Anupama 30th March 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anu inebriated under bhang effect applies color to Vanraj and continues laughing. Vanraj asks what is this. Kavya stands in anger and shock noticing that and walks away from there. Anu continues her weird acts. Vanraj scolds her to behave herself and shuts her mouth. Anu says she lived for 25 years according to his wish and didn’t play holi because of him, he did whatever he wanted and forced her follow his wish. She laughs saying Jahapanah Tusi Great Ho and again drives her bike away.
In holi celebration venue, Samar and Pakhi search for Anu. Baa asks them to go and search outside. Kavya angrily says Anu is inside Vanraj’s roomRakhi thinks why didn’t bhang effect on Kavya till now, what did she see inside Vanraj’s room. Family returns home and stand shocked seeing Anu’s weird acts. Anu asks why did they enter house and spoilt floor. Baa asks what happened to her. Anu asks what h happened to Baa Beta, did she have thandai/milk. Rakhi realizes that she had bhang milk. Kinjal makes her sit on swinger. Anu says Baa sits on this swinger, looks at her via binocular and scolds her; she didn’t bless her once and vented out her Saas’ anger on her bahu; why can’t the world’s saas considers her bahu as daughter, if that happens, all fights in the end will end and there won’t any saas-bahu serials’ she always considered Baa as her maa, but baa never considered her as beti or bahu; Baa wanted to bring an educated and well cultured bahu for her son, but got a thepla making bahu; Baa took years to realize her value, she used to cry a lot and wet many pillows; however Baa is, she is her Baa. She reminds how Baa cried during Dolly’s bidai and says Baa will cry more when she will leave this house; Baa is swinging even standing. Baa asks her to stop. Anu says no bus or train and makes her swing on a swinger. Family feels sad for Anu.
Kavya returns to Nandini’s house and vents out anger remembering Anu touching Vanraj. Anu then walks to Bapuji and asks like he is supporting her now, why didn’t he support her earlier; she knows he wanted peace in the house, but tolerating wrong is not peace but silence; if he had not let Baa to stop her education, she wouldn’t have been like this. She reminds how Rakhi insulted her during Toshu and Kinjal’s alliance, and if she was educated, marriage would have easily happened and Rakhi wouldn’t have felt ashamed to call her sadhan. Bapuji apologizes her and says her saas and pati/husband didn’t want her to study, he didn’t fight with them and let her study and always insulted her as illiterate. Anu says if she was educated, she would have been smart and working in some big office like Kavya and blabbered English like Kinjal and Rakhi, etc.
Nandini asks Kavya how does she know what Anu is in Vanraj’s room. Kavya shouts don’t irritate her now. Nandini asks if only she has copyright of creating issues. Kavya continues yelling and says she went to meet Vanraj. Nandini asks why she went there after creating so much drama the other day. Kavya says Pakhi did that drama and reminds Nandini and Samar’s mistake. Nandini says they made a mistake and didn’t repeat her, but Kavya is so arrogant and adamant that she is repeating her mistakes. Kavya slaps her and reminds her that she is her aunt.
Anu pampers Pakhi and says they all 3 are her life and she loves them a lot; children have right to get angry on mother, but mother doesn’t have that right and only can love children; everyone thinks Samar is her dearest, but she is Samar’s dearest and understands her, he obeys her always, but only didn’t on Shivratri day. Kavya fumes that whenever she goes to Vanraj’s room, Baa and Pakhi interfere and today Anu barged into her and Vanraj’s room; they are trying to separate her from V, but she will marry V after his divorce and will not bother even if someone dies.
Precap: Anu in subconscious state tells Vanraj that he loved her like Radha loves Kanhaji, but he never loved her.
Update Credit to: MA
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I hate Kavya man, how can she slap the person who’s house she’s staying in?
