Anupama 3rd August 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Anupama cries seeing her children fighting. Mamaji consoles her and says seeing her, Baa, and Bapuji’s tears, sometimes he thinks its good that he forgets. He then asks why is he hitting her head and walks away. Bapuji stops him and says he was acting as forgetting. Mamaji nods yes and says he was performing his duty of cheering up Anu. Bapuji says Anu and Vanraj are in pain in because of him and asks if everything will be fine soon. Mamaji asks what will get fine. Bapuji says nothing. Anu wipes her tears and thinks she cannot break down as she has to do a lot. Vanraj while driving back home tells Kavya that she brought her from cafe midway and is angry on her. She argues why he sought loan help from her friends. He says he asked only reference and not loan. She yells he should seek help from Anu and not everyone. He says even she sought job help. She says they all know she doesn’t have a job, but don’t know that he doesn’t have money; he shares his problems with everyone and embarrasses her. He warns her to stop yelling as he is already in stress and if she cannot reduce it, she shouldn’t increase it. She warns to not speak to her in this tone. He says she hasn’t seen his tone at all and should ask Anu.
Anu sees Pakhi dancing practicing and thinks she will scold her for her mistake after her dance performance tomorrow. She sees Pakhi’s dance dress lose with stitches and stiches it thinking she will rejoice seeing Pakhi’s performance on stage and will whistle for her. Pakhi arrogantly snatches her dress and asks why did she touch her dress. Anu says its stitches were lose. Pakhi shouts when bestie has done everything for her, why she is trying to take credit in fear of missing out the attention, etc. Anu asks what rubbish she is talking. Pakhi says she has no importance in her life and if she fails to garner importance from her, her life is a waste. Anu warns to stop her nonsense. Pakhi shouts why did she touch he dress. Anu says stitches were lose and would have broken during her dance performance. Pakhi shouts she came here to just show her greatness. Anu says she doesn’t want to scold her before her dance performance or else she would have slapped a misbehaving child. Pakhi continues shouting at Anu. Bapuji with Baa and Mamaji walk out and ask what is happening. Anu asks why did he come out. Baa says how could they sleep hearing Pakhi shouting. Pakhi shouts they didn’t see Anu shouting. Baa gets angry. Bapuji says Pakhi is under performance pressure and should calm down. Pakhi shouts he should explain it to his daughter instead; when she needed mummy’s help, she was not there for her and now when she managed, mummy is forcefully trying to help; she has grown up and doesn’t need mummy’s help. Bapuji says no person in a world becomes so big that he/she doesn’t need a mother’s help.
Toshu in his room hearing Pakhi shouting angrily says the drama started again, one cannot live pacefully in this house. Kinjal says all families in the world fight. He says just one mummy is enough and she shouldn’t become his mummy’s carbon copy. She says he shouldn’t become her mummy’s carbon copy and walks out to check. Pakhi walks to living room shouting to leave her alone. Baa confronts her and warns to slap her for her misbehavior. Toshu, Kinjal, and Samar gather. Pakhi continues shouting and insulting Anu and provokes Baa. Baa says she is unfit to bear her slap. Bapuji stops Baa. Baa asks if he can’t see how Pakhi is misbehaving with her mother. Pakhi shouts that that when bestie did everything for her, why mummy wants to interfere and take the credit, she should stop acting great. Kavya joins her and says she said right. Baa warns her not to always exaggerate the issue. Kavya says she was teaching dance to Pakhi and told her she will check her dance after coming home. Baa says a teacher can only teach a dance, but a mother has to look after her child’s emotional and physical aspect, if the child had food, if she is stressed, if she is dressed properly, etc. Toshu shouts if their drama is over and if they can sleep now, they fight whole day, they should set a time table instead. Kinjal warns him to shut up. Kavya shouts next. Anu asks them to stop and requests Pakhi to stop the drama right now as she did a big mistake of helping her.
