Imlie 14th July 2022 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Malini ignores her baby crying and sleeps. Imlie with Aryan enters the room hiding and comforts the baby with a toy. Aryan says baby was missing her and hence calmed down. Imlie asks if they can present the video evidence and get custody of the baby. He says he will speak to his lawyer. Imlie says baby’s cry was heard in whole house, but nobody came to comfort her. They record baby’s crying video as a proof. Malini enters with a milk bottle and acting stunned seeing them barged into her house notices them recording a video via a camera and herself records an emotional video that her step sister Imlie wants to prove that she is an irresponsible mother, she was sleeping in another room today as she is ill and doesn’t want to spread infection to her daughter, but a soon as she heard her crying, she came here with milk.
Imlie switches off camera and asks Malini to stop her drama as she must have seen them coming and hence came here with a milk bottle. Malini recalls watching them coming in hiding and asks Imlie to please leave. Imlie tries to leave but stops hearing baby crying again. Malini wipes Imlie’s tears and says she already experienced helplessness of going away from loved ones and wants Imlie to experience the same. She shuts the door on Imlie’s face and asks her to get lost. Back home, Imlie tells Aryan that Malini is playing a drama. Aryan says he is also worried for the baby, but the world don’t think like Imlie thinks; the fact is the baby is Malini’s daughter and Malini attended her even if its late, fact is they don’t have right on the baby. Imlie says Rupali has right don’t he baby though, they will take the baby from Malini and give her to Rupali.
Aryan asks her if she is for real, Tripathi family hates Malini and wouldn’t accept the baby. Imlie says if the baby’s mother loves her, they don’t have to do this. Aryan says staying away from the baby due to illness may be wrong for her, but its right according to Malini; there is no rule for parenting, everyone wants to do the best for their baby; it doesn’t mean that the way she doesn’t like is wrong; he dons’t say that Malini is a good mother, they cannot teach her how to upbring her child; they did whatever they could and they have to involve police if they have to go ahead further, which he doesn’t want to and hence she should stop interfering in Malini’s life. Imlie stands speechless while he walks away.
Later at the office, Aryan takes updates from his employees. Imlie is lost in thoughts. Aryan alerts her and asks if she wants to work or not. She says she is working on her story and will update him. Aryan dismisses the meeting and asks Imlie if she is still tensed regarding the baby girl. Imlie says she doesn’t want the girl to go through the bad childhood she went through, she had at least her mother to love her, but gudiya doesn’t have both. She says Malini is using gudiya against them. Aryan says she is right, orders his assistant to postpone all his meetings for 2 hours. He holds Imlie’s hand and reaches Malini’s house saying he will not leave her alone even for a minute. He knocks the door. Malini opens the door and says not again.
Aryan says he came to warn her that ignoring baby’s care and intentionally hurting her physically is a criminal offense. Anu warns him to dare not threat her daughter. Aryan says he doesn’t just threat but takes action. Anu says she is not afraid of his threat and would file a police complaint against both of them and accuse the servant Imlie that her husband’s illegitimate daughter is blackmailing us for money. Aryan reminds Anu that she had been to jail twice, she can do whatever she wants but cannot do anything in front of his and Imlie’s partnership, he will sue them if they don’t take care of the baby. Baby starts crying. Imlie asks Malini to go and comfort the baby. Malini warns her not to teach er what to do.
Aryan asks Imlie not to speak anything as it would go against her. Malini asks if she wants to go in. Imlie says yes. Malini asks her to apologize first. Imlie asks for what. Malini says for trying to trap her last night by illegally barging into her eyes, ruining her life, eyeing on her husband, because of her characterless mother because of whom she is in her life, etc. Aryan says if she loves living in her past and blaming others for her ruined life, she can stay in her own delusional world unlike Imlie and Amma who struggled and live in a reality world. Nanny informs Malini that baby is refusing to have milk. Imlie rushes towards baby. Anu stops her and asks her to apologize first. Aryan asks Imlie not to apologize.
