Anupama 22nd November 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Kavya confronts Vanraj that Bapuji accepted Anupama as a beti/daughter, but couldn’t accept her even as a bahu/DIL; his children, Samar is mamma’s boy, Pakhi cannot be loyal to one side, Toshu is a pent house boyfriend who couldn’t be even his mother’s son, Kinjal is another Anupama. Anu says they can go inside and talk. Kavya shouts at her to shut up. Samar and Vanraj warns Kavya to stop her drama. Kavya says nobody is normal in this house except her, Anupama is a devi, Bapuji is great, his children are innocent, and he is wicked; this house needs a great maid and not bahu, she is normal and not mahaan/great; didn’t he realize she is a bahu when Baa calls her maide ki katori and threatens to slap her, a MIL can threaten a DIL, but a DIL cannot oppose; she is not mahaan like Anupama but a normal human; she tried her best but couldn’t adjust in his family. Vanraj says even his family tried their best to adjust. She says they are still stuck with Anupama, Samar and Bapuji cannot stop loving Anupama, he and Baa cannot stop hating her; she is not even getting proper hatred from them as Anu has taken over all 50% rights; she is tired of being this family’s bahu. Vanraj says she was dying to become this family’s bahu. She says she was a fool and after watching his family closely, she realized how toxic they are; she can understand Baa’s arrogance, his Bapuji leaves home whenever he senses a fight would start.
Vanraj shouts at her. She says its true, Bapuji should stay at home and stop fight, but he either goes out or sits silently; he left home when Baa misbehaved with him and didn’t oppose her when Baa misbehaves with others; his sister Dolly visits once and creates problems always; she made a biggest mistake by becoming this family’s bahu. He says he made a biggest mistake by marrying her and making her Kavya Shah from Kavya Gandhi and repeats his words. He says he is telling it in anger. He says he is telling it in his senses. She shouts how dare he is to say this. Bapuji asks why did he come here. Kavya says he came and created problem here. Vanraj shouts to stop. Anu says they should go in and talk instead of creating drama here. Vanraj says let the drama continue when it has started and tells Kavya that he did wrong with one wife and will not with another wife, so its better they both leave this house and let Anupama, Anuj, parents, and children happy; they can visit them once a week, themselves be happy and let family be happy. Kavya gets afraid and says let us end this issue right here. He says even he wants to, so let us leave this house as this house belongs to Bapuji.
Anu senses Kavya will not go so easily. Vanraj holds Kavya and says let us pack our bags and leave. Kavya frees her hand and says he can pack his bag and go alone wherever he wants to; she will clear all the misunderstanding today. She brings property documents and shows them to him. He stands shocked. Anu asks what is it. Kavya says these are property papers and this house belongs to only her. Toshu asks what rubbish is this. Kavya says everyone don’t stay in MIL’s gifted pent house and have their own house instead; she got this house because of his MIL Rakhi Dave who gave her this brilliant idea; she provoked Anupama, Vanraj, and Dolly and got their property share transferred in her name; they all are emotional fools and she did right by snatching their rights from her. She reveals how she provoked fools Anupama and Dolly and forced them to sign documents without reading it; she made Vanraj signed the documents in lieu of signing insurance documents; she is not sorry to show them their place; she sacrificed her house to Anirudh for Vanraj. She then shows her hatred for Anupama and says they all are obsessed with Anupama, both hate and love her and think only about her in both happiness and sorrows, etc. so they all should go and stay at Anupama’s house.
Anupama warns her to stop as she did really wrong. Kavya says everyone in this house does wrong, her jhoola/swing queen verbally abused her bahu for 26 years, her mahaan Bapuji enjoyed theplas and news papers, her elder son and daughter humiliated their mother whole life and younger son humiliated his father whole life; she, her whole family, and her samdhan are wrong, etc. Anu says they are wrong but not thieves like her; they fight and have grudge towards each other, but are not traitors like her; if she had asked, she, her parents, and her children would have given her this brick and mortar structure happily without any complaint.
Precap: Bapuji tells Anupama that sending Anuj in her life was in Kanhaji’s hands and letting him in her heart is in her hands, so she should let Anu enter her heart. Kavya hugs and apologizes Vanraj. Vanraj thinks he will become his old self for his family.
