Imlie 10th May 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Aditya returns home and asks family if they want to talk to him. Pankaj asks if he went to meet Imlie. Adi says he goes to a lot of places whole day. Pankaj insists. Adi agrees. Tauji asks if he went to meet Imlie o Malini’s insistence. Adi asks why would Malini do that. Aparna says that means Nishant’s doubt is right. Adi asks what is wrong in it. Nishant says Malini like to Anu that she came home by bus, but truth is Adi dropped her outside house; Anu came here and created such a big drama that he cannot even imagine. Adi asks if Anu told something to Imlie, if she is fine. Taiji says she cannot believe this boy is still worried for Imlie not bothering about others. Aparna says she doesn’t know what happened to him, they all want him to reconcile with Malini and take her for honeymoon, but he is still not paying attention towards his wife; when they cannot sleep on same bed living in same room, how can they expect the problem to solve. Adi asks if he Malini informed this. Taiji says Malini is still covering his mistakes. Adi says when there is a problem between 2 persons, its not necessarily either one person’s mistake or even without both’s mistake, problem can arise and he is trying to solve his problem, even then they are shamelessly barging into his room and entered his personal life. Aparna warns to shut up, Sundar found extra mattress and pillow in his room, he has betrayed them instead and should answer. He asks what answer. Pankaj asks why did he go to meet Imlie even after so much happened. Nishant asks if its just his concern or her or something more to it. Adi says he couldn’t do what he had to, they didn’t see how Imlie’s mother meets him and thanks him for his help; a lonely mother brought up her daughter and sent her with him trusting him; his family instead sent Imlie to ruthless Anu’s house even after knowing how Anu would behave with Imlie; he went to Imlie’s college to know her condition as its his responsibility; when its a question of him and Malini, thinks now both him and Malini have secret and hence he need not worry. Aparna asks what. He walks away saying they both will find out the solution themselves. Aparna tells Pankaj that she is worried that they will find a solution which we all don’t want to.
Adi walks to Malini and asks why did she lie everyone that he went to meet Imlie on her request. She asks if she made a mistake. He says obviously she made a mistake, he didn’t do anything wrong by dropping Imlie outside Anu’s house. Malini says she didn’t question him yet, but her mother had many questions when she came here and she just calmed her down with this answer. He says he frankly doesn’t mind what her mother thinks about him. She says it affects his family though as both families think they both live like a husband wife. He says he doesn’t care what families think and she should explain her mother not to bother him and do something else instead. She says parents consider children as their top most priority, she can understand her mother’s worries but not his anger; if he is angry on her that she lied to protect him; if he had not gone to meet Imlie secretly and left her outside house without meeting the family, this problem wouldn’t have arisen. He says he is not angry on her and she is overreacting. She says he is overreacting instead and she will not say anything from here on as fears by mistake his and Imlie’s new secret comes out. He says they need to tell 100 lies to hide 1 truth, so she shouldn’t drag Imlie repeatedly in between. She says she didn’t drag Imlie between them.
Next morning, Imlie reaches college of college and thinks Adi is not seen here and good if he stays away from her; reminisces Adi fighting with her and thinks Malini needs Adi the most, so its good if she goes away from them, Adi can pay attention towards Malini then. Aparna, Pankaj, and Nishant walk into Adi and Malini’s remote and asks if they are ready for their honeymoon trip. Malini says she couldn’t get leave from her job, so they will go later. Adi asks Nishant to refund the tickets and don’t plan anything without consulting them. Aparna thinks their last hope also failed. In college, Imlie sees students preparing monetary campaign to help their fellow student who is suffering from leukemia. She asks them to make a receipt even for her and asks what happened to their friend. They say leukemia. She remembers Nishant discussing with doctor that he is having leukemia and asks friends what is leukemia. Friends say its a dangerous illness, blood cancer. She is shocked and asks they are joking again. Friends say they cannot joke as their senior is severely ill and anything can happen to him. She questions teacher who informs that leukemia is a blood cancer which starts from bone marrow and spreads to other organs. She reminisces seeing cancer medicines in Nishant’s room and thinks of informing whole family about it.
