Anupama 22nd December 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Leela tells Anupama its good that she took Pakhi’s responsibility and freed them from worries. Pakhi says they need not worry when Anupama is with her and promises to never give any troubles to them, take care of household chores, not right, and be a good girl. Toshu say she surely can and they all trust her. Pakhi says she will rejoin her college and live with Adhik happily ever after. Barkha asks it is some joke going on, what is this nonsense, its a serious life and not an instant noodle, she was mannerless earlier and now acting good, she needs to change her basic nature which will take time and effort and not an easy task. Leela asks why is she bothered. Barkha says Pakhi is behaving as if nothing happened, things won’t happen this way. Vanraj asks how else then, Pakhi realized her mistake and apologized, what else she can do. Barkha says she is not that capable, it would be great if she does what she promised at least. Vanraj says very nice, what is the issue then.
Anuj says he will explain, the issue is Adhik just gave a chance to Pakhi and not forgiveness. He tells Pakhi its good that she realized her mistake finally and wants to chance, but they don’t trust her as there is no guarantee that she can continue her new emotions for a 5-10 days at least as she always changed her stance as per her convenience and insulted everyone here at some point. Vanraj says when Pakhi is apologizes, what problem Anuj has. Anuj says that is what his question is, till when Pakhhi will continue her change as even broken things take time to rejoin and they are are talking about hearts and relationships here; Adhik and Pakhi’s relationship needs a cooling-off period to get back to normal; he is glad that Pakhi is taking a right step, but for god sake, she should raise only one foot at a time instead of both or else she will fall down; he asks if she thinks everyone will forget her misbehavior if she genuinely apologizes them, she gave a deep wound and it takes a lot of time to heal.
Vanraj in his usual arrogant tone asks Anuj why is he stretching the issue and frightening Pakhi. Anupama says Anuj is right, she would have told this if Anuj, Pakhi needs an explanation to stop her from making a mistake again in a hurry. Anuj says he would be more happy if both kids patch up as he had requested Vanraj not to break their relationship and its his problem if he thinks he is giving unnecessary knowledge. He asks Pakhi if they are going out now, will she take approximately 1 hour to change her look. Pakhi says almost. Anuj says when she needs 1 hour to change her look, how will she change her nature instantly; its a long process to change from within; he is finding it difficult to understand how children fight in the morning and patch up by evening; they should change this first. Vanraj asks what is the point of all these talks, if they stay together, then…
Adhik says they won’t be able to live together. Pakhi asks what? Adhik says he is not breaking their relationship and their fight was not a simple one, so he needs some time; they both have flaws and he needs time to correct his flaws. Barkha thanks god that Adhik refused Pakhi as she is untrustable. Ankush says even Barkha needs a cool-off period. Anuj says Anupama explained Pakhi as a mother and would be there to share happiness and wipe tears, but she won’t be necessarily beside Pakhi always; Anupama is just a mother and not a 24×7 customer support system that anyone would call her whenever they want to; even animal kids get independent after some time, so even Pakhi should act adult and handle her problems herself maturely, its her relationship and her journey, her mother will support her but will not carry her, they all are helping her and she should learn to handle herself; Pakhi insulting her mother and then hugging and apologizing her will not work from hereon. Vanraj says why don’t he really say that Anupama wants to get rid off her responsibility. If that was so, they wouldn’t have been here discussing all this and instead would have been at home. Pakhi says she herself will manage her work and will not bother Anupama. Vanraj says they all will take care of Pakhi and will not disutbr Anuj’s wife. Anuj says absolutely fantastic. He wishes all the very best to Adhik and Pakhi and leaves with Anupama.
