Anupama 9th July 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Kavya blames Anupama for the loss of her job. Shocked Raghav asks Anu if she is supporting this man and asks Kavya how is Anu responsible. Kavya says Anu eyed on her husband and her job. Rakhi asks how can she blame her incompetency to Anu. Baa says she should stick chilli lemon on her husband then. Kavya continues yelling that they will never believe that Anu is the reason for all her problems, she always taunted about her not working at home, because of which she made a mistake at office. Baa says they never let her work as they respect a working woman and she is alleging Anu instead. Kavya yells they all think Anu is better than her. Baa says its her perception and with her arrogance, irritating nature, and insecure behavior, she is really lesser than Anu. Kavya continues yelling at Anu. Kinjal warns her next. She blames Kinjal next for her job loss and says she jealously got her out of job even not bothering about her promotion. Rakhi warns her to mind her tongue as Kinjal didn’t get promotion because of her mistake. Kavya yells that the whole family is responsible for her job loss. Vanraj says if she blames them, then she is responsible for his job loss as she always degraded his job. Kavya yells that she gave so many years to the company and was kicked out for a small mistake. Rakhi tells Anu that they both are same as they like Kavya crying. Anu warns her to stop insulting a person in problem if she cannot respect her at least. Rakhi says she has mahaanta/greatness syndrome which makes her support a person who insulted her. Anu warns her to stop doing wrong if she cannot do good. Kavya walks away crying.
Rakhi offers job to Vanraj and asks her to join her office if his cafe is closed. Vanraj says she cannot follow samdhi samdhan’s relationship without taunting, then how will she follow boss and employee relationship. Rakhi comments rope is burnt, but not the strength. Vanraj says he lost his job and dignity, but didn’t lose dignity in his own eyes and will not lose it by working at her place. Rakhi yells that all responsibility will be on Toshu and Kinjal as Anupama’s salary is very less and she cannot buy 2 weeks’ sabji properly with it. Toshu and Kinjal ask her not to bother about their house. Rakhi says it takes 2 extra thalis to become middle class. Anu says it doesn’t matter to them as they don’t demand silver plates, rich knows to drag the blanket and poor knows to hide his/her feet, poor knows to run the house and be happy with less money, Rakhi can join them with one more thali as they will not mind serving her. Rakhi says she will have difficulty managing sautan and samdhan. Anu says she doens’t have to bother about them and should leave if she is getting late. Rakhi leaves fuming. Kinjal emotionally hugs Anu. Nandini feels bad for Anu.
Toshu consoles Kinjal. Kinjal says she just didn’t get a promotion, but Kavya lost her job in a company in which she worked hard for years. Toshu asks her to cheer up and work hard so much hard that her mistake is hidden with her good work and progress. Kinjal says she got a second chance, but papa and Kavya lost their job for 1 mistake. Toshu says he can understand as in childhood he used to see papa introducing himself as Vanraj Shah senior manager and his designation was most important to him, he cannot imagine what papa must be feeling. On the other side, Kavya blames Dholakia and Kinjal for her job loss and shouts everyone is behind her. Vanraj says even he lost his job twice and she should stop overreacting. Kavya blames Anu again. Vanraj warns her to stop blaming Anu and Kinjal. Kavya continues shouting and says she was bearing his expenses after his job loss. He says he was bearing his own expenses. She says she bore their wedding expenses. He says she was eager to get married. Baa and Bapuji get disturbed hearing their fight in living room. Anu calls them both and asks them to stop shouting as it will affect Baa, Bapuji, and children. Kavya shouts what she should do then. Anu says shouting is not a solution and if they still want to fight, they should lower their voice.