Update Credit to: MA
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I feel Like Kavya is correct in the sense that everyone praises Anupama, and that Anupama is just this mahaan person. Adding on that Paritosh keeps running after Rakhi, Kinjal loves Anupama, and Pakhi can never pick a side. That Kavya was right that this family is toxic and is a handful, but what Kavya lacks is kindness. Kavya could not be nice with anyone who does not want to do what she (Kavya) wants. Kavya does not want to build relationships, she wants to control everyone, and she (Kavya) wants to basically use everyone. Anupama jas this Mahaan character because for 25 years she had to deal with everyone’s bullshit, you either become an Anupama or a Kavya because of that toxic household. Everyone in that house hold is toxic, and everyone is somewhat responsible for cause each other pain. It’s just funny that Kavya brought out everyone else’s truth but can not even talk about her flaws. Anupama and Kavya are the opposite of each other but both are toxic in some ways.
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Vanraj talks about how he would do anything for his family but would always leave at the first sight of trouble. Whether it be when the affair came out, or when the divorce was happening, his marriage to Kavya, unable to find a job and now, when Anupama left the house and everything was falling from his hand. Vanraj talks about being the man of the house but runs away the moment there is an issue and he can not blame it on someone else.
@Mystery : The reason why everyone used to praise Anupama because she earned that for 25 yrs . Her love , affection and kindness made her a place in that toxic house ( woh alag baat hai old hag baa deserve nahi karti) but what kaavya used to do ? She used to instigate someone who had a rift with Anupama . Tried to demolish Anu and that individuals relationship instead of making her own place . Anu got her place after 25 years .
but the truth is no one will wait for their time for so long . Anu used to tolerate their shit , anger and abuse and ofcourse her mahaanta syndrome ( pointed out by Rakhi and Devika) . If someone else was in Anupamas place would have run from there long before . Because that house is toxic and INTOLERABLE . So Kaavyas anger is justified at some point . What Kaavya said on Saturdays ep was that baa wasn’t a six year old to be manipulated . Old hag baa knew Anu for 26 years and trusting someone who has barely live in that house for 8 months is called a fool . She never loved Anu truly
The most difficult thing in today’s life is to take care of the family and oneself also. None in this house possess this quality. All of them are either devoted like Anupama, Bapuji, Samar and Kinjal or selfish like Paritosh, Vanraj, Baa and Pakhi. These characters are difficult to find in our surroundings. So the writer must find a character who lives for his family and also so for himself.
Kavya pointed out everyone flaws but where are the sources of all these happenings to make these ppl toxic?? Somehow someone had created problems n issues to make someone to react as such!! Kavya, Baa, Vanraj n Toshu were the sources.
You guys do make good points. I am just pointing out that all of them have flaws and all of them are very hard to like or appreciate.
Vese …. Kudos to writing… 10 points out of 5 to the makers… very nice … very very nice
Its not new that someone felt irritated/jealous of Anupama’s greatness😏.
The frustated and negative comments regarding Anupama, tauting her with her Compliments of being great instead of appreciating it or understanding it, wanting a person like Samar but being non understanding, passing disgusting Comments like Paritosh… First make yourself a good deserving person then talk trash about Anupama’s character.
If you really appreciate Samar, learn from him at least. He understand his mother or atleast belives that whatever she does will be good or atleast for peace. She knows his mummy’s mahaanta is not good for her but it makes her so pious and his inspiration. He also gets tensed, anxious because of her mahanta because he truly Cares for her. Whereas you negative commenter, do you really care about Anupama. You are another Selfish Shah who just want the story according to their moods.
Instead of criticising, understand and accept more. Atleast this much we can learn by ourselves. Kinjal, Samar, Anupama, Bapuji, Anuj are all the positive examples of this statement. If you don’t like Anupama, its ok but don’t spread negativity and hatred. Learn it from Kinjal/Samar/Anuj whom you claiming to like (not for much long).
I know some peoples who will praise this show and show how much they are loving this show this week but very next week they are criticising, hating, abusing Anupama and wanting to Quit show. First Decide they comment. Better be a good human before taunting any other character.
