Anupama 3rd April 2023 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama gets anxious when Kanta doesn’t pick phone and asks Bhavesh to try from his phone. Bhavesh says she is unnecessarily getting worried. Anupama says Anuj is already upset and Kanta may worsen the issue. Kanta asks Anuj if his 26-year-old love for Anupama vanished so easily. Anuj says he still loves Anupama immensely. Maaya feels aback hearing that. Anuj says he is burning from inside and wandering everywhere and didn’t want to leave Anupama. Kanta asks why did he come here then. Anuj says he equally loves Little Anu and can’t live without her. Kanta asks if he can live without Anupama, he could have brought Anupama with him, but he left her alone and came here, what mistake did Anupama do. Anuj says Anupama can never do any mistake, he is punishing himelf instead. He justifies his act saying he had a happy family with Anupama and his daughter, his daughter was taken away and Anupama didn’t try to stop her at all, its Anupama’s mistake that she didn’t pay attention to his daughter due to her issues, he broke down seeing that, etc.
Kanta says he can set things right again before its too late. Anuj says he sees countless cracks between their relationship like cracks on a water glass, he can see only cracks and nothing else, he doesn’t know what he should tell Anupama if he returns. Kanta breaks glass and asks what does he mean, he loves Anupama but doesn’t want to return back to her, what he wants. Anuj anxiously say she wants Anupama’s happiness and asks her to take her out of a slump of happiness, they can’t refix this relationship at any cost, he wants to stay with his daughter now. Kanta asks if he took a decision to leave Anupama evena after knowing that she can’t live without him. Anuj asks her to tell Anupama not to have fake hope that he will return to her.
Anupama anxiously prays god to help her mother bring back Anuj. Bhavesh asks her calm down. Anupama asks if maa will bring Anuj and Little Anu back and continues to show his anxiouness. Anuj tells Kanta that he doesn’t want Anupama to die slowly each day waiting for him, he is not a person whom Anupama loved as there is only emptiness left in his life, so she should tell Anupama that his chapter has entered in her life and she should start a new chapter, and when she starts living again, he will forgive himself. He pleads her to teach Anupama to live without him. Kanta stands speechless. Anuj leaves giving an excuse of Little Anu. Kanta recalls Anuj’s words.
Bhavesh cries seeing Anupama’s condition. Waqt Ne Kiya Kya Haseen Sitam.. song. Anuj cries in bathroom. Anupama continues to call Kanta repeatedly. Maaya feels happy thinking she was unnecessarily worried, Anuj will not return to Anupama now, she can do whatever she wants to. She walks to Kanta and says she must have heard that Anuj doesn’t want to return to Anupama, the fact is Anuj loves Little Anupama a lot and hence came here to them, they all 3 are happy in their own small world without missing Anupama, Anupama hurt Anuj a lot and hence she should spare him, Anupama herself lost her happy married life and she didn’t do anything, she wishes Anupama all the best. She says they need to go out, so her drive will drop Kanta somewhere. Kanta says one who comes by themselves will go by themselves, whether its her or Anuj.
Precap: Kanta informs Anupama that Anuj told that he can’t return and she shouldn’t wait for him. Anupama breaks down.
Update Credit to: MA
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So much dragging
Some people are very happy that Maan divorce going to happen .but they don’t know without anupama anuj role become useless as separate maaya anuj story is is irrelevant
So after divorce with anupama there will be no story for anuj left
Without anupama there will be no story of anuj so anuj will exit from.show
@Abc I agree with you. Anuj’s role is irrelevant without Anupama. Whether people want to agree or not, there is a certain charmness that MaAn brought to the serial. Anupama can move on without anuj but unfortunately the serial won’t be the same again without MaAn.
@Abc and CWM
I don’t think yall realise why Maya is here she is there so they can use her to glorify Maan love in the end( she is the reason they are separating). The writer know what they are doing they are intentionally doing this separation because we all know this could have been solved in one sitting down and talking to each other. No idea what the next part is but clearly it’s important for Anupama and Anuj to separate for the next part.
@Muge I believe writers will show that MaAn love is the definition of “love conquers all” and “genuine intentions and true love will triumph over bad/evil intentions”π€£
And that is why Maya is there she will be the one to prove that when Anuj leaves her for Anupama. So what the difference between Anupama and all other tv serials……Nothing.