Vanraj walks away from room and sadly sits in lawn. Bapuji walks to him and asks him not to worry as ups and lows are part of life. Vanraj hugs him tightly and cries that he failed. Baa gets emotional seeing him crying. Anu ask her not to worry as Bapuji is with Vanraj and takes her in. Vanraj tells Bapuji that he is suffering because of his sins and says he troubled Anu and Bapuji a lot, Anu’s curse worked. Bapuji says Anu will never curse anyone and says he didn’t lose for the first time and reminds him about losing a year during high school because of his hand fracture and then next year getting better marks, losing many interviews and then getting better opportunities, etc. He says he can cry how much ever he wants to by hugging his father or lying on his mother’s lap, but he wants his hard working and determined son back who never gets afraid of challenges. Vanraj touches his feet. Bapuji asks what doe he do when his laptop stucks. Vanraj says restart. Bapuji says he should restart his life again and even support Kavya as she is also emotionally labile now. Baa walks to crying Kavya, consoles her, and asks her to sleep as there is no solution for problems but sleep helps. Kavya lies in her lap. Baa prays god to protect her children.
Rakhi calls Kinjal and insists her to separate herself and Toshu from the house. Kinjal says its their family issue and she shouldn’t interfere. Rakhi says she is not asking them to separate from family and just walk off giving their expense share; she couldn’t live without spa and parties, but now she is stuck in family issues and Kavya’s problem is not her problem; if no one else doesn’t bother her, Baa will as she is an elder bahu; she should think practically, get out of that house, and live in her own pent house with Toshu. Anu hears their conversation.
Precap: Kavya thinks she needs to search a job for herself and Vanraj as Vanraj will be stuck in Anu’s stupid ideas. Anu tells Vanraj that she has an idea for him.
Update Credit to: MA
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Only acceptable scenario is to have Vanraj and his parents in jail for abusing Anupama
And Kavya to join them for EMA
If Anupama really claims to be Kinjal’s mother and not mother in law, she should have been furious at Kavya for making Kinjal lose her promotion despite working so hard. I would be furious if my child lost an opportunity because of someone else’s incompetence. Just like Rakhi was – she is the real mother clearly. It’s obvious Anupama doesn’t care about Kinjal and is more bothered about being mahaan. She’s such a liar herself.
@Ayer, that is what I thought… I thought that Anupama would at least speak up for Kinjal but she didn’t and it surprised me.
100 % agree. Anupama should grow up. She needs to do being Mahaan for absolutely no reason. And most importantly why is she interfering in other people’s lives? Kavya lost job… its ok. Why are you bothered?
Rakhee gave correct advice to Kinjal – move out. In today’s world it’s ok to live separately and be happy
Kavya thinks that she is a woman that thinks that everyone else is a doll that she can move and command it to do things, and when things do not go her way she thinks that it is the end of the world. Here is the thing, whenever things did not go Vanraj’s way, Vanraj would always blame Anupama. After hearing Vanraj complain Kavya properly picked up on that… Kavya was able to use Anupama to fuel Vanraj up to take charge so she thought that any mistake she makes would be Anupama’s fault. Even though we all know it is not. Kavya blaming Anupama was a way to turn Anupama into a scapegoat… I feel like Anupama does not yell back or anything because she was in that same position before. Like how she got fired from her school and how the entire family made fun of her. I do not think Anupama is trying to be Mahaan. I think she truly feels bad… and is just done with everyone’s shit. When Rakhi was telling Kinjal to leave that home instead of Anupama convincing Rakhi that Kinjal would be better at home, that she is fine with them leaving to live at another house kind of shows a change. It may not look like a big change but it really is if we look at it through Anupama’s eyes. For Anupama its family, since that is all she knows and what she grew up with… she really doesn’t have friends… she does not have actual family members that would put her before themselves. Anupama is someone that understands other people’s pain… like when she found out about the affair and then Vanraj was trying to get with Anupama… Anupama did not want to get close to Vanraj because she does not want to take Vanraj away from Kavya. Anupama is not someone that brings pain, she is someone that wants to bring happiness… so her allowing or saying that Kinjal and Paratoish can move out if they want to is a big deal. Also Anupama gets blamed for a lot of things so this is nothing new. So I know that she doesn’t care that she was blamed… instead she is just going to move on. That’s why whenever Kavya is blamed she yells, she projects, she can not handle her failures, while Anupama does cry but that is one way she handles it… on top of that she moves on… she does not talk about how she wants to ruin Kavya. But at the same time what I do not understand is why is Anupama not mad about the fact that Kavya’s carelessness costed Kinjals job… or the fact that Kinjal was not able to succeed or move forward in her position at her workplace. Shouldn’t Anupama be mad about that… that Kavya set back her daughter… But back to Kavya… I understand that losing a job can be hard but she lost it because of her own fault. Kinjal told Kavya to recheck the powerpoint, make sure that it is running, and send a copy to her (Kinjal). Yet Kavya did none of that and when she screwed up the presentation that was on Kavya. But this reaction from Kavya is not something that is odd. I know they have turned Kavya into this Vamp… and have done horrible things so her turning into the villain is not a surprise… We have seen this since the beginning.
