Anupama 30th June 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama warns Rakhi that she was quiet till now as a mother was speaking, she can understand how Rakhi is feeling hearing about Kinjal’s troubles, but nobody did it intentionally and it was situational instead. She promises that it will not be repeated and Kinjal won’t face any problem, she will take good care of her daughter. Rakhi laughs and says if she had considered Kinjal as her daughter, Kinjal wouldn’t have been in this condition. Baa says nothing happened to Kinjal and what is wrong if they gave her some work, Anu’s mother is ill and Jhilmil is on leave, whole family is helping each other, what is wrong if Kinjal also helps. She agrees that she made a mistake by scolding Kinjal, but what is wrong if she scolds her as an elder. Rakhi shouts if she had informed her, she would have send 10 servants. Baa says she didn’t know that there would be so much issue if she asked Kinjal to do a few chores. Kinjal says its not a question of work but an issue of comparison. Rakhi says she should be thankful that she got a well-educated bahu who is preparing rotis. Baa asks if preparing rotis is bad. Rakhi says a working woman cannot do household chores and there is a maid for that. Baa asks what if maid takes leaves, if working woman’s children should starve; nobody becomes a servant by preparing rotis, she realized that its wrong if a MIL considers her DIL’s work as small and even they should understand that we are not beggars to save servant’s salary, there is problem as Jhimil is on leave.
Samar backs Baa and says she is right, even he peels vegetables and cleans furniture and he is proud of himself, he feels everyone should help in household chores; he tells Kinjal that nobody forced her work, so she shouldn’t have created an issue. Pakhi says she never asked her to prepare coffee and herself prepared it, in fact Bapuji helped her once. She asks Kinjal to speak. Rakhi yells she is mannerless and shouts to stop targeting her daughter instead of Anu, they all are attacking Kinjal just because Anu is questioned. Samar says she is crossing her limits Anu asks him to stop. Vanraj says Samar is right. Kavya asks him in not to interfere. He asks her to shut up. Baa says all the problem is because of maide ki katori who set this fire. Rakhi says fire can be increased externally but can be set only internally, so all this happened because of Anu. Toshu asks what is she speaking. Rakhi says she is speaking better than him and not hiding behind his mother’s pallu. Kinjal asks him not to interfere. Vanraj asks why shouldn’t he interfere as he stays in the same house. Kavya says this wouldn;t have happened if Anu had not sent the maid out. Baa says she brought an arrogant maid like her, so kicking her out was obvious; nobody forced Kinjal to work on a sword point. Kinjal says she doesn’t have problem working but problem with comparison. Rakhi yells again they are all targeting her daughter. Pakhi asks Kinjal to explain her mother. Kinjal asks her not to interfere. Samar says she and Kavya want everyone to shut up and speaking continuously without letting anyone speak.
Argument continues. Rakhi shouts her daughter working in kitchen is wrong, Baa scolding her and comparing her with Anu is wrong, everyone attacking Kinjal at once is wrong, etc. Anu asks her to stop as Baa, Kinjal, herself and everyone are wrong. Rakhi thinks her drama of greatness started again. Anu says everyone feel others are wrong, but getting adamant is wrong, not understanding other’s view is wrong, exaggerating the issue is wrong; differences happen in family; each family member’s view is different and family needs both elders and youngsters and they should walk holding each other’s hand to move ahead in life; so she wants this issue to end here right now. She asks Kinjal to forget whatever happened today and concentrate on office work as she will handle whole house, she will keep her promise made to her on the first day, nobody will disturb her, she just should remember that she shouldn’t argue with elders. She apologizes her for whatever happened today and promises that she will not make her another Anupama at any cost. She then walks to her room reminiscing the incidents happened today.
Vanraj returns to his room fuming on Rakhi’s drama and scolds Kavya that she should have helped Kinjal instead of setting fire, she is a bahu now and not a guest anymore. Kavya says he is shouting at her like he used to on Anu, his family hasn’t considered her as their bahu yet and will not accept whatever she does. He asks if she will not work at all. She says she will when there is time for that, for the time being she is busy in her office project. He says only herself and her job matters to her. She asks why he taunts her always. He says he is not and cannot expect anything from her, anyways Anupama will set everything right. She yells he always finds a chance to praise Anu. He says he wants to praise even her, she should prove to be a good bahu to his parents, there is no problem in the house except her and Rakhi. She says he blames her for everything. he says it doesn’t matter if she doesn’t wash utensils, but she shouldn’t strike them. She thinks he will blame her even for global warning and sirks thinking seeing Kinjal’s changed behavior, Anu must be in shock.