Imlie tells Malini that she is repeating the same words which she repeated 2 years ago, she doesn’t feel ashamed of what she did and wouldn’t apologize for herself, she feels sorry for Malini who was bought up in luxuries and couldn’t handle a small trouble, etc. Malini says its an amazing lecture, she apologize and go in. Aryan says she doesn’t have to apologize. Imlie says sorry. Malini says she didn’t hear it. Imlie loudly says sorry. Malini asks her to apologize with folded hands. Imlie does hearing baby crying. Malini permits her and grins at Aryan. Imlie runs and comforts baby. Baby laughs. Imlie chats emotionally with the baby.
Precap: Imlie notices orphanage form and thinks if Malini wants to send the baby to orphanage. Malini enters the room.
Update Credit to: MA
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Imlie needs to stop, if aryan is saying she should concentrate on her child so let it be, why needs to be mahaan.
Didnβt her child matters to her, how come she is jumping, running and taking tension and immense pressure when she is going to be a mommy.
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She is again obsessed with βEXPOSEDβ drama π€¦π»ββοΈ
Didnβt she have a job and very important COLLEGE ππ
Leave her and her child on her own, sheβll either start caring for her child or she will hire anyone else to do it. Itβs her child and no one else can tell her what to do or what not, if she seriously is her mom and gave birth to her child trust me she has love for her baby but her hatred for imlie is overshadowing it.
I think Malini should tell Imlie,
She isn’t also a good mother ,because she constantly endangers the life of her fetus.
Yeah actually right
I think Adi should come back and apologise to Malini for whatever happened because of imlie and him and make her realise her mistakes. He should also make her understand her worth and only he can revive old Malini back (my heart believes that).
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Adi and Malini pls get back together like old times π₯Ί
Everybody holds Adi guilty of one or another, and wants him to apologize someone or the other. Balls, everyone including bulk of the audience and commentators is guilty of him. Everyone MUST apologize to Adi.
Didn’t watch the episode but what does Imlie mean by she doesn’t feel ashamed of what she did. She still thinks she was right and despite marrying another man, getting new Suhaag, she stills justifies her past actions. Even now she didn’t realise what she did. Hats off to the writers.
And the small trouble which Malini couldn’t handle according to Imlie, is getting married to the love of her life and yet being called a second woman where she had no idea that her hubby was married before. She was his wife till he didn’t have feelings for Imlie but the moment he thought he loves her, the forced marriage became true marriage and the one done in front of family with all rituals and legal formalities became nonexistent.
Name of the serial should’ve been IMLIE- THE NOSE POKER, who keeps on poking her nose in other’s matters.
Came after a long time on this platform to read Imlie written updates just because of Malini’s re-entry but alas writers have seemed to lost even the remaining brain cells they had.
So done with this shit. Won’t read updates no matter what promo they would show, afterall the mentality of justifying Imlie would never change.
@Anagha..well said and I agree 100%.
I don’t watch the drama but will continue to read updates as I love knowing what others think, good or bad.
I just totally dislike Imlie and feel she needs a reality SLAP.
Unbelievable, Imlie saying that she’d repeat what she said 2 years ago, that’s she’s not ashamed of what she did!
I’ve always believed that she knew exactly what she was doing when she used to hang around listening to the T family and then acting accordingly.
Look how she hung around Aditya’s and Malini’s room, always interfered until she got Aditya to fall for her!
First obsession for her jiju and now obsession over the baby π€·ββοΈπ€¦ββοΈ
Oh she’s working in her story, really???
All I’m reading is that she’s running around, sneaking into houses and is extremely stressed, when does she have time to investigate and write a story?????
Imlie saying she is proud of what she did 2 yrs ago, and that she would repeat the same. Perfect sign of the sayer being a b*t*h and an all time whore. That’s what Imlie is.
Chill pill………..take a break………watch Channa Mereya
So Rupali has the r8 on baby more than Malini? ππ
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@Anamika..Rupali already has a daughter whom we never really saw.
We never were shown Rupali fighting for her daughter!
