Anupama 18th January 2022 Written Episode Update: Samar Breaks All The Ties With Nandini

today me- throughout Vanraj’s scene: https://cutt.ly/GIQgAVo

For a moment, I thought THE ANUJ KAPADIA is planning to keep his sweetheart’s ❤️-shaped paratha, in the frame forever..
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also, Malvika scared Anuj with the thought of Anupamaa leaving her
I think this is what will Instigate him 2 propose her 4 marriage (as stated in the spoilers)

this show has to a point, that I can bear maan to never propose and be friends forever
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I just want Anupamaa 2 slap “The Girgit of the century” as much badly as she slapped toshu that he fell on the ground

VANRAJ SHAH’s logic-
Apna haat behti ganga mein dho lo,
Mudda kissi ka bhi ho, agenda apna nikal lo!
bhale he isse tumhare bete ka rishta tooth gaye

I think Nandini is right as she supported Kavya being a woman which is a good point when Anupaama’s divorce happens her family was there but when Kavya’s divorce was on peak no one is there for her.Is loving crime?Kavya was already orphan she was already deprived by parents’ love & care & then when she loved the person he also threatens her to leave him yet again to live alone again.Kavya had done wrong by keeping an affair but what Vanraj had done with both Anupama & Kavya.
Kavya is trying to get adjust in her life but Vanraj has his only intact ego nothing more than that.If Samar is behaves this way over a single issue then how can he handle a marriage where selfishness don’t work but understanding.

the thing here is here problem arises just because of ego,insecurities,jealousy,and anger and lies .
This is the main reason behind all this problems at the first place:

1.kavya said that in shah house every couples are fighting now days but this was not the case now even before this also there were fighting where was she that time ,she knew how this family was but she still wanted to marry with vanraj and had divorce with anirudh i really felt bad for anirudh atleast he was always there for kavya he genuinely cared for her and loved her even after divorce he was her well wisher and a good friend.But she broke up with him maybe because of compatibility issues and understanding issues and also because anirudh used to get busy in his business work pressure that he was not able to give her that time and priority which she always craved for which she got from vanraj that’s why she became close to vanraj and had this affair.

2.I understand that in her place her insecurities are still justified because those who think that she is insecure see those people who live alone and then get relations they obviously get insecure because they have a fear of losing that relations again in there mind so may be this is the reason they are never ever secured in the first place in that case we need to make them feel secured so that they never ever get that fear of losing there relations and rights,those who are saying kavya is wrong i want to ask them did vanraj ever tried to make her feel secure even during the affair time period or during marriage or even after marriage no absolutely no.He always played with her emotions he never valued her emotions even when she was his gf and not now also even after she is his wife.

3.yes ,i agree she did wrong still she did wrong she should not have cheated her husband anirudh and vanraj’s wife anupama but whatever she did she did because of love not for the sake of cheating them because if she was enjoying cheating them then she would not have felt guilty she kept quite for 8 years only because of vanraj .during the time of #vanya affair kavya always wanted a stable relationship that’s why she wanted to get divorce at least she was sure that now she loves vanraj and she wants to marry him and spend her whole life with him but what about vanraj was he sure that he wants to spend his whole life with her no not at all.
4.Kavya wanted to break up also three times (2 times genuinely third time was her game plan to get back vanraj) first time she wanted to break up with vanraj because she wanted to have a stable relationship she was fed up of this hide and seek game but vanraj convinced her that he will always be there with her,second time when she felt guilty of breaking anupama’s trust she wanted to end this relation but vanraj convinced her saying that anupama is just his responsibility but not love kavya is his love and third time when vanraj went to anupama after his accident that time to get him back she wanted to break up and give a chance to anirudh but vanraj went back to kavya because he was rejected by anupama that time.

5.vanraj always knew how was kavya but he still wanted to be with her he always convinced her to continue with the relations ,my point here is if he was so frustrated with kavya’s insecurities then why he continued with the affair at the first place.When he was already married with anupama and during his marriage anniversary celebrations he again was going to get marry anupama that time kavya had a
condition before him that he have to marry her first on there marriage anniversary day,if he was so frustrated with her insecurities he should have said no but still he said yes and even promised her that he will marry her first before vanraj why? and still didn’t reach there left her alone to get embarrassed how insulting that situation was for kavya did he ever thought once no second time also when they wanted to marry each other everyone in social sites said that vanraj was forced to marry kavya but at the first place he only made announcement in front of anupama that he will marry kavya soon but on there marriage day he again eloped from mandap why?