Back home, Anuj notices Anupama upset and says he wants to tell even her what he told Pakhi, she should be available for Pakhi but not 24×7 and run there all the time; he doesn’t like Leela, Pakhi, and Vanraj’s attitude who consider themselves entitled and take her for granted, dump a work on her without her consent and when she fails in it, they insult her; Anupama is too good and has to learn to say no as he doesn’t like anyone begging her for help and when she does terming it as a lecture; he can’t say them anything as somewhere its her mistake, so she has to change and stop taking all the burden on herself and handle everything alone; she unknowingly has developed unrealistic expectations for herself and is taking extreme tension; she is a maa/mother and not Devimaa. He says they are married for 6 months and not even a single day passed without Shah family’s interference, they don’t have a single memory of them and little Anu; they need her attention for their mental satisfaction and little Anu’s peace and happiness. He says he must be sounding frustrated and rude, but if it will give some mental peace for his wife, he is ready for that; he and little Anu will not pay for her goodness and she has to draw a line now.
Barkha asks Adhik why did he give a second chance to Pakhi after promising her not to, does he really think Pakhi will change so easily, she is crying and making drama as she is feeling alone now and after a few days, she will back to her normal arrogant self. Adhik says even Barkha and Ankush made many mistakes and don’t have a great love story, even then they are staying together for some reason, he and Pakhi love each other and he is ready to give another chance to Pakhi. Barkha insists him to divorce Pakhi. Adhik says he will not give and will give themselves a chance to change. Barkha thinks Pakhi won’t change. Anupama holds Anuj’s hand and tries to calm him down. Tu Meri Zindagi Hai… song plays in the background. Litle Anu walks in and asks Anupama where she had been, she missed her a lot and is afraid of living alone at home, so Anupama should take her along wherever she goes.
Anupama says surri surri surri/sorry, she will spend most of the time with little Anu. Little Anu happily hugs her and says she has school’s annual day function and either one of the parent should participate. Anuj says Anupama will. Anupama says she will. Little Anu says Anupama has to accompany her for dance practice from tomorrow. Anuj says he would feel good cheering them both sitting among the audience. Little Anu cheers up more and leaves. Anupama asks Anuj if he thinks she doesn’t love little Anu much. Anuj says he didn’t say that. Anupama says she feels he wants to. Anuj says even their silence speaks, he would have if he wants to; he wants little Anu to become Anu’s shadow but not Anupama; there are good, very good, and unnecessarily good; he wants little Anu to be in a very good category and not unnecessarily good category and people misuse her goodness like Anupama; Anupama does good for everyone and at the end is left alone, etc. Anupama says that is not happen
Precap: Anupama gets out of control and calls Anupama. Adhik informs Anupama, but Anupama gets busy taking care of Pari. Anuj rushes to little Anu who asks if mummy didn’t come and if she is not her mummy.
Update Credit to: MA
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The best dialogue of today’s epi..”they are married for 6 months and not even a single day passed without Shah family’s interference”🙂 which is 10000% true😁 and the other..”he and little Anu will not pay for her goodness”
Well said..👏👏👏 but who will listen anupama or pakhi😁🤣🤣🤣
Loved the precap and loved the way how anuj channelised his feelings in front of anupama and his explanation yo useless pakhi and her looser father, barkha is correct how can she trust a person like pakhi i hope adhik is not abused further nor become the abuser. This toxic trio should visit hell. Hell hounds should come and take them away.
Hmmm… seems new track gonna be of anuj n anupamas relationship…🤔🤔
I think soon there will be a leap.. Choti Anu’s life will be in danger coz of anupamaa’s mahanta so anuj will decide to leave anupamaa.. After leap choti anu and anuj will hate anupamaa and barkha ankush will eye his properties again.. And anupamaa will be at shah house as free ki maid
Aisa mat bol behen
@shubh haha makers can do that you never know😝
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Poor Anupama, always dragged in every direction. Always has to go through agni pariksha to prove something to someone. If Anuj wanted a mother and wife all to himself,then he should have married someone previously unmarried and childless. Simple. I’ll repeat this again, Anupama’s magic is her soft heart,mamta and extreme sensitivity. They should all take note that Anu will never stop being Anu. Period. Her children,regardless of if we think they deserve it or not will always get her love and devotion. That is who she is. Anuj and everyone else should deal with this fact. While he was pining away for her (like somewhat of a creep,of you ask me) for 26 years, she was busy birthing and nurturing kids. And like she said, if he couldn’t forget her and move on in 26 years despite her being nothing to him at the time,then how does he expect her to change overnight towards her own children and focus more on the child they adopted?
