Anupama 4th November 2021 Written Episode Update: Anupama’s Dantheras Idea

Let’s talk about the three jokers!
(Kavya) Kavya believes that she should be the one that has all of the rights to everything because Vanraj loves her (kavya). But Kavya never understands or is willing to learn anything.Anupama told her that if she were to snatch the things that were not hers to begin with, she will end up unsatisfied and sad with life. Kavya knows the consequences if she were to get caught, and knows what will happen if the family breaks apart or goes against her. Kavya is able to carry out her plans because Vanraj and Ba are right now in a rift with Anupama, where both of them do not like Anupama, since Kavya casted such a big doubt in their minds (Ba, and Vanraj), Kavya has Ba, Vanraj and Paritosh on her side. But the problem here is that all these people that are on Kavya side are known to flip sides when it benefits them and fits their narrative. Like when Paritosh was one moment on his dad’s side, then on siding with his mother-in-law, then back to Anupama to then siding with Vanraj. With ba, although she will always support Vanraj there have been times where ba just sided with Babuji who leans more towards Anupama. Then with Vannraj, even though Vannraj will never fully side with Anupama, you have seen moments where Vanraj does not want to harm or destroy Anupama and actually wants to live in peace. The only time he (Vanraj) gets on the path to destroy Anupama is when his ego is bruised, is hurt by Anupama, or when he is manipulated into believing that his life would be better if he were to destroy Anupama’s life. This really shows how Kavya’s support system, and something that she is using for her advantage will soon become her disadvantage once they flip sides. Kavya talks about taking everything from Kavya but still being unsatisfied every single time. When Vanraj and Kavya were supposed to be married, Vanraj ran away from the place, Vanraj not wanting the divorce, having to live with Anupama, still being reminded of Anupama and being told to be more like her. Kavya wants everything, and wants to rule the family without realising that she has never done anything to get that ruling, never did Kavya maintain any of these relationships with these people. Kavya never made them family, and never tried to patch things up, instead manipulating people whenever the person is emotionally drained, or lacks understanding, so by the time they start to understand they ignore or shut Kavya out. Kavya has not learned anything from her past, and things will start to backfire on her the moment she gets caught doing something, or when people will start to like Anupama again. Kavya keeps forgetting that Vanraj can not live without his family, right now he is on the path of destroying Anupama so he is not looking at family, but the moment Vanraj realizes that he has no family on his side, he will blame everything on Kavya and try and chase and get his family back. Kavya talks about bringing Anupama down and getting a hold of the family, and wanting to show off Anupama but constantly forgets that Anupama does not care about her, Anupama only stayed in that house to take care of her family, but because ba, Kavya, and Vanraj made it unbearable to live in Anupama left. Anupama is moving forward with her life, letting go of the past. The only reason why she still has some of the family members love her is because Anupama loved them and cared for them while Kavya could not even keep a relationship with her niece. Anupama has truly moved on from Vanraj, and really does not care what Kavya does because Anupama is focused on herself and how to grow herself. While Kavya wants to bring down Anupama, still hung up on the past. Wanting to exact her revenge on Anupama, and still try to tear the family apart, which she does not realise only harms her at the end of the day. Kavya is so obsessed with this revenge, she doesn’t realize that it will start to affect her means of living,
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(Ba) Ba truly loves her son more than anything that she doesn’t realize what she is saying or doing. Ba was able to yell, and call Anupama names, but the moment Anupama speaks the truth Ba tries to shut Anupama down. Ba tried and accused Anupama, and I just wished that Anupama told Ba the same thing she told Vanraj, “So What?” Anupama should have said that her son did it while they were still married to other people, at least I am doing it when I am not in a relationship. This would have burned even more. Ba lacks the understanding that her son is not a good person, that her son has made so many mistakes in his life. Ba did kind of excuse the cheating, because she wanted Anupama and Vanraj to patch up their relationship right after they found out about the affair. Whenever Anupama irked Ba, Ba would side with Kavya. Ba only talked highly of Anupama because she would follow her (Ba’s) commands, and wants Kavya to do the same thing. But Ba never truly loved or cared for Anupama because of how easily she was able to pick Kavya’s side who broke her (Ba’s) home. But the thing is that Ba will insult Kavya, but won’t ever insult Vanraj because that is her baby boy. This really shows how misogynistic she really is and how her views are so poor. That Anupama humiliated her but her son who had an affair and everyone was talking about her son she ignored that and blamed everything on Anupama. When this whole thing started because HER SON DID NOT WANT TO BE A LOYAL SON OF A b*t*h! Ba can not see past her son, and even when Babuji is bringing out point she just says that Anupama humiliated her and that Anupama left on her own, when in reality Anupama left because ba insulted her in such a manner that Anupama could not stand it anymore. Ba never sees her fault or her son’s fault, it is always the other person, it’s always Anupama or Kavya’s fault. Like when Vanraj met with the accident, it was always Anupama and Kavya’s fault, her baby boy was always the good one. The greatest example of this is when Paritosh was siding with his mother in law, where they were both (Rakhi and Kavya) insulting Anupama. Ba did speak out, but she did not seem worried or seemed to bother too much, she just kept listening, but the moment Anupama talked about throwing Vanraj out, Ba started to panic, scream and ask Anupama what she was doing. Every moment Ba should have proven herself as Anupama’s mother she instead always becomes her enemy, then complains. Ba does not respect people around her if they do not follow her words or follow her view points, which ends up ruining her relationship with people.
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(Vanraj) Vanraj’s ego will never allow him to be a good son, a good father, a good husband, a good friend, a good restaurant owner or even a good worker. Every moment that Vanraj should have been proving himself to be a good friend, or a good father he has failed every single time. Moments where Vanraj should have sacrificed his image, or at least for his son’s happiness just back down but now his ego comes in and prevents him from doing something good. Whenever something does not goes his way he always starts to talk about how he does everything for everyone but no one ever looks at his happiness. But Vanraj cheated, Vanraj yelled and abused Anupama, harmed Anupama and forced to become the maid of the house to make sure that his family and his needs are met. Vanraj always got stuff handed to him on a silver plate. Vanraj tells Dolly that she should give everything to Vanraj since she wants to break relationships with ba (from today’s promo) and that because he has done so much for her, that she can repay him by signing the paper (yesterday’s promo). This shows that whenever Vanraj does something good for other people, he may not say anything at that point in time but will then use it against you later on. Vanraj’s ego is his biggest enemy, and it prevents him from being happy, and prevents him from ever understanding someone else. He can only understand himself, and even then he does shit that gets him in a bigger issue. Vanraj talks about how he is the man, and how he is the man of the house but he can be easily manipulated, and can be easily destroyed. Vanraj lacks the understanding and just lacks the knowledge which will be his downfall.
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Dolly is a good character and I hope they use her more often. She can be wrong in certain situations, but most times she is on the good side, She is able to actually help Anupama, and actually fight Vanraj. Dolly needs to be used more often!