Satyakam feeds Mithi and asks since when she is ill. Mithi says since she found out that Imlie has a sautan. Satyakam asks if she has gone mad. Mithi informs that Prakash told and says she realized that her daughter lied to her. Satyakam picks gun and says he will go to city to find out truth and do justice.
Aparna cuts vegetable engrasped in thoughts and is about to cut her finger when Taiji alerts her. She says she feels the problems between Malini and Adi are because of Imlie. Imlie comes to meet them. Rupali gets happy seeing her and asks why is she here, if something happened. Imlie says she came to talk to Nishant. Aparna asks what is she doing here. She greets Aparna and and hugs her, but seeing her cold reaction backs off and says she came to meet Nishant. Aparna says Nishant is not at home and even she should be in college at this time. Taiji asks what she wants to talk with Nishant. Imlie thinks she discuss with Nishant before informing family and says nothing important. Aparna asks if she informed Malini’s parents that she skipped college and came here. Imlie says no. Aparna says she stays at their house and should inform them wherever she goes. Imlie says she didn’t think about it. Taiji says Imlie doesn’t thinking before doing anything, but others are severely affected because of her acts. Imlie apologizes. Aparna says there is no use of apology. Rupali asks what happened to them, if Imlie cannot come here. Aparna says she can but after informing Anu as Anu created a big drama after Imlie’s lie. Rupali says Imlie is their dear one and doesn’t need permission. Imlie says Aparna is right that a guest should inform before coming and asks if she can wait for Nishant. Taiji asks what she wants to discuss with Nishant. Aparna says its better she leaves from here as she stays in Anu and Dev’s house and should follow their rules before going out of their house and they don’t need any more problems because of her. Imlie aays she will leave as she is happy in Malini’s house and walks towards door teary eyed.
Precap: Anu alleges Imlie that she is following her mother’s path and ruining someone’s house and tries to slap her. Imlie holds Anu’s hand and warns to dare not talk about her amma or else she will forget that Anu is Malini’s mother. Anu asks with what right she is behind Adi. Imlie shouts Malini got her right as she didn’t ask her right. Anu says she is just a naukrani/servant. Imlie shouts Malini because bahu as she became naukrani.
Update Credit to: MA
56 Comments
1. Now I am getting fed-up of this dragging, no truth coming out 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
2. Family tried to confront Aditya, but still blamed Imlie, indirectly: what kind of confrontation is this??🤔🤔🤔🤔
They didn’t had courage to ask Aditya 😂😂😂😂😂😂
3. Imlie has very good hobby to get insulted all time and still went to Tripathi house, who sent her away by doubting on her😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣😣
4. Finally Satyakam knows truth, now he will confront aditya and truth will come out👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
5. Malini still hoping that Aditya will tell truth🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️Rather it will keep on dragging..
6. Neither Malini nor Imlie keeping their self-respect above all🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
A) Malini could have told about her doubt to family
B) Malini could have stayed at her house
C) Imlie rather focusing on studies went to meet Nishant (who has doubt about aditya and imlie affair)
D) Imlie staying with Mrs. Chaturvedi, go to hostel
In general why females leads, don’t have their self respect in shows😡😠😡😠😡😠😡😠😡😠😡 the person or house who insult them , they keep on still listening and bear insult and forgive them easily… why can’t writers show them keeping self respect as priority🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Sai is much better as shown in ghkkpm…. She left house and let Virat beg on her feet…. Imlie and Malini learn from her!!
