Choti Sardarni 23rd November 2020 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Scene 1
Param reads custody papers. Harleen takes it from him. Sarab takes it and says bua is busy. Meher asks Param where are rest of the papers? He says next to Karan. Harleen goes to the same room for her file. Karan cries. Harleen goes to him. Karan pees on the papers before Harleen could see them. Meher and Sarab heave a sigh of relief. Sarab says he saved us. He wants to live with us.
Manav and Aditi come home. Seema hugs her. She says I saw a bad dream. Like you were lost. Aditi says you and Vikram will find me. SHe says what happened on your hand? Aditi says I injured it in surgery. Seema says be careful. Let me get you a glass of milk Seema comes to Vikram and says what are you thinking? Take me to the temple.
SCene 2
Pathak says to Robbie, the bluff people are very angry. I am distracting them. I hope you’re not empty-handed. Robbie says I have news worth crores. He shoes him a drive. Pathak says what’s in it? Robbie says Maher’s biggest secret.
Meher takes out winter’s clothes. Sarab says you reminded me for my mom. She also used to take our winter clothes. He says don’t worry. Everything will be fine. God has always helped us. They recall their tough times.
Scene 3
Manav and Seema come to the temple. Manav says mom, I have to talk to you. I have to take an avatar for an old secret. It’s 1.5 years old story. There was a guy named Manav Sharma. HE was innocent and he looked exactly like me. He was working at a dhaba. HE had a dream to become an IS officer. HE fell in love with a girl. He wasn’t given love in return. Her mother killed him. His body was thrown in the river. He never got justice. I will get him justice.
Pathak and Robbie hear the recording. Pathak says Maher’s child’s father is Vikram Dewan not Sarab? He laughs and hugs Robbie. He says will you take cash or cheque? Robbie says anything. Pathak says this will continue. HE hugs him.
Param can’t adjust in the old sweater. Meher says Karan can weak it now. SArab says why will he wear old clothes? MEher says it increases love between brothers. I want Karan to become like his dad and BigB.
Manav says you have to help me, mom. You told Bhagwan ends the devils. I have to take avatar of Manav to fulfill his dreams and get him justice.
Sarab says to Meher this is also true. His way and everything has changed, even his name. He’s Vikram now. Manav says in heart you thought I don’t have an identity? My identity is back. Meher says Aditi is still in strees. What if she finds out all this? Sarab says we have to solve one step at a time. I know he won’t change his identity because of Seema. Manav says now I will be both Vikram and Manav and will take my Karan. Meher says what if he becomes Manav again? Vikram says to Seema, mom, give me blessings that I win in my mission. She says be triumphant. My blessings are always with you. Manav walks out.
Precap-The lawyer says we have to prove that Meher is an incompetent mother. Meher and Sarab’s lawyer says we will prove in the court Manav s*xually assaulted MEher. Meher and Sarab are shocked.
Update Credit to: Atiba
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why was karan without a nappy and unattended and more over papers were left there on purpose to be washed off their sins and mehar have deleted Roby s proof ? what a wicked couple .now assumed it karan does not want leave them . what will karan learn from this so called ideal couple when he grows up ?
they are not wicked. Like any pafent they are desperate to keep their child. Wicked is manav who manipulates seema for his own ends. I dont feel sarab is doing wrong in helping meher to keep her child. Any husband who loved his wife would. Also sarab himself has accepted karan as his own and grown to love him. I feel manav approached the whole thing selfishly. First it was all about getting meher back and when that failed now its all about getting karan back. No offence to anyone each of us is entitled to our view which i believe is to an extent influenced by our own experiences in life
True manmeet ..very true..manav is so selfish..
Agreed with you in all you said manmeet. Besides I was hoping Manav would thank Sarab for saving his child and for giving him a home. But that is to much to expect from Manav. He rather sees Sarab as treat, if it wasn’t for sarab there is no Karan. Now he come with double identity which backfires on him.
Yeah Shaheera, Mehrab assumed that Karan does not want to leave them. Susu ke dum par😂?
😂😂 so accurate
The whole show was based on Kismat like things….Clearly unpredictable….Waiting for the track’s end….
There is one weird thing🤔. It is clear Sarab is a good men but like…Meher shocks him everyday with one secret after another that is gonna destroy his family & he accepts the news within seconds…I mean even the greatest man will be upset 🤨 & will require time to process…He know she won’t hurt on purpose but still being human getting angry & hurt upon upsetting news is natural. It is almost like saying or doing actions not in favour of meher is sacrilege lmao…in fear she will leave if he don’t agree with her…desperate to keep her anyhow😑. If tomorrow she say to have murdered X person it won’t be surprising he pacify her & help cover the murder 👀. Normal couple support each other🙆🙆♀️…however also point each other flaws🙅🙅♀️. Idk the way of over idolising & calling each other God 24hrs is creepy not healthy.
Ps: Before i get attacked…i am not looking for conflict only write down my perspective coz no one mentioned this angle 😌 Not forcing anyone to agree or read my comment…please feel free to scroll down if u don’t like🤗
This is what I always felt, he is so desperate for her that he doesn’t want to upset her at all. No matter what ever she says he always nod his head in agreement. HE very well knows what he is doing with Manav is wrong but in order to satisfy his wife, he is ready to keep Manav away from Karan.It would not be shocking if tomorrow he agrees to go ahead with the lawyer’s plan. But it seems like Sarab himself want to lose the case if not he will not hire such incompetent lawyer. How is this lawyer even gonna build the argument on s*xual assault. This is a child custody case, no rapist would want the child born out of such act.
Bani now you mention about it, i also thought how can sarab be okay will all this. Like even mahan people have their limits but whatever meher give he just digest without any fuss.
All of us thought sarab is gonna be the one who will bring peace between manav and meher and suggest shared custody but so far he is the one who is getting more aggressive than meher in isolating karan.
