Anupama 20th December 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Adhik tells Pakhi that he can neither accept her nor her sorry and needs time to think and decide, his brain is not working right now and she should please leave him alone. Anuj asks Adhik to get into the car and Pakhi for god sake go inside the house. Leela says enough of drama, let us all go in. Anupama feels disheartened seeing Pakhi crying. Anuj asks Anupama shall they go now. Anupama gets into car, and Anuj drives away. Shah family leaves Pakhi alone on road and walks in. Anuj tries to comfort Anupama and says he will take her back to Pakhi if she wants to. Anupama says lets go home and thinks though Pakhi is wrong, she can’t see wrong happening to her daughter. She prays god to give some conscience to her daughter.
Toshu with Kinjal and Pari returns home and asks why is Pakhi standing alone on road, if there is any issue due to her voice note. Kinjal notices Vanraj tensed and asks if he is fine. Leela gets angry on Pakhi. Toshu comforts her. Samar worries for Pakhi. Leela scolds Vanraj for spoiling Pakhi with expensive gifts and over pamper her; says Pakhi is so over spoilt that she earlier blamed Anupama and now her father for her mistakes; there is a problem in this house that no marriage stays for long, earlier Vanraj betrayed Anupama, Toshu betrayed Kinjal following Vanraj, Anupama broke her marriage and Kinjal did same following Anupama, everyone want to break their marriage in this house. Hasmukh says even Leela tried to break her marriage and asks if they have learn from someone, then why don’t they learn from Anupama instead of Vanraj and Leela.
Anuj pressures Anupama’s head and says this is the best way to lessen stress and pressure. He asks if she thinking about Pakhi and says every parents want their children to give their best, but if they fail, they feel bad; parents can help to some extent, but if a child does mistakes, its not parents’ fault. Anupama says its parents mistake that child witnesses mother crying, father getting angry on mother, fighting, and separating; it affects a child psychologically really bad; her own wounds haven’t healed yet, incidents left shadows on her mind which haunt her often, etc.
Vanraj says he now realized that children would complain even if parents sacrifice their lives, he realized Anupama wasn’t wrong and Pakhi was blaming Anupama wrongly, Pakhi ruined her own marriage and is blaming him now instead, she proved that Anupaama is right and he is wrong and Anupama did right by kicking Pakhi out of her house. Pakhi hears him. Anupama fears that whatever happened to her in the past would repeat. Anuj asks if she doubts him. Anupama says she trusts him completely, but when fate betrayed her, she can’t trust fate; even Anuj must be in fear of losing her after waiting for 26 years. Anuj says that is why it is important to control their mind. Anupama cries that Pakhi has lost her mind; everyone sees Pakhi’s arrogance and audacious behavior, but nobody sees her fear, etc. Anuj says something happened with Muku.
Pakhi asks Vanraj if he also thinks that Anupama is right and she is wrong. Vanraj says he is wrong instead who didn’t follow everyone’s advice. Leela warns Pakhi not to break things now. Pakhi says everyone’s marriage has problems in their marriage, even then they are together and she is separated from her husband; they are good people, and what is she doing among good people. Vanraj says its up to her whether she wants to stay here or not. Pakhi says she shouldn’t have come here. Vanraj says she can return to her house then, he will see who will tolerate her other than her father. Anupama tells Anuj that when he couldn’t forget her in 26 years, how can she forget her daughter and let her crying; every person has his/her own nature which he/she doesn’t leave, a mother’s nature is to protect her child, but she left her daughter alone. She describes in detail what she is feeling after leaving her daughter alone. Anuj says its children’s mistake here where children want everything so fast, they will love someone, marry, fight, and then separate so fast; they forget that there is an ex for a reason and if they return to their ex, their would will get much deeper and hurt them.
Kavya asks Vanraj what has he thought about Pakhi. Vanraj says because of Pakhi’s lies, police treated him like a criminal, she is blaming him for her mistakes. Kavya says Pakhi doesn’t know what she is doing. Vanraj says if its his mistake then, he is tired of all this drama now. Kavya says his problem is he either gets involved more than required or doesn’t get involved at all, there is something called balance in life. Barkha tells Anupama that Adhik and Pakhi’s marriage is a diaster and its impossible to stay with Pakhi as she is mentally unstable and they should get their divorce to avoid any further damage.
Precap: Samar informs Anupama that Pakhi left home. Anupama searches for Pakhi and finds her lying unconscious on a road.