Why are people always choosing extremes of a situation? Like men are grounding women and women are to ground the men. Why can’t it be like equality of genders in the shows and even in audience’s mind ? Just because a woman is grounded by man doesn’t mean she should repeat the same thing ? Mistake couldn’t be corrected that way…Equality is should become the basis of the world which is terribly lagging and out of town in Asian countries…
See, I agree that everyone’s point of view is very different…
I will not underestimate you nor tell you that you are wrong.
But, in ghkkpm, Virat -A great IPS officer who is so foolish to believe in a document….
To believe in an unknown letter…
Moreover, Throwing away a person – I respect equality and will not differentiate between men and women so I will say Person.
Throwing away a person in midnight without giving food and then insulting them is a BIG CRIME!!
Sai didn’t forgive Virat because of his cruel actions
… But later she realized that Virat has truly understood and realized his mistake and is sorry for that….. (Although Sorry is a very small word) she forgave him….. I think she didn’t throw him away and like that…. Thanks! I hope I didn’t offend you….
This disgusting man again blaming and is being rude to malini, instead of slapping him, malini is helping this spineless man, again confused malini, she is very awkward to go for honeymoon n making excuse, but again she is hurt to see adi rejecting it, she still have hopes, I can understand her turmoil here
Actually last week she itself told might be aditya say its all dream and she is dreaming, but i think now its time for her to open her eyes and wake up…
She is behaving ki plz ab bhi wapas aa jaao type, and this is making me hate her🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😣😣😣😣😣
@deepz Yes, she doesn’t know the full truth. She still has hope. So She silently endures everything.
Actually @ShraddhaSharma392
But I can understand her it’s not easy for her to forget adithya, she will not give up easily, she is fighting with herself, she is confused, she knows adithya doesn’t love her but still he hasn’t confirmed it to her. So she thinks she has hope, but she is being very awkward with him,
ITV fl never have self respect, same shit repeating
Mostly in star and colors shows.. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It’s good that the Tripathis are finally realizing the truth and trying to confront Aditya. Just look at the nerves of this trashy excuse for a man who doesn’t mind making others suffer for his own selfish needs. The so called “hero” still wishes to continue his “Imlie-romance” hiding from everyone. This character disgusts me so much. Wants to play victim card, and keep Malini trapped in this disgusting mess. Gosh, he’s a criminal guilty of bigamy and ruining someone’s life but still he has the nerves to accuse and shout at other people. Of course it’s easy for such cowards to blame others.
I can’t sympathize with Imlie at all. Seems like she enjoys going to places where she is insulted and disliked. And then makes a victim face. Hahah, this Rupali is crazy. How is it Imlie’s house? Ok, I understand that they got attached to a servant of 2 months but that doesn’t mean that the servant start owning this house. She’s taking out her frustration by speaking against her family and Malini every chance she gets. Yes, her experience was a very bitter one, and somehow she thinks Imlie’s situation is similar, but what’s the fault of Malini in this? I can understand Malini’s pain. It’s a natural instinct to hold onto your marriage as much as you can. Nobody wants a broken home. She still doesn’t even know the complete truth yet. Yes, she’s making efforts to save her marriage, but she doesn’t need to cover up and excuse that bigamist husband of hers. It HIS mistake. Now’z the time to start realizing his true colors and confronting him.
I don’t have words to describe aditya. The most shameless, disgusting ‘hero’ i ever have seen on tv, well that will do
Malini did a big blunder by telling her fake love story. Aditya, the pathetic piece of shit, now thinks they are even. Look at his shameless behaviour. I can’t believe this man! Such a
narcissistic person!