@Abc @CwM @muge I completely agree with you all in the meantime they will always show toshu -baa- vanraj in their usual vile self and unrepentant Ankush -Bharka and Adhik might just ruin kapadia empire I know Anu is unqualified but Anuj mentored her everyday and can handle it so I hope while Anuj is busy been Anuj it’s best they pick Anu’s character up for now make her interim CEO of kapadia empire we need to see her in that light even if it’s just for a few episodes
@Muge
Even if they show as you suggested but still after all this connecting with MaAn will not be possible. They have proven that be it love of 2 days or 26 years it can vanish in just a moment.
Pakhi after Mayaβs disclosure said that Anuj will have to choose between Anupama and CA and he have made his choice. Even if as someone said that all this is his plan but still as viewers Iβm unable to see MaAn again together.
One thing I donβt understand why everyone wants Anupama to not look after her kids. I have seen many biological children hopeless and alone after their parents remarriage to other spouses. Parents completely forgets their own kids to be happy in their respective new marriage. Those children feel so scared and they lose sense of belonging. Why are kids punished for their parents marriage failure. Here at least I was happy that both Vanraj and Anupama wanted to bear responsibility n care for their children even though they were remarried. But at last it showed that itβs impossible to do that. Also many commentators said that Anupama after Anujβs repeated warnings should have stopped going to shahs, how is it possible? He canβt live without CA for a moment than is it fair to Anupama ?
Anuj and Anupama never connected with each other after marriage. All their bounding used to start with CA or end with CA. Obviously now without CAβs presence Anuj doesnβt know how to deal with their marriage thatβs why I wanted that they first bounded as a husband n wife than after a year or 2 adopted CA.
Anuj chapter is close so just let Anuj stay happily with Choti n Maaya n focus on Anupama now!
Sometimes it’s cruel to be kind. Maybe this separation will make Anupama a stronger and bolder and tough woman without any support. Anuj does mention to kantaben that I will come in front of Anupama after she has made a name for herself. Now let her journey begin. Anuj should return to Kapadia mansion and take over the reins from Ankush. He should be a devoted single parent to chotty whobis smart enough to bring her parents together and clear the misunderstanding
@Mia
I understand and agree with your point of view all I’m saying is in the end Anuj is going to go back to Anupama it’s just makes sense because after they are lovers wheather you or me or anyone else doesn’t feel Maan anymore they will be together. One day for sure Anupama and Anuj will meet again. The writer isn’t stupid his trying to gain more episodes if you are understanding this and many people will want to see MaAn’s reunion because many people watch for Anuj and Anupama not just Anupama. The writer know what he or she is doing.
@Muge
I know but what I feel bad is that in real life those women/men with kids who remarry will also get the idea that after remarriage before first marriage childrenβs needs to be in the background and not prioritise otherwise it will mess up. This serial is a TRP leading show means many people are watching.
I know that Anuj will unite with Anupama that is the end game.
No just like people here were sayinv Anupama is the same serial as another drama n that Anuj’s character died in tat drama! So just let Anuj’s chapter close, n focus on Anupama
Even though it’s just a serial but still I can’t even feel what anupama is going through right now.It’s terrible when a person who used to love you from depth of his heart,used to just chant your name and care for you like anything turns changed completely that they don’t even return to you for your tears,they doesn’t even care about your life,and even the fear of your death can’t melt them.And this feeling just kills you from inside. And when a person like Anuj becomes the person he has became now it’s really very hard to crack him.
Anyways without Anuj I really don’t want to watch it.
Anuj’s character, charisma, charm and occasional temper when protecting Anu was a breath of fresh air to be honest I kind of hated how he made Anu his entire existence and he wouldn’t think of himself everything was Anu Anu it just reminded me of Anu’s marriage where she was the giver and never got anything in return except this time it was Anuj receiving the bare minimum from Anu but now that he is thinking of himself I hate it I think Anu and Anuj should be together
Exactly my point,even I used to feel the same.But this is what happens even in real life,when someone is giver in any relationship and just being taken granted intentionally or unintentionally but once they give up on that relationship,no one can save it.
