Anupama 23rd March 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama holds Anuj when he slips. He walks aside, but his bracelet gets stuck in Anupama’s sari. Pyar Hai Ya Saza..song plays in the background. Anupama says however he tries to go away from her, he can’t. She frees her pallu. Anuj tries to leave. Anupama holds his hand and asks him to speak out what is in his mind. Devika says in a relationship, if one is finger, other has to become water or else relationship will burn away. Ankush says Anupama has to become water today. Dheeraj says Anuj had supported Anupama when Anupama had problems, now Anupama has to support Anuj. Anupama insists Anuj to speak out and lighten his heart; if he thinks she’s not bothered about Little Anu’s departure, hope there was an x-ray which would show a pain of a mother.
Anuj says pain shows up on face and he saw a smile on her face instead during holi function in the morning. Anupama says smile is a blanket which covers sorrows; there is a difference between them at this time; he is looking at one side of a coin and she is looking at another side of a coin; he feels Little Anu left them, but she feels they can meet Little Anu; he should have some patience, everything will be alright. Anuj says he can live with pain, but can’t live with fake hopes; she is finding a way for Little Anu’s return instead of blocking her way to leave, he lost his daughter because of Anupama and he has no emotion or love left in his heart now and no bring picture or hope can fill it. Anupama says she is with him always. Anuj says he doesn’t need her.
Anupama is shocked to hear that and asks what did he say, if he doesn’t need his Anupama; she waited for her for 26 years and now hates her. Anuj says he can’t hate her even if he wants to, but doesn’t know if he loves her anymore. Anupama asks if he doesn’t know or he doesn’t love her anymore. Anuj says he doesn’t know, he just sees his daughter going away from him whenever he looks at her and she reminds him of his failure; he feels suffocated in this house. Anupama asks even with their relationship? Anuj says he doesn’t know but just knows that his relationship is with pain now and not Anupama, and when there is nothing left, what will they do with this relationship. Anupama shocked asks what did he say. Anuj says Anupama has her blood relations and happiness on one side and a helpless Anujon the other side, he doesn’t want to stay with her now. Anupama breaks down hearing that. Anuj recalls quality moments spent with Little Anu and then her leaving him. Pyar Hai Ya Saza.. song plays in the background.
At Shah house, Hasmukh feels uneasy. Family rushes for his help and offer him water. Hasmukh says something is wrong. Devika tongue lashes Anuj for his behavior towards Anupama and says Little Anu herself went with Maaya and Anupama didn’t force her to go. Ankush says he can’t speak to Anupama like that and can’t carry his baggage forever. Dheeraj says they know how Anupama is via Anuj, how can he talk of leaving her. Devika says he dumped Little Anu’s responsibility on Anupama when it was her age to retire, she managed everything perfectly, and when something went wrong, how can he blame Anupama; he is similar to Vanraj in his behavior; Little Anu is even his daughter and he should have stopped Maaya, etc. Anuj warns her to stop it. Devika says she will not as she is a friend of them both. Anuj says that doesn’t mean she can interfere in every issue, he doesn’t want anyone to interfere between him and Anuj in thisissue and whatever he told Anupama, he mean it. He leaves from there.
Precap: Anuj packs his bag. Anupama pleads him not to go and asks if he wants to leave her, why did he love her for years and marry her. She tries to convince him with dance and jokes and then pleads him not to break their relationship. Anuj stands senselessly.
Update Credit to: MA
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Anuj only looked up at Devika when he was compared to Vanraj and why didn’t he try to stop Maaya. He didn’t give any type of reaction to mentions of what Anupama did what choti anu. I’m glad Devika stood up for Anu. I know my opinion is going to be small on that.
Anupama shouldn’t have gone to the Holi celebrations without Anuj. But no, Anupama won’t realize this. And it’s not her fault as well, because Anuj has, throughout their relationship been the person who has understood Anupama’s problems, but the same can’t be said the other way around.
Of course, Anupama is a happy person now, as she has been relieved of her duties in CA’s case. She has never considered CA as her own daughter. She considered cooking Khichdi for Baa and Carrot Cake for Pakhi more important than CA’s dance performance and filling up of the field trip form. She wanted such a small child to be the one who understands other people’s problems, and not that oldie Baa and the grown up Pakhi.
She just took the luxuries from Anuj, and had her whole mind and heart at Shah House. She is not disheartened with the fact that CA left, but she is in fact, happy that this is Pakhi’s first Holi after marriage.
All in all, Anuj should have never married her in the first place, because for Anupama, Anuj and CA were only TIMEPASS. She likes getting abused by Baa and Vanraj everyday, and she should have stayed like that till the end. In reality, Anupama never deserved a person like Anuj.
Stay at Shah House, work like a maid, get abused by Baa and Vanraj everyday, cry at night – REPEAT. This is her ideal schedule.
