Anupama 8th September 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Shah family welcomes Kinjal and her baby baby home. Anupama performs aarti and addresses baby/angel that Kanhaji messaged her that she is the world’s special girl, her dada buddy is eager to meet her and will come soon. Kavya talks to baby next and says her great grandmother is a bit psycho but adoring, her family is loving but does drama once in a week, she shouldn’t call her daadi/grandma when she grows up and just love her. Anupama performs ritual and asks Kinjal to get inside with baby. She takes baby’s footprints and tells Hamukh to keep Lakshmi’s footprints in a locker. She then asks Vanraj to play shank. Little Anu tries to touch baby, but Leela yells at her not to touch the baby.
Everyone wish to hold the baby first. Anupama says as per ritual, baby’s papa will sit with baby on a swing and everyone will fan him with peacock feathers. Rakhi feels angry seeing Toshu getting unnecessary attention after performing infidelity. Samar pulls Toshu’s legs. Anupama asks Rakhi to give baby to Toshu as per ritual. Rakhi recalls Toshu accepting his infidelity and hands over baby to Kinjal instead, leaving everyone shocked. Leela asks if she is drunk that she didn’t understand who is Toshu. Rakhi says she very well knows what Toshu is. Kinjal says as per ritual, she should handover baby to papa. Rakhi says men don’t know how to take care of baby, so she gave baby to Kinjal. Leela yells at Rakhi.
Rakhi demands to take baby and Kinjal home. Shahs try to convince her with different explanations, but Rakhi gets adamant. She finally agrees. Shahs ask her to give baby to Toshu now as per ritual. Rakhi with a heavy heart hands over baby to Toshu. Anuj calls Anupama and asks if the rituals are done. She says not yet. Shah family fans Toshu and Kinjal. Leela asks baby’s grandparents to hold the baby next. Vanraj and Anupama sit on a swing together and perform ritual. Anuj gets upset seeing that. Barkha and Anuj discuss that Anuj is feeling alone without Anupama and Little Anu and hence they need to support him.
Shahs ask Rakhi why she wants to take Kinjal and baby home. Rakhi says she wants to spend time with her daughter and granddaughter. Anupama says she can stay back here. Leela says she said she will last time but didn’t. Rakhi says she had to visit Singapore for an important business meeting, even now she is busy but will make sure she will visit Kinjal and baby daily. Vanraj asks why she is still upset with Toshu for his absence during Kinjal’s delivery. Rakhi says Toshu needs to learn responsibility. Vanraj says Toshu is responsible towards his wife and child. Rakhi says just like he was. Vanraj gets angry but calms down. Rakhi says she will visit daily to know how responsible Toshu is.
Barkha offers halwa to Anuj and Ankush tries to cheer him up. Anuj feels upset recalling Vanraj and Anupama sitting together. Barkha says Anupama and Little Anu must be busy in celebrations, so they are trying to give him company. Anuj asks her to stop adding ghee in fire and try to provoke him against Anupama. Barkha asks him to stop stretching the old issues. Anuj asks if she means Anupama is enjoying and he is suffering here, just go away from him gaze. GK rushes in and tries to calm him down. Barkha says Anuj is venting out Anupama’s anger on them.
Precap: Anupama confronts and slaps Toshu for having an affair. Rakhi says she has proof of his infidelity. Toshu says Kinjal was pregnant and it was obvious to get attracted to another woman. Anupama shouts infidelity is not accepted by any woman and thinks how will he inform Kinjal about it in such a critical condition.
Update Credit to: MA
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Anupama must understand that if a pregnant woman has mood swings and needs support,same way a person who isn’t able to do much chores of himself needs proper attention and time to take care of.But I wonder what problem Shahs have with kinjal going to her mother’s,if they care too much for her, anyone could go there and live with her but anyways kinjal has newborn baby who needs proper care and may be that’s the reason they want her to be there.
anuj ke bhai bhabhi sara adhik gk he uske sath. u dun vori.. wo log US me bhi sath the… pura bachpan bhi sath rahe honge. abhi kuch misunderstanding chal rahi h, sab koshish karenge to thik ho jaega.. saadi ho gayi matlab patni hi sab kuch nahi hoti… the way anuj gave priority to anupama only, it can make anyone insecure…anuj ko bhai bhabhi ko bhi kuch respect dena chahie. sab thik h, thik ho jaega.
