Patiala Babes 11th October 2019 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
Babita tells HS that good Irfan came home and realized his mistake, now NB is happy to spend sometime with her grandson as she loves him a lot. HS says his friends want a party from him as h didn’t invite them for wedding, so he wants her permission. Babita says he can invite them. He says it will be hectic for her to handle so many guests, so he will call them in 6-7 person batch. She says he can call them at once, but she will serve Navratri food. He says whatever she prepares tastes like amrith. Mickey reminds Minnie its her birthday tomorrow and they can party. Minnie says they can party after exams and excitedly describes how Babita used to act as forgetting her birthday and surprise her each birthday. Biji says even they used to act with Babita and surprise Minnie. Minnie says when she was a kid, she used to fight with Babita when she acted, but used to get very happy, she is very excited for this year’s Babita’s surprise.
Babita while cutting vegetables feels she forgot something. NB asks what she forgot. Babita says she doesn’t know, but she definitely forgot something important. NB says she is stressed after all the recent wedding and other events and should go and rest. Babita says she is fine. NB says she should concentrate on her catering business also. Babita says she has a lot of work at home and tonight HS’ friends are coming for dinner party, NB and Kammo can manage cooking while Minnie can manage clients, she will get them new recipe if need be and just wants to enjoy her marital phase. NB says she is totally engrasped in her married life. Babita says like NB suggested she grabbed happiness with her open hands and is enjoying the feeling of getting engrasped in someone’s life, she is totally enjoying HS’ love and attention towards her, etc. NB silently hears her smilingly.
Khatri in his office checks account and gets confused. Kammo walks in holding her back and asks him to massage her back. Khatri asks her not to disturb while calculating expenses. Kammo says he hasn’t earned since 3 months and house is running on her salary. Khatri changes his tone and pampers her. Kammo says Babita has made her a servant and making her work hard while she is enjoying whole profit alone, she is still busy enjoying her honeymoon with HS. Khatri suggests why don’t she buy Babita’s business and enjoy whole profit alone. Kammo says Minnie takes care of all finances and manages clients, she doesn’t let even a single paisa slip away. Khatri says then one should create a rift between Babita and Minnie and separate them. Kammo asks how will he. He says not him, someone else will.
HS returns home and asks Babita if she prepared feast. Babita says she is having severe headache and couldn’t prepare food, she is even stressed with Minnie’s behavior, so maybe he is having headache because of that. HS says when she has her own catering service, why she is worrying. He hugs her and asks her not to worry. He gives food order. NB prepares food with colleagues and when Kammo returns scolds her to start working soon as they need to deliver a new order in 2 hours. Kammo murmurs yelling at Babita and asks if they can get a share in profit. NB scolds her and gives long list of dishes to be prepared. Minnie returning from college with Mickey and Preet asks who is this new client without her notice as she manages all clients. NB says HS gave this order as he has arranged party at home. Minnie gets excited thinking Babita and HS have planned for her surprise birthday party and tells Mickey and Minnie that Babes will forgive them and will invite even them for birthday party. She reaches home and asks HS where is Babes. HS says she is having severe headache and is resting. Minnie walks to her room and excitedly thinks Babes is going overboard for her birthday and making her feel embarrassed.
Precap: Babita panics remembering that she forgot Minnie’s birthday. Laala asks how can she forget her daughter’s birthday.