I think you are very wrong .. well in my own opinion one does not, stop having a family because they remarried .. Anu loves CA as well situations were sometimes beyond her .. as for pahki I’m not saying wat she did back den was right .. but we’d admit that she has changed , and understands thing better now , that way Anu doesn’t have to abandon a child for another , and as for anuj a well educated man , there’s more to what he can do .. other than stupidly allowing CA go . There wasnt even a contact with the orphanage .. something he and Anu could very much be arrested for . The timing and situation was bad for all scenarios but I’ll never agree with anyone that says Anu never loved CA like her own child never
@Sapphire
By that logic of your Anupama shouldn’t have gone to shah for Holi as Anuj is sad than why did he go for picnic with CA n maya, at that time Anupama was also in a miserable state. She should have also insulted n shouted n blamed Anuj for all the problems she is facing in her life like he is doing now. Should have blamed Anuj that he placed CA’s burden on her making her unable to be a part her Children’s life. When she didn’t than why is he doing it?
Very true. In as much as Anupama made Some mistakes, for a highly educated man like Anuj he should know better to actually do something to bring back Choti instead of blaming Anu. At least she did something what did Anuj do to save Choti just whine like a big baby. Did Anupama tie him to a chair or was he in a coma to handle things by himself. He is so blinded by his loss that he fails to recognize Anupama’s pain and how she is masking it just so Anuj doesn’t fall into depression. Vanraj would have climbed any mountain to stop Maya from leaving with Choti if he was in his place. Anuj even failed to tell Anupama about Maya’s ex husband. After all that is happening he couldn’t even remember what the man told him about Maya being deceptive. Anupama needs to be divorced, do a retrospection, pull herself together and put herself first for once in her life. She should learn to say no and learn to live for herself and not others.
Exactly,anu was responsible for all this mess plus she even went to Shah house for Holi.
Sorrowful 😔 every day in upcoming Ohno but it’s really good serial . All public wants to happy show this when come new happily moment
Maybe someone should have explained to so called Educated Anuj the difference between fostering and adoption. That could have resulted in a different outcome, but seriously people this is a TV drama for entertainment purposes threat it as such.
Aww nibbi and nibba are goin to break up now. Thank god. After dancing on over 69 oldie songs, redefining Kamasutra , and 108 untold shayaris, they should divorce.
There should be a break up dance also.
Anuj finally understood that Anupama will again and again go to Shahs even after Baa completes her Century on Cursing her.
But I know Anuj will be back to normal after 2 CRYFUL days because he vented out his emotions now.
What will happen to Rondhupama?
She will dance on another 90s song with Anuj and will again run to Shah family. Anuj will be alone again….
But no worries, anupama will invite a sl*t for Anuj and will mke her way to Anuj’s 🍆 like she was doing for Maaya. I feel bad for Maaya that she was not successful. She had no Shah family so she would give her full Attention to Anuj and CA.
Seriously the Rascalpama should go to Viddhashram like in the original serial so that the serial can end with happy faces otherwise this woman will make everyone stupid along with her and bore with her 96 page lectures.
Like seriously Anupama is the problem for. all
No one understands her and her emotions
She is forced to go and do all that to shah family whom she lived with for 25 years
Her selflessness only causes her pain and she should understand that
Like for you Maya is like a good person and Anupama is villan
Miss shyra or what so ever your real name is
Idiotic and emotion less people like you can’t understand anyone
Anupama life turned hell again p
Am so disappointed in ur write up
TODAY’S TAG LINE: ANUJ THE NEW TRAGEDY KING. THIS ENTIRE TRAGEDY SAGA OF NEW CRY BABY ANUJ IS BEING STRETCHED AND IT IS NOW GETTING ON NERVES. ONLY SIGH OF RELIEF IS GAURAV KHANNA EMOTING THE SCENES HENCE HOPEFULLY IT MAY NOT BE THAT IRRITATING
WHY THE HELL ANUJ IS ALL INTO BLAMEGAME. IN FACT HE IS THE ONE WHO GAVE FREE HAND TO THE MUCK WHORE MAYA TO MANIPULATE THE GIRL 👧 BY ALLOWING HER TO BE WITH THE LADY ON BIRTHDAY OF ANUPAMA
THE ENTIRE CHEAP NAUTANKI OF MUCK MAYA HAS BEEN BOOMERANG 🪃 BACKFIRED OVER THE PROJECT ANUPAMA.
MR RAJAN SAHI AND YOUR BRAIN DEAD 🧠 CREATIVE TEAM, IN THE NAME OF CREATIVITY YOU SIMPLY DEPICTED NUISANCE STUPIDITY. THIS ENTIRE NAUTANKI WAS UTTER FIASCO
IT WAS ABSOLUTELY HILARIOUS TO SEE ANUJ AND ANUPAMA AT THE MERCY OF MANIPULATIVE WHORE.MAYA
THE MALE LEAD CHARACTER ANUJ HAS BEEN TOTALLY RUINED. HE APPEARS LIKE A CERTIFIED IDIOT PLAYING BLAMEGAME AND THROWING GUILT PARCEL ON THE LADY.
HOW DO YOU EXPECT SENSIBLE MATURED AUDIENCE TO DIGEST ALL THIS NONSENSE.
THE SERIAL HAS SUSTAINED SO FAR ONLY BECAUSE OF SCINTILLATING PERFORMANCES OF GORGEOUS ACTORS GAURAV KHANNA AND RUPALI GANGULY. HENCE DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING RIFT BETWEEN THE LEAD PAIR
MR RAJAN SAHI AND YOUR BRAIN DEAD CREATIVE TEAM DON’T GET FLATTERED WITH TRP RANKINGS. THESE ARE JUST FALSIFIED BLOATED FIGURES.