This adithya is worser than kunal from silsila serial
@deepz yes deepz, kunal is way way better
@deepz the t family only care about their son. They raised him as a self-important person
T family only cares about imlie fist, and nw malini, they never treat adithya like their son, they are very weird family
Exactly @Arunima and @Deepz
@arunima, I genuinely agree that Rupali is crazy since she compares her situation to be same as that of Imlie, ignoring Malini. But I want to say why can’t Tripathi House be Imlie’s house. Just as how Malini has the right to call it her house, Imlie too has even if she didn’t get her right. Imlie saved Aditya when he was kidnapped…even for that sake Tripathi’s should really treat Imlie as a family member. When Rupali is saying the correct thing, why are you saying, that’s wrong…maybe it is that Rupali’s intention to call Tripathi House as Imlie’s house in her own sense is wrong…but the sentence isn’t wrong…A servant if saves someone is worth God..and if you are saying Imlie is servant and she deserves to be thrown out, it is totally wrong. Because, servants are not grounded, or low class people..they really are the high class people in a real sense…as an example, I want to tell you and readers, just imagine a week without the presence of sweepers on the road or garbage van’s absence…if they don’t do their work keeping aside the shame for the work, what would be our conditions…
Servants are not the servants you and society thinks…they are the servants of the manhood.. without whose presence, both middle class and high class people’s life will suffer from major setback…
I want to clear one thing…my intention is not to hurt someone or his or her opinion but changing one’s opinion on certain aspects which are a must….
@optmist i think you are answering to @tara
@optimist rupali can support imlie but why do i feel like she dislike malini. I don’t understand rupali’s logic at all. So she wants aditya to run behind imlie when he already has a wife? Does rupali want aditya to have two wives? If she is really concerned about imlie she should confront her loser brother and ask him to divorce malini
Makes sense,but Imlie is actually Adi’s first wife so she has more rights to Adi than Malini.Adi is not weak but he let his emotions rule him on the grounds of humanity. He could have a abandoned lmilie when they arrived town from PG. Even before he realised a change in his feelings for Imilie he was ready to tell Malini but she became sickly.He felt compassion for her,they were friends before marriage, so he can not just treat her unjustly because it was not her fault he was forced to marry Imlie.
Remember Imilie always had a carefree spirit and always wanted justice for all.She has never tried to get her just rights but the one to be blamed for all this troubles is Imlie’s father.
When he realised his love for Mithi, who probably didn’t know he was married.Anu who was obviously weathly and whose family supported his career would have pulled a stunt to keep him in a miserable marriage for status sake and also punish his indiscretion. Dev never looked back to PG again.
One thing I have learnt though in all of this is that one lie,one cover up would bring loads of trouble in the future.If Malini really has any respect for her self and wants to live a happy fulfilled life and not become embittered, rude,arrogant and egoistic as Anu,she should annul her marriage and move on in life.Moreso when the truth comes out Imilie is the one who has been cheated even from before she was birth
Let’s see what the writers have for us though.
And Rupali is reacting because she is aware of the truth and Imilie has refused her to speak out for her but Imlie had supported her when she was feeling low.So its payback for Imlie support.
Totally agree @deepz for kunal and aditya comparison.. infect even mauli was better than malini, as she confronted kunal and told everything to her in-laws rather than hiding like malini… And later kept self respect above all
Mauli is also ready to give kunal a chance
Mauli is emotionally strong person, but malini is not,mauli saw both kunan hugging each other n confession, but malini still doesn’t know the truth, though she suspect of adi imlie affair, and once asked adithya in hospital to tell her the truth but that adithya seeing her condition didn’t tell, still she made fake stories, even then adithya didn’t tell the truth, mauli doesn’t had toxic environment like malini,even the strong person like mauli was later made to pine for kunal ignoring the gem of person ishaan.
I find Tripathi’s as alliens who can love servant, fullfil all her dreams, still blame her for everything.. they love their DIL and ready to do anything for her..
But never have courage to neither confront their son (though they tried but still didn’t took harash step in confrontation, mostly get scared with son reaction)..
And above after all things claim to be good understanding family…🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Yes,@ Arunima, I am sorry on my part for this confusion. I was infact referring to Tara’s comment and I am sorry to bring in your name. And thanks for understanding that I was referring to Tara’s comment.
