Imlie 14th July 2021 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Sundar takes food for Imlie. Imlie says she is not hungry. Sundar says everyone sent it for her. She excitedly asks if Aparna and Pankaj sent it. Sundar nervously says yes and asks her to have food. Adi walks in, takes plate, and says she will have food with everyone. He keeps her plate on dining table and says let us have food with everyone. Elders get angry seeing that while youngsters support Imlie. Aparna says this place is for family members and if Adi wants a stranger to sit with him, they will walk away from here. All 4 elders walk away. Radha orders Rupali, Nishant, and Pallavi to accompany them. Nishant hesitates. She walks away asking if elders order will be disrespected because of Imlie. They all 3 follow her. Adi insists Imlie to have food with him. After dinner, Adi walks to Aparna and says she has right to get angry on him for not informing her about his first wife Imlie and lying to her repeatedly, but she shouldn’t blame Imlie. Aparna says Imlie misused their love and being an illegitimate child, she had an illegitimate relationship with Adi. Pankaj says Malini informed them everything. Adi asks even then they are calling Imlie as illegitimate child, Anu wrongly alleged Mithi and insulted her, even they are doing same with Imlie, they considered Imlie as a family member before and are humiliating her once the truth is out. Pankaj says nobody forced Imlie to accompany him to this house. Aparna says Pankaj is right, Imlie purposefully accompanied him in this house and acted good to his family to make a place in this house and manipulate him, which cannot understand. She says Imlie came here as servant and should be a servant here. Adi asks who are they both to judge Imlie, he became a journalist to change this thinking and didn’t know he has to fight with his own family; he warns them that Imlie is his wife and he will give all her rights from right now.
Adi walks to Imlie and picking her bag holds her hand says let us go. Aparna asks what is he doing. He says which she had to do. Family gathers again, and Pankaj asks what is he doing. Adi says Aparna didn’t perform her bahu’s graha pravesh and Imlie happily accepted a corner of the house, they were fine until the truth was out and now they want to snatch even that corner from Imlie, he will give her the right place she deserves. Pankaj says he is crossing his limits. Harish asks if he will insult family now. Adi says Imlie deserves to stay in his room as whatever belongs to him belongs to Imlie. He holds Imlie’s hand and tries to get into his room. Imlie stops and after a long dialogue says until his family accepts her, she will not enter his room. Adi fixes his bed next to Imlie’s and says he will stay with her if he cannot support her.
Next morning, Imlie helps Mithi and Satyakam pack their bags. Satyakam tells her that she must be sad that he is taking her amma suddenly, but he got some important work in Pagdandiya. Imlie informs that Adi’s family found out truth. They ask if they accepted her. Imlie reminisces family humiliating her and lies that they happily hugged and accepted her. Mithi asks Satyakam to bring 2 kg sweets to visit Adi’s family. Imlie nervously says they can visit next time. Mithi asks to tell truth. Imlie hugs her tightly and cries. Satyakam gets angry and asks if they insulted her, he will not spare them. Mithi says its not a time to get angry and suggests Imlie to win her family’s hearts as its every bahu’s duty and test to win her in-laws’ heart, she knows Imlie will clear this test as usual. Satyakam says she is shagun ka sikka and should prove that she is fit to be their bahu and can do anything she wants to.
Aparna while heading to temple tells Radha that they need to perform Pallavis’ muh dikhayi ritual. Radha says she knows, but she thought Aparna didn’t want to seeing the situation at home. Aparna says let us perform it. Radha sees Imlie standing with pooja thali. Aparna asks what is she doing, if she wants to prove that she is Adi’s wife, she is Adi’s keep and will never get respect. Radha says she is doing all this to grab Adi’s property. Imlie says she just needs their love like they showered their love before like a mother, why can’t they accept her as bahu when they could accept her as a daughter. Aparna asks if she can act like before and keep a distance from Adi, she will promise to accept her like before. Imlie says she got this sindhoor and mangalsutra back with much difficulty and cannot sacrifice it. Radha says they cannot trust her again.
