Kuch Rang Pyar Ke Aise Bhi 3rd November 2016 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Dev tells Sona that only bad things are happening in this house after their marriage, they should do something in Bose family style to change environment. Sona says yes. He says maa lights up lamps on diwali, this time she should light them. She says okay. He drags her. She says let me change first.
Nikki and Rhea while lighting lamps fight with Vicky that even they need crackers and he alone can burn them. Vicky says no. Mamaji comes and asks them to stop fighting and enjoy diwali. Ishwari brings lamps. Radha jokes with her that she should light lamps before her bahu comes, else her bahu says maaa let me do it and mimics Sona. Ishwari laughs and asks her to stop. Mamaji scolds Radha. He starts clicking pics. Sona and Dev come down and start lighting lamps. Mamaji clicks their pics and tells Ishwari that Sona and Dev are looking so pretty together. Radha comments at Ishwari that her bahu snatched her right directly. Sona and Dev ask each other to light lamps first. They both look at each other and smile. Kuch rang pyar ke….plays in the background. Ishwari goes near Dev and Sona and tells Dev to let her light lamps with her bahu. Dev and Sona touch her feet and then mamaji and maami’s. Mamaji says he is proud of his bahu. Dev says even he is.
Dev and Sona go back to their room. After changing in night dress, Dev tells Sona that they were not celebrating diwali during his childhood like this. Mom used to bring him shirt with difficulty and used to prepare dresses for sisters with her saris. Sona asks him not to get said, they will celebate it well now.
In the morning, mamaji goes to Ishwari’s room and sees her packing blankets for poor. He says even when she had only 2 blankets at home, she used to donate them to poor, she always thinks of helping poor people. She says this is the day when Dev comes to temple with her, she will ask Dev to get more blankets for poor people. He says his kachori/Ishwari is looking so happy today.
Family then sits for breakfast. Nikki and Rhea and Sona take mamaji’s blessings and wish him happy diwali. Vicky comes and wishes diwali to Ishwari. Mamaji scolds him to touch aunt’s feet and take her blessings. He does. Dev comes and says today is diwali and there should be special breafast, so he brought kachori and samosa for everyone. Mamaji says arey wah… Devthen gives gifts to mamaji, Rhea, and Nikki, mamaji, maami, Vicky. Mamaji sees his kurta and says it is very good and now he feels like celebrating diwali. Dev says it was Sona’s idea. Ishwari gets jealous hearing this. Dev gives doll to Neha. Neha asks what will she do with it. He says this is the same doll which she wanted in chidhood and says there is also something else with the doll. She opens doll and sees bracelet in it and says it is very pretty. Mamaji praises Sona for her idea. Ishwari gets jealous again.
Dev sends gifts for Sona’s family. Bejoy tries his kurta pajama. Elena says he is looking very handsome. He says why should not he, his daughter sent gift for him. Sourav comes and says interview was very bad, interviewers asked wrong questions. Bejoy asks what did the ask. He says they asked who went on moon first and he said he was not born at that time. Bejoy hits him with news paper. He says next question was what is weight of earth and he said nobody weight it till now. He continues. Bejoy scolds him that he ruined bengali’s name.
Dev’s family performs pooja. Afer that they all enjoy burning crackers. Elena comes with sweets and gives it to Ishwari saying Bejoy sent it. Ishwari asks her to wish everyone happy diwali from her side. Vicky stops Elena and says he knows she also like him and asks her to say. She says no. He burns cracker bomb in his and says he will not throw it until she says she likes him. He says never. Bomb bursts in his hand. She scolds if he has gone made and takes him to ktitchen and washes his hand. He continues staring her face and smiling. She scolds him to stop smiling. Sona then goes out and gives phone to Sona saying Sourav want to wish her. She takes phone. Sourav asks her to thank Dev for sending diwali gifts. Sona is surprised. Eelena says she will go now and asks love birds to enjoy diwali. Dev says he will drop her. She says she has taxi waiting outside and leaves. Sona smiles at Dev and says he gave her a good surprise. He says if he cannot send gifts to his in-laws, it is his right. She smiles.
