Anupama 16th November 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
GK suggests Leela/Baa that a mother has her house, a wife has her household, and a man has a pride of running the house, hence she shouldn’t snatch her husband’s pride or else he will shatter. He fulfilled his responsibility of proving them food, they get a dry roti with hard work and ghee-laced roti with faith, he worked hard and left rest on faith; he fulfilled all his responsibilities loyally, so she should stop humiliating her husband. Baa shouts being a bachelor how will he know what kind of husband Hasmukh//Bapuji is. GK says he knows what kind of a father Bapuji is seeing Dolly and Anupama and what kind of a father Baa is seeing Vanraj. Baa shouts she doesn’t talk to servants. Anuj warns her to stop humiliating GK. GK says when this woman is not in her senses and can insult her husband, why should they bother.
Anu pleads Baa to vent out her anger on her and spare Bapuji. Anuj says same. Kinjal says children learn from elders and what if she similarly mistreats Toshu. Samar asks what if Kavya mistreats Mr Shah. Toshu asks Baa to stop as its getting too much. Dolly confronts her next that she will not keep quiet if her Bapuji is insulted more. Baa says she is not her daughter anymore, so she should shut up. Sanjay speaks next, and she shuts even his mouth. Mamaji tries next, and she slaps him and warns that he is born to forget and not confront. She shouts at everyone to shut their mouths. Mamaji says people will spit on her, he will forget that he had an elder sister. Baa gets out of control and breaking things around shouts everything belongs to her. Kavya thinks good this oldie is breaking things before she could take over karkhana.
Baa then orders Bapuji that there will be her role on her house from hereon and he will just nod yes on her order like a puppet without opposing her and her son’s decisions. She drags his hand and orders that he will not meet Anu from hereon. He frees his hand and says he will not return to that house, what will she do taking a living dead body home, there shouldn’t be a place for him at house if he is bad father and husband. He breaks down and says he gave her respect and love for years and didn’t realize that she values money more than love; he will stay on street, beg in temple, polish shoes, but will not stay at her house. He falls down crying. Anu and others rush to him and console him. Pita Se Hai Naam Tera.. song plays in the background.
Baa yells at him to stop his drama and return home. Anu warns him to dare not speak a word against Bapuji now or else she will cross her limits. She then consoles Bapuji that she is lucky to have a father and FIL like him, his daughter is still alive to care of him. Baa yells if she will become a son now. Anu says being a daughter is enough, if a son is pride and lineage, daughter is dignity and life, she will take Bapuji to her home. Bapuji agrees. Toshu asks Baa to stop Bapuji. Baa shouts let him go when he doesn’t value her, they all should go to hell. Anu with Anuj lifts Bapuji and says she made mistakes before and sin today, she will have house and karkhana and will be very wealthy from today, but will be most poor in the world. They all except Kavya and Toshu take Bapuji from there. Baa shouts get out. Anu takes Bapuji to her house. Anuj tells her that one who don’t have parents can understand parents’ value. Anu says she cannot see her Bapuji shatter and wants to get back his dignity, which he has right on; he gave her respect till now and she will get back his lost smile again.
Baa swinging on her swinger remembers Vanraj leaving house and shouts let everyone go away. Kavya remembers Vanraj’s warning that he will not spare whoever troubles Bapuji in her absence, so she has to calm down Baa and bring back Bapuji home before V returns. Anu makes Bapuji lie on bed and breaks down seeing his condition. She says Bapuji always says that a house needs both sunlight and shadow; if a mother is shadow, father is sunlight; her sunlight is shedding; Baa humiliated everyone; she would have killed her instead of humiliating Bapuji so badly.
Precap: Anu tries to cheer up Bapuji but fails. Mamaji leaves Shah house cursing Baa that her days will be dark from hereon. Kavya tells Baa that they should sort out things and bring back Bapuji home before V returns home.
