Barrister Babu 11th June 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
The Episode starts with Anirudh asking Trilochan is Thakumaa saying the truth. Trilochan asks Thakumaa not to dig out old wounds. Thakumaa says old wounds are more deep, shall I tell them the truth. He says enough, I will tell the truth, our fathers decided our marriage, we were going to marry, but Kalindi did something before marriage which is considered wrong, when I reached there with the baraat, the matter came out, my dad got angry and asked me not to get related to Kalindi, he could have given his life, but not give up his family respect so I had returned. Thakumaa says half truth won’t protect you, it was your and society’s view, what about my view, if a man dies by an illness, he dies once, if a woman gets sick, then dies many times.
She says Anirudh, he is right, I did what a woman should have not done, can he say why I did that and why, I had done it for him. She says Trilochan came to a neighboring village, he fell sick, my dad wasn’t at home, there was no one to give him medicines, his life was in danger, you tell me, would I stop him from dying, or thinking of my limits, his sickness got fine, but I got stained forever. Bondita cries. Thakumaa says everyone said that I crossed my limits, no woman meets her would be husband before marriage, but I met him to save his wife, did I do anything wrong, I gave him life, he gave me death in return, he gave me lifelong sorrow and loneliness, and a stain of a rejected woman. She says a woman gives birth, love and values, a man snatches everything from her in a moment, he took back the baraat on his dad’s saying, he didn’t think about me, he is asking me today, if he stayed strong that time, then something else would have happened, but he broke the relation and didn’t take a stand for me, my life became a dark night, I didn’t find a life partner, I started living confined in my house, if I went out, then every man would have put a price on me, I started making medicines, after my brother left, I took up family’s responsibility, I made my problems my strength, Kalindi died in this, I ended my existence by my hands, no one knows what darkness I went through.
Trilochan says wrong doesn’t become right by the right reason, society made rules for women, when a woman breaks the rules, then she gets punished, even if it was about my life, you should have not come out of the limits, if you thought to ask me, then I would have told the same, that its better that I die than any woman loses respect for me, nothing is imp to me than traditions, I still believed this. Bondita says no, you are wrong, Thakumaa didn’t do anything wrong, she broke the rules for you, she was worried for you, I also broke rules for Anirudh, many times, I went against the old customs, I m also a woman, will you punish me. Thakumaa says don’t keep any hope from them, stay away, if its a man’s mistake, then a woman has to bear it, they can never regard a woman equal. She cries. Bondita says don’t cry, Trilochan didn’t take a stand for you, but I m with you, you are really good, someone’s life is imp than values for you, you aren’t wrong, Trilochan is still wrong. Anirudh says Bondita is saying right, its your mistake, you should apologize to Thakumaa, maybe her wounds heal. Trilochan asks why shall I apologize, when I didn’t do anything wrong, I got insulted on my marriage day, I m feeling the same insult again, I won’t apologize, its better to die. He gets angry. Bondita takes Thakumaa with her. Bondita says Thakumaa doesn’t need to bear any punishment to save humanity, I m proud of her, I will stand by you, I won’t stay here. Anirudh says its about women esteem, I never regarded a woman’s esteem less than a man’s esteem, Trilochan is wrong, he should apologize, I will make him promise, I won’t let any woman lose respect in our house or in this society. Trilochan goes.
Bondita goes to Sumati. She asks did you know that Thakumaa was going to marry Trilochan. Sumati says no, she didn’t tell me when she got to know that you have become Roy Choudhary’s bahu, she was happy for you, she is really great. Bondita says she didn’t show her pain, so much wrong happened with her. Tapur asks her to come soon, Thakumaa isn’t opening the door. Sumati and Bondita go to see Thakumaa. The family comes. They see Thakumaa hanging herself to the ceiling fan. They shout and ask her to stop. Bondita runs inside and stops her. She asks her to stop for her sake. Thakumaa gets down and cries. She says my wounds came out, Trilochan insulted me again, he showed that women are still weak. Bondita says no, a woman can never be weak, you are not weak. Thakumaa says if Anirudh calls you, then you will run to him, its better to die today. Bondita says no, I will never leave you, you had raised my dad and entire family, I won’t go to Anirudh until Trilochan returns your esteem, its my promise. Thakumaa smiles.
Precap: Trilochan agrees to apologize to Thakumaa, but she says that Trilochan will have to paint his face black, ride on a donkey to her home, and beg her for forgiveness. Anirudh tells Thakumaa that she’s doing this wrong. In order to return Bondita, she’s taking her revenge. He will talk to Bondita and he is sure that she will understand.