Update Credit to: MA
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Anupama should hit her head somewhere.. then her brain might work properly..๐ค๐ค๐ค
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Pz her brain will work only if she has one๐๐๐
๐๐๐ค๐ค๐คจ๐คจ๐ฅด๐ฅด๐ตโ๐ซ๐ตโ๐ซ๐ค๐ค๐ค๐ค๐คข๐คข๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฏ๐คฏ๐คฏ my reaction in the whole episode feeling bad for anuj he wasted his life behind this spineless dumbhead, feeling bad for kavya too she was better with anirudh hope both kavya and kinjal leave this mad house, pakhi and her parents should be send to asylum. Poor little anu and anuj may God save them. When anupama was taking side of pakhi and was blaming herself and feeling guilty i was getting ๐ก๐ก๐ก๐ก๐ก๐ก and wanted to ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ๐คฌ and beat the shit out of her.
Only way to detox is by watching sarabhai vs sarabhai.
Adoption is a good and humble job but I feel After warching this serial no children from orphanages will go for adoption happily.
You guys don’t realize this but this is how some parents are. Parents are always either feeling guilty for their kids mistake or scolding their kids for their mistakes. Anupama is a mother who used to always pamper all 3 of her kids all the time. Vanraj still pampered toshu and paki excessively, and they saw vanraj as their idol. It’s why they mess up so badly all the time. She changed only after finding out vanraj cheated on her. This show at its root is about a mother’s rebuilding her life after finding out her partner not only cheated on her, but learned to realize how toxic the environment and relationships were. And anuj would’ve never loved her so deeply without accepting all of anupama’s aspects. That’s why he always tries to support her and her kids. Anuj’s love for anupama is one of the purest forms of love on this show.
Yeah you are correct, but Anupama need to change something. she need to scrutinize why her relationship with her daughter who supposed to be her friend has failed and what she can do to make it right. at Shah place she stayed like a maid and may be that is the reason she couldn’t become a good wife or mother.
Now its will b shown that mad lady is pregnant.
Anupama must get a tight slap
Anupama will take care of pregnant Pakhi (with Anuj support) Poor Adhik will have to suffer. This track wil be continued for a long.
@Manas how on earth did we get pregnant??? Don’t pull an arohi stunt here ๐
@Muge
The writers of the both the shows are same and they’re literally copying the scenes from one serial and pasting in other๐ Not only pregnancy but eloping and marrying also.
Anupama sach me paagal ho gayi hai ab uska ilaaj hona asambhav hai. Even doctors ko bhi bhashan deti rahegi aur doctors sare bhaag jayenge practice chhod ke. Totally rubbish storyline.
Anuj to gadha hi hai starting se. Na kaam ka na kaaj ka, naukar biwi ka.
Tu hi pagal hai aur gadha hai. Is liye tujhe sab pagal dikh rahe hai. Ilaj karva le you will feel better.
Wowww so rakhi Dave is a bad mother as she tried to save her pregnant daughter’s marriage but anupamaa is a mahaan mother as she is trying to save her shitty daughter’s marriage ๐
Nd even toshu was thrown out.. That time anupamaa was not concerned as she knew he should be punished but now suddenly unnecessary concerns for this brat who is still blaming her parents for everything ๐
Now she will bring pakhi to KM again. Poor adhik will not even get a proper break.. Or kya anupamaa ne socha hai ki pakhi ke behavior ka choti anu pe kya asar parega? Does she even love choti anu? Bus “maari sweeturi”karte rehti hai
Calm down. Dont think much. Not good for your health.
Am glad you guys have something to say but for me am speechless
The magic of Anupama is her inability to hate or even dislike ANYONE. No one should expect her to be distant towards her own child. It will never work. This is a woman who plays,laughs and even vacations with her sautan…nothing more than this. She HAS slapped pakhi like you all wanted na? She even kicked her out of the house and was firm with her. I do agree Pakhi needs a rude awakening but Anu will NEVER forget her children for anyone. Regardless of how they are,not even Anuj. It may kill her to have to choose but tryst me,if it comes down to it, Anu will Pick her children. That’s what you sign on for when you marry a mom
We know she is a mother, and it hee nature to not hate anyone but she should have some self respect and like barkha said pakhi really needs treatment her behaviour is not normal, instead of lecturing her or feeling sorry for her she should teach her some manners and basic life skills, if she really loves adhik then they can take help of adhik to mend pakhi, may be people are hating anupama for siding pakhi because this kind of mother doesn’t exists in reality, hum aise nasib kaha se laye ki hame aisi ma mile but nai milni chahiye because it type ke parent create difficult people either difficult people will make others life hell or their own life will become hell.