Update Credit to: MA
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Ba talks about the fact that Babuji is a bad father, and a bad show really shows how Bad does not care for anyone but her son. Ba does not realize that she was living a comfortable life because of Anupama, Babuji, and Vanraj. Babuji stayed quiet and stayed silent whenever Ba complained about Anupama or even when she (Ba) taunted Anupama. Babuji stayed Silent even when Ba would ruin her and their family’s reputation. Anupama held the family together, so ba did not have to take care of the kids, or even her own (ba’s) daughter’s kid. Ba only stayed on the swing constantly taunting, complaining but getting food that she loves. That Anupama would do everything at her (ba) service, always making sure that everyone was comfortable and on top of that would take the blame and never spoke back. Vanraj has made money but he has a lot of faults. Ba only looked after herself and her son, and now that she is losing everything because the one that took care of everything left she is trying to get whatever she can grab and hold. Ba still believes she is in the right because for her it’s her son who is everything to her, it is her son that created her life. Ba celebrates every occasion with her son, Ba treats her son like a holiday, Ba constantly forgives Vanraj of his mistakes, Ba always prioritizes his son, she never valued someone else’s love, someone else’s emotions, someone else’s kindness, or someone else’s actions. Ba always looks out for her son, no matter how much damage she creates, as long as it does not hurt Vanraj, Ba does not care. Paritosh was right that Ba does not think before she speaks, she lets her anger get the better of her. Ba does not really get why people are siding with Anupama and not her lovely son who did so much but lacks the understanding that you can not buy your family. Money does not mean a whole lot when you ruin your relationship with everyone and when they are able to leave without your money. Ba only sees money with value, that money is what brings happiness and allows families to stay strong. Forgetting that even with money Vanraj cheated. Ba seems to point out everyone else’s fault but seems to magically forgets her own deeds. Ba really insulted everyone thinking that it will bring the family together and get them to stay with her. I feel like Baa felt like her son’s house was falling apart because of Anupama, and when everyone sided with Anupama and not her son it broke her, driving her insane and rude. She believed that if she would scream the battle she had been through and point out the bad in everyone else, they would realize their mistakes and go back with Leela and start to work under her control. But what Leela forgets that Anupama is not in the wrong here, Vanraj is. Vanraj was the one that treated Anupama poorly, calling her names, taunting her, emotionally abusing her and then ends up cheating on Anupama. Even after the entire family telling him that if he does not want to marry Kavya that he (Vanraj) should not marry Kavya. Vanraj saw what happened when he married Kavya that everyone close to him left him to be with Anupama (including ba). Yet he still married Kavya, and now when this whole situation with Anuj happened, and when Vanraj and Ba started to break Anupama’s character down and Anupama left everyone in the family sided with Anupama with some exceptions like Ba and Paritosh. Anupama was not in the wrong before and not in the wrong now, the people that were wrong before were Vanraj, Ba and Kavya and they are still in the wrong. The only thing Anupama did wrong was take all of the hate, negativity, and abuse saying and thinking that it would be for the better of the family, Ba, Vanraj, and Kavya believed that they would be able to control what Anupama does and what she does not do, they she would always stay under her control. They do not mind succeeding but it has to be under their control, so her being with Anuj was a big no no for them because with Anuj, Anupama would be out of their control. Ba uses the term mom for Anupama when she wants Anupama to listen to her, but Ba never really considered Anupama as a daughter ever. Ba tries and manipulates or gas lights her way to get things done her way, and even by that no one is listening to her she then decides that it would be better if she would go on the offence, by screaming, shouting and insulting which only bit her in the ass. When Babuji had that heart attack and Anupama took him to the hospital, Ba said that all of the things that the son should have done Anupama did, but now she is screaming MERA BETA! When her son is the whole reason why this is happening in the first place. But Ba can not see that, Ba can not actually see the sacrifices Babuji, and Anupama made. Adding on Ba could not see the love, affection, time, patience, services both Anupama and Babuji gave to this family. Even after finding out about the affair Ba blamed Anupama, if Anupama was up to Vanraj’s standard then this would have not happened, asking Anupama to forgive Vanraj so they can live like before even though Anupama has faced the biggest lie and had a very traumatic situation. But Ba wanted to secure Vanraj’s family and happiness completely forgetting the one that really ended up in pain here was Anupama but everything she knew and loved broke apart. Adding on Ba took away the rights she had on Samar because she was not part of the Shah family and was an outsider now and has no rights to discuss family matters at Samar’s engagement to Nandani. This really shows how she views family, and shows how she sees Anupama. Ba talked about how she took care of the Babuji family, but then does not see all the effort that Anupama put into building her own family. Vanraj yelled at Anupama and Ba yelled at babuji showing truly they are this mother and son duo. Ba and Vanraj can really only think about themself and as long as things happen on their terms then only they will be happy. Babuji and Anupama stayed quiet the entire time, hoping their silence brings peace, and allows their family to grow and at least bring happiness along the way. But the problem is that Babuji and Anupama’s silence only boosted their ego that they can never do any wrong, adding on Ba and Vanraj felt unstoppable, but the moment everything came crashing down their ego took a big hit. Ba told Vanraj that Ba is always the one that shuts people’s mouths up and she couldn’t because she was in the wrong. Ba believed that she was right, and Babuji and Anupama never told either Ba or Vanraj that they were in the wrong, creating these monsters. Now that Babuji and Anupama who tend to be quiet are now speaking up for themself and actually started to take actions when they are pushed Ba and Vanraj can not handle that because they seem to always believe that they are in the right. They take Babuji and Anupama standing up for what’s right as disrespect, or even attitude, forgetting that they are the ones with the biggest attitude.