Precap: Adi tells Aparna that he will attend tomorrow’s function with Imlie or else not. Aparna warns that Imlie will attend the function like a servant. Adi says he will attend the function with Imlie as his wife or else not.
Update Credit to: MA
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1. Imli is so dramatic, one side she always wanted that Malini rights are not affected and today she bluntly said that she got her sindoor and mangalsutra with difficulty, now she will not get offπ§π§π§π§
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2. I thinkπ€π€ senior tripathis problem is now Imlie being illegal child of dev (after knowing her birth truth) rather than forced marriage..
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3. Aditya ka room step me to yehi hona tha.. ya to imli room me jaati ya aditya imli ke sath cornor meπππ
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4. Why only Imli is getting blamed for Aditya lies, just becoz he is their son and have right to commit mistake?? π‘π€¬π π‘π€¬π π‘π€¬π
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5. Did anyone read update carefully..
When aditya was talking to aparna and pankaj in night, writer wrote that you can blame imlieπππππ (though typo error, it funny to read)
Yeah
“After dinner, Adi walks to Aparna and says she has right to get angry on him for not informing her about his first wife Imlie and lying to her repeatedly, but she should blame Imlie”, this is what was written. Initially I didn’t notice it, after reading your comment I did. It’s funny ππ
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What all of you against adi mom that means your wife much important than your parents sorry but her i saw selfish imili she did this only to get adi attention i think she didnβt want the truth been seen to the family to be free with her adi and this imili have biggest mouth π why now she is silent π
@noran
Aparana always showed love to imlie more than rupali and DIL’s of house which was unexpected if she considered her maid and now she is blaming her for forced marriage and being illgitimate child of Dev (as if it was imlie mistake, but not dev) and she is happy if aditya and imlie get apart and will treat imlie as daughter again..
So her all actions make me atleast hate her…
And its not that i like imlie, she stayed silent for months and now want everything, but yes just rejecting her on basis of illegitimate child is wrong as she is not at fault here
Imlie is silent to gain sympathy so that when tripathis feel guilty to hurt her, blamed her for villagers actions etc. And even after all this she beared their taunts etc..
So she is just gaining sympathy…
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@Noran, Imlie is quiet when it suits her. Yes, she has a big mouth and was never scared to use it if you watch from beginning.
Now she wants sympathy.
However, her line to Aparna saying she got back the sindoor and manglesutra with great difficulty and not going to give it up, shows that she’s not that innocent!
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Boring episode makers are focusing only on imlie, aditya and T drama why they are not focusing on Malini and KC
specially KC as I like his character
Malini and kc story is a short lived one… This serial is also a remake of ishti kutum..and in that kc and malini wont get together and malini would end at the end…after that i hate to watch this serial…hope they dnt copy paste everything..but right now they are following ππ
They would show imlie and adi divorced
Hummmm. This girl always wanted Aditya. Now Malini has gone from her way. No more didi jaap maybe. She had seen that how Aditya’loved’ Malini before. Ts loved her. And now she is showing her true colours. She never cared about Ts or Malini. Imlie just wants to please ppl. I’ve seen somany ppl like Imlie. Manipulative n Selfish.
Pls start kunal n malini story, and for god sake give divorce track soon,
Its better makers wind up this serial by 1month, nothing left in the serial, all truths are out, only acceptance of T family n remarriage is left.
It’ll be dragged for 500 more episodes by Adilie’s cringey romance. Kunal’s first wife (criminal) may enter, Adilie will support her and she returns to Kunal. That’ll be the end of Kunal-Malini. (acc. to IK)
Lets see if they will copy paste this third class story.
I hope they don’t, they better finish it soon, nothing is left actually, they can show cringe adilie romance for 1week after their remarriage
@deepz 1 month is more, it should end by 31st july.. as we know tripathi will accept, imlie-aditya romance and kc-malini unite.. show end..
