She thinks Abhir is better off with Akshara and Abhinav. The Birlas are in disarray right now. Abhimanyu hasn’t got the hang of raising Abhir, and nurturing his new relationships. He is failing woefully here. No sugarcoating.
I don’t think that Abhir will hate his parents. Talking about degrees of magnitude. He will be angry with them when they go back to Kasauli. But, it will be more of disappointment and less of resentment. Neither is a good feeling, to be clear. Abhir will always long for them inspite of how they got separated. He knows that they love him but he can’t understand why they don’t want to stay with him. In addition, he has this self-doubt eating away at his being, thinking that he has failed his parents somehow.
@Ara @Mark
Agree. That might be abhi’s ‘n’ th chance to understand abhir and mend the broken relationships. That will be his lucky time to win abhir’s heart but will it be Navras bad luck? They were made helpless.
@Jade. Oh no.. i don’t wanna see nav’s end. Why always good people end up quickly? This is the beginning of Akshara’s real happy life and will it end up with tears at the beginning? I don’t want that but unfortunately everthing is in writers hands🙄😄.
@Meed. Very true. It will be better if abhir won’t hate navra bcz they don’t desearve hatred from abhir. Yes you re right. Abhir knows navra love him but now he is unable to understand the facts. What navras heart breaking words implied that they are financially weak to raise abhir where as abhi is more strong on that point than navra. They told that them as parents have losed where abhir understood it as he is a burden to navra. His little mind is struggling now to come out of this dilemma.
Why do Abhimanyu and manjiri expect Abhir to be happy without his parents specially mother when a grownup child like Abhimanyu can’t leave without his mother.
It would have been fair if Abhimanyu left manjiri to stay at a new home with Abhir than he would have better understood (althought doubtful) Abhir’s feelings.
Again the question which court is this that (without bribery) is seeing only the finacial grounds to give verdict.
I don’t know if anyone here saw Yeh Hai Mohabbatein there the custody battle was described well thought not all real but still relatable.
@Ara
That’s the only complain that I have. Why did he let himself stay with his mom when his son doesn’t stay with his?
@Ara.
I don’t think that the judge was bribed. My apologies for for that. The judge looked at the financial conditions of both families and awarded custody based on that. Akshara’s decision not to expose Abhir to the custody hearings at that time ultimately proved costly. He is getting exposed to a lot more. This is a world of neverending pain.
Abhimanyu, regardless of where he is, wouldn’t have enough to satisfy Abhir’s emotional needs of being with his parents. For Abhir to be happy he has to stay with his three parents. I’ve discovered that Abhir staying Abhimanyu alone won’t give Abhir much happiness. Yet Abhir will more likely stay with either Akshara-Abhinav or with Abhimanyu.
@Meed “ForAbhir to be happy he has to stay with his three parents” so very true.Even if Akshnav win the case in the next court,Abhir will want Abhimanyu too as he knows him as his biological father.
When Mahima & Manjari came home, Rooh & shivu rushed to their mom. Abhir standing there 😔😔😔 he is fighting abandonment from navra, separation anxiety, loneliness, bullying,accusations and now it came upto physical handling.
Only good thing in his life happening is Roohi chuhi and maasi.
How to apologize:-
Step 1- acknowledging your mistake & say sorry
Step 2- Make sure the same doesn’t repeat.
Sadly Abhimanyu’s apologies will stop at step 1.
And why saying sorry to Akshara alone????? What about Abhinav?????
Why makers are showing the montages of Abhira & Abhir?????They are not sure whether to make it navra or abhira as end game because both have significant fandom???
Akshara confesses love to nav,in the montage they show manyu!!!🙄🙄🙄🙄
@😎
Sadly, Abhir will not get justice.
@😎 Yes, Abhir’s isolation is heartbreaking. Thank God for Ruhi.
That image of Akshara, Abhimanyu and Abhir in tears brought home the misery of a broken home. Whether it is Navra, or Abhira matters little. The scars on Abhir will live on especially so when his parents go on to expand their separate families with Abhir not truly belonging to any. That is why Shivu’s words on Abhir not belonging anywhere hurt.