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Though I feel like this track is a bit unnecessary, at the same time Anupama does not tackle just women’s problems but problems in society as a whole. And this is something that needs to be talked about and dealt with. The thing that I can not wrap my head around is how Ba truly seemed like she loved her husband and her family but today it felt like she was just acting or was just staying nice to keep vanraj happy, and that is what is super upsetting in this case. This shows the lack of understanding that ba has. Ba only cares about her son, which is a boy that is supposed to make the family proud and her own blood. While Babuji does not care if it is his own blood but instead treats humans as humans. Anupama accepted Kinjal as this working woman, Anupama encouraged Kinjal to continue her education and her job, and as for Nandani, Anupama accepted the fact that she can not have kids and is fine and okay with that. Anupama treats people with respect, she does not treat them unfairly, the only time she will show her wrath is when someone talks horrible about babuji. Babuji has a bond, but they are able to point out mistakes in each other and help each other grow, and with Anuj and Anupama. Though it is a one sided love, there is still a beautiful friendship where they both are willing to take care and understand each other. Where Anuj can give Anupama a reality call about her family, but at the same time does not disrespect Anupama’s wishes. Anupama was able to see the love but accepted the fact that she may not be able to love Anuj back and just opted with friendship. While Vanraj and Ba relationships are about respect and hierarchy (like who is on top of the chain and controls everything). Where in Anupama’s relationships there is equality, and mutual respect, in Vanraj and Ba’s case it’s truly the opposite. Where Vanraj and Ba want to be respected but won’t give any respect, adding on for them someone always needs to always be in control of the relationship, and one the one that is higher in the relationship makes the rules and controls the other person. Where in Babuji, Anuj, Samar, Nandani, Kinjal, Anupama, and Mamaji case it is about equality and mutual respect. Ba can not see that and did something that could really harm and tarnish her relationship because she did something even more harmful and poisonous. Ba will not realize what she has lost until the moment Kavya does something and can not be saved by someone else, because while Anupama was there, Anupama prevented Kavya’s wrath affecting Ba, but now is the moment where Ba has Kavya’s full attention. Kavya may not kick Ba out just like that, but might create a rift between the mother son duo which then Ba will learn what Kavya was doing and how wrong Ba was. Before I just thought that Ba truly cares for her family that is why she wanted Anupama and Vanraj to stay together, or she kept choosing her son because she truly loves her son and wants the best for her son but now it’s gone to the point where forgiveness is not going to fix anything. We know Kavya acts but she was a grey character or like a light switch that would switch between good and bad but being with Vanraj all the time completely changed her character. Where basically kavya tends to lean towards the evil side, rather than the good side. But Ba, Vanraj, Kavya, and Paritosh are like the joker, but the thing is they are not brilliant as the joker.
Also to ba… I would like just say… to quote the amazing Badshah…
YE LADKI PAAGAL HAI, PAAGAL HAI, PAAGAL HAI
@Mystery agree with all your points. Today Baa crossed all her limits while slapping her bro. She actually broke bapuji self esteem. Waiting for V return and If V comes to know what will happen . That’s a problem when you spare the rod and spoil the child
Wow dude you typed so much
@Mystery. Very detailed observation, well done!
