Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 12th December 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Armaan waking up. He gets up to leave. He sees Abhira sleeping. He says thank God, nobody has seen her, I will wake her up. He calls her out. Abhira imagines Akshu and smiles. She says no, I want to sleep for some more time, mumma. She hears Armaan calling her out. She recalls Akshu’s eat and leaves his hand. She stumbles. Armaan holds her. She leaves. Ruhi dries her hair. Rohit sees her and smiles. Jeena hai….plays… He gets up and helps her. He says you unpack, I will make place for your things in the cupboard. Abhira keeps her clothes in the cupboard. Armaan comes. He says I think you need more space, shall I make some space for you. She says no, I already took much space. Rohit and Ruhi keep her clothes in the cupboard. Abhira drops the makeup kit. She says sorry. She picks everything. Armaan says I will do. She says no, I will manage. Ruhi arranges her makeup kit. Kiara comes to Armaan’s room and sees the mess. She gives a tooth brush for Abhira. Armaan thanks her and asks are you upset with me. She says you made a mistake, but we have to take care. She goes. Armaan says don’t mind, take this. Abhira says she exactly meant that. Dadi says Ruhi’s mu dikhai rasam is happening, why two dupattas. Vidya says I thought to do Abhira’s mu dikhai too. Dadi throws the dupatta and says Abhira isn’t my bahu. She shouts.
Abhira is tense in her room. Armaan says don’t worry, I will come with you. She says I will come whenever I want, you go. He says look Abhira, you didn’t eat anything since 2-3 days, come and have breakfast. She refuses and asks him to go. Kajal comes. Dadi says Armaan has got a bad bahu, you want to do her mu dikhai. Vidya says sorry, but we have to keep the relations, we can’t throw our bahu out. Dadi says I will throw her out of the house.
Dadi says Ruhi, just I take the decisions here. She says Rohit, you are my fav but you have no right to do anything you want, Abhira will never be a part of this house, just Ruhi’s mu dikhai will happen. Kajal asks Abhira to make some sweets, its her first rasoi. Abhira asks will they eat it if I make it, I know this marriage is just a complusion, why to pretend things. Armaan goes. She feels hungry. He asks Kajal to go. He says I will come with Abhira, she is scared to come downstairs. She says good, always support your wife. Abhira drinks some water. She goes out. Armaan asks her to come. Everyone gets seated. Dadi asks everyone to start having the food. She praises Vidya. Vidya says I didn’t make this breakfast, Ruhi has made it. Rohit says my six pack and my jawline will leave the house if you cook the food like this everyday. Ruhi smiles. Dadi says Rohit, go and get it. He asks what, really. Vidya and Kajal smile. Rohit gets a box. Dadi gives a toffee to Ruhi.
Everyone claps. Ruhi thanks her. Armaan and Abhira come and look on. Abhira holds Armaan. Dadi taunts Armaan and Abhira. Abhira doesn’t sit. Abhira says Dadi is right, everyone will get uncomfortable if I sit here, I m not habitual to dine with everyone. She goes. Armaan says Abhira… Dadi says food is getting cold, you want to stay with family or not.
Manisha asks who is making noodles in morning. They all run to see the messy kitchen. Abhira makes the noodles. Aryan says I also want to eat noodles. Kiara says its junk food, Abhira is gone now. Abhira turns and sees everyone. She asks Dadi will you have noodles, I will find matching plate and serve you. Dadi goes. Everyone goes. Abhira recalls Akshu.
She cries and drops the noodles plate. Vidya and Ruhi come there. Vidya says you have spoiled the entire kitchen. Abhira says sorry. Ruhi says you go, I will clean it. Abhira goes. Vidya says Dadi is already upset. Ruhi says her life got shattered 2 days back, she needs time to handle it. Dadi says I want Abhira out of here. Sanjay says we will send her to any good hostel. Dadi asks if she comes back to take money, then what will happen. He says she is an ordinary girl, we will file fraud charges on her. Armaan comes and hears this. He folds hands and says I know you are upset with me, our family isn’t stone-hearted, you won’t ask Abhira to leave, right.
Precap:
Abhira and Ruhi dance. Abhira’s saree falls off. Armaan runs to fix it. Dadi scolds Abhira.
Update Credit to: Amena
34 Comments
This poddar family is so cruel. They want to hurt a girl who has lost her mother. They don’t want to provide care and food to her. What kind of goodness can we expect from them?
@Sadia
True. They give Bashan about Sanskar, parvarish blah blah blah….but they don’t have decency to apologize for her mother’s death.This Vidya is another version of Manjari🙄.And fossil dadi should join some shouting club.Whenever her dialogues come,I have to reduce the volume.I want Abhira to wipe the floor with all these Poddars and Goenkas.
Lol just 2 days ago abhira’s mom died nd in precap she is dancing.. This generation was supposed to be non toxic right?
