Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 3rd January 2024 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Abhira saying I will go now. She sees Armaan holding sorry banners and putting a tape on his mouth. She says you look good. She opens the bag and sees sorry notes inside. He holds his ear. He removes the tape. He says you can scold me, please don’t leave the house, you have seen it, everyone was fighting, my mind wasn’t working, I m so stupid, I want you to stay here, study and become a good lawyer, if you stay happy then I will be the most happy. She scolds him. He says please don’t leave the house. She tells how she feels when his family insults her. He says really sorry, I told that in anger. She says I m leaving from your life. He says I won’t let you go, I have promised Akshara mam, please give me a chance, I will do as you say, you can punish me. She says perfect, I will punish you.
She sits down. He says my blessings are always with you. She ties his legs and hands with the tape. She says you won’t come after me to stop me now, bye Armaan, our togetherness is over. He stumbles and falls over her. They get up. He asks her to take the scissor and cut the tape. She says I was going from here. He says you won’t go anywhere. She cuts the tape. He says please stop. He cuts the tapes and gets free. She sees Vidya bringing the memory box. Vidya gives it to her. Abhira hugs the box and cries. Vidya apologizes.
Abhira says its all okay now, I got mumma’s box. Vidya says no, I m sorry, I m Rohit’s mum, I didn’t know what happened to me, I scolded you a lot, forgive me, give one chance to Armaan and entire family. Abhira goes. Ruhi asks are you leaving the house, give me one reason, the family isn’t too bag. Abhira says they aren’t good and bad, they have confused me. Madhav and Armaan decorate a bike for Rohit. Vidya asks will Rohit like this bike. Armaan says yes, he will get mad happily, he will like it a lot. Abhira smiles seeing them. She says Vidya is right, I won’t understand relations and family, I have seen just one relation in life. Ruhi says the depth of relations matter. Armaan says don’t scold Rohit. Vidya says sure, I feel you are his parent. He says don’t get senti, smile. Abhira compliments Ruhi. She asks her to get ready, Rohit is coming. She says I know you both have problems, but Rohit is a nice guy, he needs your support. Ruhi says you tell me what did you decide, will you go or stay back. Abhira says you help me in deciding. Ruhi asks what shall I say. Abhira says play rock, paper, scissors with me, mum and I used to play this game. Ruhi asks will you decide this way. Abhira says life takes half decisions itself, if you win, then I will go, else I will stay back, I want to continue this tradition with you. Ruhi smiles. Madhav says Armaan, if Rohit is coming back home, then its because of Abhira, you scold her all the time, keep the marriage and give her wife’s status. Abhira and Ruhi play. Vidya says I also did wrong with her, I want my son and bahu to stay happy, keep the marriage happily. Ruhi wins. Abhira says you won. Ruhi says you got sad, so I was refusing, think well what you want to do. Abhira says why shall I do this alone, you also think about Rohit. Ruhi goes and recalls Rohit. She says I can never forget Armaan, I will try to become Rohit’s friend. Madhav says Rohit would be coming. Inspectors come. Madhav says my son is coming, I will just come. Abhira asks them to sit, she will get water. They say we need to talk to Madhav Sir, its urgent. Ruhi says I gave my heart to Armaan but I will dedicate my life to Rohit. Inspector says news is about Rohit. Abhira says I m his Bhabhi, you can tell me. Ruhi sees Armaan decorating the lawn. Inspectors tell something. Abhira and Madhav are shocked.
He sits tense. She cries and goes to Armaan. She holds him. He asks are you crying that I scolded you, sorry, did anyone say anything to you. She stops him. Ruhi comes and looks on. Abhira says no one told me anything. He asks what’s the matter, I feel tense, tell me why are you crying. She says Rohit met with an accident. Ruhi and Armaan are shocked.
Precap:
Armaan asks Madhav about Rohit. Manish says congrats, Rohit is coming back. Everyone waits for Rohit. Abhira says Rohit’s car fell down the bridge, he is missing. Everyone is shocked.
Update Credit to: Amena
24 Comments
I feel sorry for Rhiot and Abhira in that hateful family I be glad when they solved some of the plots
Am I the only one feel that Abhira is voicing out Armaan’s unsaid feelings??
@😎what did Abhira say ..The wu is not clear.’Armaan s unsaid feelings?’
She says to Armaan, he doesn’t know how it feels to be left out, how a stranger keeps questioning her mother’s upbringing,like always walking on egg shells, nobody is there to talk with her, after all that blames she expected atleast Armaan’s support and even that is not there,etc.
I felt like Armaan’s unsaid feeling because he faced the same in childhood and he didn’t have a liberty to walk away like how Abhira does.He is like burning himself to be relevant in that house.