First of all when we meet Kavya she was a sweet person that tried to keep Anupama happy but at the same time she was already deceiving Anupama by having a relationship with Vanraj. Then after a while Anirudh comes into the picture… which makes Vanraj jealous so then he tries to make Kavya jealous by romancing Anupama. When Kavya sees that and then hearing compliments from Nandani about Vanraj and Anupama’s relationship made Kavya feel insecure about her relationship with Vanraj. When Vanraj could not pay attention to Kavya due to him being busy with Anupama and his son’s engagement it made Kavya feel like she is nothing in Vanraj’s life and kept trying to push herself in. While this is all happening Vanraj is constantly making false promises to Kavya. Well Kavya fell for them. Then after that when Anupama talked to Kavya about how people can take advantage of her kindness and trust, Kavya showing humanity but Vanraj convincing her to stay in this relationship. Kavya stays in that relationship because a part of her wants Vanraj and she falls for Vanraj false hopes and promises. When Anirudh came to the Shah’s house to expose Vanraj and Kavya, Anupama did not believe him and for Vanraj to make sure that Anupama does not believe Anirudh he (Vanraj) decides to act nice towards Anupama. Enraging Kavya. When Anupama was able to fix Kinjal and Paratoish’s wedding, Kavya did not like the fact that Anupama was getting close. Then when Anupama sat in the front seat Kavya realized that Vanraj may love Kavya but all the rights and title Anupama has. Then when Kavya told Vanraj that Anupama kicked Vanraj out of the house Kavya told Vanraj to yell at Anupama. Even when Vanraj yelled at Anupama he was not satisfied at all. This is where the change starts to take full effect. Kavya then tells Vanraj to just marry her but no one needs to know about it. Then after that kavya knew that to get to Vanraj she had to be on the good side of ba, so she mends that relationship… and then after that when Anupama and Kavya are playing musical chairs Kavya talks about how Anupama is innocent and that anyone could take advantage of her trust. Then ANupama says that God gives what’s yours and if you snatch it, then it will never be yours. Which makes Kavya mad. When people start finding out about the affair she has this I do not care attitude because she wants Vanraj now. Vanraj has told Kavya so many times that he does not want Anupama, that ANupama is just a maid…. So Kavya believes that she deserves to be there and wants people to know. But when Vanraj tells her that if anyone else finds out that he will be very disappointed and will end that relationship. When Vanraj doesn’t marry Kavya, Kavya has now completely switched. She unlocked that door for Anupama to see, because she doesn’t care anymore and wants to be with Vanraj. But Kavya pushed but did not do it in front of the family because she knew that Vanraj loves his family and would really leave Kavya if ba and babiji found out. When the affair came out, that is when Kavya had no fears anymore. She wanted her V and everything. She wanted everything that Anupama had. Kavya felt that she did not have to hide… and when Vanraj was not in love with Kavya anymore… when Vanraj was distancing himself from Kavya she got angry. Kavya thought whatever Vanraj had also belonged to her because she thought that Vanraj would always talk badly about Anupama so that meant that Kavya was the better one. Kavya thought because she was educated, intelligent and worked in this big company that she was the better one and could replace Anupama… that Anupama did not deserve Vanraj and that family that Kavya should be in that place. But because Kavya thinks too highly of herself and forgets that Vanraj was the one that cheated on his wife, that no matter what Kavya did Vanraj never wanted to divorce Anupama and marry Kavya is not going to be there for her. She thinks that the family hates her but doesn’t realize that she and Vanraj created so many problems that they are annoyed by her. Vanraj and Kavya are getting what they gave to Anupama.