So what the hell makes her an ideal mother in Imlie’s head??
@kally
As far I know Rupali has 2children, one boy and girl..
In the starting of imlie we saw two children in t’house.
Arenβt they rupali’s???
@Anamika.thise were Dhurav’s children, Aditya’s elder cousin.
That family was lovely and written out quick.
@kally only sunny was druv’s son. Twinkle was rupi’s. I just checked Wikipedia. Twinkle lives with rupi but away for study.
@kally
No matter who rupi or imlie is, she can’t snatch child from a mother. And here imlie is taunting malini doesnβt take care of her baby. Well does imlie take care of hee child?? It is in her womb and she doesnβt value of It’s. For me she is the worst mother.
And for imlie “affair with jija is legalπ”
So anyone can’t CHEAT her sister whenever she wants!!! Woah.
Rupali’s ex-husband had a very good relationship with his children and they loved him and his new wife.
I like Aryan’s behavior with his wife.
His character is very well written, just like a man who has a big age gap with his wife.
@Shima, I agree with you. Some times Aryan acts foolish though but yeah the character is very well written undoubtedly. He handles imlie calmly with maturity. I personally believe the big age gap between the relationship makes it strong. Society and others may not accept them and can even find them weird together but having a partner who is older than you is good sometimes. He can handle things maturely and smoothly….
I also saw a lot of opposition on Twitter about this marriage
@Star…having an age gap doesn’t guarantee anything in marriage.
It’s mostly about how mature the couple is in understanding each other and understanding the marriage. Maturity is as important as expectations couple have from each other. When all these conditions go smooth, rest go smooth. Well let me say about my family’s case π. My parents have a nine years age gap and obviously my father is elder here. Even then when I see them handling situations it’s always my mother who takes things more maturely…she adjusts very well.
And I think it’s because she has terrible levels of patience. She endures everything so calmly..she is almost a lord Buddha in our house. π
While my father is completely contrast to my mom. He gets angry without reason, is short tempered, gets easily stressed, is more caring, is more affectionate, is more emotional, is super health conscious.
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Ofcourse he is the most ideal dad and totally different from other fathers.
But he is not the ideal husband this generation expects π.
I have to agree what’s right as right and wrong as wrong. So nothing abnormal with me… I admit my father as he is. π
But my mom is the most ideal human being infact…no one is like her ofcourse. That patience level is what this entire generation lacks π. She is almost an ideal fiction for me. Even I lack patience so terribly. Infact I am the third contrast in my family…π
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So let’s come to the point now.
There’s nothing like age gap ensures everything.
It’s all about understanding and maturity. Especially when the couple has no expectations from each other in marriage except love, understanding and commitment…that marriage is a blockbuster hit !
And if atleast one person is correct and mature..then also relationship goes smooth.
But we rarely find a couple where both of them are mature. They are God created jodis worth to worshipped everyday ! π
Definitely mein experienced tho nahi hu…par jitna ki logon ko dekha hai maine… Yeah this is what I summarise.
But yaar marriage means uncertainty π. Insaan ko ek dho din mein tho parakh nahi sakte..usse pehle shaadi hi ho jaati hai. Fansi ka phanda !! Koi shaadi karta hai tho.. ye saare ideal life partner waale sapne na sajaaye. Once married…ek baar fansi ke fande par chadd gaye..there’s no turning back. One should adjust and not stretch and stress much about small small errors in life partner.
Swasti ! ππ»
A large age gap has many problems in marriage.
Of course, everything depends on love.
But Fahman Khan is not a good option for Sumbul Khan π!
Personal opinion π
They are a perfect match. Dog- b*t*h combination.
βAge gap in marriage doesnβt guarantee anything in marriageβ true π€£π
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For example Johnny deep and amber heard.
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Great example π€£π€£
@Star…but yeah I agree with one thing…big age gap is not much accepted. But I think it has nothing to do with marriage. I myself have seen 12 years age gap wala marriage work well.