Btw watch today’s episode bro, it’s kind of good.Vidhya asked for apology…still Manisha is there to ask. And dadi, she won’t in near future.
@😎 I agree Abhira is expressing the feelings she is experiencing, which at the same time are the ones Armaan suffers from and perhaps does not even realise. She is going to open Armaan’s eyes to his, maltreatment by the grandmother and mother he adores.
@😎 yes good episode..I hope Abhira will be Armaans support when she gets to know about how he has to struggle to get acceptance in the house.Even Ruhi was good today.Though she should apply that wisdom in her own life too😆.
Without the negativity it’s nice to watch a well paced episode.
Rr
True…. without much negativity, seems like a good episode.Ruhi is also good, atleast baby steps towards moving on.
“But why is Ruhi still eavesdropping” maybe she was randomly walking or came to talk to Armaan about her decision….donno!!!
Armaan” sorry “worked or not don’t know .But his gentleness with Abhira at the end of episode was sweet. But why is Ruhi still eavesdropping?
Their chemistry still not eye catching …..Armaan-Abhira
SS slowly getting her character tightly…..
So far today episode was watchable no screaming or shouting,blame game……..
We missing Anith rajji and son in law character …..🤔
Just like Akshara her daughter took her important decision like this way…….
Abhinav- abhir Rock Paper Scissors scene r …….👍but here Abhira and Ruhi scene was in her life changing decision how can she so careless …….
If you think from Abhiras perspective, she doesn’t really have alot too use. Besides “kismat” wouldve made Abhira stay anyway
It’s better than Ruhis’ well thought out decision’to marry Rohit ruin his life just to be near Armaan😆
@ yeol 👍 agree !! Why does RS or ITV show men so weak? Even in season 3 Abhimanyu was balancing his life decision between his mother and other women in his life.
It was quite obvious that they would come and apologize to Abhira after confirming Rohit’s return. Abhira should have left and let them solve their problem, so that they understand that next time she will not stay, to take the blame for their family’s problems, that they should think carefully before doing it again. Armaan asks for forgiveness but justifies his actions by pleading that he had lost his reason because of the family atmosphere, he at the same time also justifies his family’s behavior towards Abhira. Even without Rohit, Armaan has already accused Abhira without accepting his mistakes. apologizing means accepting that even in the most complicated circumstances we have wronged someone, when we sincerely apologize, we are not seeking to justify ourselves, we are simply recognizing the wrong committed. @Ticha, you are absolutely right about your analysis regarding Abhira. Abhira doesn’t have the heart to leave, yet she says it how much she was hurt and how much her respect was damaged by Armaan’s family, but she can’t make up her mind to leave as she starts to feel attachment for this family. By forgiving Rohit’s mother so easily, she has created her own torture because Vidya will take it for granted to hurt her and expect to receive her forgiveness with ease every time a big tragedy happens in their home. Armaan is a weak person who will easily fall back into his faults as we have seen, then he will come and say sorry while looking for justification. If it was just small things, small remarks or even hard facts, but Abhira was harassed by the Poddars for no good reason. in front of the entire family Poddar Dadisa threatens her using her mother’s last memories, yet Armaan remained silent in front of Abhira’s torments. Forgiveness isn’t going to fix the situation if Armaan doesn’t clear things up with his family and himself, and that’s not something Abhira can solve for him, because she’ll eventually get tired of it all if the cycle becomes repetitive. . An episode that swept under the rug the errors of the Poddars, an artificial joy under the cover of filth. A Ruhi who declares that she will never forget Armaan but considers herself a sacrifice for Rohit, she only sinks deeper into self-victimization.
@Yeol
“Ruhi who declares that she will never forget Armaan but considers herself a sacrifice for Rohit, she only sinks deeper into self-victimization.”
Agreed 💯
@Yeol as you say old relationships hold more weight and this is a story about how a new relationship establishes itself. In Armaan and Abhira’s case they have made no emotional contract to commitment to each other. Their marriage is a deal where he is offering her breathing room until she is stable enough to make her way in the World on her own. He is also honouring a promise to Akshara to help and keep her daughter safe. That is why Abhira feels insulted at Vidiya and Dadissa’s slights towards her and not let down by Armaan. His expressions of regret at helping her last episode were more about hurt pride that a wound to the heart.