Kavya is turning into another Vanraj!!! She got used to Vanraj blaming everything on Anupama that she has picked that habit to!!! I just wish Anupama can stand up for herself!!! Its okay to feel bad for someone when something bad happens to them but it doesnt give them any right to insult, disrespect & blame you for their mistakes!!! So i think it would have been good if Anupama can just put her foot down & not take any crap from anyone especially from Kavya, Vanraj & Baa!!!
ohh my days you comment is even bigger than whole episode
We want that savage Anupama who used to show kaavya a mirror not this Anupama who just cant stop being maahanta ki devi . I mean seriously kaavya just degraded her character still she cant help sympathizing her . Thats why I feel Rakhi is the most relatable character in this show . Others are delusional character . One woman who is maahan , other is nefarious and rest I dont know what to say
Anupama should just stop interfering in others’ problems. Kavya & Vanraj are not her problem. If she can’t ignore them, then she should learn to stay mum and stop being mahaan.
Guys, i understand your anger over kavya and anupama, but think about it. Kavya is in a really bad mood. She is emotionally not stable due to her job loss and in this time if anupama speaks up to her or shouts at kavya it would only worsen the situation. Yes i understand that anupama is becoming mahaan here, not supporting kinjal. But you cant say that she doesnt feel kinjal as her daughter. There were many instances where she supported kinjal. In previous epidoes she did make kinjal work household chores but she realised her mistake and promised her. She always thought of kinjal as her daughter. And if you are talking about pakhi, then even pakhi is helping by doing her own work. The reason anupama sympathizes kavya might be because she knows what it is like to lose a job. And dont look just at the negative side, there are een positive side to this show. Baa is trying to accept kavya. I know kavya doesnt deserve such love but almost everyone of us believe that second marriages are bad. We think that if a person marries second time, they never get accepted but it is wrong. This serial is trying to show that you can be accepted even if you marry second time. I liked that baa is comforting kavya.
No, I think I will be furious if my child didn’t get what she deserved especially because of someone else’s (in this case, a sautan’s!) incompetence.
There is no way any mother would tolerate it. The child worked hard, and had to lose out. I would be so pained that I will not be able to breathe.
Anupama is not and can never be Kinjal’s mother. She dumped work on Kinjal, when she could have asked her useless children to make roti and give for Baa and Babuji. She did not. She made Kinjal feel bad for standing up for herself by gaslighting her and saying boss at work will also scold you. As a mother, my child would be my first priority. No one will die by not eating rotis for a day.
Baa was out of line, there is a time and place for everything – if you teach someone in such a crude manner while taunting, especially when they have hundred other things to do, no one will learn anything. And that’s not being elder. That’s being nasty. If Baa wanted rotis so badly, she could have gotten Vanraj to make or her daughter Dolly to drop by, prepare rotis and go.
They don’t deserve Kinjal. I don’t even know how Kinjal is living there, tolerating the mental backwardness.
No matter how hurt or one being in bad mood justify them disrespecting, insulting & blaming others for their own mistakes!!! If one condones such behaviour it can lead to more & more insults!!! I get it Kavya is hurt but who is to be blamed for her own mistakes & overconvidence even when everyone warned her!!! As for Anupama she can feel bad for Kavya as she is a good human being but not at the cost of her own respect & peace of mind!!! Kavya has crossed the line & if Anupama doednt draw the line God knows what elde she can do to hurt Anupama & cover up her evilness!!!
is kavya the first person who lost her job? even vanraaj lost his job (same company) even after so many years of experience. At that time did she show this type of behavior? you made a mistake and you lose a job… boss is always right!!! Why is she making such a big drama.