Vanraj returns. Pakhi complains that she is already stressed regarding her performance and Baa and mummy are trouble her above that. Baa asks just like that. Toshu starts shouting again. Bapuji asks to end this issue right here. Toshu says he will not stop now and continues. Vanraj asks what is happening. Pakhi says mummy, Baa, and Bapuji are troubling her. Vanraj asks Anu when will she stop forcefully helping everyone. Anu asks him not to interfere when he doesn’t know the issue. Kavya shouts everyone shout shut up on great Anu’s order. Anu apologizes and requests to stop the issue right here. Kavya says she just wants to end this issue and become great. Anu says even she can become great. Argument continues when Toshu backs Pakhi and shouts he will leave the house if the daily drama continues. Anu says he should as he is already living in the pent house by heart. He says he will leave forever. Vanraj shouts at both to stop. Anu continues she is tired of Toshu’s threat now.
Precap: Anu tells family that they all will watch Sweety’s dance. Pakhi yells Anu shouldn’t come and says she and bestie will come first tomorrow and prove that she doesn’t need mummy’s support anymore.
Update Credit to: MA
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No mother tolerate such behavior of child. Pakhi is worst.
So right, am not Pakhi’s mother but just seeing how she is misbehaving with her mother makes me wanna slap her 😡
Pakhi needs slap that nonsence girl which didn’t know how to talk her mother
Anupama is trying to heal This rebelious kid. I know Everyone is feeling like Pakhi should get SLAPS AND SLAPS… I feel too, atleast one slap
Fact is today’s Youngsters are more rebellious and love their dignity. The Generation is likely over when Elders beat even Youngsters if they break discipline.😣
Children like Pakhi and Paritosh exists. They can’t be slapped everytime, by everyone or else it may shut their mouth🤐 but their Anger and Hatred will not calm, but Increase.
Pakhi has no control over her hormones. That’s may be reason she gets hyper
Only Time and Love❤ can heal such mental states
Pakki charectar it s impossible.she is spoiling other children.now days don’t like this show anymore
This has become worst serial of all time now..!!
What’s this nonsense? Only drama drama drama. All of them are shouting and screaming or else crying. This show gives only headache and hypertension. I am not going to watch now for sure. Writers directors have gone literally mad that they dont want to show anything positive happening. Unke ghare me aise hi jhagde hote rahenge so frustrations nikal rahe hai. Better to eatch SAB tv. Atleast we dont get frustrations.
Am telling you, the show has become a battle ground!!! Pakhi is worsening day by day & nothing is being done to her!!!
Pakhi’s behaviour can not be justified by anything!!! She is soo rude & very disrespectful towards everyobe!!! I wish makers should sort this Pakhi issue soon coz its really irritating & making my blood boil!!! I think Anupama should take Vanraj advice & stop helping people coz these people are soo unappreciative!!! If they get helped they say Anupama is acting great & if not they say Anupama is selfsih!!! I wonder how Anu can tolerate all that!!!
Pakhi thinks that the person that gives her the most attention is the one that truly loves her. The moment someone other than Anupama gives her attention she grips on them and then says that they are better than Anupama. Let’s count down what Kavya has done for Pakhi…
*b*t*hed about Pakhi living with Kavya and Vanraj after the affair
*Threatened Pakhi that Kavya will steal Pakhi’s father away from her
*Did a b-day party with her friends
*Was helping a bit with Pakhi’s project
*Only helping Pakhi for a bit for her dance competition
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While Anupama…
*Makes coffee and food for Pakhi every day
*Breads Pakhi’s hair
*Helps Pakhi with her school projects
*Tries to better herself so Pakhi can advance further
*Saved Pakhi from Kidnapping
*Made sure that Pakhi always felt comfortable
*Always been nice to Pakhi even when Pakhi disrespected Anupama
*And this is just the short list.