Baa asks Anu not to wake up at 4 a.m. and prepare tiffin for Kinjal as Kinjal argued with her; she knows she is wrong, but she never argued with her MIL once; Kinjal shouldn’t have called her mother. Anu says Kinjal did wrong, but as elders, they should forgive her like they forgive their daughter Pakhi when she argues with them. Baa says her days were manual days where she had to work really hard, but with automation, everything became easy and a distance developed instead; Kinjal did wrong by involving her mother. Anu says Kinjal will never do that, she doesn’t know who did that, Kinjal is very sensitive girl and will understand soon. She says even Baa got adamant, she shouldn’t have made an issue if Kinjal cooked rice in microwave instead of cooker. Baa says even Bapuji said same. Anu reminds how she hated chowmein at first and now loves. Baa says changes should happen from both sides and not just one. Anu thinks she needs to clear the differences between Baa and Kinjal.
Precap: Anu returns home and Baa informs that Kinjal didn’t return home yet. Kinjal with Kavya returns home late after partying. Anu says everyone are hungry waiting for her. She walks away saying she didn’t ask them to be hungry. Anu warns Kavya that she can share her love with her, but if she tries to snatch her children from her, she will not tolerate it.
Update Credit to: MA
43 Comments
Regressive regressive regressive.
Ek din maid nahi ayegi toh bacche bhooke nahi marenge.ofcourse khana banega but 20 tarah ki dishes banana zaruri hai kya ?
But let’s work together as a team.
Kids and husband should help
I don’t understand what is with this shit.
I think u didnt watched day before yesterdays episode . pakhi,samar,baa and babuji were helping Anupama in cutting vegetables . They just asked kinjal to make rotis . Wese bhi this is really unnecessary . Why cant they just hire a maid .
Exactly they need a maid, they need a baa who knows when to shut up.and Kinjal kept repeating today work isn’t bothering her as much as the constant comparison with anupama.
I agree with you .The people need to change their habits like it’s okay in this situation or in normal circumstances you can make less variety of food and others too should understand it and try to adjust and accept it.Today in many households it’s normal thing now to not cook 20 different type of things daily especially if mother or mother in law and daughter or daughter in laws are working women.The main problem here is not about doing household chores it’s about people helping and adjusting. It’s okay agar subha nasta mein kam cheeze banagi toh and in lunch too like ek sabji and ek daal and roti. it’s not necessary ki full plate chahiye like 2type ki sabji 2 type ki daal .and on top of that chawal and roti .it takes hell time if only two persons are working and making food for like 6-7 people .to make this many various type of food co operation is needed and it can only be possible especially today when there are three or two women in house and one of them is housewife . About today episode ..I laughed at pakhi’s dialogue .like she makes her coffee ..and she doesn’t load her work onnoinjal.I really wanted to ask her if you can make coffee atleast you can helping hand in kitchen to kinjal.atleast if pakhi don’t know how to cook ..she can surely help in others work like cutting vegetables or washing utensils.and all.And the major problem is no one is house wants to change their eating habits.And about roti’s if baa thinks ki babuji ko patli roti chahiye toh baa ek insaan ke liye patli roti bana sakti hai .And others can adjust with Kinjal’s cooking.and the major problem is Anupama never raised her kids to be independent ..it’s like when crisis happened or anupama is sick that’s the only time unke ander achanak se aisa lagta hai ki no we should work and help.toh bhai pehle yeh buddhi kyu nahi aati ki we can help her in normal time. And seriously yeh jo faltu ka dikhate ki yeh log naaste mein 20 type variety banati hai.haroz dhokla and all in reality it doesn’t happen uske liye rakhi Dave jitna bada house and naukar chahiye in today’s time.And the makers are hell bent on showing modern women in bad light and wants to only show that people like anupama and old thought women who can do all household work in 3-4 hours are great.Anupama thinks that elders ke saamne jubaan nahi chalani chahiye..agreed but agar koi baar baar taunt karta rahe and compare karta rahe toh ek insaan ki limit hoti hai.har koi anupama ki tarah nahi hota ki chup chaap sab sunnle..
Totally agree with you. And even I laughed at pakhi. “Main apni coffee khud banati hu”😒 as if bas coffee pi ke hi jiti hai ye.