Haha, aisa to hamesha hi feel hota hai. Sarab ko pata hai meher chali gayi to ab is age main third wife mulna mushkil hai
Thats why mehar keeps telling that sarab is one of a kind..and there are no new crimes that mehar is revealing daily..it is all related to her child about whom she told him on the wedding night itself..and the same thing she tried talking to him before the wedding also..feeling bad for one character doent mean other characters are all wrong..i personally feel manav is the one who is being selfish about not letting karan stay with mehar..he himself being an orphan wants his son to grow up without a mother..and please sarab is not supporting mehar with fear of losing her..any loving husband wouldnt wish to lose their wife..and i dont know how sarab is wrong in wanting karan to stay with his mother..sarab as a single father has seen how difficult it is to raise a kid alone inspite of having a home with his sister and maids to help..still param needed a mother..sarab accepted karan as his son long back during mehars pregnancy and from that day onwards always tried to secure karans life..who names half the property in the will to someone elses kid?? But sarab did and over the same matter faught with harleen..so today for the better upbringing of karan if he wants karan to stay with mehar whats the big crime in it..it is human nature to wish that ones spouse stays happy especially when she is not wrong..and mehar is not wrong at all in wishing that her child should be with her always..she is the biological mother..she has every right to feel that..infact if she easily gives away her child then it would be wrong..and also atleast mehar and sarab are idolizing each other..but manav is comparring himself to god..by saying ” mujhe ab avtaar lena padega” and that is more creepy..
Yeah he is scared, keeping karan is like insurance meher will stay. He loves karan = meher will love him. In his place i will be desperate too after all shadi danger me hai 🤣🤣🤣. Don’t judge 3rd wife nd bacho ki maa pana kafi mushkil hai. At this age gold digger hi milte hai
There is nothing to judge dear. Sarab ki second wife(meher) ne bhi majboori main hi shadi ki thi.aise main 3rd wife milne ki possibilities bahut kam hai.
Meher is young beautiful educated mannered from well-known family. Her only flow is child out of wedlock. Sarab is much older with a child. The only thing he can offer more than others loving rich husband is giving name to Karan. Without Karan Meher is too good for Sarab.
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He has inferiority complex and addiction to please her. It is similar to kids under peer pressure…these kids bully and misbehave with others to please and impress girls or gang of friends. Same is happening to sarab at middle age…
Eli, 😄 🤣 😂
Really sorry to say this but it is because of such criticisms that in real life people fail or rather are worried to do something good for others..when manav was dead and sarab gave his name to karan it was good deed according to all..but now when suddenly manav came back to life all that sarab has done is because of need to stay married…either you have not seen the show from beginning or has forgotten those episodes..sarab had gotten mehar settled in Serbia with a house car and all her requirements without gaining anything and thought he will tell everyone that mehar is dead..he was arrested for murder charges still he never disclosed that the email was a lie..to protect mehar, her respect in the society and also her unborn child..He did not think that time anyof these so called thoughts ..he hasnt aged in many years since then..only one year more..please simply donot ridicule all the gooddeeds that he has done till date..widower or not aged or not i would say any girl is lucky to get a husband like sarab…
@Eli
No intention of hurting anyone. Just shared my take on situation
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I don’t want to waste time in writing essay to justify my comment. Too long to write and read. So will make it shot. The story and characters are fictional…not attacking real person, widow and older men.
Not everyone will agree to same opinion and it is fine you have your viewpoints and others have theirs 🙂
The show has now taken on a sinister turn. Even Sarab cannot stoop so low as claim that Karan was born out of rape. That is exactly what the lawyer is ‘suggesting’. There is a limit to the extent to which the couple (Sarab and Meher) will go in lying about anything as long as there own selfish ends are met. The sympathy generally is now entirely with Manav as he finds himself on the receiving end of the couples manipulation and lying. The writers have successfully managed to ruin Sarab’s and Meher’s reputation.
The lawyer only suggested it..infact both the lawyers are suggesting their clients to lie..not sure if either of them will choose to lie if any of them does it is wrong from their part..lawyers suggestions are not always followed..long back to get sarab out of jail lawyer had suggested to say in court that mehar had extra marital affair and that she eloped ..but sarab didnot agree to it..I dont think ( infact more so hope ) that neither manav nor sarab agree to their respective lawyers..if they want their childs custody then gain it by the path of truth
By using the path of truth, neither Meher or Manav can achieve their respective goal. The best option was for them to mutually agree to joint custody. But NOW that everything has resulted in a custody case proof and evidence will be required to support their side of story. It will be interesting to see what these parties and how much damage they are willing to do to each other to achieve what they want.