I also could not accept the fact that Anupama did not take a stand for kinjal. She never took a stand for herself fine but if you cant stand by you kid and not fight for them what use. Kavya lost her job but she created a drama as soon as she knew Vanraj lost his job. Anupama if you want your academy to succeed then leave your mahanta behind and get real. If you let Vanraj even a set a foot in your academy he will take over it fully and you will be reduced to nothing. V and k can never give up being selfish and self centered
@Any anupama stood quiet today it was wrong indeed but that doesnt mean her bond with kinjal is not motherly. She did a mistake before and she apologized to kinjal for it. She took a stand for kinjal many times. She asked baa to accept kinjal and not taunt her. She even warned paritosh not to raise his voice on kinjal. She stood against her family to let kinjal work. She always wanted kinjal to succeed in her career. And recently, anupama made a mistake by not supporting kinjal. Thats why she apologized and even promised kinjal that she will not let her become another anupama.
Anupama cannot always be right, she even has some wrong points like staying quiet at times, but that doesnt mean that she lost the bond. Anupama and kinjal have their own negative points but their bond is really nice. Anupama never forced kinjal to work in the kitchen. She stood against her own son for kinjal
Very right about the academy, if Anupama let Vanraj in then Kavya will follow saying my V my V that Anupama is stealing her V!!! Also they eill control it & turn Anupama to a worker!!! O.M.G am soo not boarding on this i hope it doesnt happen
It’s just a serial for entertainment not reality… No one can be like Anupama in reality.
Am telling you its just a serial but some of us get soo engronsed in it that we dream about it!!! 🤣
We all understand it is a fiction. But some characters are relatable and sometimes understand the characters. It will be good if our main leads behave humanly and put there foot down and take a stand for themselves. It is not good to show a person Mahan always. Sometimes some scene or a dialog or something could have a positive impact on a viewer and get that person out a situation. This serial promised us the growth of Anupama but we get to see kavyas tantrums and Anupamas Mahan bhashan.
agree… in reality ex-wife & wife can never survive under same roof
@ayer i understand your point but i dont think habits change so easily. elder people take time to change. Baa’s taunting was absolutely wrong, but she needs time to change herself. Anupama did not dump her work on kinjal. She did not do it purposely. She had her own tensions at that time. She was really stressed out. So she asked kinjal to handle things and its not like her children are not doing anything. Her children are doing things. Samar is helping anupama with her dance academy. Pakhi is also cooking her own food. Paritosh… well he is not doing anything. Bapuji and baa were also cooking and helping doing the chores.
You are right on the point that baa is not asking vanraj to do anything. I hated that too. But the reason anupama kept quiet was maybe because kavya was emotionally not stable. In that situation, shouting would not be the right choice. It would only worsen the situation. Shouting at people and blaming would not achieve you anything. But ig anupama should’ve supported kinjal
Pakhi is not cooking her own food. She only occasionally makes cold coffee. Does not help in ANY household chores.
Today the mahan lady proved that she is craving to befriend her home breaker,even if it costs her self respect she is just ready to be trashed by kavya uncountable times and that day is not far when kavya will slap anupama and anupama in return will bring her another cheek forward to have onemore slap,as we can see that step by step kavya is becoming a vamp and crossing her limits at every stage she can definitely do that one day and our mahan devi would stand like a stone.the family members are also no less mahan, kinjal being her boss couldn’t show her superiority and the dumbo family members always stand silen when she yells at them,so they gave kavya the audacity to dance over their heads,at this point rakhi is much much much better than anyone else 🤨
Am telling you, its soo frustrating this Anupama greatness!!!
Yeah! right.