Yeah..I was like..please don’t be ridiculous.agar coffee pinke sab log ka pet bhar jaata toh aaj yeh naubat na aati..and what does she even know about household work .has she even done a simple paucha in house or even just even kept plates and utensils on dinning table or from dinning table to kitchen platform..Haa she was speaking as if usse toh bahut ache se roti banna aati hai .and what about anupama..can’t she handle some housework to pakhi..or even strictly ask her do help her or Kinjal in kitchen
Anupama ne itne saal suna kya mila usse ? Half of there problems would be solved if they get a maid. And i loved what you said about pakhi I dislike her. And honestly this family needs to understand people have different personalities. And only anupama and her sacrifice is not correct way to go. Elders can scold but only if they usually behave themselves normally. Is baa doing that ? Taunting literally everyone except the man who deserves it the most. Her ankho ka tara beta. And this family boasts about sanskar calling your bahu’s mother nagin is sanskar ? And itna anupama par dependent hi kyu huye ki jab nahi hai toh sab pagal hogye. Kinjal use to help her so nobody should dare raise a finger at her for that but what about others. Samar, toshu, pakhi, baa etc itne din kaam karke ginwa diya Kinjal ke samne but Kinjal jo day 1 se anupama ki help kar rahi hai uski frustration inhe samjh nahi aa rahi ? What nonsense. And I am sorry people don’t function according to them. Maybe agar aaj sab Kinjal ko thoda pamper kar dete apna kaam ginwane ki jagah toh vo kavya ki taraf lean na karti. And baa I absolutely hate her. Victim banne lagi arey bhai ek backup maid rakhne me kya dikkat hai ? 2 maids rakhlo there are so many earning members in that house. Why dump all the work in DIL ki matlab CEO ban jao magar khana banao. Nonsense
👍👍 right
Wohi toh agar itne saal chup rehke yeh result laana hai then it’s better Kinjal does Halla bol against leela.And really about sanskar .better leela and Anupama never talk about it..anupama had not givile proper lessons on how to talk with your elders especially your mother..the way before her two kids how used to treat her and talk to her .and she never called them out or even raised her voice that ‘s not how you talk to your mother.I am sure anupama must have given pravachan and her gyan when Toshi and pakhi for first or second time behaved rudely or talked rudely to her instead of giving two slaps.to each of them.Had it happened they should have known to respect mother .And anupama ne apne baccho ko paalne ke bacche hi banake rakha hai in matyers of household work.Agreed baa have no right too talk about sanskaar.uski bolne ki tamiz se patah chaljaata hai uske sanskaar kaise hai.
That’s matters not matyers
@Vidushi and @Krish you both are SO right. Totally agree with you both. You’ve stated very valid and sensible points. I just love your comments
Thanks.. I have just pointed the flaws .and it was really needed because they are completely giving wrong potrayal of modern women and message
Thank you divya ☺️
@Wolky Dolky Your right. Bapuji, Samar, Pakhi and Baa(who never do anything) were helping in the kitchen while Anupama was at school teaching. Why can’t KAVYA do some work too?
Oh god why are they stretching this issue so much. Were is humanity here. So called well educated women kinjal forgot the main fact that Anupamas mom is sick and so anupama is running btwn 2 houses. If anyone other than Anupama works in kitchen they will be
come maid what bull shit. Yes expecting kinjal to cook like Anupama or comparing her to Anupama is wrong. But cant you all handle home for a few days to relieve Anupama and let her take care of her mother. Kavya is (I have no words for her) vanraj cant handle her but both are made for each other selfish and cunning to the core. Anupama should leave this house writers take our view into consideration we want to see Anupamas success not this selfish drama. Bapuji never spoke for her when she was the dil of the house but now tied her to the house in the name of love for serving him and his selfish arrogant wife. If you are elder in a family does not mean you belittle the youngsters I the family. This is no sane family it is a bunch of selfish people all ready to exploit Anupama. Thought kinjal was different but she is also a brat.
kinjal is working and cooking for their family despite her workload. She also has pressure, Anupama is not the only one dealing with stress. What kinjal did was right!!!