I don’t have any hopes for malini n kunal unite, may be they will stay as friends
OMG, just look at the last line, Imlie saying “she got this sindhoor and mangalsutra back with much difficulty and cannot sacrifice it”. As if she herself didn’t want to be the sacrificial Devi and gave away her sindoor to Malini on wedding day. And now behaving as if it had been snatched from her. Such double standards. Now she has clearly shown that all her mahaanta was fake. Just an attempt to show herself as a victim to gain sympathy and attention. TBH she’s still better than the pathetic Aditya, who cares for no one but himself. He expects everyone to dance on his tunes and do whatever he asks them without any questions. It’s only natural that the family won’t accept their relationship at once, especially after they’ve been lying to everyone’s faces since months. Their anger is obvious. He is subject to all their bitterness and needs to face it, instead of throwing tantrums like a bratty toddler. Even I don’t like that all the insults are aimed only at Imlie, not their precious infant Aditya.
I hate both adithya n imlie, imlie is the attention seeker n sympathy gainer not malini, both adithya n imlie irritate me to core at least adithya is selfish n arrogant n spoiled grown up infant,he gets what he wants according to his needs but imlie is a chameleon
Yes, she should be named Ms. Girgit Aditya Tripathi, and Aditya should be Bigamist Kumar Tripathi π These names suit them more.
@Tara, I was so disgusted and shocked at the scene where he waved his hand right into his mum’s face, didn’t let her say a word and walked away, so rude.
Imlie’s last line, she finally told the truth, she was always working towards getting the sindoor and manglesutra back at all cost, and of course told Aparna and Radha, she’s not going to give it up, very bold.
Aparna may eventually accept Imlie through force, but she won’t ever forget the way her son spoke to her!
I’ve always said, husbands and wives can come and go, but your parents cannot.
Why the hell Imlie has not left but has stayed to rub her presence in the T Family nose, I don’t know!
@Kally, yeah that’s right. You can’t just forget all your parents have done for you, just for a few months’ of relationship. In this case, Tripathis have all rights to be angry. He isn’t doing good by disrespecting them, but then again, what can you expect from a bratty coward like him? Everything is someone else’s mistake. I’ve no hopes from him. He is not worthy of any relationship. Imlie is being two-faced as usual! It’s beyond my comprehension how her mind works. Once upon a time, she was willing to give up her rights, a few months later she is claiming she was deprived of her rights, and that she did a “favor” by allowing bigamy to happen. She wanted Malini to settle well with a man first only so that she (Imlie) won’t feel guilty. Not as good as she shows herself to be.
aaditya is a most selfish character and imli is greater then “girgit”
how aaditya talk everytime about true journalism? there is no any type of sign of true journalism in aaditya in any way. he & imli, talks & think only about themselves.
as before,imli, who insulted anu many times openly, by holding her hand, now,where is imli’s ethics when she is indirectly/silenting insulting – aadi’s family & maalini by giving her silent consent to aadi.
tripathis’ must give punishment to aadi & imli for ruining/spoiling maalini’s happy married life and they must not accept adi’s/imli relations at any cost.
Kally, I wondered that perhaps I might be the single person who noticed that. It is really bad to shove hands on mother ! I mean atleast if he is rude that’s still ok but jab maamla haath rakh jaaye, relation ka koi value hi na raha ! Never in my life, can I even think about it…
And I hope in upcoming tracks there is a progress in malini character, for past two weeks there is no change in her character,when she will move on.
Hahaha… You written it so nicely..
Thank you from Experimental mom(YouTube channel).
It was didi free episode wohoooo π€©π€©π€©π€© Eagerly waiting for ML track i m so excited to see adi falling for imlie all over again even after forgetting her β€β€β€β€ my muchkins #adilie
@Ahana, excited for you but do we really want to watch them falling in love all over again, is once not enough?
We know Adilie love each other madly, truly, utterly etc so what’s new?
