Hello guys I’m not very new here it is just I’m posting for the first time….
Because I got registered few days back….I don’t know why but registering problems were occurred and finally almost 2 weeks back I got registered..
This is not any love story or something, It’s just that I want to share my views in form of os…I hope you all will also like this trial…
A news bulletin of 8pm going on, as usual all the daily news and some latest news are telecasting.
When the news caster going to leave, he then made an announcement
News caster: ladies and gentleman in few minutes you all are going to watch the most awaited talk show “ REALITY CHECK” .…so keep watching abc channel..
Clock strike 8:10 pm
The most awaited talk show started…It’s not that the talk show is starting today, the reason is that Today in the show two famous personalities going to come, one is owner of famous social work foundation Sanskar Maheswari and another famous NGO runner Swara Gadodia
Show started…anchor welcomed both people
Anchor: welcome sir… welcome ma’am
Swasan: Thank you..
Anchor: sir, ma’am as you both know that why today’s show held on what account to be discussed
swasan nodes..
Anchor to viewers: ladies and gentleman today we are going to talk and discuss on a very major issue of recent happenings of world.
That is who the victims of rape, torture, s*xual harassments, cheatings, each and every evil stunt of our society
Anchor: whenever we read a story or went to movie we all come across situations like showing a girl as weak creature, bearing tortures of evil mankind, so a question arises…is this tortures are only meant for girls???? Only girls become victims???Are boys in safe zone having no problems???let’s ask about this most haunted question to Mr.Sanskar
Anchor: So sir can you give your pov (point of view) about this that boys are in safe zone?? Why torture is shown only on girls??
Sanskar: No not at all, according to me boys are also not safe in every situation, people think if the child is boy then there is no need of worry, but they are highly mistaken and I think their this one mistake even leads to death of a single boy…if someone misbehaved with a boy child in school then parents said that “you are boy and man don’t afraid of anyone or they may scold him that you ashamed us by getting beatings from random person” why?? Why parents think like this?? If boy is a man he should not get afraid? We must think that he is also a human being, he too carry some emotions, fears.
Anchor: Miss Swara what will be your answer on this??
Swara: I think mr sanskar is right, nobody is safe in this world, and can you imagine, in stories,novels,daily soaps, films 90% of storyline dragged and shown torture on girls only, they get raped, kidnapped, abused,accused…becomes victims of domestic voilance, having no self respect,I want to ask those film makers those writers, that “if you want to show reality than show the proper reality” , because girls are not only the victims even boys also become victim.. they are also raped, they are also kidnapped, even husbands are also tortured,some of them also get cheated by their wives having extra marital affairs with other men, some girls are maintaining relationships only for numerical figures in boy’s bank account, but then also why you show only girls as victims?? Why not boys???
Sanskar: miss swara is saying right, I’ve read many stories that girls were forced in the work of prostitution and writers said that this is the reality, then they should show that boys are also forced in this profession, if girl’s mother is pr*stitute, then there are many boys who are also the children of a pr*stitute, they are also forced in this profession to satisfy the needs of rich women, then why only girls??Why not boys???Are they any robots deprived of emotions???
Anchor: you are saying right, in today’s world I’ve seen boys are more unsafe then girls, but I think world only knows how to show torture on girls.
Anchor: Sir Ma’am, I want to ask that all talks about gender equality then what are your views about that thing??
Swara: sir I think people don’t know the meaning of gender equality because when talking about happiness they talks about both gender but in terms of torture they tag only girl ….I mean what the hell??? Can’t they see today’s girl is more powerful than a boy, she can even defend herself but no mostly stories shows that she is getting beatings by her husband, raped by her own husbands, but what she got in the end??
“A SIMPLE SORRY” Is this “SORRY” heal her pain?? Is this “SORRY” makes her forgot her dreadful past?? Is this “SORRY” gives her lost charm and hopes??? HELL NOOO, I think those writers should have shame on themselves about their thinking and writings .They are showing
GIRLS ARE TOYS HAVING NO SELF RESPECT, NO SELF CONFIDENCE. WHATEVER TORTURES THEY BEARED THAY ALWAYS FORGIVE THEIR CULPRITS EASILY…..WHY THE HELL GIRLS FORGET AND FORGIVE???WHY THE HELL BOYS ARE NOT PUNISHED FOR THEIR DEEDS???