@Arunima.. Though I didn’t question you, your comment did amuse me about Rupali..yes, she is a person without clarity towards what she wants to do. Yes, infact if she was concerned with Imlie, she could have confronted Adi and told him to divorce Malini, in a sense…
I just hope this story is just a story and wouldn’t have happened with anyone. But I guess it might have happened with someone before 2000. I say if one is embedded in such situation, Adi should be the first to shoot himself to solve everyone’s problems😆😆. Or he should leave Tripathi House like Nishant went way for 10 years or so..
I don’t understand why everyone in Tripathi house, chaturvedi house and Meethi …infact everyone are too good at hiding one’s lies…we say lies do not hide for a longer time…but here in this serial, it’s just enough. People can find issue like Bigamy in 1 month atleast…it can’t be found out if two women are at different places but yahan tho, dono ek hi jagah pe tho hai…one person can be stupid in not understanding Bigamy situation, but the whole family being unaware of it except Anu, is so stupid…
@optimist I never said that servants should be thrown out or they are low class people. Yes, I know they are very important for our society. They deserve to be treated with respect. True, Imlie saved Aditya, but that doesn’t mean she suddenly becomes a family member. It takes a lot of time, work, and loyalty for a servant to earn his/her place in the house. A servant can’t equal the other family members just by a lot of chatter and a few “mahaan” deeds. Not to be rude or anything, but this is the truth. Morever Imlie has been lying to and cheating the family for all these months. If it was a normal family, they wouldn’t be able to see her as a trustworthy part of the family again. (But with these stupid Tripathis, nothing is unexpected. They’re just unbelievable people) They’ve known Malini for years but Imlie is still a stranger as they don’t really know anything about her. How can Imlie equal Malini? That’s ridiculous. I certainly don’t agree with this statement that ‘The house is Imlie’s’. You might want to change my opinion but I’m gonna stand by mine. This is just basic sense that servant can’t be equal to owners however they do good deeds.
Rupali’s situation would have been similar to Imlie’s if she helped her husband marry another woman, and then started crying for her rights, which she had willingly sacrificed. Also, kept dwelling in self-pity 24*7.
Exactly, rupali has become a joke to me, her scene is to worship imlie imlie imlie all the time, like how T family worship malini
T family doesn’t even care for malini when imlie is with them, but now see the irony
@deepz the t family only care about their son. They raised him as a self-important person
@Arunima, I think it is not the family which makes one’s son self-important… that’s just the society which is never bound to change…why does anyone blame one person’s mistake or behaviour as a fault of the family? It is not the family that says to disrespect wife or shout at his wife. If a person is wrong, its due to himself firstly because God has given anyone enough brains to distinguish what is right and what’s wrong or which type of behaviour is an ideal one to be followed in society…also one more cause for a person to become self-important is one’s proffession..some proffessions rather many..forces a person to be self-important..but it’s one’s responsibility to see whether self-important nature, apne aap ke good nature par haavi padh rahi hai, ki nahi…
@optimist parenting shapes a person. Children are like clay, parents can mould them. Some families raise their sons like they are top of the world. Encourage them to look down upon others, disrespect woman. I agree we have complete responsibility of our own actions, but our genetic makeup and the way we were raised are also part of the deal
@Arunima, family doesn’t always play a role in shaping the whole of one’s behaviour…some things are learner from society and not the family… I guess you too are right..but when we look into Tripathi House, no one looks like he or she has such a nature of disrespecting woman..so how can you be so sure that family did play a role… I just think it is one’s own adaptation, profession largely and society..