Strange that manav chose to pray to lord krishna to separate karan from sarabjeet..the same lord krishna who is known as nandgopal ..and nand is lord krishnas foster father not the biological father..I dont understand seemas logic also..being a mother she is blessing her son to pretend as someone else ( i know he is not pretending but is actually manav but still according to what seema knows vikram is going to take manavs avatar) and snatch away a baby from a mother..one weird decision that is..and also manav ki yeh dodo identity rakhke khelne se usse ka nuksaan hoga..pehle decide karo kaun banna hain..currently his policy is..mujhe vikram deewan ka naam , uski maa chahiye…saath mein mujhe manav bankar apna beta bhi chahiye..teek hai manav banke bacha leke aayega ( agar mila tho) uske baad kya karega..double role play karega ..ya vikram deewan ban jaayega ya manav hi rahega..manav ko pehle jab yaddash aayi tho ek hi zidd tha ” mujhe meri gobi de parathe chahiye..meri mehar chahiye” tab tho voh yahi soch raha tha ki karan sarab aur mehar ka bacha hai aur usse yeh bhi patha tha ki param se mehar bohot pyaar karthi hain..lekin usse in sab bathon se koi fark nahi padtha tha ..usse bas kaise bhi mehar ko paana tha..anth mein sarab pe goli chalne ke baad usse ehsaas huva ki mehar kithna pyaar karthi hai sarab se..lekin tab tak uske adoptive father ne manav ke rotha aur devdas vala halath dekhkar gunah kar li thi aur phir uss gunah ke guilt mein suicide kar diya..end mein nuksaan kiska huva..manav ka hi huva..abb uska naya zidd hai ” mujhe mera bacha chahiye” naahi usne aage ka kuch socha hai naa peeche ka kuch yaad karna hai usko..jis insaan ne manav ki jaan bachayi uss insaan ne ek aakhri ichha maange the..ki seema ko saara sachayi kabhi patha na chale..lekin manav ke harkathen dekhke lag raha hai ki ab voh seema ko bhi hospital pohuncha dega..jab voh khud samajdaari se aditi aur seema ko bhi shayad samjha saktha tha apni identity ke barein mein tab voh nahi kar raha hai..ab patha nahi pathak ka bomb kab phatne vala hai..aur voh poori tv news mein phatega aur phir seema ko heart attack aajayega aur aditi phirse suicide attempt( kya patha is baar attempt pe hi rukega ya nahi) phir tho manav arram se chein ki saaas le paayega..( i know isse manav fans saare gussa karenge)..lekin mujhe lagtha hai ki agar voh karan ke custody sacche dil se chahtha hai tho usko seema ko bhi apni saara sachayi batha deni chahiye..manav ki kahani tho batha diya..yeh bhi bol detha ki voh manav hain lekin hamesha voh seema ka beta bankar hi rahega..tv news se patha chalne se tho better hi hain..kyonki jab pathak news leak karega tho voh tho yahi karega ki karan vikram ka bacha hain aur phir media valon ko court case ki details mili tho vahan se patha chalega ki bache ka father manav hain phir yeh ki donon ek hi insaan hain..lekin manav ko in sab se kya farak padega..kuch bhi nahi usse bas uska bacha chahiye..aur kuch nahi..ab dekhna hoga ki aakhir karan ki custody kisko milegi..aur us case ke baad kaun kaun zinda rehtha hain..
Sarab and meher has 0% guilt in this mess. Just Manav. He has no respect. Till now, I always wanted them to do a joint custody. But today I realised it’s best if Karan stays with meher and sarab. I don’t deed to go detailing with it, but have to when so many people are unable to understand. Manav has his selfish ways. And a child needs his mother. If Manav took karan, then Aditi and seema will be in shock. Why isn’t Manav using his brain before doing something. Karan is already in a perfect family. Family is not about blood. But love. That’s something nobody understands. Manav is selfish. When sarab said he can visit karan whenever he wants, Manav still would not take it as end of the discussion. He just wants to separate the child from his family, mother especially. He has his selfish needs. Nobody said he has no rights over karan. Why can’t they have a joint custody. Which Manav wouldn’t AGREE with due to his selfishness.
Just because the loyer suggest doesn’t mean they will go with it. They have enough material on manav to win this case if they want. The one he tried to kill Sarab in his own house and they have witness. The other the father who shoot Meher, and sarab took the bullet, the kidnapping and…. and now manav’s doubel the personality. Manav is his worth enemy he will act stupid and lose the chance eventually even vistation rights.
i never used to like sarab in his first show dia or battiest hum because i used to think he have not got spine to stand up to some one or even speak up even he used to walk like a lifeless person but here i started liking him but its gone again sorry .best part of this site is we all can say what we feel about it freely .
Shaheera khan ji sarab is a character in choti sardarni..diya aur bathi had some other character..yeah actor was the same doesnt mean the character is gonna be same ..there are so many actors who play both negative and positive roles..just because one character had a flaw doesnt mean to find same flaws in the next character played by same actor..eg hina khan as akshara in yeh rishta kya kehlatha hain and komolika in kasauti zindagi 2..the characters are totally different..characters are something that a writer decides not the actor..the actor only brings life to the character which is on paper..so doesnt do juatice to a character by comparing it with another character played by same actor..just my personal opinion..
Radhika Purohit I always support your analysis not b-cos of the actors but b-cos of your perfect analysis. As a matured individual my thinking coincides with yours. I don’t know whether you are young or a matured individual like who has seen life. your analysis will be always upto the mark and which is realistic and relatable to real life without any fuss over-” khoon ka rishta !! ” type sentimental ideas. I too want to reply but it is not needed as my perspective also like yours. That too some of the views of our friends here are entirely different here and i have no interest to get the award of ghatia admi criminal minded tags like i got on f.b colors page for expressing some views. so i am quite at peace reading the views which coincide with my views here. Anyway dragging the actors on personal front is according to me wrong. actors play their roles negative or positive based on the role they acceped and as per the script. it is their profession like we have our professions which we decide!! So i am waiting for the end of this track at the earliest. there are many unsolved challenges better than this dragging headless track. In an interview recently Avinesh said the show goes for long time . hopefully not with these type of useless tracks!!
Thank you mehak singh..😊 even i was trying to make the same point that we should not drag actors into this.and .yeah even i feel that the relation based on pure love is more precious..and its not always about khoon ka rishta..its a wonderful bond that they show between param and mehar and also what sarab feels for karan..but the point is that all donot understand this..and hence they bash people stating this..even i love your comments and always 100 percent agree with it
1. Shri Krishna is also known as Nandgopal bcoz his adoptive father was Nand but Lord Krishna is also known as Vasudev bcoz his real father’s name was Vasudev.
2. Those mantras in Manav’s background at that time were amazing👌👌👌👌.
3. Ringing Bells,Blowing wind,Flying leaves? Signal sent by Lord Krishna?😅
4. Seema’s dialogues were awesome.”Krishna, jinhone “nyaay” kiya,”hak” aur sachchaai ki ladaayi ladi, humesha “anyaay” aur “abhiman” ka guroor toda🔥.”
5. “Meher ke bachhe ka baap Vikram Deevan hai😂😂” Even, I also started laughing after watching Pathak’s expressions and laughter😂😂.
6. Manav narrated his story very nicely👌👌. I really enjoyed it.
7. Manav called KK as “apna”. Usey maut mili ‘apno’ ke hathon💔.I still remember, when Manav said “Sasriyakal mummyji”.
8. Manav’s biggest mistake in his life was to love that Meher😔.
9. Meher wants Karan to be a good and “truthful” person like Sarabjeet. Karan will be so lucky to have qualities like Sarabjeet and appearance like Manav.