Story is stupid now and the explanation that anju gave is even more stupid. If they go to court and fight for CA she wouldn’t stay with them or maaya she will go into the system and stay with another foster family still the court decides which family she will go to and not sure how long the courts will take. He doesnt understand that. He didn’t tell anupama about maaya’s ex and he could have ask him for evidence against maaya but he didn’t. Its every easy to blame others for their mistakes but can’t see yours. It’s sad that anupama is a good person but she doesnt realizes that everyone is not like her. The sad thing she got no respect for herself so no one got respect for her. No matter how rich she is she will never be respected because she can’t respect herself and love herself and sometimes be selfish. Dont know if she learn to do that. There are too many loop holes in the writing.i hope the writers know its adults watching the show.
@Maash
Anuj knows this very well thatβs why left Anupama so that now he can be with CA and giving open chance to maya to seduce him. He is a very calculative person. He knows that court case is useless otherwise after leaving Anupama why is he not filing a case now? No one is stopping him now.
He can’t bcoz he is not allow to foster or adopt Choti if he is single!
court case? Yes it it a court case. Case workers are involved.
They are constantly in picture. They keep track of the child.
They Encourage the child to be in touch with biological parent.
Both set of parents are supposed to maintain healthy relationship so that the child feels safe and wanted.
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It is a case. At the end of the day one its for the betterment of the child. Either biological parent or foster parent, any one has to sign off the rights.
Its a legal procedure, no question on that.
But these buggers made is scary emotional drama.
No sane person will dare to foster or adopt!
As such most of the Indian population are against fostering or adopting and this will make those assumptions even stronger.
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Though there was no legal procedure, still my parents, grand parents , great grand parents all fostered less fortunate children regularly.
At any given point of time there used to be 2/3 .children who came stayed and studied at our house and happily went to their home after getting education/job.
And trust me this make them super powerful, they got GOD like position for this contributions.
And we are also continuing these legacy.
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But looks like goodness doesn’t suit MaAn, they should better turn evil. That may help them.
@Subha
This act of your ancestors are amazing. Selflessly working for the betterment of children. Keep going ππ»ππ»
I donβt have much knowledge about court case and all but what I feel is both maya and Anuj are being selfish. They are seeing CA as some object that they want to keep with themselves for their own peace without considering CAβs emotions. And this selfishness will end the custody battle any sooner.
Anuj knows CA is a selfless child like Anupama and such type of children should never be emotionally manipulated or forced to see adults fight. If CA is emotionally influenced she will become like Anupama. The children like CA and Anupama if are brought up with thoughts of always giving otherβs importance is not good, to some extent itβs okay but too much of this giving nature becomes like a poison to them. Their own giving nature + being grown up with values like care for other before you = devastating for their own life. They become dependent on others for their happiness which Anupama is.
I really don’t understand why Anuj give up his business his love just for a child he knows very well isn’t his forever! Why is he depriving Choti of her bonding with her biological mother? Put aside whether Maaya is her real biological mother or not or whether she is fit to be one! But common sense Anuj was living his life without Choti b4, why is he now so obsessed with Choti! It’s his nonsense excuses to leave Anupama!
@Mia thats true. for Anupama being empath = being martyr.
And she has preached that to the little girl as well.
She needs help.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6HOo67XZvaM
https://www.amazon.ca/Sensitive-New-Strong-Empaths-Increasingly/dp/1501196677
She literally grow out from her ashes and should not leave to floor to the opportunists like Maaya.
I’m really disappointed with how the writers went about anuj and anu separation. They made it messy to the extent that if they do get back together, connecting with #MaAn will be difficult. what anuj told kanta is something he should have conveyed to Anupama not to kanta that way she will know and understand where anuj is coming from and why he is taking little anu’s separation so hard. There was no need of anuj saying hurtful and disrespectful things to anupama. Anuj should stay away from Anupama. I believe that when tragedy strikes people process things differently and they do need some personal time to sort out their feelings and thoughts but your partner is supposed to be there to hold your hand. If tragedy strikes and you cannot be with your partner, what’s the essence of that relationship? To simply dance and go to picnics??? They both need space. And Anupama should take this time to learn how to put boundaries in her relationships. She should be there for her children but not run after them for every little thing. She also needs to learn to say NO especially to Leela. There is nothing as balance in life. When you give too much attention to one thing, just know that another aspect in your life is/will suffer. According to the shahs Anupama is a maid, nurse, marriage/relationship counselor, and problem solver of all problems, which is unrealistic.