@Malavika What u and @Any wrote is both true . Anupamas mom was sick so thats why she cant come home early . Why cant kinjal understand this simple thing . Why is she behaving as if she is the only one who is stressed . During her initial days she used to tell her mom that she is happy serving her family but if anupama is not doing household chores due to her moms sickness then why the hell cant she understand . It was just that during her initial days she was excited for her new experience then later on she realized that she should have listened to her mom . I know that baa is a maniac but the way she said ” I am tired of hearing the name Anupama ” was damn rude . Anupama is not like that selfish baa . If she had problem doing overload work she could have shared that to Anupama . I am sure Anu will not force her to chores . Well all this wouldnt happened if this dumb shahs would hire a maid
She isn’t a brat. Even she has much pressure on her and if it is just for few days then even baa should adjust with kinjal’s cooking but she is constantly yelling at her and comparing her with Anupama. Anyone will react the way Kinjal did.
@wolky dolly @shivangi I agree with both of you but she is not relaxing and having fun. She can understand that Anupama’s mom is sick. She cooks food for everyone. But Baa always makes a big deal out of it. Does she really become a brat if she cooked rice in microwave instead of cooker?? I agree she was rude but Baa is at the greater side of fault. I also support rakhi but I don’t like how she always alleges Anupama all the time.
@Malavika what do u mean Kinjal is right?!? She arugued with her elders and didn’t give respect, so why should the family members give KINJAL respect!?!?!
@Sanan_Fan_Forever I agree with you that Kinjal did wrong by arguing with baa and disrespecting Anupamaa, however I don’t agree with you that she does not give respect. What I am trying to say is that the elders should at least be thankful that there is someone serving and cooking food for them in Anupama’s absence so elders should not always belittle youngsters.
What the hell is going on? why did kinjal turn so bad suddenly? Anupama did apologize to her. Yet she doesnt listen to her. Just a few days ago she used to be a strong pillar of support for anupama and now she doesnt even listen to her. Yes, what baa did was absolutely wrong. But elder people need time to change. You cant expect them to change in just 1-2 days. I can understand kinjal’s point as she doesnt have problem in handling the house. She has problem with baa’s taunting and comparision as kinjal has a huge work load. She has to manage both house and office. I just hope this issue is resolved as soon as possible. I want kinjal to reconcile with everyone. She is a really strong, smart woman with broad mind. These stupid fight are really irritating.
So in 1 day kinjal forgot everything anupama did fir her and how kavya insulted her. Wow. Stupid writters
I am just fed up with these types of petty drama. And I am done with the show. I don’t watch or even read the show any more. I just watch the promo and see how trashy it is going to be. I feel like the writers had such a great show where they can talk about issues that women around the world has to face, where they can talk about how men and women are treated differently. How daughters are treated differently than daughter-in-law… they had such a good concept. The writers talking about affair and how it affects the other person, talking about eloping, men attacking women, how men are seen in society, hoe there is a imbalance between men and women, the struggle of being a child that is dealing with their parents divorce, a child feeling not loved by his own father, how men feel like they need to support their family by being the sole bread winner. These are very interesting topic and could have been a good show… but their 1 big problem with this show and that is it is being aired on Starplus. Starplus shows takes really cool and interesting story that could have been a hit and drag those series and try and have them go on for 20 years. Where instead of having a short but good show they want a long and terrible show. Like the beginning part of Anupama was great… yes it did drag out here and there but it really build the scene… but after the affair got exposed infant of everyone the show kept such a slow pace. One day got broken into 6 episodes so one week of content is just wasted. Anupama did show some growth from where we first meet Anupama… but there is still one big thing… ANUPAMA IS STILL TREATED LIKE A MAID! Like what…? The story that promises growth and showing a woman living in a judgemental society is turned into a saas Bahu show. Lets talk about the characters. Babuji does love Anupama and truly cares for Anupama. But Babuji didn’t speak up sooner… he allowed a lot of things to happen… now that Anupama is moving on in life he put a leash on her. Fine Anupama can live there but what is Babuji doing that is giving change to Anupama. Most of the time Babuji gives one liners and that is it… after that he pretty much stays quiet.
Anupama, she was able to get a job before the affair got exposed, Anupama showed that she is a capable woman before the affair… so what change did Anupama really have? Anupama is doing the same thing that she does before and after the divorce. Just this time she will yell back when backed into a corner… that’s the only growth I see. Anupama is the main character and since the show has came out Anupama is still the same old Anupama with some new qualities and where she is now a Maahan person or a god like figure.
