Patiala Babes 20th September 2019 Written Episode, Written Update on TellyUpdates.com
HS asks Babita when Minnie had slept already why didn’t she return back. Babita says she wanted to speak to her in the morning, so she slept in Minnie’s room itself, but Minnie went to college early, so she couldn’t speak at all and will when she returns. HS says its okay if Minnie has problem. Babita says she has problem as she cannot sleep without Minnie. HS says now that they are married, there will be many secrets which they would like to share with each other as husband and wife, she should speak directly to him instead of hiding her problems behind Minnie, he was thinking that Minnie has problem, it is not fair for him and Babita and they should be open to each other. Minnie and Preet return from college. Minnie insists Preet to have coffee and give her missed lecture notes. Preet says she needs to hurry home. Minnie insists her to have coffee aramse and takes notes from her. Preet says if she doesn’t do well at exam, her mother will not spare her, so she needs to rush home and study and even Minnie should return home as Babes would be worried for her. Minnie sees HS returning home on his bike and entering in and says Babes will not be worried at all as she is married now. She pulls Preet’s cheeks and jokes, and they both laugh.
HS freshens up after returning from work. Babita offers him water and jaggery and says she has prepared bhajia/fitters for him as he would he hungry. He excitedly praises her and asks to join him. She says she will have after Minnie returns and this time she is not hiding behind Minnie, she is worried for her as she has not returned and will call and check where she is. She calls Minnie, but Minnie messages that she is doing joint studies with Preet and will come late. HS returns changing his dress and asks her to serve food as he is hungry. Seeing her tensed asks if Minnie didn’t return home. Babita says yes, she just messaged that she is at Preet’s house doing joint studies and will come late. HS says then why she is tensed. Babita says Minnie never did this before, if she is having any problem, if HS and Minnie have any issues.. HS says no. She says she will go to Preet’s house. HS says why will she, he will go and check.
Minnie lying on Biji’s lap tries to study while Biji reads holy book. Dadaji asks Biji to read silently as Minne is studying. Minnie says she doesn’t mind and asks Biji to continue wiggling her fingers in her hair. Biji asks if she doesn’t want to go home, it is late. Minnie asks if she cannot spend time with her. Biji emotionally says lonely old age is very frightening, she feels alone without Lovely or Ashok and is feeling sad to live in a rented house on her daughter and son-in-law’s money. Minnie cheers her up. NB hears door knock and opens yelling in her usual style. HS walks in and asks if Minnie came here. NB says yes. HS asks what is she doing here. NB says he should say that. HS says he returned from police station and Babita informed that Minnie had gone for joint studies at Preet’s house, he went there and finding she is here came here now, Babita is tensed. NB says everyone can see Babita’s tears but not Minnie’s feelings, he should go and inform Babita not to worry as Minnie is with her grandparents. HS asks why is she with them. NB says they are Minnie’s grandparents, what problem he has. HS says after hearing what they did to Babita, he doesn’t respect them anymore. NB says even his mother suffered from his father and grandfather’s hands, but he never opposed his father and let his mother suffer instead. HS says how could he confront his father, he just cannot see Babita’s tears. NB says when he proudly says he is Hanuman Singh wald Dashrath Singh walkd Jarnail singh, doesn’t he remember his mother’s tears then; he should not complicate relationships so much and let them free.
HS returns home and informs Babita that Minnie is with grandparents. Babita worries that Dadaji and Biji may brainwash Minnie. Minnie returns. Babita asks where was she after her college finished in the afternoon. Minnie says she was busy studying and then went to meet Dada dadi who discussed about their daily routine, etc. and Biji even fed her pinniyan/laddoos. Babita says she would have prepared her pinni, she does not liker meeting Biji and Papaji. HS tells Minnie that she doesn’t do anything which her mummy doesn’t like, otherwise she is much intelligent to understand situation. Babita asks Minnie to come and have dinner and calls even HS.
Precap: Babita asks Minnie to make space on her bed to sleep with her. Minnie asks why she wants to sleep here and sends her out saying it is her room now.
Update Credit to: MA
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Babita is too concern and not focussing that she has a husband who as well needs her affection and attention now
Mini needs to talk it out instead stressing both parents of her unaware feeling etccc…………Babita is nervous to shared any closeness feeling for HS as putting it off on Mini concerns
hate the fact they are not as they were before all bonding and happy is sad to watch now
A light hearted episode today.
Babita tells HS that She has not slept with anyone but Mini and is not ready yet. He says its ok and she should have said and he would have understood her and tells her to take her time and always be honest with him. Good start.
I don’t get Mini she knows how unstable her Babes is and goes to the Khuranas and does not answer the phone and Babita has a right to be worried. But why did Mini not tell her, hiding things again.
HS tells NB that he does not have the same affection for the Khuranas after what they did to Babita and gets told off by NB. He had a point that did Mini not understand her Mother’s pain at the hands of the Khuranas and NB reminds him how his father and Grandfather treated his Mother but he still looked after them till they died with Imarti. NB rocked today.
