Anupama 4th April 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Bapuji returns home with Anu, Kinjal, Samar, and Mamaji after performing Anu and Anuj’s shagun ritual. He notices Baa with jewelry and documents and aks what is all this. Baa says it’s their status and says that he dreamed about Anupama’s lavish wedding, but they are not rich to bear the expenses with Toshu and Vanraj’s risky job and only small savings left. She says she is not cursing or angry but is just telling the truth and asks Bapuji to spend all the savings and give away the jewelry but leave a dime to buy some poison as they will be on road after Anupama’s wedding. Everyone stands speechless.
Anuj discusses with Devika that he wants a lavish wedding that would be the best in town. and asks her to make all the wedding arrangements. Devika agrees. Anupama tells Bapuji that Baa is right that would be very tough on the family, so she and Anuj would have a simple wedding with their old saris and just an expense of sindhoor; Baa is right this time. Anupama then stares her long moral gyaan how a daughter’s marriage is made a burden for an Indian father, counting the catering expenses, gifts for the groom’s family, etc., etc. She after the girl’s bidayi, her father looks at his passbook and gets teary eyed again. Bapuji says a daughter’s marriage is the father’s wish. Anupama says it should be for rich family, not a middle-class family like theirs, and suggests a simple wedding with rituals in the lawn and simple clothes, etc. Samar says its her second marriage, but Anuj’s first. Kinjal backs him and says it would be an injustice for Anuj.
Anuj continues expressing his excitement. Devika says Anupama may not like a lavish wedding and wants to keep it a low key affair, so he should seek her opionin and then decide. Anuj stands stunned. Back at Shah house,Toshu informs Vanraj that he is going to meet his friend Yash who returned from USA and whose father has a big business in USA and hopes to seek help from him for their business. Vanraj agrees. Toshu says he will bring Yash here where Vanraj can impress him with his talks. Kavya hears their conversation and thinks they get excited unnecessarily and hopes their wish comes true. Vanraj and Toshu make a business presentation to trap Yash this time.
Anupama remembers Anuj’s and Baa’s opinion regarding marriage. Anuj also recalls Devika’s advice. Anu calls him. Anuj says he wants to meet her. They meet at Anu’s dance academy. Anuj says Bapuji discussed about a lavish wedding, but she need not worry as he just wants her. She says then they will have court marriage and then temple pheras. He says as she wishes. She shouts why he does it every time, she wasn’t present in her first relationship and sometimes feel he is not present in this relationship, he should express his desire and not just accept her wish. She gives gyaan on the mutual consent for anything between relationship, etc. Anuj says his life’s only dream is to marry her and wants a lavish wedding with best DJ, best venue, best clothes, all the rituals, but when he closes his eyes, he just imagines her and not all those things.
She says he became mahaan/great again and insists him to tell what his heart wants. Anuj says if he listens to his heart, he would be paying loan rest of his life; he doesn’t want money from Bapuji as he is taking his most precious wealth. He says they have a best choreographer Samar, best dress designer Devika, Bapuji event planner, Kinjal DJ, Mukku wedding planner, GK photographer, mamaji caterer. Anu laughs and says nobody will get food if mamaji becomes a caterer. He jokes she need not worry as he will remember this marriage. He says this wedding should be a memorable event. She agrees. Devika makes MaAn ki shaadi whatsapp group. Anu and Anuj continue to discuss their wedding plan and smile.
Precap: Toshu’s friends see Anupama with Anuj and taunt Toshu that he has 2 fathers. Toshu fights with them and vents out his frustration on Anu and Anuj.
Update Credit to: MA
32 Comments
As usual this gang is gonna make AnuAnuj’s life a living hell….. I’m fed up now dude, as these were less tht the makers r getting some other negative character to torture us…… O god…… I stopped watching this serial after Malvika’s confession of having feelings for the Devil raj😠
Anupamaa solve everyone problem but his own problem 🤣🤣
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Allegory_of_the_long_spoons
Solving own problem is tricky as we are not stand alone entities.
We are at the same time connected/disconnected/independent/interdependent.
As Anupama is occupied as a care given to Samar, Bapuji and other family members, they are also leaving no stones unturned to take care of her happiness. This is how life goes on, but there something fundamentally wrong with some people that they cant reciprocate the favor back, mostly due to bad upbringing. Best possible option is to ignore them.
Omg even international fans are getting fed up! The whole idea of Anupama is for a message to the society to become progressive. I get that they show how hard it is for the haters to push her back but can’t they at least show that those who are negative also grow? Set an example to society that when you support family, especially women, everyone succeeds! Society succeeds! Sigh…
Eh national, international all are getting the message that evil cant be punished/curbed/ignored.