Why are they making Kavya so venomous now? Seems like she’s going insane
Okay before moving on let’s talk about Kavya’s character change. We know that Kavya is in love with Vanraj at the beginning of the show. Though there have been some hints that she was always insecure, when Vanraj wanted to make Kavya feel jelly he used Anupama, to please the family he was keeping Anupama happy, when Anupama does a good job she gets praised. These are the things that made Kavya super insecure and as time goes on she does not feel safe and it makes sense. Seeing how Vanraj interacts with everyone and how he deals with everyone and his emotions, anyone can feel insecure. Since Vanraj wants things to be done on his terms he will walk in and out on a relationship. If you do something he likes you get validation, and if you do something that he does not like you get shamed. Not only that you can get forgotten or Vanraj will act like he doesn’t want you making you feel insecure about everything. Vanraj is a toxic male, that wants to be superior and that everyone else is beneath him. Vanraj has always made Anupama and Kavya insecure, and now that Anupama is leaving him, Kavya is now stuck in the cycle where she will get the same treatment that he did to Anupama. This is something that I noticed that Anupama had fully trusted Vanraj but always felt insecure and scared that he would kick her out of the house at any point in time. Now that Kavya knows that Vanraj is a cheater it makes it 10 times worse for her. Do not forget that Kavya mentioned to Vanraj that before Anupama was her weekdays plan then weekends was Kavya and now Kavya is his weekdays and Anupama is his weekends plan. Something that I noticed is that Vanraj wanted someone to be his wife to please his family and someone else with lust. Vanraj is comfortable with Anupama, since she acted like her maid, not only that but Vanraj knows that Anupama is loved by the entire family. That Anupama will bend and comfrom to the family rules, since Anupama does not know any better being naive. While Vanraj was using Kavya for lust. Notice that whenever Kavya brought up divorce or talked about getting married to Kavya he panics or changes the topic. Before the affair came out in the public he was willing to marry Kavya without leaving Anupama since he had Anupama which was the family choice and Kavya for himself. I believe that is why Kavya is going insane because she does not feel secure. I believe that once they get married Kavya will realise what mistake she made marrying into that family. I believe that once Kavya realizes that Vanraj is not worth it she will leave him or cheat on him. I believe that their relationship is just toxic and only getting worse. I hope that Kavya’s character is better since there are so many possibilities rather than just having Kavya kick out the entire family. But overall I just feel that Kavya is just feeling insecure and it is getting worse by the moment. Also do not forget that Kavya does not have anyone, the fact that her own niece does not side with her. Not only that, but Anirudh has now left because they got a divorce now. So Kavya is all alone and has no one besides Vanraj. While Vanraj has Ba, Paratoish, Pakhi, he has a stable home, he has connections and just saying that he has people that will do anything for him. While Kavya does not, but it was still wrong of her to slap Nadini. I feel like Kavya needs to stop, and be like before where she had her career. Though still in the beginning she was still controlling and wanted V for herself, but it is just getting more and more stronger is something that I had realize.
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What ever Anupama said in this episode was just heart breaking, the fact that never did she ever get the love or got the support. And is only getting love and support because she is about to leave the house. It seems like Anupama has a lot of anger, and just a lot of sadness inside of her that she never showed, she never really showed her true feelings. This is something that I felt like the family needed to hear, how they all let Anupama down one way or another. Even though Babuji supported her when they found out the truth about the affair, he stopped supporting her after Vanraj’s accident, not only that but did not even support her back then. This made Anupama feel so isolated, and why the affair was just the breaking point for her, why she did not want to go back to Vanraj. This opened her eyes and made her realize that it was not worth it. The fact that the only person that cared for Anupama was Samar, which is really upsetting, that no one even tried to understand Anupama. Anupama does bring up a good point that no one had ever supported her when she wanted to study and work, then they all turn around and call her illiterate. This point was brought up before when Vanraj and Ba were talking when the affair first came out. This is something that I feel people keep forgetting, I remeber when Babuji and Ba were talking after they found out the affair, where Ba said if we married Vanraj to someone of his status then maybe he wouldn’t have committed this act. The problem with this is Anupama wanted to study and was willing to learn and become of “Vanraj’s level” but they were the ones that stopped her and treated her like a maid. This is something I feel like we as viewers needs to understand.
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As for Rakhi I feel like she knows what is going on with Anupama, and understands what circumstances she was in. Since Rakhi is opening up her heart to Anupama I feel like Rakhi will always be there for Anupama now and help her. She did call Anupama illiterate, though she did not want her daughter going in a home where there is a chance that they will treat her like a maid. I think this opened up her eyes that this family used a innocent woman, who could have been more than just a free maid. I hope to see Anupama and Rakhi’s friendship blossom.