I think u are talking about me 😉
FYI I am only criticising her character writing . Neither abusing nor hating . And I never decided to quit this show . Imagine getting betrayed by a person numerous times . Will u even feel going back to them . Old hag not only belittled her but character assassinated her . Karn in Mahabharata was punished for it . Anupamaa’s character is a delusional one . And she is not my fav anymore . Devika and Anuj are .
First week we appreciate her character as she is doing something for herself after taking enough shit from Assraj , Homewrecker Kaavya , Old hag and Trashu but the very next week when they realize their mistake she is ready to forgive them . They dont learn a lesson from this . They will again do this , then ask for forgiveness .
Ok anyways lets leave this matter . Today I have not criticised her character . because I dont want to spread negativity as kaavya has already done in todays ep 😉
No no please
You are not.
I am not specific.
I have seen many many people who taunt and trash Anupama with the adjectives which are. Meant for Compliments.
@Amar ok ok
I am not targeting the loyal audience or a single person. You know if you are falling in those category or not. you know better about yourself than me.
Well done for being sooooo understanding. And shame on everyone who wants to see self respect, self esteem and anything realistic & entertaining in a character in a TV show.
First time I think kavya is right. Shah’s want a maid who works in house, take care of them, resolve their pity fights etc not a bahu. They cannot give respect to their bahu. Their kids are disrespectful towards their parents. Shah family is way more behind from world. They are still orthodox. Anupama does too much. This much is not tolerated at all. And that so called Baa should understand that raising hand on DIL is illegal. She should stop acting like a queen.
And who does Kavvya respect?
But I kinda agree with kavya that house is full of toxicity baa, vanraj and toshu mistreated anupamaa, babuji spent just watching instead of stopping them, Samar defended his and was called a mama boy, pakhi is also selfish who picks a side when it benefits her. But I like what babuji told kinjal a while ago have a loving heart like anupamaa but don’t tolerate them like she did. But for once kavya told them the truth on their faces. And I was beginning to wonder why rakhi was quite after the humiliation so she was busy planning with kavya
Anupama’s ‘ mahaanta ‘ is definitely too much to digest. So, Kavya, in today’s episode ,was quite refreshing- she showed a mirror to the characters in the SHAH family. Her analysis of Anupama, Baa, Bapuji , Vanraj and the kids was bang on!! What Kavya did was wrong. Definitely very wicked. But yet, the way she tore each and every character was superb..the toxicity prevailing in the SHAH HOUSE was 100% bull’s eye. Anupama simply loves being walked all over.
In one word kavya rocks so did anupama but I did not agree with her when she defended shah family. They deserve this cheating by kavya. Vanaraj baa tosh bapuji all shown the mirror and shown their place . One good thing no one is going to crowd anupama s house
Now serial has taken interesting turn to enter Anuj and appreciated with the script given to him. Hence serial is being appreciated otherwise this serial long back went off on air
Agree with Kavya. Today she spoke the bitter truth about each and every one. While Vanraj, Baa and Toshu has always been clearly portrayed as the villains,nobody spoke of the fact that Bapuji was quite for 25yrs when Anupama was mistreated not only by her saas but also by her children and husband. And what exactly are the makers of this show trying to portray…that one must remain submissive Anupama and let the entire family mistreat her always…Isn’t it weird that even after divorcing and leaving the Shah House, Anupama keeps pocking her nose in all the day today affairs of the Shah house.Why is she defending the maan saaman and what not of the entire Shah house including her Ex-husband and ex-SaaS? Only thing that can be justified is if she stands up for/speaks up for matters directly relating to her children. Are the producers/directors/makers of this show trying to portray that a woman should have absolutely no self respect?
People like you have tendency to escape but not Anupama. She has her own Blood Children in that house. She have Bapuji in that house. She really cares about them and its her duty to look upon them even if she is staying away.
Only a woman/ man like Vanraj and you ,who is selfish will escape like Nirav Modi and will never look back again.