Yaar, I can’t go another round of toxic obsession, this version itself can’t handle.
Than who is telling to go around again lol it’s you who used to come here everyday to spit venoms I just wanna say that if you don’t like this than why the hell wasting your time in reading WU too??? Oh obsessed with it right?
@Kally true I hate adilie
@kally No one is forcing you to watch the show did i?? We fan’s want this track and we will watch it. Yeah you’re right adile love each other truly but the essence to watch adi fall for her over again will be very precious for us and during this process only kc and malini will fall for each other so we will watch it for adilie you can read WU for manal,Simple
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I wish aditya-imlie blind fans knows difference b/w in love or being in obessessionπ€¦π»ββοΈπ€¦π»ββοΈ
The same blind fans who called out malini love as obsession n as toxic when he left to Pd see the hypocrisy n double standard
Ohh plz ugiz don’t get me start we never said her love as obsesesion it’s you who used to drag us everytime in your comment’s as if without talking about us your day didnt get started
@shraddha plz don’t talk about it we have watch the show from epi 1 and like i never interfere in your comment’s and reply you so better you guy’s stay away from mine everyone has their own pov i respect yours so i expect the same from you
Koi kisi se obssess math ho ! Nor Malini, nor Imlie, nor Aditya nor anyone. Ya fir sab se obsess ho jao. Aise bich mein math raho π
And obsession means the state in which you can only think about one person or thing so that you cannot think of anything else. Well, obsession is just the top level of love then !π ππππ€£π€£
@deepz whom you referred here?? I am little bit confusedπ€π
I didn’t referred you,
@ahana if you have point of view others also have it..
And if so called “aditya-imlie” fans can attack on us with their comment than, being not likers of “aditya-imlie” fans can counter-attack with comments also..
@shraddha who’ve attack YoU?????????? Tell me i don’t see anyone here attacking you it’s you who came in my comments. You guys used to say so many bad things about adilie did i said anything in between than why the hell you are coming in between mine?? You so called malini fan’s give your pov and leave na why poking Your nose everytime whenever we adilieans comment here
@deepz i know you didn’t referred me..
I meant you said those lines foe aditya-imlie supporters or haters?? ππ
Imlie should have followed her mom and SK leave T house focus on herself and God what happen to her studies…
Imlie tried by telling this to aditya, he denied and he is so obessed with her that but when she leaves for few hours aditya fall illπππ
To all the Adilie bashers just follow the story of Imlie. Aditiya should buy clothing and jewellery for Imlie and give her a makeover. They behave like brother and sister. There is no chemistry between the two.Why do you love Malini so much. There is to much of class distinction.Treat them like human beings with who unintentionally made mistakes.
@Sarshe, we’re not really against Adilie, yes, everyone makes mistakes but it’s withholding the truth, than lying g about it when questioned is what we’re against.
Imagine you got married to your love after a number of years, sharing bed etc and then your husband starts cold shouldering you, lying to you and ignoring you etc.
One day he says you’re not his wife and your world turns upside down.
I don’t think you’d be so quick to call it a mistake.
Yes Adilie had one mistake but they created numerous more rather than being honest and upfront.
Imlie even told Aparna she was not married, sindoor was just a village ritual etc.
Blatant lies and that’s why we feel for Malini.
@Kally very well said. Totally valid points. Malini is decent enough to let adi go scotfree I would have made him go to jail and made him suffer make him rot in jail
Malini’s only mistake is to marry a rude person and then regretting π
Just joking warna sabh logh mere pe khood padenge !π
Every time I try to sympathize with imlie she always end up saying things that make me hate her even more.
