Choti Sardarni 25th June 2021 Written Episode Update

@Radhika, these are the reasons why I’m not happy with Mehrab:

1. They always procrastinate when they are in a situation where they need to tell the truth. We have seen this in many episodes.
2. They often use their surroundings as an excuse for delaying the truth. And we as the audience have clearly seen multiple times their silence putting them in hot soup. And when they delay something, the villain start taking advantage of their situation.
3. Being parents, you would definitely need to give your child some space to calm and reflect before doing a further investigation. But i didnt see that in Mehrab today. What I saw was, first, they kind of ‘ignored’ karan’s behaviour believing he will be fine later. Did that work? NO!
4. Instead of getting to the root of karan’s sudden misbehaviour which has been prolonged from day till night, they started narrating a story to him! Why did they do that? Because Sarab had a suspicion that someone had told karan the truth. But Meher was in denial, i guess. Unknowingly, they had created a messy situation.
5. And wouldnt karan’s behaviour, avoiding eye contact and conversation with Sarab, ONLY SARAB be the dots? Wouldnt tearing the suit given by his dad, and requesting to the one that only meher has bought be a dot? Wouldnt choosing to be in different clothes like an outside be a dot? Wouldnt throwing away the toys that were bought by the papa a dot? Wouldnt refusing to swing his sister even after the papa and mama’s request be dot? Wouldn’t chasing his papa away from the bedroom be a dot? Sarab already had the suspicion, then why are you saying there are no dots for him to connect? Trust me, he will connect the dots tomorow!
6. Nope, I didn’t miss the scene but probably because I watched CS without subtitles, I don’t understand hindi. For me, Sarab and Meher are always shown as the perfect parents. Why in petty situations they are not able to think on their feet. If one child is throwing tantrum, and has clearly said that he only wants his mama, and not his papa or even his brother, Meher could have done her duty by explaining to karan why she needs to be with param and not him as she has promised. She could have also given him an option of letting param to sleep with them. This is what I call a wise decision from parents no matter what situation they are in. Because both are their children and equally needs care. All that was shown was helpless parents listening to the tantrum and looking at each other. If they have done that in the first place, the taiji would not have got her chance to witness karan throwing tantrums and scold him. And while Sarab could protect his son, Meher was only shown submissive as usual.

Anyway, these are how I see things. Probably it doesn’t get along with your point of view or even others. That’s fine. When I read your reviews and the others’ I always try to reflect if I was right in my perspective. And yeah, I definitely understand Mehrab’s situation, but procrastinating in the confession of truth has never in favor of them. And they know it. They put themselves in a deeper problem.

@Radhika, my style in dealing with problems is, you don’t wait for the opportunity you create the opportunity! And if you read my reviews carefully, I did not emphasise on the way they convey the truth to karan, instead the timing of their conversation! Without knowing what is causing the tears and emotional turbulence in their son, they were creating a deeper mess with their story! I’m saying this because Sarab already had the suspicion. And weird thing is how did they not realise karan scribbling sarab’s face?! When they entered the room karan was scribbling the family photo and threw it away. Such obvious evidence in front of the eyes, but the parents were less responsive. Why? Because they were more concerned about telling the truth rather than calming and settling the emotionally disturbed child first. I know it is important for them to tell the truth before someonle else does. But for me, it was not the right time to tell when the child is emotionally unstable. Of course I liked the way the makers made use of the chess-pieces to explain to a 5 year old. But in that emotional situation, the child would only get agitated more.

@Radhika
Procrastination – for not finding the opportunity to tell karan when they had the chance to tell him. They were more affected by the drama that taiji was making during the function. They could find the opportunity when Karan was alone in the room before dressing up. But they wanted to give him time to calm down thinking everything will be OK with Karan. Recalling the episode the day before, when karan came back home he wanted to ask sarab and meher stg. But meher and Sarab got distracted over the drama that taiji was making over almost getting hurt by the maid who collided with her. They clearly had their chance after that. But they didn’t make use of it.

2. Timing – meher told sarab not to tell Karan yet because of his terrible mood when she was going to take a suit fr Karan to wear. But the same meher also told Karan the truth when he was still in a terrible mood at night. Why at that time they could do it but not during their first attempt? Isn’t their first reaction is to find out karan’s problem and calm him down with happy stuff? Like how they always cheer param with stg fun when he’s down? But nope! Like I said they were more concerned on revealing the truth so that nobody else other than them could reveal it.

And sorry to say this, sarab-meher are probably the perfect couple, but they have yet to earn the title of perfect parents. Yesterday’s episode was a perfect example. They couldn’t handle the tantrum as well as the continuous taunt of taiji towards Karan. I’m sure they will pass through this hurdle soon. And through their journey, we or probably just me, gonna spot their uniqueness as well as flaws of being parents. So no matter how much you try to defend their actions, I would not be able to accept it, of course I accept your review but not the characters’ actions. Because the flaws are obvious to me. So I will continue to comprehend it the way I look at it. After all, they are just fictional characters that we love and adore. Doesn’t mean that if I have given a bad review on their parenting skill I don’t like them. Just neutral. I accept both their uniqueness and flaws. I hope this exchange of reviews end with a good note buddy! 😘

And once again making it clear that there were mistakes and flaws but still there was no way they could prevent what happened with karan… seriously no way… and when they really had no way to prevent it why to simply blame them…and therefore I justified their actions… because they do what you said or they do what they did the end result would be the same 🤷‍♀️

😍😍🥰🥰🥰 💕 if that doesn’t melt your heart, I don’t know what will!!!

@charl, you’re absolutely right,in no another itv show has couple such wonderful and unique bond like mehrab, SabHer have. Kulwant kaur needs a therapy, and a life partner.