Correct. Bapuji was quiet for 25 years. In fact, 50 years. Coz first he let his wife (Baa) be oppressed and suppressed by HER mil for 25 years. Then he let his WIFE mistreat HER dil for another 25 years. He never spoke up against the women harassment going on in this Shah house since 50 years. He had the authority, and everyone, even Vanraj and Baa respected him still he just watched everything silently. Now suddenly one year he remembers he is a ‘pita’ and has a ‘beti’ who is being tortured by so he starts doing ‘meri beti meri beti’ and becomes a ‘woman empowerer’. I don’t digest this. Why he didn’t do this earlier? Acting goody goody NOW that all damage has been done, doesn’t make him innocent and right. Remember, after the divorce he emotionally blackmailed Anupama to continue to stay at toxic Shah house with ex husband and sautan. If anything happens he will just shed tears and leave.
So, unpopular opinion I know, BUT Bapuji HAS played a big role in all this, and I certainly don’t support such a spineless man.
Exactly my views @DB I was so hoping that Anuj would enter and grab hold Anupama hands and take her away from there saying that it none of her business while new bahu argue with her husband.
I don’t like Kavya she yells and scream her guts out, but today she was showing the family the mirror. I won’t be surprised if the entire family shifts to Anu’ s home and even there Anuj would not be entertained.
The fact everyone respect bapuji so much if he at least said to treat anu with respect since start so this thing wont never happen. He never told baa anything since she did a lot of things but he could make vanraj and toshu maybe pakhi as well to treat her with respect when it was time to speak. now it is of no use
Your correct
You don’t sign any papers without reading them. Not just property even your name can be monopolized if you dont read before signing. Everyone should be educated about it. Anupama dolly vanraj they all signed without reading just to create a statement. Anupama did it again after the last scam not learning from her mistakes.
Nobody reads papers.
If your Blame game ended be sensible
Anupama is uneducated and repeating same mistake again and again. Either she stays at home and be full time or goes for education before being full time working woman
I want to see Rakhi dave turning into snake form 🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍😁😁😁😁😂😂
But in previous episodes, I did read while anupuma was signing papers leela shah was written in that paper. And when dolly signed that time vanraj was written.
And once all named to Vanraj, then the whole thing Kavya snatched by signing a final paper in the lieu of Insurance paper
No anupuma’s was signed in the name of leela
either the writer thinks we don’t have common sense or the writer herself has zero sense.
Unless bapuji is alive he can rewrite his will and claim back the property. Any school going kid would know this. Just to create an useless drama all this is shown. No momentum
Don’t worry Anuj has his legal team waiting for some job to arrive at their desk.
Guys,
This man @Amar is using two IDs here.
Amar and AJ are the same person. He is using different email IDs for both his names so that different icons would be there and he won’t be suspected. Under one ID (Amar) he behaves polite and sensible and wise. Under his other ID (AJ) he goes around being rude and cursing people for no reason. We should either report him or ignore him.
I am not saying this just like that. I have been noticing him for the past many days.
A few days ago, (when Subha, Metin, him and everyone else were having a debate on gods) he had forgotten to change his email ID and replied with the name ‘AJ’ but the icon was of Amar. (the yellow one). Also, AJ’s and Amar’s time of posting comments is always very close. If anyone pays close attention, you can easily identify that these two are the same person.
I personally have no issue with anyone using two IDs but this man under the name of AJ is always abusing fellow forum mates.
This comment had more twists than the serial itself 😂😂
Honestly, its true. Can’t you all see that both of their writing style is the same?
Nice logic. @Amar and me have some similarities.nice.still we are not the same person but yes we know each other..
But am I too bad to be ignored?. And who are u to give judgement if any other person hasnt any problem.
You are just a random person who likes poking into nose.
If being Dank and savage looks abusing then eat it.
Lol, You think you are savage? You keep calling people losers, selfish/Nirav modi (which you did just today), cheap, toxic, shameless, (and other abusive words I don’t even want to repeat) etc for their opinions. Or do you forget your own words after writing them? May I ask who are YOU to pass judgements on them? You can’t accept peoole having different opinions than yours and that makes them ‘losers’ in your eyes, right? Dude, I’ve literally seen you under Amar’s ID and I literally know you are both the same so don’t bother covering up for it. Your abusive behavior is not tolerable so better stop that, else I have no problem with you giving your opinions as ‘Amar’.
