Anupama 10th April 2021 Written Episode Update: Vanraj’s Surprise Call For Samar

Okay honestly is it getting annoying. I understand due to the fact that most of the cast has Covid so they can not progress further with the story, so this is just all filler but I wish during this time they do make progress and actually have good storylines. Let’s first talk about pakhi. All I know is that Pakhi did not respect her mother, always saying that her mom was just a simple house wife and did nothing other than cook and clean. That her mother was uneducated and was just a personal maid to her. Now that Anupama is leaving all she says is now I do not have anyone that will pamper me, or walk around the house with coffee or water for me. Like what! Has Pakhi not learned anything. Also Pakhi when she first learned about the affair, yes she did not speak to her father, but when Vanraj left the house Pakhi yelled at her mother for letting her papa go. She has never once blamed her father for any of his actions, or told his father what he has done wrong. She has either blamed all the mistakes on Anupama or Kavya. Same with ba, the first day that ba found out about the affair she got mad at Vanraj but then continued to blame Anupama for everything. Now that Anupama is leaving Pakhi wants Anupama and Vanraj to stay, forcing them against their will… like I am sorry what. Did Pakhi forget if so let me remind ya’ll that this was a 8 YEAR OLD EMOTIONAL RELATIONSHIP WHERE KAVYA AND VANRAJ WERE GOING TO GET MARRIED. What if the truth cam out after Vanraj and Kavya got married then what? Were they still going to blame Anupama, or will they actually understand that Vanraj is in the wrong. I feel for Pakhi I understand it can be hard… but at the same time she is a 16 year old that just selfish and can not see past her own needs. She wants things to be done her way, and she will not let anyone else be happy unless she is not happy herself. Pakhi is not even a small child to understand what her father did and why her mother is choosing to separate. Pakhi even acknowledged that they treated Anupama with so much disrespect, and they never treated Anupama like a human, only treating her like a maid. But now that Anupama is going away she thinking about the maid that she is losing, talking about how her mom should not separate from Vanraj. But do you actually think that things will change if she comes and stays in that house. Ba also forcing Vanraj and Anupama to stay with each other not realizing that she is only doing more damage than good. Ba always taunted Anupama, talking about she is not good enough for her son. When Anupama wanted to educate herself and when she wanted to find a job both Vanraj and Ba stopped her and Babuji let it happen. Ba always taunted and yelled at Anupama and allowed Vanraj to do the same. Enabling Vanraj actions, allowing him to disrespect his wife every single time. Even after finding out that Vanraj cheated she asked that was it her fault that he got married to Anupama and that if she should have gotten Vanraj married to a higher status girl. Ba does not see her son’s fault only Anupama, or the society. Or the fact that she allowed not only her son, but her grandson, and granddaughter talk or even yell at Anupama like she is a maid. Always allowing her son to yell at Anupama while she stood there in silence, she noticed when Anupama stopped caring for Vanraj, but Ba never saw the pain that Vanraj was causing Anupama. Always willing to blame Anupama and telling het that she is the one that needs to suffer all the damn time. Even when Anupama mother telling ba they hey I want not told from Anupama that this happened that my neighbours told me. Anupams’s mother also saying that you were the first one to tell me that my daughter did something wrong when she broke a cup or a glass, now that my daughter’s house is destroyed you could not even tell me that. Also ba saying that Anupama now always leaves the house and goes out so we thought she told you is just plain dumb, she is so ignorant. Or when Anupama ‘s mother said that if I raised my daughter better instead of Kavya getting slapped Vanraj would have been the one getting slapped. That’s when Ba says what are you saying sons are like gods to which Anupama’s mother says that what son. That it would have been better if my daughter never married your son. Anupama’s mother, Rakhi, Kinjal, Samar saw all the faults in Vanraj and the type of person that he was. How he was always super cruel. Also after finding out about the affair they were able to say that no Vanraj is in the wrong. Anupama and her mother both viewed Vanraj like a god, like he was a saint… but when he made a huge mistake they did not stand for it. Instead they were able to