NOW ATLEAST WITH ADVENT OF DHIRAJ AND DEVIKA SHOW SOMETHING SENSIBLE. LET THEM PLAY THE ROLE OF CUPIDS AND ONCE AGAIN DO TROUBLE SHOOTING AND DAMAGE CONTROL AND SALVAGE THE WRECKED FALTERED PROJECT ANUPAMA
HOPEFULLY SOME SENSIBLE MATURED CONTENT BE EXPECTED FROM MR RAJAN SAHI AND HIS SO CALLED CREATIVE TEAM
Please makers of Anupama! Stop this rona dhona! This is being over dramatic! Anujs character is overdramatic.. He seemed to be a sensible person.. He didn’t even cry like this over his sisters failed marriage but this wasn’t even Anupama’s fault.. She did what little Anu asked of her. PLEASE CHANGE THE SCRIPT AND MAKE A TUEN AROUND OF THIS SITUATION
No. The little gal was very clear. She said that she was happier with anupama and anuj. But since maya was alone and because of her they are both fighting so she ll go with maya.
It means this gal sacrificed her happiness. As a mother she didn’t even assure the gal that they never fought because of them. Anupaam did not even try to clear her misunderstanding. She knew the gal was emotionally pressurised. She didn’t help her at all to get out of this dilemma.
@Kajal, your 5-year daughter comes and tells you that she doesn’t want to live with you, and what will be your reaction? Will you just let her go and put the whole blame on that small child, or will you stop her from doing so? Well, this serial really has become over-dramatic to say the least!!
If Anupama would have shown the same concern for CA as she shows for her other children, perhaps CA would have been with them..
So you want Anu to come out as brainwashing the child jus as maaya did , or force CA to stay back , how ? By emotionally blackmailing her or what exactly .. Anu claims she has a plan n that CHOTI Anu will be back .. she definitely doesn’t want to be overwhelming the little girl with too many feelings and emotions so I agree with Anu here , there are other ways .. but if this is her way , I’ll let her
@Ivy
Exactly what could she have done in this matter? Only solution was court case. Why did Anuj listen to her when she said no for court case? Is he more educated n experienced or is Anupama more educated. She doesn’t even understand what fostering was up till CA and Anuj n all his fans want her to fight.
Anuj is the biggest dumb for not doing DNA test, not confirming with orphanage and all.
How would preventing a child from being taken by a brainwashed be brainwashing? Maya emotionally blackmailed CA with lies. What kind of person would do that to a small child? Definitely not the sort you’d trust with said child! Anupama should’ve told corrected CA to stay and informed Anuj. For her own safety and as a moral duty of any adult to protect children.
Yep your right far better to let stay with Anupama so they can argue in court for years and then little Anu will be pushed and dragged everywhere. And when Maya wins full custody there will never be a chance for them to ever see her. You have to remember detail. Which is they hadn’t legally adopted her yet. Also What was Anuj doing so that little Anu could stay what effort did he put in? Vanraj is a complete utter dog to be honest looking for scrapes.
@Emerald Well, I believe that my 5-year old daughter will not tell me she wants to leave with someone else because as her biological mother, I have more right over her. And if it becomes a court case, the biological mother will be favored
Nothing to Say…just…whatever Devika said was somewhere true. A Man is selfish and only thinks about their own sorrows. Pata nahi kya hota hai yaar??? This shows that Anuj needed a child that’s why he married Anu and now since the child is gone he nowhere feels the need of Anupama in his life. Barter system hai kya?
@Neha, of course, Anuj is wrong. He has lost his daughter, and he is venting his anger and frustration out. How can devi Anupama be wrong? She is never wrong. What wrong has she done?
She has all her 3 children with her, her favorite Baa without whose abuses she can’t survive and her favorite ex-husband with whom she likes spending with.
Anuj waited 26 years for her, but no Anuj is wrong. Even after reminding her 1000 times that Kapadia House is now her real house, she just kept running to Shah House. Even if Baa sneezed loudly, she would run as if an earthquake had happened. But, she doesn’t have the time to attend to CA when she is having a panic attack. Before Anuj happened, I thought Anupama was the most ideal character, but I was wrong. She too is quite selfish. Just took the Kapadia surname, took the luxuries from him, and kept looking after the people in the Shah House.
It would be best if they get divorced and Anuj goes to Maaya. He’ll at least have his daughter and a lady who would give full attention to him, and who would not keep running away to her so-called “mayka”.
What does it means Kapadia is her real house now? Just bcoz she is remarried she can’t be part of her children’s life, did Anuj placed this conditions before marriage?
She was not attending CA when she had panic attack did you forget at that time she was handling Pari, what was Anuj doing? He only knows to show father’s pain but when it comes to responsibilities n stopping CA that time it’s duty of Anupama.
Dance competition matter was her fault n she understood that.
And does giving luxurious to wife shows husband’s love, great than that love I don’t understand. He gives her luxurious but insults her at the first crisis they face in their marriage. This love you are talking about.