@Rai
Abhir now belongs with Birlas. Shivu is just being a bully and jealous that he is not the only grandson. But soon Shivu will be caught red handed and Abhir will finally breath. Manyu should just make more effort to reach out to Abhir and bond well with him and later may give him a step mom. Abhir is sensible and loving and will accept step siblings from both Navra and Manyu.
Good Manjiri rammed some home truth into the hypocritical Mahima and her wife beater of a son.
Good also that Abhir showed bully boy Shivu his muscle. He is not about to become his victim.
Great that Manjiri told Mahima and Parth that instead of assuming Abhir’s guilty, he should have been given a chance to speak.
Great too that Abhimanyu called his mother out of playing games to deny Akshara access to her child.
Sorrowful is Abhir’s pain. Save for Ruhi the boy is all alone.
The Sharmas heartbreak scheme is so successful that he feels there is no one on his side. For his parents he is a burden, the grandma treats him like a possession and no one dare touch him, and the father, always on the edge of an ephinany over the boy’s quandary little realising all the child needs is a hug and to be assured he is loved and treasured.
The poignant, sorrowful image of the trio at the midnight hour with Akshara, Abhimanyu, and Abhir stuck in middle brings home the pain of a broken home.
While Akshara and Abhimanyu would recover one day finding new love, as Akshara has done already and establish a new family with a new partner, Abhir’s pain is everlasting divided between two families and not truly belonging to any. That is why Shivu’s words got to Abhir.
@Rai
New children from both Navra and Manyu will have it easy because well, they are not Abhira kids. Now, Abhir belongs with Birlas and as you said yesterday, he will make it through. And Manjiris efforts to make him adjust will finally payoff and Abhir will stop being a mamas boy and will live as a Birla with no complains. After everything we have gone through at the hands of these mamas boys, it will help.
@Mark, true the new kids would be fortunate, only if the parents remain together. Abhira didn’t and so the strife in Abhir’s life. Though, couple’s, with problems like Shefali and Parth, should never stay together.
Abhira’s problem now is they are too busy taking pot shots at each other: Akshara complaining about her Dhar (fear) and Abhimanyu rebutting with his Dard) pain when they should be focusing on easing Abhir into his new life.
But yes Abhir is a self sufficient little solider and he’ll figure out a plan for survival regardless of the deficiencies of adults around him. He handled the initial stages of his heart problem alone, not wanting to burden his parents. He has been independent from an early age, but he is a little confused and broken now. Yes, the Birlas better watch their step. Shivu is soon going to be turning to Abhir for coping strategies.
Before that Abhir might mount an escape to Kausali if Navra retreat there for Akshara’s sanity.
I have much faith in Abhir.
It wasn’t reassuring for Abhimanyu to defend Akshara’s and Abhinav’s visitation rights. That was his and his family’s duty. Their duty is to abide by the judgements of the court. Manjiri shouldn’t be in a position to, and should never have flouted those in the first place. However, he did what was right, to express clearly that the rights of another family was being violated.
The fight between Shivaansh and Abhir interrupted a decision on that fortuitously, maybe unfortunately. Shivaansh is preying on Abhir, but Abhir is intelligent and knows how to fight as well. He had to fight back to stop Shivaansh’s irksome behaviour. The type of childish and foolish behaviour that some young boys do from time to time. The cry of Shivaansh drew the adults away from their intense conversation and back again. What a sight!
Well, the Birlas don’t have much unity at the moment. This was their episode, to get a close-up on how each of them think about Abhir. They care about Abhir, even Parth, there shouldn’t be any mistake about this. But, they all are missing a lot about what Abhir wants and where he’s at. The answer to these niggling points was in the sum of their respective arguments. Except that they don’t really listen and thus they understand slowly.
