Anupama 13th April 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Kanta tells Anupama that she is the best daughter and Kanhaji gave her the best match Anuj. She further tells her that she will be associated with Shah house forever, but she shouldn’t let that house ruin her happiness; she knows Leela really well, Leela will never change and more than music, there will be fights in the wedding. At Shah house, Toshu returns thinking he its difficult to convince Vanraj, but he has to do it. He tells Vanraj to listen to him once and says they lost the job and will not get one easily as Malvika must have spoilt their name. Vanraj says he knows, they need funding for a business which they don’t have. Toshu says there is one person who can help them. Vanrfaj asks who is it. Rakhi enters and says its her. She says she brought imported fruits for her daughter. She further says he has only 2 options, either give up or accept her offer. Vanraj says she doesn’t have to worry about them.
Kinjal with Anupama returns after vegetable shopping. Rakhi gets angry and says she didn’t give her birth to buy vegetables. Kinjal says even Rakhi doesn’t buy buildings every day, she is just doing daily chores. Rakhi says poor people just comfort themselves with these words and asks when Shahs cannot feed themselves, how will they take care of her and her baby. Vanraj says until he is alive, she need to worry about Kinjal; he will take care of his family like he is doing till now. Rakhi asks how. Toshu says he wanted to talk to her. Vanraj says there is no need to take favor from this woman. Toshu he needs his MIL’s help as nothing will change until Vanraj changes his attitude, he cannot depend on him for long and needs to think about his future and career, it was his mistake that he shouldn’t have joined him as he ruined his career. Rakhi smirks hearing that.
Toshu continues that Vanraj rejected a good job offer and wanted to destroy Anuj and play mind games between Anuja and Malvika, he destroyed everything. He finally says he became a loser like Vanraj. Vanraj stands shocked hearing that. Leela asks if he knows whom he is speaking to. Toshu says he is speaking to a man who didn’t achieve anything in life, whose mummy like doormat wife left him, whose another wife Kavya is showing attitude towards him, who cannot couldn’t handle his job or business, who couldn’t gain respect. He says Vanraj couldn’t handle money, respect, or family and has nothing now; he lost the respect of even being a father today. Rakhi comments truth bomb boom..
Anupama asks Toshu to go to his room as he is not in his senses. Tohsu says he got into his senses now, he thought Anu is a biggest loser, but Vanraj is the biggest loser instead. Kinjal asks him to look himself into the mirror and realize he is the biggest loser, he is tired of venting out his frustration on others and now venting out his frustration on Vanraj; she doesn’t like Vanraj’s few things, but he always thought good for Toshu. Rakhi says if it was true, Toshu wouldn’t have been in this situation; Vanraj is not letting her to help Toshu. Toshu asks what problem Vanraj has if he takes Rakhi’s support. Rakhi says just like a match stick which gets jealous seeing others and burns itself. Toshu says now he got it, Vanraj is jealous of him. Anupama tries to interfere. Toshu warns her not to interfere.
Leela says she will interfere though and says Toshu didn’t nothing in life except beg in front of his MIL. Toshu says he is being humiliated even at home because of Vanraj. Vanraj says since Toshu was born, he loved him the most and preferred Toshu over him, he never thought that Toshu would call him a loser one day in front of everyone; he had issues with his father, but he never misbehaved with his father; he kept Toshu like a prince and took loan to get a best education for him and did his best for his future, but he called him a loser; thanks to him for showing this day. Toshu says in that sense, even he should thank him for raising issues unnecesarily, fighting with Malvika, creating enmiity with Anu, burning the opportunities, and destroying his future.
Anupama tells Toshu that he never respected her, but should respect his father at least. Rakhi taunts that Toshu has gone on his father. Kinjal says Toshu is still sitting in his papa’s lap and should get down as he is no more a kid and is 27 years old now. Toshu says he knows his age. She says then he should act like it, he should stop climbing on papa’s shoulder. He says he will not work with papa then. She says he wants to change the lap and work with Rakhi now. Vanraj asks Kinjal to stop as Toshu is angry now. Toshu says he can clearly see everything in anger and says he doesn’t want to become like her and think about his baby’s future as Vanraj never thought about his children’s future.
Anupama says Vanraj may have not been good with others, but he was always good with Toshu. Rakhi says she is supporting Vanraj even now. Anupama says she is just telling truth. Toshu then blames that his parents never let him prosper. Anupama says one who didn’t want his baby in this world is saying this. Toshu asks her to stop and pleads Rakhi to give him a job. Leela asks him to rub his nose on Rakhi’s feet and humiliate himself and his family. Toshu says he will if he wants to. Rakhi says let her think. Toshu says he really needs it. Rakhi says when superegoistic Vanraj, moral gyaan queen Anupama, and arrogant Leela’s grandson is pleading for a job, she needs to think about it. She further taunts Vanraj and leaves smirking. Leela says she needs to clear this nagin’s poison. Anupama suggests Vanraj to confront Toshu when he calms down, Rakhi was saying same that one’s deeds return, and she suggests to stop his ill deeds or else he will face similar situations in the future.
