Anupama 14th September 2021 Written Episode Update: Paritosh Insults Anuj Kapadia?

I’m bored, so I wrote this…
Paratoish is really just Vanraj 2.0, and Kinjal made a big mistake marrying him. Paratiosh allowed Vanraj and Kavya to stay in the house, and when Kinjal questioned him he said that his father is allowed to do whatever he wants. When Anupama wanted to work, Paratoish and Kinjal also talked about this… Paratoish said that his mom likes being a house maid. Or when Anupama wanted to drive, Paratoish said that Vanraj and Ba would never allow that to happen. It shows how they all lack the idea that Anupama is her own person. While on the other hand Devika, Anuj, Samar, and Kinjal see Anupama as her own person, where she has her own identity. This is something that the rest of the family fail to realize. Paratoish, Ba and Vanraj believe that their view on Anupama is correct, that she loves being a house maid and loves to be submissive. Anupama was forced into this lifestyle, when Anupama wanted to be educated and work no one sided with her, even when she wanted to teach at school she was not allowed and got fired. Paratoish, Vanraj and Ba always see Anupama as a free maid, and when Anupama stopped conforming to that they are all upset by that. Paratoish feeling that he has a say in Anupama’s and Anuj’s friendship is laughable since he never showed the same energy for his own. Him not telling Anupama about Vanraj and Kavya’s relationship or his relationship with Kinjal shows that he has little respect for his own mother. Him telling Anuj that he needs to leave, shows that he can’t handle anyone in Anupama’s life besides him, Vanraj and the family and no one else. Paratoish also feels horrible and gets angry when someone insults Rakhi Dave but if the same is done to Anupama Paratoish doesn’t care, instead he will help the person to insult Anupama. So at this point I hope Paratoish gets what he deserves for once, PAIN!
Vanraj being jealous is laughable. The thing about his character is that he will never grow up. When the audience is led to believe that he has changed and that he has been reform he then switches sides super quickly. Or even being manipulated into once again hating Anupama due to his poor mind. The reason why he never changes is because no matter what he does, no matter what his actions are, it will always be forgiven. His actions can cause the family to break but Ba, Paratoish, Pakhi will always be there to support him. Vanraj always has the upper hand because he has a support system that trusts him blindly, and now he has an obsessive wife who will support him no matter what. Even when Babuji was not talking to him, he always had someone in his corner that would support him and would fight for him, so his ego kept getting fed. Adding on, Vanraj believed that he would have been able to isolate Anupama so she would serve him 24/7 while having Kavya serve him at work. When that broke he lost something, he did not lose his wife, he lost the woman that he treated like a live-in maid, and that would do whatever he says and be able to treat her like a punching bag. Anupama finally breaking and leaving him showed him that he is not everything. Vanraj seeing Anupama feed another man, seeing Anupamaj not rely on Vanraj’s help or support, seeing Anupama not following Vanraj’s orders, seeing Anupama success grow while his is on a stand still, and the last one, seeing Anupama make her own decision without Vanraj’s help or consent. Vanraj is so used to Anupama being there holding his hand and always following his orders that now he feels like he is entitled to Anupama’s life but Anupama is not having it. Anupama constantly puts him in his place and ensures that he stays there. Vanraj’s jealousy is going to be there no matter what you say to him because Vanraj believes he is entitled to Anupama. In the previous episode when Devika was talking about the guy that was just in love with Anupama, Vanraj was jealous and had to get it confirmed by Anupama that she loves Vanraj and only him even though he was cheating. That is his entitlement that he is showing, but Anupama putting him in his place and showing that she does not have him in his heart breaks him. Vanraj misses the 24/7 care and attention Anupama would give to him. Adding on all those insults that were given to Anupama are now used against him… The first one being that Anuj looks younger than Vanraj, remember that he insulted Anupama for her looks. Anupama makes a cake for Anuj and says everyone loves it when people remember and celebrate their birthday, Vanraj remembering he forgot Anupama’s birthday and instead celebrated Kavys’s promotion. His aggression and toxicity is the reason why his downfall started, Anupama finding out about the affair was the stepping stone to his failure. Vanraj telling Anupama these things forgetting the type of person he is. Where he cheated on his wife and married his side piece that he never wanted to marry in the first place.