@Meed
Exactly. At first I thought Manyujiri were listening to Mahima and taking notes but then I changed my mind. They don’t listen. This is their track record. Well, Abhir is still waiting for anyone at Birlas to save him from Shivu but he will have to wait for a long time and that too, wait for help from above. What’s the use of such families? If I was Abhir, I will choose schools from abroad and apply for a job abroad too.
@Mark.
No they don’t listen. The two are stuck in their own world. They hear but they don’t listen. To be fair, Manjiri noted that Abhir’s behaviour had changed since Shivaansh came to the house, but her sister wasn’t listening that time. This is a conclave of non-listeners.
The Birlas have good intentions for Abhir, but I don’t think that those are enough. I like implementations better. As they are the real deal. Shivaansh’s behaviour is because he sees Abhir’s plight. The elders including Shefali cannot see Abhir’s dejection and depression which is so unfortunate. He will soon try to run away as a result. Anand and Mahima’s side of the family, maybe, will tighten their grip on him and make his life uncomfortable. Except that Abhimanyu will be firefighting instead of being proactive in his son’s life. Hey, some will praise his reactions today. Yet, I don’t think that this is a whitewash. He was doing the least that was expected of him. He certainly can do better. What has been obvious to me is the fact that he is failing in his parenting of Abhir. By not making good on his intentions, whatever they are, for Abhir, he is bringing immense pain into his son’s life.
@Meed
Agreed. For any sane adult, he would have taken the child away from towering figures that is Mahima and path and from all the noise and accusations but not Manyu.
He failed already when he accepted that Abhir should be away from Akshara and him, stay with Manjiri still. But again he failed long back when he didn’t take care of a very pregnant Akshara instead gave her more pain and excused himself that she miscarried. But obviously she did not and he would have known this if he took care of her miscarriage.
Even now he is still failing. But Abhir is such a forgiving kid he will not hold it against him. Hope that he will wake the hell up one day, but I hope that it won’t be too late then.
@Mark.
So true. He has been failing since and not realising the same. He stands steadfastly with his mother. But he hasn’t been with his son enough to know that. the boy is stressed. He thinks that Abhir is coping somehow. Leaving it to the imagination, isn’t he? He can do better but he fails to take initiative.
Abhir is more like Abhinav and will keep forgiving him until the relationship between them breaks unexpectedly.
Oye, DKP why you sidelining Nav? He’s a solid part of Akshu and Abhir’s life, unless you want to make this the Mummy and Manyu show? You have other characters apart from the retardbirla’s, we don’t even want to see these sour people anymore NavRa and Abhir were so happy when they took Abhir to Kasauli after his op, that was the last time the trio were truly happy then ToxicManyu and his mummywife appeared, this is some next level Oedipus shit they are introducing with ManyuJiri… is DKP going to show us cringe romance with the mother and son next, Akshu must be thanking her lucky stars she married Nav and closed the door for going back to those insane Birla’s
@Jade.
The question of the day in the world of YRKKH. Abhinav is a breath of fresh air. It is important to keep him in the story as the story is doing well with his character. Abhimanyu’s turnaround appears nuanced he looks more unsure about his decisions. His dedication to Manjiri is worrying, not least for Abhir’s happiness. Yet he soldiers on this path which is guaranteed to bring Abhir pain.
Is Abhir’s wellbeing not important to these adults?? Abhi n Manjiri only concern is for Abhir to be with his bio father regardless he is happy or not, his wellbeing is taken care or not? As much as adult gets what they want, Abhir’s childhood is neglected, he deserves a happy upbringing, a happy childhood like he has had during those 6yrs with Abhinav n Akshara! Why disrupt his childhood to satisfy his parent so called recognized blood relation? They will have Abhir, but Abhir’s childhood will be over and he will grow up to be a broken Abhir no more the whole Abhir!!
@June.
True. The adults think that they can give Abhir happy times to the exclusion of Abhir’s other parents, Akshara-Abhinav, but they are mistaken in their assumption. Abhimanyu retains as theoretical idea of working in tandem with Akshara-Abhinav. But he isn’t doing it in practice. His deeds are not lining up with his words here. As simple as that.