Ba is still the same ba. Ba still acts like she is the queen that whatever she says goes. That if the son makes a mistake it is okay but if the “Bahu” makes a mistake then its the BIGGEST SIN! There is a clear difference how she treats, Dolly, and Pakhi than how she treats Anupama and Kinjal. It surprises that Ba never realized that Anupama and Kinjal are humans that they are someone’s daughter just like Baa.
Paratoish will always comply with his father, Paratoish is not a dick to his mother anymore but when the moment comes where he needs to pick between his father and his mother he will always choose his father. Paratoish will yell at his wife of Kinjal does not act the way he wants her to act. Where Paratoish tries to control Kinjal… though he slowed down and does not control Kinjal he doesn’t understand his wife like his daddy “Vanraj Shah.” He relies on his mother or wife to cook and clean and never tires to learn how to do it. He never cares for other people feelings, he left his parents for Kinjal, and will fight with Kinjal about how his father is Maahan not realizing that he has hurt his mother in such a severe way and his wife. But all he cares about his himself and then his daddy “Vanraj Shah”
Vanraj is one of the most dumb character. His character arch is just being an a*sh*le to Anupama to being Asshole to Kavya. Where Vanraj wants Anupama to be the maid that will serve him, take care of him and complete all of his wishes but also wants someone with the “intelligence” and “beauty” like Kavya. He always wanted the mix between both. Vanraj is spoiled because of Baa always allowing Vanraj to do what ever he wants, and where Anupama would run the moment Vanraj barked a command. Vanraj never realized his own mistake and always learned to blame it on someone else. At the beginning of the show till this moment of this show Vanraj has not shown any growth or changes.
Kavya changed for the worst… yes she is manipulating Kinjal to break ANupama. Kavya really doesn’t care for Kinjal… so she is ruining basically 4 people lives at this point. But before whenever an issue occurred, where Vanraj would not give Kavya attention, or when Vanraj disrespected Kavya, Kavya knew to yell at Vanraj. Kavya knew that it was Vanraj’s fault and not ANupama or his family’s fault. She understood that Vanraj was responsible for his own actions… but because show needed a villain they turned her into a Vamp. Before Kavya had known that this affair was wrong, and tried to break it off with Vanraj… but now she never acknowledges her own mistake. It is either, Babuji’s fault, Baa’s fault, Anupama’s fault, Samar’s fault, Paratoish’s fault or Pakhi’s fault. Never have see ever looked at herself and really saw what was happened around her. I thought that the moment that she talked to Anirudh that she would change that she would show that her trying her best but no…. She just got obsessive, egotistical, and annoying character. There can be good villains, that know that they are making a mistake that try to do justice but fails. Kavya went from this strong, independent woman to this fragile. Dependent woman that always plotting something against the shah family.
Pakhi… is not a little kid. They portray Pakhi to be this baby but she is not. She goes to high School that means she should be at least 18, 17, 16, 15, or 14. Which is young but not that young where she can not cook or clean. When I was that age I knew how to cook and clean. So when my mom is not feeling well I can do the work, or if I need to help my parents I can. But Pakhi never helps, instead she shames people that do not help her. Pakhi shamed her mother because all she knew was how to cook or clean… and then shamed Kavya for not knowing how to cook or clean. Well Pakhi where do you lay then… she is a teenager but acts like a little child. Pakhi has not grown… she wither hates Anupama or hates Kavya… just like Vannraj Shah he bounces between both of them.
Samar is a okay character… I just feel like if he helps around the house, I feel like Samar is there to be supportive of his mother, so I do not know really how to expand on Samar.
Kinjal arch is something I am not understanding… is she supposed to point out the flaws in this family and help improve or is she supposed to become mini Kavya now… I understand why Kinjal got upset yesterday but in the promo I am not getting the vibe she is standing up for herself instead just insulting anyone that comes in her way. I used to like Kinjal because she called out the hypocrisy and called out Anupama for how Anupama told her to stay silent. But I kind of do not like the change because instead of stating facts, or Kinjal being mature, where she explained to Pakhi the situation and was able to patch the relationship with Pakhi, was able to maintain a stable relationship with Vanraj now is yelling and becoming like Kavya. Anupama using the but no one ate because of you statement is wrong but Kinjal not informing the family that she will be late is kind of wrong. Cause I know when I cam running late I so not want to worry my parents so I let them know like a quick hey I won’t be home on time so do not worry. I feel like it can go either two way Kavya wins and turns Kinjal into this immature, annoying, self absorbed a*sh*le. Or Kinjal wakes up and instead of yelling she starts to explain to Anupama how she truly feels and then Kinjal and Anupama think of something to overcome this situation. Kinjal not being frustrated is understandable, but even when she is feeling strong emotions she was able to communicate them before and was able to explain what she is going through. When she would express them, ANupama and Kinjal would come up with a solution. But now, all she is doing is yelling, and taking Kavya’s side who once again Kinjal knows that Kavya is trying to ruin the family and will do anything to break this family apart.