What Kavya does for Pakhi is very little… yes Kavya is her step mother, but only acts like it when she wants something out of Pakhi. Kavya’s love and attention is only out of convenience if Kavya is the one benefitting. Whether it is to use Pakhi against the family or humiliate Anupama. While Anupama being her real mother never thought badly of Pakhi. Anupama’s love is shown through all of the actions that Anupama does, while Kavya’s is materialistic. It is something that always bothered me. Yes little kids are more materialistic but Pakhi is at the age where she should know that just because someone buys you something does not mean they love you. Adding Pakhi knows how Kavya really feels, like from last time how Pakhi found out that Kavya did not care for her. While her mother would bend over backwards just to see her safe. Pakhi does not see when someone else is busy. Like she is used to with Anupama always working with her time, Anupama was busy with the house, but still managed to deal with Pakhi and help her. Even when Anupama went out with her friend, and Pakhi came home to Anupama, instead of being happy for her mother all she could think about is herself, her hunger, her thirst, and her needs. And the same thing is happening this time too… Anupama just got a little bit busy… and instead of being happy for Anupama who has moved along in her life… Pakhi can only think of her needs and wants. Kavya took advantage of this, and now when Pakhi loses or when Pakhi fails she will either blame Anupama or will run back to her mommy who she will not care for after 2 episodes.
The thing is that this show is now a year old… none of the characters are consistent in what they do. They show change and then they revert back to how they were before. It is super annoying. I get that Paratoish has changed because they need to show how he went from being this horrible child to this good kid. Also I get that Kavya changed for the worst because she wanted Vanraj’s love and attention and still is not receiving. But we have seen these growths from Pakhi, where Pakhi went from hating her mom, being embarrassed by her mom, to being understanding of her mother. Pakhi grew in the sense that she understands her mother, and being there for her mom. The fact that she changed so quickly even though her change in this story arch is still new. From being selfish to being more aware and understanding of other people and then her reverting back to her old self is just annoying. It’s not consistent, and throws the entire story off because it shows that what happened before does not matter.
Paratoish thinking of all of these things because he grew up with this household, so this type of stuff is normal to him and he wants out. He does not value his family because he values his status now. Paratoish may have not gotten his job from his own merits… be he has gotten a job with top position and then on top of that he is able to live in luxury. Paratoish wants that… but does not realize that in this house, he does not cook, he does not clean, he does not help his sibling, Paratoish does not pay any bills, Paratoish does not need to serve any food. Paratoish is able to live at home without doing anything besides work, come home, eat and then sleep. Anupama is in the right to tell Paratoish to leave because he does not value what he has already gotten because he has never worked for a single thing just like Pakhi.
Also Vanraj only yells at people if he is the one that is being attacked or his family. The moment that Anupama is getting yelled at by either Paratosih, Rakhi, Kavya, or Pakhi he stays silent. He is the Husband that nobody wants yet for some reason Kavya really wanted him. When Anupama was trying to teach and help Pakhi understand the value of her money Vanraj stepped in and said not to yell at Pakhi because she is a little kid. But when Kavya yells at Pakhi Vanraj says that she is not a little kid anymore, that she needs to grow up and that she went on with her mother. Or when Pakhi is yelling at Anupama, Vanraj will not discipline his own kid. Or when Kavya and Rakhi were pointing fingers at ANupama and her character… Vanraj stayed quiet. Well that is Vanraj. From the beginning Vanraj was like this. Vanraj used to pride himself in the fact that he has a big respectable family, that he is a breadwinner, that he has a wife and a girlfriend. But he does not anymore, his name is in the mud. He has no job, no money and has lost a ton of respect. While ANupama built herself up. But there are points when Vanraj returns to his old self and it shows that he has not grown or anything, that he is still the same guy. Like Vanraj is a mess, he will tell Anupama that he will not spare “ANUPAMA”S SON, SAMAR” if he lays a finger on Pakhi even though Vanraj was the one that was going to slap Anupama. Like what the hell, if there is something wrong with Paratoish and Pakhi it is because Vanraj Shah. Samar went on to his mother, where he is respectful of his entire family, does things by himself, and always makes sure everyone is safe. He helps people in their time of needs, and really does things on his own, and works hard for his stuff. While Pakhi and Paratoish went on Vanraj, where they are selfish, always pride themselves even though they have never done anything. Where they are selfish, annoying, and pride themself in being educated yet are nothing without that education, It shows that ANupama can be a good mother, and can discipline her kids. But if she ever tries to discipline Paratoish or Pakhi Vanraj will step in and stop her. Like when Kavya sent Samar to jail, he did not tell Kavya or dragged Kavya to jail to bail Samar out or tell Kavya to take the case back, instead he only yelled at Kavya for humiliating him in front of ANupama. While But yelled at ANupama when discipling Pakhi. He has favorites and it is apparent and very noticeable, and Vanraj is terrible for that. Anupama talks about how Vanraj is a good father… incorrect. Vanraj is a good father when Anupama is maintaining the relationships, or when his image is good. When his image is on the line, or his reputation he won’t hesitate to dismiss the kids. Not only that but he never protects his kids, or helps his kids, Vanraj runs away from the situation and it is up to Anupama to fix them.