Your Obesrvation: Ba truly seemed like she loved her husband and her family but today it felt like she was just acting or was just staying nice to keep vanraj happy, and that is what is super upsetting in this case
My Observation: No she never pretended to love Bapuji and family. She loves all but in a very controlling way.
You have never seen it? I have seen it in every house hold, literally in every household.
Baa said her MIL gave her Ramayan as Shagun. Is there any significance of it?
Yes there is a reason behind it. We are expected to behave like Maa Sita, to follow and support husband at any cost. Baa followed it. She was with Bapuji despite his poverty.
As per her she didn’t complain anything but managed happily with whatever she had.
She was obviously troubled a lot but she never raised her voice for being unhappy.
In her rage she asked Bapuji why he got married if he didn’t have the capacity to manage family.
But in her sense she had never done it, though Bapuji failed to give them a luxurious life, she was stuck by him.
Now she is expecting the same thing from Anupama, though Vanraj is a cheater she wants Anupama to adjust to it!
Your observation: Yes Ba only cares about her son, which is a boy that is supposed to make the family proud and her own blood.
My observation: Yes it happens in every household.
The wife, the mother who tolerates everything, becomes a slave, get abused while binding the family, while raising the kids, gets a fresh lease of life when her son becomes independent, when he starts earning, when he starts supporting the mother.
At this point her husbands and her in laws control wanes.
At this point the abused, tolerant Maa Sita becomes powerful with her son’s power, now she has the power to control her DIL, in the same way she was controlled.
This is the reason mothers love their sons, they are the only way for her to gain some power and respect.
@Subha You have a really warped sense of understanding regarding our religion. But that is not my point for replying here.
It has been shown before that your portrayal of how a wife is treated is completely different to how Baa was treated. She was treated with respect and love through out. Not once did Bapuji strong arm his decisions. To be honest, it was Baa who actually did that. She would force her ideas on him and make him do her bidding. And throughout, Bapuji was the one who was on the polite side, always trying to get peace in the situation.
I hope the next time you see the serial and put up your views, you keep your experiences aside and provide thoughts regarding the serial.
Subha thinks she is moral police and that it is her responsibility to respond to every point of view posted here with her own understanding and experiences.
So here is the 1 crore rupees question from Kaun Banega Crorepati which India wants to know.
Leela is what?🤔 Nd your options are:
a) Leela ek BigBoss ki Footage khaane wali Aurat
OR
b) Daaku Leela Singh
OR
c)Pagal Kutte ne kaata hai Leela ko
OR
d) Leela is Possessed by Kavya Maa ki bhut.
Reply kare neeche
See you with another question tomorrow 🤓
Option a
Option A
Here is my answer..Leela is a imaginary character dont be so serious…and that mystery is writing so big things…why..its just a sitcom nothing else not a true story..calm down yall
It’s not sitcom, it’s a series.
Sitcom examples are bhabhi ji ghar par hai, neeli chatri wale, friends(american sitcom)
It’s a series as it is continuation of previous episodes.
Yeah thank you for correcting
It’s a true story in most of the Indian household. If the husband earns inefficient money/ non efficient and the wife is Dominating/Materialistic😗.
OR
If the Man is Lazy/non Energetic and the Lady is Cranky/Hyper Active.
OR
If the Man is not good at Bed/Careless and the Lady is a badass/Drama queen.