I feel as though this family is hella weak and so are the characters in this story. All of these characters are presented in a way that they are good on their own, that they are all independent but they are really not. Pakhi talks about make coffee for herself, and that Babuji helped once… this thing should be an everyday thing. Where Samar, Pakhi, Paratoish, Vanraj, and Kavya need to help everyday. This just shows how they want to give importance to the “babus” but not give them credit for anything. This show could have been a cool web series, or an amazing show if it only lasts like 2 years. But with the amount of drama, fights, and non sense that happens it seems like this show will go for 10 years. But who will watch the show. Anupama’s growth is being delayed every single episode. I have said this so many times but they waste so many episodes for no reasons. Like when coming home from the resort… just them travelling home took up entire episode where it was mainly montages. Then after that it took 1 week for them to just enter the house. After that it took them 3 episodes just to show one day. This show is just getting worse, because half the time these small fights do not effect the story or it would be forgotten. I feel like they need to change soon, or else they will become a forgotten show that no one where care for when the show hits a 10 year mark. They really need to change fast.
I cant see Anus new journey . All I see is Anupama serving these thankless shahs and if she takes a few days leave her DIL is throwing tantrums . In that sense I can say Nandini is way better then kinju baby . I know kinjal has work overloaded but the way she is moving towards kaavya and disrespecting Anupama is disgusting . Writers are mentally retired I guess
Agree the Marathi version is a little better though same producer .might be they want to get a love angle for Paritosh coz if it’s an adaption of sreemoyee serial Paritosh character gets another girl whom he starts loving coz differences crop up between him and his wife .now don’t know if they plan to the same thing with Anupama serial I really don’t know where this show is heading I honestly started enjoying when Anupama found out of Kavya and vanraj affair and she started becoming strong and independent but now it’s gone from good to worse .why can’t our Hindi serials be like English one which they can have seasons where one season has limited episodes and take a break and bring the second season so the excitement is there and more creavity
Kinjal is inclining towards kavya because she feel ganged up by the family. Today she has been saying over and over working is not the issue but she doesn’t like to be compared and become someone else. Instead of assuring her this will never be the case baa, samar, pakhi are saying they are also doing chores so she shouldn’t have any issue. She is telling one thing and they are replying with something else. When she speaks to anu, despite understanding kinjal side she still defends baa. If one feel cornered and not understood by anyone else obviously they will go towards the person who is showing support, understanding and compassion. Kavya might be a witch but she is in same job, family and position as kinjal. Kavya is also downgraded all the time by baa for small things.
Family expects DIL to be perfect, like if DILs helps it’s their job but if sons or daughter help then it is the biggest ehsaan ever. Baa would never yell at pakhi, samar or toshu for messing up or not being as competent as anu. But if anu, kinjal and kavya do any mistakes it will as if the sky has fallen over.
Don’t forget it’s a daily soap not 10 episode web series..that have to drag the story for the sake of trp.They can not show everything straight to the point.For the cable tv they have to add masala and some nonsensical things.their whole issue is getting help in household thing and everyone is earning they can easily hire help but they have to drag at least 7 episodes but I digest it because I chose to watch a daily soap.
@Mystery. Your right! Why should only Anupama take overload of school, home , kitchen bapuji and baa and kids! Kinjal has office work too but if Anupama can do it then why can’t Kinjal do it?!?!