See how the t family is behaving with aditya. His sister knows half of the truth but never questioned him. He causes this mess, right. The family never questioned his actions either . Though in this episode we saw some kind of a confrontation. Aditya has free reign
Even if malini moves on in near future, she will never forget adithya, because first love is always special, malini in one way or other will always be connected to adithya, through imlie or by T family,
Yeah you are right because love in serials or shows is shown to be an ideal one…but what I think is does ideal love really exist? All we see around us is fake love, through someone’s comments and our own eyes..either a person in love is obsessed by his love interest’s beauty or financial status and sadly, the most wrong way to love is due to s*xual obsession. I had not even heard about one person loving other due to one’s usual self type behaviour except in movies, shows or serials…and I sometimes do think of couples who leave or run away from their house when they don’t get parents’ consent for marriage. And I ponder about it that does their love prove to be heavier on one’s parents love..is it? If a couple doesn’t even understand their parents’ love and concern towards them, how in the world that they even talk that they love one another…when in a real sense, when they don’t even know what love is and how important it is…
So, if you say first love is special…it is either wrong in the real-world or applicable only in shows, movies, dramas and serials…
You might be thinking me as weirdo but what I know is to get blinded in parents’ love and no one else’s love in the world. Neither I will ever try nor I will even give a chance to someone..in the world where we can’t even trust our own relatives, how in the world do one believes on a stranger and runs away from the house…disgusting..
There is no true love in the world, bro..!
Perfect love doesn’t exist. You don’t need perfect love either. We are flawed beings, our love can have flaws too. true love exists. Not everyone is lucky to have it, but it exists. s*x is a part of romantic love. What is there to be disgusted about?. s*x is very integral to human life
I agree hurting our parents is not ideal. But different people have different life situations. Parents need to understand that an adult can chose his/her partner. Some times parents are blinded by casteism and what not. Some of them even think daughters have no say in such matters.
@Arunima…. I think you are right in a sense that perfect love doesn’t exist and that it is bound to be flawed…but love nowadays is down beyond flawed. Also, I didn’t mean s*x is disgusting… I just meant it disgusting not that is chosen as a basis of love…that type of obsession if called love is wrong…s*x is infact the integral part of human race and it has a biological purpose..but do we think it as biological purpose or a pleasure seeking activity? I mean the entire organisms like animals, birds and mammals around us do think of the activity as biological, but we? We humans do change every definitions…still I don’t think s*x to be wrong or disgusting..you got my meaning, right?
Yeah parents could be blinded by casteism…but we as their children do not understand what’s the intention behind it…You agree or not agree, they have seen the world around us and we can’t be a match to them in their experience. And caste does play a role…Many couples do fight with families when one of them is from high caste and the other one low caste…Some are even like they are from high caste but different ones. And suppose, the couple has children in future…many jobs, schools and colleges have the influence of caste…not much in schools though. Even colleges or jobs are not ideal, they too are flawed, so caste demands a person to enter in a group of people who support him…and sadly, support in a country like India, is majorly ruled by the so-called caste…
Maybe this could change in future but until then caste does play a role. And our parents too are aware of it and they want to protect not only their children but generations from humiliations..So, do you think they are wrong and blinded by casteism… that’s not the thing.
Adults can chose one’s own life partner and decide what they don’t want to do in life…career may be challenging but if one’s life partner becomes a challenging phase for him or her, coping life is difficult..Parents only want children to take correct decisions. If parents wouldn’t have been this strict with children in India, think what would have happen? You can see several examples in foreign countries, divorce, love and fight for custody of children. I am saying about majority people..As an adult, one doing these things without the involvement of his or her parents would be happy. But what about the separation couple’s children.. Are they bound to grow only in one parent’s custody… don’t they deserve both the parents’ love?
Parents are always right. We don’t just recognise or understand them.
What is the use of that love in which our own parents who love us immensely, are not happy and rather hate us? We are nothing in front of our parents and as a responsible person, our gratitude towards them is to let them arrange our marriage…Parents do see for an alliance but is consent not taken from their children? Consent is always asked.
Let’s look for parents’ happiness before we become selfish for our own happiness and love.