Ba supporting ANupama and not letting Pakhi to get away with it is amazing to see. Ba usually sides with Pakhi and would blame Anupama, but her not blaming her is amazing to see. Instead of taunting and blaming Anupama ba is actually supporting Anupama and telling Pakhi she is crossing limits.
I feel as though these episodes are too drama filled… I hope this is the last time we have to deal with Pakhi’s character arch and we are able to move past her and move on to Paratoish character arch and Anupama journey.
I wish people would have written so much detailed comment and thesis for country and not for a stupid, crap, cringe, pathetic and idiotic show that idolizes some of the stereotypes of our country it’s a humble request to starplus pls stop this show make it go off air as in some families old ladies are thinking anupamaa is great and telling their daughter to live shamelessly with their ex husbands pls ban anupamaa of u can’t change the track
Exactly ! That’s what I was trying to convince. Actually the people don’t like this show, still they watch the same and then write long long comments wasting their time with endless discussions. As if the writers are going to accomodate their ideas or they will change the story as per their discussion. These guys indirectly boost the TRP of this show. I know its individual choice but why to waste time and effort on fictional show and those stupid characters.
Yes u all correct . Seriously so annoying and most particularly star plus are very annoying. Colors serials are better
First of all . No parents tolerate such behaviour from their kid . Indian parents ke saath batamizi karenge toh pandhra chate udhar hi milte hai . Secondly is so much drama really necessary? . that brat already got a lesson now suddenly she is doing bestie bestie . The writers should know what makes the audience excited and what makes the audience feel irritated .
I think so pakhi should realise that anupama is the one who love her the most for that , kavya should start scolding her and then she would realise and about toshu he should be out of the house and then he would also realise that kinjal was always right about family …
Normalising humiliation
I think people play with those who have high Tolerance. That’s why Vanraj used to yell and blame at Anupama before but not Kavya now cause he know Kavya will eat his brains out😂
Sad but true🙂
Good for nothing show.. stopped seeing long time back. Was here to read the comments
Dont the writers have any solid story. Once before also they Pakhi and her attitude towards Anupama why showing again. Toshu should be kicked out of house and kinjal should make him do all household chores in penthouse to help her. Pakhis drama is too much. Vanrajs silence when anyone abuse anupama is too much to take as when he is in dumps it is only anupama who helps him. Actually anupama should learn to ignore Pakhi vanraj and toshu. She needs to get out of that house for atleast a few days. Let everyone deal with all the chores themselves. The best would be if Samar and Anupama left the house for ever. Ba is turning good towards anupama only becoz at present Vanraj needs Anupamas support and she want to ensure that for her son. Bapuji does everything late and creates more trouble for anupama (when he should have took a stand for anupama he remained silent to keep peace at home and ba and Vanraj tortured anupama. Now his helping her is causing more problems for her). Kavya dont know what she wants in life. It’s just that writers had a good plot which they dragged and is spoiling.
I think now while stage performance pakhi ki dress ke stiches nikal jayenge ya dress lose ho jayegi tab usko pata chalega ki Bestie ne thik se stich nahi kiya aur Anupama sahi kar rahi thi..
Anupma ko Mar Jana chahiye ya fir osko fighting 💪 karni chahiye Bas Bakwaas s kaam chalaati hai Maarti nahi Besharam ki trha bezti Karwati Rehti hai
I’m just thinking.. if I ever misbehaved and spoke to anyone let alone my own mother the way pakhi does the Nigerian dudes would be carrying and coffin and dancing.