Yes he should marry maya bcoz he from start only wanted to adopt a child for which he used Anupama claiming to love her.
Please anupama stand up for yourself what the heck this is giving out as a message……… Become a doormat in the name of love what about the self love you know why Anuj is worse than Vanraj because Vanraj never knew anupama the way anuj did and even anupama knew this that’s the reason she allowed herself to be vulnerable again after the betrayal and what did Anuj do he broke her again that’s why I always say self love should be one’s first priority then become selfless and serve others.
I can’t believe Anuj loved her for 26 years I guess he was in love just with the idea of having anupama by his side and how can he even love her he never “knew” her so it’s safe to say that he was in love with the fantasy he dreamt.
I totally agree with you here .. love is not one sided some Anu understands
Anupama is addicted to abuse.
She never learnt to take step at the utmost needed time for herself. After this again she will Welcome Anuj on Prem Ratan Dhan Paayo song and Dance with him and again Shah Family will blackmail her and so she will run away leaving Anuj .
Chronology
@Shyra, you hit the nail RIGHT on the head! Anupama is ADDICTED TO ABUSE. Remember when she wouldn’t tolerate a single word said against Baa, Vanraj despite being treated like ABSOLUTE trash by them, that’s what has occured here. She loves abuse, she’s drawn to abuse, she will even DEFEND her abusers if it comes down to it.
This show is teaching women to love,accept and tolerate abuse as a part of their daily
Anuj uas figured out how to keep Anu for the next 27 years,just keep abusing her and she will fall in deeper admiration
She doesn’t respond to love and respect the way she does abuse.
She’s completely damaged yaar. Completely
And Anuj, like I’ve said countless times before,the real man is being exposed and he looks ALOT like RaVanraj
Anu was a timid young teenager who got married into abuse .. she didn’t know how to stand up for herself and that I believe if it wasn’t a film is still affecting her .. she worshipped the pple dat brings her down .. it won’t be easy to stand up from such blow .. the wasn’t dependent at all , she’s jus learning to be strong for herself .. don’t take the script too personally
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No This show teaches to not marry for the reason of love.
It’s the worst and dumbest reason.
@Vajiyanthi and Shyra
People don’t realise Anupama can’t just leave Shah house because she will always be apart of that house she has kids in that house and she will have to be there when her kids need her she is their mother and a mother never leaves her children. Not once has Anupama gone to Shah house to flirt with Vanraj or to massage Baa feet she has always gone there for kids. She will always have to talk to Vanraj no matter how toxic he is because he is father of her kids and with Baa because they are her kids grandmother. She will always be apart of that house no matter what anyone says she is after all Paritosh Samar and Pakhi mother and kids will always need their mother no matter how disrespect they are. Its not that she is addicted to abuse it is that everyone around is toxic literally everyone Vanraj, Baa, Hasmukh, Pakhi everyone and Anupama learnt to tolerate which makes any TV serial Bahu ideal. To be a good daughter daughter in law wife and mother and child in these kind of TV serials means you have to be tolerant and obedient, you have to tolerate everyone’s behaviour no matter how bad it is be it a daughter wife or even mother. Anupama lived with them for 26 years so she learnt to tolerate it so why she start talking now and start giving it back to them now.
That’s why I suggested that she should go for Pilgrimage and die hitting a Stone at Vaishno Devi Hill
@Muge
Agree with why is everyone forcing her to forget her children just bcoz she is remarried. No where Anuj before marriage placed condition that she won’t be allowed to a part of her children’s life n also he didn’t discussed with Anu about his intentions of adopting a child. After marriage he just blasted a bomb on her n emotionally blackmailed her to accept it.
Anupama should stay clear of baa n vanraj but no one has right to force her to not get involved in her children’s life.
Everyone stating that she loves her children more than CA than what the hell is Anuj doing isn’t he loving CA more than anyone. Did Anupama stopped loving Anuj when her children where against her remarriage than what happened now why does Anuj no longer loves her. He is shouting now than why was he silent when maya was taking CA. If he so much abides by his wife’s decisions than why now is he insulting her.
@Pk
Look bruh Anupama gave them that leverage to decide what she does and how she does it. She should have stood up when she was first married into that house and made it clear to Baa and Vanraj not to mess with her. She allowed Baa and Vanraj to insult her for 26 years which even made Pakhi and Toshu insult her too. Even now when she is married to Anuj she allows Baa and Vanraj to say anything to her ofc Anuj is going to follow in their footsteps because she makes herself the doormat of every Tom Dick and Harry. Anuj is right to be angry to be angry but has no right to hurt Anupama and question her motherhood not once has she differentiate between Toshu Pakhi Samar and Choti. Nobody can separate Anuj from her kids and she made that very clear by alway being there when they need her. Anuj could express his anger in a different way and Dheeraj warned him about this and now his marriage has just ended. Anupama should have self respect, take it like a grown woman and give what he wants. If he wants freedom, set him free.
