Heartbreaks are hard to cope up with, especially when you are a celebrity and people want to know about you and your life. It was no different for Rashami Desai who is known for her role in Uttaran and Dil Se Dil Tak. In a recent interview with ETimes TV Rashmi opened up on losing out on love twice.
Rashami said, “The first time out (marriage), I was shaken up very badly. I had got involved and taken a big step (marriage) in my life rather quickly. But I soon realised that it was better to move out from it. If two people stay in a relationship despite the fact that they don’t get along, it ends up hindering their growth and both of them get suppressed. And I came out from my marriage very respectfully.
The second time out (love), it took me a long time to admit to the relationship. But now, looking back, I think I am blessed that everything got exposed in the public domain. ‘Jab aap achche hote hain toh aapke saath achcha hi hota hai (When you are good, good things will happen to you). It was a tough time no doubt as I wondered what to do next which is natural if one’s support system comes crashing down. One then doesn’t have the clarity ahead; the future plans lie dashed to the ground. I felt I was in a place where most people looked at their advantage. But the good thing was that I never spoke bad about anybody. Jo mere andar bhadaas thi, woh bhadaas maine nahi nikali (I did not give vent to my anger). But if it hadn’t been for Salman Khan Sir and a few friends, I would have been in a bad state. A lot of people may have had their judgment or perception about me and I have no complaints about that. But one thing despite the fact that Bigg Boss 13 is over still nags me because we are in COVID times. I ponder: ‘Am I safe even today?’ Life has a fetish for bowling googlies at you.