Being a mother also means caring for children and being their support but no proper mother will keep being a doormat of their children. And a woman who has even 1% of self respect will never play laugh and vacation with her sautan. If a woman is not capable of being progressive and having self respect, that is not magic its called bewakoofi. And family or not, those who still choose to love toxic people have Stockholm syndrome where they develop a connection with such people. It has even been proved in medical science. Someone who can tell right from wrong and wrong from right will have enough self respect to walk away from negativity. If someone chooses to be a doormat for toxic people, they should be given therapy and still if that person chooses to continue being stepped on by toxic people then no one can help such type of persons.
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No words for Anupama she has no self respect. Pakhi has been misbehaving and she is still sorry for her? I just hope she doesnt put anuj in a difficult situation. Feel sorry for anuj
@Rhythm, Anu isn’t a singleton. She’s a mom and will forever remain one. Anuj best get used to it.
@vaijyanthi exactly she is a wife to Anuj as well and is forgetting her duties and constantly pulling him into her mess. Even I’m a mother and I would probably feel bad if my child is going through pain but there is something about letting your child go through hardships that were created due to thier own mistakes and learning from them. Feeling guilty for what is not her mistake is not what a self confident woman like Anupama should be like. Its good to be empathetic but its also important not to let people use you as a doormat to be stepped upon repeatedly. Then its not the mistake of person using you as doormat but of the one allowing to be walked on repeatedly and not learning.
Please Anuj, tell Anupamaa to leave, go and support her children, her actions are NOT helping her children but she won’t listen that she needs to draw a line and her children need to know just what the boundaries are!
Anupamaa CANNOT have everything her way, marriage too needs to be nurtured.
Anuj has tried so hard to make Anupamaa grow and educate her.
All she says is soori soori those are just words and she can stick them up her arse, they do not absolve your misdoings, especially if you’re saying soori soori everyday single day and more than once a day!
Pakhi also thinks saying sorry is enough, she tried it with the police but they put her right and said she’d committed a crime!
True! before her own marriage break she better get her hands off Pakhi’s marriage! If not trying to mend Pakhi’s marriage her own will be gone! She is now taking Anuj’s love for granted!
@Kally. Hi Kally, how r u? Nice to see you here. Are you on Imlie too? Just one question – is Anupma a woman good enough to be married and taken as wife by any man – Vanraj, Anuj, or any other man on this planet? I find her extremely irritating, unbearable, and repulsive. Totally abhorable – physically, mentally, emotionally, and what have you.
@Royce..Hi. NO,I’m not on Imlie anymore, gave up long ago as cannot stand the new Imlie either. Story is crap.
As to Anupamaa, I think she’s hard work for any man lol.
I’m a woman, very independent too.
Anupamaa uses men as she’s a weak lady, especially where her children are concerned.
Children need to grow and be independent, make and correct their own mistakes once they are adults, that is life.
How many people have no siblings or parents to fall back on but lead awesome lives.
Thanks, Kally for tallying your notes with mine. They are in synch. Happy watching!
Oh, as to Pakhi lying in street, why the hell didn’t she go to her rented house?
Try and understand just what she’d done, see the mess of broken items that she’d thrown around!
Tidy up etc but no, she goes
attention seeking yet again!
Kya chu****** tha ye episode; mujhe headache ho gaya
please.. please.. please anupama DON’T take pakhi back to kapadia house. that’s what paki wants. this serial is going no where, first how DIL/ mother is abused verbally by in-laws and children. I am watching Aparajita, a single mother and she is similar to anupama age plus with 3 young daughters running her life single handed. she will not allow anyone to talk down to her, and what a self respect she has got, wow ! this is what serial should be giving positive vibes to out there.
Parents will always love their children no matter how many mistakes they make but to forgive or forego those mistakes is a mistake by the parents which anupama keeps doing time and time again.
@Razor..exactly. Anupamaa needs to harden her heart in order to set Pakhi on the right road.
Because Anupamaa keeps changing with the wind, one day kicking Pakhi out and next day taking her back she is giving mixed messages and that I’d mind games too.
A friend of mine cut her younger son out of her life as she was becoming a mental wreck herself. Called it a day and said enough is enough.
He works and lives independently now, life goes on.
Anupama darling your are still not understanding the rules
1> You can do only for them who love/respect/obey/listen to you.