Precap: Ishwari says Dev let us go to temple. Dev says yes and gets car. Sona while trying to sit in car twists her ankle and falls down. Dev lifts her and takes her to room and applies balm on her leg and she writhes in pain. Ishwari sees them hugging in a room and gets jealous.
Update Credit to: MA
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Hiiiii EVERYONE !
sab muje bhul gaye kya ????
How can u think that dear?????? But where were u?????? I missed ur comments ???nd i rplied to ur comment but i don’t know whether u hve read that or not…..
Dear aap registered kyu nhi ho jate ho??????
i agree with u aradhna
I love this song…
@ junee di…kalpana & erina…
ishwari dixit ke character ko samjana mere liye thoda difficult hai…bcoz bahot bar vo sahi hoti hai..jab koi bhi topic dev se related na ho…
ishwari dixit ki samjadari tabhi galat ho jati hai jab koi bhi baat dev se related hoti hai…
par phir bhi ek baat to clear hai..she is not a wicked or witch..she is a nice lady..
ap sabko shayad yaad ho to shaddi se pehle jab sona nutrionist ki job kar rahi thi tab ishwari dixit ne ek bar sona se kaha tha ki..ITNI CHOTI SI TO HO TUM..AUR ITNI SAMAJDAR HO..TUMHARE MOM DAD TUMHE SONA KEHTE HAI..TUM SAHI ME SONA HO..APNE MA BABA SE KEHNA ..BAHOT ACCHI PARVARISH DI HAI UNHONE TUMHE…
ishwari dixit ko pata hai ki sona acchi ladki hai..par dev ki baat jab bhi ati hai sab gadbad ho jata hai…me manti hu ki vo prenuptial contract vala bilkul galat tha…par phir bhi muje nahi lagta ki ishwari dixit materialistic hai…she is a very sobar lady…aur dev ke pass jo bhi good values hai..dev ki jo pehchan hai..personality hai ..jisse sona ko pyar hua hai..vo sab dev ko uski maa ne diya hai…
ishwari dixit apni insecurity ki vazah se kuch esa kar deti hai..jo hum sab ko galat lag sakta hai…par jan bhuj ke nahi karti hai..infact vo khud bhi apni insecurities se aware nahi hai..unko pata hi nahi hai ki..vo dev ke liye itni insecure hai aur itna sab galat kar rahi hai..
muje sonakshi bahot bahot pasand hai ..infact dev aur ishwari se bhi zyada..but..
ek baar sona ne kaha tha ishwari dixit se ki…ap 28 yr me jitna dev ko nahi jan paye..utna me 3 month me dev ko janti hu…
YE BILKUL GALAT THA…ishwari dev ko janti hai..par vo 28 yrs se us dev ko janti thi..jo sirf apni ma ko pujata tha..diciplined tha..jisse vo used to ho gai thi..ab dev me jo badlav aya hai sona ki vazah se vo ishwari ke liye bahot naya hai aur es liye unse dev ko samjane me galti ho gayi..
junee di..me manti hu ki..dev aj successful apne hard work aur intelligence ki vazah se hai..par di agar unke halad itne kharab nahi hote to dev shayad aj itna bada insaan nahi hota…
dev bolta hai na ki..successful hone ke puche..aksar niyat aur mehnat hamari hoti hai aur dua maa ki..lekin uski kamyabi ke piche niyat ..mehnat aur dua teeno meri maa ki hai..