This is stupidity, That’s true that anupama is the reason that little anu had to leave,she could’ve stop her if she wanted to but she didn’t as she didn’t wanted to.But it’s another fact that Anuj didn’t tried to get any DNA test, didn’t tried to find out about Maya’s ex husband.Didn’t tried to stop anu in right and legal way,just did what anupama said.And wait,his love for anupama ended all of a sudden??did you even loved her or was she just a thing that you wanted to get like always??Like a passion that I have to get her if she was my bachpan ka pyar??love can’t end like that.
Thank you .. you hit the point
Anuj doesn’t love anupama he was just using her as tool to adopt a child n than as a nanny for that child. All this 26 years of love dialogues was nothing but a trap. Now when he sees that he can’t adopt a child if this anupama is there so wants be out of this marriage. He is blaming anupama for CA matter when he knows very well that Without using law they cannot stop CA n if use law chances of him winning is negligible.
Devika was absolutely right today.
I don’t how Anuj’s fans are whitewashing him. Anupama is wrong as well as Anuj is also wrong. Anupama didn’t give priority to Anuj than he did the same. After marriage if anupama had to run to Shah house than Anuj was no less he was always busy in chanting CA. His pain as father is right than anupama wanting to be with her children is wrong, how?
All those fans of Anuj will themselves be angry if they were blamed n used like how Anuj is doing to Anupama.
When y’all are talking about the shahs right now .. I wonder if it’s this current issue on ground .. cos for me , her son , her child , her first fruit the first person to regard her as a mother is on wheelchair.. like paralyzed to a fault ..don’t get me wrong , I know he is not a child but he is her child and we are talking about picnic , lmao 🤣 let maaya go for all I care
Court wouldn’t have stopped biological parent from abducting the child from foster house?
Really? Looks like Anupama and Devika have learnt these rules at nityananda kailash.
But the fact is, forget about taking the child away, biological parents need to get visiting and calling authority also.
Looks like there is no sensor while spreading these misinformations.
All are behaving like high time mentals including Anuj.
Putting all in jail is the correct solution to give them a reality check.
Stop spreading misinformation.
I completely understand Anupama, due to lack of education, she uses emotions as survival skill/decision making.
But the biggest fact is Anuj is the one who can die due to heart/emotional failure.
He is a emotional wreck.
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He could become male Meera bai for Anupama, 26yrs and still counting, no other woman could make any impression on him.
For Mukku he gave away everything.
He transferred all authority to Anupama.
Little Anu became entire world to him.
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And while making these decisions, he didn’t listen to anyone, no logic worked for him.
Now I understand Ram milai stupid jodi, one is more than the other.
Now what to expect next?
Tbh no business person is so volatile as Anuj is. He doesn’t have any entrepreneurial skill.
He is a taboo.
Well, in foster cases the biological parents retain parental rights. I assume that means they can take the child back if they can prove to the relevant authority that they are financially stable and can provide the child a safe home. Usually it takes a lot to strip a parent of these rights, but I’m no expert.
Yes they have to prove.
@Cherry yes biological parents have to prove. Not plead, seduce, manipulate and abduct.
In a similar fashion if biological parent is misfit, foster parents can prove it.
But here nothing is happening apart from blame game.
Such a wrong message to audience.
People will strictly go against fostering.
Devika and I said the same thing. As much as Anu was wrong I’m handling the choti Anu’s case… Anuj never really fought and listened to Anu like a Dumbo.
Can we not use bad words please for both of them as I feel it disrespectful but it is up to you’ll.
Anuj really didn’t love Anu, and it kinda makes sense why he adopted Choti so quickly after marriage, he wanted another maid and mother as a wife.
He forgot when he was dieing that Choti was with Anu, Anu fought the world for him . Anuj don’t get that Anu wasn’t happy at the celebration, she needs to ve normal to cope and Anuj needs to cry…
Anu never hid her true self from him , he did . Devika is right there is no difference between Vanraj and him…. only difference Anuj made her love him
LET HIM GO, LET THE MAN BREATHE!!!! (he told you he feels suffocated around you) I don’t understand some people why should you have to beg him or anyone to stay with you when he said he wants nothing to do with you. Let him go Anupama, let him go, set him free. He doesn’t love or respect you, let him go. Have some respect Anupama and take a stand for yourself will you tolerate abuse from every relationship you have seriously. You should never beg someone to stay with you or love you at all.
Both Anu and anuj were wrong in how they handled Little anu’s case. And when it came to letting her go with Maaya, how did Anupama impose her decision on anuj?was anuj in a hospital,or coma or out of the country that he could not disagree with anupama’s decision? If your life revolves around someone and you believe you cannot live without them for even 26seconds because that’s what anuj said,then you do everything in your power to make sure they don’t go away from you even if it means going against your loved ones and being at odds with them. A full grown man, a business tycoon, could not go against his wife’s decision? Is this really the same guy who told Anupama when he shouted at her after the major accident he had with vanraj that “husbands should not use their wives as a punching bag for their rage and anger.” Anupama love yourself just a little. it’s one thing to support your partner through pain and grief but it’s another to be there punching bag. At times, holding on does more damage than letting go.