Only thing is ki 42 waala banda almost half age ki…i.e, 21 waale bande se shaadi na karein.
There’s a web series on YouTube called 21 weds 30 (telugu’s most popular one)…where the girl is 21 and boy is 30…and he feels she is still a child. But infact the girl’s mature and he is immature. So it’s a story about them beautifully shot. Watched the entire series with parents long back.
Exactly Shri…. society judges but in my options, it shouldn’t matter as long as they are happy. And about marriage, age gap doesn’t matter, understanding between the partners matters but I personally think the partner who is older will handle things maturely that will make the relationship strong. Well here I would like to say your mother handles things maturely than your father because females probably act rationally than males π
Well well, girl. You are grounded for writing about me on a forum.
As an Extra punishment i will make you eat pickles π€ͺπ€ͺπ€ͺπ₯Έπ₯Έπ₯Έππππ
hlw metin, how are you?
Hi “Im your father” π€£
Well this username actually reminded me of a guy. He came to my coaching class. One day he wore a t shirt printed “I’m your father” and when he entered the class, the teacher scolded him saying ” who do you think you are mister, don’t you dare wear such clothes in my class”
I laughed so hard and mocked that guy and he got so annoyed he didn’t talk to me for 2 daysπ€£
Metin nice name selection ππ
@im your father
@Star…infact true. Majority of women act rationally than men.
But I have a female cousin who proves this statement wrong.
I think women are known for that patience, rational thinking but increasing freedom has gone into the heads of all women and they are behaving worse than men now. I don’t know why but many women now say words like – We (she and the spouse) are incompatible.
What the hell is incompatibility ?
If everything is same about both of them… wouldn’t it seem like they are talking with their own reflection in the mirror ?
@Father π
I will accept your extra punishment of making me eat pickles.
I am a champion in eating that anyways π.
A South Indian not eating pickles is almost a joke π. That too when the person belongs to the state which is very well known for making of different types of pickles. I am one who loves food which is exceedingly spicy and sour. Anything would do. Even if the food is not spicy, salty or sour, even that will do. But I love sour foods like hell !
Infact it would be a treat for me π to eat pickles !
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And I suppose you are Metin π
Hi ladies.
Thank you anamika.
“Majority of women act rationally than men.”
Because you take our hearts& mind out.ππππ
We have pickle culture too.
Δ° mostly Like drink its water.
Refreshing.
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Δ°n starwars bad guy tells to good guy im your father. π€ͺ
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“What the hell is incompatibility ?”
Many hide their Real faces before marriage.
After marriage They see that They MaRried to a human,π and realize that They dont share same Dreams. Sum is seperation.
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Age GAP is pair sensitive. Some work , because They got what They want. Some not…
Because you take our hearts& mind out….
Okay π€£ππ
I loved this line π
Yeah agreed. Incompatibility arises when they have temperamental differences. After marriage, comes new responsibilities and life changes, they aren’t able to adjust with thier new roles and diffrence of opinion arises. As a result, issues.
“Age GAP is pair sensitive. Some work , because They got what They want. Some not…”
Because, society doesn’t accept it. Family and society oppose it. Even if they want it, family and society will not let it happen…. If the couple is happy, age doesn’t matter, but yeah to family and society it does matter….
@Metin…
“Many hide their Real faces before marriage.
After marriage They see that They Married to a human,π and realize that They dont share same Dreams. Sum is seperation.”
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There was a time before when people never dated each other, just married someone their family betrothed them to…then was there a thing like incompatibility issues back then ?
No doubt..marriages survived much better during those times than these present times.
India has least divorce cases… in India, when a divorcee says he or she separated due to incompatibility issues, almost all Indian people are like – What the hell is incompatibility issues ? π
Infact incompatibility is a nonsence culture where no one contributes anything…any sacrifice for keeping the relationship going. It arises when one expects so much from a partner in marriage.
Dreams may change…so what’s the problem ? Some simple discussion and conversation on the matter can sort it out. Problem is lack of conversation…but incompatibility is a word to cover up their ego.