AUR YE BILKUL SAHI HAI..dev ke case me…
bcoz hard work aur intellegence ke sath ek third factor hota hai jo hame successful banata hai & that is MOTIVATION..INSPIRATION..aur dev ke liye..uski inspiration uski maa thi..es liye ishwari dixit ka sacrifice dev ke success me sabse zyada matter karta hai..
ab rahi bat past ki to me ye apne personal experiance se kehti hu…past ke pain ko bhulna ..use apne aj se nikalna..utna asaan nahi hai..jitna bolne me lagata hai..years nikal jate hai…
me manti hu ki..past ko yaad karne se sirf pain hi milega…lekin vo past hi hota hai jiske base par hamara aj tika hua hai..hum bhale hi aj me jite ho..par kahi na kahi..kisina kisi mode pe vo yaad aa hi jata hai..hamare khud ke control ke bahar hota hai hai..
dev aur ishwari kehte hai..SINA TUM NAHI SAMJOGI..ye sona ke point of view se dekha jaye to galat hai..bcoz samne vale ke itne salo ke pain ko samjana itna asaan nahi hai par phir bhi sonakshi apna 100 % de rahi hai..its INCREDIBLE !! sona pe proud hota hai..
par dev aur ishwari bhi galat nahi hai..
THATSIT !!
Finally aap aaye to sahi…. I was missing u nd ur comments badly bcse mjhe aapke sth apna view share krna acha lgta h……
Nd coming to ur comment swtheart aap hi batao ki mai uska kya kru mtlb…. Haan mana ki aaj mr. Dev dixit jo v hai aur jaise v hai uske piche ishwari ka hath h but mr.dixit obodhro se jyada kch nhi the at starting…. Yup i remember jb ishwari ne sona ko vo kaha tha but kya tmhe uske baad vala scene nhi yaad hai jb ishwari ka reaction change ho gya tha jb sona ne ishwari se kaha tha ki dev ne usse bheja tha neha k pass…… Past ko bhulna aasan nhi hota ye mai smjh skty hu but isska y mtlb to nhi hota h na dear ki aap samne khade bande ki insult kr de jo sirf aapke liye aapke pass aaya h so that ki vo aapke sadness ko apne sath baate aur aapko happy krne ki koshish kr rha ho. Kbhi kbhi hm khud stone ko gold smjh kr collect krne m itna bsy ho jate h ki same paare diamond ko nhi dekh pate hai. Jo bhul abhi ishwari kr rhi h…. Vo kehte h na insaan kitne v ache kaam kyu na kiye ho but agar usse ek galti ho gye to log usko fault ko yaad rkhte h but ishwari ne to galti nhi balki bht gunaah kiye h apni life m nd vo abhi v kch nhi sikhi hai balki ussi taraf chale jaa rhi h…. Ek insaan kitne v ache kyu na ho but agar vo kisi ko hurt krte ho ya hmesha usse nicha dikhana chate ho to meri nazar m acha nhi h. Jo beet gyi usse log ki pehchna nhi hoti balki jo aaj vo h aur jo krte h unse uski pehchna hoti h na dear….
Nd its ok aapko ishwari achi lgti h to its good but seriously i don’t like her…..bcse mjhe vo log bilkul pasand nhi aate jo doo face rkhte hai samne kuch aur nd piche kch aur… I like gkb more than ishwari bcse vo jo h samne hai ishwari ki tarah chipi rustaam nhi h…..
Eri my dear Super dooper explanation! My views ate the same !!!???
Wow thats really i want to c in krpkab nd thankyou makers for giving us such a awesome nd lovely epi?????????….. Yiipiiiiii?????? maza aa gya epi dekh kr aisa lga jaise mai ff read kr rhi hu bcse makers to good nd lovely epi jaise bhul hi gye the????….
Nd seriously i’m happy to c devakshi cuteee nd lovely bond. I have heard that ki haar man ke change k pichee lady ka hath hota h but i’m happy to see that in my lovely couple life to.. Aaj dev jo v hai, jo v kr rha h nd jo v sikhne ki koshish kr rha h un sab k pichee sirf aur sirf sona ka hath hai. Mr. Obodhro se mr. Awesome, cuteee, surprise nd caring sab ban gya dev just bcse sona uske sath hai nd i’m happy to see them happy?????