From the looks of things
The thing is they seem to project concern or care but, this may just be the illusion of the year because they also don’t show enough concern for Abhir as well. Talking about discrepancies. They richly show their on and off dimensions.
@Meed exactly, they are ruining Abhir literally. They have lived their life, but Abhir has such a long years to come and deserves a happy childhood. I really feel sad for Abhir😌
Abhimanyu ego and hero-complex will never allow him accept the fact that Abhir would be happier living with Navra just the same way he wasn’t ready to accept the fact that Akshara was happier without him and had moved on with Abirnav probably because he can’t get down from the high pedestal that his mother has placed him on.
I suspect Manjiri is playing a clever game to draw Akshara back to the Birlas using Abhir. Manjiri knows a mother can’t be separated from her chick and by depriving Akshara of any opportunity to be near her child, Manjiri’s hope is that in her despair Akshara parts from Abhinav and joins her child in Birla House.
Notice in the opening scene Akshara sends Abhinav away for time alone to think. Considering how Abhinav is her emotional crutch, not now needing him was significant.
Abhimanyu is too seen sitting alone. Both review their quarrel. Then focusing on a remorseful Akshara the title Yrkkh tune asks: ‘Why did that trust break? My heart is finding it difficult to get me to understand – Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai.
Closing with Abhir lying sleepless and tearful next to Manjiri missing his mother. Something is stirring.
@Rai.Please I hope not.I agree there was passion between Abhira,but they have nothing else in common.No trust,their value system were different and most imp Abhimanyu had no respect for his wife,no understanding that she is impulsive and thinks with her heart and not mind.Abhira were doomed and will be doomed
@Rr, you are completely right. A reunion between these two in real life won’t work. It would be a nightmare in reel life too. But then drama is based on that. Books now, they are full of stories of break ups and makes – ups (reconciliations) with the happy ever after. Even art films would put Akshara and Abhimanyu back together – just rich with critical tension that isn’t there with Narav, that is just comfortable as old shoes. No risk of shoe-bite, or blisters as used to be said.
Enemies too much for Abhi
This show used to be an inspiration for young generation and women in India but the habitual ingridents of Indian media (whole from movie to news to daily soaps) degrade one’s rational thinking and consciousness in the name of enjoyment and entertainment.Other countries still tried to show some new flavours but Indian creators always defeated against audience choice and cravings and serves old flavours.Teenager who fond of these serials later find difficult to differentiate between reel life and reality and ideologies blindly.We so called Genz and netizens just show others success and think ooh my environment is not of that kind but our environment is already filled with a lots.
Yesterday Akshara was telling Manjiri that by taking Abhir out she was teaching him not to realize his mistake or say sorry when he does mistake. Is that not pot calling kettle black. Up till today. Akshara refuses to accept her mistake, she refuses to say sorry. When she has killed a human being not a goat. Is it not the way Abhir is important to her so is Neil important to Manjiri. But Neil died with her mistake and everyday she will be jumping up and my so my son. Not thinking that Neil too is someone’s son.
Today Abhi has enlightened me that we don’t need to run away from ourselves in the family. We can settle things. Talk amicably.
We can be surprised that with both parents admonishing their children, Shivu and Abhir can become best of cousins as time goes on.
There are a lot of abominated people here who what comes out of their mouths is evil and abominable. A mother and child to be used as lovers because the child respects and adore his mother. If it’s possible for all of us the commentators and Abhi to be from the same community whom will the mothers choose the most. to be their child.
By their words you will know how they live in real life. Psychos.
Every mother on this earth wishes their child respects and adores them.
They might do mistakes sometimes. Just like we ourselves keep offending them. What we do is to respectfully point out their mistakes to them. And show them how unhappy we are with what have happened. Not calling them to the gallows. Abhi is good example for a good son. But he sometimes frown at his mother when he doesn’t like the course she has taken.