10. I still remember the blessings of transgenders. “Rang-Roop me bilkul tere jaisa ho, bilkul hero jaisa”😍😍😅😅
Roseji..i guess mehars one of the biggest mistake also was to fall in love with manav …or even bigger one was to trust him enough to give him the rights of a husband…and according to the current turn of events her decision to keep the child was also probably a mistake..because had she aborted the child like what hwr mom said or forced her to then what would manav claim now?? What would he do to disrupt her life?? Na rahega bas aur na bajegi baasuri..BUT SHE AS MOTHER chose to keep the child..it was her decision alone..initially alone later sarab supported her..whatever be the reason manav claims..mehar has more rights over the child..because if it wasnt for her and sarab that child wouldnt have come to this world..
If indeed Meher had done what you have said, it would have been easy for everyone. It was Meher who was adamant to keep the child because he was the symbol of her love. Meher had many months during her pregnancy to take the right decision for all the parties involved. If she had realised that what she had with Manav was “Bachpana”, she could have discontinued the pregnancy. BUT she did not do so, she messed both Karan and Manav’s life. Karan no matter how much she tries will never be a Gill. Similarly, Manav cannot move on with the new identity as Vikram knowing that he is abandoning his own son. If no child was there, Manav would have peacefully lived his new life. At the end, it is Meher due to her own inability to fight with her circumstances has accepted the fate Kulwanth threw at her and she is now trying to make Manav also accept the same.
Ginige zaroori nahi hain har aurat apna pregnancy uske bache ke baapse jo pyaar karthi hain uski vajah se hi continue karein..bohot si auratein hain jo apne boyfriend se dhoka kha ne ke baad bhi apna pregnancy continue karthe hain..voh issiliye kyonki voh bache se pyaar karthi hain bhale uss bache ka baap koi bhi ho..aur rahi baat mehar ki tho ..mehar ne apne pregnancy continue karne ka decision liya tho yeh sach hai ki voh manav se pyaar karthi thi..lekin yeh bhi sach hai ki mehar apne bache ki raksha karna chahthi thi..amrita ne bhi mehar ko support kiya tha ..kyon amrita ka koi lagav nahi tha na manav se?? Aur mehar ko lag raha hoga ab ki jo pyaar uska aur manav ka tha voh bachpana tha..ho saktha hain voh sach bhi ho..lekin usse aur uske pregnancy continue karne mein link nahi hain…yeh nahi bolsakthe ki bachpana tha tho pregnancy ko kyon continue kiya?? Kyonki pregnancy ko continue isliye kiya kyonki uske andhar ek jaan pal raha tha aur voh us jaan ko khatham nahi karna chahthi thi..duniya bhar ke logon ke liye kisi ka bacha tab hi ek jaan lagthi hain jab voh baahar aathi hain..lekin ek maa ke liye voh ek jaan tab banthi hain jabse voh us bache ka ehsaas usmein aathi hain ..poori pregnancy mein ..voh us bache se batein karthi hain sapne dekhthi hain uss bache ke saath khelne ki..similarly bache ka baap bhi pregnancy ke time mein uss bache se baatein kartha hain sapne dekhthe hain..uss bache ke aane ka din ginakar din kaatthe hain..aur yeh saare phases mein mehar aur sarab saath the..apni pregnancy ke kater months mehar ne manav ke bareim mein sochkar nahi kaat rahi thi apne din..voh yeh chahthi thi ki uska bacha sarab pe jaaye..yeh sach hain ki mehar ku preganancy ke shuruvat mein voh manav se pyaar karthi thi..lekin uske baad tho voh sirf apne bache se pyaar karthi thi jaise har maa karthi hain ..zaroori nahi hain agar ek mod pe usse laga jo manav ke saath mera pyaar tha voh ek bachpana tha..tho turant jaake abort karo bache ko..aisa nahi hotha hain ek maa ka decisions..haan aur yeh bhi sahi hain karan ka existance mehar aur manav ki vajah se tha..aur sarab ne sirf voh existed karan ko bachaya hain…lekin aap yeh bathayiye ki agar sarab bachatha nahi karan ko tho uske existance ka kya fayda hotha?? Duniya mein aane se pehle khatham ho jaatha..manav ko dekhne ko bhi nahi miltha..custody tho door ki baat hothi..meine pehle bhi comment kiya tha ab bhi kar rahi hoon..rishte dil se banthe hain..aur un rishton ka mol heere se bhi badkar hothi hain..aur bohot pyaar aur takath hothi hain uss rishtein mein
You said it right Radhika that a mother carries a life within her. That is exactly why she needs to be so sure and clear about things. Here her childishness has resulted in others paying a price for it. She thought that once Sarab gives Karan his name he would become Sarab’s kid and she could hide it from the entire world that he is Manav’s son. She felt that she has the right to decide who becomes Karan’s father. Karan separate life and has his own wishes how can she think that Karan would not want his own father. Also, Karan is not going to remain as kid for life he is going to grow up and he will himself discover the truth. On that day what will Meher tell her kid? Will she tell just like the lawyer suggested that her bio-father s*xualy assaulted her/ cheated her or she will tell him that his bio-father is dead so I married Sarabjeet. But nothing that she tells the kid will make him happy and he will on his own find the truth and the day he gets to know what really happened to his father, he will hate his mother.
She never told Manav about the child and gave the excuse, she did it because he had a new life. How can she think like that even. Every human being has the right to know about their child and did she even think what will happen if the child grows up to look like Manav. People will make such stories and make Karan’s life hell. If they had not pretended and presented the child as Sarab’s bio-kid his appearance would not matter. As they could say he looks like Manav. This is what I have been trying to say. I know no mother would abort her kid.
In fact not only Karan and Manav, now even Sarab’s reputation is at stake.
Karan’s existence is due to both Meher and Manav, not just one. Hence, for Sarab to even save Karan, first he should exist.
Liked your comment rose.