Kaha se respect de jab bhai bhabi ne hi use dhoka diya aur uski property hadapne ki koshish ki uski family ki insult ki jab wo coma mai tha
Really aap cusins ko kitna importance dete ho ghar main rakhte ho kya. And anuj ke saage hai ya money ke it’s visible clearly here. Second it’s anypmaa’ fault as a character since she know she is. Not doing patni duty properly ans aaisa jhule ka riwaaj kaha hai ki divorce ke baad bhi saathain bethegi itna saath chahiye gha to separate hinnaa hoti
wohi to problem h na, jab deho ye anuj meri anu meri anu karta hai, sab meri anu ko puch ke karo bolta hai… kisiko ko bhi insecurity ho jaegi… ghar hai to sab ka haq hei… even gk has rights to suggest…even small anu can demand….family hai to family ki tarah raho na… ye kya centralized power show chala ke rakha hai?
cousin ka to bahot importance hai. my father are 7 brothers. all stay together. actually our colony is named after our surname… anu kabhi apne mayke(kanta house) jaegi, kabhi baccho ke ghar(shah house) jeagi, kabhi kaam pe, kabhi dance show pe jaegi. anupama agar vanraj ko maph kar sakti hai to anuj barkha ko kyu nahi? anuj ko bho apne risto ko chance dena chahie aur cautious bhi rehna chahie.
I don’t think it is necessary for Anupama to go to Shahs House leaving her sick husband behind. She dd not hsvecto perform ritual sitting Vanrah besides her. Crazy
Yeah I am also not able to digest Anupama and Vanraj together in Jhula.
Welcoming her grand daughter is her right, but sticking to Vanraj is not.
So true Mahi! Anuj needs Anupama now more than Kinjal, Kinjal has so many loved ones to take care n supports her ,she needs her mum n her husband more not Anupama!! Even if she really needs Anupama she must weigh Anuj’s needs Anupama more than her!!! Anuj has only GK who sincerely cares for him at home, not Barkha n the gang!!
Barkha and gang are also Anuj’s family. If they are not trust worthy, even Anupama is not trust worthy as she is lenient towards Mr.Shah.
If Anuj has forgiven Vanraj, there is no point suspecting Barkha and co.
Anuj should neither trust anyone blindly nor suspect unnecessarily.
And ANUJ must understand as well that Anupama is and will always be connected to Shah Family. Regardless of whatever she has gone through, they mean the entire world to her and she will not relegate them to the the background. GK is too old to looks after Anuj when Anu is at her house so again I say, a nurse needs to be hired. So no need for guilt-tripping Anu every single time. LEELA is being being a dick as usual to the two Anu’s😒😒. A little girl made to feel like that is just bad. I feel so sad for Anupama. All she has ever wanted was Baa’s love and affection. She truly views her as a mother but she just hands Anu crumbs of affection each time 😔
ANUJ feeling upset seeing Van/Anu sitting and doing dada/dadi ritual shouldn’t make him upset. This is what he signed on for when he married someone who was a wife and mother for 26 years. Although I’d say his feelings of jealousy are indications of how much he knows Anu is still connected to Shah Parivaar and will forever be. He should try and just live with that 🤷🏾♀️
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Anupama won’t be able to give priority to Anuj only. We all know how much she lives for Shah family. She will never relegate them to the background and that is the reality of her life. ANUj married someone who was a wife and mother for 26 years. She had lived a life without him. He is the one that was a weirdo who kept pinning for what was never going to be completely his for 26 years. Its easy for him because he has no idea of what it means to be a family man in that sense. Shahs will always have a vital piece of Anu’s heart and that’s it. She will forever be connected to vanraj as the father of her children.He should learn to live with that knowledge and stop feeling jealous of something that will never change.
Absolutely true!!!
Anupama can never forget Shah family because she was a part of that family and she is connected to that family. Anuj knew what he is signing up for!!