Pakhi is like the joeffrey of anupama. I cannot believe how nasty the people in this show are. The only reason I watch it is because my mom likes to watch it with me.
There is no character development. I understand why anupama is so nice to her useless kids (minus Samar) mother’s tend to forgive and forget all. But she really needs to stop with the others. She keeps saying that one should not behave badly over others bad behavior. It’s true.. but then why not disassociate with them completely? Everyone in this family has glass like ego and are so easily manipulated. They are bullies.
Show her succeeding. Show her growing. And show the rest who treat her like crap failing.
Here’s what I would do if I was anupama.
1. Disassociate with vanraj
2. Threaten to kick kavya out and actually do it.
3. Tell Toshu to leave if it’s bothering him so much.
4. Tell rakhi to shut the f**k up! And tell her to take toshu with her
5. Not speak to Pakhi.
6. Get Samar and Nandini married.
7. Concentrate on her business and thrive to succeed
True and agree with the 7 points you mentioned.
Anupama should be shown walking out of the house with Samar and concentrate on her dance academy and grow. Others should be shown to deal with their life on their own making them realise the importance of Anupama. Toshu should be asked to leave and stay in the penthouse which will in future make him realise his mistakes.
Have stopped watching this serial because of the unnecessary drama . Hope something good and positive is shown in future
Intolerable ! If Pakhi finds her mother so bothersome, anu should just stay away from her
Thank god I am not watching this show. Everyday there can’t be so much drama in family. I don’t know what message they want to give to society.
This serial has converted from a serial to a street fight.
Exactly
Now..instead of Pakhi…I am feeling angry on Anupama….I swear I am not an mother…but would have never ever tolerated anyone talking to me in this manner…not even a stranger….and I don’t understand why she is not giving it back to Pakhi…if she can answer back Toshu(IDIOT), then can’t she answer back Pakhi…but no…I loved Baa in today’s episode…wish she could have actually given a tight slap to Pakhi for her arrogance…and sometimes even Kavya…let Pakhi taste her own medicine…now even if she looses the competition..Blame is ready to pin point Anu…because she herself is never responsible for her OWN Mistakes…living alone without a mother is so difficult once understand when she loses her in life….I just wish makers now shift all this family drama to some other plot…tired of seeing Kavya, Pakhi & Toshu annoying behaviour…I feel Toshu is not man enough to first find a job by himself…and not able to earn enough to buy a house….like Anupama even he don’t have self respect. I wish Anupama would have made her self respect first rather than hearing all the taunts lifetime…no person would have dared to talk with disrespect with her….just change the story line…it’s damn irritating.
Pakhi is doing wrong with anupamaa pakhi should understand important of mother love and care for kid soon i hope so kinjal is always right for family toushu and pakhi should realised mistake soon 🙏🙏🙏
It was really a headache episode, the show should stop, if it continues to show only domestic violence.
This serials name should be mahanta ki pagal murat or bus chillao full time chillao
Hahaha.. so true!
I hope writers/director of this serial will read all these comments and feel ashamed..
Paritosh is right about house is becoming chidiyaghar. But the sad part is these people who are complaining are the one who only want to be part of result not the actual process of solution. Kavya, vanraj and toshu are reminder of people in our life too where they only want to complain complain but not want to work out the problem.
Mental harrasment!!¡
Exactly. I agree with all of you guys…..always screaming & blaming one another..Today’s episode was full of shouting & screaming.
@Rashi you are absolutely right….This serial’s name should be bas chillao full time chillao🤣🤣
if I were at Pakhi place my mom would have literally slapped me. She never did but we didn’t have the courage to be so rude. I’m not sure if normally kids behave like that with their parents, Even if the kids have father support. And I don’t understand when Vanraj should speak something he always stay quite like a mannequin but here he has to shout.
The episode where Rakhi and Kavya were saying character assassinating Anupama, no one said anything I mean no dialogue at all from the family for she can go to any lengths y?But now everyone’s involved. Y?
Slap won’t help ,best is to ignore Pakhi. But Anupama is different kettle of fish
When will this show end .