1stly anju should have never come in aunpama’s life so early. She should have been free ,independent,she should have learnt to love and respect herself first before falling in love. Its sad what the writers just did. Anuj and anupama have lost that magic and now anju views will see him differently. I think anupama should go to the lawyers herself find a loop hole and get an investigator find dirt on maaya bring CA home and then leave the house. Let see what anuj do the same lets see if he doesnt talk to CA because anupama left and CA remainds him of anumapa. Lets see if he give CA the same treatment. Writers really messed up this show.
Guess misery loves company these writers just can’t imagine a happy lead couple, if only their viewing rate dropped they would know that not everyone wants to watch misery unfortunately people will still watch this show. instead of Anupama staying in that house it’s best she leaves and starts her life afresh.
Does anyone know if this show is still number 1 or their rating has dropped maybe that would send some common sense in the writers .
Anupama shouldn’t have gone to Holi celebrations without Anuj.
@Lisa, absolutely correct. But no, Anupama won’t realize this. And it’s not her fault as her, because Anuj has, throughout their relationship been the person who has understood Anupama’s problems, but the same can’t be said the other way around.
Of course, Anupama is a happy person now, as she has been relieved of her duties in CA’s case. She has never considered CA as her own daughter. She considered cooking Khichdi for Baa and Carrot Cake for Pakhi more important than CA’s dance performance and filling up of the field trip form. She wanted such a small child to be the one who understands other people’s problems, and not that oldie Baa and the grown up Pakhi.
She just took the luxuries from Anuj, and had her whole mind and heart at Shah House. She is not disheartened with the fact that CA left, but she is in fact, happy that this is Pakhi’s first Holi after marriage.
All in all, Anuj should have never married her in the first place, because for Anupama, Anuj and CA were only TIMEPASS. She likes getting abused by Baa and Vanraj everyday, and she should have stayed like that till the end. In reality, Anupama never deserved a person like Anuj.
Stay at Shah House, work like a maid, get abused by Baa and Vanraj everyday, cry at night – REPEAT. This is her ideal schedule.
@CAmerica No.1 =>I just want to ask that in what way has Anupama not understood and Supported Anuj. I don’t know your gender but I can tell as a female myself, that no woman with three kids that has recently gotten out of a toxic relationship and just got married again would want to foster/adopt a child just 3/4 weeks after marriage (except in uncommon circumstances). But Anupama understood Anuj’s want for a child and supported his decision to foster Choti Anu.
No.2 => I admit that Anuj has been supporting Anupama since the start of their relationship relationship, but let’s face it; when Pakhi was throwing tantrums and causing problem in her husband’s house, didn’t Anuj later tell her to stop calling on ‘his wife'(Anupama). When Paritosh got paralysed and Anupama was in the hospital crying over son’s health, didn’t Anuj go home to stay with Choti Anu and Maya and was being the perfect father while also playing house as king and queen and princess, he was even still attending to his business alongside, and Anupama was still in sorrow for her child.
No.3 => I want to ask that did Anuj ever fully consider Anupama’s children as his? – Cause with the way he keeps telling Anupama that she has three children everytime – I don’t really think so.
No.4 => You keep saying that Anupama never considered Choti Anu as her daughter. If she didn’t, will she leave her paralysed biological son alone for her?, Will she agree to let Maya stay so as to keep Choti Anu with them?.
No.5 => You said Anupama is taking luxuries from Anuj, when she slaved with the Shahs middle class family for decades without complaining. And are you forgetting all the insult and humiliation that Anuj has been raining on her recently.
No.6 => Before you start insulting Anupama left and right, have you forgotten that Anuj also betrayed Anupama’s trust by not telling all what happened between him and Maya on the ‘family’ picnic and the fact that he had already told Maya that she can stay in Kapadia house for a month more.
If I keep listing the number of insensible and hurtful things Anuj has done to Anupama, I will spend all day writing.
I agree that at some point Anupama was not able to balance her responsibilities towards the two families, but then she had already told Anuj before they married that can he accept the fact she already has three kids and an unbreakable bond with the Shahs. So before you starting spewing nonsense, learn to observe and understand the two sides of the story.
I guess it’s easy to blame than take responsibility… thought anuj will be more sensible than this….but in as much as the makers just ruined Anuj’s character….I think they want to show dat in the end men are selfish no matter how they appear to be as long as things aren’t going as per their wish….coz why taking anupama to cloud nine when at the end he will end up treating her badly……I have even stopped watching the series till it gets better
No they just want that trp thats why in the name of women empowerment and feminism all they show is a women being a doormat naive miserable etc etc list goes on human being on almost ALL OF THEIR showd
I agree @ Muge, Anupama must just free Anuj, let him go! No use holding onto a man who doesnt want you!
Something tells me that this is the exit of Anuj, he is going to run away to US and live with Mukku, that’s how they going to write him off,
Kavya is going to leave V and run back to Anirudh,
That big bum baa will clap for Anupama to come back to Shah house as the maid
Either that or Maaya’s ex husband will come back into the picture and kill Maaya and CA will return to Anuj, but this time, I doubt he will want Anu in their lives, because he will label her as a curse that took his daughter away in the first place and will be better off without her.
Totally SF
She can’t force him to be with her when he wants nothing to do with her, he told her that he feels suffocated around her so she should let the man breathe.
Anuj is sort of grieving and in sorrow so in such circumstances he doesn’t know what he is saying or doing as he has lost all sense. Better to let him be and realize himself afterwards how much he needs Anupama.