day hey you were wrong. Ba can not do that, she still paints her son to be this nice guy that could not even hurt a fly. That he will do anything for his family when in reality he left his family like 3 times for Kavya. Pakhi and Ba’s point of view on this thing is just absurd… they still think that Vanraj is innocent. It also brings up what Kinjal had said to ba. When ba says that I will not close my eyes for every mistake you make, to which Kinjal says like what you have been doing to your son. Where Ba always kept her eyes closed when her son would make a mistake or even a sin. I do not get why they are trying so hard, because no matter what they do Anupama likes the sound of a Divorce and likes to be happy and free, she does not need that family anymore, she feels more free now. Anupama does not see Vanraj as a husband anymore, she only see’s him like an acquaintance or like a friend now, that husband wife feeling is gone for both of them, Vanraj may have some thoughts but most likely would benefit from this divorce. Both of them are ready to separate, and do not want to stay together. But ba does not see that nor does Pakhi. They see the friendship they are having and sees that as if they are husband and wife and wants to stay together. They really need to stop… instead of forcing them they should maybe just sit down and just talk to each other. Ba, Pakhi, Babuji, Mamji, Rakhi, Kinjal, Samar, and Nandini should all sit down maybe even have Kavya, where they all talk. Talking about what happened when Vanraj and Anupama first meet and what happened after the wedding, and then what happened when Kavya came in to their life. I feel like a lot of Indian shows have so much drama because no one just sits down and talks. If this show was grounded then it would have the family sit doen and talk. Every single time there is a miscommunication there is war happening when half of the things would not have happened if they were to communicate and open up. If there were to just talk and be able to open up to each other half of the issues were happening could have been avoided. If they all sat while Vanraj and Anupama were away, they might have understood what was going on because you have everyone from each side of the family, where there are people that support Vanraj and want Anupama and VAnraj to be together. Then there are people on the side of Anupama that want Anupama and Vanraj to spilt. This is something that I would love to see, because everyone will talk about their feelings and will try to understand what is happening and being able to support and understand each other. Also during this time make Ba and Pakhi realize that what Anupama was doing is okay, and that ANupama is in the right to move on in life. That she is not going to be moving far away that she just won’t be in the house every morning to be their slaves. I feel like they will learn need to learn a big lesson once she is out of that house.
I feel like Vanraj wants to divorce Anupama but does not want to marry Kavya. I want Kavya to take the news that Vanraj and her do not have a marriage date, instead of making it Anupama’s fault that Vanraj does not want to marry her. Instead taking a look at Vanraj and seeing that he does not want to marry her. That the passion he had once for her is now gone. I would like to see that happen since that would be more interesting. The reason being because it will stop her from being this obsessive girlfriend to a understanding, and thinking woman. Where she can see what is happening and logically think what is happening and know how to confront Vanraj. To discuss with him, and to really talk to him if he really loves her or was just using her for lust. This is something that I want to see Kavya doing it because it shows that Kavya has character and having Kavya realizing that it was not Anupama or ba or Pakhi stopping it, but instead it was Vanraj that was having doubt. Where she starts remembering the past, where she remembers how every time Kavya would talked about the divorce, that Vanraj would chnage the subject, that Vanraj was not happy with the divorce notice that Anupama has sent, that Anupama was the one that actually sent the divorce paper. The fact that Vanraj kept their relationship a secret when he “really loved Kavya.” This is something I wish they would do, so then you would actually see Vanraj getting questioned with logics and not whatever happened at Paratoish’s wedding. It was good and statifying to see Kavya getting slapped but Vanraj is also at fault that no one looks it. Lets hope there is a change happening. ALSO STOP WITH THE pregnancy1 PLEASE IT IS ANNOYING, STOP MAKING YOUNG WOMAN JUST STARTING THEIR CAREER!

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