Meher is just too much. Aisi palti maari hai usne ki kk ko bhi peeche chod diya. 8-10 months ke gap main do baar saccha pyar ho gaya. Janmo janmo ka
8 to 10 months mein ek hibaar huva hai..manav se pyaar usse bhi pehle huva tha…manav ke death ke baad almost ek saal laga mehar ko dobara pyaar hone ke liye…
Sis radhika, 1year anniversary to abhi manayi to pyar kab hua tha. Ki jis din pyar hua usi din izhaar kar liya. 8-10 months se mera matlab tha ki 8-10 months ke gap main dusre insaan se pyar ho gaya.
Ek aur baat jo aap hamesha bolte ho ki sarab aisa aur waisa to dear sarab ne karan ko pyar aur naam diya hain na to meher bhi param ko utna hi pyar deti hai balki karan se zyada to sarab ne kaunsa ehsaan kar diya.
Ek baat aur radhika, kaun sa mahaan insaan apne 6-7saal ke bacche ke liye, college main padhne waali immature ladki laata hai.
Sarab ne anniversary party main kaha tha ki use meher se pehli nazar main pyar ho gaya tha, to koi bataye ki pehli nazar main kaisa pyar hota hai. Woh bhi college main padhne wali immature bacchi se.
It was Harleen who went to Meyer’s home for the rishta. She wanted a posh-educated ladki for her brother and Param.
Rahi baat Sarab ki, he fell in love with Meher at first sight, Meher aur Param ki bonding ko dekh kr naki uss reason se jo aap bolna chah rahi ho. Gurudware mein like the way she took care of Param, taught him how to serve langar (food) to the sangat (devotees), he fell in love..As simple as that he fell in love with her charisma, he found a person he can trust upon concerning Param.
Kamaal hai sonam ji..ab mehar bachi hogayi..immature hogayi..aur mehar ne khud apne ek saal purane actions ko bachpana kaha voh tho murder se bhi bada crine bolkar usse daant rahe the sab..haan voh ek college mein padnewali ladki thi graduate bhi nahi huyi thi..phir bhi mujhe lagtha hain 20 years ke oopar hoga uska age..usse kam nahi..aur aap keh rahe ho ki param aur mehar ke age difference aur sarab aur mehar ke age difference ek barabar hain?? Yeh kaunsa mathematics hain ji??maanthi hoon sarab aur mehar mein age difference hain aur thoda zyada bhi hain..lekin please 5 saal ke beta ka baap koi budda nahi hotha hain..jo maa beta jithna umar ka difference aaye..aur sarab ne mehar ko param ke kyal rakhne ke liye shadi kiya tho voh galat..aur manav ne bina kanoonan shadi kiye us bachi mehar ko pregnant kiya tho voh punyaprapth karnewala karya hain according to manav fans..and also mehar se sarabjeet ne shadi ke engagement se pehle saaf saaf poocha tha ki kya voh iss rishte ke liye poore man se haan kiya hain ya nahi..aur yeh bhi kaha tha ki agar voh na bolegi tho yeh shadi nahi hogi..and finally agar ladki ko apne pathi ke age se koi problem nahi tho logon ko kyon chid chid ho rahi hain..kyonki voh log ab khush hain apne life mein?? Ya phir isliye kyonki unke bache unke saath behadh khush hain?? Aur sarab ne jo karan ke liye kiya voh isiliye mahan hain kyonki asli mein dekha jaaye tho sarab ko dhoka diya tha iss shadi mein..agar shadi se pehle sarab ko yeh baat patha hotha aur usne shaadi ki hothi tho teek hai maan sakthe hain ki usne bhi vohi kiya jo mehar ne kiya ( chota difference hain lekin voh ignore kar sakthe hain) ..lekin yahan pe shaadi ke raat usse patha chal raha hai uski biwi kisi aur ka bacha apne kok mein lekar aayi hain aur voh ghar chodkar jaanewali hain. Tho kya beeth tha hai uss insaan par?? Ithna bada dhoka huva..chahthe tho voh ussi din mehar ko beizzat karke apna izzat bachakar reh saktha tha..lekin nahi kiya usne aisa…ulta sarabjeet ne khud mehar ko kahin aur settle karne ka promise kiya..voh tho mehar ki kismat achi thi aur sarab ki bhi un donon mein pyaar huva aur voh donon aaj saath hain..and lastly..sarab ne pehle nazar mein kya dekha voh agar aap voh episode dekhenge tho samaj aayega..sarab ko pehle nazar mein mehar ke gunn aur param ke prathi pyaar dekhkar usse pyaar huva..lekin mujhe lagtha hain ki sarab mehar param aur karan ka pyaar aap ke samaj se bahar hain..kyonki aapko sirf manav ka pyaar pyaar hain..baaki logon mein bas kamiyan aur galtjiyan hu dikhayi dethi hain aapko..kabhi bolthe hain kisi aur ke bache ko apna bacha kehna galat hain ..aur kabhi second marriages ke barein mein kuch bolthe hain..btw widowers ko bhi phirse shaadi karke apne ghar phirse bhasaane ki right hain..aur voh kisse shaadi karein voh unka aur us ladki ka faisla hain ..uthna basic right sabko hain..
And Yayyy! Dear You finally accepted that Sarab loves Karan !😊 when you said “sarab ka pyaar ehsaan nhi” Indeed. “Pyaar” kbhi ehsaan nhi hota and hope you realised it now.
So abse never compare Sarab’s love for Karan with Manav’s love for Karan.❤️
Dear Sonam, Sarab went against his sister to save Karan. Sarab gave Karan not only love but also named half of his property on the latter’s name…
Also you cannot compare love, ki sarab itna pyaar krta hai aur meher itna..
Sabse badi baat sarab ne Karan ko “najayaz” kehlaane se bachaya. Sarab ne Karan ko apna naam diya, ye kisi ehsaan se kam nhi hai.. Karan is fine and Safe today and that is only because of Sarab.