As I said some days back,if it comes down to it, Anupama will choose her children over any and everyone, no matter how broken that’ll make her.
And even if she “chooses” Anuj over them,he will not recognise her ever again because Anupama lives for children and Shah parivaar as well as Anuj and Choti Anu. All are equally important to her. That’s how she is made. She can make space for new loved ones because she has a great big heart but she will NEVER leave any old loved one behind. That’s it
Look, believe it or not anupama has Stockholm syndrome. There is no magic in it. Its called bewakoofi. You can research and educate yourself if you want to. Being extremely sensitive is not something a sensible person will do.
Those sound like angelic traits but they’re so extreme they’re almost pathological in Anupamaa. They’re maladaptive, being too nice is interfering with her life and the lives of the people she’s vowed and bound by duty to nourish and care for. Anuj is not wrong to ask her to draw a line and refocus on their daughter considering he is finally saying this after six months.
Even I used to get frustrated at Anu for always being there for everyone who didn’t seem to appreciate, respect or even see her efforts but eventually I just got to realise that that’s how the character is shaped. She can have her bouts of firmness but she’s nothing more that a teddy bear on the inside. She’s an empath. She feels the pain of others on spiritual level. Asking her to be distant or overly strict will change the structure of the character that is Anupama and the show will lose its essence.
I do agree,no matter what, no one should be a doormat for anyone.
But perhaps what you see as doormat behaviour is just someone who never gives up on her loved ones. Truly, for all the tears and long, unnecessary lectures, Anu is the strongest character on the show. Her heart is so big, her love is so pure and her devotion towards her people, ESPECIALLY the undeserving is dogged. I agree with Anuj on one thing, in everything, there should be a line
But what he seems to forget is Anu DOES draw lines here and there when the need arises, just not the way people like. She’s not meant to dance to anyone’s drum beat but hers. She does have lines, she slapped and kicked out Pakhi na? She disciplined Toshu and stopped acknowledging him for a while na? She defied even Baa on several occasions and so on. Anu DOES draw lines when necessary. And she has gotten bolder and more vocal about her wants and needs. Instead of always picking her apart and complaining that she isn’t mean of strict enough,applaud her for the firmness she does display now and again. She will never be Rakhi Dave, Devika,Kavya or any other type of woman. She is Anupama. She will be as firm or as soft as she specifically is designed to be and you all must accept her as she is or stop watching the show altogether. Jai shri Krishna🙏🏼
Arre behen itna senti mat bano. It’s just a serial and Anupama character is written by some braindead writers who just wanna potray her as ‘tyag ki murti’ at any cost and boost TRP. They know indian women love drama and also like to shed tears on these characters.
Todays episode was 🔥 Loved the way Anuj expressed himself. He was spot on about baa vanraj and pakhis attitude taking anu for granted. Being innocent and good is great but one has to be shrewd as well to live in this evil selfish world.
Anu will never give up on them @ Rhythm,that’s who she is. We all best just get used to it
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@Vaijyanthi.Same here
I realised it an year ago.
Well…Glad to know some people are getting the Right POV now.
Really liked how you explained 💐
Thanks @ Amar. Finally,someone who understands 🤗
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This is why adopting anu was such a bad idea anuj bhi koi mahan or kaam nehi hae jo aisi orat ko jo ma baan baan k thak gayi hae usko phir se maa baana diya like wtf weren’t we supposed to see her being independent going to work studying instead here we are here now take care of this new child cuz ANUJ how is this not same as before?? Before she used to love vanraj and she agrred to his wishes now ANUJ the difference is less abuse i guess??but still same shit man
I also get that they probably added that child so they can keep this show up and loop it till human kind is all gone lmao like yeh rishta kya kehlata hae , imlie
Exactly@ f**k. Same shit, different man. He claims to be a better man than vanraj but all are same. All he does these is drag Anu around like everyone else.