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Hey guys mjhe ek baat smjh nhi aa rhi h ki precape dekh kr khush ???????hu ki aaj v hme devakshi ka cuteee, lovely nd sweet scenes milega ya sad hu ?????bcse sona ka leg burn ho jayega….. I’m super confused!!!!!!!
What u all think??????
Koi nhi choti si chot h thik ho jayegi…. Ar jab pyar sath ho care krne ko to Fir dard kaha pata chalta hai…???
N mai to iss baat se jyada khush hu ki dev ish k sath mandir nhi jayega..??????
Maine sare jagh se logout kr diya….BT meri problem solve nhi hui????? Ab kya karu bohot problem ho RHA comment krne me…
I wish mere pass koi magic hoti jise mai apni pri ki smile vapas la skti ???.. Swtheart lgta h tu bhaisahab v ishwari k tarah hi hote jaa rhe h…. But seriously aap ko jo difficulty aa rhi h y mjhe nhi smjh aa rhi kya batau aapko khud ka hi comment show nhi ho rha h????? Pehle mere sth v kch time k lye hua tha ki jo v comment mai krti ty vo show nhi krta tha to mai phir se same comment krti ty but baad m pta chala ki ek baar jo comment kr diya vo post hoga hi so agar comment naa dikhaye to v mai dubara comment nhi krti ty but ab aisa nhi hota h…..
Nd devga ka msg mai nhi dekh pa rhi hu y to tm janti hi ho all thanks to TU
@ junee di…kalpana & erina…
ishwari dixit ke character ko samjana mere liye thoda difficult hai..bcoz bahot bar vo sahi hoti hai jab bhi koi topic dev se related na ho..
ishwari dixit ki samjadari tabhi galat goti hai..jab koi bhi bat dev se related ho…
par phir bhi ek bat to clear hai aur me ye pure confidence ke sath keh sakti hu ki..she is loving…caring & nice lady..
she is not a wicked & wich..
ap sabko shayad yaad ho to shadi se pehle sona jab nutritionist ki job kar rahi thi tab ishwari ne ek bar sona se kaha tha ki..ITNI CHOTI SI TO HO TUM AUR ITNI SAMJDAR HO ! TUMHARE MAA BABA TUMHE SONA KEHTE HAI NA..TUM SACH ME SONA HO…APNE MAA BABA SE KEHNA UNHONE TUMHE BAHOT ACCHI PARVARISH DI HAI…
ishwari dixit ko pata hai ki..sona ek acchi ladki hai..par dev ki baat jab bhi ati hai sab kuch gadbad ho jata hai..me manti hu ki..vo prenuptial contract vala aur cheat karke dev ki sign lena galat tha..par ishwari dixit materialistic nahi hai..she is a very sobar lady…bus vo dar gai hai…unhone bahot bure halad face kiye hai na…to vo darti hai ki..kahi kisi baharvale ki vazah se unlogone aj jo kuch bhi earn kiya hai..vo chala na jaye..unke vo din vapas na aa jaye…aur vo bus es ek point of view se soch rahi hai..aur unhe khud ko pata nahi hai ki..es insecurity ki vazah se unhone prenuptial jesi ghatiya cheez ko approval diya hai…vo aware nahi hai es baat se…
& most important thing dev ke pass aj jo bhi good values hai..dev ki jo pehchan hai..jo personality hai..jisse sona ne pyar kiya hai…dev ko vo sab kuch ishwari dixit ne diya hai..
ishwari dixit apni insecurities ki vazah se kuch esa kar deti hai..jo hum sab ko galat lag sakta hai…par ishwari vo sab jan bhuj ke nahi karti hai..infact vo khud bhi apni insecurity se aware nahi hai..unhe pata nahi hai ki..vo apne dar ki vazah se itna sab kuch galat kar rahi hai..