1.when she stayed with anu for few days and anu used to mistreat her then I wanted to sympathize with her but she said something like”she became servant so malini could become DIL”a dialogue that make me hate her so much because that was no true as malini was going to become DIL anyway.if forced marriage truth was revealed from beginning then aditya,together with his family plus the C family would have kicked imlie out of the house.(because then even Dev didn’t know about imlie being his daughter) and aditya himself was against imlie.aditya and malini would have get married for that reason I would say imlie is where she is now thanks to malini as she fainted that day,but let leave that aside
2.after yesterday episode I felt bad about how everyone was treating her,I even thought I would start liking her but again she is saying that she got the sindoor with great difficult as if she is not the same person who willing gave the sindoor to malini on that day or did malini forced her?isn’t she that same person who always said she want nothing but malini didi’s happiness only?but now she is saying this as if malini was holding unto something of hers and after many battle she was able to take it back forcefully.how pathetic and ridiculous can this character get?why are they making it sound like she is fighting with whole world to get her husband?even malini is no more interested in aditya.even though she still loves him but she immediately took a step back when she find out that aditya didn’t love her anymore.aditya is a discard rubbish and if imlie is keen on keeping him so be it.I think family should accept imlie,divorce should happen and both should remarried so that the story can move on because we audience are tired of this boring family drama,aditya yelling and imlie irritating dialogue.
Today’s episode sounds so boring without malini
Totally agree @natural..
I only sympathis with her on basis of being illegitimate child that she suffered in her childhood and everyone behavior on this basis…
@ShraddhaSharma yes on that basic I also sympathize with her as everyone is blaming her instead of Dev.they make her look like an extra unwanted daughter
@Shraddha. I don’t feel on sympathy with Imlie being illegitimate, because Mithi was lucky enough to have SK who would have taken on the responsibility knowing the truth.
Mithi never gave him the chance.
Lots of women don’t have another lover to take on another man’s child, those I feel sympathy for, Mithi did, so her decision only.
@natural Yes, yes, yes! So true. That’s exactly why I can never sympathize with Imlie despite making an effort to do so. She always ends up doing something annoying or making an untrue comment. First of all her way of acting as the victim, no matter what, is intolerable. Then she tries to show off that it was her ‘ehsaan’ that she gave her sindoor to Malini and later claimed it back. And she can’t just stop bragging about her greatness “I will leave Babusaheb for Malini didi”, “I want everyone’s happiness”, “I’m going back to Pagdandiya forever” blah blah. And she never does anything of the sort. It’s all verbal. Then lying to everyone for months for the fear of rejection. If only she had claimed her wife rights before the wedding, Malini could have prevented an unnecessary divorcee stamp in her life. Imlie just made a joke of everything. That’s why I can never like her.
@kally that was methi fault but not imlie, as methi didn’t accepted satyakam proposal..
But blaming imlie for this is not right…
being in anger for actions, we should not leave goodness even (when she is not fault on being this is, i will not blame her)
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@tara totally.. when anu hurted imlie she told to herself that i give babusahab as gift to malini and now claiming it..
Even 2-3 episodes malini scolded her stating she only speak but never leaveππππ
Kally, I think no one should sympathise anyone. But one should agree that Imlie is suffering because of the fact behind her illegitimate existence ! You can think that Meethi is lucky enough to get Satyakam, but as a woman since she loved Dev and committed a wrong act before giving the chance for stabilising their relationship, she would not want to put a burden of Imlie on Satyakam, because she is the one who committed a wrong act at wrong time. But where is Imlie responsible in all this mess ? She is innocent here !
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And Shraddha di, I completely agree with what you said. I just said your words in another way, but things mean same !!!!!
@Harshu, SK never ever considered Imlie a burden.
I do agree it’s not Imlie’s fault but I still stand by my comment that Mithi made a decision concerning her child and the stigma it would entail.
In my world being illegitimate is not the end of the world but I can appreciate that in other parts of the world it carries a stigma and it fair on such children.
@shriharshita its completely fine…
You mentioned it so nicely..ππππ
Please, I need mallu and K.C to fall for each other ASAP.