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As for Ba, Paratoish, Vanraj, and Pakhi they learn what they did. They were the ones alwasy compaling about Anupama the most, always controlling her, and shaming her over the smallest thing. I hope they learn to respect everyone or else they will lose everyone in their lives. Pakhi, Paratoish, Vanraj, and Ba are people that always talk about how they are great and how much work they do when in reality they do not do anything and instead rely on other people to do their jobs. I just hope they learn and carry the guilt that they could have supported Anupama but instead they had just let her down and just gave her pain.
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In future episode I hope that they show Kavya moving in, but not conforming to anyone, where instead she focuses on her career. Rather than her kicking everyone out, she works and brings in the money. And if anyone were to say anything that Kavya states that now she brings in the money so they have no right to say anything. As for Anupama, I hope she gets educated and becomes successful in life. Where she goes to therapy, helps her family, and where she will make more friends so she would not be alone anymore. I also feel like she needs to give herself a couple of years before they introduce new love interests, since it makes more sense that she works on herself and heal from the pain. I also feel like Pakhi should lean how to be idependent cause her father or Kavya ain’t gonna do anything for her, so instead of putting a fit, she just works on herself and does her own thing, and matures, same with Paratoish. Pakhi and Paratoish need to become more independent and need to be more self aware of their father and stop painting him to be this god like figure, in future episodes I want them to kind of not distance but stop treating their father like god and start treating him like a human being. I hope that this series only progress and do not follow the classic saas bahu drama.
Also I forgot to add the Samar and Nandini relationship started by the third episode that she appeared in. I have 2 theory s about this relationship.
1. That this relationship will be too complicated to the point that both Samar and Nandini understand that this relationship will not work so then they will end it off and go their separate ways and then meet again after some time.
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2. Samar and Nandini relationship is growing and being shown a lot to show tension that will be shown in future episodes, where just like Paratoish, where Samar will have to choose either his family or his lover, which will make things interesting .
omg… i agree with everything you said
So wonderfully summarised this was on my mind as well!
well said. one thing w rakhi is that she might’ve insulted anupama but she never knew how the family was treating her. this goes with the saying ‘never judge a book by it’s cover”. she might’ve wanted a very educated and literate sister-in-law but after she really got to know anupama, she realized how kind she is. she might not be educated but she has a really good heart which is probably what changed her mind
The weirdest thing here is they will forget all these in 2 to 3 weeks & go back to their old ways like they did previous times. I feel except Bapuji, Samar & Kinjal everyone like Anupama but for them she isn’t the first priority, Vanraj has higher.
The worst is Kavya despite being a woman and above all a divorcee can’t understand Anupama’s dilemma and inescapable situation she is in. Btw we know until Anupama’s love interest enters, it is always #Anuraj.
I believe why they forget is because Anupama lives with them, showing that she still does not have any importance. I believe that because she is leaving now everyone is going to miss her and everyone and now they will learn the importance of Anupama. Since before they never thought that she will ever leave but now she is. Also I do not think that Vanraj and Anupama will ever get together, since because it was a big betrayal that Anupama could never forget. Even when Vanraj was acting nice and asking for forgiveness, she still did not get back with Vanraj. So I do not think they will ever get together.
As for Kavya she is feeling super insecure about Anupama and Vanraj’s relationship. Kavya stopped loving her ex husband so she just wanted to move on in life, she just wants her V now. Seeing that Vanraj has never made Kavya feel secure, and that Kavya wants the divorce to happen in order to feel secure in the relationship. But honestly it is just becoming to much.
Hi guys!I have a quick question,how does Nandani afford the house she lives in?Didn’t Vanraj buy it for her as favor for Kavya?How does she still afford to live in it?Also BTW,loved the epsiode.Felt bad for Anupamaa <3
Nandu was studying in USA and also working there as a classic dancer and she came to India becos she wanted to learned olden days dance,in nutshell she came to India with her own money and rented the apartment herself, nobody rented the place for her,she even has bicycle that she used to rode to school,she got her own money on her own that’s why she didn’t depends on her aunt
This kavya needs a tight slap as she is craving for it.