Pati patni aur woh…hogaya hai ye serial…
Alot is said sbout Anu and her doormat ways but how come no one is talking about Vanraj and his tolerating Kavya and her nonsense. The man put the fear of god into his family members to the point that they only made good he liked ans not his mothers favorite food was served ever in the house because he did not like it but somehow now he can not do anything to get Kavya to behave. She has insulted his whole family deveral times as well as him and he is just a spectator. Actually none of these characters are in the least bit realistic
But there is no justice for Anupama. Kavya keeps insulting her time and again and no one takes a stand for her, not even Anupama herself. And after all that she has done to the family and insulted everyone at various instances, family shouldnt support her at all, she should be treated as non existant in that house. She should do her own household chores and cooking for herself and Vanraj. She should be treated as an outcast in the family, kept at bay during celebrations which are not directly related to her, e.g., Samar’s birthday celebration. Why should Anupama cook for her saut. In reality who would!! And now bapuji sympathizing with Kavya and Baa trying to confort her is actually enraging. Indirectly it hints that whatever nonsense she does is ultimately acceptable. Is it really acceptable? And baa took so long to accept Anupama despite Anupama being a pious and caring character who always loved baa, but she accepted Kavya a housebraker so easily ? The show is showing too much of mahantaa, too much to accept.
That tells us if u treat yourself as a doormat you’ll never rise above being a doormat “ Anu”
And if u treat yourself as deserving and above all you’ll be treated as such and everyone will never dare to cross the limit with you , but they will do their best to please you.
I like how Rakhi takes care of Kinjal . Kinjal made a stupid mistake by marrying into this family, but her mama never took the “ I told you so “ stance . Instead she is doing her best in preventing her daughter from being trapped in that family tangle. She always opens Kinjal’s eyes about the right thing to do even if she opposes her .
She is the mahaan mama in fact not Anu
So true! Rakhi is a supermom!
this show is getting irritating say by day… i just hate Anupama’s mahanta rooo disgusting… this is ruining women’s self respect
Its just a waste of time like everyday drama happens I don’t even understand why anu is leaving in that house she should have found another house and should have work on her so called “bimare” . i don’t really understand stress on brain couses brain cancer but in anu (special case) it caused ovarian cancer what the connection. ohh god symptoms are too different from the syndrome. I am really not able to understant the writer but i do like that cunning vixen (rakhi) the why see fight double dholki ohh god. really fun seeing him and anu is still helping vanraj whyy . really murat of mahanta .
She was diagnosed with ovarian cancer because it’s common in Ladies in their late 30s and 40s. And stress can induce any type of cancer genes in body. As a science student I know this and even I had seen my mummy suffering from uterine rasauli in her late 30s. It was about 7 years back when her uterus and other reproductive organs were removed surgically. I was just a 13 and half yrs old girl then who just came in class 9th. And my brother was just 6 years+ 3 months old who came in 1st standard. Though rasauli and cancer of reproductive organs are different but it’s common in this age group ladies along with depression. Because after 1 yr of operation she suffered from depression for 4 years. Now she’s completely fine but still stress make her sick. Due to after effects of depression little stress brings such a heavy headache that she remains sick for 4-5 days. And it’s necessary to show these problems atleast in those shows which present their leading ladies under this age group. And it’s not a matter of copy cat. But Anupamaa is becoming over mahaan. Ya she’s helping vanraj as a friend and her children’s father. But still her mahaanta is going over. Itna to main bhi tolerate nhin krta. Agar college friends khud mujhe koi help na karen but mujhse sari help ki ummeed rkhen to main bhi frustrate ho jati hun aur suna deti hun. Bahut seedhi banke rehli school mein. I think isliye sbb segment mein Anu ki is baat se gussa ho apna frustration dance pr utar rha tha. Ye baat sach h ki Samar Nandini kbhi Anu ka saath nhin chhodenge. But kuchh baat uski unhein bhi nhin pasand. Aur samjhane pr samajhti nhin. Isliye gussa dance pr utarte hn.
Most senseless show I saw ever
Most senseless serial sets wrong example for the soceity