Update Credit to: MA
15 Comments
Why the writers are after Minnie,babitha and he,why I don’t understand .it WAS my favorite but now I don’t know
Got clarity……the whole babita mini fiasco is shown to show that it is wrong……paridhi said so herself
Got clarity……the whole babita mini fiasco is shown to show that it is wrong……paridhi said so herself
Bad way to show that it is wrong
The writers look to be confused about how to take forward Babita’s character…In this episode I could make out she is not able to cope up with her responsibilities as a wife and a mother…it is obvious she is basking in her new found love and affection which are absolutely new to her..Though married for eighteen years ,she was never treated like this by Ashok ..no wonder ,she wants to lap up every moment of this new phase of her life.But unlike the first time married women ,Babita can not afford to wallow in the luxury of her husband’s love and affection….she has the responsibility of an eighteen year old daughter ,who ,till recently ,enjoyed her undivided love…now Babita is not able to find that fine balance between her new role as HS’s wife and Minnie’s mother…the result is this awkward situation which Minnie will not be able to understand and appreciate….She will be devastated to see that her mother doesn’t even remember the birthday of her dear daughter….And I don’t find fault with Minnie …a father can afford to do such blunders like forgetting such an important date but not a mother…let us see what will be the repercussions of this incident on the already deteriorating relations between mother and daughter…
The writers are confused with babita’s character indeed. Just after the wedding babita fought with hanuman that minnie is the most important for her and left theroom to be with minnie… one week later babita only wants hanuman and she is so focused on him that she even forgot minnie’s bday. This woman used to handle multiple clients, orders, advertisements just a month ago… and now is totally inept at giving both the person equal importance?
The wise Counsel lead by Mini are having a discussion about the Great one’s past Birthdays and on reflection Mini says fondly of various ways that her Mother wished her happy Birthday at midnight and how wonders how she is going to do it. Goes on to mention there are differences between them but why does she not talk to her Babes and say sorry to her as she was rude but oh no she can talk to the wise Counsel lead by the Khuranas, Mickey and Preeti. About her Babes but not to her Babes, very bad Mini and disrespectful as well.
But I wonder how many Birthdays Ashok missed or wish her at midnight, that the Khuranas or Mini talk about as they have Babita to bad mouth and very bad from Mini.
So she presumes that when She see HS putting the plates etc on the table that the Party is for and when HS tells her that Babita has Migraine, she thinks that Babita is acting.
So when Babita does not wish her she will storm off to the Wise Counsel and bad mouth Babita and celebrate the big ones Birthday.
Very selfish is Mini and self centred and will she think about her Mother’s Migraine or ask about her health, oh hell no way she will cry in her self inflicted poor state of my Babes does not love me anymore.
But I don’t understand why Babita wants to become a full time housewife again ,leaving the catering services to NB and Kammo who has almost tilted towards her wretched husband Khatri…..why is she forgetting that every woman ,irrespective of her husband’s love and financial position ,should be self sufficient….And it is not an impossible task to do justice to both family and profession … nowadays almost all women are doing that..
One more thing I found uncanny was Babita’s conversation with NB where she admits unabashedly that she loves HS so much so that she doesn’t want anyone between them…what does that mean….is she findingMinnie’s presence uncomfortable…It was clear that even NB was not comfortable with Babita’s thoughts…but the very next day Babita goes into a panic thinking that she has forgotten her girl’s birthday ….to make things more unpleasant for her,Laala wonders how can she forget her daughter’s birthday…..It is really getting tough to analyse Babita’s thinking…If not for that ‘third person’ remark ,I would have taken that Babita is still taking time to adjust to her new life and this is just a temporary phase.But now I am not sure what she is thinking…is she unconsciously thinking that Minnie is forced on her? I sincerely hope I am wrong and Babita still loves her daughter..
There were many things going on in my mind while watching this episode. The new one being: how is hanuman still in love with babita? Lets me explain. Hanuman fell for because of her strength and determination. Everytime babita showed her ambition regarding her business, or fought in face of problems, or learnt to ignore people’s taunts, at every such instance hanuman fell more and more in love with her… but look at babita now!! She has zero interest in her shop now which she bought spending 10lakh rupees. She gets affected by every word of her neighbours and… she cries at the drop of a hat now!! One little thing and copious amount of tears start raining… today she cried because couldn’t cook. Seriously? Babita has completely digressed from t earlier growth. Nayeen bi said right. Babita has completely become a housewife again. Its like she learnt nothing from her past. Her job was only a source of money and not her passion. Now she is financially secure again through her husband she doesnt give one hoot about her shop. Very disappointed.