Even Sai says look at me and I will look at you. But if we don’t look/trust/listen to him how long he can help?
2>Another way to do is by overpowering you can help, just as parents stop child from harming self by force.
But its hard to overpower grownups, who hates, chances of hurting self increases a lot. So better to avoid as it doesn’t have any positive outcome.
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If you cant leave Pakhi though she doesn’t love you, then overpower her, drag her with authority, slap her, imprison her and force her to behave.
If Pakhi has slightest of attachment towards you, she will gradually change for sure.
Being civil with Pakhi didn’t/won’t work. Pick the stick which you had spared. Apply force, show authority, overpower her. Make her study, force her to be responsible.
If she listens, then fine else leave and pray for her that’s all.
O pagal behenji, meri ghar ki maamlo me dhakal math do. Jaa aur apni ghar sambhalo. Aapki bekar ki gyan ki jaroorat nahi hai mujhe. Aur kitni baar bola hai meri sweetudi ki baare mai baath mat kya kar mat kya kar mat kya kar lekin meri baath samjhe tab nei. Nahi samaj me aaya tho kuch mat bol, agar samaj aayi, toh apni faltu ki gyan bacha ke rakh apni ghar sambhal ne ke liye. Aur koi kaam nahi hai kya aap ke pass? Agar nahi hai tho sojao lekin meri sweetudi ko kaise sambhalna hai mujhe math batao. Uski maa mai hoon aap nahi. 9 maine tak apni kok me usko rakha hai. Baa ke thara mujhe samjhane ki jaroorat nahi hain.
Tum aur teri sweetudi dono gone case ho. Tere me kabhi akkal aayegi hi nahi. Vanraj sahi tha usne tujhe chhod diya. Kahan wo stylish smarty aur kahan tu gawar illiterate dadi? Anuj bhi gadha hai jo teri jaisi dadima ke piche apni life aur apna business barbad kar diya.Dono Jaao bhaad me.. mujhe kya?
๐ญ๐ญ๐ญaisa math bol๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ kal raath meri toshu ki papa mere jindagi mei vapas laut ke aaya. Usne apna muh se ye meri maafi ko suvikar kiya aur hum dono aaj raath shaadi karlegi aur aiyaashi karna faisla leliya.๐
What happened to Anupama’s college? Is she still studying or she will just give lectures to her lecturers and pass finance course?
Anupama and guilt, BFF!!!
Anupama will do everything to bring the families together. Like she is the only one who is working to keep the family together.
Come on Kinjal, leave Toshu and move out.
Well done to the actress that plays Pakhi as she is doing her job right as nobody can stand her.
Dear writers the time has come when you can move past Anupama being blamed for everything that goes on in the Shah household. Yes she had to live with it for 26 years but that is over, you didn’t want her to be a victim but now you are writing her that way. We all know that Pakhi can only do one thing successfully and that isn’t getting a job. It’s destroying and then blaming everyone else. Pakhi will get picked up from the side of the road come back to Anupama’s house and destroy the family and Anupama’s marriage. The best thing Anupama did was kick her out. Please let Pakhi feel the true sting of her actions and behavior.
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Anupama is only harming herself and Pakhi by getting soft. There needs to be a line when kids have to suffer because of the decisions they make. A parent should not feel guilty and Anupama will be wrong if she takes pity on Pakhi. She needs to listen to Anuj and leave Pakhi to solve her own problems, Pakhi made the mess and it is her responsibility to clean it up. Mommy should not come to rescue each time, this is the main reason why Pakhi is such a spoiled brat.
Time for Anupama to step back and let the adult children take control of their own life! Stop trying to fix everything.
Agree, she should let her children be.
But that chameleon Leela always calls her back and if she don’t come then of course she will be accused of not caring
This woman will always be tormented
Oh god what a serial ๐ก๐ก๐ก Anupama pls shut up..what daughter daughter n rona dhona ? When she dusnt respect n care fr u.. Sheโs gone from ur hands, why crying now..want to be her maid agn ? Bring her home simple n mk Adhiks life hell..P needs to be LEFT ALONE to learn a lesson of life..so shahs n kapadias kindly hold ur selves or else go to hell..
So now she will feel so guilty that she will take her to Anuj house to ‘take care’ of her, and that’s all that wicked girl wants, to be in Kapadia house, she will pretend to never recover and Anupama will never be any wise to her SWEETY tricks. Ugh so disappointed in what the makers turned Ma’An into๐ก