6.The reason here is vanraj always wanted both he wanted anupama as a glorified servant who will take care of his responsibilities as he said and kavya as his mistress who will take care of his desires and lust.But whatever it was at least kavya knew it that vanraj was like this only but still she used to get manipulated by him easily because she used to love him yes she too did wrong but she at least knew what she wanted in her life and she did accordingly but vanraj he never knew what he wanted in his life he is never ever satisfied neither by getting an innocent wife like anupama nor getting a modern wife like kavya.I know today whatever is happening with her it’s because of her own deeds she knew if vanraj can leave anupama for kavya then he can also leave kavya for some other woman and this is what is happening with her but still this is wrong in the first place when this happened with anupama that time also this thing was wrong and now if this happens with kavya then also this is wrong only just because kavya did wrong that does not mean that whatever is happening in this case should be justified like this.

7.kavya always loved vanraj that’swhy even she tried to commit suicide as well thanks to Dr.Advait that he saved her.Secondly vanraj problem was always his selfishness he was always a self-obsessed man from the first place when anupama used to run behind him he enjoyed it but when anupama started to give importance to herself then he was hurt ,when anupama became friend with Dr.Advait that time also he was jealous from there friendship because he could not tolerate that his ex wife give importance to anyone else instead of him,not only this he was jealous with anirudh too when he used to get close to kavya and also with advait and kavya friendship because he always wanted both to run behind him that’s it.Advait gave him an advise during divorce that he needs to chose now between anupama or kavya but he never wanted that choice he wanted both.In both ways he wanted to control both that’s why he even ran away during divorce time and he was pleading to anupama to cancel the divorce .But thanks to anupama she gave him divorce and got freedom forever from this man.

8.Before marriage when kavya was manipulated by him and running behind him that time he didn’t had any problem he still wanted her now he has problems with her.Wow Brilliant where was his so called true love for kavya now?

9.So ,according to me kavya is wrong but kavya is not wrong alone it is fault of vanraj too even his fault is more than kavya .But he was accepted by family easily then why not kavya ?

10.But one thing is also need to be noted here that at first shah family were not accepting her but now at least they are making efforts to accept her and she needs to appreciate this instead of manipulating nandini against this family but she did this not for her pleasure ofcourse but still she did this.Efforts should be made from both the sides when kavya was making efforts shah family didn’t noticed it but now when shah family is making efforts then kavya is not noticing it.

Now from #vanya coming to #anuraj:

1.They were actually never meant to be together in the first place not because of vanraj’s defination that anupama was not suitable for him but because vanraj was not suitable for her,not because he is a so called working man ,educated,corporate man and she was not but because they never had love,trust,honesty,respect and friendship in there relationship they always had a recessive and domination situation between them anupama was recessive and vanraj was dominant that’s the main reason.
2. secondly there were never efforts from both the sides always from one side from anupama side that’s why this relation was meant to be broken even at some point of time even if there was no extra marital part but still EMA was icing on a cake in this situation it means if vanraj and kavya would not have affair then also anuraj were meant to be seperated because they are having different ideologies from the beginning,So the relationship was broken because of that also.

Now from vanya and anuraj coming to #jaltosh:
They had number of misunderstandings because paritosh was a small version of vanraj Shah same ego ,selfishness issues and greediness he loved kinjal but wanted to marry her to get all the comforts and luxuries instead of being happy with kinjal in his family,whereas kinjal always wanted to marry him because she loved him and his family she wanted to get that affection which she could not get from her mother Rakhi dave .Paritosh got everything from his family that’s why he took them for granted but kinjal didn’t got that love and affection that’s why she valued her in laws and this family since the beginning especially to anupama as a mother.

#now coming to #sanan :
1.The main beauty in this relationship after #maAn was there maturity when samar was in love with nandini but nandini just used to think him as a friend then samar accepted it with a great maturity just like anuj he never forced her to be in love with him or accept his love but then nandini fell in love with him but she was scared to commit because of her past but samar made her felt secure that time that he don’t care about her past even after knowing about rohan and nandini past,nandini accident and infertility he still accepted her without any complaint that was the most beautiful point in there relationship but the only thing which they lack in there relation is understanding
They are not understanding each other’s point of view in this situation.

2.According to samar:Nandini is wrong here because she is accusing his family but her aunt kavya is also wrong and nandini knew whatever anupama faced due to kavya still she is expecting anupama to help kavya in this situation and stop supporting anuj and malvika.So ,first kavya needs to ask for forgiveness from anupama.And he thinks that nandini is supporting kavya even after knowing kavya’s nature.