.
Its natural that nayeen bi and kammo are feeling the burnt of all the extra load. Nayeen bi doesnt say anything out of loyalty but even she has to agree that kammo is right. If kammo is working so hard that she has started suffering back pain… hell she does deserve raise and commission! Its not being greedy. If she is putting the hours and hard work in place of the absent owner, its natural to be dissatisfied with the old salary.
.
I am feeling very bad for minnie. She is going to get her heart broken completely because for the first time in 18yrs her mother completely forgot about her. The misunderstanding was well set up. You get so used to the whole surprise charade and fake forgetfulness every year that when it really happens, you dont see it coming at all. I dont understand why couldnt biji at least have spoken about the bday with nayeen bi… if nayeen bi knew she would have immediately talked to babita. But half the characters do not talk to the other half on certain days, it seems. Or maybe nayeen bi is too busy at the shop too… am surprised irfan did not object to her mother working at this age.
.
In the next episode if babita is more upset that ‘lala thinks mother has forgotten daughter’ instead of minnie’s hurt feelings, i will be done with babita.
@meTooPatialBabes, i agree to what you are basically saying. As children grow friends become closer than family and parents start worrying about reputation and all that stuff. But here the issue is very badly handled. Babita calling minnie as mita has a lot of hidden conotations, none of which is good. Babita could have gently talked to minnie but no. Is there a difference between babita and rano or not? and its not like minnie doesnt have her issues. Insulting her mother’s relation because she is ‘outspoken’ is not done. Going out with friends ignoring phone calls, jumping on the back of stranger trucks, how right is that? The way it is showed, it seems the writers are showing minnie as completely right and the victim. How come biji dadaji dont tell her that she shouldnt talk with her mother like that? Yes… teenagers rebel and fight. Parents become more conservative…. but minnie and babita’s bond was always supposed to be unique. The writers could have shown something different… and in all this hanuman’s role is completely made small. What happened to his bond with minnie?
.
The writers are showing as if everything spoils after a second marriage. Atleast i feel all the bonds have completely changed for the worse after the marriage
I think that the bonds are not permanently changed. It will be restored in sometime. All this is shown just for making us know about the general scenario.
If I was in Mini’s place I would have taken break for sometime and return to a normal routine again.
And I have not seen how did they reach that place (khet , truck and all) but I also had a question.
Was preet allowed to go like this even after accident? What did they say to Rano regarding the accident?
But anyways, this type of break was needed for Mini though practically it is very difficult.
.
Taking about Babita.. Babita is making a big mistake. But they are actually trying us to show this. And she’ll learn from her mistakes. It is not right but for the first time she is feeling loved and she is tring to get and give all sort of time to her married life. Like her concern for Mini is not decreased. It is just that her concern regarding her married life is increased and so is this reasult.
Let her open her eyes and come to a real world from her dram world. Before she slept with HS, her priority was Mini according to what she said but now finally they are a married couple and that’s why HS has overruled her thoughts.
.
Taking about HS, HS has not changed. Many time to impress a girl he usually tried to impress her siblings, family, etc. Along with that they developed some kind of bond with Mini. But now since he spends more time with Babita his natural priority is Babita. I have a question: Has HS become a joru-ka-gulam of Babita? The way HS scold Mini was okay. Father is like that. He needs to keep everything in control. But what he said: You have no place here if u hurt Babita. I also disagree with this but may be he said this just to make Babita feel like the actual makan malkin.
.
Talking about mini – babita fight, babita could have asked gently. I think if it was HS he could have asked gently and as far as mother is concerned this the way they talk when a girl crosses her limits. Usually father dont raise hands on his daughter. So… But the way she compared her daughter with Mita was completely baseless. But the situation is like that. If we look at it distantly it is right, Mini can become Mita. But if Babita tried to understand Mini, then only she’ll find there is nothing like that. But now as for Babita, her knowledge is what is seen from outside. But it’s okay.. how parents behave with their siblings is different for all. When we look at Mini’s side, she will feel that Babita is saying all these because she finds herself in Mini and she does not want it to be repeated. So she said that she can control her feelings unlike her mothers. But it was right truth. But telling truth is more advisable to avoid complications.
