Anupama 14th December 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anuj emotionally tells Anupama that he loves her, he doens’t want to change her but just wants to say that there is limit to carry stress and burden alone, how can she expect herself to do everything precisely at the right time when even a clock doesn’t work precisely. He asks why don’t she accept that they both need each other’s help for a smooth life, he was just trying to share his wife’s stress, but she is a mother and if a mother feels he did wrong by speaking to her daughter, he is worry for that. She asks what is he doing. He says if she thinks he is increasing her problems, then he is sorry and he will not interfere between her and her children from hereon. He leaves from there, leaving Anupama more upset. Anuj walks to her room upset. They both recite a poem describing differences between them creeping up for the first time. Dil Hai Ke Maanta Nahi.. song plays in the background.
Pakhi does stress eating recalling Adhik leaving her and her seeing him smilingly chatting with dimple. She fumes that he didn’t like her social media posts and liked Dimple’s posts instead, he didn’t talk to her since yesterday and its not affecting him at all. She fears he will forget herand and tries to call him repeatedly and thinks if he blocked her. Vanraj passes by and watches her anxious behavior. Adhik prepares a gift for Pakhi and plans to take her on a long drive. Anupama looks to little Anu’s room and recalls Anuj asking her if she filled little Anu’s school form. Little Anu says she finished her homework. Anupama says she didn’t finish her homework though and apologizes for not filling her school form because of which she Little Anu couldn’t attend school trip. Little Anu says its okay. Anupama says she can’t compromise on her children’s happiness and promises to take her on a trip tomorrow. Little Anu excitedly says she will pack her bag then. Anupama thinks she failed as a mother and wife today and should work on keeping them happy.
Anuj is unable to sleep. Anupama walks till the door and then backs off. Anuj eagerly opens door when he hears door knock but then finds Ankush who comes to give him a file. Anuj hugs him emotionally. Ankush asks if he is fine. Kavya notices Pakhi upset and tells her that they can’t see her in this condition, they scold her as they love and care for her. She talks about having patience in life and relationships and gives an example of slow cooking. She suggests her to learn from her and Vanraj and Toshu and Kinjal’s mistakes and patch up with Adhik, suggests to call Adhik and apologize before its too late and try to be equally responsible in relationship.
Anupama enters Anuj’s room, notice Anuj asleep, and hugs him from behind. Anuj opens his eyes. Anupama says I love you and sorry and she means it. Anuj melts down when her tears fall on his check and hugs her back. Tum Pyar Ho Hamare, Dil Daar Ho Hamare.. song plays in the background. Anuj says he didn’t like and it hurt him a lot. Anupama repeats surri surri/sorry. Anuj says whenever he sees his Anupama in trouble, a calm and composed Anuj gets violent and feels like breaking the whole world with his hockey stick. Anupama says she is a mother and can’t stop worrying for her children even if she reaches a moon. Anuj says he understands or else he wouldn’t have married her, he knew that he is marrying a mother and he doesn’t want her to stay away from her children and in fact he told her to visit Shah house for her children, but now he wants her to draw a line.
He says every relationship should have a line of control and they didn’t cross a line of control of expectations and hence they are together now and love and understand each other more than before. He says she should draw a line for everyone; its not her mistake that girls are taught from childhood that they have to handle everything, she can’t change her habit of 26 years, but should slowly change this habit. He says he is not asking her to back off from her responsibilities and shouldn’t change even for him or anyone else, but should learn to stop controlling for her own sake. He describes how mothers want to control kids alone instead of letting grandparents and others also control them, etc., and says he doesn’t want his Anu to forget herself as she is not a machine or god and should start living for herself for god’s sake.
Precap: Pakhi tells Adhik that she had come to apologize him, but he seems to be happy with Dimple. Adhik angirly says she should truly apologize and not show her attitude. Anuj shouts if they want to fight, then they should get out of his house and do it. Adhik tells Pakhi that he thinks they need a break.
Update Credit to: MA
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where is yrkkh update today ?
now please they should show a nice Christmas party along with cherishing new year
Finally finally it’s pakhi’s turn 🕺🤳💥
Pakhi will never reform as long as vanraj and ba are there to back her.
very true
See
As I said Adhik will leave Pakhi now since he got what he wanted since beginning .
Also Pakhi Earned it.
I am guessing you didn’t read the written outline of the show above.
Adhik bought Pakhi a gift and is going to take on a long drive to patch things up.
Well done to the actress who plays Pakhi as nobody has ever really liked her
so it tells me she is doing a great job.