One more thing, you said that daughters have no say in caste matters… I think you are in 1980’s or something, India has become more civilised. Less than 10% population may be thinking daughter as not worthy of interference into caste matters. Nowadays, parents are more happy with single girl child…even I am one such single person who is proud to get wonderful parents whom I sincerely value. My parents even agree my opinions to be better in many family aspects..and you are talking about caste? Let’s me tell you, my parents can accept even a different caste alliance for me if that family is well mannered, enough to take care of my needs and respect, if one is well educated. Caste doesn’t matter to them but still I know that I never want to disappoint my parents with concept like I love someone of different caste. To me loving a person of same caste is also wrong because I would always want that responsibility of marriage of mine to be taken by my parents. That would be my tribute to them.
Let’s love our parents in a true sense first..then even the thought of loving someone would not come.
Can’t love be achieved in an arranged marriage? When someone loves a person before marriage, just like Malini and Aditya, they will be together for some hours out of 1 day, everyday. But when someone loves a person after marriage, his or her life partner will become his or her world and they can understand each other better. I think Arranged marriages survive more than love marriages.
I think ideal love is that love when a love marriage is arranged..its couple’s responsibility to make their parents understand and they make them agree for their marriages. That’s a better mutual understanding and one can expect immense satisfaction in life.
Honour killings are happening even in todays india. So yeah, still people think their daughters are unable to make decisions. Nobody is always right. Not even parents. They lived their life. They should let their children live their own. They can’t protect us from everything. Somewhere in life, we have to make our own decisions, make our own faults. That is called living ones life. Livinga life designed completely by parents is like acting a part in a drama. Where is your life?? People often normalize casteism, thats why such a social evil is still here. Each individual has to do something to break that evil circle. I disagree with your view on s*x having only biological purpose. s*x is for pleasure too. Arranged martiages survive because divorces are looked down upon here. India’s divorce rate is less than 1%. Does this means indian marriages are happy? No, lot of the time wives are in helpless situation and they have nowhere to go. Give women education. Let them stand on their own feet. Then lets see how this sand castle called arranged marriage system crumbles down
@Arunima, you say that honour killings do happen in India seven now… that’s right. But how many such cases are there? Isn’t it too less…? I was talking about a society as a whole and not a few exceptional ones. It is right that we are the ones who have to decide what we do in our lives? We can decide our career, decide whom to marry out of the alliances brought by our parents and many more decisions on our own. Don’t parents make children’s decision easy and better? Yes, parents can even not protect us from everything but can’t we understand their gesture that they want to protect us? Who said to live a life according to the line drawn by parents. We also don’t tell each and everything to our parents, isn’t it. There are some things which we ignore to tell to parents. When one’s own life is settled, he or she starts to live according to himself. Do parents interfere here? Let me tell you that until our parents marry us off, we are their responsibility, rather that’s the stage until when we are dependent on them. After marriage, one’s life is his own and he or she has a free right on what one wants to do…
Not only that..even before marriage when we are the responsibility of our parents, we do our own choices like which stream to choose, which career is better, how to study, making study plans, abroad plans…parents yahan kuch dakhalandazi kartein hain kya…? Not absolutely, here too they give their opinion and we are to choose…I completely disagree with your statement that no one follows a life drawn by the parents. I just wanted to convey that when parents do so much for many of us, can’t we just choose one of the alliances brought by parents for mutual happiness? Why does one need to love someone of other caste and disappoint parents…? Even if their thought is blinded, can’t we agree for one thing just? You know or don’t know, I don’t know but for parents, marrying and sending their children to a good house happily and with no glitches, is their dream !!!
And as their children, we do need to value their dream…for their sake.
Our parents take no wrong decisions… I heartily believe that.
One more thing is that even I am not an all-rounder person who follows the line drawn by my parents… I just think upon their opinions and take my own decisions which are freely decided. I have the right and many girls around me also have their right to assert their opinion.
Honour killings are just very very less..0.001 percent may be or even less.
Listening to parents and taking one’s decision is not a drama.. that’s the most ideal way of living life.
