Ishq Subhan Allah 25th February 2019 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
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Zara is praying at night. Kabir says I know what you are praying for. Zara and Alina offers namaz at night to do isthikara. Alina prays to get a husband who respect her and her family. Zara prays to God to make her follow right path and give her strength to fight for women. Kabir looks on. Zara says Alina is doing isthikhara too, if God gives her hint to choose Amir then what will you do? Salma calls Zara and says stay away from Alina’s trouble, her parents can decide for her. Zara says they are marrying her to person she doesnt like, I am walking on path of truth, I am sure God will give me a hint, she ends call. Kabir looks on.
Kabir is awake at night and thinks what if God hints towards Amir?
In morning, Kabir comes to Zara and thinks what did she see in istikhara. Zara says I didnt get any dream last night, I am already doing what God wants me to do, if Alina gets hint towards Amir then I will fight for her and I dont want my family to do a sin. Kabir says I wont let this love marriage sin to happen in this house, alina will marry Anas only, you can do anything you want.
Ayesha shows jewelry to Alina and gives her bank account. Alina says what is this? Ayesha says I used to save money for you, this is all for you, we dont want wrong for you, Anas is a good boy for you. Alina says I did istikhara last night and God hinted towards Amir. Ayesha glares at her. Zara comes there. Ayesha says you gave her this idea? I did istikhara and got Anas’s name. Zara says you both kept one choice over other so you got that hint, she asks Ayesha and Alina to give chance to both Anas and Amir and then do istikhara again. Ayesha says dont teach me, I asked you to stay away from Alina, Anas’s family is coming so dont come out. She makes Zara leave.
Zeenat calls Salamat and says I played a trick, I messaged Alina as Amir and Alina ranaway, all are blaming Zara. Zara comes there and says you messaged Alina? Zeenat says I did. Zara says you are not scared of God? Zeenat says Alina will marry whom we want her to marry.
Zara comes to Kabir and says Zeenat is still playing tricks, she messaged Alina. Kabir says Zeenat was saying same thing, I wanted you to be in function with me but you want to challenge me. Zara says no, I just want you to think about Alina’s life. Ayesha comes there and says Kabir Anas’s family is here, she asks Zara to stay in room. Kabir says but. Ayesha says I dont want any drama.
Zeenat comes to Alina, Alina thinks that Zara wont be in function so I have no one on my side. Zeenat says your mother is very worried about you, think if you say no to this relation then Ayesha will throw Zara out, dont break her relation with Kabir, dont do any mistake.
Alina comes in lounge. Anas smiles at her. Asad asks Kabir where is Zara? Zeenat says she went to her parents’ house. Kabir says she is here only, actually she doesnt accept this relation thats why she is not here. Asad says everyone has an opinion but all should be here. Anas says I want everyone to forget about their anger, I want everyone to be part of my marriage. Kabir says I will bring her, he thinks that Alina will marry where I want.
PRECAP- Zara says to guests that Islam doesnt allow to force girls to marry, did anyone ask Alina where she wants to marry?
Ayesha says to Zara that we cant bear you anymore, you wont stay here. Kabir throws Zara out of house. Zara cries.
Update Credit to: Atiba
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Zara wen will u learn u r only daughter in law? U get d name daughter wen ur doin as dey want but as soon as u follow ur own part ur relegated back to daughter in law hmmm. Kabir and his family has once again thrown u out of d house do dem all a favor and just go and wen zeenat makes her move let d chips fall where dey may. Ur father tried to help ur inlaws but now ayesga doesnt even care if ge loses everyting. Dis is how dis family really is and yet dey wonder how kashan is d wsy ge is hmmmm. In order to get their own way dey r wiliing to let their daughter live an unhappy life just hope dey can live with all d consequences
So DIL has no rights? So you condone the injustice that is being meted out to Zara. Has Zara did anything illegal or go against the teaching of Islam to be compassionate and loving…. You make a wonderful MIL, LSM and a good advocate for women’s right (LOL).
The following are some of the rights and duties of daughter-in-law in Islam:
Firstly, there is no joint family system in Islam.
1) The daughter-in-law does not have to obey anyone among her in-laws, whether that is her husband’s father, mother, brothers or sisters, in any matter, major or minor, unless they tell her to do something which is obligatory according to Islam, or forbid her to do something that is haraam. In such matters she has to obey, whether that comes from a relative or a stranger, an in-law or anyone else.
2) They do not have the right to force her to do any thing like, how to cook, how to dress or other things such as working and teaching etc, unless that is by way of advice and kind treatment, not by way of compulsion.
3) It is not permissible for them to interfere in her and her husband’s private affairs.
4) Daughter-in-law does not have to ask permission from any of them to visit her family; that is not their right. She needs to ask her husband’s permission, and if he gives her permission then she does not have to ask permission from any of them.
5) They do not have the right to know the details of her life (she and her husband), and it is not permissible for her husband to tell them of any private or intimate matters between the two of them.