muje sonakshi bahot bahot pasand hai..infact dev aur ishwari se bhi zyada..but ek baar sona ne ishwari se kaha tha ki..ap 28 saal me dev ko jitna nahi jan paye utna me 3 months me janti hu…
YE BILKUL GALAT THA..bcoz ek maa aur bete ka to relation hi puri duniya me sabse alag hota hai..jise ek wife bhi kabhi replace nahi kar sakti..
ishwari dixit 28 yrs se us dev ko janti hai..jo apni ma ko pujta hai..diciplined hai..aur ishwari ko es baat ki adat pad gai hai..aur ab jab itne saalo ke baad dev me change ata hai sona ki vazah se to vo ishwari ke liye bahot naya hai..es liye accept nahi kar pa rahi hai..vo esvale changed dev ko nahi janti hai aur esliye shayad dev ko samjane me galati ho gai unse..
@junee di..me manti hu ki..dev apne hard work aur intelligence ki vazah se successful bana hai..no doubt..par di hamari success ke picche hard work aur intelligence ke alava ek third bahot important factor hai..& that is MOTIVATION & INSPIRATION..es factor ki vazah se ham hard work karte hai aur hamari intelligence ko ek nayi disha milti hai..
jese ki dev ne kaha tha..kisi bhi kamyab insaan ke piche niyat aur mehnat hamari hoti hai aur dua maa ki..aur dev ki kamyabi ke piche niyat ..mehnat aur dya teeno uski maa ki hai..
aur dev ki ye baat bilkul sahi hai..bcoz dev ki inspiration..motivation uski maa hai..aur shayad es liye dev ke success me ishwari dixit ka sacrifice bahot zyada matter karta hai…its true !!
agar unke halad itne kharab nahi hote..dev ne apni struggle me nahi dekha hota to shayad dev aj itna bada insaan nahi hota..
bcoz hamari life ka ek purpose hota hai..jise pura karne ke liye hum hard work karte hai…aur dev ki life ka purpose apni maa ko..apni family ko un bur dino se bahar nikalna tha..dev ne us junoon me hard work kiya aur aj uske pass kamyabi hai !!
& rahi baat past ki to..me ye apne personal experiance se kehti hu…past ke pain ko bhulana..use apne aj se nikalna…utna asaan nahi hota..jitna bolne me lagata hai..years nikal jate hai ys cheez ke liye …me manti hu ki..past ko yaad karne se sirf pain hi milega..but vo past hi hota hai..jis par hamara aj tika hua hai..
ham apne aj me bhale hi jite ho..but past kabhi na kabhi..kisi na kisi din..kisi bhi vazah se samne aa jata hai..aur pain hota hai…vo hamare khud ke control se bhi bahar hota hai..
dev aur ishwari sona se kehte hai na ki..tum nahi samjogi sonakshi..sona ke point of view se dekhe to ye galat hai..bcoz itne saalo ke dard ko..itna zaldi samjana kisibhi normal insaan ke liye asaan nahi hai..par phir sonakshi apna 100 % try kar rahi hai…its INCREDIBLE !! sona pe really proud hota hai..par dev aur ishwari bhi galat nahi hai..
@ erina…koi bhi mother in law ho..vo thoda to insecure hoti hi hai..aur insecure hai that doesnt mean ke vo pyar nahi karti hai apne bete se..lekin pyar hai..tabhi insecurity hai..
& junee di me manti hu ki..hum dusro ke liye jo kare vo bina expectation ke kare..but phir bhi hamare apno se hame kahi na kahi expectation hoti hai..ye selfish hai ya nai pata nai..but ye normal hai…
like..sona se dev se pyar kiya..lekin kahi na kahi usne bhi dev se expect kiya..expectation rakhi ki..dev bhi usse pyar kare …aur tab jake unka relatuon perfect aur complete hua !!
Sorry dear but i don’t think ki pyaar aur insecurity ek sath rhe skta h bcse jaha tk mai smjhti hu pyaar ek vo strong feeling hoti h jo insecurity ko grow krne ka koi chance deti h unless jb tk aap koi fault na kro. Mjhe to yhi lgta h….. pta nhi y pyaar kaisa hota h bcse kbhi aisa vala pyaar kiya nhi na ?????????
i m so sorry for double comment..
vo mere moblile ke problem ki vazah se double time post ho gayi comment..