HS tells Babita that Mini is with her Grandparents and babita Babita does not like it. Here I think that Mini might go and stay with them not sure yet.
Hope that next week they sort out there misunderstandings.
Loved loved Mini telling Babita that this is her Room and smiling walking her out and locking her room at least she was smiling.
Poor Babita did not know what hit her and like what where am I going to sleep.
I think Mini is reacting in a way any normal person will. Lets not forget she got told to leave her mother alone and should spend all day with her friends. She anyways has many emotions going through her mind. I mean she is processing her mother ending all ties once again with the family she grew up with and blaming Minni for all the torture she went through. It’s easy to let go when you are busy with wedding preparations but when you have a moment to sit down and think about it, it really affects one’s mind. Mini might suffer PTSD with everything happening around her.
Hanuman did great by letting Babita know that she cant hide her problems behind mini because Babita cannot make mini responsible for lack of intimacy between her and Hanuman. Mini is trying too hard to stay away and giving them space but Babita needs to act a bit more sensible. Maybe some gyan from NB might help.
why did she marry what was it ? a gudda guddi wedding by kids and to become malkin, and ask lala to bring milk up to make tea???? how rude…
maybe ashok looked for someone else, because she had the same issues, young immature , married young? feel sorry for hanuman singh…what did he get himself into?
Agree with you Ginni…I don’t find fault with Minnie for becoming aloof and trying to find comfort in the company of her grandparents…what ever she has done so far is one thing and coming to terms with the fact that her mother is now someone else’s wife ,is another thing…circumstances have forced this girl to mature beyond her age …but the truth is she is just like any other 18 year old with her own fears and insecurities….
Felt bad for Minnie …the way she was trying to hold back Preet from going home and spending time with Biji till late hours says it all…No,I am not worried about Babita and HS…they are married now…initial adjustment problems will be there…but they will settle down and have a normal married life PROVIDED HS accepts the fact that he is just not a husband to Babita but a father to Minnie also..He should realise that if he had children of his own ,they would have been in Minnie’s age group and parents of adolescent children are expected to exercise some restraint in everything they do….would he have run to Babita on the wedding night if his own daughter were there sleeping under the same roof all alone? how could he say that Babita was unnecessarily worrying when Minnie didn’t turn up till late night..I don’t exactly know when and why this transformation has come in his attitude towards Minnie because I missed seeing some of those unending marriage episodes ,but he is no longer the old HS who would understand Minnie better than her mother…..now he talks very rarely to Minnie and even then there is always this cold ,indifferent look in his eyes… All because he missed his wedding night with Babita ?….
NB was also to be blamed for this entire fiasco…where’s NB’s experience gone…when required ,she had blundered…Babita and HS are not on talking terms with Biji…at least NB should have given a forethought to Babita’s situation and called Minnie to her house to spend a few days with her till her parents get used to their new life…Yesterday I said that Babita’s behaviour was very rude and indifferent towards HS…on second thoughts,I say that it was her frustration that made her behave the way she did….she is sandwiched between her role as a mother and a wife….and she vented it out on her husband like any normal wife does…thankfully there is some sort of normalcy in her attitude today and I agree with HS that whatever her problem ,she should share with him to find a solution..but easier said than done…even couples ,married for long years ,don’t share everything with each other..HS and Babita are neither a lovey ,dovey couple dating for a while nor married for a few years…HS should have patience and give Babita some time to adjust to her new role as he has married a woman with a grown up daughter…I hope Minnie will show the same maturity that has now become a trademark of hers and not allow her current fears and confusion affect her future….
I am really fedup with Minnie abnormal behavior! Why Minnie is not happy for her mother. Babita suffered bad marriage, loneliness, extra marital affair of her husband, don’t get support from her in laws. Suffered from financial crisis, also suffered various allegations during divorce. Even faced society, who treated her like a left over. Finally, Babita gave her life a second chance and get married. Why Minnie with her abnormal behavior again creating problem into Babita’s new life. Actually, we have lots of Babita and Minnie in our society but our society doesn’t have person like hanuman Singh in real life. Lots of women remains homeless, moneyless emotionally broken due to bad marriages and extra marital affair of husband in our society but they don’t get hunaman Singh to give a life a second chance. Please give a good message through this show. Minnie and Habits can live happily with hanuman Singh as a family. This immature behavior of Minnie don’t need to showcased.
OK! so here is my view point and might be little different from others.
HS is a wonderful father figure, he is protective, and possessive same time. where he shows love he is even concern. Minnie definitely missed those love and care from her father.
Babita look over Minnie, Minnie is her world that’s why she is so obsessed about her. She do not want Minnie to love anyone other than her.
However; Minnie has all rights to visit and love her grand parents! After all they are blood, no one can deny that.
Her grand parents are alone, both daughter and son is not with them, hence they also need someone to be cared. So what is wrong if she visit them and speak few words with them.
And Babita should think about her married life, i think the best way is three of them sit togther and speak and give space to each other/