Shruti, jab meher ka param ke liye pyar ehsaan nahi hai to sarab ka karan ke liye pyar ehsaan kaisa. Agar aap kisi bacche ko legally apna naam dete ho to aap ki khaandaani property par bacche ka adhikar apne aap ho jata hai.
Jitna age difference param meher main hoga almost utna hi sarab aur meher main. Aise main ek bacchi ko apni wife aur bacche ki maa bana kar lana kya sahi hai? Last main wahi baat hai ki sabka apna thought process hai. sarab agar apne bacche ke liye ek bacchi se shaadi kar le to sahi hai but maanav agar apne bacche par haq maange ti galat?
Shruti, koi ladki bacche ko pyar se sambhal rahi hai to, Iska matlab yeh nahi hai ki sab 6-7saal ke bacche ki mummy ban na chahengi.
Shaadi ka rishta koi bhi leke gaya ho par shaadi to sarab ne hi ki na. Us devta swaroop insaan ne yeh nahi socha ki meher mujhe shaadi kyun karna chahegi?
Sonam shayad aapne vo episodes dekhe nhi. When sarab was getting married to Meher, he asked her a 100 times “are you happy are you happy with this marrige?” Lekin uss time meher roti rahi aur kuchh boli nahi kyunki she was traumatised due to kulwant’s threat.
I seriously think you missed those episodes!
Haha shruti, maine kabhi kaha hi nahi ki sarab karan se pyar nahi karta.
Radhika, meher ko bacchi aur immature sarcasm main kaha tha.
Whilst it was rather selfish and wrong for Manav to pursue Meher earlier, once he realised he is the same Manav, he has now accepted that led to nowhere and has come to a dead end. However, once he realised Karan is their child, and that child is now growing up with another man, Manav does have every moral and legal right to get some sort of custody rights, which is only natural. It is a shame both sides have nor discussed joint custody rights, which would be fair. Sarab, on his part, and to his dis-credit, is still refusing to accept that Manav does have custody rights, and suggesting that these be limited to just ‘access to the Gill House just to play with the child’ is rather insulting. Sarab should realise that he cannot have the same rights as the biological father, despite everything he has done for the child. No doubt a neutral court will look at Manav’s situation with sympathy. In any one has been wronged, it is him.
Shruti, actually maine show shuru se nahi dekha on off dekha hai, meri mummy dekhti thi isiliye.
And tbh i personally believe ki sarab ek accha insaan hai but dear aap hi socho ki arranged marriage setup main kaun si college girl ek aged 6-7 saal ke bacche ke father se shaadi karna chahegi. Sarab ko to yeh baat poochne ki bi zaroorat nahi thi. Kisi bhi insaan jisme thoda sa bhi common sense ho khud hi samajh jayega
Zaroori nahi hain sonamji..voh uss ladki pe depend kartha hain..haan agar divorcee hain tho problem zyada hothi hain..lekin sarab tho widower hain..eise ladkiyaan hothe hain jo ready hothi hain shaadi ke liye..aur haan kyonki shaayad aapne start se show nahi dekha hai isilye aap sarab ko aur uski shaadi ke baarein mein aise comment kar rahe honge..aapko agar time mile tho aap voot par poora serial ek baar dekh lijiye..phir dekhna aapko bho lagega ki sarab ke jo thareef mehar karthi hain..voh uska hakdaar hain..
Radhika, sure dear but meher ke liye meri rai nahi badlegi. Haan sarab accha hai par use khud ka dimag bhi use karna chahiye na ki bas meher ji meher ji karna chahiye.
I know how to solve case fairly: judge decide karte he ki meher/sarab aur manav tino hi unfit hai Karan ko paal ne ki liye. Meher ki maa killer hai…Gill house mein attack hoti rehti hai aur unke bacho hamesha kidnap ho jati hai. And manav ki identity abhitak clear nahi hai. So karan go to nice foster family. Karan jab bara ho jata hai to MMS (manav meher sarab 🤣🤣🤣) usko lene atyhe…tab Karan meri favourite dialogue bolti hai “ khun ka rishta sabkuch nahi hai, forester parents hi meri asli maa baap hai”.
Problem solved, Equality to parents, Gill reputation saved, Harleen Aditi Seema kulwant happy , Happy Ending!!!
Here is my suggestion! Karan is not even karan becouse he was exchanged at the hospital when Aditi’s driver/ servant stole him. Problem solved. no more obsessed Manav and he can leave the show for surching karan. And Sarab and Meher can live their life with their kids. Basta!!
If there was an exchange, then from the DNA test, it will not be proved that Karan is Manav’s son . Then Sarab and Manav will say that who is the third man in Meher’s life?😂😂😂😂😂😂bcos they don’t know that Karan was exchanged.
Not bad, if i may add more insanity to it…next param ki dead mother grave se bahar ati hai and param ki custody mangti hai otherwise she will haunt Gill house for next 100 years! After param ki dna test ye prove ho jati ki woh sarab ki beta nahi but neighbour ki ladki hai…jo birth par exchange hogaya tha🙀. Manav search for his karan..Sarab search for param…Meher search for her yuvi who is not real yuvi but an alien. Searching for kids they fall of cliff aur reincarnate as turtle . Kulawnt Gill house to take over karti hai…throw Harleen in durstbin and become queen or Punjab…Modiji kulwant ko propose karti hai, which she accepts. They celebrate honey moon in mars 🤩.
We are genius ayani let’s go see writers, you nd me can write next script 🤣🤣🤣
The best part…Modiji Kulwant ko propose karte hain😂😂😂😂😂
Radhika and Mehek, I echo your comments and analysis. Love is acceptance, love is belongingness, love is that you feel from the bottom of your heart and find inner peace. Love is not about blood relationships. Many families living under one roof and share blood relationships and those are blo*dy relationships. Meher Sarab sharing a bond of respect and care for each other. Meher Sarab paid a big price to reach where their relationship is at present. It is time for them to enjoy family life with kids. Meher Sarab took their time to fall in love. Living under one roof by respecting each other’s boundaries both of them developed feelings for each other, then they started thinking about each other and their actions for each other made them fall in love. Harleen still not accepted Karan, Robby continuing his destructive behaviour without any consequences. KK is KK, I do not even understand why is she there, perhaps, this is how some Punjabi families function and remain cunning throughout life. There is nothing about judging the character of Meher Sarab, they are actors by profession and they are doing their job.