Jaldbaazi mein koi bhi cheez karein, tho woh cheez jyada din tikhti nahi hai ! So wish for Kunmun scenes to unravel slowly, slowly one sheet by one sheet !ππ
How petty is the mindset of the people who latch onto the beliefs of a totally backward society…even now in other serials it shows the new generation trying to overcome the traditions of yore (with all the add-ons), whilst maintaining the etiquette of a now modernized world…smh…these elders, as well as the elders in Pagdandiya, need to understand the concept of freedom of rights…
Forcing something against the will of an individual will only bring strong opposition and counter attack, as the individuals’ fight is to not only bring hope to a situation, but also to give justice for being stigmatized… this is currently being challenged worldwide… and has already been overcome in most parts of the world… this new generation will not tolerate the injustices of a tainted society and neither should an individual put up with the trauma it causes to them as a youth who is set to inherit this earth…we should be teaching our children that justice is for all and not based on our status in society…thus the sooner we overcome our backward thinking, the sooner we can logically move forward with the choices we are allowed to make…smh
Here we see Adi trying to right his wrong and justify his actions by giving Imlie her rights in this same society (tho it is late in coming)..but the strong opposition of the age-old mindset does not allow any changes to the cause, and the ones who suffer will only be stigmatized for a situation which they had no part of…and was born into…smh
To me Imlie is as honest as they get, because she is fighting for a rightful place in society given her status and circumstance… whether legal, illegal, married, unmarried, black, brown or white… she is correct in searching for her place in this stigmatized society…π their forced marriage is acceptable to them both, and elders should seek a way to justify their actions and not be judgemental to the cause…if even the 3rd party in it all has accepted her fate, then why are the elders stgmatizing against the wishes of husband and wife?? π just correct the wrong and hold your heads high and don’t give a blimey about what society has to say…SMDH…all this drama…and who suffers??? Everyone !!! π‘π STOP THE STIGMA !!! π
I completely agree to this ! I mean this is quite obvious but most of Indian population fails to understand this. Today’s modern world is still modern in looks but not in the so called thought process. We are still backward behind the curtain of modernity. I think that all parts of the country, all communities and all people for that matter irrespective of social status, monetary savings, castes should be treated equally. It should not be like justice is only for rich and so called high status or caste. What is the use of such a justice whose main foundation or backbone is not equality but status ? But sadly, this is what is happening in India and for that matter many countries.
There is a line for this in context with rich and poor people –
The rich become richer by the prospect of every sunrise and poor get more poor !
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There is one more aspect which I believe strongly. Marriage is not something which lies in some mere sheets of paper but something which is strongly feeded in one’s one conscience. Though Aditya and Imlie’s marriage was forced and thus is illegal but they love each other ! And it is not like Divorce is something which ends marriage until one frees oneself from it mentally. Divorce le liya, move on kar liya is not the logic ! Divorce is not a licence for moving on in life until one is not mentally prepared.
And ye logic sochkar lagta hai ki…
Let us assume ki Rupali got divorce. What difference is it going to make ? She was alone before divorce too, and will be alone after the divorce too ! In India, there are very few men who would marry a divorced mother. Many a times, even after divorce, many end up staying alone due to mental trauma in case of women. Many women don’t want to go through that experience again. Ek Mard kya, karlega doosri shaadi, bina kuch soche samjhe !
I have seen couples who didn’t take divorce but stay separately alone ! As you know, divorced men easily do 2nd marriage with ease often if fault is theirs in 1st marriage. Many a times, even if they are not at fault in 1st marriage, they easily forget the marriage and go for a fresh life readily ! As men afrin hurry of marriage, like it seems, they actually want divorce to start a new life. Whereas women are preoccupied with that trauma ! Nowadays, many women are also outgoing type of people, and they just move on.
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So even though divorce happens now or it delays, it won’t make a bit of difference because she genuinely loved Aditya and it is traumatic.
And the most worst thing is that divorced women are held as responsible for the divorce ! And there are really some worst comments jo society matthe laga deta hai !