Vanraj is going to eat his words one of these days it’s amazing the children that he loved so much. Pakhi and Paritosh were meant to be the great ones. Have turned out to be a bunch of losers. Amazing these were the words that Paritosh and Pakhi used for their younger brother and mother. And would say that as their mother served them breakfast. And Vanraj is the reason for this and deep down he knows it.
Whole episode was about dadima.
Rondupama bunny boiler
Anuj jhoru ka gulaam milf lover puppet
Kinjal wow what a babe
Barka wow what a babe
Kavya wow what a babe
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A spoilt brat is a spoilt brat is a spoilt brat for which only over-indulging parents are responsible so only they should suffer most. For every thing/person there is a limit and a line to be drawn. Anupama needs to have her a*s e kicked for being too interfering and not knowing where/when to draw a line. Vanraj is nothing but a dickhead and Kavya should learn to stop pandering to spoilt Pakhi. Only when the pandering by adults stops will that vile girl start facing reality. If the grown ups do not change their approach no one can expect Pakhi to change her behaviour.
Pakhi is also trying to patch up but is suspicious about Adhik and Dimpy… She is not all wrong…At least she is not dumb like Anupama who couldn’t figure out her husband’s affair for whole 9 years…they both can sort out the issue only if they can talk honestly.
Anupama wont let the break happen. It will last maybe an hour, but she will talk to Adhik and make him forgive and manao Pakhi.
Lesson to be learnt, do not live in a joint family. Problems stem from the home.
Adhik is going thru his karma. He was planning to use Pakhi to get the kapadia empire. Now he is paying for it even if he really loves the girl now. Pakhi wanted the life of a socialite so another case of karma. How can people believe they can get away with anything! Vanraj did not want Anuj to be a father to his children. Then when his brat of a daughter eloped and got married, he asked Anuj to take the responsibility of the wedding and kicked her out of his house. Now he again doesn’t want Anuj to interfere with his children. Make up your mind man. What do you want! How stupid can you be not to see what your daughter is all about and believe her blindly! Anupamaa is becoming unbearable. Stop stop stop interfering in others life and take care of your own. You got a gem of a husband and the cutest girl, see their goodness and count your blessings. Give a chance to those devils to realize what they are doing wrong and hopefully correct themselves. You are going to be blamed for anything you do, anyway. So at least, do what brings you joy. The shahs don’t deserve you, are you ever going to learn that? Baa is poisonous. This message was for the writers if they care. This serial is supposed to be entertainment but actually it’s a headache. Way exaggerated drama.
The writing need to change badly. Vanrajs character is getting boring and it’s the same thing over and over again. Plse change something in leela and vanraj characters. In reality if paki was doing what she is doing in anupama she be disowned and left to fend for herself. This 3 characters need to get reality check. Writing need to be really because the issues are really and the writing is a let down.
Anupama is baby sitting unruly adults ! those adults who don’t listen/love her, blame/hurt her for everything!
There are 2 ways by which you can help a wounded animal/person
1>One has to listen/love/support to you. Or 2> You can overpower and do something for them.
Otherwise its not easy to do anything.
As Anuj says don’t close the door of your heart, keep praying for them but apart from that you cant really do anything for the adults who blame/hurt you, getting involved with them is detrimental for self.
You will hurt/exhaust/depress yourself without any result.
They are breaking the law of family to love/support/contribute.
So stay away form them and keep praying for them.
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Sadly you never look that powerful/strong who can really help anyone.
Rather just like Anuj we also feel you need help.
Have seen ravivaar with star parivar, half of the time Anupama closed her eyes out of fear/praying and looked stressed.
Play sportively. We are playing to enjoy. Do your best. Enjoy the moments. Have faith that everything happens for good.
But you take a lot of stress even while playing! what to tell about other sensitive matters !
Take life easy, keep the communication/mind/thinking open, many things will be resolved.
If not Pakhi/Baa/Vanraj/Thoshu keep talking to Adhik/Anuj/Bapuji/Samar/Kavya/Kinjal, things will be better.
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As @Why said, Pakhi is having her own concern.
She is not all wrong.
She is suspicious
Has her own reasons to hate chores/care as its not appreciated. She has always seen Anupama being treated like a maid for being caring. Nobody has ever told her that these are important, she has never done it.
If she needs domestic help/appliances, fine, get her those.
Everyone has it even you also have it. Get her those and tell her to manage and get better in managing.
Try to listen to her may be things will be fine.
Don’t binge, take deep breath in/out.
If Pakhi is not listening, talk to Adhik, may be figure a way out to maintain a distance from Pakhi and see what way she is heading.
Seeing your misery of blind trust on husband, she has started suspecting from beginning.
Try to address these.
Your me me me started again as usual.