Dear vo kehte h na haad se jyada kch v acha nhi hota ache vo pyaar ho ya Expectations…..
@ ERINA…
vo me apni exam ki preparation me busy thi es liye comment nahi kar payi…
but muje bhi apke sath bat karna bahot accha lagta hai aur mene bahot miss kiya apko & finally muje ana hi pada comment karne ….
anyways …how r u ????
kitne dino bad apse bat hui na…
I’m fine dear nd yup hmri baat bht time baad ho rhi h….
But dear plzzz registered urself na so that i can know ki aapne mjhe msg kiya ya aap y jaan sako ki maine aapko msg kiya…
Koi kuch keh le bhai mujhe to Ishwari Ab kavi pasnd nhi aane wali…. Pasand krne k liye characters ki kami nhi h show me Jo mai Ishwari k pic he v dimaag lagau……
N @ Aradhna & @ Pankti
M very very happy ki aap dono ko ishwari pasand hai?? jaisa Maine pehle v kaha h,,,,ki koi to hona chaiye Ishwari ko v pasand krne k liye….????
Today’s sbs segment
https://youtu.be/Ev8ke0waOSg
@ ERINA…me apse ek aur baat kehna chahungi…apko lagta hai na ki..mr..dixit ..mr..obodhro se zyada kuch bhi nahi the starting me…
to shayad apko yaad hai ek bar dev ne sona ka mobile tod diya tha aur sona dev se naya mobile accept nahi kar rahi thi..tab ishwari ne sona ko dev ke bare me owesomely samjaya tha ki…
mera beta ek paheli jesa hi..kabhi gussevala..kabhi bahot gehra…par es ghar ki neev me mere dev ka bachpan hai..aur jabse usne hosh sambhala hai..vo bus kam karta gaya ..karta gaya..karta gaya…aur dhoop tez ho to meeti sakht ho hi jati hai..mera dev bahar se bahot sakht hai par andar se to ekdam mom hai..
i mean dev na ..mr..obodhro sirf bahar se tha..andar se to vi bahot sensitive aur emotional insaan tha…unki company ka ideal boss tha..company ke sare employess ka bhi favourite..bcoz apko yaad ho to sona ke accident ke time jab blood ki jarurat thi to uske company valo ne bola tha..sir apke liye to kuch bhi..
aur dev sona se milne se pehle bhi itna hi accha insaan tha…dev pehle se hi diamond tha…sona ne to sirf us diamond ko uski chamak di hai…aur dev diamond ishwari ki vazah se hai aur uski diamond ki jo brightness hoti hai vo sonakshi ki vazah se hai..bcoz ek diamond apni chamak ke bina adhoora hota hai…es liye sona dev ko complete kiya hai…dev ko ek better person banaya hai..gentleman to dev pehle se hi tha but still ishwari ki di hui
values nahi hoti to sona diamond ko
vo chamak kabhi nahi de pati..
mera kehna ka matlab sirf itna hai ki..dev ki life me ishwari aur sonakshi dono equally important hai..
Pankthi…… I totally agree with u…… Ur each ND every word true……
Yup completely agree with u dear ki ishwari nd sona dono hi dev k lye equally important h….
Vo jo maine likha tha vo aadhura reh gya tha but mai v vaisa hi feel krti hu but d thing is y ishwari ka face jab v dekhti hu mjhe gussa aa jata h mai kya karu…..
Mujhe v
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Hi fi eri
@ PANKTI
HUM SABHI AGREE KARTE HEY KI DEV KI ZINDAGI MEY ISHWARI AUR SONA DONO IMPORTANT HEY! PROBLEM: LEKIN MA NE MA JAISE BEHAVE NAHI KI!!! She is SHREWD!