There’s a saying in telugu… I don’t know it’s English equivalent but I will try to say it…Why an ax for what goes away simply with a finger’s nail? In telugu we say – ΰ°ΰ±ΰ°°ΰ± ΰ°€ΰ± ΰ°ͺΰ±ΰ°―ΰ± ΰ°¦ΰ°Ύΰ°¨ΰ°Ώΰ°ΰ°Ώ ΰ°ΰ±ΰ°‘ΰ±ΰ°‘ΰ°²ΰ°Ώ ΰ°΅ΰ°°ΰ°ΰ± ΰ°ΰ°ΰ°¦ΰ±ΰ°ΰ±. π
Try translating maybe if you understand in that manner.
It means – when the solution is simple, why try complex ways to solve the problem.
Simple solution is conversation.
But complex solution people find easy is separation and divorce.
How silly ?
Very interesting explanation, thank you
It was a great sentence
In some societies, it is acceptable to marry with a large age gap.
Do you think fk and sk marriages are accepted in india?!?
@Star.. Indian society definitely accepts age gap.
Only thing is the girl shouldn’t be elder π…is what is any typical Indian’s policy.
Agar ladka bada ho tho kisi ko koi bhi dikkat nahi hoti π.
But if you ask me… I guess agar ladki hi badi ho then it’s even more wonderful π. There would be no pressure on the girl to treat her husband as ‘Pati Parmeshwar’ π.
Both would go equal.
Aur tho aur men ego waale issues bhi kam honge.
Provided if the woman doesn’t act superior…then only applicable ! Elder waale harkat kiye tho fark hi na raha π
Well the “Pati parmeshwar” thing is soo true! I mean even in 2022, they expect girls to treat pati as a “parmeshwar” The relationship of marriage is between 2 individuals who are equal and considered to be better halves of each other then why consider one as superior? But you know shri, if the gap is huge, the society won’t accept. Like 20 -25 years gap, is considered a problem. Well I don’t know about others but if they are happy together, who are others to judge them?
After all it’s the couple who has to spend the life together, society doesn’t have anything to do with it. Family also opposes it
“whatβs the problem ? ”
My observations:
X Like luxury. Y has moderate salary. Talking doesnt feed hunger of desires.
X Like going out. Y is home person. Talking differences nothing.
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Your defences variables are wrong. Even i felt from 5000km in 2022 society treat divorcee worst than dog. Sorry ,no offence but if you give a person as an option hell or continue to marriage, its obvious most of them will choose second. Old times in some cities They burried dead men with his alive wife, i read it somewhere, very rare but still some try this nowadays. Practically this means you dont have option. You obey or die. Sad.
@Metin…
I entirely understand what you mean to say but let’s face facts. Divorces are happening for very silly reasons these days. I mean the base on which basis divorce is granted is very silly these days. Ego issues you know !
Definitely I understood that when you said when given an option to choose between hell and continue marriage…people are forced to choose the second option left with no choice.
But then tell me what if the topic of choose between hell and continue marriage arrived due to stupid reasons ?
You know… Divorcees were looked down upon in old times because they believed marriage is a sacred institution. But now trust me divorcees are looked down upon for their silly reasons of separation.
There is a couple in my family the same cousin I mentioned above and my bade papa’s son (in a way my brother only π)…they are not divorced but live separately in two cities and jus talk for the sake of their children. Let me tell their reason of separation was really silly. Husband shouted at wife because there was mistake on wife’s end. And that was the starting point. The wife slapped him back and when husband was taken aback by the action and he was about to raise hand in retaliation when the wife bit his hand so hard like a maniac. Now if this was said only by the husband…anyone would think he might be covering up his mistake maybe. But the wife herself admitted she did that !
Now from there they went on and on. Wife’s mother supported her and encouraged fights. And then it went on and on and on.