@Surabhi
Did you forget that she is Akshara’s daughter tooo, she has 50% DNA of moving on within weeks.🤷🏽🤷🏽
But too early to judge her, don’t know whether she is forced to attend that ritual.
@Surabhi
I don’t particularly agree on this common notion, that grieving is to be done a particular way. And I’m sure you agree as well.
We all grieve differently.
However, in the case of Abhira, she doesn’t have any safe space where she can be vulnerable and grieve the loss of her mother.
Her survival instinct has kicked in right now, and frankly the Poddars are really selfish with no empathy.
@😎
We all know Akshara and her past.
But for Abhira, she is unknown to her mother’s previous life and her past.
She doesn’t know what happened with her mother, her mistakes and struggles.
She only knew her mother (when we all agreed she had grown spine and self respect)
Also Akshara became all that because of her own traumas and environment, I dont think its genetic.
@Tisha
Totally agree!! Genes doesn’t have any role.Thats what i liked about gen 3 Nav and Abhir’s relationship. I was only defending Abhira using Akshara’s DNA.Then immediately regretted and wrote another paragraph about Abhira’s messy character.
@Surabhi
How I wished this gen would he non toxic, but from looks of it, poddar dadi n her jamaai and her fav. Bahu are top contenders.
Also Armaan & Ruhi – the mess they have created is just!
Her mother was ready to marry her ex before her deceased husband’s ashes cooled 🤷🏾♀️
@😎
Ha i read that paragraph and see you 🙂
Your analysis is on point
Fossil dadi giving Ruhi toffee 🤣🤣🤣🤣.Ruhi is like why is she giving me TOFFEE???…then sees everyone clapping for that, she is like,” WHAT THE f**k!!!!, Never mind just thank her”. Ruhi being considerate for Abhira is beautiful.This is the Ruhi we want, how she was empathetic to Abhir, willing to give up her “complete” family for him.
But major of her personality is all about Armaan Armaan Armaan whom she knew only for a week.
Abhira holding Armaan’s coat while walking to dining room, reminded me of Abhinav 😍 holding doctor’s coat while treating Akshara during their first meet.
@😎
Yess exactly 😁
Totally relate here
Chikara serial. Chikare log. Shut down this serial. Where it started from and what rubbish it’s come upto.
Akshara has a choice, she is in her late 20s or early 30s. She can explain Abhir that she isn’t ready to move on. If she choose to take some time and move on, nobody will judger her. It was like she was desiring to marry Manyu but hiding behind Abhir’s wish.
In case of Abhira, she is 21 years old, just crossed teenage and still in mess. With her mother passing away she is dependent on a stranger whom she thinks he is the reason plus a psycho is on loose to attack her.She is confused,sad,clumsy & hurting.All she wants is someone to hug her and tell,we are there for you. Poddar family is not all ready to feed her, and Armaan is only person to protect her.They keep judging & critizing her & her dead mother openly.
Ruhi, doesn’t have father….her only father figure is Manyu.She was jealous of Abhir,then became good sister to him. Her maatashree died.Gyan mata instead of giving space and time to her,she only made it worse. With Manyu leaving her,Ruhi developed abandonment issues.I don’t know what she saw in Armaan, she is connected and lost all her sensibility & being responsible.She will take her sweet time to see Rohit and decides to give him a chance.
Abhira and Ruhi are not perfect, i would watch them rather than perfect female lead who lives in saviour syndrome and give Bashan to others more than required, only end up messing into others life.
@😎 they apparently want to bring back Abhir somehow for TRP can you imagine these 1600s Poddars seeing Abhir and Abhira have 2 different bio dads…. Their mistake was killing Nav, they should have killed Akshara leaving her daughter with Nav cause Nav would have never told his daughter to get married he would have said your Bua is in US, I made arrangements for you to go to her, hell Nav would have kept relations with the Goenka’s and not raised Abhira like an orphan due to stupidity. They really killed the wrong characters off.
@😎
Yesss 💯
@Jade
Let’s see how they introduce Abhir and come up with a better story overall and not the predictable or toxic one.
There’s lot of scope.
@😎, yeap, agree with your assessment particularly Ruhi and Abhira with their imperfections make more watchable characters.
I liked the part where everyone is complaining about Abhira
While Ruhi gets her, empathizes with her.
And when she tells Vidya, that how Abhira’s life turned upside down and Vidya had that face of realization!
Like how the Poddars are just lost in their own made up world and dont give a damn about others.
Is that how you behave with someone whose mother passed away because of their son?
More so they have chosen to skip that part from their memory looking at their behavior!
Even with Ruhi, they behave nice but it’s little uppar uppar se. They don’t see the depth of struggle of others. Like how could they not see how unattached she is to Rohit.
And how much of rush they did with their fav. Grandson’s marriage.