I just can’t accept your explanations while you are entitled to stick to yours!
MY REBUTTAL:
1. I quote your lines “ Itni Choti si to ho tum……….bohot achha parvarish di hai” was for Sona by Ishwari. If that is so, in that case, she has “DUAL STANDARDS” becoz she changes her stance as per convenience! She said this to Sona, becoz she was fully aware that, then, Sona did not aspire to be her bahu neither was she interested to get involved with Dev at that point of time. At least the regular squabbles suggested that! Today,the equation has completely changed and therefore she refuses to share her love for her son with someone else. Listen Dear “ A MOTHER CAN BE POSSESSIVE AND SEEK ATTENTION too from her SON but she will never DEPRIVE him of his BASIC NEEDS IN LIFE! If she does, then she is out of her mind and she is also “ SICK” or she is a” STEP MOM” who could care less for her son! ( FEIGNING ILLNESS REPEATEDLY< DEPRIVE DEVAKSHI OF THEIR FIRST NIGHT< CANCELLATION OF HONEY MOON)
Yeh Kaisa PYAR hey apne BETE ke liye??
2. The prenuptial agreement as per you was done by Ishwari for reasons of insecurity!
Yeh bhi Kaunsi PYAR HEY where you “ CHEAT YOUR SON” and get the papers signed unethically ( PALAK PANEER). A mother who is UNETHICAL deserves very little respect! She has neither PRINCIPLES NOR HER LOVE in place!
3. You said Ishwari is scared that she might lose everything whatever Dev has acquired professionally. Why ?
Sona’s would be child will also be her GRANDCHILD! Why deprive your son’s better half and an innocent soul who is also your blood? AND you CLAIM that you LOVE YOUR SON? OR IS IT OK to do all that JUST BECOZ YOU HAPPEN TO BE THE MOTHER?
IT’S JUST UNFAIR! NO Reason on earth can justify such incorrigible behaviour!
4. It is also true that you might know A PERSON FOR YOUR ENTIRE LIFE and yet not understand that person AT ALL!
Becoz of the LACK OF SENSITIVITIES! UNREASONABLE DEMANDING BEHAVIOUR! Therefore, Sonakshi said those words to her that for 28 years she couldn’t understand……..
5. Why couldn’t Dev tell his mother that he loved Sonakshi before all that drama took place?
Becoz Ishwari could never infuse that confidence in him that she would stand by him at all times. He feared that she would not be able to accept Sonakshi. That is what happened! She still doesn’t; becoz one of the promos show her saying ‘ GHAR KI LAKSMI BETIYAAN KUCH KAR LEGEE” on DIWALI!
6. The MOTIVATION AND INSPIRATION that a mother provides to her child is important I agree but let me tell you that “MOTIVATION AND INSPIRATION “does not come from parental grooming alone! A good peer and schooling can also turn events dramatically! There you have to be like a “MARATHON RUNNER” with FOCUS, STAMINA AND GRIT!!!
So pinning it down to a Mother’s contribution alone is a very narrow lens thru which it is being viewed. There are many mothers who are neither literate nor have the time to spare for their children becoz of various pressures in life; don’t some of their children do very well in life? TO STAND OUT IN LIFE there IS MORE THAN a mother’s MOTIVATION DEFINITELY! Hardships, also sometimes compel you to excel! Look at JEWS,a good example of that!
7. I completely disagree that “ PYAR HAI TO INSECURITY HEY”! Who fir PYAR NAHI hey! USME DUWIDHA hey! If your love cannot provide assurance, confidence, security then, that is NOT LOVE . LOVE IS UNCONDITIONAL! The moment insecurity creeps in, that’s when trouble starts! EXPECTATIONS HOUND! Expectations to get back something in return!
8. I am sure a lot of people have painful pasts and only gentle handling, assurance and love can help in healing! In this case Ishwari keeps reminding the pain!!!