Update Credit to: Amena
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Okay guys kalanthi is Bondita’s aunt. She is big sister of bondita’s dad. So bondita is her niece. Even if kalanthi marries kakka ani and Bondita will be cousin. I think as per many Indian culture is okay to marry cousin. Anirudh is Bondita’s aunt son so does for Anirudh ,bonditha is his uncle(bondita’s father is uncle for Anirudh).
Yes u are correct SK .
SK , if you will see bondita’s family tree,kalindi’s name is written at the side of her grandparents, not by side of her parents, so how can she be aunt? If she is aunt then y rimzim calls her saasuma? Y not badi didi? Becoz she is bondita’s grandmother only, not aunt.
@bhagya Read the written update. In this also they mentioned that she took care her brothers family. Takkuma is pissima for Bondita.
If u remember, Bondita tell us that her family tree. Kalindi’s name is written side of grandfather of Bondita. Also, Kalindi take care of her brother family, means, Bondita’s father and Soumik.. Rimjhim also call Kalindi is ‘sasur ma’ means that Kalindi is her mother in-law.. Only Sumati didn’t call Kalindi as sasur ma. I don’t know why? Perhaps she feel comfortable call her thakuma than sasur ma..
Erly time sister is called sasuma
Again mistyped. For Bondita, Anirudh is her aunt’s (kalanthi so does subathra) son. For Anirudh , bondita is his uncle’s( Bondita’s father is uncle for Anirudh) daughter.
Wrong.. Kalindi is younger sister of Bondita’s grandfa.. If Kalindi and Trilochan get married, so Anirudh will be Bondita’s uncle. Because of Anirudh is Trilochan nephew. Also Kalindi is Trilochan’s wife. Didn’t u remember conversation between Rimjhim & Soumik?? Rimjhim said, ‘her father in-laws already died, but he leave his younger sister to make a trouble in their life.’
It is clearly mentioned in written updates that Thakumaa is aunt of Bondita. A man say father had 3 kids :- Kalindi , Shoumik and BF ( Bon’s father ) . Father and BF died . Shoumik was small. Kalindi took responsibility in her own hand . Medicinal business was of Kalindi’s father and not Kalindi’s brother who is mistaken as BF’s father .
Yes exactly, and she calls her sasuma, i don’t think sister in law ko sasuma kehte hai? If she is aunt then will be rimzims sis in law na? Sasuma?
If Thakumaa is bon’s grandfather sister , it would mean grandfather had medicinal business but it is not so . Thakumaa said that it was his fathers business and not brother’s business .
Thakuma is Bondita’s aunt or phupi or bua. She runs her father’s medicinal business after his big brother means Bondita’s father died. After death She is the only one in the family who has the knowledge of medicine cause showik is young. So she runs the house on her own and let her family survive. Though Thaku ma is older in the house and she took care of shoumik like a mother so i think that’s why rimjhim calls her sasu ma
Ok whoever this thakuma is , i just want her track should end soon i don’t like her from starting becoz she have hurted bondita so much. She may have gone through painful past but what is she doing today is not right with anidita.
OMG so many theories regarding thakuma…boyyy I guess we’ll have to trend this also #EXPLAINWHOISTHAKUMA…lol
I’m utterly confused right now.
The business is passed through generations. Thakumaa’s father passed it to her brother. She did mention that she took up the responsibility after her brother’s death.
Omg…We are still going on with this. I really remember in one episode that Kalindi mentioned about her taking care her brother’s children (Bon’s dad and Shoumik) after the death of her brother and father.
I think she mentioned this to Bondita. It was when Bondita said Thakumma vaid skill is her gift, not curse. Then Thakumma proceeded to tell her the family situation.
@SK.
Dear I thought of replying here for your previous reply…just in case you didn’t notice it there..so yeah.
Even I learnt a lil Hindi by watching hindi movies and Show’s…
My grand father was born and raised in TM and then he migrated when he was very young here…and then got married.
I’m 100% Sri lankan so is my mom…but my mom has few cousins in TM and mumbai.
But I’ve never been to India:(
I don’t know if this counts but that’s how I’m connected to TM…
I can talk tamil but can’t read or write!
Wow it’s too know that @zaee..mikka magilchi….😇
@SK,
Same here❤❤❤
Revelations happened but did I expect something big? Maybe…
Guys I’m gonna spam what I felt from the revelation…I maybe wrong so enlighten me, if I made any sort of mistake in my pov.
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So who’s right and wrong between Kalindi and kaka? definitely kaka.
But let’s analyze both the side.
Kaka is is a very cultural religious person…so in his perspective, what kalindi did was wrong even if it was because of saving his life.