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At one side anuj is someone who never had any child and wished for it a lot so obv when he gets one hes gonna get attached and on another side theres anupama who already has a big family and real connections so obv shes gonna be attached to them more then a random ass new kid who was anujs wish nd all anuj bhi kuch kaam selfish nehi hae wo bhi mahan baanta hae baas bolta nehi hae saab anuj anuj karta hae jaise wo kuch bhi nehi kaarta try to see the point from both sides guys
Yes like not ousting Barkha till Now
Last four episodes are nice otherwise serial is not worth seeing bcz in last for episodes Anupama work is very less and hence four episodes are worth seeing. All the time acting like a teacher.
I think it’s a good idea for anu to draw line in her relationship but I don’t think this makes sense in my ears I mean why is anuj so bothered about the way she treat her family we all know that anu will never change from anupama/maa/bahu and is not easy for her to forget them in just 6 months people that she once lived with for 26 years and he expects her to forget them I think he’s been a little selfish this time around and let not forget how anu and anuj use to romance each other publicly in pakhi’s presence and I am sure that is the reason why she got married in her early age after all is after marriage that u get know who you are married to I think is time for anu to witness another side of anuj that she doesn’t know
Anupama can be as good as she wanna be! But b4 tat she must remember she is NOW Anuj’s wife! Whatever you said Anuj shouldn’t have married her if he already knows Anupama is who she is! Come on, he loves Anupama for 26 years so when he got the chance to be with her why should he deprived himself of?? The problem is Anupama is being unneccessarily good like Anuj has pointed out! She gotta draw the line! Anuj nvr stop her from loving n caring when her children needs her! He just wanna Anupama to draw the line! She gotta move on n not go backward, n by moving on doesn’t mean she leave her children behind it’s just always 24/7 she has her own life! Moreover, Pakhi is married now! She is an adult can they always depend on Anupama?? Pakhi is mature enough to marry why not mature enough to handle her marriage! Generally speaking if a daughter is married mother will let her handle her marriage n not 24/7 be there for her!
@🙄🙄, loving her children is not moving “backwards” it’s called being a parent. Anuj should get uswled to it or opt out! Marriage isn’t by force. He thinks his weirdness of keeping his life on hold for 26 years means Anu must do everything according to his wish, No, he kept himself on hold like a creepy man for 26 years pinning away for someone’s wife and mother and now he has gotten his desire,he is beginning to act too comfortable, he needs to realise that Anu did him a FAVOUR by marrying him,and NOT the other way around. He pestered her for marriage. She didn’t require or desire marriage after being in hellish one for 26 years with Ravanraj. Babuji along with him pestered and pestered Anu for marriage until she finally agreed. And now that he knows he can’t father his own children, he made Anu embrace motherhood again as old as she is after raising three kids!! Selfish of him because he knew she won’t decline. And don’t get be wrong, choti Anu is a sweet girl and a nice addition to the show. I’m only referring ro Anuj’s selfishness now
Pls read properly my next line after go backward! I did pointed out tat she can still care n be there for them just not 24/7 or whenever they feel they need her! Bear in mind she is someone’s wife n mother too! Marriage is mutual they are both happy, how can you define marriage as doing the other partner a favor? They went thru all marriage ritual mind you! Although I am not Indian I dunoe wat were the promise but basically it’s promise of staying together thru thick n thin! Now Anupama is putting Shahs affairs priority over Kapadia’s! If Anuj is selfish he can literally demand Anupama to never ever go back to Shahs as n when she feels like it! But Anuj still allow Anupama to do tat until recent happenings of Pakhi n Adhik!
Which he thinks Anupama cannot handle it for Pakhi as it is between the husband n wife n she cannot interfere! Moreover she has Little Anu to take care! Pakhi has Shahs to be there for her whereas Little Anu n Anuj have only Anupama!