9. Why does Ishwari keep reminding of how much she or Neha contributed towards Dev’s success? Dev time and again acknowledges it and goes out of the way to provide them happiness but they don’t spare him : Isnt that SELFISH on the part of Ishwari and Neha?
10. LAST BUT NOT THE LEAST I cannot pardon a mother who tries to commit suicide thinking about another person in her son’s life.( Ishwari consuming pills) SHE is THOUGHTLESS about her children’s reputation, and COULD CARE LESS, probably that drives her towards the devastation! SHE IS SELFISH!
By the way most parents go trumpeting about their child's achievements and hardships etc and so did Ishwari when she explained Sona about Dev ( when mobile phone broke)She can be concerned so long as it doesn't hurt her personally or everything is under her control.
So, I MAINTAIN that Ishwari is an extremely SELFISH, NARROW MINDED, CONNIVING and FAKE personality as per me and that is getting exposed gradually under the garb of a MOTHER’S LOVE and SACRIFICE for HER SON!
I completely agree with you Junee di!
Especially the last line!
She definitely is a highly selfish mother who wants her son to provide her with maximum attention and can’t help but feel envious when he tries to provide equal attention to another lady who is none other than his own wife! I seriously can’t believe how low a mother can stoop just to seek attention!
junee di..yes..meri ek bat galat thi kahi na kahi ke…pyar hai to insecurity hai…
bcoz esa hona chahiye ki..pyar hai to vishwas hai aur vo itna strong hai ki insecurity ki koi zagah nahi hai…that is true love !!
but me ye insecurity vali bat sirf vo jo..saas ..bahu aur bete ke bich me trio banta hai na uski kar rahi thi…varna i agree ki…jaha pe doubt aur insecurities hai vaha pe vishwas aur pyar nahi hai..its very true !!
but real me bhi mother in laws ko dekha hai jo bete ki shadi ke baad thoda sa dar jati hai ki unke bete ki life kahi unki importance kam na ho jaye..to me bus es point of view se insecurity ki baat kar rahi thi..nothing
else…
varna me bhi yahi manti hu ki..pyar aur viswas hai to insecure hone ki koi zarurat hi nahi hai..ek maa ko apne bete par apni parvarish par bharosha hona chahiye..but still hamari society me insecure hone vali stituations..phase ate hai..specially saas..bahu aur bete ke trio me..so me bus uski baat kar rahi thi..
aur baki sab point me hamari thinking clash ho rahi hai di…ap mujse agree nahi ho aur me apse agree nahi hu…but usme kya hai..jo bhi ho..we r friends na ! aur ap bolte ho na we can agree to disagree …
Absolutely we all are friends and every individual has a point of view to express! ChillPankti?
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Tumhari galat femee hey ki saare mother in laws aise hey! Becoz all saas bahu drama show the tension between son, mother and wife! These incidents are slowly coming down now adays if the mother doesn’t accept the bahu gracefully she will have problems! The son will sliwly drift away and live a lufe separately! So presnt mothers are far more smarter in thinking!! The last thing she would want is her son to drift away from her. This was earlier also pointed out by Kali!!
Pankti i have given u a point by point rebuttal and therefore it stretched too much! But every point raised i have explained!
Hope ur exams went well! Did enquire about u and many ithers who are busy!
di..muje apse bat karna bahot accha lagta hai par phir bhi pata nahi kyu jab se hamne bat karna start kiya hai us din se lekar aj tak hamari debate hi hoti hai hamesa…
but apse bat karke muje bahot accha feel hota hai bcoz hamare bich me hamesa ek healthy aur meaningful discussion hota hai ….what u say ?
Absolutely Pankti???Debates should be healthy , giving space to each other to express .?
Romantic Fight Between Devakshi
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ev8ke0waOSg
Pankti tumne Dev ki character ko bahot sundar samjhaya! Mey us se sehmat hun ki woh bahar se abhodro but andar se bahot naram ! But humesha hi indecisive and indiscrete tha isi liye suffer bhi kiya bechara!!!