Yes baci..and i just hope that it will be proven in front of all that true love is what will win the ultimate battle..a love which started without any obligation..love which bloomed from the depths of their heart..a love that exists between a mother and a son whom she did not give birth to and the love that a father has for his son who is not biologically related to him..even their theme song says that..”rishten dilon ne jo he banaya khoon se voh badke”..and manav pahle apne jo naye rishten banaye hain usse pehle sambhalen..har vaqt apne bimaar maa ko tension detha rehtha hain..biwi ko pareshan kartha rehtha hain ,usse dukhi kartha rehtha hain aur usse karan bhi chahiye..hopefully as the days goes ahead and with case proceedings manav realise the purity of the relationship that sarab has with karan and mehars importance in karans life..
yeha ek ko galat kahana aur dusare ko sahi kahana bahut galat hoga. agar logical dekha jaye to mehar manav ki first wife hai aur uska bacha ligal hai.aap sure ke episode dekhege to usme dikhaya hai ki Manav ne mehar se sadi ki thi . yesterday episode me jo lord Krishna ke baare me dikhaya o bhi right dikhaya. Ye sach hai ki krishana maa yashoda ke bete ke naam se jaane jate hai lekin ek time le baad unhe bhi upne biological parents ke pass jana para tha.aur yashoda aur nanad baba ne kushi Khushi jane diya tha.aap kisi se us ki puri duniya cheen kar use sirf khush rahne ke liye nahi kah sakate.mai sarabjit ke emotions ko samajhati hu .lekin ye sirf emotions se right faisala nahi hoga.yeha sarab galat hai .o manav ki majburi ka fayada utha raha hai.kaya sirf manav hi sab ko kush rakhane ke liye apna love ,apni wife ,apna bacha, apni pahachan sab chor de.aap us ki jagah hote to kesa lagata lagata aap ka dam gut raha hai.us ki halat ko samajhiye use koi kushi nahi hai apni identiy chupane ki o agar bachan se bandha nahi hota aur usne apne bache ke liye haat pair sab jode sarab aur mehar ke samane ye bhi kaha ki bache ka equally right hai dono ka par Meher ye nahi chahati thi use to sirf sarab hi dekhai deta hai manav nahi aur bhut vachan dene baali banati hai na ek. Bhi vachan nahi nibhaya mehar ne.sarab ke jaan ke liye kaise bhikh maag rahi thi tab manav ne koi vachan nahi manga tha o thi jise khud vachan diya tha manav ne kaha bhi tha ki o use kaya degi use dene ke liye us pass kuch nahi hai.phir bhi us ne vachan diya log ek baar vachan de to piche ne mudarte hai lekin sarab aur Meher dono hi apne apne vachan se mukar gaye .to aap se kaya umid kar sakate hai .manav ka pura right hai bache par. Mai to ye hi chahugi me lead ko right dekhane ke liye menav ko negative na banaye nahi to o hi gisi piti story ho jayegi ki lead chahe jo kare jo kahe o hi right hai baki duniya galat hai.yeha logical cheej hi dekhaye ki Manav ko us ka bacha mil jaye aur duniya ke liye bacha sarab ke naam se bhi janajaye ye hi right hoga .rahi baat mehar ki to us ke baare me itana hi kahugi ki logical tarike se sarab ke sath us ki sadi inligal hai aur aditi ki Manav ke satha kyoki us time manav na apni pahachan janta tha na hi ye ki o shadi suda hai.yeha mehar galat thi jab manav baar baar Manav ke baare me puchane ya janane ki koshish kar raha tha tab hi mehar ko jaan jana chahiye tha ya pata lagana chahiye tha lekin us ne jaruri nahi samajha .kiyoki ab us ka payar sarab jo ho gaya aur jab manav ki yadashat wapas aayi to bhi usne use us ke bache ke baare me nahi bataya aur jab manab ko pata chala to bhi usne chupane ki koshish ki.kaya manav ko janane ka haq nahi tha. Isliye mera vote manav ko jata hai.
Khushboo, bilkul sahi kaha aapne. Meher bas bolna janti hai,nibhana uske bas ki baat nahi. Aur maanav bechaara kya bas dusron ke baare main hi sochta rahe bas, apne khud ke kuch emotions nahi hai uske paas.
Khusboo ji manav ne jo mehar ke saath kiya voh shadi nahi thi..shaadi ek rasam hothi hai..uskibek pavitratha hain..aag ke 7 chakkar lagane se shaadi nahi hothi..agar aisa hotha log kyon apna time aur paisa kharch karke mohurat nikalkar pandit ko bulakar shaadi karthe hain?? Kithna easy hain aangan campfire lagado aur phir uske 7 chakkar lelo..hogayi shaadi..lekin sach yeh hai ki aisa nahi hotha..na legally aur nahi religiously..kyonki religion ke hisaab se bhi jab vadhu aur var phere lethe hain tho pandit mantr padke vachan bolthe huye hothe hain..aur aise hothe hain shaadi hai..aur aise reet aur riwaaz se ki huyi shaadi bhi bad mein legally valid hone ke liye register karna padtha hain..jo sarab aur mehar ne kiya..agar manav uss shadi ko ithna maantha tha yho phir apne biwi ko vaapas maike kyon bheja?? Kyon nahi leke gaya apne saath yeh bolke ki yeh meri biwi hain?? Kyon marriage registration nahi kiya?? Aur koi witness tha unke shaadi ka?? In sab ke bavajood bhi aapko lag raha hai ki manav aur mehar ki legal shadi huyi thi??