Finally anuj gave a reality check to his buddhi dadima
Everyone has expectations from anupama but nobody bother what actually anupama want what is anupama liking no body to want know
Anupama nature is kind and helpful it is impossible to expect from her if major things happen to pakhi toshu anupama will be unaffected ki jaa maro ya jeeyo mujhe koi Matlab nahi ki ab meri shaadi ho gayi hai main apni anuj ke saath bahut khush hoon
Nahi ek maa ke liye specially anupama jaise maa ke liye aisa soch paana bahut mushkil Hota Hai
Anupama jaise maa apni bachon ki chinta badi musibat mein. Kabhi nahi chodtw ..jaroorat se jyaada anupama se unrealistic expectations Kiya,jaa raha anupama se
toshu ki papa i lob u
Mai bhi thumse bohoth pyar karta hoon anu. Thumne ahcha kya ki uss shayari kapadia ko chodke mere paass aakar.
mai bhi aapse bohoth bohoth bohoth bohoth bohoth bohoth bohoth zyada pyar karti hu😭😭aapki bina reh nahi sakti mein😭😭mujhe wapas apnane ke liye tank u😭😭😭mai roj khanaji se tank u boldungi aapko meri jindagi mai wapas laane ke liye😭😭😭 aap mujhe gale lagao meri kushi ki aasu rok nahi parahi ho aaj😭😭😄😭😭😭😄😄😄
Arey meri maa agar itna rolenge toh iss ghar thumhari aasu se gheela hoga aur tsunami hoga. Aur wese bhi 26 saal tak maine thumhe sirf aasu aur dard ki elava kiya hi dhiya ta? Nahi anupama. Aaj mujhe bolne sai math rok. Mai jaanti hu maine thumhaare sath aaj tak sirf naa insafi ki lekin jaise us dhin thumse promise kiya tha waisa hi aaj thumse promise kar raha hu ki thumhari saari zindhagi me ab sirf kushi aur pyar hi dhunga. Mai 26 saal ki puraane vanraj shah nahi ho ab. I know I am late par dher se hi sahi ab meri samaj me aahi gaya hai ki mai pehle hamesha meri mardangi aur ehenkaar par andhe hogya ta aur meri ghamand ke elava aur kuch dikahi nahi dya tha isi liye itne waqt thak mai itna bura insaan ban ke jiya. Par ab esa bilkul nahi hoga khaskar thumhare saath. Aur aaj ki baadh agar mai thumse aasu dhega toh woh hai sirf kushiyon ka aasu. Dhukh ki aasu nahi. Lekin please ab thum rona bandh karo warna ghar ka pata nahi par meri kapde zaroor gheele hoga😂😂😂aur gale lagane se kisne thumhe roka hai? Aau gale lagao mai ab ham dono ki baaki ki zindhagi pe sirf thumhaara naam kiya hai. Ab na koi shayari kapadia aur na hi koi kavya hamare beech hoga. Kisi bi theesre ke liye ab ham dhono ki zindhagi pe koi jaga nahi milega. Agar kapadia mansion se thumhari koi bhi keemthi yaadein hoga woh sai choti anu. Uss bahchi mera toh khoon nahi hai par thumne ahcha kiya hai ki thumne already choti anu ko godh liya hai toh abse sirf ham dhono choti anu ki dhekh baal karke bada karega. Ham dhono us bahchi ko itna pyar dhekar bada karogi ki usko usne kabhi bhi akela maisoos nahi hoga.
Tank u tank u tank u toshu ki papa. Aur pleej apne aap ko dosh dena bandh kar. Mai yeh nahi kerahi ho ki 26 saal tak aapne jo kiya wo sahi hai. Lekin ab aapko aapke kiye ki par ehsaas howa hai isliye ab purani saalo ke bare me bath karke dukh hone ki kiya faida aur wese bhi wo sab ab kuch nahi hai jo ab aap mere liye dene wali kushiyon ke saamne. 😄sach bolo toh aapko pata bi nahi hai ki ab aap muje kitni badi kushi di hai mujhe wapas apna karke aur ye bata ke ki ham dhono choti anu ko pyaar se parvarish karogi😄😄agar aapne 26 saal tak mujhe duk de sakti ho toh aaj mai kush bhi aapke wajese ho. Aur abhi isi samai se ham sirf ahche yaadein banayegi. 😄😄aur mai bhi aapse vaada karti hoon anuj aur kaavya ab hamare beech mai nahi aanedhungi😄aajse choti anu aapko hi papa bulaogi. Mai choti anu ko baath karke usko samjaogi ab hamhe unki mata pita hai. Aap chinta mat karo wo kabhi kuch bhi ham dhono ki baare me galat soch nai nahi dhenge ham dhono😄 acha toshu ki papa agar aapko sahi lage toh mai jhilmil ko bulao wo wapas hamari ghar ki kaam karne sambhal ne ke liye? Aapko teek lage toh😄
Mujhe pata hai ki ab thum mujhe yahi lecture dene wali ho😂😂😂😂todi dher baat
Anuj has been great tdy..but agn Anu is baby sitting Pari..omg..what’s baa doing then ? Can’t she tk care if she’s unwell..without Anu they can’t do anything..I told earlier Anuj made BIG mistake of adopting small anu at this age as Anu dusnt hv time only Okk fr her..better Anu shifts to shah house as they r her priority..all d time crying n worrying fr them shehh..