Looks like in Srimoyee, Baa still continue to be tyrant and would block Anupama’s visit to Shah’s.
I mean really?! Evil is so powerful to control her entire life! Why Bapuji cant divorce Baa & disown Vanraj?
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Evil spreads as so called good ppl r govi ka fool.
And! I believe this is a remake of another show called Sreemoyee…omg if they kill Anuj off…I’ll never watch an Indian tv serial again! And where is Anupama’s mother and brother??! Shouldn’t they be fighting for her happiness? Shouldn’t they be part of this new part of her life? I’ve always been a little mad about how little her own biological mother isn’t involved in her daughter’s happiness! Her MIL is more important?!? Her mother should come and give it to Anupama’s MIL!! 😡
Big Loophole indeed
Twice in month they do party for 2or 3 epi. With dress code, dancing and decoration. Now they’ve nothing for marriage.🤷
Dancing, decoration, dress code will be there, but external dj, catering, event planner, banquet hall booking wont be der.
Even our maid dresses better than me, I am super comfortable in my non see through trendy night gown/dresses and wont mind roaming around the entire town in that.
My 1st line of opposition is MOM/MIL who are constantly worried what others will say just like Baa.
And others are also like Thoshu’s teen ager friends who can have multiple hidden affairs but theirs tongues don’t get twisted while bad mouthing Anupama.
Sorry to say we all have failed to grow as humans. As a kid also we try to show off and tease/dominate others.
Whole life is wasted in vein while trying to show off with no personality development.
Sorry we are failing as humans/family/society just because of this show off, with no intension to help/support/complement each other as a team.
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Enjoy your marriage Anupama. Celebrate with your hard earned family including your MOM&Bhain and take vows to maintain/expand it.
Don’t care a single penny abt the haters, you are not harming them. So don’t bother.
Court then temple marriage is the best possible idea. There is no reason to spend crores on marriage and multiple crores on divorce proceedings.
Data shows, the more pompous the marriage is, likeliness of divorce increase that many times more.
Enjoy with your true family… Don’t hurt or care the unreasonable haters. Ignore them.
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Sabse bada rog kya kahenge log, remove that rog and ignore hater that’s all you can do.
Thanks for your lovely message against showy/lavish marriage and dowry.
Keep your mahan syndrome under check, don’t give up your rights, evil will be automatically under check.
As I mentioned earlier this serial has become FALTU SICK TO THE CORE. NEGATIVITY NEGATIVITY AND DEGRADATION OF WOMEN TO THE CORE.no women in the right frame of mind and self respect will behave the way Anupama is being portrayed in the show.FED UP OF HER MAHAAN GYAN.
HAVE STOPPED WATCHING THE SHOW SINCE LONG BUT GETS ALERTS AND WHEN SUCH ALERTS COME CANT STOP MYSELF FROM VENTING MY FRUSTRATIONS AND ANGER with what is being shown.
Star PLUS WAKE UP GROW AND GET OVER THE ABLA NAARI TORTURE AND GETTING TRP in the garb of this shit.
Excellent serials like MHRW was scrapped . I m from UK and we were. Watching MHRW and are shocked that it has been off air such class acting and fast moving story line.mind you here also people are fed up with anupama. Please off air this show instead of degrading women so much .bring back MHRW2
I haven’t watched Mehandi hai Rachnewali
But now I want to know what makes it so demanding?
Why it’s claimed to be so good?
Anyone answer me plz.
It was a pretty average same old recycled love story which ran only because of the decent cast involved and the chemistry of the lead pair.
It had the same pati mechanic fl with no personality, a misogynistic ml who later turned good, one dimensional side characters who flipped for no reason and an awful third angle which turned into a ghost drama. 🥴
@Selena
There is no better description
than this, to sum up that show😌…. it was overhyped and way too convoluted for it’s own good … pallavi had a saviour complex while raghav, the only well written character in the show just became a joke by the end…💀 the actors deserved better….
Mhrw was very good till the last track. Lead pair were really good and worth admiring
Watch it. Available on hot star then u will know
@Sneha, instead of watching this show and wasting your time, you could have changed channel using up/down button of your remote. Nobody is forcing you to watch this show and then waste your time writing long long comments.get a life!
@farida – why are you reading long long comments. Get a life yourself!
This forum is intended for both kinds of reviews.
“Toshu’s friend see Anupama with Anuj and taunt Toshu that he has 2 fathers.”
So that guy comes from USA but he is so narrow minded and orthodox?
Classic example that the writers are having tiny size brains. May be they are fascinated with Suniel Shetty’s “Gopi Kishan” dialoge ‘mere do do baap’.😂😂
Also as somebody has mentioned above, where are Anupama’s mom and brother?