Tbh Kinjal is right in a way. They can’t expect her to become perfect like Anupama in a day. She has a lot of office work too, PLUS she was raised like a princess. Ofc it will be difficult for her. Seeing she is the boss of her team in office, she can hire a maid easily. That should be the best solution and Ba or someone else shouldn’t have any problem with it. Kinjal’s anger at Anupama is not bcz she dumped some work on her, but bcz Anupama is always defending Ba no matter what. Ba is used to throwing tantrums and yelling at everyone. Ba should realize that Kinjal and Anupama are two different persons and can’t be the same. Kinjal is a headstrong independent girl who wouldn’t take any nonsense. She wouldn’t silently listen like Anupama. Yeah, Kavya’s maid was arrogant but respect is not a one way process. You can’t respect Ba just bcs she is elder. Respect is earned by your actions. And Ba is used to differentiating, comparing and blaming. We all saw that even Ba didn’t treat Geeta properly. She humiliates Kavya and Rakhi calling them Maide Ki Katori and Naagin. Anupama would say that ba’s intentions are not wrong. Anupama is just dumb bcz she blindly supports that Ba who had treated her like shit. Where is her self-respect, man? And why should Kinjal become like someone? Why can’t she become her own unique character, her own role-model? There were so many Kinju baby fans but they started hating her in a second over this petty issue. Super-regressive show. Why can’t Pakhi help in kitchen? Why can’t even Samar start earning and together they can easily hire a maid or two (accepted by all) True, Rakhi exaggerates a bit but her point is valid. I feel Kinjal and Toshu should move out, and even Anupama should leave this household to live her own life.
Samar do job as dance teacher and has low earning due to his intial days in job. And they both are collectively paying Dr. Adi’s bill from their earnings that’s why they can’t hire a maid from their salary. And they are going to open their own dance academy in Bapuji’s old factory without labour help as they need to save money. That’s why he remains busy discussing about the same with Nandini and renovating the factory into dance academy on their own. Kinjal was right that Baa overreacted but the way she’s falling prey to Kavya is wrong. Everyone loves her. And Toshu should also help in household chores like Bapuji and Samar. That’s why I like these 2 characters most after Anu. They doesn’t hesitate in doing house works by sidelining their male ego. And Nandini is far better than Kinjal. She didn’t got manipulated by Kavya who is her own mausi even after living with her for such a long time. She and Samar always support each other and Anu. Always try to make her happy. Rectify their mistakes and are going to open their own dance academy not just to realize their own dream of becoming successful dancers but Anu’s dream as well. I think Anu’s success journey will progress after Samar-Nandini will expose Kavya that she manipulated Kinjal(as shown in news resources) and the opening of Anupama Dance Academy (originally visioned by Samar) . And this is the reason that I’m #Sanan fan. They both are much mature and focused than #Jaltosh. Don’t fight over petty issues, don’t play blame game with each other , have full trust on each other and are always present for Anu as her back.
Actually I couldnt connect with kinjal’s negativity… Its unneccessary drama… kinjal Ek din me itna badal saktha he kya… Woh bhi kavya ki baatonme aake.
I think this needed to happen in order for Anu to realize that Ba is a horrible person & if she continues to support & defend her she will loose other relationships!!! Kavya hates Anu to an extent she wants to hurt Anu in any way possible & its all due to Baa & Vanraj!!! Since the divorce Ba has been comparing & praising Anu to an extent its soo irritating to even us the viewers & i think Kinjal rebellion will give them a wake up call!!! Baa has been messing relationships for Anu, first it was with Vanraj & now with Kinjal!!! I hope this opens Anu’s eyes & realise that needs a break from her greatness!!!
Exactly, this is so true. Ba has meddled with all relationships and has not respected any! Anupama will lose everything if she continues to defend that obnoxious woman.
Still baa thinks she is right. Baa doesn’t respect others, but expects everyone to respect her
I completely agree with @ Any & @ Wolky Dolky. I have something to say here…..
I agree to all of you that Baa is wrong and Kinjal is right but she is not completely right, besides Baa she is partially wrong also.
Anupama served for the family for 26 long years & got nothing in return. Her mother is ill & she went to visit her for just 2 days…… Can’t she expect that without her other family members can adjust for 2 days?? I know that Kinjal is a working woman & she is very busy in her office work. Baa asked Kinjal for 2-3 chores & she couldn’t do it properly……..OK, It’s absolutely FINE….Baa taunted Kinjal is absolutely wrong which I also agree but KINJAL MISBEHAVED WITH ANUPAMA IS ABSOLUTELY NOT FINE… The way she said’ Mummy goes in the morning & returns in night & I am stuck into household work’ & ‘I am tired of hearing ANUPAMA’s name’ was VERY RUDE …..I am not talking about Baa, I am keeping her aside but from the beginning of the serial we have seen that ANUPAMA loves Kinjal like her own daughter so SHOULD GIVE DESERVED RESPECT TO HER ‘MUMMY’. That’s why I am saying that Kinjal is partially wrong.