The excuses people both in the show and the forum are making for Anuj are ridiculous. I’m no fan of Anupama but what’s with this ‘uwu little baby Anuj just needs to cry cry, why doesn’t anyone understand a man’s feelings?’ He’s not a kid. He’s a smart and astute businessman in his 40s.
From the very beginning he’s been hemming and hawing about how sus and creepy Maya is but not only did he do nothing except send his brother out to find gossip about her, he went so wild and weak kneed from one kiss of hers that he agreed to help her hide her shady past from Anupama. After she took off when he hand delivered CA to her, he takes 2 days off work to weep and moan and terrorise Anupama instead of doing anything himself.
Bro Anupama didn’t even know what fostering was! How will she know how to get CA back? She’s not even a college graduate, she spent the last 26 years in the kitchen! If she’s as useless and callous as you say she is, then why don’t YOU do something about that daughter you claim you love the most in the world?
Exactly!!!
This track will leave Anuj and Anupama in a much happier marriage than before,I believe communication was lacking among this couple and finally someone is saying it out,before CA comes I think they have to first find each other Anuj has to prove first if he can live without Anupama ,and that his life only revolves around CA,if possible the writer can give father and daughter some space without Anupama in the picture,from my point of view Anupama loves CA only circumstances allowed somethings to happen which where beyond Anupama’s control,when CA returnes the person she will call first is her mother Anupama , those 2 share a bond,at leas t Anuj has experienced the pain of being a parent,I believe in this series CA is the only one who loves Anupama more than anyone else ,the other thing Anuj has to learn a couple can still be happy without children though room for adopting will always be there but obsession is the biggest problem here and it has to be dealt with for a healthier relationship
I don’t feel any sympathy for anuj
His reason of fight is wrong so .so no questions of understanding him
For what he is in depressed why can’t he see the reality ,loving someone does not mean that some one has become property for u or it belongs to u
Only loving choti is not enough reason to be choti with anuj Anuj should follow legal
procedure
Anuj care about his feeling any how choti should leave with him and in that process of such feeling he is ignoring law which is so wrong
He want everybody around him should understand his feeling and.shoud cry with him .why the should cry when ur reason of fight is so wrong .
No sympathy for this anuj
Aupama let Anuj go, let little Anu go… take your time to educate, grow and love yourself first, may be after that you will be able to fight for your and other’s rights.
Currently your learning is being empath is being martyr. And trust me it kills self and near ones.
This is the biggest reason why Anuj, little need a break from you else you will make them martyr as well.
And a pinch of salt on your wound is, though little Anu love you both more, she still went with Maaya as she thought Maaya shouldn’t be left alone, and you both should not fight.
The poor little one didn’t bother what makes her happy what is better for her, what will improve her life.
Rather she felt pity for you all and left with a broken heart. No one could see her pain?
Why such a small has to go through this turmoil, what have you taught her? to become martyr?
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It was your and Anuj’s responsibility to show Maaya door and tell her to come with legal papers and authority.
Maaya knew she has a slim chance to win little because of her bad reputation, dark past and mental instability.
So she met little Anu behind the back, seduced, tried to break house, manipulated her emotionally and took her away!
Your Mahanta is deadly for you and little Anu and Anuj as well.
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No free pass for Anuj though, he looks like a helpless, illiterate frustu.
Anuj is just like all other men, the moment something goes wrong, blame someone else for it. Did he think twice before adopting? He knew Anupama had children and she was open about her duty and love for them. Anuj adopted a child to fulfill his desire of becoming a father Without any thoughts on how Anupama will feel. She still went along with it and did her best for the child.
The big shot who runs multi million business did not think of doing a private investigation on CA’s background or birth mother before adoption NEITHER did he get any lawyers or investigators involved when Maaya showed up? Where was his brains then?
Now when Anupama is trying to keep the kid away from bad fight, he blames everything on her.
Get up and take some action even if it is hard, but breaking up the relationship is the easiest thing to do!
Bravo Anuj for becoming a dumb person! Please stop this madness and make Anupama speak up for a change. Time for her to take care of herself
It is because of shows like these there are so many crimes against women. Such shows and the channels showing should be sued.
Looks like Makers of this show are just portraying their own life and how they treat women. They consider women as a door mat who are and should be just entertaining their male and her inlaws like Leela who is a curse to be called a woman.
It is because of shows like these there are so many crimes against women. Such shows and the channels showing should be sued.
TODAY’S TAG LINE: ANUPAMA: DISGUSTING FRUSTRATING SHABBY SHOW.
FOR MERE TRP MR RAJAN SAHI WHY IS YOUR SERIAL STOOPING TO SUCH LOW LEVEL. LITERALLY YOU FEEL LIKE PUKING LOOKING AT THE EPISODES
THIS SHOW SIMPLY GIVES
DISAPPOINTMENT AND NEGATIVE VIBES. THE SHOW HAS MADE MOCKERY OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTION AND MOCKERY OF GENUINE LOVE AND CHILD ADOPTION.