1) If cause is something in infidelity by man, society comments that perhaps woman was not able to satisfy the man ! Means seriously, this is what is the backward thinking of society.
2) If cause is some conflict between duo, society says that perhaps woman would have been superior infront of her husband. Perhaps woman didn’t respect the husband or she didn’t stay down to earth infront of her husband.
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And in situation wherein couple lives separately, breaking the bonds, woman are held to be responsible by society. Socity never cares about what the reality is. So often want people think is in infidelity terms that- Ladka kitna bhala insaan tha, shayad aurat hi kisi ke saath chakkar chala rahi thi !
This is what is society !
Ye society ke baare mein overthink karein, tho kuch matlab hi nahi hai !
There is one such meme I came across a long while back ! There was a couple returning from a distant place to their house and riding on a horse. A group of people passed past them. They commented – How cruel the duo are ! They are fully burdening their horse with their weights !
Hearing that husband gets down the horse and tells wife to remain seated over the horse and they go slowly. Then they again see a group of people and this time people comment that – Oh my God, how shameless the lady is. And see how the husband is going like joru ke gulam !
Again being disturbed by these comments, this time wife gets down and husband rides over the horse. This time, people comment – See, the husband is completely out of sense. She being the wife, how can he leave her to walk barefoot. How can he be so cruel and leave caring about his wife.
This time, both get down and people comment – This couple is literally stupid ! What is the use of the horse if they walk !
Then the couple realised that no matter whatever they do, society will always point their fingers towards them.
So we all should do what is correct or what we feel correct and never care about what society wants or what society respects ! The more the term society comes into our lives, more will be their involvement and commotion and more will be the lack of peace of mind. Society should interfere only to a limit !
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And life of divorced woman is no different. Trauma is one things and beyond that the labels that woman gets is infidelity, very mordern and outgoing type, zero patience level, no ethics, etc !
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Until the socity changes its backward thinking in all the aspects, nothing can be improved in India if we talk about our own place ! May it be in terms of caste, status, race, skin tone, marriage, divorce and everything ! How can I forget the major thing ! This society can be changed only when the horns on the heads of male population is broken and threw apart. The society is just largely male dominated. Even I have seen a small glimpse of male dominance in my father’s eyes due to the environment and society amongst which he was brought up. And seeing him and the society around, what I feel is dominance should be dumped and equality should come into the play. These are the views due to which I say that I would love to stay alone, independent and focussed on my career and goals, instead of marrying and giving the other one a chance to rule on me. Not complying and being down to earth in front of men even now, means literally divorce in these days ! If the concept of dominance itself stops in all the aspects, perhaps every thing can be solved except status and caste related things !
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And haan, Jo ye nazayaz aulad, waala tag society matthe laga deta hai, it indicates society ki soch hi nazayaz hai !
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And these all reasons, make me think that Imlie and Malini are right in their places. Imlie is fighting for her rights which socity will never accept, and Malini is suffering because of Aditya alone who made even Imlie to follow him and hide truth. I think complete fault is of Aditya’s and Imlie and Malini became a victim in that process. Imlie is facing the wrath of the society on two terms – one, her illegitimate existence and two, status and marriage with a person of relatively high status. And mental trauma is yet another thing. Whereas Malini is facing a mental trauma alone but that pain is large since 7 years, 7 months of love is proved to be nothing but friendship !
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Both Imlie and Malini are victims due to the backward thinking of society. And Malini is in addition, cheated by Aditya, hiding the truth !
And yes, Yolande aka Naina ! I really appreciate your thought ! If atleast 1/4 th of the country has your thought, India would have been way too different that what it is now !
Salutes to your thoughts !
Well said !
I feel grateful to comment and read others comments in this forum ! I feel I am blessed. This forum just makes up my entire day…even the stressful day gets a happier one when I comment and read here !