I don’t even understand that why they are showing like married women can’t become successful they can become successful only after divorce or separation… if they wanted to separate both of them then why they introduced anuj
And in times of her needs where is Leela to help her , it’s her poor old mother whom she barely sees whose gone to fight her battles I don’t care what people say or how perfect they try to make Anu but she’s a terrible daughter and sister to her biological family they are at the bottom of her list of priorities
Anuj did not handle this situation or convey his message properly to Anu how ever Anupama has never put in half the time and effort into her current marriage as she did in her first
She freely roams around the shahs cause she knew Anuj will just understand just like she was expected to understand in her first marriage which I hated
Even if Anuj comes back with his folded hands and they begin to work on their marriage the same Shah cycle will be repeated and I know Anu will never do anything differently she will definitely leave Anuj and go there.
What is Anuj trying to say? All his explanations doesn’t makes any sense. Why don’t he clearly say that he only married Anupama to adopt a child and now when Anupama turns out to be useless he doesn’t want her?
He himself doesn’t know that he just wanted to use Anupama for fostering and when she failed in that he no longer able to love her. He is much worst than vanraj atleast vanraj said that he never loved Anupama and kavya was his love but this Anuj still trying to whitewash himself. What fight is he talking about? He himself didn’t fight for CA was just forcing Anupama to do that. And when he has been their for Anupama in her bad times after marriage. One way or other he used blame her when she was stuck in problems bcoz of shahs children. Wanted her to happy with CA even when she was sad n stressed.
He wants his daughter but doesn’t want Anupama to be with her children. What a hypocrite? Why can’t he upfront say he now wants to be with maya so he can get CA why all these round talks?
He is really a shrewd businessman. What a plan he made? First forced anupama to fight for CA knowing well maya won’t back off and chances of winning in courts is less than when she failed blamed her and lashed out at her, left the kapadia house giving equal power of attorney to his brother and Anupama knowing that Anupama won’t keep the business since he is not there. Went to maya house, enticing maya to make a chance on him. Asked kanta to make Anupama learn to live without him so that his path is clear out in marrying maya. After sometime he will return back to kapadia house with maya and CA and will take control of business back. π
This separation, Anuj’s behaviour all looks so forced and senseless. Illogical writers.
Exactly! Nonsense excuses!
He can’t even tell his own wife he wants nothing to do with her he needs to relay a message through the mother in law. Anyway this track has been going on for past 3 weeks need something fresh other than Anupama crying over a failed marriage. We need something fresh!!!!!!
Shahs achieved their goal, her fulltime-maid(Anupama) will be back to shah-house and these useless-people(shahs) will enjoy her seva.
Anupama- Your love for shahs is the only reason for your broken-relationship with Anuj. But you are dumbass, you will shift in the same hell(shah-house) again and serv them like nothing happened.
Anuj is right – “Uske hr majboori me mai uske sath khara rha, lekin hr majboori mai hi kyu samjhu?”
Answer is – Shahs are the most important people of Anupama’s life, She never want to do any compromise in their seva. Anuj+CA are at secondary elements in her life, So you guys always get ready for understanding her majboori. And her love+priority will continue whole life.
So what is the majboori of Anuj? What exactly his problem?
He can leave his house/property/life for his foster child? This is correct as per you?
Then why Anupama is wrong if she went to see his paralytic son?
Its her life her wish who the hell Anuj is to restrict her?
Going by your logic Anuj is the dumbass.
Why that idiot gave the responsibility to retain little Anu to Anupama only?
And when its a case for case workers, govt officials, court and ngos, why this Anuj mental is blaming Anupama?
@subha tell me one thing – preapering khichri for baa was more important than reaching on time in dance competition?
CA was crying for Anupama in the middle-night, and Anupama was holding pari.. Is she a doctor?
Or baa’s word – Not Rakhi but i’ll takecare of Pari, when pari got fever the – lets shift in KM with complete family because
1. Anupama is doctor
2. Kapariya mention is hospital with 24*7 facility
3. Pakhi+Toshu+samar are 6 months babies, how will they take care of themselves and stay alone in the house.. they need same care like pari
Why should Anupama leave her children or parents behind?