Don’t say that these doesn’t happen in real life or these traits aren’t real
First of all it’s not sitcom. Sitcom means pure comedy. Which only Sab TV shows specially TMKOC and WKD2 shows. And we know it’s a fiction. A drama show. But the sole reason behind it getting immediate hit among audience soon after the launch is it’s much connect to reality (not completely). But still it’s exposure to reality is far more close to reality than other dramas like Ghum Hai Bhabhi Ke Pyaar Mein, Imlie (Imlie doesn’t deserve to top the 8:30 PM slot. It only belongs to TMKOC) etc. People connect themselves to characters. Like I can connect to Samar when it comes to parents’ love and respect. I love and respect my parents in the same way Samar do to Anu and his future father Anuj. Even his habits are much similar to me and my bandar I mean my younger brother. And just read comments section on Insta and YouTube. The real mentality of people comes out through this overdose of drama. And cheap comments are biggest proves that people like Chaturmurti gang exists in real also. I’m busy right now because my college is reopened and I’ve to study that’s why I’ll put my views rarely. And to Mr. Amar’s question I’ll say Daaku Leela Singh(coz I don’t watch BB)
I too don’t watch Bigboss but I know it’s all about who can give more and more content, who can do more legit Dramas everyday.😂
option E all of the above
@Pri : Meeting after a long time . Glad to know that you also watch WKD and tmkoc and also thrilled to know you love these sitcoms . I feel only Sab tv has the best shows except Tera Yaar hun mein which has turned to Tera Pyaar hun mein(Cant believe it earlier used to be a show revolving around father-son relationship because now its a stupid love triangle) . And yes tamarind trash aka imlie and ghum hai devarji ke pyaar mein are the worst . Almost all star plus shows are pathetic except Anupama and ZMGA
Baa is Rakhi Sawant,Dolly Bindra, Priyanka Jagga, Swami Om,Imam Siddiqui, Armaan Kohli, Pooja Mishra,Mahira Sharma,Ajaz Khan,KRK, Akashdeep saigal,Raja Choudhary, Sreesanth, Zubair Khan,Surbhi Rana, Nikki Tamboli’s mom
Kitna gaali de diya aapne yaar😂
Shreya you’re too much 🤣🤣
Option D
. Baa is self obsessed women. Paritosh is dumbass. Kavya is confused , van raj is spineless.Anupama I think enough of high voltage crying . I am sure the creative team knows wen to stop this elders, respect, they are gods etc., drama and come to facts . For bapujis sake Anupama has to change attitude wise and looks . We are Fed up yaar same drama and crying , shouting please change the track and change Anupama to a bold character.
@Amar all these peoples mentioned above are most irritating contestants ever in Bigg Boss, but Leela is more irritating than these peoples.
@Pri pls ghum hai bhabhi ke pyaar mein
Today on Twitter it was trending “justice for bapuji” I legit thought that was related to this bapuji but it wasn’t😅
Same😅
Bapuji actually died before he could saught out the whole problem of Post Independence. And that remaining left Task affected for a long time. It’s not his fault but the inefficiency of the people after the Bapu era that they couldn’t finish the left tasks.
I don’t know much about him😅 I just saw the hastag
That was hilarious 😂!
Even if Anu left toxic shah house this old hag is still after . Every single time talking about her even if she is far away from her . Its like this old hag has taken this song “Mein tera naam jabdi phira” too seriously . but tbh this track was really unnecessary . Ok I get it more this old hag shows her colors more she will suffer . Assraj and her bahu whom she has started to on throws her out to old age home . She will remember Anu but dare Anu being Mahaan takes her with her . This old hag at the end of the day loves her son more than her own family even Babuji . She has started to love Kaavya also . Let she be betrayed and tortured by them . More than AssRaj and Mistress turned second wife Kaavya I am waiting for her downfall . The reason why she supported Anu when Assrajs affair was out because he was actually wrong .Now see she is back to square one . I always knew that this old hag only loves her son . She just wanted Anu as she was her free maid
Yeah she always says that she went against her son for anupuma like dude let alone baa even the society, his own children were against him because the thing he did wasn’t forgivable. Baa talks as if she was the only one who stood beside anupuma when her son’s affair came out.
@Suseme exactly she says as if meherbaani ki hai anu ke upar . Now see she is loving Kaavya too
And also kavya always says “mujhe koi is ghar ki beti kyi nahi manta, mujhe koi anupuma jese kyu nahi treat krta hai is ghar me” but how can she forget all the things happened to anu when their affair was secret. She got mistreated by the whole fam except samar and bapuji. It took her almost 26 years to take a place in baa’s heart and that too because of the shame sahe went trough because of her own son
@Mystery @wolkly Dokly. I feel this track was necessary. You remember Baa Cursed Again and Again and also cursed that Anupama will have Kaali Diwali.
Well now she is having the Kaali Diwali. She is actually alone, swinging on her jhoola in the Dark house like a horror movie. She was wrong and cursing an innocent resulted in Curse hitting back to her.
She will have Kaali Diwali but How it will happen?
The answer is the today’s episode.
And it’s her bad days only. She became mentally insane,loosing everything one by one, lost her peace, etc. She humiliating and cursing doesn’t means the person in front of her is getting harmed. If also then she is harming herself double the harm she is causing.