Kavya wants to use Anupama’s friendship with Anuj to build her own relationship with him and be able to get whatever she wants. Already having nicknames for him, wanting to build a relationship with him so then she can get whatever she wants. Only respecting GK because he thought he was Anuj’s father but realizing that he was not, she started to disrespect GK. Kavya’s selfishness is getting stronger and stronger because everything that she wants she is currently getting. Her entitlement just like Vanraj is what makes her act the way that she does. How she can say to Anupama that she (Kavya) does not have a friendship with Anuj so until that friendship happens she wants to use Anupama. When Kavya talked about her points, and projects were great and that Anupama’s were just terrible shows Kavya’s over confident, and egotistical. Kavya’s attitude got her fired at her old job, and what made the review lady give bad ratings. Kavya’s downfall will be Anuj because Vanraj is overwhelmed and is too bothered by Anupama’s and Aunj’s friendship to see anything, and Kavya really does not have a good relationship with Anuj for anything good to come out of it. So it will only bite her in the ass.
As for Anuj and Anupama’s relationship, I am not mad about it. Anupama just got out of a relationship, she just got out of a toxic relationship but she is still in a toxic household. It takes time to heal, yes Anupama is shown to be strong but there are moments where she feels weak and alone. I feel like seeing Anuj and Anupama’s friendship is so much better. Anupama forgot who Anuj was, don’t forget Anupama forgot to live her own life. Building Anupama’s and Anuj relationship is better, having them work on this friendship is part of life. Where Anupama only had Devika, now she has one more person. This is Anupama’s next life lesson, she is able to maintain and grow a friendship with someone. Friendship may seem like a small relationship but it is an important one. I also wanted Anuj and Anupama to just fall in love, but the thing is that both of them don’t need each other. Anupama does not need Anuj to survive, and Anuj does not need Anupama to survive. They both can live on their own, and don’t need each other and that’s the thing. When you marry someone you marry them because you “WANT” them and not “NEED” them. That is what is great about this relationship, Anuj can see that Anupama does not need him in her life, that she does not rely on him. While Vanraj always would make the point that Anupama always NEEDS Vanraj. Vanraj and Anuj’s thoughts on Anupama shows the difference in their mentality and what they see in Anupama. Vanraj sees a woman that is only good for cooking, and to be used, while Anuj sees Anupama for a kind loving woman. Vanraj sees woman as a tool, while Anuj sees Anupama as a person. This is shown by how Vanraj always talked about how Anupaama can only cook and clean while Kavya is attractive (To Vanraj) while for Anuj he looks at their personality and understands what their wants are. Vanraj still does not know the importance of Anupama because right after getting a divorce from Anupama he married Kavya. Vanraj and Anupama never really lived apart, they always lived together, before and even after the divorce. Even when Vanraj left to live with Kavya, he still came to the house on a regular basis, spent every occasion with them, constantly eating what food Anupama had made, getting all of the love and attention from the family. Anuj knows the importance of Anupama and family because he lost everything and only has GK. Anuj loved Anupama with his whole heart and selflessly, and when he went to propose and saw Anupama happy with this marriage he left because he saw her happy and that was enough for him. Anuj values Anupama, and treats her like a human being which Vanraj really never does. This friendship that is being created between Anuj and Anupama will be the tipping point for Vanraj to really see how he messed up in life, and how he took his old life for granted.