3.According to nandini:Samar is wrong because he is supporting vanraj and not speaking up against this situation or supporting kavya.Family members are not even bothered nor vanraj that where is kavya ? and she thinks whatever behavior is happening with kavya and already happened with anupama maybe the same thing will happen with nandini too after marriage.Next thing is she is just seeing here is vanraj is also doing wrong then why everyone are blaming kavya alone why nobody is asking him questions against his actions?Third thing being a woman she didn’t tolerated injustice with anupama also then how can she tolerate injustice towards her aunt.Anupama knows how it feels when some other woman stays in your own house with your husband still she gave permission to malvika to stay here So that is her point that why anupama let malvika stay here?

4.So ,if we see this things both are right in there point of view but there point of views are different and they needs to understand it first but in anger they both don’t try to understand each other pov here .This is increasing the misunderstanding between them.

5.Samar needs to understand that vanraj can never change he was wrong always,secondly he needs to understand that if 2 people are committing a mistake then they both should be punished or both should be forgiven but here this balance was not at all done here vanraj was accepted first kavya is still not accepted completely ,so this is the thing which should be corrected here but he is not at all accepting that his family can also commit mistakes because he has already accepted in his mind that kavya did mistakes .

6.And nandini needs to understand here is whatever may be the situation was between malvika,kavya and vanraj she should have confronted vanraj from the beginning itself no need to drag samar,anuj,anupama and family members here.If she had problem with malvika staying here then she should have asked to family members about this ,or else vanraj about this but why she was expecting anupama to interrupt between kavya and vanraj even after knowing everything regarding anupama’s past .Yes she is right anupama interrupted between malvika and anuj because they gave her that rights but in kavya and vanraj relationship she has no rights to comment or interrupt in between and why she needs to get involved in this today there relationship is in this stage because of them not because of anupama.If she would have involved in there matter then kavya would have again accused anupama that she is trying to break there relationship so it’s better to stay out of this mess for anupama.

Now coming to #maAn :
1.the thing which i love in there relationship is there relationship has love,friendship,trust,honesty,and respect that is what which made there relationship so priceless for them.
2.The way they value each other and have faith in each other should be done by every couples here.
3.I m eagerly waiting anupama to confess her love for anuj and there marriage there relationship would be the most beautiful relatioship for sure.

And i feel that anuj and anupama will only solve the issues between samar and nandini i don’t know but i feel like this (just a guess)

Now coming to vanraj shah so called audacity to ask anupama about breaking her relation with him:
i wasn’t surprised at all because he never took responsibility even after committing mistakes he always had a habit of giving his responsibilities to anupama and others .And what to say when he called nandini batamij i mean like seriously ,please tell me one woman name who he respected till now except mavika
He tried to kick his own mother baa from the house misbehaved with her also sometimes.
Anupama he abused her till 25 years.

Kavya he abused her for 1 year since the marriage even before that as well

devika he always insulted her calling her a divorcee just because he used to hate her because she used to show him mirror and his real self.

He insulted kinjal also when kinjal was supporting anupama

He insulted Dolly also to get back her shares in shah properties .

he insulted Rakhi dave also

and now he insulted nandini too he basically don’t know how to talk to a woman what he will teach to his children.

He is just a moron that’s it in simple words.

And what can we expect from him he always played with relations and after getting bored broke those relations when he was with anupama he did the same thing when he was with kavya he did the same thing when paritosh and kinjal wanted to marry and were facing issues in there relationship also that time he wanted paritosh to break up with kinjal and now same he is doing with samar and nandini .

today toshu and kinjal were talking sense in this situation but pakhi she literally came in between i mean why the hell are u speaking in this matters u r just a kid be like a kid why giving lecture on discipline ,and where were your discipline when u used to talk with your mother in that way just for her own selfish reasons she never supported her mom she always thought vanraj is right and she is so hypocrite what to say if her father does affair with kavya being with anupama then also it is anupama’s fault ,if he does affair with malvika then this is kavya’s fault but for pakhi vanraj is never at fault at all.And when anupama used to think anuj just a friend that time also she gave lecture to anuj that she can’t see her family breaking like seriously where was this lecture when kavya and vanraj affair was revealed in front of family that time she went to celebrate her birthday with kavya and vanraj leaving her mom alone with family ,she even stayed with them in there house that time she din’t thought that her family is breaking but no in every situation for Pakhi madam her father is right rest all are wrong whether it may be kavya,anuj and especially anupama (her most favourite easy target) after all she is mom she is only here to clean her mess that’s it, like father like daughter.

But today i really felt disappointed from baa and bapuji especially bapuji he was silent in this situation who actually needs to speak up was actually silent and that was not expected from him being a god father in law .

Rest i enjoyed anuj and muku scenes they are best sibling in this show till now i guess love this bro sis duo i feel anupama is very lucky to get a family like kapadias after getting married with anuj.