Most of people fail to realize that this is the downfall of the Evil Gang. Still more to go. It’s just the beginning. Leela did the beginning of her doomsday even earlier it was supposed to take place. 😂
@Suseme : Yes but this baa is readily accepting her as she finally got an educated DIL and her sons choice . Kaavya thinks the reason why Anu was disrespected because she was not V’s choice . Once she becomes she will be respected but her V only wanted Kaavya for his pleasure . He never wanted her to become his wife . For Wife he wanted a maid
@Amar : In either words “Yeh toh bas trailer tha picture abhi baaki hai” Seriously I felt it was a horror scene . I am waiting for her downfall . I want her to beg , suffer . Waiting for her to live a miserable life
Yes it will be too good and afterall Bapuji predicted that Baa will Beg and that dialogue was highlighted too😁 which means maker hinted that it will happen for sure
Have no words for baa,but for the 1st time i found kavya scared of V,even without her mistake she is bothered to correct it bcoz os vanraj’s fear😅😅
Horror scenes.baa’s expression and her voice when she was on her jhula… Horrible. Kavya was also scared for a moment. This time Toshu has little sense that he too know baa crossed limits today.
Suitable line today
Vinash kaale vipareet budhi
Then “Ae Naukar, tu chup!”😂
Too harsh man
Every now & then it is being said that men & women r equal,a man is appreciated if he can handle house with job but why women shouldn’t earn when she has a problem in inefficient earning of money.Even for food money is to be earned.If equality should be there it should be in every aspect,if a woman expects men to handle household chores & responsibilities when she is ill then women too should understand that if men r ill then they should prove equality by earning.Why earning responsibility should be on men?Why property should be equally distributed between sons & daughter when only single is keeping responsibilities to parents,when parents raise kids equally then why only one child is expected to care for parents.
Rights comes with responsibility thats all.
If Girls want share in parental property they need to take care of parents.
Currently Anupama is take care of Bapuji in her own house, how many ladies will dare to do it?
Are your ladies that capable and does our society allow it?
Men need to do house work, raise child and women need to earn and learn.
Sperm comes from men and women nurture it.
Here also men are provider and women nurture their part and them.
Biologically and emotionally also they are provider and nurturer respectively.
That’s the only difference. Rest all organs are same or similar according to proportion.
To become a provider also one need to be emotionally attached, sensible, sympathetic and caring.
To become a nurturer also one need to be strong, intelligent, brave and wise.
If women don’t earn, learn and have to listen to men and depend on men, then future generation ladies will come without brain. And men will come without heart which can’t care or love or feel.
Removal of un used code you know!
Lets make use proper use of the accessories given by the Lord.
I agree subha
Oppression is the curse of the third world 😆! It starts from homes to offices and markets, villages and cities and to the whole governing body . And for no good reasons at all. The result all people are sad . Migration to the first world isn’t only for money sake but for the liberating life style .
Migration to have a liberating life style? Eh.
Can you ride a vehicle without brake or friction?
Living life as per wish is hazardous.
It not possible anywhere, neither in 1st or last world.
Your wish is only your wish, rest entire galaxy/universe is having their own wish. They are bound to impact.
Give you one example, you want to eat a chocolate and there is a Bharat band today 🙂 .It has happened to me!
Third world is migrating for materialistic liberation.
And First world is seeing India for spiritual liberation. See the irony!
Dear Subha , having limitations and restrains from one’s own beliefs is very different from being oppressed by someone else who can forcefully impose their point of view because they own a power that can make others submit and not for moral reasons but rather from their own benefits and interests
Whatever this quite unnecessary, people are just bidding opinions ,it would be better if we reserve respect for each other
this idiot Subha thinks too much of herself. Thinks she knows everything about everything
! Just STFU and take a seat for a minute.
@ Whatever: Take it easy, yaar. No need to call people names. If you disagree, just say so, perhaps say why and leave it at that
I seriously lost it today seeing baa. I think whole Shah family except Samar Bapuji and Anupama have ego issues. Vanraj always hurt people terribly when his ego is hurt and would later apologise for it. Who ever did not support him, he would speak rubbish against that person and later be like “I am sorry, just forget everything” as if nothing happened. He did this with Anupama infinite times. And even in previous episodes, it was his ego that made him go against dolly.