Rakhi never actually wants anyone to succeed whether it’s Anupama or The Shah family. I used to think that Rakhi Dave was a fun character that really showed the mirror and she still does but her character went from being blunt and honest to just whatever she is now. Rakhi Dave used to actually tell the truth but what put me off when she started to question Anupama’s character with Kavya to get Kinjal to live in that penthouse. It really shows that even after learning what Anupama has gone through she still really does not understand. Adding on her character used to point out the truths but now she is doing the very thing all of the Villains in this story does, lie, scream, and argue. Rakhi Dave was never the villain, it was always Vanraj and Kavya. Rakhi Dave on the other hand was an anti-hero, or just a side character that really brought joy and entertainment. But nowadays her perfect character and her character arc seems really flawed. Any growth she went through was destroyed and any changes or relationship she had with Anupama seemed to be ruined. It just seems that no one knows how to use Rakhi Dave correctly anymore because she is not the main interest anymore, that is Anuj. Rakhi Dave seems to be this very unique and different character but she really is a simple character. Her whole point is to show the truth, to show the mirror, or to make the person look into the window of truth. Then her mirror and window of truth started to take off to hurt other families to insult someone so much to cause them to break down. Rakhi Dave’s fun personality is not there anymore, watching Rakhi Dave on screen is not entertaining as much. Though if her character arc gets better, and she becomes the same old Rakhi Dave, and only brings out necessary drama then I will be happier with that.
Ba can forgive her son but can not stand Anupama’s and Anuj’s friendship is something I did expect. It’s the same thing with Vanraj, Paratoish and Pakhi. Where they do not see Anupama as a family member or a human, they see her as a maid that pays bills and takes care of them. I know from the old episodes Ba has this old mentality, where Bahu are just there to serve their family and just accept what their in-laws give to them. Adding on Ba always supported Vanraj, when he kicked her out, when Paratoish engagement got ruined, blamed Anupama for Vanraj’s accident. Ba never really saw Anupama more than a maid. Yes Ba is changing but everytime she makes 1 step towards progress she takes 10 steps back and that has been her character for a long time, just like Vanraj. Ba may seem to like Anupama over Kavya but due to Anupama’s action. Whenever something needs to be done Anupama has to do it, if something is wrong Anupama is at fault. Yes Ba stands up for Anupama but the moment Ba needs to tell Vanraj is wrong she won’t be able to do it. Ba is someone that will take time to understand this relationship because remember what happened between Vanraj and Kavya. Ba is still a character that is flawed and has a lot of growing to do, that Anupama is a grown woman and can make her own decisions.
Anupama… Anupama is not a bad character, it is just that she acts too devi or Maahan like. But after some time she has actually found her voice and it is amazing to see. For once Anupama will speak up for her mistreatment and actually will yell when she is being hurt. I just feel like Anupama now needs to draw a clear line between her relationship with Anuj and her family. She tells Vanraj that even though there is nothing going on, he (Vanraj) can”t really say anything because they are no longer husband and wife, that he has no rights to her life. I feel like this line gets blurred every time something happens, but I hope Anupama keeps that line there and shows the family that line whenever something happens. I feel like that line should be her boundaries, that should be her limit. That she tolerated so much already she won’t tolerate anymore. This will be good because a part of growing and maturing is your boundaries, and where the line is so people do not cross it. Anupama may be too goddess-like but I think that is how she had to shape herself, having to deal with Vanraj, Ba, Paratoish, and Pakhi that don’t really respect her. Her dialogue is a way that she expresses how she feels or really how she reacts. The reason why I am saying this is because on the day of Vanraj and Kavya’s wedding, Kavya went to Anupama to show the dress. Anupama gave a back story, showing Kavya how much she does not care. Anupama’s long speeches are who she expresses herself and how she gets her point across. I just hope that this time Anupama rips Vanraj a new one, where she reminds Vanraj Shah what he did.
I hope Devika stays in Anupama life, where Devika is there to support Anupama. I feel like having Anupama friend actually help her would be great cause it would be a breath of fresh air.

this father son team is so disgusting,😡😡😡
i really hope and that hopefully soon Kinjal will divorce and go back to Rakhi.
Baa without words has two hands sits with her rear end on the swing, why can she not oil the swing herself?😡
Vanraj should go to the eye doctor because looks ridiculous a man his age with half closed eyes.
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The Anuj-Anu dream scene was really cute.😍🙈🧡
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Precap-disgusting,😡😡😡

Plzzz anu sign the contract papers.. now it’s your time to fly…