Yes my brother had his own string of mistakes too later but not so particular mistakes to be bitten that hard ! And just because of the initial insensitive behaviour of the wife, her two children would be living their childhood all alone without his father…just chance visits for which wife doesn’t have problem..somewhat better. Even in those few days of stay, they would fight like hell…and my brother always gets bitten π..he never reveals that (coz there’s a feeling boys have that they shouldn’t ever say they were bitten or beaten by wives).
But I saw his hands and arms bitten everytime I went to meet them in vacations whenever they both were together in festivities or functions.
And once when I was still small to understand their issues… I asked him what is this thing on his hand and he is like sitting mum, giving no reply. And when I recently visited him… I saw that but didn’t ask him anything knowing how that would have happened already. But he noticed me watching that and he said you stared at this mark when you didn’t even know why that happened…and even now you are staring at it and now you know what that is. You have changed a lot but my life’s still same.
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They could have taken divorce but then family didn’t support them much on either side because they already had a child by then. But yeah what is the difference…separation and divorce are just the same according to me. But then see what the wife’s reason for fight was !
Was that worth separation ?
Even my brother says that my cousin is very well cultured and keeps the respect in society but the only thing in her which is enough to destroy their relationship is her short temper for no reason and her violent decisions for small things.
When I asked him does he love her inspite of all… He said he does love her and also she is his childhood crush.
When I asked my cousin the same thing she said no one else can be like him. He has no bad habits, is loving and caring. But still he has no patience and understanding.
Now tell me love is in it’s own place, ego is in it’s own place. And they have separated…rather living separately to avoid fights.
For what ? Simple thing called ego !
Fact is two hands result in a clap definitely but no one has patience to think that love is above all.
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I have seen many more divorcees. Many have short temper that is easily exhibited even in regular gatherings. I don’t say these we one who are career oriented…so that happened. Instead I say that independency has got into the heads of all of them…and there’s this feeling in many of them that what if we aren’t together…anyway even if we separate I am not going to depend on the other.. I am independent..so what’s the problem !
As a result ego…then short temper…then silly fights… compatibility issues sprout up and finally they either separate or seek divorce. Surprising thing is no one has patience to endure some shouts or fight for once.
If divorces are happening for right reasons like domestic violence and more serious issues…everyone should support the victim and the divorce too.
But when the couple have love but still cite incompatibility issues as their reason of separation… I mean isn’t that divorce happening on sillier grounds ?
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I am not the one against divorce but I think if divorce is misused ….one should get against it which Indian families do !
Couples can get divorced but parents shouldn’t. Just imagine the mental torment the child faces when he knows his parents have separated. Every child wishes that their parents are always together even for namesake atleast.
@Star…
“Like 20 -25 years gap, is considered a problem.”
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Now I am in some sandhigdham….meaning dilemma.
20-25 years is too much.
Rather than citing it as a problem, I think there’s no guarantee on life span and who would perish sooner or later. And definitely when having age gaps like 20-25…elder one might perish much before the younger one among them. And then for some 10-15 years it’s again a lonely life for one of spouse who hasn’t perished yet.
Well there’s no guarantee ki younger one perishes before the elder one but even then..
I think people of same age are married because of the very same reason.
Any parents wish that their child doesn’t have to remain lonely ever in life… that’s the reason they look for same aged people.
Another problem with such an age gap is ki every 15 years the trend changes. One person may have a different childhood from the other. That’s the only problem with large age difference. The beliefs may not connect well, sit well. So marriages with large age groups is discouraged often.
But yeah…I don’t know about the whole India’s case… But in South India, there is no much thinking done by families about large age difference. There are many such couples in South India with large age group…so I never felt it was an issue.
But maybe I have never seen 20-25 age difference. I just know a couple with 16 years age gap.
I personally don’t think 20-25 age difference is okay… it’s too much for me !
This way of thinking will cause, you make people live as what is right for you. Right or wrong is actually alive and transforms all the time. So you find it silly. She find it as a seperation cause.
Δ° think They dont tell the Real reason.
Once a rich girl in my country is dead by suicide cause of not liking her cars color. Yes you read it right, but i dont think its true.