At that era I guess that was so normalized…so he didn’t think, he just backed off without marrying her (remember not everyone is ARC who will stand against the society)
In his side he thinks what he did is right.
Coming back to thakuma.
She broke society rules and went to treat kaka…and the marriage broke because of that reason.
Again in her side she’s correct…I really can’t say it’s 100% kaka’s wrong cuz the society he was brought up was such…it’s just anirudh broke all the rules or all the guys are same at that era…agree?
Well some dialogue of thakuma is true and we can connect because we are women.
No matter what, women has to go through a lot and answer everyone…that’s absolutely true.
Not just in that era but even now…for a example if a couple gets divorced.
The first question is what did the women do?
I pity thakuma, cuz she went through a lot.
But but I won’t take my previous statement regarding the “aggressive” thakuma…just because her life turned into hell she can’t hurt her own grand daughter…even the ending scene looked like emotional blackmail…to ensure bondi won’t go back to ani.
Also something I felt is guilt in kaka’s eyes…maybe his male ego is stopping him from asking forgiveness from Kalindi but he definitely feels guilty about it.
That’s why he never interfered in Bondita’s freedom.
Let’s see how he’s gonna rectify his mistake.
Bondita asked ani that she broke so many society rules for him…will he also abandon her. but lil did she know that ani taught her of braking all the wrong society rules and rituals.
If Bondita is standing by thakuma today to keep womens self esteem high…that’s also because arc taught her.
I agree bondi had so many questions about society and wasn’t scared of braking it…but because arc answered all her questions and taught her what’s right and wrong
Imagine every family has one ARC…mannn I can’t help but adore him!
Yes zaee agreed. Justice should be given to thakuma but i don’t think it’s totally ksj’s fault also. He ws one generation before anirudh and at that time maybe he hadn’t that courage to talk and answer to elders that’s why whatever he did ws not totally in his hands. But i think he has guilt of that somewhere still, so now ws supporting ani and Bondita. And also his male ego is not letting make him realise his mistakes in past. Anirudh is quit different and progressive thinking man as he has returned from london and have courage to talk against elders if they are wrong. But he loves his kaka and i am sure he will definitely make kaka understand to give justice to thakuma now.
@Bhaya
Totally agreed💯
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Thakumaa went thru a lot in her life. She was just like Bondita but society made her so tough 😭😭😭 …..
I think Trilochan should apologise to Thakumaa.Now , Binoy seems better than Trilochan .
Yes I too thought there is a strong reason for takkuma’s such behaviour. Today that came out Kaka should apologize to her.if possible he should marry her,for that both should have feelings for eachother.
No there must be some twist and turns thankuma is not good.. she istrying to separate bondita and anirudh.. still I believe in kaka… thakuma is wrong💯
@zaee it’s good know that you have got links with TN. Tamilnadu follows 2 language policy so in school they teach Tamil and English only(expect CBSE schools). I learnt Hindi on my own interest just by watching TV serials and shows.
But I am from Mumbai so I don’t know tamil even I don’t understand a single word of other languages without hindi. I hope I would have known all languages
Well I am from himachal and I also live in himachal Pradesh but my mom dad me and my brother had shift in Punjab for a month and staying in Punjab I leant Punjabi proud on myself 😀
And language I know is Hindi, English and Punjabi
But I have a question if kalindi is bondita’s aunt then why bondita calls her thakuma?
Kalindi is Bondita’s grandfather’s sister
😂 ask makers .
Besides she is Thakuma of the village. This is more of a title due to her position as the village vaid.
See this news I think they are very firm about leap 😑 but that odia actress is 19 years old so she will look good pravisht also she has facial features similar to aura..I m still against leap though.
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Who is new actress? I can’t open that link.
Sivani Sangita ….
Seriously man, i can’t imagine her personally as Bondu. I find Kanika better than her. Mini and Mano are far better than these . Ada khan my goodness she is too old to play role of a girl who just passed her teen age. Oh God, save BB from them . I don’t do Body shaming but i feel a thin girl could play role of Bondita better . Forgive for the language .
Ok.. ya i saw her now she is kinda cute but little bit chubby. But for bondita’s role ? Well,, no idea. U r right some slim n delicate looking young girl should be bondita.
Areee…can’t we have some peace?
I don’t know why many people still didn’t understand what a Thakuma relationship with DAS’S FAMILY????
They are changing Trilochan’s character sketch as per their convenience. He is the same man who not only accepted Bondita when she returned after staying at brothel for days but also gave up ancestral coins to arrange for her return. He sympathized with Bondita after her divorce and not blamed her like he is shown to be blaming Thakumaa now. Even a few minutes back he was decorating the house to welcome their ex daughter in law to stay with them which is definitely against the customs.