6) She has every right to have a separate house in which she lives with her husband and children, and she has the right to privacy, if her husband wants her to live with his family, and he will not be disobeying his mother if he allows you that. The wise and intelligent man weighs things against the standards of sharee’ah, and gives each person who is entitled to rights his or her due, and he does not take away from one in order to give to another.
7) Her husband has to honor his parents, and she should help him in that.
8) Her husband’s visits to his parents should be on the basis of need. Something may happen to his parents which requires their son to visit them a great deal, such as sickness and the like. Her husband has to pay attention to that. In such scenario, she must cooperate well with him and assit him in taking care of his parents.
9) With regard to her serving them and doing housework, she is not obliged to do that, but if she does it as an act of kindness towards them, or to please her husband, that will be good and you will have the reward for that in sha Allaah. This is something that will raise her status in the eyes of her husband and his family in this world, and will raise her in status in the Hereafter too, in sha Allah.
10) With regard to her living separately, her husband has to ensure that she has a place where she can live separately, even if it’s in the same house. A separate quarter with a room, bathroom and kitchen should be provided for her where no one can enter without her permission.
11) With regard to her life being under scrutiny, his parents have no right to dominate her life. She must try to communicate in a proper manner with her husband and reach an understanding. If he can resolve the matter, all well and good, otherwise there is nothing wrong with her speaking to his family in a wise and mature manner.
12) It is not permissible for her husband’s family to force her to go to wedding parties or so in which there is sin. She has the right to reject it.
14) Lastly, if there are husband’s brothers living in the house, a separate accommodation is absolutely necessary. The brother in law is death in Islam. Husband cannot force his wife to eat with the in laws and serve his parents and brothers.
The daughter in law must know that even though her in laws have no right on her but they have rights as neighbors. Islam emphasises on kindness towards neighbors. It’s good to visit them sometimes, send gifts of food, visit in laws when they are sick etc. Even if your husband’s parents don’t live close by they have rights as muslims.
Also Zara should obey her husband. Islam emphasises so much on obeying the husband. She quotes Islam to suit her needs. If a woman prays 5 times, fasts, give zakat, does hajj and obeys her husband in just matters she can enter paradise from whichever gate she pleases.
Kabir has only asked her not to interfere in his sister’s matter. Alina is her sister in law and she shouldn’t interfere unless Alina asks for help. She should advice her in laws against forcing their daughter into marriage. She adviced them once. Now she should be quiet. Unless her sister in law asks for help Zara should stop interfering. In Islam you cannot force an unmarried woman into marriage neither can she get married without her father’s permission. If her father is refusing for unjust causes like she can take her case to the court where the judge can be her guardian and give her in marriage.
Hamida, while I agree with most of what u said, the one thing I agree most with is that Zara shud listen to her husband, however, if she sees that he is doing something wrong, doesn’t that give her the right to try to correct it ??
Yes she should. She tried to advice him that he was wrong in forcing his sister into marriage. Other than that she doesn’t have any right on Alina. Alina’s father should have the last say. The only scenario she should do something is if Alina asks her to help her directly. In that case they can go for counselling or go to the sharia board and file a case that Alina was forced into marriage. Usually in other Muslim countries counselling is provided by the family and court to solve matters amicably among family members. Most families and couples settle the matter outside court. If counselling doesn’t work then a case is filed. This is how it works in Dubai. Usually such cases never come up because all marriages require medical tests and pre marital counselling for the couple. If the girl is being forced the counsellor comes to know.Then we do the milcha ie nikah at the court. After few months the actual wedding takes place ie, walima. During these few months the man has the time to prepare the marital home and wedding. The couple who are legally married get to know each other. They buy furniture and arrange the wedding by themselves. This gives them time to know each other well.During this time if they are not compatible the wedding doesn’t go ahead and the marriage is dissolved. And that is perfectly fine. Society here do not look at them in a bad way. It’s considered as a bad engagement. Divorce was pretty common at the time of the Prophet. Allah says in the Quran both marriage and divorce from heaven. There are verses even saying Allah blesses both the couple after divorce and gives them. Islam never forces people to stay in bad marriages.
Zara and Kabeer clash on every issue as they are highly incompatible. I think Zara was forcibly married blackmailed emotionally into marriage that’s why she doesn’t want any other woman to face it. Her mother even locked her up.
There is grave mistake the director did. They show Zara asking Rasoolullah. We don’t pray to the Prophet. We pray to Allah. Its shirk to pray to the Prophet.
I wrote a vomment but not seeing it so will just comment again. I believe dat anas is wrking with salamats and his son. Afterall zeenat was d one who introduce anas even though shes still on salamat side and knowing his son wants to marry alina theres no wsy i can see zeenat getting another man married to alina and still b in cohoots with salamat them. Anas is too nice and accepting of d situation same as hamdeen wen ruksaar was getting married to jim and he found out bout her loving kabir. So i believe anas is d foot in d door and somewhere during d wedding ritual salamat son( cant remember his name nah) will switch place with anas to marry alina and get back revenge on kabir and his family. I cant really see him aloowing slina ti marry anyone else other than him. Dats my take on dis wsiting to see if im right or wY off base