Mana ki ye sadi samaj ke samane nahi hui thi .lekin is ka matalab ye ligal na ho aisa bhi nahi hai .hamara religin me bhi gandharv vivah ka ulekh hai jise valid Mana gaya hai aur us me koi pandit nahi hota sirf two log hote hai jo apne man aur atma se ek dusare ko vachan dete hai .ye par manav aur manav ne to pure dil se vachan diya tha .manav ne koi jabardasti nahi ki thi.rahi baat serial ki to isme aise kitane example mil jayege agar hero ne heroin ko mandir me ke sath bina kisi ko bataye sirf sindur daal de to sadi ho jati hai heroin pati varta baan jati hai aur dusre ke sath chahe samaj ke same hi sadi kiyo na ho agar payaar nahi karti logic lag jata hai ki jab payaar hi nahi to sadi kaisa aur bechare dusare carecter ko negative bana dete hai apne logic ko sahi karane ka liye.rahi baat riti rewAj ka to manav ne kabhi mehar ko samaj ke samane apnane se mana nahi kiya tha.o to gaya hi tha us ki maa se haat magane aur us ki maa ne use jaan se nahi mara hota to aisa nahi hota.khair yeha bache ki baat ho rahi hai to manav aur mehar uske maa baap hai .aur aap ka court bhi kahata hai ki ek bache ke liye maa baap ko ek hona chahiye aur phir yeha to dono hi husband aur wife hai.bhale hi aaj mehar sarab se payaar karati hai aur us ke dil ne use apna maan liya hai.lekin iska faisla manav aur mehar karege sarab nahi.aur koi bhi bacha apne maa baap ko ek sath chahega.na ki kisi aur ko.agar manav mehar ko pregnant kar chor deta to o galat hota lekin usne aisa nahi kiya tha balaki jab use pata chala tha to usne mehar ko apnane ki koshis ki thi.gaya tha. Hath magane.mai ye nahi kahati ki Manav ke death’ ke vaad mehar ne bache ko bachane ke liye sarab se sadi ka faisala kiya o galat tha .lekin sadi ke 1 year baad bhi usne manav ko insaf dilane ki koshish nahi ki na hi jab manav ki yadashat wapas aaya to sarab ko batane ki koshish balaki jab use laga ki kahi manav sarab sach na bata de aur us ki sadi na tut jaye tab bataya. Sab bol rahe hai ki sarab ne bache ko baap ban kar use bachaya mehar ne dukh jhel kar use is duniya me laya .to kaya manav ko moka diya kisi ne na mehar ne ,na us ki maa ne ,na sarab ne.kisi ne moka hi nahi diya bas sabne apne apne rishate us par thop diya aur emotional blackmail kiya aur uske aage jhut ka aisa maya jaal bin diya ki o bechara chah kar bhi jitani koshish kare nikal nahi sakat.kiyo ki sarab janTa hai ki Manav apni pachan sabit nahi kar sakata kyo ki uske maa baap ye koi apna relativ nahi hai.agar sabit kar sakata hai to sirf us ka bacha hai.agar sarab ki jagah manav hota aur manav ki jagah sarab hota to tabh aap sabhi yehi kahate ki sarab galat hai .nahi kyoki o hero jo hai.to o to sahi hi hota aur writer bhi aisi kahani banate ki Manav ko negative bana dete taki sarab ko justify kar sake. Real life me aisa nahi hota hai.ek bache par maa baap ka equally right hota hai chahe maa baap alag hi kyo na ho.chahe pati patni duri sadi hi kyo na kar li ho ek pita upne bache ka equally kharch uthata hai aur equally right bhi hota hai aur o apne bache ko barabar apne pass rakh sakate hai.jab tak bacha 18 ka nahi ho jaye.
Well said, khusboo.
Well said, khushboo.
Khushboo ji gandharv vivah ho ya kuch bhi ho shaadi legal hothi tab hain jab usse legally marriage registrar ke saamne register karthe hain…sarab aur mehar ne saare reeth aur riwaz se shaadi ki lekin agar aapko yaad hai initial episode mein ek baar sarab boltha hai ki visa ke formalities mein husband aur wife hain iske proof ke liye shaadi register karni hain..mera matlab hain jab reeti riwaz aur witnesses ( poore samaj) ke saamne ki huyi shaadi ko bhi valid samajne ke liye marriage registration compulsory hain tho aap bol rahe hain ki manav mehar ki shaadi legal hain..aap bol sakthe hain ki manav aur mehar usse maanthe hain ..lekin please legal word use math kijiye..kyonki voh kanoon ke anusar valid nahi hain ji..aur aap serial mein huyi shaadi ki baat kar rahe hain..vahi pe uss shaadi ke baad pathni kahan rehthi hain?? Pathi ke saath..aur us rasam ke baad voh apne maang mein sindhur barke gale mein mangalsoothra pehne apne pathi ke saath rehthi hain..tho agar samaj ne shaadi nahi dekha..lekin shadi ke baad suhagan ka nishaan aur pathi aur pathni saaath mein hi hothe hain..lekin uss shadi ko bhi agar register na karein tho usse legal nahi maana jaatha hain..bhale hi samaj apna bhi le phir bhi legal nahi hoga..yahan pe mehar manav ki shaadi na samaj ke samne koi vajood tha na law ke saamne..voh tho bas do premiyon ka ek doosre ko diya huva vada tha..shaadi nahi..qnd even out of the story har shaadi jo kahin pe bhi ho raha ho usse register karna zaroori hain..voh iss desh ka law hain …serial ka nahin
well said Khushboo
I give up on this Serial… did the writers forget it’s called Choti Sardarni? This Manav drama is going on for too long now, he’s an obsessive loser, when Meher said is was over he kept forcing the issue he’s doing the same with Karan, he doesn’t care that he’s going to wreck 2 families to satiate his ego. I hope when Aditi knows the truth she sides with her biological family and not that fraud, I hope she understands her Vikram is dead and this one is a cheap imitation and that Manav gets arrested for imitating a CBI officer. If the makers don’t remove him from the force over his farce then it’s just a mockery of the justice system and whatever reputation the actual Vikram built. Harleen is going to crap bricks when she finds out the truth