Δ°f Expectations doesnt met, people made up reasons. You will see it in time many times.
My observations shows people mostly show their best before marriage even if it is a lie or one timer. After marriage They cant. Thats all.
@Metin…true ! Sometimes people don’t say the accurate reasons.
But then if we think in that way… World will seem entirely wrong. Now the point is they admitted each other’s many best qualities and said one or two reasons as errors. But they loved each other.
I think if there is love in the marriage, no reason can be big enough for separation.
Means suppose one loves the other person, there is no chance he or she will try to inflict unbearable pain…suppose some pain is inflicted, why is the love forgotten by the one facing it all of a sudden ? If one was arguing, wasn’t the same person loving you dearly ?
If infidelity is the cause of separation suppose…few things are clear. There may be love but there’s no commitment. No point that anyone tries to save the marriage here.
But just individual differences can’t be bigger than love !
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And point number 2 – Couple’s dreams and goals may change.
Okay… Let me give it a try if I can elaborate this.
Suppose if two people share similar expectations, thoughts, dreams and goals.
Let’s forget the sentence called looking into one’s own reflection.
Suppose I am a Person X here and you are Person Y and X and Y are a married couple sharing same expectations, goals, thoughts and dreams.
So if I laugh on a joke…even you will laugh.
If I get stressed about some issue…even you will get stressed about it.
And suppose if I want to get separated and don’t connect to you well…even you will feel the same.
So the point is will any conversation sort this out ?
There is no one in this example who would try to save relationship…or explain that they love each other or try to convince the other and try sorting it out.
What’s the point of sharing and living the goals together then when you don’t know you can or can’t be together ?
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Now I will explain it in your words.
I mean dreams, goals about life may change and that’s what you said.
It’s definitely right.
And suppose you happen to marry a person and both of you have looked forwards towards similar life goals, dreams, etc.
Now don’t you know before the marriage that dreams and goals about life may change…not necessarily but you know that that might happen depending on the person and life situations later. There’s a probability right and you clearly know about it !
So when you already know before marriage that dreams and goals about life can’t be stable throughout the life and there maybe changes…how cool one should be in dealing with it later when you actually get married ?
It’s just about one’s understanding as you said. When one thinks changed dreams and changed goals don’t make any difference provided that love still exists… One won’t think about individual differences, incompatibility a moment later.
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Almost everyone knows marriage is a complete transition. A carefree bachelor or bachelorette life turns into a tough, heavy life of responsibilities, commitment, giving and seeking respect, attempting to understand people as much as possible and viable…
Everyone knows marriage is not an easy thing to handle.
So why does everyone suddenly remember that after getting married ?
Marriage is never a joke that you didn’t like a person, you leave that person and go away, part ways.
Now yeah..parents. We all have parents. Now no matter a child’s father is a drunkard, will that child break off the relations with his father. No ! Why ? Because no one can change the fact that a drunkard man is his father. So why is not marriage considered as important as blood relations ?
If one lives for 25-30 years at parents’ house, the rest 40-50 years you live with your life partner and those unknown people associated with that life partner. Is marriage not really sacred ?
If suppose parents scold their daughter and beat her up for a mistake she did, what will we think ? We will think parents are scolding the girl for her own good. But suppose if the same girl gets married later and her husband happens to shout at her for say some trivial mistake… What will we think ? We will think he is not a good husband, how can a life partner raise a hand, how does he have the right to shout at her…and so on.
But why ?
Love is common in both the cases i.e, when at parents’ house and when with husband. Why is scolding/shouting being uncommon inspite of being common in reality ?
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I think problem is because nowadays divorce is never questioned. People think that they can’t live together but they won’t think that why can’t they live together !
No one conter-questions oneself.
Suppose if I am unable to tolerate stress… Chances are less that I will think why can’t I tolerate stress ! That makes the difference.
Suppose if someone is facing that stress at a peaks level…one thinking I am unable to tolerate stress will commit suicide and one who thinks that why can’t I tolerate stress will resuscitate the losing hope backa he work on the stress to get out of it.