@Rai, this story and that of the journey that Abhira will take alongside Abhira. when I talk about the old relationships I am talking about the future where the relationship of Abhira and Armaan will be established as partners, the relationship where Armaan and Abhira will have already realized their feelings. Armaan’s characteristics do not lie like that of Akshara, he will have to choose sooner or later between Abhira and his family because if the current situations continue to accumulate Abhira will not tirelessly accept the treatment of the Poddars. Abhira’s pride was touched, his respect was violated and Armaan played the role of instigator and arbiter, because if he had behaved differently with Abhira his family would not have been so harsh on her. Armaan promised Akshara to ensure Abhira’s safety, he is Abhira’s protector, as Abhira’s protector he failed to protect her from his own family several times, he even allied himself with them to continue to blame her. If Abhira did not have a strong mind she would have already fallen into depression because she has only just lost her mother and experiencing constant relentlessness is not good for mental health. Abhira trusts Armaan otherwise she would not have listened to his advice, but Armaan has broken this trust several times which is why she feels disappointment towards him her anger towards Armaan is the proof, because she trusts him but he always doubts her and never fully supports her. Abhira will end up not trusting Armaan in the future because Armaan is not a reliable person. I’m waiting to see if he will fully support her in her desire to study and become a lawyer, or if he will kowtow to her family and try to restrict Abhira by asking her to wait for her family’s approval to continue her studies. This will be the last chance that I will leave to Armaan.
this story is that of the journey that Abhira will take alongside Armaan
Armaan is the kind of person that even if he opens his eyes to Dadisa and Vidya’s behavior he will still end up coming back to them, if they promise to accept him completely. Armaan is able to hurt Abhira to satisfy the desires of his loved ones. Armaan will disappoint Abhira even if he finally realizes how the two most important women in his beloved family treat him, because old relationships hold more weight than it seems. I want him to do better as he is the Ml but I don’t think he will succeed.
Armaan never going to loved by podders. Even he won’t going to leave them. He always unpaid servent to podders. Hope after threat to abhira removed she should leave this toxic household.
@Niti, agree with you
@Yeol, @Niti, I think Armaan will break from the Podders but Abhira would change them and lead a unification between him and his family.
Yrkkh’s men become emboldened by their women to cut the umbical cord still tying the man to his mother and family.
Naitik followed Akshara after her ejection from the Singhania household. Kartik too chose Naira over his family, though, his relationship with Manish, his father, was strained before Naira entered their lives and she acted as the family unifier.
In generation 3 Abhimanyu ultimately separates from Ma Manjiri to follow Akshara. While Akshara’s story was about severing extended family ties I suspect Abhira like Naira would create a real family out of the terrorised and disunited Podders. Abhira’s yearns for Rishta, family ties, like her orphaned father Abhinav who once professed for him Rishta and not the gods were of fundamental importance.
I agree on Abhira’s aspirations, I also agree on the role that Abhira is going to play in Armaan’s life regarding his family. I also recognize that Abhira will end up creating a more real bond between the members of this family. But the relationships you cited were not in the dynamic that Armaan shares with his family. Armaan himself will create several obstacles in Abhira’s life, and it is he himself who will prevent Abhira from cutting the cord between him and the unfair treatment he suffers. Abhimanyu was not separated from Akshara because of his family, it was Akshara’s mistake which led to this situation, when he saw that Manjiri was becoming an obstacle he cut the cord on his own. Natik was a good man who had a better relationship with his family than Armaan. he had followed Akshara when she
was expelled var he wanted to support her against her family he was never an obstacle for Akshara, he was a rational man who did not need Akshara to cut the cord for him. Kartik also did not have a dependence like Armaan with his family, he had a certain freedom of mind his problems with Naira were also due to his own mistakes yet he was rather rational even if he was a little childish. Naira calmed the relationship of father and son, but the years they spent sharing tense relationships played a role in guiding him in his decisions, when he chose Naira it was obvious because she gave him more than his family from his point of view. Armaan is different his long years of family relationship will play a role in his decision making, he will make Abhira suffer for them while the other three men did not do that. Armaan will follow Abhira in the end but after a lot of pain for her, Abhira will be a second choice when he will ultimately be tormented that she can no longer tolerate him and his family, Abhira will force him to make choices. Armaan’s family will only understand his value when he is no longer by their side or threatened to lose him permanently. Dadisa is convinced that Armaan will always come back to her, because she knows that Armaan craves family affection more than anything, she knows that Armaan will have difficulty leaving them even if they are toxic for him. She will accept Abhira but only after almost losing Armaan but Armaan will not let that happen easily as he is the type to support his family against Abhira in important moments.
@Yeol, much food for thought in your comment! I agree Armaan’s compliance with his emotional enslavement by Dadissa, and Vidiya holds much pain for Abhira as she brings Armaan into being his own man.
Rai exactly after reading your comments i understand now role of abhira in armaan life..she going to make it stronger like previous generation.