I feel like I need to point out something.
Anuj loved Anu in college, he was aware that she married Vanraj so went to USA.
He tried to find other love but for him, no one compared to Anu. Not creepy at all, just life.
He came back to India and saw that Anupamaa was divorced Vanraj remarried.
He realised his feelings hadn’t changed, nothing wrong with that.
Anupamaa was working in Shah house as a maid, not a mother or wife!
Anuj offered her a way out, her life and stigma as a divorced woman ended.
Anuj never told her to give up motherhood, it’s only now after Pakhi’s atrocities that he’s asked Anupamaa to draw a line, a very reasonable request.
Yes, Anuj is soft where his wife is concerned,Anupamaa will drive him away.
I hope Anuj does separate from Anupamaa, she does NOT deserve him.
Please Anuj, go away from toxic Anupamaa, she’s only using you to support the Shah family. Your money goes a long way towards that, the loans, emplitment etc that you gave.
Could Anupamaa support the Shshs without you????
Agree Kally!
So sad to see that Adhik was so soon able to forgive Pakhi.
She has to finish her studies, become independent and do something about her behavior.
She keeps stepping on Anupama’s soul and yet Anu has forgiven her. She really gets away with anything. Spoiled brat. It has to been several months and she should gain insight and real regret. She has already discovered her mistake in a few hours and is forgiven. it can’t be like that. Children need to know that their asiocal behavior is really out of whack.
I think Anupama has grown used to the toxic environment of the Shah house after having lived there for 26 years, so much that however much Anuj tries to help her break free, she herself gets entangled in the mess that mad house has to offer. What she needs right now is some good intense therapy from a good counsellor to break the chain of toxicity that she is unknowingly inflicting upon Anuj and little Anu.
Anuj is absolutely correct, Anupama gets stuck with all the work and sacrifices. Is Vanraj not able to take any responsibility as a father? All he does is yell and blame Anupama for everything but he is good for nothing, no job, does not help in the house but knows how to act like the world revolves around him. He is reason for Pakhi’s behavior.
Anupama needs to listen to Anuj if she wants to save her marriage with someone who treats her with love and respect unlike Vanraj who was just a MCP!!
Someone who is old enough to get married needs to learn to manage her own life. Also Kinjal is always calling Anupama for help, she needs to learn to handle her own child!
Cannot believe they promote such needy behaviors in the show and the only person who had to fix everything is Anupama but she is the first one to get yelled by everyone.
Seriously the show needs to promote woman but not like this.
Time to change the course
Brilliant coverage and message conveyed fireclay
Vanraj attitude will not call.Anij wife
Let’s wait fir how long
It’s git very boring
Pakhi after whatcshexhD do e has gotcWay lightly. Very bD example tomsociety like brush inder the carpet like nothing happened
Disappointed
O certain they wamtvtonfump.on Anupana and hood old Anupamz with her mHan4a and stupidity will ri to the toxic place
I think issue is not shah house but Anupama herself as thick S pillock
Notvunderstandi g Anuk whT he’s trying to say the shah’s havecdestroyed her snd made her a full tome maid available 24/7 and when things go wrong g blame her
And Vanraj and Leela all talk
Crunch comes they lose their tongue a d keep quiet
Totally appalling writers have mDe a joke or the series .