Wow Shriharshita πππ you are very versed regarding the effects of society as a whole π€ …and like I said previously, your knowledge and foresight are way beyond your years of life π …glad to see that you continue to educate yourself with knowledge, because this brings wisdom…
You have made great points…plus the illustration π on par… Like me, you can become a great humanitarian π fighting for justice in this already traumatised world πβ¨
Prayers are the biggest part of life, so prioritize this and everything will fall into place…
Eventually tho, people get lonely… so please don’t close off this section of your life, as waiting too long to start a family complicates the child bearing process… your children will thank you for that π€
Yeah I know that I am too silly regarding my views on marriage and dominance waala fear ! But if circumstances force and parents insist, I would have to give in. But as my parents are supportive, they will give me a full chance to make up my career and be fully settled. And then mariage is not that difficult deal. Because main intention is becoming independent and then marriage. Infact every woman should do that, no matter kam padhayi ki ho ya jyada ! I agree that studies and academics are not going to take up to the top.
Like I have an example. What formal education does a roadside panipuri seller or any street food seller receive ? In almost every minor or major city or even village, I can easily bet and say that they can make it up to 30k per month. In case, if a shutter is taken on rent, then around 22k to 25 k. In some places, their income can be even in range of 50k around ! 50k is something if used judiciously, we can save 1/4 of it easily if there are 4 family members ! So, they are even capable of savings !
Why should I give some other example, when I am having someone from my own family. My father received formal education ITI ! That is class 10th + ITI.
And then by his hard work and ofcourse judicious use of money collectively, we have managed a good savings ! When my father started working, his first salary was βΉ.200 /- pm and then the last one is 1 – 1.5 lakh pm. And now he got retired ! We managed a good saving and are living happily ! What good formal education did my father receive ? Yet he made up his living leaving no excuses and no chances of ourselves questioning him !
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So, I know that academics aren’t going to do anything in our lives. It is just a mere paper of our formal education ! Hardwork and judicious use of money is what matters !
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So, what I aspire for is not a big fat salary but a moderate salary as per the time standards and would like to gain an ultimate knowledge ! I wouldn’t actually need to earn but that earning should make us stand on our own feet. If situations turn worse, that independent we should wake up from the slumber and come to our use ! So that’s it !
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Aaj philosophy bhi meri full swing mein hai !!!!!!!!!!
I am not able to stop only. My mind is literally flowing like a river !
Shriharshita… I am glad to hear that you are content in your country (thu thu thu) … in the modern world it’s called “saving for a rainy day” π
I would advise that if during conversation you come across a word where you are unsure of or unfamiliar with, then Google it immediately π sometimes you’d be surprised at it’s meaning and it also makes for good conversation when speaking with your parents π …they would be like “how did she know…ummm where did she learn that…omg, we have a genius in the family π π
Well said Yolande
Exactly !!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you my dear…π€
I am not only fighting for Adilie… I am fighting for this young lady Imlie, who is the victim of a crime committed by the wayward views of a debunked society π
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wayward
[ΛwΔwΙrd]
ADJECTIVE
difficult to control or predict because of unusual or perverse behavior
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debunk
[dΔΛbΙNGk]
VERB
debunked (past tense) Β· debunked (past participle)
expose the falseness or hollowness of (a myth, idea, or belief).
Until now I don’t know the meaning of wayward. This forum also became vocabulary library for meπ…
Thanks a lot for helping me this way too…really !
Yes Imlie have a big mouth and always pushy in other people’s business, but honestly I think she have that kinda face / look of an innocent person with a sad face which can easily be pitied on, BUT I beleive she is a 2-faced snake. One minute she don’t want to tell Malini of she and Spineless, but always in their personal space and tying to encourage him away from Mals.
Then don’t tell the family but she sneaking around with him and confessing love to him. So 2 timing.
I don’t really like Anu and sometimes her ways but I think she is just fighting to save her daughter from what has been thru. Will be nice if Malini hooks up with KC and leave Imlie and Aditya behind. Dave AND Methi should be blamed for everything, she is just as guilty!