Precap: Vanraj and Anuj clash. Anuj informs that Anu’s dance academy got a 1-year contract. Vanraj, Leela, and Kavya get jealous hearing that.
Update Credit to: MA
26 Comments
Yeh Toshi kabhi nahi sudhar sakta hai.. Kinjal should actually leave him.. good for nothing.. khud toh kuch kr nahi sakta.. bs dusro ke agee bheek mangta rehta hai.. and If he is so educated he should have easily gotten a job.. lakin nahi isko toh bheek mangni hai and fir bakwas karni hai.. pata nahi kis baat ka itna ego and attitude iss good for nothing idiot mein?
Arre ab baap pe gaya na……. Seriously dono ke dono abhi bhi itni akkad rehte hai jaise ki sara duniya inke chalane se chalta hai….. As if zinda rehke sab pe meherban kar rahe hai ……. Whatever happens this vanraj is a Poisonous Snake who leaves it’s skin time to time but can never remove it’s poison……. As Devika said” Vanraj ke phases aate hai”. Now he got to know how it feels when their kids speak bakwas with parents when this Toshu insulted Anu again n again u never ever interfered in fact he enjoyed…… Makki choos kahi ka🤬
agar kinjal leaves toshu and goes back to his mom so that chudail rakhi will stop bothering the shah family besharam hamesha aa jati hai, vanraj and leela should rot in hell, want to see them as beggars and everyone should kick them leela chudail ke gale mein jooton ki maala daal ke gali gali gumana chahiye and women organization ke thru case daal na chahiye daughter in law torture ke naam pe jail bhejo dono kameeni maa aur kameen beta ko duniya ke saare criminal cases in dono ke naam pe thok do taaki kabhi jail se bahar na aa paaye zindagi bar jail mein sade ye dono devils.
If a bahu can take help frm sasur and sasuma, thn why cant a jamairaja take help of his sasu ma sasur ji. Rakhi ka eki beti he toh woh future me obviously gve her all wealth to kinju and toshu na. Saare moral.gyaan and family ethics only for a bahu, ma, beti…. Kyu kyu
Problem woh nhi
Problem hai ko Paritosh never stand on his own capability, always needing a support, a pity. He always begs.
It’s not about taking help but about intention, everyone knows it well tht rakhi just want entertainment,nd all she do is for entertainment only
@Kin, yes all the moral, gyaan, family, ethics for di/bahu, rest all members are we educated, only they need to trim/tone the wild dil.
Whatever Toshu said to Vanraj was absolutely True….if Vanraj would have kept his ego aside and focused on growing himself rather than getting Jealous with Maan…he would have been at better position. Whereas even Toshu itself is a bigger looser to not understand his MIL tactics to create ruckus in his family. Such a Dumb person, Kinjal deserves much better partner.
kinjal needs a man and not a little boy
anupama needs to go to a mental hosipital
toshu is a fudu
pakhi is a fudi
baa and vanraj need to die from covid
rakhi is awesome tells the truth all the time
samar bapu class
anuj is a money puppet and a loser fudu
Well if I was in place of rakhi Dave I would have done same. Look such a big loser Toshu is🙄. I’m not saying he should be as rich as her but atleast he should work hard and try but no he always needs to go ahead with someone’s support. He is nothing without the support. He is not responsible man.
The story further sees a complete shift because when Vanraj turns to end his life losing his all motivation, this shocking news stops Anupama’s wedding.
i rest my case i did mast week losers
So as per Anupama, Vanraj did selflessly for kids, at least for Thoshu?
Sorry our system doesn’t allow fathers to connect with kids emotionally/selflessly.
In fact, men don’t connect with their parents as well.
Its the duty of dil to connect with all family members and take care of them. And this duty comes without any rights/power/recognition/appreciation/respect.
At our native, as per tradition, men don’t hold their own baby as its a womanly task. They never enter kitchen even to pick a glass of water.
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Vanraj is never a selfless father. He favored Thoshu as he worshiped him, followed him and considered him as hero.
Vanraj fulfilled Pakhi’s good/bad all wishes at any cost as Pakhi loved/praised him deeply even more than Anupama.
We know how badly he behaved with Samar, how he called Anupama/Samar are losers as Samar supported Anupama going against his wishes.
Sorry to say that our system discourage men to connect emotionally with his own family and this is one of the biggest reason why men are susceptible to multiple affairs even after having old parents, wife and kids.
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Men who connect with family emotionally, give care to old parents, actively participate in raising the kids, understand the efforts in managing family rarely get involved in extra marital affairs/riots/substance abuse.
Similarly women who join work force, develop a broader vison, lend hand financially, show case, contribute and get praised for their talent, can have their own independent voice/opinion/existence.
And they don’t create Mahabharat out of petty house hold matters by b*t*hing whole day!
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Men not connecting with family becomes a bigger problem when they are jobless/retire/old, they don’t have anything to do at that time instead of scolding everyone around and becoming upset.
