Bepannah 14th November 2018 Written Episode Update: Harsh slaps Aditya

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I am tired of this continuous Anjana bashing. I understand that Anjana has been portrayed negatively from the beginning but I feel the makers could have shown her character with more sensitivity instead of as psycho. Her murdering Sakshi and hatred for zoya as well as doubtful involvement in poosh death all make us want to hate her. But here she is the one who has been betrayed by Harsh and she is as much a victim as Pallavi. That too to receive a shock like coming to about her husband”s betrayal while she is pregnant would be hard on any woman- harsh is the one who has done wrong but he is shown often positively; also if Pallavi got into a relation with a man before marriage and got pregnant out of wedlock, she should be ready to face the consequences of her actions and hard as it is, could have brought up her son as a single mother instead of dumping him at an orphanage. Till there also, i sympathised with her but next thing i lost whatever sympathy i had for her, she wanted to break some other woman”s house to live with a man who had once betrayed her- so she is also not much better than An jana when it comes being selfish for her love and her son . I don’t see what’s wrong in Anjana asking Harsh to choose between her and her sons or pallavi. Should she put up with whatever Harsh does? Instead of blaming Anjana only for everything, even Pallavi is also responsible for what happened to her and as well as Harsh”s wavering mind. So I understand Aditya”s viewpoint in this. I expect comments calling me regressive but not every person would be broad minded and mahaan enough
to accept their spouse”s girlfriend or boyfriend cooly with their kids. Many would go for a divorce but as kids are involved, many women would still prefer their children to have the love of both parents, even if it is at the cost of her own self respect

@Roshni, Not regressive no. This situation is not clear cut black and white yet as to which woman was right, who came first, and whom Harsh betrayed. Mainly because we have only given bits and pieces of the past and we still dont know the entire story. I based my comment on what has already been shown.
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Look, first, i didnt bash Anjana for asking to chose between her and Pallavi. I was bashing her because when she came across Pallavi and Rajvir, she could have chosen numerous ways of dealing with it. But first she called the small boy garbage, then threw money at their faces and then threatened them with murder indirectly. (and since she has done this with others too, talking about money and murder, i said she was unstable from long ago)
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I am not saying pallavi is a strong woman who did no wrong. But neither is Anjana. If either of them were strong, they would have asked the oscillating man to get lost and found a way to raise their children on their own. In that respect, both were similar that they wanted Harsh to stay with themselves and their children, let the other woman go to hell. The main difference is Anjana had money to back herself up and pallavi did not. Anjana was also willing to kill others, while Pallavi killed herself (apparently). Which, if you chose to think that way, makes pallavi even weaker.
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Now, at this point we know nothing else about Pallavi. We dont know if Harsh did marry her and then divorced her for Anjana? or if their marriage was secret, without proofs (hence illegitimate for others), never broken yet Harsh left her. She had a boy first, but didnt come to Harsh immediately. Maybe she did try to raise Rajvir but due to poverty failed. When Anjana too turned her away, she left the boy at orphanage. Point is, I know nothing about Pallavi (and who the hell is kalpana dadheech?).
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But i have been seeing Anjana since the start of this show, and nothing about her actions makes her sympathetic to me. She is rude to everyone except her precious Adi, husband and Arjun. She keeps spewing hatred against everyone else. For her everyone is wrong and below her level. And she has no guilt about taking lives either. All this makes me assume that in ‘Anjana vs Pallavi’, Anjana was probably more at fault. I might be wrong. Maybe nani is lying. Or maybe Anjana actively did something to kill Pallavi and made it look like suicide. (she did keep Sakshi kidnapped and made it look like Sakshi is in London, even going to the extent of fake phone calls and video calls.)
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And when it comes to Rajvir’s situation vs Adi’s situation, Rajvir clearly had it worse. None of the boys were to blame for what was happening to them. The adults were irresponsible and the children suffered. But Rajvir’s hatred doesnt seem unjustified to me. He neither had mother or father and grew up an orphan. And when Nani finally found him, she told him all about the ‘evil hoodas’.
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Harsh too is to blame of course. Today, Harsh was clearly angry at Anjana asking her to stop pretending. It seems he had repeatedly told Anjana at one point that he wanted to be with Pallavi, but Anjana forced him to be with her instead. Every time he tried to leave, Anjana created some obstacle or the other until Harsh finally gave up (pallavi died too). Here Harsh too comes as weak, maybe hungry for a honorable name and money. If he had stuck to one woman, none of this would have happened.
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And coming to Adi’s viewpoint, its biased. When he was child, he heard snippets of his parents’ conversation/fight. He knew nothing about his parents’ actual lives. But Harsh’s anger at Anjana, and Anjana silently taking him back, makes me believe there were many things Adi didnt know or was wrongly fed by Anjana.
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I know this comment became too long, but the main point is you are supporting Anjana on her decision to stay with Harsh and make Harsh stay with her. I am bashing her on the basis of everything else she did. You are assuming she got shocked knowing about harsh’s betrayal during pregnancy. I am assuming Anjana always knew about Pallavi and forced Harsh to come to herself from the very start. now, most of this is based on assumption only and things will become more clear as the story unfolds. Maybe i will turn out wrong, who knows

Harsh wasn’t pressurised , he wanted a stable career so he married Anjana now isn’t that selfish ? both woman wanted love but their partner was unfaithful , you expect those woman not be selfish when both have their own families and are blindly believing in the false promises Harsh had given them .
And I feel that Nani is being way too melodramatic to get sympathy from Harsh then he slapped Adi as he got swayed by her words ? .
Also we have no idea when Pallvi and Harsh got married so we can’t justify their relation , she was cheated by Harsh which eventually led to her committing suicide and yes Anjana too is extremely wrong and I don’t have to tell that as we all know that ?(I’m too lazy to type)
Another important thing we do not know what happened we all are assuming things which not the best thing to do , and I think it’s Harsh’s fault but then let’s see the upcoming episodes we get to know more .

Never! No ways! Adi will never kill anyone let alone his father even in anger! Nope