🤣🤣🤣 – mere do do baap
Also, I have mentioned this several times but Anu’s mother and brother are dead ! They are not in the picture at all – they are not even show at some tirth yatra or living in different city . They are just dead – gone from the world.
Anuj wants lavish wedding, anupama wants simple wedding. This is the beginning of differences between them. Everytime anuj has to sacrifice for anupama then one day will come when he will also have to stand up and say he equally has a say in what to do in their lives especially now that they are going to be married.
Anuj said, the loan he need to take for a lavish marriage, need to be paid for his entire life time.
So basically they reached an agreement to fulfill all the rituals without any show off and all will enjoy together.
all you all write about is what anu should so and how the family are ruining her
well why does she always come back to her EX house for damn sake. no woman in the world would do that snd we know it ppl
she makes me sick and hater hate her so muxhnfor making women feel ens*xure in real life, she is always me me me me me me why dont she walk away please tell me
you will say she cant well she can.
she aleays gorw back to shah house for what kinjal baby no she is an adult ok
parotish does not need him mom
the rest dont guve a damn aboit poor old selfish anupamaa she is such a sl*t
bapu also wrong for doing her marriage in his house she has a home now strat wedding from there willt whore
as for people saying i hate anupamaa yew j do because is a mockery of some women
She keeps cmg to Shah house as 27yrs back she was told its her house.
She keeps cmg as she is attached to the family members as per her promise at the time of her marriage.
Those who didn’t keep the promise why they cant be punished? why she has to start all over again?
Why Bapuji is wrong if he wants to care for Anupama’s happiness as promised.
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Till date men didn’t lose much by divorce, its women who struggle to survive along with kids.
Their status at parental/in law’s place is already very low and in case of remarriage that status degrades even more, its a fact.
Here Baa/Vanraj are the culprit, why they shouldn’t be expelled out of house/society?
Why Anupama has to move out and long her near ones after Baa’s restriction?
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All above are not possible as its groom’s house not bride’s?
So why women will trust on the institution of marriage and invest their life/dreams/earnings/time on that house/members who are not her own?
Who are her own? Parents say paraya dhan, in laws’s say parayi aulad! Where do we stand?
And Anupama is a rare lucky case who got support of Bapuji and opted for divorce, what about the women’s who get stuck for whole life in an unknown family who never accepts/respects/value them?
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If Baa/Vanraj doesn’t change Anupama must take back her share from Kavya and stay at Shah house with Anuj to torture them. In this way both of them can save their rent money as well, Not sure why Anupama teaches to give up own rights. Bapuji by her side, having a share in property she can easily defeat Baa/Vanraj.
Yeah bapuji is wrong as refards her marriage decision at shah house but dude her kids live there she can damn straight visit the place whenever the f**k she wants to. Besides how does all if that make her a sl*t? Atleast make sense in your arguments.
I am 100 percent sure after anuj and anupama’s marriage they will show anu’s pregnancy and then pregnancy struggles to get pregnant at this age……………………..toshu and pakhi’s insecurity to get younger sibling, family drama and soo on………yuckk!!!!!!!!!!!
Are u sure Yash is from USA, I think he probably comes from some remote area of India!!! He deserves to be trap by Vanraj n Toshu!! BTW what’s wrong wit having 2 fathers nowadays?? As long as it’s not ur father!! Why bother???
anu is not a modern wife in this show
she is a typical kichen woman that is what the show are portraying her as shame
anu is so so selfish always wants this snd that she too clingy on anuj bunny boiler
yes her mids live there they hate her alart from one rest my case she needs to go
anu you should marry then divorce lol
@tees is seems you have a problem with Anupama, you always criticise her. I notice. She did a lot for her family 👪 and you are saying she is all me me me. Seriously? What’s wrong with you?
hello rosemary (s)
i do have issue wirh her because when you have a chance to get free then you take it you dont keep coming back day after day granted its her family but come on everybody family can live without certain people like some of her family cant even stand her yet she goes again and again and then wants sympathy from bapu and her normal supporters
do you see what in trying to say here
i dont criticise here for the sake of it but people need to think what the producers eeally want to show about women and their value.
i for one want to see her win but the producers make it daft each time and hence i comment and ppl dont like it what j say but who care right
Woman in kitchen shouldn’t make her powerless. Be grateful that because she cooked family got healthy home cooked food and stayed healthy to carry out other duties.
Tomorrow, you will say she took care of home, kids, family, feed and cleaned them so she is powerless?
So according to you marriage and having kids make women powerless. I also say the same thing!
Being Admin/Doctor/Engineer doesn’t make anyone powerful, recognition/acceptance for one’s contribution makes them powerful.
And the real problem is we don’t recognize/respect women’s selfless/unpaid contributions.
and your point is