If Anuj 2 had a child before marrying Anu or if his parents were still alive than by your logic Anuj should have also not taken care of his parents or the child after marrying Anupama. Anuj should have ignored all health issues or any other problem that his parents or child would have faced as it would have taken his time and messed up their relationship.
Joint family faces this type of issues and no leaving is not the solution. Each member be it Anuj, Anupama or shahs needs to understand and be in a cooperative relation.
Have they achieved there goal. To be honest I have a feeling that things aren’t going to go the way the Shahs want it too. My gosh it’s a TV series calm down it’s just entertainment.
Writer is genius.
Anuj is not returning back. What a script .. πππ
Otherwise the same darama will continue again.
1. Call from shahs house to solve their list of problems(Solution is one and only Anupama, others are useless).
2. Anupama will run behind shahs and give a maboori list in Anuj’s hand.
3. Goal of Anuj+Anupama ‘s life : forget every thing and keep running behind shahs. And eat their abuses,sharap,insult.
Anuj didn’t fight for anu either ,why is anupama always responsible for everything π€π©π©why are they dragging this maaya saga π‘π‘I’m sure anupama will for sure go back to the shahs ,but anuj left her a house and a business to look after ,but in her foolishness she will leave everything and move back to her tormentors π©π©π© anupama needs to love herself before she can love another .she should away from opportunist vanraj and his neediness family ..anupama broke her own house by giving too much time to the shah’s and ignoring her own home.
I don’t think Kanta will let Anu go back to the Shah’s, she’s determined to change her daughter’s way of thinking hoping to see a new Anu
I THINK ITS ALL A DRAMA BETWEEN ANUPAMA AND ANUJ TO GET LITTLE ANU BACK. THEY ARE DOING WHAT MAYAA DID WITH THEM HOW SHE MANIPULATE ANU AND TO GET MAYA CONFIDENCE AND ANUJ WILL ADOPT LITTLE ANU AND THEY WILL BE HAPPY AGAIN. ANUJ FEELING WEAK STAYING AT MAYAA HOUSE IS JUST A SECOND STEP FOR BOTH ANUPAMA AND ANUJ.
CA is a sensible little girl if Maaya could hear the conversation between Kanta and Anuj then she clearly did as well I hope she tells Anuj that she was the one who asked Anu to let her go and why
I hope this Anu-Anuj separation does not last another month am honestly tired of it
Personally the only way these writers will somehow redeem themselves is if Anupama shows up at kapadia empire and takes charge but I know that Anu is more likely to show up at the shahs with her bags than that happening
This is what happens if you take someone for granted. Anupama was taken for granted by Shahs and she took Anuj for granted.
Really, which shah issue was unnecessary for Anupama?
Thoshu/Pakhi/Kinjal/Pari. All needed her.
Don’t send a wrong message saying after remarriage, the mother has to abandon her previous children.
Yes Anupama was gullible but then she was improving also.
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Anuj is very very very wrong to blame Anupama.
Its a case of foster care Anuj must have known the rules and regulations. He should have tried, if he wanted the child with him.
How Anupama is to be blamed here?
1. Pari’s fever & drama –
Kinjal’s wanted to keep her with Rakhi, but baa decided to keep pari with her and put that responsibility on Anupama’s head.
2. Pakhi’s marriage case –
Pakhi wanted a levis life on the money of Kapariya, she decided not to do household work and not continue education either. Handling that useless girl was Anupama’s responsibility. Rest shahs behaved like a dead body.
3. Toshu is a father of a child but having affair with other lady, leaving job and applying nonsense business ideas, taking others money & spending that without sense. Anupama is only responsible person to handle all the drama, rest shahs are dead.
Main thing is shahs are brainless, uselss and shameless.
They can’t breathe without Anupama.
And Anupama is not allowing shahs to stand independently, she runs behind them all the time.
Shahs and deserve each other.
Shahs and Anupama deserve each other.
Anupama’s all the three children are adult, two are married, one is a father of a baby.. but they are dependent on Anupama like a 6-months baby.. all the time mummy mummy. Why? Because Anupama is letting them grow.. she always runs behind them.
Anuj mentioned once – Anupama had 3 adult children but CA is 8 years old. Anupama’s children need them more than my CA. Why?
Same with baa-bapuji.. They have their son+bahu in house, but they are like dead body. Anuj+Anupama had to slove their problems all the time.