Today’s episode was very emotional. Though in subconscious state,finally Anupama opened her heart out before the family & made them realize their own mistakes.I am starting to like Leela’s character as she realized her mistakes & now she supports Anupama & loves her like a daughter. Even the character Rakhi Dave who earlier insulted Anupama a lot & treated her samdhan like a maid was also crying in today’s episode & I am happy to see that Rakhi’s character is slowly becoming positive,now she behaves nicely with Anupama & she has recognized her golden heart.Even Vanraj got emotional today.Everyone is starting to like/love her but sadly it’s too late.
I dont knw why bt sumtimes i want vanraj n anupama to reunite.. bt only n only if vanraj changes completely n becomes a gud person n husband.. i really felt bad wen in precap anu confessed her love for him n vanraj ws sad.. deep inside d heart they both want to reconcile bt vanraj’s ego n anu’s self respect comes in between all d time.. wat i feel dat sometimes happiness n love shud b given more importance dan self respect n ego.. God has given one life only.. its better to b happy n concentrate on future n bury past baggage n past experiences. Today anu has everything, loving in laws,kids,samdhan.. they respect her,love her so much nw.. she is independent n financial settled also.. she is only happy wid her family n will never b happy alone.. then why she needs to leave home just to set an example fr others.. its better to b happy dan to set example in society.. i only n only want them to reunite if vanraj apologizes to her wid whole heart n becomes a very gud husband like a son he is.. i just want anu to b happy..
I totally agree, but the thing is that Anupama had lost her self respect a long time ago. Where Ba taunts her all the time, her kids are ashamed to eve call her mom, where her own family calls her illiterate. Anupama was tortured by Vanraj all this time, so I believe that when Anupama found out the affair it broke everything for her. She was done and fed up with everything, and that is why she wants a divorce cause she knows that Vanraj will never be the person that she once felt love for.
You talking about how her in laws love her and that her kids love her which is not true. Up until this point all of them have constantly hurt Anupama, always insulting her and putting Vanraj above her. They are only treating her nicely because she is leaving. If Anupama were to continue to stay then the cycle will repeat, where they will treat Anupama horrible until she wants to leave again. Even after Vanraj truly apologizes do not forget that a relationship is based on trust, which Vanraj broke, that Vanraj used wrong. Anupama said that she will not forgive because it really hurt her, that even when Vanraj was being kind, and wanted to join the relationship again Anupama said no. That they were living together cause they had kids that they needed to stay together for. At this point it is not about Vanraj’s ego or Anupama’s self respect, its the fact that both Vanraj and Anupama have removed themselves out of this relationship. That Vanraj cheated and Anupama does not feel the love anymore. That everyone in that family had let down Anupama one way or another, that they treated her so badly that when Vanraj had an affair she broke, and realized how everyone had wronged her. When Anupama lives in that house every single day someone is constantly insulting her, making fun of her, or dismissing her feelings. Living in that type of house, where your ex husband’s girlfriend can walk in and out of the house, and where you are always a second thought, you are better off just leaving. It is not just about someone’s ego and self respect, its about the abuse, the horrible support system, and a household that puts the person who did the horrible deed above you, and where your worth is less than dirt. I would not want Vanraj to get back with Anupama, cause the cycle of abuse would just repeat, her living with her own mom, healing and finding a home that will give her what she deserves is what’s best for her. As for Vanraj he has Kavya now.
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i see where you’re coming from but i really don’t want them to reunite. idk if you heard the saying but “once a cheater always a cheater”. it doesn’t matter if the person changed or not but if anupama stays with vanraj, she will always be insecure because he cheated on her for 8 years and never respected her or their relationship, so what guarantees her that he won’t do it again? at the same time if she thinks he is lying or cheating again and she brings it up, it would just be so toxic to their relationship because the trust isn’t there. every relationship is based on trust and if you don’t have that then the relationship is doomed to fail. i understand it is difficult to change, but she was treated so badly in the family that at this point she needs to leave them. she lost her self respect and worth and the only way to retrieve it is to let go and live her own life away from them
I think anupmaa should study and then go to vanraj and confess her love and ask him to take her in his life back and be a little selfish and manipulate vanraj about Kavya and throw her
I think that defeats the purpose of the character Anupama. Anupama does not need to manipulate or anything. She justs wants to llive her life and wants to be free, away from the toxic people.
No, I can’t agree with you.
Kavyaa is so pretty .. Why she is after an old much married man? He is jobless too..
it’s some kind of obsession..