And since I am an active reader on this forum, I’ve as much as rights to expose you or point you out since you are deceiving/disrespecting others. You are free to think I’m ‘poking my nose in your matter’. I don’t care.
Amar he ddnt writing anything negative he’s explain good
@Arista, chill buddy.
We shall not be using abusive words.
As @Metin says, we have rights to voice our opinion but at the same time we have to be respectful and considerate for other views. If we cant respect, its better to ignore until it impacts us.
@Subha in no way am I abusing him. In fact I didn’t use any disrespectful word. Only stating the truth. I firmly believe he and Amar are the same person, but that doesn’t mean I’m insulting him.
What he says doesn’t impact me directly, but its necessary to speak up against such behavior. Didn’t you notice, he keeps abusing people under this ID (AJ) ? I accept I created a big issue when it wasn’t necessary, and I don’t care if people think I’m lying. Atleast HE now knows he’s been noticed and confronted and probably this incident would cause his insulting behavior to finally stop.
In any case, I don’t regret publicly posting this comment about his two IDs.
Arista why don’t u complain to admin about this fraud person?
Kavya is damn right in this episode. These scenes are what make me like her a bit. Unlike Anupama, she uses her brain more than heart. Anupama is someone who is sensitive, emotional and loves her family more than anything. She is strong, but emotional. She just needs to learn to be a bit practical.
And coming to Kavya….I like her sometimes, because she is not cheap like other tv serial vamps, who use cheap tricks to make sure the female lead loses or smthng like that. She has her standards and is selfish and egoistic. I think Kavya is right when she said nobody accepted her as bahu. But, she need to realise that she did not do one good thing as a Bahu. She doesn’t have to be like Anupama serving everyone, taking care of husband and all. She doesn’t have to keep the family together and solve all the issues like anupama. It is not only bahu’s duty to solve family issues, serve everyone, keeping the family together. No need to do all this shit. These things should be your choice as a bahu. If you do not want to do such things, leave it and be calm without interfering much. But Kavya, interferes a lot in the name of bahu and messes things more. She always says shahs are obsessed with anupama. Of course they would be, Anupama has been with them for 26 yrs and Kavya only for 9 years. Baa, toshu, Pakhi do love anupama. They did care for her. Maybe, they did not support her or always insulted her. But there is love and affection for Anupama. Even before the affair came out, during anupama’s 25 th anniversary, baa stated that she always loved Anupama and liked her. I know, people will say that is only because baa want a maid in the house and all. I am literally tired of explaining why baa, toshu and pakhi really love anupama. They might not love Anupama as Samar and kinjal did but they do love her a bit. No matter, how many reasons and explanations I give, I know nobody will accept that baa and all those toxic shahs loved anupama.
I know people have their own free will and have their own opinions on the characters and I cannot be angered that my views are different. All I want to say is that the serial is anyways not showing positivity…at least let us, as commenters show some positivity. Show your opinions and all, but don’t be too negative while writing your comment, is what i am asking
You like kavya I respect it. But just for once, think of this. If kavya really loved V she would also attempt to love his family.
Just take example of Kinjal. I think she is practical as well as family oriented. She isn’t a mahan but does what is expected out of her and is never negative. She always wishes unity of family and respects the elders.
Kavya on the other hand is toxic herself. She created the toxicity and says the environment bis toxic. How is that acceptable ? She never for once attempted to calm the people down. She turned the anu anuj talks into fire and provoked baa and V for this.
How is kavya right , I really don’t get it
i do not say they dont love her, but their live is highly conditional. they love or adore/ accept her omly as long as she does what they expect. to them she needs to be a robot with zero eq or iq. the minute her mind registers a though that doesnot conform with what they wish for, ( she sorsnt even voice or act uoon it, just having a thought makes her the culprit in their mind and their so called loves goes missing all of a sudden
Fine, for proof, check Anupama’s 30th october 2021 written update. There was a comment by Sudha saying “Don’t worry Pri. We are with you”. Under that were a lot of replies. Actually, AJ and Metin had an argument going on there. And on 8:01 pm, there was a comment (in those replies to Sudha only) by AJ saying “Its ok my friend”. And check THAT out. Observe the icon and compare it with Amar’s. Its the same.