Bapuji/GK are exceptional who could emotionally connect with their parents/kids/dil/grand kids, but this understanding is not real in the men/oldies in our society.
what bull crap ive heard by SUBHU that men dont connect with their parents
what a crap comment SUBHU
are you for real
women are the same all they wish for is to leave home and explore life like MEN do
worst fudu comment ever
Really, how many cups of tea men make for their parents? Let me tell my example, after marriage my MIL daily crib that I don’t cook/serve/clean, where as she doesn’t tolerate hubby in kitchen.
And FYI, me and hubby both are s/w engineers having more or less same salary.
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Before going to work, she expect me to do chores/take care of family, and even after coming from office I am only expected to manage everything with a list of complains that she has to struggle whole day as I am working.
But she doesn’t utter a single word to hubby, he is allowed to freshen up after whole day tiring work.
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Does she allow her son to care for her? I would say no, not at all, she doesn’t want to burden him at all. And no one cares if I am over burdened.
you don’t trust?
If MIL is sick and I am around, I will take care of everything.
If MIL is sick, hubby and father in law are around and I am out, MIL will get out of the bed with 102 fever, take dolo 650, will cook and serve hubby and father in law!
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When she/system doesn’t allow how/why the son will care?
Forget about my life Teesu, Lets talk abt Anupama serial itself,
Vanraj shah is jobless now, still subah subah woh kauve ki tarah Kavya Kavya karta hai for Tea/Tee 🙂
And as Kavya doesn’t listen, Old Baa has to serve tea, cook and clean for Vanraj!
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Are you sure men can care for parents? Tomorrow if Anupama/Kavya/Kinjal/Pakhi will go out to enjoy and explore like men, Jobless Vanraj Shah can’t even order food from restaurant and ailing Baa with 102 fever will take paracetamol as she has to feed Vanraj Shah.
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Women can enjoy and explore like men, then who will deliver, raise kid and care for elder? Huh.
Appreciate the work women does. Just because she does, men can go and explore. So go and explore to help/support/appreciate her.
Remember women are equal provider in human species as money/material are not directly edible/usable.
And @Teesu, you know what I tell my MIL?
I say dear Mom as you don’t allow your son/husband to take your care unknowingly you are becoming dependent on me, though you don’t realize, you are under my mercy.
In their presence and in my absence, you cant even sit peacefully for 2 mins, trust me my father in law keeps her that engaged with 6 times tea and others chores.
Your daughter is married off and comes to our place like a guest, so obviously she cant take your care.
You neither raised me nor have not cared for me or I am dependent on you, still I am the only one who can give you a bit of rest, make you feel relaxed, share with you and can take your care when you need/unwell. So please be nice to me else I am tit for tat!
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Learn to respect your dil, she is an unknown, unrelated entity who has come to stay with you, there is no reason why she will care for you unless you are doing the same.
Subhu we are talkng about the show not about about you or your husband we are botj engineers ooohhh wow and
me me me me me me me me me me me me
i have to do this i have to do that and???
please stop getting sympathy you weak woman you wont get none from me
I don’t want anything from you, I have everything I need, as I earn them.
And you didn’t reply how men connect to parents/kids/family?
Only by earning? Then when women are increasingly earning why the families are increasingly breaking?
Just a question why don’t you speak up and ask your in-laws to divide the chores among them as well. You are software engineer after all. You bring money as well so why not make that point?
Hey Jenny, things are far better now, that is how I started my married life, whatever I did, could never satisfy MIL/in laws.
I developed high stress/bp, started getting panic attacks/insomnia, hubby stood by, tried to understand what makes me lonely in the entire family, why I am not able to connect and bridged the gaps.
Now I stay with both my parents and hubby’s parents, we have different natives, but @our bangalore setup we stay together.
Gone those days when MIL used to taunt about my parents involvement in my life, now both set of parents mingle and bond well, house hosts relatives from both the sides and is always full.
subhu Your comment about can men care for their parents how do you think every man thinks about your comment not good i bet and who are you to say this d
do you speak for every man then??? not
you seem to be very me me me and all about me snd my weak husband sad
Hubby is super powerful, who keeps me grounded. He values relations and cares for his family, me, my family more than me. And that is the only reason we are together. I would never have stayed with some who dominates or doesn’t care.
again me me me me me me me me me
PLEASE STOP SUBHA
Pls ignore her. She is not going to stop. She will start with some different point and conclude with different point. You will get confused and start pulling your hair. Yes and not to forget irrelevant examples of philosophy and Bhagvadgeeta and all me me me me… huh. She will link each and every incident to her own life and give moral gyan just like Anupama..
kavita thanks you for the kind words 👌
as for the serial what i find is that anupama always comes across all with good skills knowledge experience but she always gives in esch time which makes me angry because this is showing wome as weak and guilable to any issue
then you get some people who turn it around and bring their family into it as a example, so thanks for support and making people realise its a show and not a kersonal attack