This custom is not new to BB now . They change characters as per the requirements. We fans are used to it now .
But last time in case of Sampornaa the change was gradual. She was slowly influenced by her mother and experiences but here the change is unexplained.
Yes why ksj is behaving like this donno. He should apologize to thakuma for his mistakes and should end that matter.
@Tf,
True and hate that…you can’t change characters just like that.
@BB watcher,
Agree..I guess we are getting used to it!
I think Kaka’s behaviour towards Bon, after she returned from Hira Mandi and accepting her as his bahu after the divorce for two reasons. First reason,he loves Ani and Bon so much.2nd,he is actually trying to repent for what he did to Thakumma. He doesn’t want Ani to end like him so he, even with very orthodox mind, still accepts whatever Ani’s doing for Bon.
The main problem his ego. People can be defensive on their past mistakes. Though, I do believe that he stills have some feeling for Kalindi because he could have married other girls when he was young, but he didn’t.
@June that’s a nice explanation
I am excited what is going to happen next. I think she will ask bondita to marry someone bondita also agree eventhough it is wrong Anirudh will stop the marriage saying child marriage is not allowed.
I totally agree with you @Shwetha. The next move thakumaa is to make Bondita marry someone else. Bondita will agree even though she’s knows child marriage is wrong. I kinda understand thakumaa. She wants to save Bondita from going through the same humiliation she went through. I now understand why Kaka told Anirudh not to divorce Bondita.
@Priscilla
Yes. We will wait and watch what is going to happen next.
Guys I’m really confused as to Bondita’s relation with thakumaa. I’m Ghanaian and I understand not more than 10% of Hindi language. Pls enlighten me in a literal, plain and an ordinary man’s language for me to understand.
Kalanthi Takkuma is a aunt of bondita. Bondita’s grandfather had 3 kids. Bondita’s father,kalanthi and sowmik. Bondita’s Grandfather and father died so kalanthi took care of their family medicine business and family.Everyone call her as takkuma so all confused. I think she is a authoritative person of the family so everyone address her as takkuma.
Kalindi is bondita’s grandfather’s sister.
Firstly Bondita mentioned it in the episode when she was showing her family tree then she told that kalindi is her pishi dadi means thakuma. Then in the episode when shomik and rimjhim were searching the hair then rimjhim said that sasurji died and left his small sister to torture us.
@zaee yeah kalanthi is a like wounded tiger she won’t keep quiet. What ever happened to her was wrong. She needs justice but she can’t do injustice to bondita.lets see how the story unfolds see story has so much potential what is the need of leap… Because of leap tension I couldn’t enjoy the show like before ..
Aap mumbai se ho kya?
Nop from Tamilnadu@ARC
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Makers digging their own grave..
Sorry for my harsh words… I couldn’t take.. don’t spoil a good show…
ok but if anidita can change trilochan’s mind regarding this society custom then will trilochan marry kalindi? But one thing is that I think trilochan still loves kalindi otherwise he would have married anyone before shubras death. What is your opinion guy’s?
I totally agree with you @Rishi. He still loves her and will like to patch things up but he’s feeling egoistic.
I don’t understand why all of the sudden did thakumaa asked bondita and mom to stay with her can anyone pls clarify my doubt.
Becoz she was going to enter the show that’s why 😆
This all is just tricks played by thakumaa with her past wounds by not allowing aniditha to be couple with help of ksji ego
Anyone agree this
@Vishal,
Exactly my point too…I know she went through a lot but now she perversely digged old scares is to emotionally blackmail bondita.
Yes upto some extent it’s right. Kaka and her past is different matter but she is mixing that with anirudh bondita’s life. Till now after all this, isn’t she able to see that how much ani cares and does for bondita?? He is different from kaka? How many tests he will give now ? Can’t she see their strong bond and trust over each other? If she really cares for bondita then she shouldn’t interfere in anidita’s decisions now, by making her own past as a sheild.
@Bhagya
Exactly…she said kaka again humiliated her.
But she’s the one who brought the truth out…then how come it’s kaka’s fault?
Why was she gonna suicide yesterday?
She should have suicide when her marriage broke…why now?
She’s just playing victim card with Bondita…
This doesn’t mean I don’t pity her but all her actions is not correct either!
Actually kalindi will try to separate anidita for sure but she will gradually see their bonding and will become good. In the meantime, she will fall in love with trilochan (according my imagination) what’s ur opinion guy’s?
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Here is the full details about leap and new lead.. matlab Kuch bhi…no improvement in TRP.. seriously why Indian audience only love 2 girls fighting for 1 guy type stories…🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️