BY SHOWING THIS SHIT NO GENUINE COUPLE WILL FEEL LIKE CONTRIBUTING TO SOCIETY BY ACCEPTING PARENTING OF DEPRIVED ORPHAN CHILDREN
W IS NOT ONLY SETTING WRONG IDEALS BUT WILL ALSO BRING NEGATIVITY TOXICITY IN SOCIETY
APPEAL TO VIEWERS BOYCOTT THIS SERIAL AND ADAMANT MAKERS
ANUPAMA : THE ENDLESS SAGA OF DIVORCES, DOMESTIC BRAWLS AND EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS. MR RAJAN SAHI CHANGE THE TITLE OF YOUR SO CALLED GENIOUS CREATION
THE BRAIN DEAD CREATIVE TEAM HAVE TAKEN RELENTLESS EFFORTS IN SLAUGHTERING THE SERIAL.
THE TEAM IS NOT SICK AND TIRED IN DISPLAYING INSANITY AND ARROGANCE. MS KETAKI WALAVALKAR THE TEAM LEADER SHOULD BE CONFERRED AWARD FOR SPOILING AND SABOTAGING A GOOD PROJECT. WONDER HOW DOES MR SAHI APPROVES THIS RUBBISH CONTENT
WE AS SENSIBLE AUDIENCE ARE SICK AND TIRED OF WATCHING THIS TRASH. NOW WE ARE TIRED OF POSTING COMMENTS AS WELL
AS IT IS THIS MAYA NAUTANKI HAS BACKFIRED. NOW THE TRAGEDY DRAMA OF ANUJ IS GETTING ON NERVES. THE CHARACTER ANUJ LOOKS YUCK 🤮 CERTIFIED IDIOT.
MR RAJAN SAHI DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING SEPARATION BETWEEN LEAD PAIR. OTHERWISE YOUR SERIAL WILL LOSE CREDIBILITY
TODAY’S TAG LINE: ANUPAMA: DISGUSTING FRUSTRATING SHABBY SHOW.
FOR MERE TRP MR RAJAN SAHI WHY IS YOUR SERIAL STOOPING TO SUCH LOW LEVEL. LITERALLY YOU FEEL LIKE PUKING LOOKING AT THE EPISODES. WHY IS STAR PLUS SUPPORTING ALL THIS NONSENSE WHICH IS SIMPLY NUISANCE VALUE TO THE SOCIETY
THIS SHOW SIMPLY GIVES
DISAPPOINTMENT AND NEGATIVE VIBES. THE SHOW HAS MADE MOCKERY OF MARRIAGE INSTITUTION AND MOCKERY OF GENUINE LOVE AND CHILD ADOPTION.
BY SHOWING THIS SHIT NO GENUINE COUPLE WILL FEEL LIKE CONTRIBUTING TO SOCIETY BY ACCEPTING PARENTING OF DEPRIVED ORPHAN CHILDREN
THE SERIAL IS NOT ONLY SETTING WRONG IDEALS BUT WILL ALSO BRING NEGATIVITY TOXICITY IN SOCIETY
APPEAL TO VIEWERS BOYCOTT THIS SERIAL AND ADAMANT MAKERS
ANUPAMA : THE ENDLESS SAGA OF DIVORCES, DOMESTIC BRAWLS AND EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS. MR RAJAN SAHI CHANGE THE TITLE OF YOUR SO CALLED GENIOUS CREATION
THE BRAIN DEAD CREATIVE TEAM HAVE TAKEN RELENTLESS EFFORTS IN SLAUGHTERING THE SERIAL.
THE TEAM IS NOT SICK AND TIRED IN DISPLAYING INSANITY AND ARROGANCE. MS KETAKI WALAVALKAR THE TEAM LEADER SHOULD BE CONFERRED AWARD FOR SPOILING AND SABOTAGING A GOOD PROJECT. WONDER HOW DOES MR SAHI APPROVES THIS RUBBISH CONTENT
WE AS SENSIBLE AUDIENCE ARE SICK AND TIRED OF WATCHING THIS TRASH. NOW WE ARE TIRED OF POSTING COMMENTS AS WELL
AS IT IS THIS MAYA NAUTANKI HAS BACKFIRED. NOW THE TRAGEDY DRAMA OF ANUJ IS GETTING ON NERVES. THE CHARACTER ANUJ LOOKS YUCK 🤮 CERTIFIED IDIOT.
MR RAJAN SAHI DON’T EVEN DARE TO THINK OF SHOWING SEPARATION BETWEEN LEAD PAIR. OTHERWISE YOUR SERIAL WILL LOSE CREDIBILITY
The way anupama danced in the precap was funny😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Just a thought . I think Anuj is doing this deliberately for a raaz which will unfold eventually.
I can never believe Anuj can say such unkind words to Anupama .
I not even gonna justify anything or behavior, Anupama was wrong for not telling Maya brain washed CA and Anuj was wrong, why did he not stand up to Maya when she was taking CA ?
I rell fed up of this crybaby and nonsense. I enjoyed while Anuj lasted, now useless
Both anuj and his oldie wife are useless idiots.
Please Anupama start fresh, we can’t see you like this. You don’t need any man to support you, please Anupama stand firmly on ground and just say no to mental abuse. Please 🙏 Writer stop this.