Sanskar: sir I’m agree with you, being a boy I know I can’t imagine a girl’s pain, but I also having a sister, if her husband tortures her than I will never allow her to go back to her, but nowadays people only want fantasies, they are showing lust obsession a boy is having for random girl…..I think if they want a reality check then I think they have to leave their fantasies
Swara: people say pr*stitutes’ faces a lot but they even knew about their lives?? I will tell. you know sir they are living a peaceful life, having families husband kids and regularly doing their business and about these people, these writers are writing rubbish and talking about reality. I think once they have to search about them (Guys it’s true and I’m having proper information so don’t think that I’m lying or saying rubbish)..
Sanskar: and people talking about red light areas, but don’t they know that these type of works are going on in high profile houses. swap parties are there. (swap parties are such parties in which husband wives exchanges with other husband and wife) calling girls. This is all common.
Anchor nodes in agreement
Anchor: sir in today’s world you can easily see a young girl is marrying to small child or small girl marrying to old man, what is your views about that thing??
Sanskar:actually in this case both are victims, but here also as said only girls pain is reflected, people feel pity saying her life is spoiled but his life also spoiled,but none think about boy,think of from that boys perspective….what his situation???
Swara: torture is common to small child wheather they are boys or girls, there are many cases when small boy is harassed by his elders uncle or aunt, then why torture is copyrighted only to girls?? Why stories reflect only girl’s pain but not boy’s sufferings?? Writers who writes by showing girls pain are mostly girls themselves…..
can’t they think what happens to them if they are in that situation….??what their feelings towards their sooo called rapist??? Will they also love him if he try to heal her pain after crushing her soul????
Sanskar: according to me In real life no man will accept girls who got raped, even our society tagged them as culprits for mistakes they didn’t done….they are victims but tagged as culprits, one man out of hundreds may accept but that also under some expectations, but I am feeling pity of those writers who write that hero accept a raped victim whole heartedly and healing her pain with his love…nothing more hilarious then this right????
Problem arises when they say this is reality. These writers are thinking their beautiful dream as a reality. pity on these type of writers, filmmakers.
Swara: I want to say one thing to people around us who mostly living in fantasy world, please open your eyes victims are not only girls but also boys are victims, but don’t know why writers are concentrated only on girls pain?? What pleasure writers are getting by showing girl as WEAK,VULNERABLE , showing her in too much pain, why HER tears makes writers and readers happy??? If HER tears give them happiness then why not HIS??? I’m also a girl and to be very true I’m having high self respect, I can’t even forgive a person who put a single finger on me then how can people made girl for accepting a person who raped her??? How can she forgive him???how can she forgot her own screams for help?? In real no girl will forgive her destroyer….no girl love her blo*dy RAPIST.
Sanskar: I just want to say that boys are not monsters like the way showed in films, stories. Unlike in stories in reality they are facing a lot in this society, they are also abused, they also harassed, they are also human beings they have emotions and felt pain, When talking about gender equality then show this equality in everything,every aspect,every situation.don’t show everytime girls are only one’s undergoing pain even boys are also victims for situations, it’s just we are not aware of boys problems because thay are not coming into light, don’t show that boys have no heart or humanity, never show like whenever they want they can grab a girl and fulfill their lust by forcing her.Even some boys also forced by girls but none aware of it or none take it seriously..
Anchor: Thank you very much Sir ma’am, you both done a great job today by telling us about this, may be some will get to know what real reality is and starts thinking about gender equality which means that both should be equal in every situation under every circumstance.
Anchor: ladies and gentleman you must be seen many things around you on which you thought girls as victims and boys as culprits which is not always true, but sometimes tries to see behind the curtain also, it will change your perspective regarding situation along with true face of society.
Thank You
BYEE PEERS
saying that the show ended and next day in newspapers it was revealed that yesterday’s episode of that show got a huge response by giving conclusion
”EVERY COIN HAS TWO SIDES IN SAME WAY NOT ONLY GIRLS ARE VICTIMS OF THIS SOCIETY BUT ALSO THE BOYS ARE VICTIMS.”
Guys it’s not a love story or anything that in the end I will show swasan together not every story needs support of hero and heroine, I know I was harsh in many points, but please stop showing too much torture on girls and showing them as weak creatures and stop giving monstrous side of boys,
NOT EVERY BOY IS BEAST WHO FORCESON GIRLS AND NOT EVERY GIRL IS MAHAN WHO MAKE SACRIFICES ,
kindly check on reality before writing and showing, because life is not a beautiful dream so that real world can run on fantasies and show reality of an situation or an event after having proper proofs and information rather than showing fantasies and showing them as reality, don’t mix fantasy with reality.