A quote by Robert Frost (that’s in my whatsapp status since years now) – A best way out is always through.
Same applies for issues like individual differences and incompatibility.
If differences are issues, still staying in marriage and try sorting it out by convincing each other, making each other feel love is the best way out.
Running away from marriage and landing up into divorce is simply looking for a way out just because you don’t wish to handle the marriage anymore. Maybe bored oneself because you felt the marriage as a sham.
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Well this is an exceedingly debatable topic.
Divorce vs continuing marriage !
But being an Indian..somewhere I hold a view that it’s better to be wary of marriage before you marry. For me being unmarried is best than worrying about wrong decisions all life and think marriage as a sham and going through the process of divorce.
For me marriage is a God that resides in temple. Either like a devoted devotee I wouldn’t doubt my God and his existence, or prefer to be an atheist. But I won’t choose to be a true devotee and also an atheist in the same life !
Because both marriage and God are not some joke… Semi belief is more wrong than being an atheist !
And dating and live in is that trend which is just like semi belief on marriage institution. It’s people use and throwing themselves…in the hope of best permanent material. It may also happen that in the search of that permanent thing you actually fail to notice a permanent thing and let it go believing it to be some temporary thing just to realise it late that the thing which you perceived as permanent thing is indeed temporary. But it’s already late…you had live in, break up, live in again, marriage and boom.. divorce !
I think Rupali and Aditya coming back is very necessary.
Imlie has to show the videos to Rupali.
They call AKT and he returns to save his daughter.
Adi must not come, Adi wouldn’t come back. Come back for what? For Malini, who raped him? For the child, who’s born out of this rape? For Imlie, who contacted ema, got him tortured, humiliated and physically thrashed by her ema yaar Aryan, ruined his life and ditched him? For his family where his own mother turned feline for the favors she got from his avowed enemy Aryan? Take pity on this man. Let him stay away from these people in foreign lands forlorn.
Imlie wants Adityaβs daughterπ before she was after Aditya. π€¦π½ββοΈ What has this serial come to πΆ
Death thats what
Sigh this is what happens when u introduce a baby at the wrong time they should have focused on arylie instead of adding a baby since Imlie is way too childish to even take care of a baby yet
I know Malini will kill Imlie’s fetus for revengeπΌπ» This is a difficult revenge.
I hope Aditia comes back to take her daughterΨπΆπ» After Aditya takes her daughter to Australia, Malini gets very angry.
If imlie thinks malini is going to give the baby to an orphanage then all the better because then imlie can adopt the baby from the orphanage legally.
@Razor..no, Emlie likes to SNATCH.
Already doing it!
Well when this leap will happen? And how they will be separated from each other?
As per spoiler alert It’s said imlie will have a baby girl of 5 years old. Who is she, chiko or gudiya??
If it is gudiya then it will become so illogical. Adi’s daughter should be with adi, not imlie. And She is not her maasi but step mom.
But for imlie,
Malini π didi
Adi π ex
Gudiya π nephew
Seriously???
May I sum up the aforesaid discussion about Imlie in pure desi form. Dev tharki tha. Mithi bhatiyaarin thi. In dono Ki najayaz aur kaminee aulad Imlie hai. Kutiya Imlie ne kutte Aryan se extra marital relation banayi aur us kutte se shaadi ki. Kutiya Imlie ke pet me kutte Aryan ka pilla pal raha hai. Par un dono ko ek bhale insaan Ki aulad chahiye. Is liye ye dono Malini ki beti ke peechhe pare hain
Your username can be perfectly used to describe your comment πππππ
Shukriya.
@Arian. Grant the devil her due. They say – khag jaane khagni ki bhasha. Only the devil can understand another devil. So you and me cannot describe devils as aptly as Pishachini can. And see the proof. How aptly has she described Imlie and Aryan and their unborn child, so true!
@Kanhaiya. did you appreciate Pishachini or insulted her π
@Arian. I only feel validated and applauded.
This story IS….BORING!!!