Hello Me too Patiala babes,I agree with you that after certain age ,children don’t share certain things with their parents…in specific their crushes and affairs….But don’t you think Minnie,being portrayed very different from girls of her age and who treats Babita more of a friend than a mother,should have told her what she truly feels about this guy….ok,let us assume that she is like any other teenager in some respects,but why is she bluffing to herself that Mickey is just her friend…
Coming to slapping of girls in Indian households ,I don’t think educated families do that…yes ,it is justified when tempers flare up but it is applicable to both boys and girls…ill treating girls as a habit is very wrong and those days are long gone ,at least in urban India where daughters are treated on par with sons and given equal love and equal education…( the reason why we are all here participating in this discussion) ..but that doesn’t mean we completely forego our traditions …some of them are inbuilt in our genes and they can not be set aside in the name of progressiveness….Nothing wrong in mingling with the opposite s*x in colleges and workplaces as it is necessary but what Minnie is doing doesn’t come under the category of progressiveness particularly when her best friend is involved and she herself is not sure of her emotions..
I completely agree with you that Babita’s concerns are justified….no mother would like to see her grown up daughter roaming around with boys and be friends with them…At times ,I wondered how Babita accepted Mickey’s continuous visits to their home during marriage arrangements…in fact many of us wondered if he had a personal life of his own….but what I object to is the way she is dealing with it…there is a way to deal with our children when they grow up..Slapping and insulting won’t solve the problem..instead ,it might worsen…Anyways let us see how the writers are going to solve this …
There was one scene a couple of episodes ago when minnie mickey and preet were in the field. Preet made a ring out of twigs and put it on mickey’s finger. When mickey did the same to preet, the ring on preet’s finger broke. Preet got a little upset but mickey and minnie laughed it away… dont know if it was symbolic of the future to come or not
It’s my personal experience, I too have experience it, so no questions on that: “Coming to slapping of girls in Indian households ,I don’t think educated families do that…yes ,it is justified when tempers flare up but it is applicable to both boys and girls”.
Many times Mini told Babita that Micky is just her friend? But don’t you think it’s hard to trust and believe it for family?
No family even if educated would like their girl’s involvement with boys. Everytime we saw babita inside house only. What’s outside, she would be unaware of. She might not be knowing much about it and Micky did not come inside house much.
About Micky’s personal life, he lives in a hostel/PG. he has no family here. All he has is his friends. And this time he had an opportunity to be with friends and enjoy and so he is. preet might be having more time restrictions so she was not seen much in marriage preparations…
What feel is more for Kammo and Nayenbi. They were very true and Babita’s behaviour with them is not at all justified. Let’s see how it turns out! Hope Babita understands.
.
I seriously want to know how should teenagers behave when she feels that her family is not that connected unlike earlier. The problem is even more critical when she is introvert or has no best friends.
Dhara
I know the scene in the field, and we all watched it and here it is seen that Preeti puts it on gently put he pushes it on, no wonder it broke. I don’t see anything in at all for the future. But certainly see Mickey and Mini are very callous and cruel laughing at her, that was not right.
And yes that is because these two are hiding things like midnight Balcony climbing and falling in his arms etc. Very deceitful and this is going that way.
But what I don’t get and here I am amazed why people are shocked by Babita calling Mini as Mita, but we viewers see her lies and hiding things about Mickey and if it was so pure soulmate Love, why did she hide them from Baita and its all in dear dairy on black and white.
And yes the Mita tag does apply to her.
And for once I want Babita to be proved right about Mini and the Khuranas, who Mini has whitewashed.
Here I think that Mini is very selfish like Ashok and carries many of his traits all bad ones.