So as Akshara was a working lawyer, a good one at that,
She must have left some will for her only daughter right..
They could add that angle here..
Leaving all Poddars shocked and spell bound.
Coincidentally, Goenkas family lawyer and Akshu’s lawyer to be same for will.
Poddar get to know only in bits but enough to look at Abhira from diff. And a better angle
That she is not some beggar or “gold digger”
And slowly the mystery unveils itself, but gives enough to Abhira to process it all and not appear stupid and naive infront of that god forsaken family! Both The Poddars & The Goenkas
Ruhi & Armaan better sort their shit!
I don’t get their connection.
Both are smart and sensible.
Like it was infatuation.
Yes, it was good but it didnt not even reach the stage of maturity or love.
And they both are destroying their own lives and their partners lives with their actions.
Today it wasn’t there, but the scenes yesterday and pretty sure will follow, where they share eye locks, how Ruhi heaves up and down and breathes fast, the song, it’s too cringe, considering their predicament.
Ruhi definitely has abandonment issues.
And I think even Armaan has it, he is very insecure because of his family.
Them together will be like boom, not great until they heal themselves.
No.idea the course of this serial, but normally in ITV they won’t really unite, so I hope they show their healing journey, realise their own share of mistakes, heal from their set of traumas and so on.
Also its obvious the ages have been tossed aside
But ideally speaking,
Ruhi is 5/6/7 years older than Abhira.
Abhira is merely 21 and that’s not the age where you are as matured and stable enough.
While Ruhi has had her share of family support and luxury and experience in matter of age and education. She has completed her education.
Ruhi is mature than poddars, definitely. 😂
@Tisha, totally agree. Ruhi and Armaan clearly have abandonment issues due to their family trauma, they need healing I hope it will be done in a mature way. And you are right Ruhi and more mature than the young Poddars and some of the regressive elders of this family.
Rohit is really considerate and kind towards Ruhi, I find it unfortunate that too much emphasis is placed on Ruhi’s disappointment regarding her lost relationship with Armaan. Ruhi doesn’t really like Abhira and she has a bit of resentment for Armaan but she hasn’t remained indifferent, without mentioning the loss of both her parents, Ruhi has just left her family to join a new family, and she feels like she has lost the person she (loves), so she sympathizes with Abhira’s feeling of loss. if Ruhi did not have a history with Armaan she would have been kind to Abhira without reservation because she has a rather gentle nature, I hope that Ruhi will end up appreciating Rohit at his true value to close this love triangle, otherwise his character will be ruined if she continues to cling to Armaan. Vidya should be ashamed that it is her young daughter-in-law who is giving her moral lessons; she has no wisdom. Armaan hasn’t done anything really hateful so far, I know he should have told Rohit the truth but he learned the truth about what happened on the wedding day. If Rohit had learned the truth and called off his marriage and told the truth to the family Armaan was going to pay dearly. even now if something happens to Rohit’s wedding because of Armaan he will end up being alone against everyone, because Rohit is the only one until now who is really on Armaan’s side. If Rohit’s life turns into a nightmare because of his marriage Armaan will still have his share of responsibility. Armaan at least sympathizes with Abhira in the face of her pain, for the moment he remains on Abhira’s side despite her refusal to accept her help he does not try to rush her or be too insistent.
@yeol
Aptly put. So true.
Akshara was so stupid by God. She even made Ruhi’s life hell with her mahanta. This sisters could have been best friends if she told the family about how Arohi’s death happened. Little Ruhi literally needed ak and abhimanyu after Arohi’s death but with her stupid mahanta she left the child with abandonment issues and no doubt abhimanyu was worst in that situation to leave ruhi at her fragile state. Akshara’s stupid decision making both sisters life hell. Abhira hasn’t got any love of family because of her
They completely ruined Ruhi, Aru’s Ruhi would have never married into such a regressive backward household, she would have laughed at them and told both Armaan and Rohit to go try somewhere else. Trampshara just leaves destruction wherever she goes now she’s placed her own daughter in an awful position, she basically spat on Neil and Arohi by not being there for Ruhi like she promised. She could have said Ruhi was playing in the car and the handbrake dislodged that was the end of it she’d be there for her niece but she ran away and that spineless Manyu ran behind her abandoning Ruhi after he made promises to never leave her it was like trampshara turned Manyu against Ruhi when she said Ruhi killed Aru – it was an accident but his b*t*h trampshara just wrecks the lives of everyone around her like a never ending eclipse. Eventually her existence ate up not just Nav and Arohi but Manyu and Abhir. I was just fascinated she didn’t find another Abhi for her Ra. She should have kept herself in Kasauli and never agreed to Mimi
💯 True.Nav would never allow the kids to grow in isolation.Aru would never get Rooh married in this fossil family.I still wonder how this Goenkas allowed in the first place.🤦🏽 They just bought some gifts 🎁 and these people are ready to get her married.