Coming to baa and bapuji. I hate baa more than anyone now. She is really irritating. But, I think people like baa cannot change easily. She is from old generation and is still living in that world, where men’s mistakes are accepted but women are blamed even if they did not do anything wrong. But sometimes, I feel pity for baa. She was also a Bahu once, where baa’s mother in law used to rule over her and was not allowed to study. Baa really did adjust a lot and never complained about anything. Here, baa is not being materialistic. She is not money minded at all. Her ego is hurt very badly because Bapuji favoured Anupama over her and asked her to get out. Due to her anger, she spoke rubbish which she never wanted to. All she wanted was Bapuji to support her. If she was really money minded, she would have taunted bapuji all the time about his financial status. And I think, this is the first time, baa fought for her share in the property which i liked a lot. Though, the reason she did that and her constant yelling irritated me. We rarely find women who demand and ask for their share in property. Anupama never asked for property and would flaunt her mahanta. And I don’t understand why asking for share in property is regarded as being money minded. You are just asking what is yours or what you have a right on. Today for the first time, baa asked it from bapuji which I quite liked…because rarely in tv serials except the villains(who are really money minded) no other women would ask for their share.
I think baa just wants bapuji to support her. And when he didn’t she became crazy as her husband who was silent for 26 years favoured Anupama over her. So, I think this is the reason, she scolded bapuji and made a mess. And I think, this is the first time, even Bapuji stood up to leela. Because until now, Babuji used to shut up Leela’s mouth or used to be silent. But now, he literally asked her to get out. I think baa loves bapuji but her ego just like her son ravanraj William make her do crazy things.
The thing is she didn’t demand her share rather she claimed it all to be her and her only..to quote her ..”aaj se iss ghar mei mera raaj hoga aur aap sirf sar hilaayenge eoh bhi haan mei”thats ehat hurt baapuji ..if he beong the so called earning member whatever little he was earning didn’t expect leela to nod as per his tune.. cause they both were equals how on earth does she expect that out of baapuji ehen in fact her own son was doing that with anupama .m n now she is doing the same with baapuji..
Forget why Baa did all this, but her acting was amazing. Very realistic – awesome.
So couple more timepass questions….
1. where is the rest of the family when Anumapa and Anuj took bapuji home? Where did they go? is that not important?
2. Why inDiwali puja, Anumapa’s mother & brother were missing? Even Devika?
3. Old topics – what happened with that bank fraud – 20 lac loan? Rakih Dave – vanished?
4. What is the purpose of kinjal staying in that house when Anupama has moved out and her so called husband had moved out also ( he got thrown out later). But most importantly why is she tolerating him?
Sometimes the plot slips the makers’ grips 😂
Baa she has a lot of Indian mentality people not all Indian though , to love their son and disrespected woman the way she was treated anupamaa like house girl her daughter cuse she will end up alone I can’t wait the day kavya will tell her to coock and washing clothes for her self is the day she will rememember anupamaa cause she was treated her like house girl
Shame that Bapuji was treated so disrepectfully and in front of so many. When there is no respect, there is no love either. Either way, based on the characters, it goes to show giving undue respect (Anupama doles the same respect to Bapuji and Baa) is not right as the respect has to be in measure of how that person is. Such undue respect and getting away with their mistakes may have led Baa to vent out this way as she has remained unchecked throughout her life. In the same way, Bapuji’s silence at how his wife was treating Anupama (throughout the 25 years, assuming he started Anupama more openly in the 26th year) with no check and balance or repercussions, also led to this moment. I am not providing excuses for Baa nor defending her, she has certainly lost it and will regret very dearly (hopefully bechaari Apu does not get all the blame again by Mr Ego-Raj). Just pointing out that we should correct and take a stand when we see wrong. Just my views.
I think the makers are forgetting one major character that they never showed. Baa’s mom is still alive. They showed so many times bapuji’s absence as visiting his mother in law. They should bring baa’s mom now to support bapuji.
High voltage drama . Nice to see the creative team has explored Leela’s character. She is a dominating woman who is losing all her grips and gone insane
Wonderful acting from the lady who plays Leela
Why didn’t Dolly take her papa? Or if she can’t take him home why didn’t she stay with him at Anu’s? Shah family are quiet strange ,and poor Babuji has no support from his birth children or grand children in such a horrible day.