And the great VANRAJ – noOne in this show is more useless than him.
Hope this is part of Anuj’s plan to let Maaya see and hear what Anuj said to Kanta so that she gets complete confidence in him to leave CA alone with Anuj for long periods of time so that he can also manipulate CA to come back with him just and show her Maaya’s true colours just like how Maaya manipulated CA to get her to leave kapadias.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AXP_drE3r3o
Be strong and realize that you are a superpower, you can uplift people beyond boundaries.
Please be careful and don’t allow opportunists like Vanraj/Maaya to destroy you.
Please get into action stead of blaming your existence.
Anuj is fed-up now with
1. shah’s never-ending problems.
2. Anupama’s love+priority for shahs.
He just want some peace and CA, nothing else.
He truly understood the fact that – shahs and Anupama never-ever going to change.
He fed-up.
He completely fed-up.
He understood that If he will be back to Anupama, his whole life will consume in a single purpose – To serve shahs.
Thats what a dumbass like Anuj thinks.
Real good people/empaths can uplift. They are super power. They just need to recognize it.
But Anuj baccha can’t understand it. He is still a baccha. how he can help anyone?
His blame game is worse than Vanraj.
Vanraj said he never loved Anupama. But this baccha trapped Anupama in love and started worst blame game.
Please wait, very soon this superwoman will do cleaning+cooking+pochha and all the maid/slave work in shah-house for useless shahs.
Support those people, who has some dream/ambition is called uplifting.
But the people like shahs has only one dream/goal – how to take Anupama’s service?
Lets see. If Anupama still can’t handle the opportunists like Vanraj and Maaya, then she really deserves whatever is happening with her.
@subha if you have watched this show from the very first episode then you do know that Anupama never learns her lessons when it comes to the shahs even if Anuj comes back or not she will definitely run back to the shahs for sure cause it’s an ever ending battle yes Anu is an empath but that comes at cost unfortunately it’s her and Anuj’s marriage that is the price and to me the people she’s done it for are not worthy and they don’t deserve it cause sooner or later the shahs including her two spoilt brats of children in the form of pakhi and toshu will insult her over and over again.
Buddhi dadiβs and bevaquf anuj fans are very delusional ππ€£π. Funny that people are crying over anupama
It’s ridiculous that nobody talks about counseling. Therapy? Couples therapy? Family therapy? They could’ve used this serial to educate about going to a psychologist – right from Anupama’s trauma (seeing Vanraj and Kavya together on her bed) to unable to say no, learn to better handle her empath qualities.
This breakdown of communication and relationship was perfect situation for going to counselor – venting, getting better perspective and
A women doesn’t need to be a divorcee or a widow and/or single mother to be successful. She can pretty much ace both the worlds. All it needs is cooperation from family.
They changed MaAn’s track to send message that men only exist to control. And if ladies don’t dance to their tunes, they will just be dropped!
Pathetic.
To be honest this episode just made men look really bad.
1. We have a man who feels that his wife was spending too much time with her grown kids and previous family.
2. This very same man can’t live a couple of days without little Anu. who he goes to adopt on his honeymoon. I mean he acted as if the child was dead.
3. Now that he has got back with the child is still complaining that he feels dead inside the same complaint he mentioned to Anupama before he broke up with her because little Anu wasn’t there.
4. The same man who was told several times that if he took the case of this child to court it would take ages and he would probably lose but it’s all Anupama’s fault.
5. Why is he now still acting as if he could still lose his mind I mean he has the little girl now. The child that he clearly loved more than his wife. I mean fair play he didn’t lie about loving the little girl more than his wife.
6. If he loves this child so much why can’t he be honest with her? She keeps asking about Anupama and where she is and he keeps brushing it off, let’s be honest how long is this going to last I mean that little girl is not stupid.
7. We all know that little Anu is going to spill the beans and Anuj is going to look bad its just a question of when
To the writers who keep making people upset its great
Anupama should now move on leaving Anuj behind & lead her life on her own,she shouldn’t expect love from anyone as when hard times come she always was left alone she was emotionally broken once & now this Anuj,what’s the use of claiming of loving someone when u r with them in their happy times but leave them when u r needed most,its difficult to comprehend what is Anupama feeling now when her whole married life had been snatched from her!Its better to not have hope from anyone except God who is always there when everyone left u to suffer.