Even now story can progress.They should let Ruhi and Abhira bond genuinely,create some memories and become besties…not because to keep an eye on Armaan.Later on they can bring Akshara’s name.Have some clashes and separate.Bring Abhir in the mix.Make some wrong decisions, Realise their faults.parallelly they grow feelings towards their partners…. exploring Armaan’s mom’s past.Giving some independent stories to all the cousins and family members.
But don’t know,I have a feeling that PH will use jealousy track for Armaan,then Akshara’s truth come out,Ruhi hates even more….one more death, blame game.Score!!! leap with pregnancy 🙄🙄🙄
@Jade @😎 agreed
Yeah, that would be a good track @😎
Why did they Ruhi married in such rush is beyond me.
Why did they get Ruhi married in such rush is beyond me..
Also, Goenkas did not make an effort towards her healing at all.
Didn’t oppose her hatred towards Akshu, which actually causes more harm to herself than to others. No effort to resolve her abandonment issues or insecurity.
Just letting her do what she wants and also coz she is matured enough but in pain.
@Tisha
Exactly!!!!!
When Abhira’s truth come out, Goenkas will fully give attention to her, which is valid though. Ruhi with unresolved issues will feel left out. But Goenkas will ignore that and let her do whatever she want.That will grow and burst out, hence portraying her as a villian.
Usually wedding means they will enquire and talk all the possibilities about kids, finance everything….these people are like one day receive gifts, okay I will get her married to your guy. 🙄🙄
I am counting on Armaan’s request to Ruhi to befriend Abhira… from there onwards they should become besties.
@Tisha, I would think Ruhi would ask about her poppy and Abhir whom Abhira knows nothing about then they will find the death certificates or something and realise that trampshara cheated them out of mourning Abhir and Manyu, fair enough if Manish wouldn’t take her call Shefali would with her magic super futuristic smart phone and she could have at least told the Birla’s their son is dead but she was always selfish. Abhira is going to be disillusioned with all her mother’s stupid actions. I wish they brought back Jai as Nav’s ghost guiding both the sisters because Sharma ji Ki biwi made such a huge mess that Sharma ji was sent back to earth to fix things and guide Abhir back to his sisters… both girls can leave the poddar family after divorcing them and live with Abhir. But what makes no sense is Kairav and Muskaan had no issue with Akshara how come she cut them off again… I feel bad for Kairav one sister died and the other cut him off like he was nothing, Muskaan as well, her Bhaiji’s coming baby restored her happiness, but instead of those relationships we have these 1600s Poddars that no one likes. With the Birla’s as irritating as Manyu was we liked the side characters like Aru, Neil, Shefali and Parth before they were made dumb, Bhairav ji and mountain girl…. But now those relationships are all dead for this 1600s trash. Rajan incompetent Shahi which family is living like the poddar’s today? Is your brain degradation so bad that you are confused about which age you are living in 🤨
The Goenkas made it very clear that they wanted nothing to do with Akshu .It was made clear by suwarna ,in an episode where she talked with Manish in Mussoorie. So Akshu might have reached out but repeatedly rejected by the Goenkas. I doubt whether they even know whether Akshu had a boy or girl !!
The story and writers are stupid.There is no Kairav no Muskaan even for Ruhis wedding !! Instead of having such a lot of Poddars, DKP could have retained Kairav or Muskaan…but no..they wanted to show Abhira all alone in the world ..at mercy of evil Poddars.
Both couples bedroom situation entirely opposite ,look at how Rohit and how Ruhi set everything neatly but Abhira ? Of course she is in miserable conditions now ,still the way she dumped all her clothes …..
I like Ruhi today the way she understand Abhira’s conditions and support her….
I know makers ruined their bonding but before that we could get some moments like Ruhi and abhir 🤔
The way Dadisaa talking its look like even Rohit knew the relationship of both Ruhi and Armaan,he mighty not divorce Ruhi but he adjusts like abhinav way he lived with Akshara after he knew abhi was her Ex husband and Armaan mighty clarity their relationship btw both of them ,he mighty be clean and clear his mind after passing sometime he spent his life with Abhira but not Ruhi 🤔
If story need they absolutely getting back both characters as elders like they introduced Surekha chachi right…..
My doubts too whether Goenkas finds Ak gave birth to boy r girl? How immature behavior of Goenkas to Akshara .or they thinking Abhimanyu and abhir still with her and support her till now ?
At the moment Armaan is the worst character. He is emotionally deceiving his brother,running after Ruhi giving her false hope,not stopping his family from insulting Abhira
Grow a pair,take Abhira out to a hotel or rent a place ..he is a grown ass man…no but he needs to ogle at Ruhi his brothers wife😡
I believe there are more similarities to Ghum Shezada is actually dating / in relationship with girl playing Ruhi