Exactly and all this saod and done when anu just politely asked her as to ehy she eas late .. what was the need for kinjal to reaxt like she did now here nobody compared her to anupama which shwle claimed was her only problem ..
Off air karo anupamaa show ko it’s a bore
Rakhi is wrong to barge in and threaten everyone but the family is no less. They saw kinjal doesn’t mind work, she has been doing chores since she got married without complaining. She even refused her mother’s proposal for house help. She only feels bad being compared since she is her own person and can’t be like someone else. Samar and pakhi don’t even listen and start listing the chores they are doing since 2 days. Like how would they feel if rakhi and kavya yell at them for not cutting vegetables in the shape they want or making different taste coffee when they are already stressed out. No one like to be constantly compared to someone else and put down over futile things. I am so glad kinjal is speaking up, I hate despo females characters accept injustice and bullshit to be accepted and loved by her in-laws. Taking a stand and answering back to unfairness isn’t wrong. It is so much better than standing like a painted wall, watch other people destroy your self-esteem. Kinjal is at least realistic and relatable.
Not sure what is wrong here. I live in the UK. not sure about any of you. All I can say is that not everyone can afford to have a full time maid. We in the UK do not all have maids. We go to work and come home and have to do our own chores. It’s not a big deal. I live with my Inlaws as well and we all have to work together. I also have 2 children and I have 3 jobs, my god what will happen when Kinjal had kids!!!! . You have to work to survive, but that does not mean you do not have other priorities as well. I certainly do not want my children growing up and thinking that it is ok to only go out to work and not look after your home. We are always fighting for equal opportunities. Will this is a way of showing it
Kinjal read and understood the danger sign that flashed into her sight . Baa degraded and insulted her while she was doing her best . The whole household was telling her not to respond or take a stance for her dignity instead of standing for her including her husband and MOST of all Anupama herself !!
Well that’s exactly the reason Anupama has hit bottom in the first place .
Kinjal tolerates no nonsense when it comes to her dignity not even from Anupama.
Well done Kinjal , it’s a lesson for Anupama not to let people use you in the name of love or respect or any sort of reasons.
That house need to come off the Jurassic age
I don’t understand why people are saying pakhi should work like seriously!? I mean kinjal is a working *woman* still she can’t cook right?? But you expect pakhi to do that when she is a school going *kid*.. Did kinjal work at her mom’s house?? No! right? Then why pakhi such hypocrites ya’ll are
I know I’ll be bashed for this but I really felt like putting my opinion out. Anupama just had her surgery. Her mom is sick. She juggles with school , Dance class, household chores and extra projects like orphanage choreography.She has to pay for her surgery expenses and she’s working hard to make ends meet.
Kinjal is the replacement of vanraj . She must be getting same salary as him. Toshi is the md of dave excellency. Both of them haven’t extended monetary help to Anu. Samar and Nandini are working hand.They can propose name of a maid and pay her.
Rather than fighting with baa, kinjal could’ve patiently explained.Samar and Bapuji are helping with kitchen work . Its toshi and vanraj who dont do anything – the so called winner team from initial days. Toshi is her love interestm she should explain her problem and ake him help.
Kinjal is a 26 year old woman .Most times, Anupama doesn’t let her do anything. 2 rotis are a workload for her. How will this naazuk Kali handle job pressures of multiple departments, defects, deadlines ?What’s it about habits she made half cooked saabudana and tea. This kind of food is not right for an elderlys digestive system. Even bachelor men juggle with housework and jobs nowadays. She is not able to handle frustrations of a job then what is the difference between her and vanraj. You’ll have responsibility when you have power. If you are not able to take control of your emotions as an adult, that’s your issue. Cooking and driving are basic life skills what man what woman in this?
And kinjal is happy with Anupama doing all the chores. Everyone else who works is a servant . Wow .
And with Mrs. Dave , she cooked food when she stayed here in curfew. Then she wasn’t a servant but everyone else who does is .
Kavya is dependent for her own chores on others. A working woman working in office is fine but making tea for oneself is not. This is again putting working women in a bad light.
Nobody is addressing jhilmil issue.If she is in village and not coming , she must be having some problem.Working women and holidays are unacceptable for employers. Another issue of working women.Height of insensitivity.
The real problem is not working women or housewives. The real problem is toshi, vanraj and kavya not even moving their hands for their own chores.