But at the same time, Anuj just got out of coma and is in a weird phase. A person used to doing all his work and now is confined to the house stuck on a wheelchair is not the same person. That man fell off a cliff and is recovering. He is in trauma and requires absolute care. He cannot just be left at his own. Him feeling jealous is all a part of this phase. He wants his wife and daughter near him or atleast be a part of her happiness too. But he is stuck and unwell and traumatized. This is very normal behaviour shown by patients who are recovering after such an accident. Even the doctor told Anu that Anuj will behave differently and she should be mentally prepared for it.
Correct @dodo.
So, Anu should know her priorities. It isn’t like Kinjal doesn’t have anyone- Baa, bapuji, vanraj, kavya, rakhi, “toshu”, samar, pakhi and even dolly and her family came for a few days. Yes, most of them may not be very good at dealing with newborn and the mother. Still, she has people. Anuj, on the other hand has GK, Staff, Ankush and Barkha- people they don’t completely trust. Anupama going there for the kiddo’s welcome and rituals is fine. But Baa ordering her around to work- how is this right? I mean she was the same lady who had ordered Anupama a few weeks back to never come to their house again and today she is ordering her work in her house. I agree, there is no shame in doing chores in your own house. But how is this right and why is she being blamed for coming a few minutes late especially considering he has to work on two fronts- with Kinjal and Anuj
Very True
BTW l, anyone ever notice the relationship between Vanraj and Kinjal? So wholesome🤗 They are the only two that never fight and Vanraj actually seems half way decent when he’s interacting with his bahu. He truly sees her as a daughter. Treats her better than he ever even treated Samar his own son
Actually, he has been the most decent only with Kinjal
WOW I DONT BELIVE WHAT I AM READING THIS, I DON’T CARE ABOUT ANUPAMA THIS OR ANUPAMA THAT, THE FACT IS MATTER IS, WHEN YOU MARRY IT’S THE DUTY OF THE WIFE TO SUPPORT HER HUSBAND, NO MATTER IN THIS CASE HE NEED’S HER MOST
THERE ARE PLENTY OF WOMEN AND MEN IN THE SHAH’S, LEELA SHOULD GET HER DAUGHTER DOLLY TO TAKE SOME RESPONSIBILITY JUST AS ANU GREW HER DAUGHTER ,AND LET KINJAL STAY WITH HER MOTHER AS WELL WHICH WILL SOLVE THE PROBLEMS FOR ANU WHO IS ANUJ’S WIFE MARRIAGE IS A VERY SERIOUS MATTER AND NOT A MAID FOR HER EX-IN-LAWS, BECAUSE THAT’S WHAT ANU IS TO LEELA
No one is arguing that @ S A. What I was saying in essence were As follows 1.Anu will NEVER complete belong to just AnuJ. No matter what, Shahs will always be a vital part of her life and that’s never changing
2. Anu has left the life of perpetual servitude wherein she had to always wait on someone hand and foot. Anuj is rich enough to relieve her of such a burden by hiring a nurse to take over from her incase she needs to leave the house and live her life outside of being Mrs. Kapadia
3. Anuj should remember that he married a person who lived a life prior to him. She has children and now a grandchild and considers herself a “daughter” of shah house. That will never change
4. Shahs are necessary for this show to have drama they rely on to give them TRPs anyway
5. I agree, Leela doesn’t treat nor has never treated Anu with the love she so craved and desired and that is sad indeed. Neither has Vanraj, neither has pakhi and Toshu and even Hasmukh showed complacency in Anu’s poor treatment in Shah house over the years and yet still, She chooses them always, partly because they are her family who she loves so very dearly regardless of how much trash treatment she has gotten and also partly because I’d say she suffers from a bit of Stockholm’s😄😄
Remember when Baa kicked her out and told her to never return as she is the cause of their every problem? What was her reply? “My bond with this house is UNBREAKABLE” that tells you all you need to know about Anupama and her undying love for the Shahs. Anuj just needs ro understand that even though his wife is now Kapadia, She will always be a Shah first🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
YEP 100% drama in the sha’s household will never stop,but this time round it’s time Anu “say enough is enough MY HUSBAND needs me the most,” THAT’S one of the vows she took with him on the day of her marriage and the chores should be shared at SHAH’s household
@Vaijyanthi
Truer words were spoken. This is very true!!!