@AJ well, are you satisfied now bro? What else proof you want? Don’t deny, instead change your behavior. I don’t hold grudges. Oh, and btw I just remembered, you had a third ID with the name Maria, didn’t you? I could easily recognize you.
Done?🙄
Not really 😂
Then keep provoking. I will not bother you. Infact nobody really will pay attention to your pity logics and claims until you say about what you should talk about i.e about Anupama serial.
I gave my words, now Believe it or else go to Hell. Nobody Cares anyways🙄
You won’t bother me? Good. My logics and claims are all valid, its not my problem if you just don’t want to accept it! Even if I created a big deal about this thing, or no one believes me, deep inside your mind YOU know I’m stating the truth, and you’re probably frustrated/anxious due to your secret being out. Well well. Nothing else to say, just learn from this incident and better start being respectable towards others. So what if we’re all not talking face to face? You can’t just go around spilling venom hiding under a fake ID.
I’m sure a grown up man understands this.
Wow, I am amazed how stupid anupama is… Kavya is right… She already made a mistake by signing papers without reading once and did not even learn from that mistake… And did it again… Heights of stupidity.
Is not stupidity baa was there as a witness to see she did it, that’s why she looked at baa face when kavya said it
@Arista hope you are done.,😂😂. I got it. I know you. You stalk me daily right??? That’s why u keep my every bit of detail in ur memory.
Sorry Bro, but I am better as single. But I luv it how you made my false character analysis and all. You should also have mention how I bully people😂 how I took up fights and harass. I would like it more then.
I will be like this always, sassy. Now you can f**k off. Toodles.😂
You’re too funny! You said, you won’t bother me but back again. 😂
Highly mistaken if you think your cheap words will scare me away.
Who you think you’re trying to mess with?
Since I’ve taken up this mission to confront you today, I’m not gonna back away.
Calm down dear. its not ok to loose temper. Hope here we can share our views, experiences and make Anupama a good watch by respecting each other. All of us have many things to say, so lets voice them and hear them as well.
@Arista, you are very correct when you demand a respectable communication.
No one need to/ can scare anyone away.
what kavya did is purely taking advantage of someones trust and weakness, but was she said was bull’s eye hasmukh claims he is shattered by the bitter words of his wife, then how is that he was silent when his so called beti was continuouy being emotionally harassed by his wife and son as a father and head of family was it not his responsibility to ensure the emotional well being of his fily members? leela she has the audicity to insult anyonre and everyone, be it anupama, kavya, kinjal,nandi and even their mother’s too why? just because she has the world kind of supremacy complex? vanraj ever ready to blame others for everything that happens in his life, escapist baap ka number one escapist beta. toshu , pakhi and samar the less spoken the better. respect is to be given to elders if this statement is true then all elders need to be respected irrespective of the issues between each other .toshu, pakhi had no right what so ever to demean their mother and samar too had no right to take his mothers side and the same to vanraj. by right the kids were supposed to be neutral and respect both parents equally. no matter how mean a husband vanraj is, as a son he never choose sides, he loved both his parents equally and valued them the same. anupama she is a lady with great amaount of understanding , patience, tolerance blah blah blah what she forgets is charity begins at home, when she cannot stand for herself, then she has no right to take a stand for anyone else. the foremost important thing, practice what you preach and remember to learn from mistake she does not seem to learn anything at all. who commits the same blunder twice, like signing legal papers without even a cursory glance? she is in rhe position of a partner in a prestigeous project but when it comes to dealing with people she us the same old lady driven only by emotions without any thinkong abilities
Correct!
Kavya at least speaks her mind and transparent .
Should have rebuked Toshu more
Kavya shuld answers her own question abt Anu, why everyone love Anu? Why Vanraj cannot stop thinking abt Anu? Why no one love her?? Why she likes to manipulates ppl?? Why she likes to cause discords in the family? When she had done this fraud isn’t she prepares to face divorce frm Vanraj!! Or she expects Vanraj n family to forgive n forget wat she had done??