And agar baat casteism ki aati hai tho seriously, did it really go away or will it go? No. When the school, career and government demands the caste certificate, do you think one individual can break the evil caste circle? Many individuals have tried that but you know what, this can be never eradicated. Politicians are at the game. They use this caste, religion ground to gain votes. If our own law makers and politicians haven’t publicly condemned the caste issues, even by the citizen’s force on the government, what more can we do?
This can be reduced by the decision in individual houses. When every parents, they themselves bring different alliances irrespective of caste background, this can be reduced to a great deal.
But I can never agree on the fact that love marriages can survive…. I don’t want to hear 0.0001 percent examples of ideal love and marriages. When more than 99 percent love marriages are failures, I thus want parents to take decision especially on this matter and that thinking isn’t wrong at all.
You may think that s*x is pleasure as well…Yes it is. But myself being a biology and psychology student says that main purpose is biological one and pleasure is the attribute given by us to it. Pleasure is a human-made definition of that act.
Yes divorces are surely looked down in India but why don’t you talk about more than 70 percent success of arranged marriages. I think that first if we look and modify majority population, minority ones can be looked afterwards. Majority Indian marriages are happy. But what about love marriages.
The Last line you wrote here.. I respect that and I truly believe taht should happen. Women are not the helpless one’s. If we provide 0.1 percent strength to them, they can fight against the world..
Never ever should ever be in marriage she doesn’t deserve to be..no woman should be quiet and endure the pains of a baseless marriage. Women should assert their voice in such aspects, one should file divorce case, if one isn’t happy in the marriage.
@Arunima, I really liked the way you answered me…really great debater you are and thanks for letting me know new aspects…aabhari hu😊
Did u wat ghkkpm @deepz their pakhi cannot forget virat but there is a difference she losses her self respect shamelessly even knowing virat doesn’t lover her hope malni wouldn’t do that
I don’t have any idea of who is pakhi, ITV always have a trend to villanize the victim, hope that’s not the case here, in original version malini character has moved on and she has two husband, later at end she dies delivering the baby n giving it to adithya
@Deepz do watch ghum hai kisi ke pyar me show of star plus, you will get idea what @Ittu is saying
Pakhi is virat brother wife and is in love with virat and is trying to separate virat n sai , she seems to be villain, hope they don’t turn malini villain n pathetic like pakhi, at the same time I don’t have hopes on ITV, but still little hope because in one of SBS segment mayuri told that she will have her own beautiful journey.
This serial is becoming to monotonous , Why can’t Aditya and Imlie speak the truth for once ? What are the writers really doing ?the hero Adi is disgusting, shameless and has no feelings for both women .hence the reason why he is hiding form both Ladies the fact that they are sisters . Can’t wait to see they both kick this slime ball out of their lives for good .Imlie needs to find herself , gain her independence .Thought this serial was about a poor country girl becoming something but all am seeing is the fight to wear sindoor and claim a husband that’s the grand prize . hmm too much nonsense .
Can we just end this crap show? Gul Khan, stop glorifying polygamy and cheating. End this nonsense
@Disha summarised my mindset very well. And the ITV will forget that what Aditya did was a crime(to have 2 wives) as per the constitution.
Even forced marriage with gun point, the villagrrs can be thrown at jail too, but ITV justify it as real n legal marriage, and malini has every right to throw adithya n imlie at jail, but sadly she won’t so that, this will be too much progressive
It is a bliss for me that it is just Bigamy…and if things like Polygamy are invited, I would have left the show…Audience would have taken their shoes and chappals and would have publicly condemned the show crew and the story writer and director ofcourse😆
@Optimist well, this is aditya, you can’t rule out a possibility of Polygamy😂 He goes to some other village. Villagers make him marry an 18 year old. Then he realises- oh no, what i had with imlie was only friendship. Just like my wife malini is my friend. Now i found true love! He makes a lot of friends you see
Good one, Arunima..😆😃