Anupama does suffer from Stockholm’s
S A 👍👍👍👏👏👏 so true!! Anupama seems to forget her wedding vows to Anuj!!! Moreover Kinjal is not sick she is healthy it’s just tat she had given birth!! No big deal!! But Anuj needs special care n attention!!! Even Anupama is aware of that but..🙄🙄🙄
Okay,so I guess that all those who are arguing about saying Anuj has no right at all on anupama and he must take care of himself even if he is injured and in bad condition,all are feminists…bcoz that’s the reason they are seeing Anuj just as a male and saying tht anupama must prioritise her family.Anuj always gave her right to prioritise her family but at a time when he needs her she must think of him,I don’t think she even loves him…
@ Mahi, you’re lucky because I have time today 😁 first of all, NO ONE said Anuja has no “right” on Anu. We simply said Anu’s former life is and forever will be part and parcel of her and she can never wholly belong to him. Shahs are a VITAL part of her life, as is he 2. NO ONE says Anuj should take care of himself, I personally suggested he hire A nurse or two to relieve Anu of ROUND THE CLOCK care seeing as he always prides himself as being the AntiVanraj and wants Anu to live a life of leisure instead of servitude like she did at the Shahs. Hiring professional medical help doesn’t mean that Anu is a “bad” wife. Especially now that Anuj’s case is becoming more critical. He may need the expert hands of a medical personnel on deck incase of anything comes up. To your last point, anyone who has focused on the show from its inception knows that Anu is woman who is built to love one man and one man alone, truly,fully and devoutly. Unfortunately for her, Vanraj happened to be that one man. Remember that Holi celebration when she got drunk and applied colour on Vanraj after many years? She said “Nobody will ever love you like I love you” then she feel asleep. That hit deep. Because even Vanraj knew that was true. You know what she told Anuj when he confessed his 26 year love for her? “I respect your love”…I mean, it doesn’t get more friendzoned than that 😄😄
After months of help,generosity and care from Anuj and incessant convincing by babuji and samar,she caved and married Anuj. I always suspected that there’s a part of Anu which always felt that was a bit of payback for all the good deeds he had done for her. I believe she has grown to truly respect, admire and even really like him as her new husband. She’s content playing the role of a nurturing wife, she even agreed to parent and small child all over again for his sake. But she will never be able to give such deep,pure and undenying love to another man or family again like she gave Vanraj and Shahs. And even Anuj himself knows it.Such are the ways of life.
Wow.
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What you said may be true!! But nvr forget Anupama is now MARRIED no more Vanraj’s ex wife!!! Her responsibilities are now HER HUSBAND N FAMILY!!! ofc she still can care for Shahs but see in what kind of situations and who needs her attention n care more!! In this situation Kinjal has all the care n support more than she needs!!! But not Anuj!!! All I can say is Anupama does not loves Anuj wholeheartedly!!!
And you are lucky that I don’t even have time to read that flithy and illogical comment today,after two lines, forget about replying.
only sacred mahi has the right to use b*t*h. rest all be careful. don’t spread filth.
YOU NAILED IT HONEY
Thanks @ SA😊
Anu is going to be torn between two families is basically writers want to show more drama. They perpetually created this so that Anu will be stuck and everyone gonna blame her for anything bad happen. I don’t blamed her to be there for Kinjal and her granddaughter because she is still her family. I also don’t blame Anuj to feel insecure because it’s normal. He don’t want to be a burden but the trauma and his medical condition is making him feel like one. What Anu needs is support to handle these situations. Also she should atleast stand up or to be firm. This Baa can shut the hell up.
ME, ALL THE WAY WITH YOU ON THAT
Can’t wait for the confrontation with Toshu. Hurry up already!
Why did Kinjal wear the headscarf like a 90 yr old granny🤣
And is it really that cold the baby had to be kept inside the sleeping bag? They no longer use such tacky bags in UK.